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    Successful communication is at the heart of great teamwork, but words can mean different things to different people. We all tend to project our own biases onto commonly used words.
    Mary and David Sherwin - experts in team dynamics - have devised Teamwords, a collaborative card-based team-building system that cuts through differences to create consensus.
    If we can agree on the meaning of words at the start of projects, we will understand each other much better as we work together.
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    About Mary Paynter Sherwin:
    Mary Paynter Sherwin is a seasoned writer, educator, and public speaking coach with expertise in helping individuals and schools develop rigorous curricula and activities for their learning needs. She has worked on multiple successful training programs and product innovation toolkits, such as Kaiser Permanente’s i60 Innovation Toolkit with Propelland and frog’s Collective Action Toolkit. Along with David, she is on the faculty of PNCA’s MFA in Collaborative Design, and was formerly an adjunct professor at St. Mary’s College of California.
    About David Sherwin:
    David is a design leader, teacher, and strategist with deep expertise in creating new products, services, and training solutions. At companies such as frog, Lynda.com, and LinkedIn, he has led and coached dozens of large-scale product and service design teams, as well as helped to create training workshops and events for clients such as UNICEF, DARPA, and the World Economic Forum. Along with Mary, David is co-author of design bestseller Creative Workshop and Turning People into Teams.
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ความคิดเห็น • 73

  • @shyamsubramoniam8895
    @shyamsubramoniam8895 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Teamwork's intensity can increase if you see your teammate as a friend or companion rather than a player.

  • @roxiechristie8809
    @roxiechristie8809 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Understanding one another job position is something I always try to stress at work. But someone can’t see pass their own job position and that’s why things won’t change.

  • @reddrose9197
    @reddrose9197 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Brilliant idea 💡 I would also like this game in a Relationship version 👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾...

  • @Typical.Anomaly
    @Typical.Anomaly ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Slip some "Cards Against Humanity" in the decks...

  • @goodshiplollipop
    @goodshiplollipop ปีที่แล้ว +11

    All talk no action. Typical middle management.

  • @SonjaDawn
    @SonjaDawn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Open communication is the key to unlocking everything, but people don't use it that way for a number of reasons, fear being a big one.

  • @connie0613
    @connie0613 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this sooo much. Ty!!

  • @dame5179
    @dame5179 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Teamwork is mentioned as important but companies tend to fail to cultivate. If we can better communicate at work and if we can understand each other better as people, we’ll be on our way to building something even more beautiful. Need to rmb that

  • @pablolicata
    @pablolicata ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there a link to buy the deck?

  • @changmark
    @changmark 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could u please tell me the list of words used in the pack of cards?

  • @shelbieayala
    @shelbieayala 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How do you buy this card game?

  • @MrFrak0207
    @MrFrak0207 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I think using "professional" was the worst example to use...who thinks about lunch and clothes when this word appears?! 🤣 competence, wise in a specific field etc. suits better..

    • @Prodigious1One
      @Prodigious1One ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, you're right in terms of work skills, but I think she was mentioning the outside appearance that some people expect.

    • @wispybell
      @wispybell ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Isn't. THat differemce in perspective the point?

    • @fabischn90
      @fabischn90 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Proving the point of the video. What professional means, is highly cultural. Coming from someome working internationally

    • @bloom4096
      @bloom4096 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was actually an excellent example and you’re kinda proving it with your comment.

    • @vishnub6543
      @vishnub6543 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They didn't ask for the definition. So you can just say what comes to your mind when you hear the word "professional". And for different people,they think different things. Like for example if you ask me 'What do you think when you hear the word "lawyer"?',I would say Saul Goodman

  • @chuckmaddison2924
    @chuckmaddison2924 ปีที่แล้ว

    The word professional usually/ normally refers to doctors, lawyers, engineers and the like.
    But there seems to be a trend to apply it to low skill, non - qualification type jobs.
    I believe it's because they can't say they are qualified but still take payment.

  • @raghugrinus4779
    @raghugrinus4779 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don’t have any cards to play.

  • @idontknowanypotatochips3849
    @idontknowanypotatochips3849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow... Impressed

  • @raghugrinus4779
    @raghugrinus4779 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am sick and tired of being hacked all the time

  • @mvexler
    @mvexler ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is the word team generally understood?

  • @rwfeller
    @rwfeller ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Try the game “Who You Are Matters”… builds on this and much more depth…

  • @CoryMckinnonHandle
    @CoryMckinnonHandle ปีที่แล้ว

    Design thinking belongs in every facet of a business.

  • @RP-nc6et
    @RP-nc6et ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SHARE THE BOOK NAMES

  • @DK-ic5uc
    @DK-ic5uc ปีที่แล้ว

    what are these 44 words?

  • @raghugrinus4779
    @raghugrinus4779 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My wifi can be accessed by only the surrounding to it that’s my understanding

  • @haveaniceday23
    @haveaniceday23 ปีที่แล้ว

    Professional is someone who works in a profession that requires skills and knowledge

  • @importantname
    @importantname ปีที่แล้ว +1

    does it improve profit margins ?

    • @RP-nc6et
      @RP-nc6et ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you human and monkey?

