Gotta love how Alana's legitimately asking if the amount of shit people were saying about the male loneliness epidemic was 'real', and literally everyone in chat is like "That isn't just real, that's an average Tuesday!"
More horror stories for you. I visit a writing sub on Reddit a lot and a woman posted a question specifically asking about how to show that a secondary male character in her story was lonely in a realistic way. The most upvoted comment was someone saying he should probably unalive himself halfway through the story, have the incident brought up, and then the story just moves on as normal. And this wasn't being upvoted in a "Yeah, screw him" way, it was a "Yeah... that is how it is..." or "Too real, bro" kind of replies and upvotes.
To make it more realistic, also add a bunch of women being extremely defensive about it, even if it doesn't involve them at all and saying "men's feelings are not my responsibility". And on the same breath saying how women are oppressed and society needs to do more for women.
Women aren't taking advice, they appear to be. Hoe_math explained about how women tribal mindset works. Each woman knows the truth, but they will 'agree' with each other on the surface to avoid 'conflict' or having their competition understand and start working on themselves.
32:35 Saying “It’s a man issue” is crazy because if anyone says “those are women issues” they would immediately be labeled as a sexist fascist! Do these people not hear themselves!?
They do, they just think it's ok. It's the same thing as them saying it's ok to hate white people because they ruin everything, in fact they don't even consider that racism just payback or something. 😂 These people are legitimately insane.
Lets put it this way, johnny depp is one of the most attractive men in america, he got still backstabbed by his wife and divorced. The decaying state of the dating scene is not the fault men.
it is, we are the ones that shape society and therefore how women behave. they can CHOOSE to be better, but why should they? most men are willing to support they livestiles of degeneracy
Don't feel bad for Depp and don't feel bad for Heard. When you're famous you should know the risks. Young women will date and marry older men with money hoping to inherit that wealth. Depp of all people should have known that but still chose to get married anyway. He could have married Winona Ryder or stayed single. He could be a cheater for all you know as it's not uncommon for famous men to cheat. Both people in that relationship could have been unfaithful. What you hear secondhand is almost never 100% of the story.
@NoraIconiq he won the case tho? If you think there will ever be a day anybody has 0 risk of this happening to them then stay sad and keep pouting but nothing will change life is boring without taking risks hasn't every piece of media ever already told you that
I feel like a problem with this conversation about porn is a question of chicken and egg. I don't think men are looking at porn all day and thus not going out and pursuing women, but instead not pursuing women and so using porn to substitute what they weren't getting. Like, think about it. If you spend decades telling men how seeing women sexually is wrong, telling them women don't need them, telling them they have a privileged advantage, and telling them they're essentially inherently evil because "apparently" until the last 150 years or so, all women were subjugated by men, then why WOULDN'T men decide not to engage. Some men reject the message and decide they don't want to pursue a gender that hates them. Some men hate themselves so much that they can't get the confidence to pursue women romantically. And some see themselves as so inherently evil for thinking about women at all sexually that they don't want to pursue women for fear of bothering or hurting them. Porn is not a cause, it's a symptom. And the biggest problem is that, unlike in past centuries where huge numbers of lonely men would lead to destruction and mayhem, we have relative peace because men are being sedated by all the various nick nacks and porn we have. If you get rid of the things sedating men before FIXING the real cause then it will backfire horribly.
That's why i'm here laughing my ass off watching the left making movies, videogames, sports and hobbies woke and shit while also importing millions of unsedated men. They're creating their own destruction. It's already started, young men are going right, started hating the alphabet cult, started noticing what their parents and grandparents had that they'll never be able to get because of leftist policies and notice women are pulling more and more left. Add to that, they're now surrounded by migrant men who don't give a shit about western women's rights, how do you think that ends?
yeah that's right corn is a sedative if a man have a wife/girlfriend that give him constant smex corn would just be a rare spice in life because smex is better but over 20% of young men are virgins and many married men are smexless well there are more but I am to lazy to write it all
yep. I can remember back in the early 10s when MRA movement had some attention. every time someone held an event advocation for men's rights a bunch of feminists and SJWs would show up to protest it, shout the speaker down, pull the fire alarms, bang pots and pans.
Yeah, because us fixing our problems would mean curtailing "women's rights" substantially. As we should, to be honest, by introducing responsibilities to go along with said "rights". Having rights without responsibilities is what got us all into this mess.
You know things are getting bad bad for men's mental and physical condition when you begin to observe then finding comfort in virtual things to compensate the lack of affection and meaningful human interactions. People just want to be happy and have affection, attention, relationships, food on the table and housing, not follow some political guidelines or ideology. Unfortunately, computer generated illusions are all that's left for many. Waiting for their demise without leaving anything behind while using illusions as painkillers for the harsh reality is all many can do.
@tuulenkoti you need an example of people needing each other. Otherwise it's just a waste of air You can't just place a raging queen and dirty weak hungry peasant in a room and "but you need each other, be friends"
Yup. Over time I'm just finding more & more reasons to stay single. Its peaceful. I enjoy my solitude. Plus I have great friends & a great family, & I take part in a local community walk to keep me grounded. All women have ever done, every time I've been with one, has caused stress & various other problems. Seen them fuck friends around also. There really isn't anything to get from it that's worth the headache.
"Men have all the power an money" Actually not. MOST MEN aren't the top 20%. And, research show that competent women have an easier way into managerial roles these days, because of all the quota rules etc. It's mostly the older generation who are the "most men," where as the younger generations of men are falling behind. As for murder? A lot of things would indicate that crime and murder is done by the lower echelons of society where people have less hope for the future. So... by making men lose out even more in society crime will probably start to increase.
@@RaderizDorret One way to improve family court outcomes is, if you've already lost everything, might as well do a murder-suicide on the front steps. In Minecraft, obviously.
“The people who seem like they care are the people who are selling them shit.” If that ain’t the most universal, accurate, and depressing statement I’ve heard in a while.
it might be mostly true, but there are real people trying to help, they just much less well known, here on youtube for example you have the "The prim Reaper", and a few others
Technically she was one of those crazy feminist types trying to prove men have it easy only to discover the total opposite was true, after discovering the truth started to hate women because of how badly she was treated as a man and was eventually driven to suicide.
Considering the internet exists I wonder why more women dont try to pretend being a guy but just online. Ive pretended to be a girl and much has been learned.
I did the maths a while ago, the chances of finding a male who is 6ft or over, earns over 100k per year, and is unmarried was like 0.7 percent of the American population, and that appears to be the criteria most women use on these dating apps even women who have well and truly hit the wall and are morbidly obese it's insane. Then men look at these impossible standards, realise the game is rigged, and just decide not to play the game then people act surprised. Would you participate in a sport where every rule is set again just you and your team where winning even modestly is a miracle? Or will you just stop playing? I tried conforming to the expectations of women and society and just ended up feeling alone, depressed and suicidal. Atleast now my loneliness is self imposed, and I am not nearly as depressed as I was as I set my own goals which are actually achievable.
