Stephan Labossiere Talks Modern Dating 101, What Women Want In Men, Finding Your Purpose + More
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Could you do a show with Ester Perel? I think she would be excellent and you would vibe with her perspectives. She's really enlightening.
That 32:00-37:00 minute mark should be a clip on Instagram. A guy walking in his purpose who can hold sensible conversations, reads, practices sex transmutation is GOLD 🖤
BEVIS & BUTHEAD👌I LOVE YOU DUDES ✊💯
Connection, connection, connection . Stop chasing how she looks and the superficial. Yes, attraction is important but connection needs to be there. Love the discussion.
Moral of the Story: Heal, walk in purpose, become whole. Build YOU before you consider building with others. Work on your internal self.
Got to heal
100% agree. Love their content. Bottom line is women that are worth the pursuit are more interested in the foundational components of a man than the external fluff (car, type of job etc.).
100% agree with your statement.
Stephan is one of the few out here who speaks on having a strong character. This is highly commendable about him and speaks to his own strong character. Well done.
Noble Yes you are right! Character is so important yet many lack that core component.
I was Abstinent for 6 years. In that time I attained my realtors license, personal Trainer/ Nutrition License, 2 Rental properties that I own and got my degrees and going back to get my PhD this year.
Way to man up
👊👊
Ur my inspiration
Good job man. Alot of red pilled men are actually red pilled boys. To be a red pilled man you have to see the truth and change to have the game play for you.
Inspired
First time I finished a whole episode. When a real man speaks, women & men listen.
For sure! I think we forget how many men NEVER had a man like this in their lives. Every man and woman needs men like this in their lives
Absolutely!
You don’t really mean it
@@user-wd4oo7zk4o y'all demons in quarantine just be popping up making no sense
@@pausemental Don't call people demons, what is wrong with you?
A king doesn't put a woman on a pedestal. He invites her to share the one he's on. ///
Yes he does...if he really loves her He does.
@Health-nerd_ROM definitely sounds like a 50/50...wheres your half of the rent type😂
Bingo!
This is why y’all unhappy now, all this semantics
Women don't build they move in
I have 3 boys & I’m teaching them not to chase women, but purpose. When they find themselves, the woman will be there.
V D congratulations 🎉
Wonderful bro your an excellent dad wish mine was around to teach me these stuff
@@shemarmcdonald thank you sir!
Good. Teach them to respect women and not treat them as objects, too. Not enough fathers teach their sons how to be good, respectful and appreciative of women. Fathers don't pay attention to the ways they talk about and treat women around their sons. You can't treat their mother badly in front of them and think that they will grow up to have healthy relationships with women. And teach your kids about sex, talk about it in an open and healthy way so that sex doesn't become an unhealthy obsession.
@@sophiepires792 I totally agree
Yall wanna know what I really like about this show? Its not surface level, these guys are going to probe and always ask for details and examples. Also that it is open to everybody but clearly geared toward men. Everything on mainstream media is geared toward women(The view, the real, etc), there is no place for men to get information and see mens take on certain topics/issues going on in the world.
Preciate that brother.
True they had that with the barbershop but haven't seen that show in a long time
Another TH-cam channel found is: male vs man. The book of the same name is a good read too. I'm so happy to be able to see grown men's POV. And we women can use this same info in our lives too. The way I see it, this is preparing men for our daughters to marry. And we're preparing our daughters for the sons to marry. Healing the community.
Man vs Male is a good idea but every episode feels unfinished
@@RoRo-gm7ee I agree. think that's why i listened to the audiobook.
As a 24y/o woman who is abstaining from sex/relationships, I really enjoyed this positive reinforcement. (Call me biased😅) I feel like in the black community we're making having children a bigger priority than having a fulfilling life and I'm over it. When I get married, I want to be able to have some personality and experience. 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly we not even taking care of the kids that are already here 🤷🏽
Understandable. Most men don’t want to marry until the marriage laws are in Men’s favor or at least 50/50.
Stephan says “you don’t have to be an asshole to be masculine. You can be a good, kind-hearted, loving man and still be assertive, confident you ain’t gonna let nobody punk you. Combine the qualities of “good man and asshole“ together. “
Yes, yes! Stephan would be such a great guy to talk to on so many levels.
Seriously, guys take notes!
