My god this was so powerful & beautiful it made me cry!!!!! Ugh loved this!! We NEED all of our blk women to LEARN AND UNDERSTAND THIS!! The future of ppl need to reconnect again!! As I turn 34 next month, this message was needed!!! ❤️
I have done all of this. I walk through life with feminine grace, empathy, kindness, even during cancer. I have treated the men in my life like gold. They have even told me I was their safe space, a lighthouse in the world of darkness. I always looked at the man he was and not a checklist. I was STILL cheated on, dogged out, emotionally abused. As a single woman I was lied and manipulated because I was seen as a conquest, a beautiful woman to add to the trophies. Even after all the hurt I STILL have an open, loving, giving heart. Unfortunately it's becoming more difficult to find a man willing to be vulnerable DURING the relationship. It's difficult to find a man that is over 40 (I'm 42) that is done playing games and trying to satisfy lust. I believe in God and that Jesus died for my sins. I try to live like a godly woman everyday and strive to be better than I was yesterday. It's hard to say the same for many others. I want to submit, but I'm not going to submit to a man just because he is a man.
I totally understand and know how you feel. It's so hard to find a kind, Godly man whose normal. It's not much to ask for. I don't think it's true that in my case and a lot of my friends cases that we have unrealistic standards. Actually we've put up with a lot. I don't feel that I don't need a man. I'd love to be with the right man. However lots of us have realised it's better to be happy and peaceful alone than to have your mental health destroyed by the wrong man.
@@sonia626 yup I’m with you guys. I’m not even looking for a man thats a millionaire but can he be gainfully employed keep a job, can he be emotionally and mentally stable, can he be generous with his time and heart? Is this too much to ask? Geeze I feel like everyone thinks we are out here chasing ghost from power when we just want nice guys and we keep getting screwed by men who were the so called the “nice guy.” IDK why people just can’t admit that the men today have a different mindset than the men we grew up with which was family oriented and valued marriage. My parents have been married over 35 years.
Please listen to this advice. Rebecca. You spoke my life in This video. I met my husband online at 43. We were married at when I turned 45. He is a construction worker. I am a teacher with a masters degree. He makes more and we bought a 800k house last year that is beautiful. He was what I said I didn’t want. He was shorter by an inch, but his heart and character were the highest caliber I’ve ever dated. I had to improve me before I could be with him. I thought I would never get married because I had certain standards. Once I got over wanting a certain type of man, I met my husband. For perspective my parents and other relatives have been married over 50 years. I married a man like my father whose character is great. Please listen ladies and put yourself out there. Don’t give up. Use your discernment, keep your relationship private from your friends until you are ready. Enjoy the process.
I check boxes. 6ft, 6 figs, etc. When my wife talks about me she NEVER brings that up. She mentions kindness, caring and not holding grudges. We were both broke when we got married so...😬
Your wife is smart. My husband is over 6 feet, makes 6 figures. His height and his salary have nothing to do with why I committed my life to him. We were broke college students when we met. He actually made less than I did when I graduated from pharmacy school. Over the past 20 years his income has quadrupled. What drew me to him was he always considered me in all things. He is loving, thoughtful, considerate, kind and caring. Just the other day he stepped in and removed half the items off my to do list after working a 60 hour work week. I’m a stay at home wife and mother of 5, so there is always tons to do. He doesn’t beat his chest as the bread winner. He honors the work I do for our family and pitches in where he is needed once he arrives home. When a man is doing what he is designed to do, there really is no need to beg or demand submission. It is willfully given.
Yeah Bro same here with me My Lady she's hung up on my character and not just me being 6'5 and 6 figures etc But she also knows that most women are after me and I had a Big Huge fan club before she came into my life But at the same time she always mention to me how she can't understand how all these Women let me get away Well I just tell her that none of those Women were genuine they didn't care to understand me for who I am like you do
As a 50 year old single woman I felt every word of this message. I’ve been doing life by myself for so long that at a certain point it became easier and felt safer than to just rely on me rather than risk being hurt and disappointed by the wrong man. When Rebecca said “Giving up on love is like giving up on God”, that was an Aha! moment because I do love God and I do believe that his promises are true. He’s provided for me time and time again. Why would I think that he wouldn’t provide me with the man that he intended for me even at my age?????
Exactly love! God meets our needs we often just have to get out of the way so He can move. Our thoughts and words are so powerful. We have to make sure they align with God's blessings and favor for our life.
Most of the time when you see/hear of people getting married, they are well into their 30's and forties, young marriage is going to be a thing of the past. Only reason why folks used to get married/married young was because people died at 40 on average and between religion and societal engineering women could not survive in society without being attached to a man. Those aspects have changed, and everyone is gonna have to stop holding on to these old "rules" that no longer apply. You find the "The One" when you are ready and on GOD'S TIME. Love and happiness have no expiration date.
This was a word! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I’m got married at 31. And it was all God and God alone. We stayed celibate until married. If I listened to KS advise I wouldn’t got married and had sex with every suitor
Chew the meat and spit out the bones. If you would have listened to all of anyone’s advice it may have not resulted in positive results. It’s unfortunate that Kevin’s name was even mentioned in this comment.
I turned 35 January 2022 and met the one not long after in the most unexpected way possible. He is everything and way more than I ever expected to find. I took the time to improve myself over the past 5 years. By being better the men started to flock.
It’s hard because so many of us work in fields that require masculine energy, it’s hard to switch off especially when the man is not stepping up and fulfilling his role
I’m in tears too! A lot of what she says is confirmation of revelations I’ve received over the years. I’m praying the husband God has for me is coming soon
I feel really emotional writing this, my eyes are full of tears. It's so hard to find a kind, Godly man whose normal and happy with their life. It's not much to ask for. I don't think it's true that in my case and a lot of my friends cases that we have unrealistic standards. Actually we've put up with a lot. I don't feel that I don't need a man. I'd love to be with the right man. However lots of us have realised it's better to be happy and peaceful alone than to have your mental health destroyed by the wrong man.