That feel when you are the 0.7% and you still get no love irl other than buying a lot of single women dinner. Now i just support vtuber anime girls and come out ahead financially 😂
Dude, that’s women on the internet and the deluded minority on dating apps. The average woman in real life is happy with a dude who’s well-groomed, charismatic, employed and not fat - and even then, those some of those criteria can be over looked depending on the woman. Each of those things are doable, so think about how easy it is to stand out in real life! Don’t believe me? Look out your window or at your friend circle, or at couples in public instead of down at your screen.
And notice how many of them have their fingers in the pies of media, controlling what people desire through movies, tv, and social media...........The rich want this sexual confusion because they realized if we all woke up, we'd realize they've been playing all of us and it would be time to eat the rich. They want us all confused, horny, desperate, and sniping at each other.....
telling me "dont be a nazi" or "get consent" and playing it as legit advice to tell me is, to me, implying that you think i have the propensity to be a nazi rapist. and i dont want to be around people who think of me so poorly simply because im a dude.
I think the worst part is typically that you can shout out into the void that you just want someone to be your friend or someone to care about you, and all you are met with is strangers with no voice or face telling you that "they care about you". I struggle with loneliness myself, but seeing people write this is just pouring salt into the wound IMO. They are empty words and nothing else.
Bro, you have no freaking idea how true your words even are The ones that do that are well-meaning people that sympathize with you, but that’s as far as it ever goes, when what’s needed is someone who cares about you *personally* , not just someone that just empathizes with a person in pain Caring about people is different than caring about a person
I would consider myself a pretty caring and empathetic guy, so like my immediate instinct when reading posts like this is to say "I do care" and other things to try and help you feel better. But at the same time I know exactly what you mean and like you said my post would only just be platitudes from a voiceless/faceless rando on the internet. I can't really do anything to truly help, only try to convey that I hope things get better for you.
And funny thing is, the more you want it, the more people run away in name of "desperation". The desire is "real and active" but people prefer to have it "passively and naturally". This is I feel like the biggest paradox of relationships.
They actually have great videos of Joshua Graham reading an audiobook format of Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, Miyamoto Musashi's Book of 5 Rings, and Sun Tzu's - The Art of War as well. 👍 I'd definitely recommend them
There is a problem when people in general are making a bunch of motivational AI speeches of characters they like. Specifically talking to guys. About acceptance, self love, self improvement, filing taxes (The Master Chief explanation of how to do taxes being that easy to understand for 3 minutes says a lot about this stuff) and so on.
@@RED_Theory038prayers out for the poor woman. I hope her family is well and it truly gives imsight on how bad some countries have it with men. I live in finland which is known as the happiest country and we have huge social network for men and women, but even now we are seeing some men getting lonelier as time goes.
Hell it traumatized her out of existence, she ended up toping herself...... she went for hardcore man hating feminist to hating women in 6 months of experience as a man.
As a 5-foot 5 latino man, I understand and accept that unless I travel abroad, I will never be someone's ideal. It doesn't matter how much weight i lose or how much muscle i can pack on. All i can do is work to build a life for myself and my rescue dogs that i will dedicate my life to giving the love they deserve.
You're doing something I wish I could, but one day I might. Take care of those dogs, my man. Out of all creatures on Earth, at least dogs will actually love us. "Man's best friend" for a reason.
I turn 31 today and have never so much as held hands with a girl, much less done anything else. Just once I'd like to know what it's like to be wanted, desired, and loved by a woman...
Find your third places that line up with your interest my man. Try to be friendly in them and if only for yourself alone try to be the best you, you want to be and can realistically be. It is going to be your best shot. While complicated I finally ended up meeting someone on VR Chat of all places, when I wasn't trying to end up with her. It can happen unexpected even if later in life, good luck.
I think the big thing is to understand and cope with the fact that it's never going to happen. It's (probably) not really your fault, that's just the way things are. Am I happy about where things are? I've got some hobbies I enjoy, and I see my friends often enough to not go crazy. I think that's the best a below-average, average, and even slightly above-average man can hope for, these days. Depressing, but that's the truth. Much like none of us feel bad that we aren't movie stars or whatever, because it's so laughably unreachable, we need to start viewing women the same way. It just ain't in the cards, and that's just how the world is right now.
@@Wirmishsame things happening over there too outside of the Philippines. I’d argue they’re a good 10 years ahead of the west. Korea, Japan, and china are toast
Honestly its kinda nice to see that there are still women who actually give a shit about men. From my experience (Which to be fair is mostly restricted to the internet, my neighborhood and mostly feminist female family members) its a pretty uncommon sight to see.
Exactly, all my friends abandoned me when I had it rought prooving my peoples proverb, arround a full table many "friends", only 2 girls stayed with me, but sadly bough of them have boyfriends.
Side note: The Match Group owns Tinder, Hinge, Okaycupid, Plenty of Fish, and "many others" from what I've found. This explains why theyre all the same thing and work in the same way. Just wanted to put this here! I dream of a competitive market.
23:56 I love how women it is acceptable that once a month they can be an emotional mess and can live in their emotions nearly all the time but a man speaks out on their emotions once and they get murdered for it.
@@bhart3321 I never argued that men don't I was simply stating that women get let off Scott free more even if they are a raging mega bitch because it is their time of the month then men get for speaking up about how fucked their situation is.
@@Taz-ey4jl I am fine with people talking their emotions but a sign of maturity is not being controlled by your emotions. If your not a functioning member of society simply because you cannot control yourself is a major issue. @bhart3321 never said that men don't get periods but when a women can be forgiven for being a raging emotional mess because it is their time of the month but a man gets bullied for having emotions is the point I was making.
17:10 I use to have friends back when I was in education, after leaving all my relationships degraded rapidly and disappeared. Looking back I’ve only ever had surface level relationships with others. Now it’s just me, myself and I.
This is the bigger problem I think. Everyone is constantly moving or going to a new school or college or work place. How can you develop longterm relationships when you'll see few of the people you knew in grade school in high school, none of them in college, and then maybe one or two when you get a job?
@@SpecterVonBaren In theory, that's the purpose of social media, but it is incredibly difficult to maintain any closeness via online means. Especially once they get jobs and simply have no time for that anymore.
@@nygomi8652 Like, looking just at the Vtuber sphere shows this too! Someone leaves a company and it causes a lot of people to lose touch with that person even if they're still doing the same thing they always did.
@@guyg.8529 nobody's got time. You want to socialise? That's gonna be an investment of several hours and about a hundred dollars, and you have to squeeze it into whatever time you're allowed to have between work and sleep. And good luck finding anybody else who can even match their schedule with yours more than once a year to do that.
@@louissteyn6871 Oh that is 100% true. However the reality is that complaining about it does not help. We need to jump straight to acting, which many have not done.