RED FLAGS when dating: Negative and bitter people, not healed from past, and not vulnerable. It's not worth your time people. Let those broken people HEAL before you date them.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Absolutely
Got to heal.
Girl you so right, was me once upon a time ,but I'm healed now lol
Amanda Slay facts
Learned this the hard way; you can’t force someone to be true and vulnerable to you...they have things that they must work to get past
Thank you, thank you, thank you for really addressing the ability to have a conversation. It's so important 🙏🏾
Glad, you enjoyed it.
YES.
Firstly, I highly advise watching the entire conversation.That'll provide very useful context and allow you to understand the flow/link to all of the ideas being discussed. Thereafter, if you need these timestamps as a point of reference in the future, you can come back to these (as I also plan to do so).
Important time stamps:
- State of male-female relations in 2020 5:15
- Source of modern day bitterness 6:50
- Influence of friends 8:00
- How to know if you're healing 10:00 and 12:00
- What do women want in 2020? 14:45
- Are relationships more common in 2010 vs 2020? 16:25
- Social media and relationships 17:20
- The hype of social media and women not wanting relationships 18:45
- Effects of social media and projecting independence 20:00
- What kind of guy are women looking for 21:15
- More on what women want 24:05 and the disconnect 24:53
- The change in standards 26:10
- What to do about the increase in standards 29:02
- Having a good conversation 32:10
- FINDING PURPOSE 33:40 *(VERY IMPORTANT)*
- No fap movement and delaying gratification with women 36:35
- How women can improve 39:15
- Quote 43:50
- Nice guys and spotting toxic women 44:15
- Women who don't do anything for you 49:00
- Knowing your worth 50:32
- How to know she cares about you 53:25
- How to know a guy cares for you 57:00
- A standard for being a high value man 1:02:00
- Spirituality 1:05:00
- Important character traits 1:06:45
Make good use of these timestamps
Thank you!!
I'm not sure why I'm here 3 years later, but not all heroes wear capes. 👏🏿
In other words , music culture , social media, Instagram etc have manipulated people . And people are searching for what don’t exist . Turn those off and find yourself
Truth!
The problem with dating is we've lost the purpose of marriage and removed family from the process. Traditionally marriage is something that takes place between The fathers of two families. Its a structured growth of a family, community, and nation. The families are responsible to support marriages of their children and keep couples accountable. What you have now is random dating, random babies, abortions, divorce, diseases, and for some unfix-able mental trauma. and a community growing in chaos. Most high gave us laws of relationship and laws of marriage.
Thank you brother 🙏🏿
Lmao he never gets his last name right. I'm so proud of the growth of this channel/podcast! Keep up THE GREAT WORK!!
I'm trying lol :)
Me a 14 year old girl watching this and seeing how this generation really is . I feel like girls/boys around my age feel like drinking, being sexually active, and smoking is having fun which most of them is ( BROKEN 🤦🏽♀️) and find many ways to escape it . But I feel like you can still have fun around this age and try to focus on your purpose so at the age of your 20s or 30s you wouldn’t have to worry about finding your purpose because you will already know it or be in it. I find it that most ppl have “fun” for the rest of there life then realize they waisted a lot of there time doing it .. AND I really don’t like how many adults try to hind the word “sex” from teenagers when really most of us already know about it bc of society and schools . Most teenagers that had kids at a young age didn’t really have adults to talk to them about it but there “FRIENDS” . And the ones that did probably wasn’t taught the right way. Most parents say uses protection but don’t tell them to protect there emotions, and the energy they carry. Most ppl feel like waiting till marriage is stupid but it actually teach you a lot of (SELF Control) but I know its not easy for everyone. Sometimes I feel like I’m not the average 14 year old because how smart I am 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏽♀️and I see a lot of childish adult and just smh but most of the time it’s not they fault . THIS MESSAGE IS NOT TO OFFEND ANYONE. 🙏🏿GOD BLESS
You're right, you're not the average 14 year old. You sound very wise.
good for you. i'm a 17 yr old girl and don't fall for the drugs trap, don't even try them cause that's a dangerous path, you can see how lots of ppl our age just use it to look cool or use it as an excuse for everything. just try to study hard and watch vids on how to get into a decent college
Ah kid (not being condescending when I say that), I feel for you. Sex is so complicated and no ones their to tell you anything other than “do it!” (Peers) and “don’t do it! and keep everything bottled up! (Adults). There are tons of childish adults and it can really hurt when you’re expected act like they’re a real authority and to treat them with respect, even though they fail so often in their role. Yes, you are wise for your age, but be careful, that can actually cause pain and issues as well as being a gift. I really really recommend you seek out a mentor you can genuinely respect, because everything will be geared towards other kids, and you’ll struggle with not resenting it. You’ll have to proactively seek one because the chances of one just appearing in your life that can actually relate and mentor you properly is very slim. I tell you this because you are promised people, will “educate” you competently if you just follow instructions. Forgive them for claiming this, but for your own long term good don’t expect them to keep their word, and find adults you respect to mentor you.
