Why Leaving You Never Goes Well For The Narcissist
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Its not hard to let them go, when you think about this fact. I gave pure love to this person with no ill intent. They repaid that love with evil and hatred!
Wait a min,… yea, that's actually a _Great _ Point!
@@realluethank you
That's exactly where I got to and though it still takes a lot of work to heal from it, once you realize that hard truth, it makes going no contact much easier and makes the healing work more effective.
I feel you I did the same thing I was there for him I took care of him I gave him almost every penny that I made and almost lost myself in the process he was in jail at the time he came out and went to his mom's bosses house now he's doing her the same way he did me now she's calling thinking he's here but he's with somebody else and he's had many somebody else's in between that apparently he didn't care a whole lot about didn't stay that long or possibly he goes around multiple people's houses he's also a sex maniac he is also gay I found out so it doesn't matter girl or guy I think he's more of a girl's guy but he'll take either way it's really sad he was cheerful and happy loving kind said all the right things that I've never heard in my life that's why it hurts so bad because none of it was true it was all the game he got a car off of this woman that let him stay when he got home she was a manager at a store he she made him a assistant manager he had it going on he may still have it going on I really never try to find out for sure but these people just seems like they have so much going on how could they ever be at peace with anyone
I UnderStand..
I moved on.👁️
I smile everyday knowing that I was the one who got away... And, I love the fact that he knows that I figured his game out. He knows that I know that he is a phony fake narcissist...
@@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd same it’s a triumphant feeling
@@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd same here I love it I embrace the hate he has for me now lol
@@meplus3117 They're so full of hate that it eats them alive inside. They rot from the inside out. I don't know if you have ever noticed their nasty stench or not. But, the one that I was married to smelled like a moldy, mildewy, musky, damp basement. And, their breath is pungent 🤢🤮🤢🤮...
Stick by no contact and don't respond to any hoovers at all! Act like they never existed and work on being the best you, you can be
It doesn’t go well, because I was so much more to him than he was ever to me. The script is flipped, I went no contact/silent treatment 17 months in. I don’t miss anything about him..the manipulation, gaslighting and lying every time he opened his mouth, he is a bad person.
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The NARC made it easy for me he walked out saying how he found new Supply Heard it Through the Grapevine🍇 he started having all kind of health issues I call it the domino effect I have to say I'm doing great don't you just love it when the trash takes itself out 🤗
HA 😂😂😂😂
Go Girl,enjoy your life, nothing to feel sorry bout,HELL awaits.
Lol facts 😂
I'm so glad he left. I didn't understand what was happening until I got informed about narcissism. It's textbook! He is spiraling now that his main supply (me) went no contact completely. Eight months and counting. He tried every which way to get my attention through his family, friends, emails, texts, anything. It's crickets over here, and he's starving. I thought the worst thing that happened to me was his discarding me. It turns out it was the best thing I didn't know I needed.
Amen Queen you got this, she discarded me after 20 years. It's now been 10 months of no contact and she hoovered me so bad I had to change my number.
@@TheCurlyBeauty I know all about it!! It really is a fascinating phenomenon. Only those who’ve walked it can even begin to comprehend what we’ve been through. To be abuse like this and not even realize it until you’re out of it. AMAZING!! And when you see how, while unique, all of our stories are identical. We’ve all been through the same abuse. And when we wake up!!! When we get educated….,BABBBYYYYY!! They are in trouble!! Ya hear me?!!! Congrats to you! I know exactly where you are. I’m 8 months free as well. Keep going and glowing, Sis!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@LadyLibra-kp8ox You said no lies, Sis. Life got so much better after we got rid of that dead weight! Let's keep thriving!
@@viewerwatching5712 Stay strong! They can be relentless. Let's keep thriving!
When I walked away my narc husband just moved on to the next whom he had in the wing. Act as if I never really exist after 35 years. I am healing and trusting God to restore years wasted.
@@jacquelinedotson9970 Amen 🙏🏾
You’re the narcissist not your husband
@@jacquelinedotson9970 I was married for 24 years to a covert narcissist. Thank you for your post.
Thats what mine did. He married one month after the divorce. She took him to the cleaners and took all his money that I refused to fight for. Hes on his 3rd wife now. 😆
@@robbieogle8622 I was married 31yrs. When I appeared in court for the divorce he told his attorney to put me out the house immediately. He remarried 2 wks after our divorce was final. He filed for divorce with his 2nd wife and now living with his daughter not helping with mortgage nor utilities only grocery. The Lord blessed me with my own brand new home last yr and it been almost 11 yrs being free from that evil man. Thank God!