@@actuallyKriminell Right I think we should set the definition. When saying society, most of us think "a group of people", not the vague entity that also includes culture and stuff. We're referring to a group of people that act a certain way and influence each other.
"Yea but... Hasan's not a person lmao". Based & literally true ;) Also "if us VS them (in politics) didn't exist, society would be in a better place" MEGA based.
the latter is not based. It's inherently against human nature. Politics is basically people deciding how to live as a society. And in a democracy, obviously everyone wants to push for what they think would be the best, which is what benefits them, either out of ignorance or lack of care for the repercutions. Then, it's only natural to try to get numbers on your side to push what you think it's best, with others that agree. Us vs Them is the natural result of democracy.
@@denkerbosu3551 He ain't talking about "democracy" he's (and Alana) talking about satanizing the other side and only picking one because of bias, way to miss the point, also democracy isn't supposed to be a "versus", but a general agreement, even your first point is a failure.
I’ve known 8 men who have ended themselves, and 1 woman. Of those, only the women, and one of the men showed any signs before. I know several other people who knew men who had offed themselves, and none of them had said anything before either. That whole “they’ll start giving away possessions, and reaching out for help” schtick. That’s mostly reserved for those that are looking for attention. Anyone who’s actually contemplating it or is about to MIGHT seem down for a while, then some also become suddenly happy, but for the most part, you can’t really tell. In cases of PTS leading to it, they’re a bit more telegraphed due to the underlying symptoms of PTS, but PTS isn’t that common in the average person either.
8:1 just like sc statistics in my country. NOWAY they don't show any sings coz you'll be called weak by everyone and no one's gonna give a damn about you. You become weak, you get some illness and/or disease people more often leave you than not if you're a man. You're replaceable if you're average or below others still bring more wage sl!!!ves here or just take them from other sources. That's sad that I always try to help people even online and call them from time to time because I got lucky and experienced empathy from 1 person who also suffered for some time in my life to then get abandoned despite my best efforts. People who had it easy can't have a proper empathy in my opinion.
8:1 just like sc statistics in my country. NOWAY they don't show any sings coz you'll be called weak by everyone and no one's gonna give a damn about you. You become weak, you get some illness and/or disease people more often leave you than not if you're a man. You're repl@ceable if you're average or below others still bring more wage sl!!!ves here or just take them from other sources.
I’ve heard somewhere that “people that seem happy the most often are the most lonely”, and it hit me, I always try to crack a joke, lighten up the mood, smile a lot etc. but f*ck I’m dying inside. It’s a coping mechanism I suppose, and yeah of course you won’t talk to anyone, especially work colleagues, because opening yourself to someone to such degree, sharing your very thoughts, that’s not something you can do with anyone.
I wouldn't call it attention-seeking it voice your emotions. Seeking help isn't attention seeking. Plenty of people just hate lying. Or know that not venting that emotion will just lead to self-death
60 years ago? Psh society has crumbled the way it has in less then the last 20 years. I'm 40 and even when I was still in highschool we still ate dinner at the table as a family, knew all the neighbors, all looked out for each other too. Hell we had Spare keys and door codes for like all the neighbors around us even. You could leave your house unlocked, car in the driveway with windows open and keys in the ignition and didn't have to worry about it. Shit is nothing like that today. Hell most people don't even know who their neighbors are. When I grew up the neighborhood all looked out for each other and kept an eye on all the kids to make sure we were all safe etc. Also made it hard to get away with doing bad shit lol
I remember a moment where we accidentally left the front door open, and we had no idea. Must've been left open for a while, I guess. Suddenly we heard someone call out, whether we were OK. Yup, someone (I think one of the neighbors) saw our open door, and checked on us. We live nextdoor to a restaurant, and once we got a call from the restaurant owner, saying our car parked in front, got hit. A customer had the wits to make a note of the car's license plate. I called the cops, the cops went to the owner of the car and it was an old lady, who said she hadn't known at all that she hit our car (she broke off one of the side mirrors). Her insurance paid. The lady customer who jotted down the license plate left her address and phonenumber to us in case she was needed. She wasn't, but I went there and gave her a big box of chocolate as a thank you. Sometimes, living in a small town isn't so bad.
Sadly those simpler times are gone yet I miss them very much being born in the 1990s things changed and not for the better I still remember when facebook launched I thought this would change the world for the better how fucking wrong I was 😂
some feminists can see the irony of telling a man to man up, and they stop. others see the irony and for some reason feel empowered by the double standard.
A lot of us are just stepping away from society now, it's so much nicer being alone and happy than watching these broken men being dragged around, it's amazing how much you can do with minimum wage as a single man but you need six digits to maintain a single woman... for a while. As an older guy who's experienced a good life maybe even one of the best ones, it's got to suck for today's men having nothing to look towards.
You know, in order to fix these kinds of problems requires one simple but rare thing: you have to care about people. Not 'issues' or 'society' or some nebulous 'positive change'. We need to actually care about human beings, and believe that a person has value simply because they're a person, or we will never fix anything.
A lot of people are going off grid, moving to places where they only see one human a month or less, some people have not seen another human for years, just online communicating
@@BigGainer98 learn gardens, and plants,find a good place with a water source,, and look carefully read the zone and fine print carefully, also watch out for flash flood land,, trees are important, you use them for everything, learn to cook on a cast iron system, and how to fish
Exactly why men are single too so many women slut shame women for finding a guy loving him marring him n being loyal to him hince why women think we aren't worth it but really there going through something men also go threw for settling down it happens to us by our own people because we Don't treat each other as humans anymore because we're afraid of losing friends to love I lost my highschool friend JoJo to his marriage but u don't see me saying he's lame for marring and settling down
17:04 bumble is dying because lately women haven’t even been going for the top 10% of men, just the top 2-5% and in some cities just the one percent. It’s way worse today. 13:00 no he’s right. It’s just making the problem harder to fix. Fightclub was a cautionary tale written by a gay man 30 years ago concerned with his fellow men’s condition. By today’s standards I’d say he was optimistic. Today, there would be no female romantic interest, he would just degrade further and harder. 18:15 Alana it’s worse. 60% of women are dating 20% of men based of data scraped from dating profiles. It gets even worse for specific groups of people. 20:55 what she doesn’t understand, is figures like Tate and Peterson are preventing much worse figures from taking their place, the supreme gentleman was worse than either of them, and 10 years ago I thought we’d have hundreds of men following his footsteps but with figures like Tate, ironically isolated male violence has gone down and most mass killings are just normal deranged people. 45:29 yeah. I sent Tenma $200 in October after a woman I’d been talking to daily for months disappeared because the last year of her degree was stressing her out a ton.
I can understand the hate for andrew tate. But I don't understand the hate for Peterson. Maybe I just haven't looked closely enough but doesn't Peterson just mainly self help? Like just clean your room and then your house and then start doing X and Y and then when your life is in order then you can go and make healthy relationships. At least that;s what I've understood Peterson to be unless I'm just missing something I don't see why he's bad unless you just have the opinion that people make him out to be smarter than he is or something which I think could be a legit criticism but I don't understand how that puts him the same group of thought as say Andrew Tate.