I am also a 14 year old girl and I’m educating myself now so I can be ready for the future
You are very smart and mature for your age… I pray that you continue to walk according to the wisdom God has given you. And that you always remember how beautiful and valuable you are. I wish I knew this when I was your age. You are blessed
The IG Models gives us Good women a bad rap. Not all of us wants a man to fly us out or to have a 6 figure job 😖 Just consistency and a relationship with God 🤞🏾
Absolutely! ♥️
Love this. Agree at some point about the relationship, I think most people prefer companionship -vs- relationship. He speaks the truth there is a huge misconception due to social media . He was dead on with what a women wants. Its very basic and has been that way from the beginning of time. We want masculine energy, honesty, and transparency. Once we feel comfortable, we can relax in our femininity and give you our love .
Thanks for sharing Kathy.
Robert Drake As a woman you can’t be open and vulnerable with anyone you meet... The wrong man will destroy you if you let him in.
I’m a firm proponent of women keeping their walls ALL THE WAY UP any time a man approaches her, because 99.9% of times they just want the 🐈.
@Robert Drake yes, unfortunately. I think it's funny how we use to be too emotional. Some men didn't like that either. Lol, ugh!!!!
This is the most clear-headed honest guest you've had on here. He did not fall for your traps and narratives about women. I love this. He is a straight shooter with great analytical skills. He is a straight shooter.
This guy is a prophet! When he mentioned that a woman wants a successful guy but stresses him out because he works and grinds to stay successful, that is me. Broke up with my ex cause she wasn’t happy I worked 10 hour days sat in commute traffic for over an hour each way. That’s my life I keep climbing and she’s unhappy. We can never win. Life is. It's a struggle and women just don’t get it.
I love listening to men talking about healing and doing the internal work!!
Another great episode Roomates. Men, most women will always be more attracted to a man who unashamedly puts his life’s mission as a non-negotiable aspect of the relationship. If she does not support your mission, you must really ask yourself whether or not she is the woman for you.
- Kingsman (from Kingsman Attraction Company)
Kingsmen are fun movies
Glad you enjoyed it.
Roommates Podcast been killing it this past month. AMS, Kevin Samuels, Rebecca Lynn Pope, Candace Owens and Stephan again🔥🔥🔥
Preciate it Kings.
This gentleman; your guest is brilliant! Smart but not arrogant. Wise, but not cocky...
This was an excellent podcast!
This is so true. I use to be vulnerable but now it takes me time to let my guard down. Protecting my heart at all cost. I lost my daddy in May and will be starting therapy next month. I’m believing God to heal me from childhood trauma and relationship drama.
I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏽
I hope you’re doing okay!
It’s important to take the time to understand the other sex. I have taken my time understanding men and it has been the most liberating experience for me as a woman. ❤️
Soooo true! And yes, very liberating
ABSOLUTELY
I randomly stumbled across this video. I never watch The Roommates before and only seen Stephan once but never watch him thoroughly. And I gotta say that I'm quite impressed with this man. My dad and brothers were in my life, but I never felt like I had a good male role model to look up to and to help guide me. I'm in my late 20s and now I'm wanting to learn how to better myself as a man. I don't party or hookup, I'm career-focus, love spending time with loved ones, and exploring my passions. But I feel like I'm still behind in becoming the man that I need to be. So thank you for having Stephan as a guest! I learned a lot!
I appreciate the guests mature, balanced approach that he brings to this topic. He speaks to the issues of men and women most of the time or at least he doesnt always blame women for the imbalances in relationships. Thanks for mentioning that the issues with the highly desirable swaying the reality of the majority. There is too much energy spend on this subject pointing the finger. Some of these male driven programming focus on women instead of helping men, building men, or helping men examine their view of relationships. I get that men are experts on what men want but they should also be experts on how to encourage and elevate each other on how to be in healthy relationships. I get it...you have to play to the audience.
