When A Narcissist Loses A Real one

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  • @1010QUEEN7
    @1010QUEEN7 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    Loving a narcissist is the same as loving satan himself

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I don’t disagree ‼️

    • @manningconey1247
      @manningconey1247 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@1010QUEEN7 EXACTLY 💯!!!

    • @SylviaAmpah
      @SylviaAmpah 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🤝🏼

  • @viewerwatching5712
    @viewerwatching5712 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    When that mask falls at the end and you see those black eyes and that smirk like a Grinch, you know that you have been dealing with something from the spiritual realm. It's mind blowing and hard to understand that you have been dealing with a fake person for 20 years. I still scratch my head to understand that these demons do exist.

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Man !!!!! 💯💯💯💯

    • @letnothingslide1969
      @letnothingslide1969 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I know right ?

    • @SylviaAmpah
      @SylviaAmpah 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Nothing but TRUTH.

    • @angelanicoletti3330
      @angelanicoletti3330 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Preach it🙏 `What shall we say to these things, If GOD Be for us, who can be against us´. Amen

    • @uniquelove6326
      @uniquelove6326 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It’s kind of funny that you said the Grinch because that’s what the one I’m with calls his self or the Tasmanian devil and both of those things fit him and his is ok with it and yet most of all everything she talked about in this video is like she is in the house with me with the exception of 1 or 2 things I don’t let him talk to me crazy and I will and do ignore the hell out of him and yes it drives him crazy and it’s up to some times 7-14 days ooh I’ve learned to deal with him lol🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @1RUTHGroup
    @1RUTHGroup 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    My sister, you are on point when you said "real ones try hard to make it work~" We do try bc we sincerely care--we sincerely love!

  • @Amazinglady60
    @Amazinglady60 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    They know that they are evil ,evil and don’t care I believe they love to make us feel very insecure .😟

    • @DeniseHSmith222
      @DeniseHSmith222 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Amazinglady60 it should re seemed like he enjoyed breaking me down

    • @letnothingslide1969
      @letnothingslide1969 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@DeniseHSmith222he did enjoy breaking u..my ex wife loved seeing me hurt from her cheating she purposely did things to see my pain and loved it .. I could never figure it out and how could some one really get a high on hurting some one on purpose.

  • @truthseeker5941
    @truthseeker5941 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    She ain't lying. I saw this with my son's father. We were his blessing after his mom died, I met him a year later. This was God's blessing to him, it was meant for me to guide him into a better lifestyle and to love him through his traumatic past. However, he chose narcing, hoeing, and cheating over love. He did get married and had more children, but he had gotten on hard drugs after I left him - he said to cope with the loss - and was on them his whole life. He tricked his wife into marrying him, an IV drug user but he looked healthy and super fine so you didn't know, eventually she left him after years of his cheating and going back and forth to jail and drug use. He died alone, with HIV, and on hard drugs. It was pitiful. People need to be careful how they treat others, some folks are your Heavenly sent blessing, and when you dog them it never will go well for you again in this life.

  • @truthisinfinite8
    @truthisinfinite8 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I'm loving that leather in those seats! Fresh new ride, i see 😎

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Thank you ! One things for certain GOD is real ! We are WINNERS 💯🤗💕

    • @SylviaAmpah
      @SylviaAmpah 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Indeed! Winners NEVER quit.👍

  • @DeniseHSmith222
    @DeniseHSmith222 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Even now I still pray for him and I still have compassion for him because I feel like it has to be a very miserable person to abuse a person who only loved them. I have compassion for him but not enough to ever be with him again I just pray that he’s delivered from that evil spirit and learn there is a better way to live and a better way to treat people and accept love one day without conditions.

    • @dwlsn93
      @dwlsn93 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They are not ppl. This is the mirage. They are demons in human form. If you could only SEE beneath the human skin - do not feel sorry for them. They have less than no feelings for you - only what they can get from you - including and up to your very life!

    • @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq
      @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Amen🙏💜

    • @angelanicoletti3330
      @angelanicoletti3330 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Have compassion for yourself.

  • @SylviaAmpah
    @SylviaAmpah 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    You're glowing, Mami. ❤

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Sylvia your such a beautiful person 🤗🤗🤗💕 we all glowing with over here 🤗🤗🤗☺️

    • @SylviaAmpah
      @SylviaAmpah 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you, Mami and we owe all the glory to the most high God. Amen.