I agree wholeheartedly. I'm going to teach about exactly WHO to date in order to maximize your dating experiences and to attract true love. Sometimes our Picker is off. We don't choose the right people to give our hearts to from the very beginning. Make sure you get on my list for the Divine Dating Workshop. linktr.ee/rebeccalynnpope
My God today!!!!! My own mother told me just a few days ago that God was not in a lot of stuff online and I take this as confirmation. Thank you Rebecca for letting God use you. As a divorced woman you inspire me and speak the truth!
This was soooooo effin' GOOD, Rebecca!!! God has blessed me with my "Kerry" during the Pandemic, and we were just married this past August!!! EVERYTHING you said is true!!! But I had to go through the trenches with men over time, to be able to SEE my Husband when God brought him to me. I thank God for Hubby each and every day. Especially in these uncertain times. God assured that my Husband is my Helpmeet, and I recognize that!!! 🙌🏼 Thank you for your perspective and teachings!!! It really hits home. I appreciate you!!!
@@RebeccaLynnPope My God... Thank youuuuu!!! I am so happy for me too!!! 😊 If you EVER need someone to give a FULL Testimony, I'm your Girl!!! Women (and Men!!!) need reinforcement and Faith-Building. I'm right here in Suwanee ~ contact me if you need me!!! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
I think you and KS are saying the same thing. Don’t wait in millionaire, find someone you love and respect. Your life will be over sooner than you know. Two people can create wealth together. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
@@LBE-Vanguard , criticism is fine, but delivery is everything. My paternal grandmother use to say you get more bees with honey than you do with vinegar. He was abrasive. How those woman tuned in and called into a show for criticism from someone they didn’t even know is beyond me. They needed licensed professional counseling, not a relationship shock jock. At the very least they could have asked the men who actually know them, but instead they called to argue with a stranger. Really bizarre to me. Delivery is everything. When I have feedback that I want to give my husband, please believe my tone and heart convey that I want him to receive this feedback in the loving way that I intended to deliver it. That the health of his heart and spirit is the upmost importance to me. Rebecca just gave a full critique, but you can feel how the spirit and energy are completely different than his delivery was. I honestly don’t even think that what he turned out to be was his original intent. He started off reviewing style and cologne for men and guiding men how they could be better men. Makes sense because after all he is a man. When he saw that criticizing woman brought in viewership that he has never seen before, he realized that it was his bread and butter. His ending was just as sad as the life he predicted for so many woman. I really feel bad for how things ended. I hope other men and woman take heed. You have to be the love you want to attract. If you want abrasive personalities in your life, then keep giving off that energy. If you want loving, kind and receptive hearts in your life, then work on being that for other people.
@@tifipaul5686 you probably made some great points. But it's just too long lol. I agreed with about 65-70% of his message. And yes, the message got lost at times because of the insensitivity. But many people, especially sisters, need a reality check nowadays. Degrees, good jobs, nice houses and cars are great to have but that doesn't make a woman wife material. It only does to women. And other groups of women seem to understand that concept better
How you kill with kindness is such a gift!! Thank you for graciously dispelling the myth, speaking truth, and providing first-hand experience. Ladies and men you are worthy! Especially those over 35! People who are more equipped to navigate life; experienced and precious. You are the hidden gems 💎. More messaging like that should be spread. There's a difference in keeping it real and being toxic. Lets not breathe life into toxicity; pour into positivity and abundance instead!
I needed to hear this! Thank you for the message. Definitely knew I needed some tissues on the side for this one. I totally agree with the men that most successful/put together women want dont want them because these men have countless options. It's the sad truth but I've also noticed that the more you heal and grow, some of the same men you once found attractive just don't seem appealing anymore. It's definitely a process but you start seeing through a lot of people, men included.
Rebecca , your message is so encouraging 🥲 Thank you for your transparency, authenticity, vulnerability and honesty ❤️ You are the best ! -Madeleine xoxo
Thank you once again for another powerful message, I definitely took notes on everything you were teaching and will apply it to my life. Every word you speak is always on point, and I truly believe the Lord uses you as a vessel to help women who were not thought certain things about life. I am 46 and still waiting for my husband, and I have faith that my prayers will be answered. Also, as beautiful as you Rebecca, I couldn't imagine you “Not” being someone's type; if that's the case I don't have legs to stand on…. Lol Many blessings, keep spreading love knowledge and positivity.
I applaud you on your integrity , honesty and respect on the passing of KS….Though I didn’t agree with everything he said , he definitely made some valid points pertaining to our community!!!
I was waiting on God to prompt you to speak on this! TEACH Rebecca! We all need a deep healing! My hope is at some point that will happen so we can love each other.
Mrs. Pope, thank you for another timely & powerful reminder!! We need you in this world of noise & nonsense! Keep shining your wisdom & light! Love from your Muslim sister
I really needed this! 🙏🏽💔! I’ll be 33 next month and I’m starting to give up hope in dating, marriage and kids. I don’t want to. I’m trying to keep hope alive and just take a break and refresh/revive myself.
I love your messages and authenticity.. I love hard and will continue to do so.. The people may have not appreciated me, but I embody love and God will provide a husband to lead my son and I. I am working on embracing and sitting in my femininity and I love it 💕
Soooooo...Awesome!! Im a 53 yr. Old woman...And I Still Believe God!! I Now have realistic Expectations!! I needed to wk. On myself with God's Help!! Thank you Soooo..Much for Being a Voice for Our GOD TO OPERATE THROUGH!! I CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR U AND YOUR FAMILY!! LOVE U SIS 😘❤❤!! DO YOUR THING!!!!!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😇😇😇
I love listening to you Rebecca! This Was a great powerful message. It Reminds me how I met my husband He wasn’t making a lot of money but What stood out was great character, Big heart for others, good work ethic Consistency we talked on the phone every night before going to bed. He Also is the primary care provider For his elderly parents ( he’s the only Child) He loves God ( we pray together) He was different from the other dudes I dated. I married at 43, ladies don’t give Up. You never know where you will met Your soulmate. Oh I met mine at a hospital Where I was visiting a patient!