Combining good man (compassionate/caring) and being assertive (asshole/decisive) is definitely the right combination. I used to think why would you want an asshole but Stephan is right about that. You need that duality and I think that goes for everyone, but it really screams masculine on a man and makes him more desirable.
I agree with the duality part but I wouldn't quite term it as asshole, that's unattractive in a man and can turn me off him in a flash
@@CeeceeH1819 yeah, I prefer the term assertive. I only used asshole because that's the term used in the video.
Its a perfect balance! This combination is achieved through maturity and accepting you may need to grow on either side.
I find it so beneficial to hear from the male perspective on things like this
Hands down my favorite relationship coach to listen to. I can listen to this guy forever
For those men who want to go deeper on topics touched in the video, I would recommend research on the following keywords: Adverse Childhood Experiences (for understanding and healing dysfunction especially if you've been in bad relationships), Ikigai (Japanese process for finding purpose), Dave Ramsey's 'Baby Steps' and 'Zero Dollar' budget (for sorting out your finances), Robert Kiyosaki's 'Rich Dad' books (for building wealth), Jon & Missy Butcher's 'Lifebook' (for getting clear on what you want from life, and how to live a balanced life), Alison Armstrong's work on relationship dynamics (to help you understand women), Owen Cook's 'Blueprint' (for game and how to be a natural), Vipassana silent meditation retreat (for learning meditation)
Love me some Dave Ramsey!!
It would be great to find a man that watches these same podcasts to learn and improve themselves and their knowledge of relationships. We all need help and we all have room to improve. No one sat most of us down to teach us about all the many facets of love and relationships, so I'm thankful for shows like this, insightful.
Thank you Stephan for clearing up that it's not all women that are expecting luxury rather the high end women that many men are seeking after from the get go. As you stated we want financial stability but we're not all living through a social media lens.
It’s the 1st day of 2021 and this is THE BEST, MOST INFORMATIVE video I’ve seen since 2020.
Thanks a lot! You men are amazing!🙌🏾 Happy New Year!🎊
Feel you on that 100% 🙏🏽
Check out Stephan's interview with Lewis Howes on school of greatness. It's just as amazing and informative
Some people get emotional due to the compassion that is felt. Sometimes when I reflect, I have such a gratefulness to know that God loved me so much to bring me through and gave healing.
Yet many suffer and don't survive, or they have become bitter and hurt others.
The insights of this Channel are astounding because now as a 17year old(turning 18)I put off relationships until I feel that I'm ready, right now I'm more focused on finding and working on my purpose, keep it up with the good content
Please focus on getting a good education!!! 👍😊
Yes. Childhood abuse-especially sexual. The reason why I'm going to school to become a counselor. No longer a victim. Survived and healing. Issues are very deeply rooted. Again; love and respect to this channel. ❤😌
The issues that we are holding on to is exactly why we’re ending up in messed up relationships.
You are absolutely right. Without change, these regretful cycles can repeat themselves with uncompromising viciousness. Like it has been keenly stated by Henry David Thoreau: “We must be willing, at any moment, to give up who we are, so that we may be who we might become.” (worth reading slowly twice).
- Kingsman (from Kingsman Attraction Company)
Kingsman Attraction Company - KAC thank you for the quote
So so true Fishing Dude.
This guy talks so much wisdom, what a gift!
We out here looking for a Queen but the question is, are you a King?
Deep
Welp
Thank you!
Exactly what i been doing taking a break from dating 2020 is the year of awakening
At the end, Stephen says that men have to be both nice and also stern. My problem has been in finding a lot of men who have been burned by mean women and when they meet me, treat me poorly (shame me and are very negative) because I'm so kind and generous with love. What seems like is happening is guys are nice to bitches, but cruel to kind women and when they can't find anyone to date them, they blame women. I've been in the dating scene for 3 years since I got divorced and it's been very frustrating with how negative men are and how much they don't respect me for being kind and feminine. Sadly, I had to leave all of them.
As a single woman and student I really enjoyed the Seinfield analogy. I finally have so much focus on my studies, not dismissing men just not chasing relationships. He will show up in God's timing💪🏾!