  • @DeniseHSmith222
    @DeniseHSmith222 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I have tears in my eyes as you’re talking because it’s like you’re telling my story😢 I still love him but I could never be with him he has a very violent temper and it seems like he hated me because I was not what he expected me to be but I loved him the best that I could everything that God told me to do I did it

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      This touched me! You’re speaking on what many of us feel !! 🤗🤗💕💕

    • @DeniseHSmith222
      @DeniseHSmith222 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@mamisotrue 💜💜💜

    • @MonicaChristian-ei3zh
      @MonicaChristian-ei3zh 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@DeniseHSmith222 this is me to the tee. I feel they are "wasted men"..I used to wish he could be him w/a secure persona & leave the narc stuff alone. Nope. He's violent, got a temper, insecure as hell & move like a HS junior. Can't have fun w/them for real cuz they're draining. Run! When I see the narc stuff anyway, I don't engage, just observe. I move w/ppl of compassion.

    • @DeniseHSmith222
      @DeniseHSmith222 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MonicaChristian-ei3zh exactly 😰 it’s very sad but life has taken go on

    • @DeniseHSmith222
      @DeniseHSmith222 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MonicaChristian-ei3zh ❤️💯

  • @carolovesteven
    @carolovesteven 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I have so much compassion for them but I believe the Bible. The Bible says that God is shown to every man. Jesus said he brought light into the world but men loved their darkness so much -they loved their evil and did not want the light. Majority of narcs are reprobate minds. They believe they are the “god.” God done and blown their candle out.
    🕯♥️. I agree with you on the supply. An authentic person is not an easy find and that l♥️ve we carry-it’s a gift from God. Not easy to replace.

  • @dwlsn93
    @dwlsn93 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Girl…. That first 1:18 minutes got me! “Relationsh💩t” for sure!

  • @yourstruly1984
    @yourstruly1984 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    On point❤
    I was the one loving, caring, putting in all the effort and taking the relationship seriously and sh't😢
    Whole time he was exploiting the love I had for him, he never had any intentions on actually investing into the longevity of a healthy loving successful relationship.
    Day by day, I get better and better. I'll never get played like that ever again!!!!

  • @1RUTHGroup
    @1RUTHGroup 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    So appreciate your honesty. To all on this platform--stay narc free. Experience peace!

  • @anitanash7777
    @anitanash7777 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hi from NSW Australia… Just found your channel… Thank you so much for this message. I’m struggling after brutal recent discard - I even felt suicidal. It’s been really hard , I don’t understand why he did what he did. The most awful pain I just feel so sad.
    You radiate love, beautiful. May God keep and guide all truthseekers❤️🙏🕊️

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Your hair is beautiful!❤❤❤

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @SylviaAmpah
      @SylviaAmpah 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Absolutely!

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you beautiful ladies 🤗🤗💕💕

  • @HerDestiny
    @HerDestiny 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I separated from my narcissist (aka) *Frankenstein* (aka) *Satans Son* 30+ years ... tho he continues to sprinkle a trail of *devil dust* near and far mainly to disturb my peace. Starting to call family members. (The worst mistake I ve ever made in life). Staying Prayed up. 🙏🏼❤️☀️ Blessings! mamisotrue. ❤️✨

  • @MegaNarcotics
    @MegaNarcotics 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thank you. I was lost today overthinking .It felt like the message was for me not to give up on myself. Thank you for putting back in focus.god bless you.

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    144000 of us 🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @meanimeconingles
    @meanimeconingles 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love from Argentina, sis.
    You speaking facts! My mother and father are both narcissistic. I pray The Lord free me and allow me my opportunity.

  • @user-xl1kt1zu9s
    @user-xl1kt1zu9s 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Relation-shit😂
    Indeed! 💙✨

  • @Laur-Elcrowned_with-Laurel-145
    @Laur-Elcrowned_with-Laurel-145 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I agree! Thank you Sister! God bless us all! ❤

  • @ronaldcoleman3239
    @ronaldcoleman3239 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    MAMI SO TRUE WHATS UP THOUGH, YES I GOT CAUGHT UP WITH SOMEONE WHO LIED THERE WAY INTO MY LIFE WITH HELP FROM HER SO CALLED FRIENDS,THAT I BELIEVE WERE HER LOVERS AT THE TIME (WOMEN INCLUDING HER BOSS)THESE PEOPLE THINK WERE SO DUMB BUT WE'RE NOT WE JUST HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED A NARCISSIST SITUATIONSHIP,THE DAY WILL COME WHEN GOD OPEN YOUR EYES TO SEE WHATS REALLY GOING ON,THEN & ONLY THEN YOU'LL START TO HANDLE YO BIZNESS AND YOUR BUSINESS OVER STANDING YOU'RE IN A SPIRITUAL WAR WITH A REAL LIFE DEMON A HARD PILL TO SWALLOW,BUT WHEN GOD HIMSELF SHOWED UP YOU REALIZE HOW SERIOUS THIS IS GOD DIRECTS YOU OUT OF HARMS WAY RESTORES YOU TO HIM, THESE PEOPLE HATE LOVE NOT TO MENTION THEMSELVES