My divorce from a covert narcissist after 31 yrs was final TODAY 🎉
@@sandraleehurst7350 congratulations 🎊
Congratulations 🍾🎊🎈!! Keep thriving you have been set free from hell !
@@mamisotrue , thank you 😊
Hmmmm, l has fly out and get away from one still following me online
@@TerishaBell , block him
He wanted a WIFE,MAID,COOK ,NURSE,etc.,boy bye: Definitely NO CONTACT.
Mos def!!
That’s part of wife duties if he’s filling your cup too
Never shed a tear for the loser demon!
Are you upset that this is what the average man wants? There is nothing wrong with being a house wife.
@@debra-zs3fk you probably the problem here.
Narc don’t have enough come back sauce to get back in with me!! He slipped up and left a real one that’s connected to The Real One 👉🏾JESUS!! Left the green grass for artificial turf 🤷🏽♀️😏
God is so good!! Keep spreading them nuggets of truth MamiSoTrue❤❤
That part! Artificial Terf😅
@@createdintheimageofgod1584 Amen 🙏🏾
That no contact hurt them to core its part of thier karma 🔥🔥💯 July 5months keep going strong 💪🏽141
The cheating was real they don’t care about nobody but themselves No mean No 😊
He swear I’m such a bad person but he always comes back
@@I_am_her-xu1qf exactly the same !!!
Exactly the same!!!
You are the SUPPLE that he place on the shelf until you are needed.
if you allow it (him to come back), you are. be good to yourself, if he's truly a narcissist.
Exactly but never again
Anyone that can create an illusion of pure love and devotion the way the covert can,can be the same one to pretend to be joyously happy without you.An illusionist is an illusionist all day. No contact is my closure.Let them continue to fake the funk.Circus clowns
Coverts are the worst demons
Facts!@@1010QUEEN7
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I remember my ex saying to me that her mother raised her believing that she could do no wrong. That it was always someone else's fault not hers. So of course she deflected and became defensive when confronted on issues.
The lies, manipulation, ghosting, fabrication and cheating (emotional and physical). Then being discarded.
I'm really trying to learn to forgive myself for being so desperate and staying so long.
Me too
Sometimes I don’t think it’s desperation. We love who we love and we stay for our own heart. We have to leave for our heart too. So appreciate yourself for the ability to love deeply… This way you will show yourself the same love you had for her.
The narc knew I needed to go to the laundry bc I mentioned the washers are not working in my building. He called me and said he was at the laundry washing clothes. That's when I called it quits. He always seemed it hurted him to help me. I was always there for him; I must go no contact. Thanks for the video.
Yea my narc is a covert narc- he is NOT letting go. Doesn't even care if I call the police.
Get cameras 🎥 ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂
Sometimes I get so mad at myself for dealing with so much BS from her….she don’t even love our kids the same since we not together that’s what be pissin me off but I’m learning to give it to god…..
Same here.
The covert left - with a new “yes girl.” Didn’t last long - she passed of an overdose 1 year later. Then, covid & long covid . Relationship destroyed, family broken, business closed. No money. Not able to work -- He was under my umbrella ☂️ of Gods protection on my life & my family’s life. He stepped out from under that protection. His choice.
“He chose poorly.” (To quote an old Indiana Jones movie 🎦).
They need to sell out to Jesus Christ! Only the Spirit of Christ. Can fill their empty Souls! Need a Spiritual support. Those trained in Spiritual Warfare.
One of the times I left the very next day he was begging me to come back! He had done the silent treatment longer than I can remember. Carrying a darkness all around the house! He was acting exactly like he hated my guts, so why are you begging me to come back? Now I understand it's because I wasn't dead yet. Sheesh!!
This has to happen in order for the greater to be received Amen. Thank You so much and MANY Blessings to You Sister ❤🎉🙏🏾
4 decades I've known my narc, never knew for 2 decades he was one, let him bk 2nd time around. So I know I was the Major Supply. Grade 1 and I shall applaud myself for I know he is in profound pain.
11 years of abuse, 2 children the youngest with autism since birth now 8 years old. She don't care and with your videos....I'm thankful for the knowledge and strength. Keep on keeping on Sister, I'll be watching!