I reaaaalllly wish I had this knowledge when I was 15. Beautiful message guys...thanksss so much!!!!
God helps those who helps themselves…
"If she's negative, you will suffer as a man" in my head I said period, Stephan "Period" 🤣
**If anyone is negative, the other person suffers.
@@amandaslay6045 Thats a fact.
Lol
@@amandaslay6045 Period
It was the communication and purpose for me. I find myself disrespecting guys when they are not intelligent, can’t communicate in any way, and don’t have anything going for themselves.
Yes, it’s such a turnoff.
You're probably not intelligent yourself though...
Trust your intuition..women's intuition is amazing..if their character seems off initially run..then you will find yourself better and wont entertain them and be gone before that even happens.
Why would any man let an insecure person that piles on makeup eye liner & weave & lipstick on their face.....along with waistline trainers & sloppy bodies etc....disrespect them?
@hiroshima thompson ikr....these broads are a damn delusional joke.
My God, I was healed this whole time she left....now all's I need is training on how to not make the same mistake !!
In addition to what was said relating to what some women want, a man that is sensitive to a women's feelings; who realize compromise is necessary on both their parts. Both ppl must realize personal growth is essential for the growth & success of the relationship. Flexibility.
I can’t express how much I appreciate content like this!!
So tired of shallow/superficial content that only promotes toxicity...
It’s about building not destroying!!
Great work guys👌🏿
I can really see why you love, respect, and admire Stephan. This is the conversation our young brothers need 🙏🏽.
I'm cool with a guy that makes less as long as he has a great work ethic and is smart with the money he makes, but I also prefer to live with with less. I don't want the 5 bedroom house, and the Mercedes Benz sporting a Gucci bag.
A kind, hard working, spiritually minded man is far more important than expensive material things. Less stuff means having more time and money to do the things we love to do.
💯
Keep that same energy when medical bills are due rent, time to senf kids off to college. When the car needs fixing etc...remember itll be hard fir him to help abd a struggle because he makes...less...now nothing wrong with not having a lavish life style but..you still want to make sure your comfortable as a woman
@Robert Drake thank you
@@thatonekid9754 I have some years of experience on me so i know what it takes to make it and yet my philosophy remains the same. I have chosen a life style that requires less material things and by having fewer and less expensive bills due to being low maintenance and cost effective. In my quest to be found by Mr. Right it is my desire to have a man that shares this aim with me so Saturdays, holidays, and weekend getaways van be spent having fun rather than toiling our life away. It's not hard if your willing to make the sacrifices to do it. No Mercedes necassary ;a good, honest, prayin man ,and a Toyota Corolla will do just fine.
@Health-nerd_ROM while I want and need financial stability I'm really far more interested in the quality of the man than I am loads of cash. What is 10, 20, 30 dallors more an hour compared to someone who I can talk to, pray with, have fun with, and share the same goals with. If having more cash means we can't shoot pool Friday night over a few beers cuz he's to tired from raking it in I'm just not interested.
Yo the stuff Stephan speaks on, its everything I tell my friends and come to the realization myself. Keep it up 👍🏾
As a person i take time to heal and be mentally sound before i get involved in a relationship because I can’t get someone i love to suffer for my past. If i need to heal, i heal, unlearn negative stuffs and be whole for me to be able to accommodate this special person coming into my life.
I have to agree about the disconnect between men and women....so on point!!!
Bro these episodes lately. Banger after banger
Sexual sin is ruining peoples greatest potential
Soul ties, everywhere.
Absolutely. Not enough people talking about this.
DEEP
I love that everything was laid down for man and woman to be in a healthy relationship. 💜
Tip 101 for the Men...Conversation, engaging and being engaged, asking questions to and fro, answers with depth, wanting to know about her, is hugely attractive to women. All about the mind and heart.
******32:15 Learning how to keep a conversation
*****55:40 A relationship cannot succeed if the woman can't look up to a man & creating a positive track record of your accomplishments for her to respect
56:55 Qualities a man that good for a woman should have
1:01:45 What does stephan consider as a high value man
1:07:00 One of the traits of being a high value man is to make important decisions quickly
Thankyou! My friend won't give himself a makeover but wants a good woman..... I'm. Like dude! You gotta step it up! We are very visual too!!
Some guys just don't get it.
From a young age I've never had rebounds. It's kept me a lot more sane and saved me from a lot of bullshit for real.