This is THE MOST comforting, informative, encouraging, BLESSED and balanced video I have seen in a longtime! Thank you for your incite and ministry. I TRULY appreciate this knowledge and wisdom that has been downloaded into my soul. Thank you 🙏🏽 😊♥️
We receive what we believe. God is abundance. If you believe there is a shortage of anything, then that's what's going to show up in your life. Women we have options too. Try listening to Uncle Keri Pope (Auntie Rebecca's husband) and Godfather RC Blakes on relationships. Your self-worth and self-appreciation must come from within, but these two men articulate what I've always been taught by the men in my life
That would have to be an amazing God. Because scarcity is a universal fact of life. Time is scarce, there are only twenty four hours in a day. Therefore the use of time to do work is also limited, due to the nature of work, and the time for other things, such as sleeping. Resources are also scarce, since there is so little time, in a short life to produce goods and services. Therefore there will always be scarcity, no matter how much you deluded ourselves in pretending otherwise.
I absolutely adore Rebecca. A few years ago, I spoke with her, I wish I had listened to her and the wisdom she had provided to me however moving forward I am listening now.
Sista Pope, I had to learn how to pull that femininity out of a modern woman. It’s a special thing to see her move from her masculine energy to her feminine energy. Maybe Brotha Pope can teach a mens course on how to do that
REBECCA!!! THIS IS THE OPRAH IN YOU COMING FORTH🙏🏾 THE BITS AND PIECES YOU SHARE HAVE BEEN THE NUGGETS THAT INSPIRE ME THE MOST. WHEN YOU ARE COMPLETELY VULNERABLE IS WHEN I KNOW IT IS POSSIBLE TO GET TO WHERE YOU ARE! THANK YOU & HAPPY BIRTHDAY🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰
Rebecca I thank you for speaking with love and compassion. Your comment about Kevin Samuel was so well said. I didn't care for his way of speaking. However, my prayers to his family.
A wife Loves a man to his core, Selah! Men and Women we have to do the work! Rebecca thanks for sharing your heart and wisdom, God bless you! #WorkMasterclassAbundance# amazing
I’ll be turning 45 in July and marrying my 3rd husband the same month. I have a daughter that married at 20 and has been married 6 years. My grandmother is twice widowed and married her second husband at 52. I also have an uncle that married his second wife after being a widower and she was 80. Keep in mind, it is said that a woman is more likely to die in a terrorist attack than get married after 40. That is the reality and you have to be a special woman to attract a masculine energy provider after 40 because men over 40 have a lot of options to choose from.
A wife can extend a man's life by 10 years, she loses 5 years but still out lives him and a loving wife is willing to make that sacrifice for the man she loves... that's what a good woman, a great wife brings to the table. Above all else, how much is 10 years worth to a man? That's a scientific finding. I didn't make that up.
@Dr. Alia Dixon, Nurse Practitioner What’s the percentage of your anecdotal experience happening Dr. since you claim the statement you referenced “contradicts”?
@@thelmathomas9399 According to the census bureau.. overall after 40 only 1 out 5 roughly 20% get married. That number is close 10% for black women. So not so much a “terrorist attack” but there’s a 90% chance its not happening.
You have me in tears Rebecca as I am an empath and only want the best for people. I see s lot of me in you. Thank you for being your authentic self and sharing your wisdom and God given talents with us.l🙏 ❤
There are many genuine similarities in view points that beautiful Auntie Rebecca and KS had. There’s just so much more compassion 💐 that comes through her spirit. I’ve changed my life because of her and her wonderful Mr. Pope. Living with abundance and becoming a woman who lives closer to God’s is me becoming my absolute best self. I don’t have to chase anyone anymore, I now attract the love that comes to me and it is beautiful 🙌🏾
Everything you said in this video is my reality when it comes to dating especially in Houston. After losing my mom as well I had to rebuild emotionally, spiritually and physically. Two years later I’m just now starting to feel like myself again. I have a lot of hope. Thanks for sharing. ☺️❤️
Thank you so so much. I've been listening to your videos every day and you have renewed my hope for love and marriage. I'll keep doing my work and healing so my heart can open up again and love again xox
First of all, you are a natural beauty. You don't need to be "done up" to share your wisdom with us. LOVE this word!!!!! I really needed this today. I just love the way you revere and dote over Mr. Pope. It's a testament to the bond you have, really beautiful. I am so glad to have found this video today and I thank you.
I love it you said a mouth full. You want to be treated like a lady, "act likeone." I love having my doors opened for me. I smile & say thank you for being a gentleman. I truly appreciate it.
Yes, I have had mind blocking statements saying that "I don't need a man", but in my heart I have always wanted to be married. I have served the Lord for many years. Though I am very happy for my family members, I have thought what about me Lord to see people getting married and having long term relationships and I still have not ever been married, and am now in my 40s. At this point, I am trying to stay encouraged, and keep the faith that I will find my own Man of God one day...
Ms. Rebecca you hit on the head. My parents haven been together 40 plus years and due to Diabetes and other co-morbiliries my Dad can no longer live on his own. He is currently 76. After God, if it wasn't for his wife(My Mother) my Dad would have been the old man that you find dead 3 weeks later. Real talk
His followers aren’t upset we are rejoicing his life the people that didn’t like him hurting because they know they still have to wake lonely, and out of shape men and women
Anyone can get in shape if they want to, and being single doesn’t mean you’re necessarily lonely. Just like being in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re happy and fulfilled. It’s interesting how many men seem to worship the idea of codependency with a woman. Kevin Samuels followers almost never talk about the idea of healthy relationships, just about dominance and codependency.