@@Name-nq7tjpeterson pushes literal nazi conspiracy theories and climate change denial and he's very much in the same basket as taint, he just uses bigger words and word salad to cover his disgusting views
@@Name-nq7tj he's anti trans, the whole pronouns bs, argues for conservative values, marriage, not be a 304 (to both men and women, lol) I personally dislike how most of his speech is aimed at men instead of the larger voting population that votes for the current society to stay as it is. He's a cuckservative that will insist on the "everyone has issues" but won't recognize most come from one side.
@@Name-nq7tj "I can understand the hate for andrew tate. But I don't understand the hate for Peterson." I can understand the hate for both of them; just because I can understand a thing doesn't mean that thing isn't fundamentally irrational. If anyone hates either Peterson or Tate, it's because they're a radicalized leftist. I strongly disagree with some of the things Tate says, like I don't like how he focuses on materialism, I don't like how he calls certain men 'losers' if they're not making a certain amount of money, but overall I see Tate as a net-positive. I see Peterson much the same way; if Peterson had his way, all men would go back to being the servants of women and he would call that good and heroic. I don't agree.
@@StupidAnon-gn8ih The way I see Peterson's view is that he's telling men how to act in a healthy, RECIPROCAL, relationship. The problem is we live in a system where that causes you to get taken advantage of. His advice can only work if society is fixed.
Not exactly. If she’s a woman in a successful relationship, surely she has SOME insight into how to communicate, cohabitate and cooperate, and please a man.
@@TheTsugnawmi2010 You KNOW that's not who's actually taking on the jobs of "dating coaches", though. They're a meme for a reason. Dating coaches are town bicycles, everyone's ridden them and they can't maintain a relationship what-so-ever.
@@TheTsugnawmi2010 Certainly some women are genuinely good dating coaches for other women. But "is in a relationship" isn't some kind of proof of competence at all. If a woman is just not stupidly picky, congrats, she's in a relationship. Or even if she is stupidly picky but she was lucky / born with good genes, congrats, she's in a relationship.
Yes, its so accurate that out there there are likely barbers that play flight simulators every day and have watched all the free learning materials online aswell as every major crash report.
lets give ShoeOnHead a salute for shifting through all the twitter sludge she had to work through in the editing of her video, hot dang there's some doozies in there lol
I was once engaged. I've been on dating apps, and they all suck. Most, if not all, require men to pay for premium just to see who likes you. Women don't need to pay for premium. It's really not worth it. Dating in general might not be worth it.
Tell me about it im watching a fox who broke out of a mental asylum at 4:19 am 😐 im almost 21 and haven't even held someone's hand let alone anything else. Kindergartners have gotten farther than me😭
@@jakell4711 24, same. Though at least I'm a college grad who's starting the career ladder now. I won't be homeless or without my 40k plastic crack, but alone forever. Them's the shakes, I guess.
You're concerned about hands at 21? I got suddenly assaulted by affection only at 24 Never thought of a woman, when I left house, all thoughts were left watching some stuff occasionally...
Credit where it's due for being quite possibly the first woman i've ever heard to bring up male suicide without immediately jumping into the "but women ATTEMPT suicide more so that means women have it worse" argument.
tbh, all i ever wanted is someone who cares about me, since i never experienced something like that, be it my family or "friends" i had, they always came to me when they needed something but never for just me being me
Brother, it is better to be alone than to be tied with someone who is deliberately draining you of your resources while banging half the town behind your back.
Yeah, when you start questioning your own thoughts and thinking weather you’re going insane, being soft on yourself or a mix of both, yeah it’s probably not good.
@@Maalithian I'm actually start to feel it. The last irl friend I had passed away a bit over 1 year ago. He was my age and we had common interests, but he had more of a social life than me, so we rarely met. Maybe once every 2 months or so. Now I legit feel alone and miserable.
Honestly the fact that women are allowed to talk about their problems but men can’t… by all means if you feel you don’t need to talk, don’t, but if you feel you can’t do this alone, everyone deserves to have someone willing to help, even if that help is just listening.
Post-nut Clarity actually makes it worse sometimes. Cuz usually, you think about yourself. And thinking about yourself too much is usually the cause of depression
Not for me mostly cuz ina way I did have sex in my mind with what ever person I masterbated too ofc I mostly do that to a video game Carter because I don't wanna do some slut who will just bang anything with a penis
Now yes it's in my mind and no I can't have children with them but hopefully technically will eventually create a way to live in such world of a video game ie cyberpunk or fallout 4 and have a family inside of such world and make money etc that can be brought into real world so that through money earned u can buy things u need IRL cuz in real world if u have enough money u can buy a mail order wife in forgen country's witch is what id do if such could exist tech wise
Stuff like the twitter montage shows is one reason why I don't bother with romantic relationships. Another is the horror stories of women ruining men's lives with false allegations. Try to woo the wrong woman, have fun being labeled a creep to the whole world, or worse. Then there's gold-diggers using prenup-divorce womb o-combo to take all they own, etc. And of course, the statistics showing an uptick of narcissistic personalities (because of social media), who would definitely do shit like what I'd just mentioned. I'm sure there are plenty more reasons that can be listed. In summary, dating feels like walking a tight-packed minefield, that is getting more and more filled up with mines. Who wants to deal with that? Not me, that's for sure.
in terms of male loneliness, I'll put it like this. I'd rather die a lonely man, then die having my name dragged through the mud or having fake ass people pretend they cared about me only AFTER I'm already gone. For me, it's not even really the fact of me not wanting a female in my life, but I've been fucked over so many times by "lovers", "friends" and "family" that I am happier being alone. Loneliness is nowhere near as bad as having my heart shattered and trust broken at every turn, this is something I've learned through experience.
One man's advice for men. If you feel bad and want to talk to someone about it, never do it to a woman, especially if it's your wife or girlfriend. They will lose what little respect they had for you and leave you. If you want to talk to someone about it, talk to men. We are not assholes like the feminists are killing themselves to say, on the contrary, we will listen to you because we know. The men cry yes, but alone in their rooms. Take the hits and be strong!
> We are not assholes like the feminists are killing themselves to say, on the contrary, we will listen to you because we know. Lmao, no. Dudebros are the same manipulative POS as women are, if not even worse.
Most women yes but my dad does and my mom has never lost interest in him yes he's a stepdad and yes she says it's true love but it all comes back to knowing your spouse fully
Actually I'd say to talk to your girlfriend about your struggles as soon as possible, if she loses interest in you because of that she was a bich that was not worth your time and you get to dodge a bullet before it's to late, better alone than married to an asshole
I heard about this stuff so much a year or two ago. And since ive basically gone full "Hikikomori" since C-19 i have no idea what the real world is like rn. So kind of a bummer to know nothings changed.
