Comfort for The Holidays - Not Wanting to Celebrate[F4A][Sweet GF]

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  • @VulpineGunslinger
    @VulpineGunslinger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This hurts as to how relatable this is to me. Because, just hearing that I dont wanna go anywhere automatically made me start apologizing

  • @TheAutoman217
    @TheAutoman217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "It's not your job to make them feel good about themselves."
    I'll to remember this for the next mishap.
    Thanks, Pine Kat

  • @s1nful_s41nt
    @s1nful_s41nt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    kat: "my hands are freezing cold, gotta put them in some hot water or something"
    me, from arizona: *stares in 80°F december weather*

    • @gracejordan4488
      @gracejordan4488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao I live in Australia so it’s literally summer but still cold

  • @CustomiZe_
    @CustomiZe_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    'We always meet up with our families once a year at Christmas to remind us why we only meet them once a year' is one of my most favourite quotes. Brilliant audio 👏 👍 🥰😀

  • @Blindluck92
    @Blindluck92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Growing up, celebrating the holidays was mandatory. My sister and I never questioned it. It was just... how it was. Once we got older and we learned that we had a choice, we started to celebrate things less, or at least on a smaller scale, because we *had* ability to make that choice.
    This audio is really good to hear. Thanks Kat.

  • @TobyAnderson
    @TobyAnderson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I have a mixed bag of family. I have great parents. A great uncle, trash alcoholic aunt and super narcissistic bordering on psychopath brother who I just can't stand for more than a few days. So yeah. Not super excited but I do still enjoy the Holiday. Unfortunately I don't have a better half so this lot is all I have.

    • @Saber23
      @Saber23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What kind of families do you people have? Jesus this is like something out of some bad movie...but it’s freaking real

  • @Sparrowhawk055
    @Sparrowhawk055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Honestly I don’t want to celebrate. I don’t really like Christmas. It just reminds me of how single and lonely I am. And when everyone is saying it’s the happiest time of the year it never is for me. While everyone else is happy im just depressed. It’s gonna get worse when I live alone in a little while. But I do love the video. Thank you for it.

    • @omnom_exe
      @omnom_exe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yea man I get how you feel. Lets feel depressed together👍

    • @Sparrowhawk055
      @Sparrowhawk055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@omnom_exe omg yesss

    • @TobyAnderson
      @TobyAnderson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well I mean its also the time of year when suic1de is at its worst. So yeah. Best of luck to you.

    • @Sparrowhawk055
      @Sparrowhawk055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TobyAnderson thank you

  • @noahcrow8982
    @noahcrow8982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this asmr because for me it is so accurate. I had christmas ruined for me and I have a hard time looking forward to it and I get more anxious when it does come because I am always stuck going somewhere I do not really want to with toxic people or literally spending it all alone seeing other people having good christmas’ when I am walking down the street. Holidays are just not something I like. Because I either get a miserable one or none at all and have to hear about other people’s good holiday moments. Same with birthdays for me barely anyone ever remembers it so I just go about my day as it never happened.

  • @marshallthefirepup8372
    @marshallthefirepup8372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've grown up in a big and close family and the holidays (Christmas especially) are my favorite time of year to spend with them. So, I wouldn't know exactly how the listener feels, but I can understand up to some level. My former significant other's family life wasn't the best and to say that any holiday in general for them was a bummer was an understatement. But this video reminds me that not everyone is a "celebrating the holidays with family and friends" kind of person and we all have our own ways of celebrating. Nice job, Kat! 👍 (and Happy (VERY EARLY) Holidays! lol)

  • @ultradeku6546
    @ultradeku6546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man even if I don’t celebrate I love this time of year the lights, the gift wrap from other family members celebrating and those joyful smiles when the day finally comes I love it completely

  • @cucumber7199
    @cucumber7199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cucumber ‎‎Approved

  • @goldenluck1563
    @goldenluck1563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The fact that this hits home is just emotionally conflicting.
    But none the less great job KAT. Have a merry Christmas 🎄

  • @indosomni
    @indosomni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kat: "My hands are freezing cold..."
    can't relate. people from wisconsin like me don't get cold.

    • @aidanmcelligott2329
      @aidanmcelligott2329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you dude I live in Michigan and I used to live in Alaska

  • @neiljohnmateo7768
    @neiljohnmateo7768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is probably the closest to a partner I'll have this Christmas

  • @RFDeadKey
    @RFDeadKey 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never thought I'd actually have to listen to this one, got diagnosed with depression last summer and it's raining during winter in the Midwest. Haven't enjoyed any holidays for a quite a while

  • @aidanmcelligott2329
    @aidanmcelligott2329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the snow and the cold, I love the smells, the lights, and all that stuff but my family kinda sucks. No like really, they suck a lot. My gf’s family is really cool tho so that’s good.