I think before any dating coach tells BW what to accept, I think the focus needs to be solely on healing men above all else. The pimps, fake HVM coaches and manipulators have done more damage to an already deeply-hurting male anti-woman at worst or man-above-everybody-else at best culture. Keep on the men and then we can address women. We have seen more harm done to us by them than the reverse.
Auntie Rebecca, will you all please do something for men? We ladies do all of this work on ourselves, and the men aren't equipped because they haven't done their work. Also will you please do a video on staying away from toxic men and only being available to healthy men? Some women don't know that only a certain type of man deserves to even be entertained. We can't submit to projects to work on. Not saying they have to be 100% because we all are still evolving, but women are sometimes forced into their masculine energy by awful men.
THIS! This entire video 👏🏿✨👏🏿✨👏🏿✨👏🏿✨👏🏿✨ contains jewels of wisdom. Thank you for defining what a wife is and what a wife does and what a husband is and what a husband does❤️ Wives and Husbands are specialists at unique skills and abilities and contribute different gifts to marriage. Thank you Mrs. Pope!
Haha when she said Toad, I swiftly fell out🤣. Mrs Pope honestly, I feel like it's hopeless for me, I have extreme faith in everything (God), however not in other ppl and especially men. I've been working extremely hard on digesting, owning, and learning from my trauma and that includes therapy. My tolerance and patience is extremely low for romantic relationships even though I'm quite fem, kind, and considerate. I'm not experiencing any men that are worth the troubles of being bonded with, I don't mind allowing them to lead but I'm not attracted to arrogance or bigots. I'm currently trying to determine if I really desire to just simply be alone, I'm not sure yet but I have no fear of what's unknown to the present moments.
@34:30-35 Proverbs 31:11-12 [11]The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. [12]She does him good and not evil All the days of her life.
Thank you do your beautiful perspective. People won’t remember what you said, they will remember how you made them feel. It’s so sad KS died not knowing what I believe he sought for with all of his heart, a successful black family. May His Soul Rest in Peace 🤍🕊
Hey Rebecca, here's hoping you see this... I'm a NY black man, 29, red pill aware but also grew up going to church. Thank you for this testimony. I really felt that when you said ego Edges God Out. I'm gonna have to come back to this video a number of times, lol. I wanna get to making 6 figures and travel the world as a single man before I "settle down", and I have a clear and direct path to doing that as of this year. My dating life has been very fun and successful, from studying and learning about the social dynamics between men and women, and being a guy who can understand and empathize with women, actually listen and pay attention to what they say and do, and be affectionate and eventually a smooth talker, I've seen way higher success than the average man for years now, and I see how I can take it higher in my own way. It wasn't always that way. I was introverted. I built myself to do better and be better for myself, and that's an ongoing process to this day. The struggle comes in when I realize what I want and what God wants.... Most likely isn't the same.
Esther 1:20 [20]And when the king's decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire, (for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small.
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Today you kept it real. Thank you!
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My god this was so powerful & beautiful it made me cry!!!!! Ugh loved this!! We NEED all of our blk women to LEARN AND UNDERSTAND THIS!! The future of ppl need to reconnect again!! As I turn 34 next month, this message was needed!!! ❤️
I remarried at 40 to the best woman in the world! You can find true love. Don’t lose hope
Is your wife 40+ tho? It's like you're comparing older men to older women
@@LBE-Vanguard Great question!!
@@LBE-Vanguard no she’s not. She is younger than me
@@ScaryToRemarry good for you bruh!
@@LBE-Vanguard thank you
I have done all of this. I walk through life with feminine grace, empathy, kindness, even during cancer. I have treated the men in my life like gold. They have even told me I was their safe space, a lighthouse in the world of darkness. I always looked at the man he was and not a checklist. I was STILL cheated on, dogged out, emotionally abused. As a single woman I was lied and manipulated because I was seen as a conquest, a beautiful woman to add to the trophies. Even after all the hurt I STILL have an open, loving, giving heart. Unfortunately it's becoming more difficult to find a man willing to be vulnerable DURING the relationship. It's difficult to find a man that is over 40 (I'm 42) that is done playing games and trying to satisfy lust. I believe in God and that Jesus died for my sins. I try to live like a godly woman everyday and strive to be better than I was yesterday. It's hard to say the same for many others. I want to submit, but I'm not going to submit to a man just because he is a man.
I totally understand and know how you feel. It's so hard to find a kind, Godly man whose normal. It's not much to ask for. I don't think it's true that in my case and a lot of my friends cases that we have unrealistic standards. Actually we've put up with a lot. I don't feel that I don't need a man. I'd love to be with the right man. However lots of us have realised it's better to be happy and peaceful alone than to have your mental health destroyed by the wrong man.
@@sonia626 Thanks for saying THIS!. I feel the same way.
@@TheLuvlfe you're welcome! Good or bad a lot of us feel this way.
Don't lose hope Ms. Healthy Chick, we're still out here for you. 🙏🏾🤴🏾
@@sonia626 yup I’m with you guys. I’m not even looking for a man thats a millionaire but can he be gainfully employed keep a job, can he be emotionally and mentally stable, can he be generous with his time and heart? Is this too much to ask? Geeze I feel like everyone thinks we are out here chasing ghost from power when we just want nice guys and we keep getting screwed by men who were the so called the “nice guy.” IDK why people just can’t admit that the men today have a different mindset than the men we grew up with which was family oriented and valued marriage. My parents have been married over 35 years.
Please listen to this advice. Rebecca. You spoke my life in This video. I met my husband online at 43. We were married at when I turned 45. He is a construction worker. I am a teacher with a masters degree. He makes more and we bought a 800k house last year that is beautiful. He was what I said I didn’t want. He was shorter by an inch, but his heart and character were the highest caliber I’ve ever dated. I had to improve me before I could be with him. I thought I would never get married because I had certain standards. Once I got over wanting a certain type of man, I met my husband.
For perspective my parents and other relatives have been married over 50 years. I married a man like my father whose character is great.