We're at the end where most male don't want to interact with the female, and just do their own things. The female became mental from stress, eating their own babies IIRC, and chad mouse just go around smashing. The difference will be, the mouse utopia got free food, and just living. Real world need infrastructure maintenance. Would be fun to see when everything start breaking apart.
Idk man, Holzkern seems pretty based for being willing to sponsor videos that are otherwise controversial. Don't have any of their watches (though they did look nice the one time I saw them at the mall) but I'm down for sponsors on controversial videos.
@@ryanh7167 well maybe controversial in America because everything is political there, but yeah no same obviously, I just like how she plays into the irony in that whole part
@@easylemon2547 the mall I saw Holzkern in was in Austria as an aside. I don't know if they have physical shops in America but I saw them a lot in Austria and Czechia. I get what you are saying though. It probably shouldn't be controversial but America is a bit crazy at the moment.
@@easylemon2547 I'd say longer than that. It's been crazy for about as long as I've been aware enough to notice it (so closer to 20 years). I think there's a lot of very deep things happening in America driving the craziness (the rapid rise from being one of the bigger players to being the world empire in less than 100 years, the complete lack of competition after the cold war and then rapid deindustrialization, etc.). In some ways I like living in Europe and have had the luxury of doing so for various work contracts, and yet something keeps bringing me back to America regardless of how much I enjoy Europe. Edit: I'm aware none of this matters to you. Thanks for reading my blog.
This video is some what right. I don't have the addiction but from just watching my family and talking with them, i can say guy 1 was in a divorce, 1 was recently cheated on, 3 couples arguing. I said if this is marriage,I'd rather die alone.
Individualism is the name narcissists give to their toxic habits when they want to be praised. It's why western liberal republics were never going to succeed in the long term against the collectivistic, orderly societies of Asia.
Just more proof that genuine hate and disgust for some people is a very natural and even justified emotion that doesn’t need to be explained because of how obviously deserving some people are of it.
basically, in short: women these days has been sexist and men cant be (are not allowed to be) sexist back. for me personally, that hate just goes into a pile of nothing. or in other words, i dont care enough to stress about other's negative thoughts. and i think this is good advice to other men out there. dont listen to hate, listen to critiques. (P.S got somebody cookin in the reply section, if you wanna argue just put up factual information and f off. no need to continue the argument)
Really don’t think this is the case bro… let’s not try to make this a blue vs pink thing dude. men can absolutely be sexist, it’s silly to think otherwise
@@jonafloppa8336of course, but men see a lot more backlash for being sexist, you can get easily banned from the platform, loose a job even, meanwhile there’s plethora of women saying insane, absolutely insane things about men and they thrive, even mainstream media can be incredibly sexist without much pushback, I’m sorry but on this one women are enjoying incredible entertainment and double standards it’s not even a question.
@@italianspiderman5012 I would have contention with the idea that sexism in women and men are the same, but Yeah I agree that misandry is more socially acceptable in mainstream ideas (and I do thing it’s cringe) but I really don’t think that it’s without pushback considering the popularity of people like Andrew Tate and Sneako where where men are increasingly becoming radicalized. While yes I think women saying “I hate men” on twitter is cringe and needlessly divisive, but I don’t think that’s enough to tell the whole story of the gender wars.
@@jonafloppa8336 definitely, there is pushback, that’s why the likes of Tate came to be, toxicity breads toxicity. I wouldn’t say it’s “cringe”, it’s sexisms, full stop, even you yourself trying to downplay it, why? I remember that Conan O’brien show, where a Hollywood writer told a story of what is wildly accepted as sexual harassment, then firing the victim, and everyone clapped, people thought it was hilarious, because she was a woman that did it to a man, if the roles were reversed, if she was a man groping a woman and then firing her, he would be finished. There’s a clear double standard, after decades of being told “it’s about equality”.
@@italianspiderman5012 im not really "downplaying it" its because like i said i don't think sexism in men and in women are the same.... when women say "i hate men" it isnt taken that seriously, cause it's (most of the time) not really serious. its mostly just a stab at men in frustration. when a man says "I hate women" its taken more seriously due to the malice that men have had against women. idk about you but i have been in both male, and female friend groups and the way men talk about women is pretty unbelievable. that being said can a woman actually hate men? yeah, but considering we live in a pretty male centric society it isn't as harmful or as malicious as when a group of men talk about women in a dehumanizing way, than a women saying "men are bad". cause im not worried about people on twitter or conan obrien or whatever im more worried about people in charge with our laws and legislation (which is mostly men) I would like to reiterate that people shouldn't in general talk about the other gender in a dehumanizing way. i think it can only lead to malice and vitriol in your life. people have had bad experiences with men and women, but we should have level headed ideas about problems we face regarding our gender, and not turn it into a blue vs pink thing.
Realistically, get rid of alimony and child support and youll see marriage and relationships soar. Ive seen too many divorces to see where marriage goes. I think i only know of one marriage thats held up from people in my age group, the rest are on their second or third marriage or have given up altogether.
I believe that a reason that this is happening is the focus on the self. You know, the "if your friends dont believe in the same ideology that you do, then they're not your friends." Or the "if your husband doesnt like [thing] then you should dump him." This lack of compromise and focus on "MY mental wellbeing"(when few people have been mentally sound these past few decades) is- what I think- the catalyst for the focus on the self. Then there are all of the other issues that spiderweb around this like the internet's ease of access, misandry, misanthropy, economical issues, and everything else. I dont think that there is a single issue that is a direct lead to this shit and in turn will either send it into overdrive in the coming years or it'll be a huge undertaking to fix.
The thing with "pathriarcal society" is that is hirarchical. Like miltary service. The mayor eating cheese with wine tell you to be hapy at least you got caduce MRE. This has been for literally the whole of society. Goes back to even greece with Plato teaching bables while slaves clean his ass and farmers who lost their arm in war is homeless for not reaching the tide requirement. With industrialisation, cities become bigger, so now you have ecosystems with THOUSAND more people. Thus the whole "individuality", "self made", "you can also be a millionaire", is all hirarchical. Woman? Woman are trophies, notches in belts. Tho, now woman have been integrated to the factor, so now woman too are becoming the ones at the top and others at th beottoms. Why you thinks the "girlfailure" and "female incel" has become more present. Woman are not as much trophies, so now have to deal with reality of hirarchy. And yes, i know woman already had some hirarchies in groups, now is just institutionalize.
People don't care about men. That's why sc statistics is 8x ratio in my country. You're replaceable show signs of weakness and you gonna get abandoned. Get some illness, disease and unless you learn to deal with everything by yourself you gonna lose. That's the sad reality. Now I'm alone and learning to live by myself, excercise, eat healthy and talking with people (especially those after hardships) without judgement and trying to cheer them up even while I'm dying on the inside.