  • @emellie2390
    @emellie2390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I didnt really want to spend christmas this year since i dont have anyone who i could call family or a friend to spend it with even on my birthday which is on the 23rd this month but this audio...made me feel warm in this cold and lonely house even if it was just for a few minutes..thanks kat...srsly thanks

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Idk why but Christmas for me is my favourite time of year… idk just I love the cold weather (I like cold much more than hot weather) I like to spend time and give gifts to the people I like and love. It’s a another time of the year where people can get time off. Yeah I just really love it.Hopefully people will be able to have a better Christmas than last year (because of the COVID situation) hopefully it should be better this year. Anyways Lovely ASMR Kat as always, thank you Kat, hope you and everyone here has a wonderful holiday celebrating Christmas or enjoy celebrating what they do at this time of year. To anyone who doesn’t celebrate anything, hope you have a good time off and have a good rest of the year. ❤️⭐️👍

    • @mrcwillis6970
      @mrcwillis6970 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just hope I don’t grow up alone. Even though I think that’s what’s gonna happen, because of who I am…
      In other words idk think I’ll get a girlfriend, as much as I would be to be with someone.
      Doesn’t help that I may have depression and anxiety and everything.
      (Sorry about this comment being out of context)

  • @TaraxaV
    @TaraxaV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh man, i related so much to this. my parents kinda did the same thing to me. if i didn’t act a certain way or seemed upset or ungrateful at all i was told i was an ungrateful brat and threatened with punishment-

  • @fucking_family_issues4634
    @fucking_family_issues4634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so thankful that you posted this because I whated to look at lights and remember the good times before my trama got to me thx to my family and then ended up not being able to because you had to pay but back then you didn't and seeing this made me feel better and felt ok so thx a lot and thx for posting videos to make people ok and I hope your doing ok

  • @SenailCooledge
    @SenailCooledge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My dad was an abusive bag of filth but he have me $300 every year since Christmas is my brithday too...
    I miss the money but I've been way happier without him 😅

  • @Chadek_T
    @Chadek_T 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry about not wanting to celebrate. Thanks for understanding.
    Nice audio Pine!

  • @inner.smoothie7637
    @inner.smoothie7637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you… I really needed something like this 😊

  • @josephcardona4660
    @josephcardona4660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad to meet a fellow Christmas lover.

  • @Cracked_Skullz
    @Cracked_Skullz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never realized that this is what my grandparents would do...
    I don't want a hot Christmas, it's literally December, WHY IS IT SO HOT!?

  • @banafanafofana6914
    @banafanafofana6914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Synonym roll, just like grammar used to make 💝👨‍🍳👵🥣😋
    Jokes aside nobody should be forced to celebrate Christmas if they dont want to tbh

  • @hotshot104
    @hotshot104 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh…. This… this was too accurate. And I didn’t realize until now that you don’t have to act like every present is a gift from god himself…..

  • @thehelltaker8820
    @thehelltaker8820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice, I love it. Thx Kat
    Pancakes 🥞

  • @PJ_Sandwiich
    @PJ_Sandwiich 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Christmas is just a painful reminder that my brother is gone and my mom isn’t herself anymore. Now I am just another lonely individual with no family to go to.

  • @ethanbambach916
    @ethanbambach916 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would celebrate but my family gets drunk and gets dark from there…

  • @mrfilax3214
    @mrfilax3214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just hate all the arguments this brings up when all the characters meet. Why people can't be chill for just a few effing days, to stop giving a shit and just enjoy people around them?

  • @exsee
    @exsee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙 thank you

  • @jasper8986
    @jasper8986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    god I love u

  • @pyromaniac2104
    @pyromaniac2104 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    *...yikes,* this comment section makes me so much more thankful for my family... well my mum's side at least but let's not go down THAT rabbit hole

  • @JohnWick-qf6lx
    @JohnWick-qf6lx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hits to close to home😑

  • @justtracie8636
    @justtracie8636 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in a very tight financial position. I don't have many to buy for, I want to spoil my mum, because she deserves it. So we are spending time together on Christmas but we are waiting until we've moved

  • @BarbarianBard
    @BarbarianBard ปีที่แล้ว

    My family has never been close both of my parents are extremely toxic and my dad's side of the family has never been close. not only that but I've always felt like a burden, grew up in poverty and always felt like it was a requirement to give gifts even if giving those gifts ment you couldn't afford clothing or other important stuff like food.

  • @randallstrong9882
    @randallstrong9882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah yes

  • @TiT0.
    @TiT0. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ♥️✨

  • @Natalieeeeeeeeeeeeee
    @Natalieeeeeeeeeeeeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @beebo.therobot
    @beebo.therobot 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hitting too close to home at this point.

  • @cardo3566
    @cardo3566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤🌹

  • @averythebirateking8347
    @averythebirateking8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait the gift thing isn’t normal?

  • @Lol-ni3bg
    @Lol-ni3bg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello there.

  • @karinapeters4198
    @karinapeters4198 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i booboo my self a bit i sticky