HE IS GOING TO WATCH ME EAT, FROM A TABLE THE LORD PLACED BEFORE ME, & MY ENEMIES! FROM A DISTANCE 😅🤣😭
IN NO CONTACT‼️
Yes my husband he will reap what he sow because I have repent and i ask for God forgiveness for the wrong that I have done amen hallelujah
Amen that's why you let them go they already think they have control and power of you but you show them a woman is very powerful and nothing to play with they like the ones who will just go for anything they don't care for a woman who will not go for anything that's why it's called strong and weak prayers for them
I never thought I would say this… I can’t wait to grow older just to see him grow older …. ALONE !
I always pray for and for others and myself and I thank God for being by my side always here on earth and me only want any Narcissists to just leave me alone and stop Hoovering back to me and do Righteous and I know God and my angels warned them 🙏🙏🙏
He left me for someone else I gave my all my heart walked away just like that didn’t even care 14 years ago
Thank you, Today's message RESONATES with me. 💥
Sigma empathetic is the only one who can intimidate the narcissist people ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉we don’t accept lies and deception ❤❤❤❤❤❤love ya girl
My Nex knows he has “serious issues,” but told me it’s “too hard and scary” to want to fix himself.
You have a very calming energy…Very comforting…
Thank you
as an employee I talked to him about uniforms and he wrote it down and promised to get it to the main office and when he denied 😂 that conversation I looked at him and I knew right there I was dealing with a fraud
Thank you for this!❤
So true,they are like that
Thank you for your work:)
Nice piece. Thanks, your lectures touched my life. Thanks for the reminder
Thank you, my Sis. You have been amazing. God bless you.
Thank you for breaking this down because this is a word Queen! Straight facts
Glade to know. I haven’t heard from them since I went no contact 2 years ago after being discarded.
But your 100% right
Thank you so much for continuing to share your insight and stepping it up as God is blessing you!! Keep up the good work, @MamiSoTrue!!
Also wanted someone to lie to lie on call the law lying trying to get me arrested for nothing. Accused me of rape domestic violence burning her with cigarettes. The officers saw right through her lies though and knew I didn't do none of it.
I am blessed to have seen the power and effect of no contact with my brother. He treated his wife like crap. She FINALLY went no contact and his world fell apart. Anyone that will give him an ear he will cry about losing her. Now, she is like a God to him! Now, he can’t function without her. Smoking crack. He’s a straight up bum. We don’t usually get to see the full impact. I got to see it. It is the best revenge😈
I ❤ the shirt unbothered emphath.
You're vibe is healing. I'm recovering from mental and emotional abuse. I could tell my ex is malignant narcicist and more. I blocked her tho I didn't want to, I guess that's the best decision I ever made. It's too much lying, denying and I am always being silent treated. Ghosted. She seems to be thinking all about her security. In the relationship I'm the serious one. I was put onto 3rd party situation cuz she has kids I dont. I'm poor shes rich. I am proudly to say I'm wiser in many terms but not money. I am younger. It hurts bad cuz I thought I had something real and to stick with me for too long with those promises and drama. But she didn't stand for me. She stand for her self and listening to bad advise. I was left for money. Instead of holding on and fixing the issue she said she's suffocated when I correct her attitude and behavior still she creates conflict with her own ego. I suffer in silent and short lived relationship. I got blame, bully and ignored devalue. While I'm all loving, genuine, caring and careful with my words with her. I didn't know how to response when she came back with I'm all her thingking of and her heart. After a month she ghosted me. I blocked her after right expose her. She so mad. I explained it is what it is. She's so disappointed but didn't even approach me professional personally and didn't give me closure. So I did to myself. It's so hard when I was searching for true love and I stumble in this kind of type of partner🥺🥺💔💔 she didn't want to let go but she needs to move on she said. But I cut the cord she even say pls block me cuz I couldn't. I didn't know why I was being push away why she still loves me., and why she can't face me. It's hard I always being left.
Thanks so much for your teaching sister 🤝😍😍
Thank you
Thank you so much for this video. My narc left me and my two kids right when Covid hit in 2020 and I had no support. He left to the military and signed up for six years.
Heyy Queen 👸👸 How you i been busy Got 2 events Comeing up and i worked a Triple So i miss The last 2 Episodes...But I been Doing Good imTakeing it One Day at a Time...Im Tuned In At work...