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Spot on warrior !!! God is gooooooood! We survived and we are still real ones 🤗🤗🤗🤗💕

  • @deezsugah
    @deezsugah 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I literally considered taking my ex narc back. He tried to convince me that he changed. Well as you know these people if their lips are moving -they are lying. I showed up at his house thinking that he was stuck without a cell phone that was supposedly sent off for a replacement under warranty. When I knocked in the door he came out and closed the door behind him and said he had company. I said I KNOW and walked away! His eyes were dark and he looked sick - for some reason that was the last time I could even look at him the same way. Don’t ever take them back and don’t sleep with them - they will sleep around. I saw the demon and it really scared me. DONE AND DONE

  • @DeniseHSmith222
    @DeniseHSmith222 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hello my beautiful sister I’ve been watching your videos and you are such an encouraging and uplifting young lady. I had never even heard the word narcissist until this marriage. we were married for seven years and they’ll be started two weeks after we got married I have very minimal site in my right eye because of the abuse. I often told him that I felt like he abused and mistreated me for being a good wife. I never sought revenge I just always held on the hope that he would change needless to say it only got worse. God taught in this marriage that I love myself more than I tried to somebody else but he also taught me how to love unconditionally. I had even looked underneath the couch cushions to see if I could find some more to give but it was never enough. So I realized that I had to let it go in order to save myself now I finally have peace. Now I just have to try to find myself again because it seems like I lost myself trying to hold my marriage together. But as we know God is so good he’s so merciful and nothing goes to waste when you’re connected with him thank you my sister for your encouragement and for your dedication to educate us on narcissism🙏🏻

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Thank you for sharing this! It felt so real to hear that we survivors are not alone! You said it so beautifully sister. Much love and light in this healing journey 💕💕❤️‍🩹

    • @DeniseHSmith222
      @DeniseHSmith222 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@mamisotrue thank you so much beautiful queen I went back and had to edit some words I was speaking in the phone instead of typing. I can’t find my glasses so my eyesight is not so good but I love you so much and thank you so much for all that you do we need you continue to do what you do for us is much appreciated.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You got this, I survived 20 year marriage with a female narcissist. It's now been 10 months since I left and 10 months of no contact. I have good days and bad days, I still ruminate daily, I still have anxiety attacks, arthritis pain, etc.... However, my skin is glowing again and I have peace finally. Nothing compares to peace of mind!

    • @DeniseHSmith222
      @DeniseHSmith222 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@viewerwatching5712 💓 THANK YOU SO MUCH… yes I do have days where I think about the times that were kinda good but also how short lived they were. I see pics from memories on fb and I feel a little bit of sadness however I have no tears 🙂 It’s only been 2 months no contact and I must say the healing is not easy but it’s so worth it. I see my glow and confidence coming back daily 🙏🏻

  • @babesadams2991
    @babesadams2991 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I testify! I was super emphatitic I have genuine concern for her heart and soul tho I know I was already being treated poorly on continue to rebuke and correct my ex. It's so worse that when she said I was her resting place I thought it was positive but it was to suck my energy. I was always feeling off when I'm with her I feel like I was dealing with different person whenever were talking. I had mental and emotional trauma. While healing her and accepting her but when I had courage to step out cuz I cannot stay with her wrong doings. I seen worse she a mix of poison and unfaithful servant with demonic energy. This narc never learned. It's hard to block her cuz I have emotion and love for her but I did that before my soul be in danger. It's too much lies, indenials, gaslight and evil behavior and ungodly perspective that comes out of her mouth. The confusion she gave me is to the highest level tho the relationship is short live I feel it was intense. When I expose her, she got rage and ghosted me then comes bck and emotionally blackmail me and falsely accused me. So I had to rebuke and just say all the truths I observe and how it affects me how she is mentally ill. She then say, u think or told me I'm evil I say it is what it is. No hard feelings. Then I blocked. 💔💔☹️😢🙏 this human experience give me spiritual lesson.., I really thought I was being love but being abused in reality.

  • @felixobiang4820
    @felixobiang4820 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The mask falls and the evil narcissist could no longer hide her lies.

  • @rashidarowe7882
    @rashidarowe7882 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He always reaches out with the I love you, I miss you, we build a bond 🙄 while in his new relationship he got into 4 weeks after I left him.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why don't you have him blocked?