Please listen ladies and put yourself out there. Don’t give up. Use your discernment, keep your relationship private from your friends until you are ready. Enjoy the process.
❤️🙏🏾
I pray that God blesses your marriage
I’m 34 a Nigerian in the UK. I pray I find a man who loves me
I check boxes. 6ft, 6 figs, etc. When my wife talks about me she NEVER brings that up. She mentions kindness, caring and not holding grudges. We were both broke when we got married so...😬
Right if all it too was money, wealthy people celebrities would not get divorced.
Your wife is smart. My husband is over 6 feet, makes 6 figures. His height and his salary have nothing to do with why I committed my life to him. We were broke college students when we met. He actually made less than I did when I graduated from pharmacy school. Over the past 20 years his income has quadrupled. What drew me to him was he always considered me in all things. He is loving, thoughtful, considerate, kind and caring. Just the other day he stepped in and removed half the items off my to do list after working a 60 hour work week. I’m a stay at home wife and mother of 5, so there is always tons to do. He doesn’t beat his chest as the bread winner. He honors the work I do for our family and pitches in where he is needed once he arrives home. When a man is doing what he is designed to do, there really is no need to beg or demand submission. It is willfully given.
Yeah Bro same here with me
My Lady she's hung up on my character and not just me being 6'5 and 6 figures etc
But she also knows that most women are after me and I had a Big Huge fan club before she came into my life
But at the same time she always mention to me how she can't understand how all these Women let me get away
Well I just tell her that none of those Women were genuine they didn't care to understand me for who I am like you do
As a 50 year old single woman I felt every word of this message. I’ve been doing life by myself for so long that at a certain point it became easier and felt safer than to just rely on me rather than risk being hurt and disappointed by the wrong man. When Rebecca said “Giving up on love is like giving up on God”, that was an Aha! moment because I do love God and I do believe that his promises are true. He’s provided for me time and time again. Why would I think that he wouldn’t provide me with the man that he intended for me even at my age?????
Exactly love! God meets our needs we often just have to get out of the way so He can move. Our thoughts and words are so powerful. We have to make sure they align with God's blessings and favor for our life.
Amen!! I agree
Am 48yrs God is faithful
Most of the time when you see/hear of people getting married, they are well into their 30's and forties, young marriage is going to be a thing of the past. Only reason why folks used to get married/married young was because people died at 40 on average and between religion and societal engineering women could not survive in society without being attached to a man. Those aspects have changed, and everyone is gonna have to stop holding on to these old "rules" that no longer apply.
You find the "The One" when you are ready and on GOD'S TIME. Love and happiness have no expiration date.
This was a word! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I’m got married at 31. And it was all God and God alone. We stayed celibate until married. If I listened to KS advise I wouldn’t got married and had sex with every suitor
I’ve some of the advice he’s given and it makes me gasp.
Chew the meat and spit out the bones. If you would have listened to all of anyone’s advice it may have not resulted in positive results. It’s unfortunate that Kevin’s name was even mentioned in this comment.
@@Cecesworld1 true sometimes no advice is better than bad advice
He dragged one woman for wanting to be celibate. I felt bad for her.
I turned 35 January 2022 and met the one not long after in the most unexpected way possible. He is everything and way more than I ever expected to find. I took the time to improve myself over the past 5 years. By being better the men started to flock.
Are you married?
A powerful message that I hope more and more women receive! Too many get stuck in boss lady/masculine energy when relating to their mate ♥️✨
So TRUE❣
I’ve received 🥺❤️🤲🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
It’s hard because so many of us work in fields that require masculine energy, it’s hard to switch off especially when the man is not stepping up and fulfilling his role
Goodness, I’m not even halfway through the video and I am in TEARS! You’re preaching sister.
I’m in tears too! A lot of what she says is confirmation of revelations I’ve received over the years. I’m praying the husband God has for me is coming soon
Waiting on God for a marriage partner,,He is faithful
I feel really emotional writing this, my eyes are full of tears. It's so hard to find a kind, Godly man whose normal and happy with their life. It's not much to ask for. I don't think it's true that in my case and a lot of my friends cases that we have unrealistic standards. Actually we've put up with a lot. I don't feel that I don't need a man. I'd love to be with the right man. However lots of us have realised it's better to be happy and peaceful alone than to have your mental health destroyed by the wrong man.
I agree wholeheartedly. I'm going to teach about exactly WHO to date in order to maximize your dating experiences and to attract true love. Sometimes our Picker is off. We don't choose the right people to give our hearts to from the very beginning. Make sure you get on my list for the Divine Dating Workshop. linktr.ee/rebeccalynnpope
@@RebeccaLynnPope thank you
Me, am happy with my life.
@@landlord440illuminate8 Good for you!
Stop saying it’s hard sis… it will be hard… change your mind about him finding you. And he will come when you least expect it
My God today!!!!! My own mother told me just a few days ago that God was not in a lot of stuff online and I take this as confirmation. Thank you Rebecca for letting God use you. As a divorced woman you inspire me and speak the truth!
This was soooooo effin' GOOD, Rebecca!!! God has blessed me with my "Kerry" during the Pandemic, and we were just married this past August!!! EVERYTHING you said is true!!! But I had to go through the trenches with men over time, to be able to SEE my Husband when God brought him to me. I thank God for Hubby each and every day. Especially in these uncertain times. God assured that my Husband is my Helpmeet, and I recognize that!!! 🙌🏼
Thank you for your perspective and teachings!!! It really hits home. I appreciate you!!!
Thank you love. I'm so happy for you!! 💙
@@RebeccaLynnPope My God... Thank youuuuu!!! I am so happy for me too!!! 😊
If you EVER need someone to give a FULL Testimony, I'm your Girl!!! Women (and Men!!!) need reinforcement and Faith-Building. I'm right here in Suwanee ~ contact me if you need me!!! 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
God I love you Queen! It takes soooo much courage to show your soul in the way that you do. As an empath as well, it means so much!