All of my relationships had meaning no matter how they ended.
With or without a relationship, work on yourself.
Yyassss, Teach me something... Heart and Mind stimulation is a plus... And no sex clears a Greater inner path within... I Love Hearing Stephan speak from the Heart.... Ahhhhh!!!
More accurately, Asian women (people) in Asia , have a high marriage rate / success because cultural values and expectations haven’t changed (modernized ). These are two different worlds. I will say they succeed because they still hold to their core traditions , family values , relationships and marriage .
I dislike I'm such a giver, but I agree with Stephan a good convo, with masculine energy can go a long way, I have experience the men I would like to date don't like me as much. I'm not an IG model but I'm not insecure because I know I'm beautiful. I've been to counseling and heal but its a challenge to me to find a guy who likes me back. I'm 27 and never been on a proper date. I still have hope and believe there is still GREAT BLACK MEN out there who likes me back lol. Great Content.
It's you. No way every man around you is passing off a quality woman. It means the men you think highly off don't do the same for you cause you're not as put together as you'd like to think
InfoZone riiight lol. She has to be sleeping with every dude she comes across and toxic there is no way guys would pass on a good woman lmaoo
@@infozone9601 First of all you don't know me and I'm very secure of what I bring to the table.
@@lilrabbitcuz Soooo I have to be sleeping with men? lol What a joke you are lol. I have time today.
Jalen Lawson men don’t pass up once in a lifetime women. And there it is fellas combative. You answer your own question lol. “I have time today” for what😂😂😂
Great show. This is the type of guests and quality, wise and godly content I knew room mates for not their recent detour dabling with anti marraige/ women hating content. Also very good to see Chris. God bless you guys
Probably the best podcast I’ve ever listened to and I don’t even know this channel
I like this guy, he is balanced and doesn't hate on women
I love your sessions with Stephan Labossiere you guys have so much fun together. You guys have great chemistry!.❤
Chris is still focused on the IG models and it’s shaping his opinion of all women.
Yeah Chris was lowkey telling on himself. Men that don’t struggle with women know first hand that women overwhelmingly (IG model or not) want to be in a relationships.
I agree...IG models aren’t the only attractive women out there.
@@Saiyah347 💯. Thank God for that lol.
@bigjayking24 Hafeez sounds like he may be getting better about this. Chris though... may need some time.
EXACTLY! I think both of them are focused on the IG models. Once they shift their focus, they'll be able to gain better understanding. Until then....
A GODLY MAN!!!!!!!!!! HIGHEST VALUE IN, AND BEING A MAN!!!!!
Y’all brought this fine blessing back on the show!!! I love it!!! He has so much wisdom!!!
Chris is not feeling them three months not even a little bit lol .. I do agree with Steph though, there is a period of time where you just need to step away. I haven't entertained anyone since before quarantine and I've learned so much about God, my experiences, and becoming a valuable woman. I couldn't have done this without taking time, alone, to figure myself out. Now I better understand me and where my power lies, so the world better watch out. Moral of the story, Chris needs some alone time lol
I’m so glad Stephen spoke about men learning to have a conversation . It’s so so important rather there are women that want to admit that or not , I’ll definitely be one to say that’s HUGE because communication is key 🔑 and if you can’t hold a conversation how are you going to truly be able to communicate.
Healing is A LOTTTA work, but oh, so worth it🙏🏾
"hold a damn conversation" yes! Communication and maybe then problems wouldn't be problems
Aaamen, on the broken people pouring negativity into others hurt. To justify the reason to reject the joy of healing...
I truly Love Hear God's voice as Stephan Talks Wisdom of The Father...
"We live in a world that tries to validate the negative states that we're in."
Couldn't have said it better, so eye opening! Healing is the key 🔑
He said a mouth full. I agree with this message!!
You have to feel safe to be vulnerable right? ... This is so good though
Stephan really hits home for me, this type of philosophy for men’s living
Money, a plan, communication and a nice presentation. Thats right.
WOMEN WHAT A RELATIONSHIP PERIOD! Don't believe a woman who says she doesn't want a partner..it is in our nature to be partnered. However it all takes work and women and men with the way things are set up now...people don't want to do the work..things need to change we need help!!!