Thank you❤😢❤
Get video u did a amazing job
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i do worry about hurting his ego by not responding to the hoovers
Make my plate 🍽️ lol like how old are We 😂😂😂😂😂
lol 😂
OMG stuck on stupid… spot on!!! 😂
That’s why they Hoover
He discard me its now a year it stil hurts
Sorry, hang in there ❤️🩹Should’ve discarded his ass😮
That what,I,did:Discarded him,All,I,can say: That's was not Real-LOVE,look out now when you find it,then you'll know.I,thought,I,was in love.,
Tell you what,I,did: it's a secret,no, I'm, kidding,I,when to my best-friend,G D,.What you,I,been through,call on him,FROM THE HEART ❤️,mean what you say with pure honesty, don't play.
Another thing,the number one rule:No Contact,cuz, he's going to try,and,come back,when things don't go right with the next one,next one ,next one.
Hang in there baby,This should give you inspiration to do better,no matter what the situation is,if,you got to go,and,hide in a homeless shelter,going back will be worse, believe me,been there,and, ain't going backwards.
He knows I'm sending him to jail if he bothers me
Why do I feel so hurt? I don't think he cares.
1:28 Lord have Mercy,,,I didn't understand why my wife divorced me just because we argue, then she kept coming to my new apartment the next day,now we kept together like we were still married, then one day she told me she's interested in this other guy,,well the 4th July this year 2024 she came with me to a party,,she left the party with one of my friends of 16 years 😢now all I'm learning is she actually a narcissistic person all these traits, I now see,,had been in her all this time, thanks for this knowledge I will continue to follow,,my heart is broke 💔 no contact I will continue doing
How about when they lose their spouse AND children?
“By the time I get to Phoenix she’ll be rising…………….”
And he discarded me now he is paying for it his loss not mine
Giiiirl dats wassup ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉woke up
Much love Tam!!!💕🤗
@@mamisotrue times a hundred 💯 back at ya ❤️🦁💯🤩
You are looking beautiful
It is two months since I left my narcissistic supervisor and he is calling my number every day and leaving me messages using different phone numbers, I know it is him and I refuse to respond, I think he is using other people in the voice messages but I really want him to feel the pain, at work he managed to build almost a perfect personality, everyone seems to like him, but he was always trying to make people have a negative look at me, I do graveyard shift and I was consistent, the company has always a problem with graveyard shift, so when I started to get attention, he didn't like that, he started to change the whole job description of the graveyard shift and he was after me all the times and when I come to work I found a memo that he put as if it's for everyone but in it always a hidden message to me, the story is long, and there are too many situations I caught him in a lie, he wouldn't answer my phone calls when I need him in emergencies, but he was quick to blame me, that man I realized he is not normal so I quit
They never satisfied in their life but good pretend my his in fourth marriage now. Man getting married in women is home and forget previous marriage. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😮
I know
Mami, I'm,outer here for a minute,Paris,Tx.,
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Mention narcissist women as well too
Narcissist HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MEN OR WOMEN. IM SPEAKING TO BOTH ! 💡
@@mamisotrue
I just heard you say guys when most women are narcissists
Ex gf = grandiose/extroverted Narc
What if they left you for someone else for a while I'll say everyone's for a while do they always come back or do they ever find someone that they'll go back and forth with because they can't make up their mind or what exactly this is just crazy good luck to everyone and God bless you all that's going through this
So sad.......
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Nothing worse than a female covert narcissist. Especially if she’s got a few dollars and big breasts. My ex is now 57 years old lies about everything and I am so happy to be away from her. I just wanted to share on the video learning more about these people so that I don’tfumble when I come across them again
@@honestpainter a few dollars & bug breast is what attracted you ..that was the crack that demon entered.
Hello beautiful woman :)
Idk if he’s actually a narcissist or he just has narcissist ways
Flying monkeys!!
No disrespect, but we were never together.
Anthony 💯💯💯💯💯 @Mamisotrue
The covert left - with a new “yes girl.” Didn’t last long - she passed of an overdose 1 year later. Then, covid & long covid . Relationship destroyed, family broken, business closed. No money. Not able to work -- He was under my umbrella ☂️ of Gods protection on my life & my family’s life. He stepped out from under that protection. His choice.
“He chose poorly.” (To quote an old Indiana Jones movie 🎦).
My God. I told him , he was being spared because of the Grace & Mercy God has on my life, I had to step aside and let God do what he do.