I think you and KS are saying the same thing. Don’t wait in millionaire, find someone you love and respect. Your life will be over sooner than you know. Two people can create wealth together. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
No they are not, KS says it's over for a woman after 30
@@thelmathomas9399 Right, he was pure evil.
@@lisaymc1 you only say that because his message hit a nerve in you. That man wasn't evil at all. Obviously black women can't be critiqued smh
@@LBE-Vanguard , criticism is fine, but delivery is everything. My paternal grandmother use to say you get more bees with honey than you do with vinegar. He was abrasive. How those woman tuned in and called into a show for criticism from someone they didn’t even know is beyond me. They needed licensed professional counseling, not a relationship shock jock. At the very least they could have asked the men who actually know them, but instead they called to argue with a stranger. Really bizarre to me. Delivery is everything. When I have feedback that I want to give my husband, please believe my tone and heart convey that I want him to receive this feedback in the loving way that I intended to deliver it. That the health of his heart and spirit is the upmost importance to me. Rebecca just gave a full critique, but you can feel how the spirit and energy are completely different than his delivery was. I honestly don’t even think that what he turned out to be was his original intent. He started off reviewing style and cologne for men and guiding men how they could be better men. Makes sense because after all he is a man. When he saw that criticizing woman brought in viewership that he has never seen before, he realized that it was his bread and butter. His ending was just as sad as the life he predicted for so many woman. I really feel bad for how things ended. I hope other men and woman take heed. You have to be the love you want to attract. If you want abrasive personalities in your life, then keep giving off that energy. If you want loving, kind and receptive hearts in your life, then work on being that for other people.
@@tifipaul5686 you probably made some great points. But it's just too long lol. I agreed with about 65-70% of his message. And yes, the message got lost at times because of the insensitivity. But many people, especially sisters, need a reality check nowadays. Degrees, good jobs, nice houses and cars are great to have but that doesn't make a woman wife material. It only does to women. And other groups of women seem to understand that concept better
How you kill with kindness is such a gift!! Thank you for graciously dispelling the myth, speaking truth, and providing first-hand experience.
Ladies and men you are worthy! Especially those over 35! People who are more equipped to navigate life; experienced and precious. You are the hidden gems 💎. More messaging like that should be spread. There's a difference in keeping it real and being toxic. Lets not breathe life into toxicity; pour into positivity and abundance instead!
35+ is young.
That is so true sometimes I have to log out of social media. It really helps your spirit, mind, body, and soul!
You’re preaching sis. I genuinely appreciate your transparency and passion to see us single ladies win ❤️
I needed to hear this! Thank you for the message. Definitely knew I needed some tissues on the side for this one. I totally agree with the men that most successful/put together women want dont want them because these men have countless options. It's the sad truth but I've also noticed that the more you heal and grow, some of the same men you once found attractive just don't seem appealing anymore. It's definitely a process but you start seeing through a lot of people, men included.
Correct. The world's standards aren't God's standards. We see things differently through the lens of love and healing. 💙
Thank you Rebecca. God is really manifesting His Divine Power during these times.
You got me in tears😢😭. This was so powerful!! Thanks for your platform❤
Rebecca , your message is so encouraging 🥲 Thank you for your transparency, authenticity, vulnerability and honesty ❤️ You are the best !
-Madeleine xoxo
Thank you once again for another powerful message, I definitely took notes on everything you were teaching and will apply it to my life. Every word you speak is always on point, and I truly believe the Lord uses you as a vessel to help women who were not thought certain things about life. I am 46 and still waiting for my husband, and I have faith that my prayers will be answered. Also, as beautiful as you Rebecca, I couldn't imagine you “Not” being someone's type; if that's the case I don't have legs to stand on…. Lol
Many blessings, keep spreading love knowledge and positivity.
I applaud you on your integrity , honesty and respect on the passing of KS….Though I didn’t agree with everything he said , he definitely made some valid points pertaining to our community!!!
I was waiting on God to prompt you to speak on this! TEACH Rebecca! We all need a deep healing! My hope is at some point that will happen so we can love each other.
Yes love!!!
Mrs. Pope, thank you for another timely & powerful reminder!! We need you in this world of noise & nonsense! Keep shining your wisdom & light!
Love from your Muslim sister
I really needed this! 🙏🏽💔! I’ll be 33 next month and I’m starting to give up hope in dating, marriage and kids. I don’t want to. I’m trying to keep hope alive and just take a break and refresh/revive myself.
Relax am 48yrs waiting on God,, He is faithful
God did not build you to carry the burden of life by yourself” WHEW Lord!!! You are preaching Mrs. Rebecca Pope!
I love your messages and authenticity.. I love hard and will continue to do so.. The people may have not appreciated me, but I embody love and God will provide a husband to lead my son and I. I am working on embracing and sitting in my femininity and I love it 💕
I am so glad I found you. These are some real gems! You are a God sent! Love you Rebecca!
Soooooo...Awesome!! Im a 53 yr. Old woman...And I Still Believe God!! I Now have realistic Expectations!! I needed to wk. On myself with God's Help!! Thank you Soooo..Much for Being a Voice for Our GOD TO OPERATE THROUGH!! I CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR U AND YOUR FAMILY!! LOVE U SIS 😘❤❤!! DO YOUR THING!!!!!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😇😇😇
I love listening to you Rebecca! This
Was a great powerful message. It
Reminds me how I met my husband
He wasn’t making a lot of money but
What stood out was great character,
Big heart for others, good work ethic
Consistency we talked on the phone
every night before going to bed. He
Also is the primary care provider
For his elderly parents ( he’s the only
Child) He loves God ( we pray together)
He was different from the other dudes
I dated. I married at 43, ladies don’t give
Up. You never know where you will met
Your soulmate. Oh I met mine at a hospital
Where I was visiting a patient!
