[f4a] Dealing with Past Fears [first healthy relationship]

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  • @riversduvall1176
    @riversduvall1176 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I FUCKING LOVE Pine Kat
    I WANT TO FUCKING simulate the experiences of a good, healthy relationship as a coping mechanism for past abuse or childhood neglect

    • @venomgaming7014
      @venomgaming7014 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s exactly what I do to cope with the fact that I have life altering trust issues that will likely cripple my chances of ever having this.

  • @Blindluck92
    @Blindluck92 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    "Maybe it's harder for them to see, but from the outside, they are getting a lot more confident."
    After I got out of a toxic situation of my own, this was what someone told me, almost verbatim. That I was getting better every day.
    Thanks for the audio, Kat.

  • @JakeSm4sh
    @JakeSm4sh ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I've had many fears. Like loosing someone which has happened to me. So thanks for the comfort bc I'm still hurting after 2 years

    • @Stupidman271
      @Stupidman271 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I never had a relationship and I still don’t. Every girl i confessed to rejected me and stopped talking to me. And to be honest asmr rp audios are the only things that are keeping me from killing my self like it gives me the little bit of dopamine I need to want to stay alive for the day.

    • @beebo.therobot
      @beebo.therobot 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@Stupidman271Hey... if you need someone to talk to, im here for you 😊

    • @BowenRen-s7d
      @BowenRen-s7d 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Man I listen to this and a 10 hour loop of M1A Grand PING! Sound to keep me awake every day

    • @izaiahdosanjh1744
      @izaiahdosanjh1744 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Stupidman271reach out to someone plz

  • @SuperChristopher-ll8bd
    @SuperChristopher-ll8bd ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Gotta say this has to be one of my favorite series on this channel, idk why it's just so wholesome and supportive that it makes me feel really cared for.

  • @ren3295
    @ren3295 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I haven’t really been in toxic relationships but I always get comfort from these audios. Thank you for these audios your voice is really soothing/comforting🙏

  • @samm.8052
    @samm.8052 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As much as I love my mom, she's a bit of a control freak. Grew up in a mormon household, so that should explain a shit-ton. This audio hit it nail-on-head, not even 5 minutes in. Thanks for making this.

  • @DeathxJester13
    @DeathxJester13 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I've been mentally, emotionally, and physically abused, cheated on, and ghosted by multiple partners as well as had to cut off my closest friends of over 10 years because of how toxic and two-faced it was. I'm terrified of getting close to anyone else. These asmr videos are the best I've got right now.

    • @Jemboi
      @Jemboi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im so sorry, that sounds horrible, I hope you have a better future ❤

    • @mostlyjovial6177
      @mostlyjovial6177 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As someone who understands completely. I hope that you are doing better than ever.

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Have you tried hanging around good people and not trash?

    • @DeathxJester13
      @DeathxJester13 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Synthetic94 Imagine, right?

  • @MoistToucan
    @MoistToucan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are a natural teacher. Every video gives me something new to learn!

  • @kdaum3359
    @kdaum3359 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really like the conversations in the first healthy relationship videos! I relate it to what my family calls “writing stories” which just means making an assumption that isn’t necessarily true but that you make based on how you read a situation like “oh, mom looks upset, it must have been something I did”. We always talk about how important it is to verbalize those stories so that we don’t make false assumptions.

  • @SenailCooledge
    @SenailCooledge ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Don't know if I've said it before, but even if I did it bears repeating. Thank you Kat for giving me an idea of what a healthy relationship looks like.

  • @Gamer-xo9dz
    @Gamer-xo9dz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I listen to too much gf audios and it’s the only thing from keeping me ending it all, makes me have something to live for

  • @josephbiddle1637
    @josephbiddle1637 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am absolutely LOVING this series. I hope to see more in the future. Keep up the great work!❤

  • @MDTessa_Elliott
    @MDTessa_Elliott ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the video cat. Also, I just finished watching the Puma series, and I'm angry because I want more, but keep up the work!

  • @michaelcarr697
    @michaelcarr697 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have fear of abandonment and losing friends. Anxiety really sucks sometimes.