I have little to no local friends cuz they either moved away or knifed me in the back and my local area is full of treacherous types or people I'd never get along with. I think one of the reasons there's a loneliness epidemic is the unfortunate thing being that infidelity has become more common and has made both men and women too scared to form attachments as they've been hurt more than once in most occasions. I rarely hear my online friends say their relationship ended because the spark died and they mutually decided to end it and I hear way more "they cheated" and most of my relationships ended the same way. My last relationship was with a girl I knew for a long time, didn't stop her from sleeping with damn near the whole town while we were dating. Biggest thing society can do is create some kind of social consequence to cheating. Even something as small as choosing not to associate with that person does *something*. It won't solve everything, but it'll show those who were once afraid that they may have a chance to get back on the dating scene and that there are good people within their community who have a sense of morality that helps direct them of who is trustworthy and who isn't.
I'd blame politics for the friendship recession, id blame that female choosiness distribution with evolutionary psychology, the fact they're constantly shopping around for something better and exacerbated with social media inflating their ego, having never learned the ability to choose and commit beyond the traditional communities some are born into
@@A_reasonable_individual42 yeah but it's been particularly extreme recently. I mean the progressives could get people to abandon their families over a presidential vote, of course friends too
Ngl, i am sad Vaush is known for the horse and loli shit now, there are much better things he has done that can be laughed at, like arguing with somebody and grasping at straws so hard he says "aqua isn't the same as agua" because the word is written differently when the other guy just talked about water
@@Honerkamp Yeah, i mean that people hate him but they fixate on loli and the horse, age of consent and other stuff that came from him they hold so loosely.
One thing people get wrong. This is not just a western issue. China and India are having similar but different problems with this for different reasons. But it's the same basic problem. People talk about South East Asia with this problem like, "oh look, this small country there doesn't have this issue so it's a western issue.". Forgetting that the two countries with a combined population of 3 billion people are undergoing a major societal upheaval. India, gunna be honest on this one... kinda deserved. If I was a father of a girl I wouldn't want my daughter marrying into the Indian system. The sexism problem is different there, so much so I don't even think it should be labeled the same thing. China on the other hand. The One Child Policy that favored men has given the dating app statistic discrepancies of here an actual physical form in the brick and mortar world. There really are less women, and this has led to so so so many problems with men there. This is a worldwide issue with pockets of something that could be considered sanity.
due to westernization, india actually isnt really sexist at all anymore. Women are literally bullied when they are housewives or take traditional roles in half the country, and they promote education and job training heavily. The marriage system is also mostly love based not arranged now in most parts of the country except for extremely poor families with no choice. The women is also mostly treated with respect in the modern age, shit, the situation is biased against men in places like kerala and almost all large cities. People think india is the same place socially as it was in 1950, its weird.
Huh it funny u mentioned that I even prayed to God at my lowest when struggling threw this very problem for him to re create the Adam and eve thing whith me and my sex doll witch I bought with my COVID check witch was a temporary fix cuz yes she can't love me back and yes she can't have kids but at least I have something to cuddle and cry too about my woes hince why I advocate for buying sex dolls as it's not only a sexual relif tool but it can help emotionally somewhat aswell
Another problem is that men in tighter circles were defined by what they do or accomplish. But nowadays, because of so many people, it doesn’t make you feel different to another person, like you don’t have different skills or things to bring for others. And women can have those jobs now too, which is not a bad thing. But that adds more to not feeling different individually.
"And women can have those jobs now too, which is not a bad thing. " You don't think literally doubling the labor pool with a bunch of people who will be sexually interested in the members of the work force that are already on the job is a bad thing? Just thinking about it in plain language makes it sound like a terrible idea, and the results speak for themselves.
that kinda thing was all too real when I was in a california university, I even had a teacher who outright said stuff like "all men are trash" on the regular it looks like satire it really isn't
I honestly don’t know what to do as a man, other than just work my exhausting job and sleep, squeeze in the side aspirations when possible, and save what little money I have left over instead of date, because I cannot do both. What am I supposed to do other than pray? A check mark in the voting booth isn’t going to change this.
Yes true but let's say your vote actually puts a Republican in office and due to that u get job u earn enough now to afford a mail order wife then the problem is fixed but remember in future no vote no hope for happiness cus all it takes is one missed vote for bad people to end up in power for us men
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"If you're sad or depressed, hide it. No one gives a shit. Be a man." -totally legit men's mental health coach
sadly this is true more then just sadness or depression.
I thought otherwise but that's the sad truth. No wonder why much more people choose to not have children.
@@Jarczenkounrelated, having children is not for everyone, never has been.
@@Jarczenko Nah, that's been the standard male help advice. The real reason is tension between the sexes and a slowly declining economy.
thats true.
Gotta love how Alana's legitimately asking if the amount of shit people were saying about the male loneliness epidemic was 'real', and literally everyone in chat is like "That isn't just real, that's an average Tuesday!"
How did she not realize it is when its true for her own brother?
@@baltulielkungsgunarsmiezis9714because why should she
@@celuler22 Because people should be paying attention to things arround them.
More horror stories for you. I visit a writing sub on Reddit a lot and a woman posted a question specifically asking about how to show that a secondary male character in her story was lonely in a realistic way. The most upvoted comment was someone saying he should probably unalive himself halfway through the story, have the incident brought up, and then the story just moves on as normal. And this wasn't being upvoted in a "Yeah, screw him" way, it was a "Yeah... that is how it is..." or "Too real, bro" kind of replies and upvotes.
Lacks the mocking, but yeah. I'd love to see that thread.
You got a link?
god damn
To make it more realistic, also add a bunch of women being extremely defensive about it, even if it doesn't involve them at all and saying "men's feelings are not my responsibility".
And on the same breath saying how women are oppressed and society needs to do more for women.
@@khnelli4918 It was at least a year ago, so I have no idea where it is. I can give looking for it a shot.
Basically women need to stop taking advice about men from other women
Especially women who hate men
Women aren't taking advice, they appear to be. Hoe_math explained about how women tribal mindset works.
Each woman knows the truth, but they will 'agree' with each other on the surface to avoid 'conflict' or having their competition understand and start working on themselves.
collective bargaining. They be forming social unions spontaneously
Ya I don't get why people take advice from people that are single.
@@johntan4997and yet, many of them are gung-ho about creating conflict with men…
32:35 Saying “It’s a man issue” is crazy because if anyone says “those are women issues” they would immediately be labeled as a sexist fascist!
Do these people not hear themselves!?
Well, they are idiots and any reasonable person would see she is insane.
They lack the intelligence to grow any form of self awareness.
A lot of what these people preach & say is pure projection. They think we hate women because they legitimately hate men & want us to suffer.
Double standards are encouraged these days. Did you not notice the west has become a feminist tyranny?
They do, they just think it's ok.
It's the same thing as them saying it's ok to hate white people because they ruin everything, in fact they don't even consider that racism just payback or something. 😂
These people are legitimately insane.