This was a beautiful message and I’m excited for the divine dating course
This is so good! God just confirms some things to me about my journey through this message! ❤
This is THE MOST comforting, informative, encouraging, BLESSED and balanced video I have seen in a longtime! Thank you for your incite and ministry. I TRULY appreciate this knowledge and wisdom that has been downloaded into my soul. Thank you 🙏🏽 😊♥️
You're welcome love 💙
We receive what we believe. God is abundance. If you believe there is a shortage of anything, then that's what's going to show up in your life. Women we have options too. Try listening to Uncle Keri Pope (Auntie Rebecca's husband) and Godfather RC Blakes on relationships. Your self-worth and self-appreciation must come from within, but these two men articulate what I've always been taught by the men in my life
That would have to be an amazing God. Because scarcity is a universal fact of life. Time is scarce, there are only twenty four hours in a day.
Therefore the use of time to do work is also limited, due to the nature of work, and the time for other things, such as sleeping. Resources are also scarce, since there is so little time, in a short life to produce goods and services. Therefore there will always be scarcity, no matter how much you deluded ourselves in pretending otherwise.
Nice hearing from you⚡
I absolutely adore Rebecca. A few years ago, I spoke with her, I wish I had listened to her and the wisdom she had provided to me however moving forward I am listening now.
We live and we learn love. Onward and upward! 💙😍
Sista Pope, I had to learn how to pull that femininity out of a modern woman. It’s a special thing to see her move from her masculine energy to her feminine energy. Maybe Brotha Pope can teach a mens course on how to do that
That's a really great topic. I'll let him know.
REBECCA!!! THIS IS THE OPRAH IN YOU COMING FORTH🙏🏾 THE BITS AND PIECES YOU SHARE HAVE BEEN THE NUGGETS THAT INSPIRE ME THE MOST. WHEN YOU ARE COMPLETELY VULNERABLE IS WHEN I KNOW IT IS POSSIBLE TO GET TO WHERE YOU ARE! THANK YOU & HAPPY BIRTHDAY🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰
Rebecca I thank you for speaking with love and compassion. Your comment about Kevin Samuel was so well said. I didn't care for his way of speaking. However, my prayers to his family.
A wife Loves a man to his core, Selah! Men and Women we have to do the work! Rebecca thanks for sharing your heart and wisdom, God bless you! #WorkMasterclassAbundance# amazing
I decree and declare, that I have the heart of a wife. ❤️
Amen. 💙
I am so blessed to hear about your family history of marriage and legacy building!
I’ll be turning 45 in July and marrying my 3rd husband the same month. I have a daughter that married at 20 and has been married 6 years. My grandmother is twice widowed and married her second husband at 52. I also have an uncle that married his second wife after being a widower and she was 80. Keep in mind, it is said that a woman is more likely to die in a terrorist attack than get married after 40. That is the reality and you have to be a special woman to attract a masculine energy provider after 40 because men over 40 have a lot of options to choose from.
A wife can extend a man's life by 10 years, she loses 5 years but still out lives him and a loving wife is willing to make that sacrifice for the man she loves... that's what a good woman, a great wife brings to the table. Above all else, how much is 10 years worth to a man? That's a scientific finding. I didn't make that up.
You and your family prove that men marry women " up in age " daily in spite of statistics.
Your statement is ridiculous and absolutely not true about a woman is more likely to die in a terrorist attack than get married after 40.
@Dr. Alia Dixon, Nurse Practitioner What’s the percentage of your anecdotal experience happening Dr. since you claim the statement you referenced “contradicts”?
@@thelmathomas9399 According to the census bureau.. overall after 40 only 1 out 5 roughly 20% get married. That number is close 10% for black women. So not so much a “terrorist attack” but there’s a 90% chance its not happening.
You have me in tears Rebecca as I am an empath and only want the best for people. I see s lot of me in you. Thank you for being your authentic self and sharing your wisdom and God given talents with us.l🙏 ❤
There are many genuine similarities in view points that beautiful Auntie Rebecca and KS had. There’s just so much more compassion 💐 that comes through her spirit. I’ve changed my life because of her and her wonderful Mr. Pope. Living with abundance and becoming a woman who lives closer to God’s is me becoming my absolute best self. I don’t have to chase anyone anymore, I now attract the love that comes to me and it is beautiful 🙌🏾
Everything you said in this video is my reality when it comes to dating especially in Houston. After losing my mom as well I had to rebuild emotionally, spiritually and physically. Two years later I’m just now starting to feel like myself again. I have a lot of hope. Thanks for sharing. ☺️❤️
This is a sister from Ethiopa 🇪🇹. Thanks Mrs ,this is a blessing.❤
I am in tears listening to this! 🙌🏾💯‼️‼️‼️
Thank you so so much. I've been listening to your videos every day and you have renewed my hope for love and marriage. I'll keep doing my work and healing so my heart can open up again and love again xox
Aww love! Thank you for the feedback. You are my WHY. 💙
First of all, you are a natural beauty. You don't need to be "done up" to share your wisdom with us. LOVE this word!!!!! I really needed this today. I just love the way you revere and dote over Mr. Pope. It's a testament to the bond you have, really beautiful. I am so glad to have found this video today and I thank you.
I love it you said a mouth full. You want to be treated like a lady, "act likeone." I love having my doors opened for me. I smile & say thank you for being a gentleman. I truly appreciate it.
The most beautiful marriages I’ve seen happened in the peoples late 30s, 40s and 50s.
Rebecca this was beautiful and SO needed!
Yes, I have had mind blocking statements saying that "I don't need a man", but in my heart I have always wanted to be married. I have served the Lord for many years. Though I am very happy for my family members, I have thought what about me Lord to see people getting married and having long term relationships and I still have not ever been married, and am now in my 40s. At this point, I am trying to stay encouraged, and keep the faith that I will find my own Man of God one day...
Thank you Rebecca for this💖💖💖💖💖 touched my heart. Thank you.