  • @shawndurling5849
    @shawndurling5849 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Remember you're only human

  • @quinton6258
    @quinton6258 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for making these😘😘😘

  • @lol-2247
    @lol-2247 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is where the fun begins 😎

  • @AndyKoldwell
    @AndyKoldwell ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for these RPs.

  • @fushi5940
    @fushi5940 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I used to have a friend in elementary school that would manipulate me into liking anything they liked or doing anything they did because whenever I had a different opinion to him, he would make me feel like shit for it and it would gaslight me into changing my opinions to better suit him. For about 5 years I was "best friends" with this guy and it was fucking horrible. He was a horrible person and made me into a horrible person so I could impress him and not get made fun of. For years we thought we were a "brother from another mother" but now I realise it was just me trying to be like him. It made me so fucking scared of actually having my own opinions or being worse than him at something (he was always better than me in any game we played, which also was a game that he would suggest playing). But then we got out of elementary school and into secondary school. Since my elementary school was tiny and had only 76 people in it with only 5 in my year (also one of the reasons I was friends with that guy, there was literally no other choice) I found it quite scary transitioning into a big school. But I heard people talking about if Xbox 1 or PS4 are better. I thought since they were talking about something I like, I would try to say something and I said "well technically, a PC would be better" I know that sounds like the nerdiest thing to say but I was nervous and never really talked to other people. Long story short, after that I went through highschool with 30+ very good friends that helped me form my own opinions and not be afraid of sharing them and also not be afraid of actually talking to people and I owe them everything for that. If it wasn't for them, I have no idea where I would be right now... Also the guy that was a really bad "friend" also went to that school is hated by most of my real friends but I also still talk to him. Just now I'm not absolutely terrified of him and I wouldn't say we are friends in any way now,
    I'm sorry for wasting your time reading that if anyone did, It's just that this audio made me remember this and I realise how much I've changed for the better.

  • @wind_reader
    @wind_reader ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've never been in a serious relationship, but this series works as my role model ngl. I just wish I could ever find someone that can make me feel as comfy and understood as the speaker here.
    Ps. Have you considered doing a reverse comfort entry for this series? I think it would be beneficial to see that sometimes it's the other party in the relationship who may falter, feel upset, or just want more attention

  • @primrosevale1995
    @primrosevale1995 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These videos are always so sweet and teach such good lessons. They are genuinely amazing. How do you do it?

  • @scpfoundation2549
    @scpfoundation2549 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is nice.

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Dealing with the thing we fear most is one of the hardest things ever. Ty again Kat, for these first healthy relationship vids. Even tho I don’t relate to them they still bring me so much comfort. ❤
    (Btw question wanted to ask that you wanted me to put as a new comment) can I send fan art I made for you, I made as a Ty for how sweet you are and how much your audios have helped, so may I?

  • @andrewdavido963
    @andrewdavido963 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've myself had many fears with relationship wise it's jus a normal feeling when your dating someone I guess you know it's only a good thing to have that sense you jus don't wanna lose special person 💖✨

  • @MrSHADOWANGEL999
    @MrSHADOWANGEL999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovely

  • @odin0707
    @odin0707 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice

  • @leme3503
    @leme3503 ปีที่แล้ว

    She sounds like she has a southern accent without sounding like she has a southern accent

  • @penguinsithking3029
    @penguinsithking3029 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the more i listen to any of you audios the more i wish i had a girlfriend, and i wish it could be someone like you pine kat, you sound like a really cool person 🙂

  • @romaramirez5578
    @romaramirez5578 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello again

  • @ethanfuggin
    @ethanfuggin ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @SuperSpike47
    @SuperSpike47 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🧡💙

  • @angelmatiastorres
    @angelmatiastorres ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi!

  • @cedean6755
    @cedean6755 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    hai

  • @Nyghtgirl27
    @Nyghtgirl27 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Kat, Will there be a video where the listeners gets shot from the abusive ex? I’m only asking cause I don’t want to be happy anymore.

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So the listener is a total 🐈 with an irrational fear. Their experience is a literal statistical irrelevance that is so specific most people would know its not something to dwell on, much less fear

    • @arisarkar6456
      @arisarkar6456 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      wtf are you on about? If you think that way great but you don’t get to say whether other people will dwell on it or not. clearly you have never experienced anxiety and trauma because otherwise you wouldn’t be saying this.