Relationships don't take work if you know which women to avoid. The issue is an unbalance. Women have lost their marbles and still think they have value
InfoZone You nailed it! Relationships really aren’t that hard but somehow women make them complex. Losing their “marbles” got me tho😂😂
Its got to be worth it to do the work.
Not all women want a partner, especially those that don't want children. Some are happy with companionship only. No relationship is just fine for some people.
@@infozone9601 relationships go through seasons and a relationship has to evolve and adapt. Relationships are easier to navigate with the right person but they certainly do take work because we cannot be entirely responsible for our partner's behavior and actions.
YESSS Stephen and the roommates together is an unbeatable trio
As a single woman, I can say that this 19:28 statement is the most accurate of ANY MAN I've heard. Happy he knows the truth through the appearance.
If this ain't the realest conversation on the internet, I don't know what is.. he was preaching today!!! Great job guys!!
issue is people come with the same baggage from their previous relationship and bring into the next
Facts epically women that have been cheated on bring it over to their dating life
Thank you for saying Conversation! I am highly attracted to an interesting man, read more men! I've met some physically attractive, financially stable men but they're boring and I cannot bear long periods of time with them wompwomp. Anyone else completely drooling over Stephan?! Wow, tell me more about what a woman should do hahaha!!
Hold on right there brother. You know exactly that men are not the only ones who struggle with initiating a conversation or having topics to talk about. This goes both ways.
@Robert Drake Not all, but plenty do. You can choose to play the game or not get involved. Take the red pill and you're set.
@Robert Drake that's right king pick your crown up!
So true. I’m a woman and I agree. Too many air heads out there.
True. But as a woman dating now... the conversation I'm getting (despite my attempts to deepen/ livin it up) is so disappointing. It makes me no longer interested in the suitor. I CRAVE MASCULINITY & GOOD CONVERSATION.
Love when he said, some of these things are "COMMON SENSE " buh we all built different so makes it harder for people with potential to achieve things late.
I disagree that black women date earlier. I don’t believe that this is global. As a black woman who lives outside of the US, a lot of black people both women and men grow up in strict backgrounds and aren’t allowed to date until later on in life. This is something I have seen a lot
@diane Taylor well that’s very small minded. TH-cam is a global platform and I have a right to my opinion. But you have a nice day mate!
@diane Taylor well I’m from the UK and black is referred to people of African descent, not Indians so you got that bit wrong. African American, African Caribbean, black British with African or African Caribbean parents are referred to as black. And as a black person, I have a right to have an opinion on something that someone says about black people no matter where they are from. My opinion was highlighting that what was said was not global. You said that it’s an ‘American show for Americans.’ Which is quite divisive. That’s the problem in our community, there is no unity amongst black people globally but we allow other people to appropriate our culture and say nothing. At the end of the day we are black people and this division has to stop. I like the show and I will continue to watch and give my opinion if I feel like it.
@diane Taylor ok buddy 🙄🥱
It's a generalization everyone wants a relationship. Many people are content being single.
Quality as always. The hosting has gotten WAY better too. Keep it going fellas. We need more brothas doing some good in this world ✊🏿
This deserves wayyyy more views, Stephan does nothing but speak facts that all men need to hear
"brokeness is being passed on to generations after them" so true.
21 and in my first year of college where I only wanted to start school again 3 years later to feel like I’m doing something or push myself to do better after being in a pit of non-productivity. Looking forward to return back into the work force and break out my laziness as a small step once more. Thank you again for the video!
I like how he talks about both sides you can tell he's truly balanced. 💯
A bossy woman is a woman who saw her mother taking care of the household entirely by herself without any help of a man.
Or she's a spoilt 'princess'
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What you call “bossy” is someone who is married to someone who doesn’t take initiative. Quit projecting. 😛
Lol
This man is the Goat. He has one of the best beards along with James Harden🙌🏽
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4Knewt Oh no my mom knows my TH-cam account 😭😭
@@uncledrew7633 See, I didn't out you that I was here. LOL I tried to be discreet. But I do watch these videos because they remind me a LOT of you, in how they talk and their understanding. I can see you in these great young men.
A man who doesn't have God isn't whole, a man who isn't whole cannot refrain from sex. They depend on their own power , the flesh is weak
THAT PART!!
So powerful!
Awesome
Tell that to Catholic priests 🌚
A word!
The moment you stop looking for someone is likely when you’ll find someone.
Ohhhh I love this guy. Can’t stop commenting. He is just so on point.