"That graph is old!"
Yeah, and I bet the more current one is even more depressing.
Logically, considering the intensifying environmental factors that contribute to a skewed distribution, it’s more than plausible
for sure
I love it when people make that argument. It's as if they actually think the stats are in any way better now.
It is
Lets put it this way, johnny depp is one of the most attractive men in america, he got still backstabbed by his wife and divorced. The decaying state of the dating scene is not the fault men.
it is, we are the ones that shape society and therefore how women behave. they can CHOOSE to be better, but why should they? most men are willing to support they livestiles of degeneracy
Don't feel bad for Depp and don't feel bad for Heard. When you're famous you should know the risks. Young women will date and marry older men with money hoping to inherit that wealth. Depp of all people should have known that but still chose to get married anyway. He could have married Winona Ryder or stayed single. He could be a cheater for all you know as it's not uncommon for famous men to cheat. Both people in that relationship could have been unfaithful. What you hear secondhand is almost never 100% of the story.
If you think attraction is the only important trait you already lost
@@ace3154 The point I was getting at, is if he can raked through divorce courts, the average guy doesn't stand a chance.
@NoraIconiq he won the case tho? If you think there will ever be a day anybody has 0 risk of this happening to them then stay sad and keep pouting but nothing will change life is boring without taking risks hasn't every piece of media ever already told you that
I feel like a problem with this conversation about porn is a question of chicken and egg. I don't think men are looking at porn all day and thus not going out and pursuing women, but instead not pursuing women and so using porn to substitute what they weren't getting.
Like, think about it. If you spend decades telling men how seeing women sexually is wrong, telling them women don't need them, telling them they have a privileged advantage, and telling them they're essentially inherently evil because "apparently" until the last 150 years or so, all women were subjugated by men, then why WOULDN'T men decide not to engage.
Some men reject the message and decide they don't want to pursue a gender that hates them. Some men hate themselves so much that they can't get the confidence to pursue women romantically. And some see themselves as so inherently evil for thinking about women at all sexually that they don't want to pursue women for fear of bothering or hurting them.
Porn is not a cause, it's a symptom. And the biggest problem is that, unlike in past centuries where huge numbers of lonely men would lead to destruction and mayhem, we have relative peace because men are being sedated by all the various nick nacks and porn we have. If you get rid of the things sedating men before FIXING the real cause then it will backfire horribly.
Totally agree about corn take
The Egg came first, the thing that laid "The Egg" was not a Chicken.
Sorry for the tangent, I don't disagree with your point.
That's why i'm here laughing my ass off watching the left making movies, videogames, sports and hobbies woke and shit while also importing millions of unsedated men. They're creating their own destruction. It's already started, young men are going right, started hating the alphabet cult, started noticing what their parents and grandparents had that they'll never be able to get because of leftist policies and notice women are pulling more and more left. Add to that, they're now surrounded by migrant men who don't give a shit about western women's rights, how do you think that ends?
@@ShibsKenseiApparently it was velociraptors... and they had feathers... and aren't lizards.
yeah that's right corn is a sedative if a man have a wife/girlfriend that give him constant smex corn would just be a rare spice in life because smex is better but over 20% of young men are virgins and many married men are smexless
well there are more but I am to lazy to write it all
Society hates me for existing, so fuck society.
thing is that we don't need society. however society does need us. yet they treat us like crap and demonize us at every opportunity.
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That's crazy🗿
And people wonder why crime rates keep going up. People gotta stop treating others like shit people, it's not that hard.
@KiraSlith yup being a good person is actually good for other people.
I luv the concept of " men should fix their own problem" like they wouldn't rail against anything men would do to fix things
yep. I can remember back in the early 10s when MRA movement had some attention. every time someone held an event advocation for men's rights a bunch of feminists and SJWs would show up to protest it, shout the speaker down, pull the fire alarms, bang pots and pans.
Yeah, because us fixing our problems would mean curtailing "women's rights" substantially. As we should, to be honest, by introducing responsibilities to go along with said "rights". Having rights without responsibilities is what got us all into this mess.
@@LethalOwl I mean............ye
The 19th amendment and it's consequences....
I know right, men organizing and enforcing their way is exactly what theyre terrified of.
Blasphemy, why be tall when you can bulk and live your dreams of role playing a dwarf irl, smh
Rock and Stone, Brother!
Rock and stone brother! Don't listen to what the leaf lovers have to say!
Role playing? I've been dwarfmaxxing for years
Rock and Stone To the Bone!!
Based and dwarfpilled
As a guy all I want is for someone to care about me besides my mom and dad.
Pick a new fetish, this one is too unreasonable.
You'll get there mate..all in good time just never rush the good things
I care about you Mr Turtle Chad.
We love you mr turtle, seeing you in comments around youtube makes me smile everytime
IF you dont have Parents anymore... the you are fukt.
Total and Utter Lonlines
You know things are getting bad bad for men's mental and physical condition when you begin to observe then finding comfort in virtual things to compensate the lack of affection and meaningful human interactions.
People just want to be happy and have affection, attention, relationships, food on the table and housing, not follow some political guidelines or ideology.
Unfortunately, computer generated illusions are all that's left for many. Waiting for their demise without leaving anything behind while using illusions as painkillers for the harsh reality is all many can do.
"You best start believing in cyberpunk dystopias... You're in one!
just without any of the cool body mods@@SpecterVonBaren
@@SpecterVonBaren just without all the cool parts.
Yeah, it's more like a cyber 1984 dystopia
True happiness is found only in solitude. The sooner you realize that, the better.
And now the women are complaining that men won't approach them anymore. GOOD! I'll stick to what makes me happy.
@tuulenkotigo and tell the women that and see how far you get
@tuulenkoti you need an example of people needing each other. Otherwise it's just a waste of air
You can't just place a raging queen and dirty weak hungry peasant in a room and "but you need each other, be friends"
Yup. Over time I'm just finding more & more reasons to stay single.
Its peaceful. I enjoy my solitude. Plus I have great friends & a great family, & I take part in a local community walk to keep me grounded.
All women have ever done, every time I've been with one, has caused stress & various other problems. Seen them fuck friends around also.
There really isn't anything to get from it that's worth the headache.
@tuulenkotiexcept studies show that women are happier single
@tuulenkotiyou first bub.
"Men have all the power an money"
Actually not. MOST MEN aren't the top 20%. And, research show that competent women have an easier way into managerial roles these days, because of all the quota rules etc. It's mostly the older generation who are the "most men," where as the younger generations of men are falling behind.
As for murder? A lot of things would indicate that crime and murder is done by the lower echelons of society where people have less hope for the future. So... by making men lose out even more in society crime will probably start to increase.
If this keeps up, more and more men will decide it's Hockey Mask Time and being in prison would be an improvement over their daily lives.
@@RaderizDorret One way to improve family court outcomes is, if you've already lost everything, might as well do a murder-suicide on the front steps. In Minecraft, obviously.