For every woman complaining about being single there is a good man who they are ignoring.
same as the other way round
stop being so daft
Ms. Rebecca you hit on the head. My parents haven been together 40 plus years and due to Diabetes and other co-morbiliries my Dad can no longer live on his own. He is currently 76. After God, if it wasn't for his wife(My Mother) my Dad would have been the old man that you find dead 3 weeks later. Real talk
Rebecca this was powerful and I received every word that was spoken!
I appreciate your help, I think the new group of men are different, but the advice is appreciated.
There are still wonderful good men. They exist. 💙
His followers aren’t upset we are rejoicing his life the people that didn’t like him hurting because they know they still have to wake lonely, and out of shape men and women
Anyone can get in shape if they want to, and being single doesn’t mean you’re necessarily lonely. Just like being in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re happy and fulfilled. It’s interesting how many men seem to worship the idea of codependency with a woman. Kevin Samuels followers almost never talk about the idea of healthy relationships, just about dominance and codependency.
Queen, your wisdom is priceless!! Thank you so much🙏🏽💕
Wow! This is such a blessed word and what I needed to hear and gives me hope for marriage one day👏🏾
Rebecca, I appreciate you and Kerry because you are both authentic, compassionate and humble.
Queeen! let's goooo!
I think before any dating coach tells BW what to accept, I think the focus needs to be solely on healing men above all else. The pimps, fake HVM coaches and manipulators have done more damage to an already deeply-hurting male anti-woman at worst or man-above-everybody-else at best culture. Keep on the men and then we can address women. We have seen more harm done to us by them than the reverse.
Exactly. She's like the rest, in our for a money grab and fame. Pay attention. Genuine people will rise above this.
Carey is so lucky to have you.
A word I needed tonight .
Thank you for this. My heart has been hurting for the world too ❤❤❤
Thank you so much Rebecca. I received this message, much appreciated.
So Many Facts!!!!
Thank you for sharing your story Rebecca! 🎓🙏💜
Auntie Rebecca, will you all please do something for men? We ladies do all of this work on ourselves, and the men aren't equipped because they haven't done their work. Also will you please do a video on staying away from toxic men and only being available to healthy men? Some women don't know that only a certain type of man deserves to even be entertained. We can't submit to projects to work on. Not saying they have to be 100% because we all are still evolving, but women are sometimes forced into their masculine energy by awful men.
My new dating workshop will cover about picking the right men. And yes, we will be working on programs for men through our non-profit.
@@RebeccaLynnPope Thank you. ♥️
THIS! This entire video 👏🏿✨👏🏿✨👏🏿✨👏🏿✨👏🏿✨ contains jewels of wisdom. Thank you for defining what a wife is and what a wife does and what a husband is and what a husband does❤️ Wives and Husbands are specialists at unique skills and abilities and contribute different gifts to marriage. Thank you Mrs. Pope!
Love how you speak to us ladies your so real. Thank you.
Thank you love 💙
Whew whee!! Great message and testimony . Thanks for sharing ❤️🙏🏾
Haha when she said Toad, I swiftly fell out🤣. Mrs Pope honestly, I feel like it's hopeless for me, I have extreme faith in everything (God), however not in other ppl and especially men. I've been working extremely hard on digesting, owning, and learning from my trauma and that includes therapy. My tolerance and patience is extremely low for romantic relationships even though I'm quite fem, kind, and considerate. I'm not experiencing any men that are worth the troubles of being bonded with, I don't mind allowing them to lead but I'm not attracted to arrogance or bigots. I'm currently trying to determine if I really desire to just simply be alone, I'm not sure yet but I have no fear of what's unknown to the present moments.
The more healed and awake we become the more isolated we can feel. I've been there. Just know that God has people for you including a man. 💙
@@RebeccaLynnPope Thank you for understanding!
Good morning!! This message encouraged my soul...🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰🥰
@34:30-35
Proverbs 31:11-12
[11]The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain.
[12]She does him good and not evil All the days of her life.
People have a right to NOT mourn him but folks definetly need to watch their thoughts and words.
Thank you Rebecca!!!
This was so good Rebecca
Thank you so much Rebecca! You are truly heaven sent!
Thank you do your beautiful perspective.
People won’t remember what you said, they will remember how you made them feel. It’s so sad KS died not knowing what I believe he sought for with all of his heart, a successful black family. May His Soul Rest in Peace 🤍🕊
Thank you....praise God for this message
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Thank you for this
Thank you for sharing I love this ❤️😊
My GOD, when you get emotional about the way your spouse LOVES YOU, THAT'S GOD ORDAINED!!
Great video!!!!
God blessed this lady so much wisdom ❤
She shook the room with this one 🖤
MY DUDE THE GOOD DOCTOR K.A.P. IS AN EXTENTION OF GOD TELL'EM REBECCA! THIS IS WHY I LOVE THE POPE'S!!![999]
Hey Rebecca, here's hoping you see this...
I'm a NY black man, 29, red pill aware but also grew up going to church. Thank you for this testimony. I really felt that when you said ego Edges God Out.
I'm gonna have to come back to this video a number of times, lol.
I wanna get to making 6 figures and travel the world as a single man before I "settle down", and I have a clear and direct path to doing that as of this year.
My dating life has been very fun and successful, from studying and learning about the social dynamics between men and women, and being a guy who can understand and empathize with women, actually listen and pay attention to what they say and do, and be affectionate and eventually a smooth talker, I've seen way higher success than the average man for years now, and I see how I can take it higher in my own way. It wasn't always that way. I was introverted. I built myself to do better and be better for myself, and that's an ongoing process to this day.
The struggle comes in when I realize what I want and what God wants.... Most likely isn't the same.
Esther 1:20
[20]And when the king's decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire, (for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small.
YES YES YES!!! Much needed to be said!!👏👏
Much needed, thank you so much 💕💕💕.
This was soooo good! Our lives parallel! I am grateful to the man who sent this to me!
Men who earn a lot of money are able to be incredibly picky when it comes to the looks of a woman. Those men really value women being in great shape.
Thank you for this. I needed to hear it. ❤