    • @rashidarowe7882
      @rashidarowe7882 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@viewerwatching5712 i do, he calls from different numbers

  • @TravisCharles-tm8yk
    @TravisCharles-tm8yk 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Hello beautiful i love all your content it motivates me thank you very much

  • @bvad7884
    @bvad7884 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're so right, I'm the only girl that got this man to go to church

  • @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq
    @InnocentPufferFish-wn5zq 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Halleluyah Holy Spirit Thank you Always 🙏💜

  • @samuelsullivan2782
    @samuelsullivan2782 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man you Good....blessing you are. ❤

  • @supervincemus
    @supervincemus 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My ex lost a good one. She already has her new supply. I feel bad for him. He’s already being love bombed.

  • @goldenwarrior5664
    @goldenwarrior5664 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Damn your so right .

  • @user-em3wn9qv8v
    @user-em3wn9qv8v 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank You Beautiful Sister 🫴🏾💖💐

  • @clandy4323
    @clandy4323 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your words are encouraging mami ..God bless you❤❤

  • @LoveWolves777
    @LoveWolves777 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    another great message, I took her to the mountains ⛰️ and she felt at peace and I told her because she is in God's creation and the world nastiness is silent . After the discard I moved to the mountains and now she is in her own misery with her fake friends fake family, that could give a flip about her. I told her the only one that can help her heart is the one that created it. It's up to her now between her and the Lord. I am just thankful 🙏 for being set free from the lying, cheating and manipulation, from her.

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Damn ! See there’s no way you can tell me she will ever come across someone who cared that much about her sick ass !!!!!! Thanks for sharing ! The mountains is beautiful and peaceful damn what a goofy she is 🤢💕🤗😂

  • @HarrietMbayia
    @HarrietMbayia 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm at a discard Now.still together but oh my.

  • @burymeinbaldwin5896
    @burymeinbaldwin5896 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Boss talk! ♍️ 👊

  • @melanatedunique
    @melanatedunique 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @easylivingwithniecy4317
    @easylivingwithniecy4317 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Target 🎯

  • @handfulloflove
    @handfulloflove 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So tru

  • @Kwabgives
    @Kwabgives 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wow

  • @aliceidiculay1841
    @aliceidiculay1841 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    ❤❤❤🙏🙏❤️❤️🐐🐐♌️♌️🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️

  • @545chris
    @545chris 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @P1REALTV
    @P1REALTV 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯💯❤️

  • @alonzoneloms5651
    @alonzoneloms5651 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ms. Mami, i wish you have a well screened site! That the Real Ones only site. That would be a chance to get with Real Ones! Depending on their desire and age group! I wish i could be that Miracle/ Gift. To this person in the Real One's group! I have Unconditional love 💕🫂💯. Always have been that way! A Narcissist has to totally give their life to Christ! They need to Repent, Confess, and receive the Requested Indwelling of the Holy Spirit of God. Someone who specialize in Spiritual Warfare! Can administer this process of God. Pleading the Blood of Jesus Christ. On their Bloodline. The Generational Blessings! Pleading the Blood of Jesus Christ. On their bloodline. All the way back to the Garden of Eden. Pray to God for the Fruits of The Holy Spirit! New Testament Galatians 5:22-23!

  • @alonzoneloms5651
    @alonzoneloms5651 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is always said. Ms. Mami wish i would have met you years ago! Way before all the craziness.Good Men or Women feel like they dying on the vine! After a Narcissist? Let that make sense? God is the Supreme Force of the Universe! God is the God of a Second Chances!! Redeemer of the times! Joel Chapter 2: 25-27 That's what's up! A Constant Prayer life!. When we stay before God. God will take all of that toxicity/ burdens away! He will refresh our Minds, Hearts, Spirits, bodys! I don't fast during day. Just at night before i go to bed. My prayer to God. Lord, i declare a Fasting tonight! To break All of the Cords and the Chains! That the Devil tries to place on the inside of Our Minds!! Known as The Battlefield of the Mind. Low self esteem, Doubt, Unbelief, etc. Any and all things spoken against us! Smooches! Much love to you!❤❤❤

  • @oliviasoliz5983
    @oliviasoliz5983 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My ex I was always there for him and he stopped talking to me 2 months now he got a new one I took him off Facebook I don't to see him with someone else 😔

    • @mamisotrue
      @mamisotrue  24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I understand! The site of them with someone can be gut wrenching !!!! Whew 😥

    • @oliviasoliz5983
      @oliviasoliz5983 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mamisotrue yes and all you did for them 😞

  • @HazleEyes84
    @HazleEyes84 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This real deep for me for real I felt this soooo much! My love was so real for him 🙌🏻💯 god knows it was! 🙌🏻💯🙏 @Mamisotrue