  • @TheSkystrider
    @TheSkystrider ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't think going over a handful of words is sufficient. I think it takes a ton of time and effort to build team cohesion and agreed commitments.

  • @bradytimmons8921
    @bradytimmons8921 ปีที่แล้ว

    where could I buy it??

  • @Ron.xionzre
    @Ron.xionzre ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is what happens when teamwork becomes a metric instead of genuine collaboration effort to achieve a goal.

  • @minbh7965
    @minbh7965 ปีที่แล้ว

    You spiked it ALL over!!!!!!
    But the bear thing is - you both were collecting it together as well!!
    Now that’s a teamwork!?!!

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We appreciate your effort and dedication on this channel. God bless you.

  • @sebbiefn8205
    @sebbiefn8205 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U just gotta pursue a state of flow/mindfulness/critical point/, where u experience the moment for what it is, and when you feel that there is a disconnect in the group's experience/understanding of the moment/idea, then you clarify the intention/wording to get everybody back on the same page so that you can work as a team effectively. Being in the same moment (common understanding of the facts). And understanding ideas in the same way is vital for good teamwork.

    • @sebbiefn8205
      @sebbiefn8205 ปีที่แล้ว

      To understand/know ur teammates is imperative to resolve issues in communication

  • @BPBomber
    @BPBomber ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤨

  • @United_Wings
    @United_Wings ปีที่แล้ว

    👌🏼👌🏼

  • @erickouhai9818
    @erickouhai9818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is a great idea. Each of the team members should first define the meaning of "a team" or "team work". And then, they will have to agree to a single definition so that they set boundaries as to what they should and shouldn't do. It's give structure to the team. It's somewhat obvious when you really think about it, but it's the key in having a good communication.

  • @love-wisdom
    @love-wisdom ปีที่แล้ว

    This is awesome.

  • @craigmerkey8518
    @craigmerkey8518 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting, this just reinforces my decisions to not work in corporate America! No chop chop chop thx

  • @skrnjacul
    @skrnjacul ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact this shit has so many positive reactions is everything you need to know why corporations can fuck with workers

  • @josee1984
    @josee1984 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Corporate America...

  • @darenalleyne466
    @darenalleyne466 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

  • @patmchale
    @patmchale ปีที่แล้ว

    That's the way to downwind. Mad props. What gear is he on?

  • @sewmika
    @sewmika ปีที่แล้ว

    💪💪

  • @6_nikki_9
    @6_nikki_9 ปีที่แล้ว

    KEKW

  • @gemeinschaftsgeful
    @gemeinschaftsgeful ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Funny that the bosses are not on the team. Makes the team concept seem like a manipulation.

    • @BigHenFor
      @BigHenFor ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not really. I don't think you're experienced delegated teams, where there is no bosses involved in the work. In fact, a lot of the bosses wouldn't know where to start doing the work. Most organisations have also eviscerated their middle management and supervisory roles to save costs, even in processing work. So the team doing the might be all operational staff at the same grade. So, no bosses are required for team work.

    • @BornAgainstAll
      @BornAgainstAll ปีที่แล้ว

      This really depends on the role the boss has to take. If your boss has a delegation role rather than a leadership role it's fair and expected for them not to be involved with your team. However, it would still be productive for both of you to participate in this game with each other as it will help them learn how to better delegate your team; hopefully improving your relationship.

    • @chuckmaddison2924
      @chuckmaddison2924 ปีที่แล้ว

      Management do team building exercises.
      The difference is that at the lower end of the workers, they don't show them how to lead the team.

    • @tiroles
      @tiroles ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BigHenFor I don't know about that. What I see more and more is more micromanagement and people who actually do the job being fired and all the bosses staying right where they were.

    • @MrAbstractj
      @MrAbstractj ปีที่แล้ว

      If bosses or execs were to play this game, you can bet on a few Wild Draw 4 Card from a Uno deck. The only thing is, the bosses are the ones that are holding those Wild +4 cards.

  • @francescos7361
    @francescos7361 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks , I appreciate but I prefer to invest in data science , statistic observation , industrial economy .

  • @ErinWeblover
    @ErinWeblover ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Interesting that something as simple as adjectives unrelated to the project the group is focused on can foster the beginnings of better communication. I seems to me the idea here is to provide a central starting point for individuals to learn how each communicates best. Not only are they learning individual preferences, but also how each group member expresses themselves and communicates these preferences. I'm guessing both aspects help improve efficiency in the group. Excellent suggestion.

  • @quangdungpham4289
    @quangdungpham4289 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your content recently are really touching. I am really enjoy what your channel doing. Thank you

  • @r8chlletters
    @r8chlletters ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’d absolutely hate a job that asked me to dive into my “feelings” in the workplace. Just give me my job and let me work. I’m not showing up for a therapy session! If we are all being honest, the issue with work harmony and flow isn’t with our language, it’s that a class of managers justifying their jobs needs to get out of the way so people can actually do the job they were hired for.

  • @buymyrv6517
    @buymyrv6517 ปีที่แล้ว

    I only want you guys to do it if you’re actually helping me not hurting me

  • @2d271
    @2d271 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks useless to me