Women that look at Elon and Bazos then be like "Where's your billions at" to a normal person knowing they're broke ass hell too.
Where can I find these sources,I'm just curious?
Modern men aren't falling behind.
Modern women are just being pushed forward by every conceivable source.
It's all an agenda.
I was feeling a little racist today, but now I think I shouldn't be racist, and become sexist instead
Based. 🤣🤣🤣 👍
Why not both?
@@firefker well i try my best to hate everyone equally
You have to fuse the two -ists together to unlock your [Advanced Class], it gives you greater hate powers.
Bruh, just switch to Misanthropy. Covers all your -ists equally.
It's the Jack of all Trades class for hatred.
“The people who seem like they care are the people who are selling them shit.” If that ain’t the most universal, accurate, and depressing statement I’ve heard in a while.
it might be mostly true, but there are real people trying to help, they just much less well known, here on youtube for example you have the "The prim Reaper", and a few others
I'd say grifting is the actual oldest profession.
That is why I cant stand Andrew Tate.
Norah Vincent died trying to build the bridge between modern men and women. Rest in peace.
RiP Norah 💔😭
She couldn't do it.
Technically she was one of those crazy feminist types trying to prove men have it easy only to discover the total opposite was true, after discovering the truth started to hate women because of how badly she was treated as a man and was eventually driven to suicide.
An example of futile attempt but a respectable attempt.
Considering the internet exists I wonder why more women dont try to pretend being a guy but just online. Ive pretended to be a girl and much has been learned.
I did the maths a while ago, the chances of finding a male who is 6ft or over, earns over 100k per year, and is unmarried was like 0.7 percent of the American population, and that appears to be the criteria most women use on these dating apps even women who have well and truly hit the wall and are morbidly obese it's insane.
Then men look at these impossible standards, realise the game is rigged, and just decide not to play the game then people act surprised. Would you participate in a sport where every rule is set again just you and your team where winning even modestly is a miracle? Or will you just stop playing?
I tried conforming to the expectations of women and society and just ended up feeling alone, depressed and suicidal. Atleast now my loneliness is self imposed, and I am not nearly as depressed as I was as I set my own goals which are actually achievable.
That feel when you are the 0.7% and you still get no love irl other than buying a lot of single women dinner.
Now i just support vtuber anime girls and come out ahead financially 😂
@@1337user Truly a mind boggling moment kekw.
Based self-imposed loneliness
I may hate myself, but I sure as shit love myself a lot more than any of these heartless harpies
Dude, that’s women on the internet and the deluded minority on dating apps.
The average woman in real life is happy with a dude who’s well-groomed, charismatic, employed and not fat - and even then, those some of those criteria can be over looked depending on the woman.
Each of those things are doable, so think about how easy it is to stand out in real life!
Don’t believe me? Look out your window or at your friend circle, or at couples in public instead of down at your screen.
And notice how many of them have their fingers in the pies of media, controlling what people desire through movies, tv, and social media...........The rich want this sexual confusion because they realized if we all woke up, we'd realize they've been playing all of us and it would be time to eat the rich. They want us all confused, horny, desperate, and sniping at each other.....
Society Failed about 95% of men
E: i made A war in my comments-
So Men failed Men then?
The other 5% are responsible for that.
@@luckykitty1740Together with 95% of women.
@@ZenoDovahkiin Correct
@@luckykitty1740 Correct too
"Hassan's not a person" earned a thumbs up lmfao so based xD
If he was a person, he would have fought Sam Hyde.
@@captainremington5109 Based Sam
I agree, but its spelled with one S.
I wish I could care my guy, I really do, but ima forget that by the end of the day
telling me "dont be a nazi" or "get consent" and playing it as legit advice to tell me is, to me, implying that you think i have the propensity to be a nazi rapist. and i dont want to be around people who think of me so poorly simply because im a dude.
Yeah, if men treated women as basically evil until proven otherwise, everyone would scream "SEXIST."
But when women do it...
I think the worst part is typically that you can shout out into the void that you just want someone to be your friend or someone to care about you, and all you are met with is strangers with no voice or face telling you that "they care about you". I struggle with loneliness myself, but seeing people write this is just pouring salt into the wound IMO. They are empty words and nothing else.
Bro, you have no freaking idea how true your words even are
The ones that do that are well-meaning people that sympathize with you, but that’s as far as it ever goes, when what’s needed is someone who cares about you *personally* , not just someone that just empathizes with a person in pain
Caring about people is different than caring about a person
I would consider myself a pretty caring and empathetic guy, so like my immediate instinct when reading posts like this is to say "I do care" and other things to try and help you feel better. But at the same time I know exactly what you mean and like you said my post would only just be platitudes from a voiceless/faceless rando on the internet. I can't really do anything to truly help, only try to convey that I hope things get better for you.
i just talk with AI, it's better since you can be certain they are full of sht
And funny thing is, the more you want it, the more people run away in name of "desperation". The desire is "real and active" but people prefer to have it "passively and naturally". This is I feel like the biggest paradox of relationships.
I personally prefer the Joshua Graham AI motivational speeches, also RIP Kevin Conroy.
The Master Chief ones are pretty good too
Heck yeah those are awesome I thought they were going to be too cringe but it had really good advice.
They actually have great videos of Joshua Graham reading an audiobook format of Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, Miyamoto Musashi's Book of 5 Rings, and Sun Tzu's - The Art of War as well. 👍 I'd definitely recommend them
There is a problem when people in general are making a bunch of motivational AI speeches of characters they like.
Specifically talking to guys. About acceptance, self love, self improvement, filing taxes (The Master Chief explanation of how to do taxes being that easy to understand for 3 minutes says a lot about this stuff) and so on.
@@RavenCloak13 it's a benign sympthom tbf.
Look up Norah Vincent sometime. She went undercover as a man for 18 months and she was shocked at the experience.
and she mincrafted herself afterwards too. it was that traumatizing for her.
@@RED_Theory038prayers out for the poor woman. I hope her family is well and it truly gives imsight on how bad some countries have it with men. I live in finland which is known as the happiest country and we have huge social network for men and women, but even now we are seeing some men getting lonelier as time goes.
Hell it traumatized her out of existence, she ended up toping herself...... she went for hardcore man hating feminist to hating women in 6 months of experience as a man.
@@RED_Theory038i think that was do to her being diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and wanting to go out on her own terms
@@KnIf0rTITAN she touched digital grass
As a 5-foot 5 latino man, I understand and accept that unless I travel abroad, I will never be someone's ideal. It doesn't matter how much weight i lose or how much muscle i can pack on.
All i can do is work to build a life for myself and my rescue dogs that i will dedicate my life to giving the love they deserve.
You give those rays of sunshine all the love my brother
You're doing something I wish I could, but one day I might. Take care of those dogs, my man. Out of all creatures on Earth, at least dogs will actually love us. "Man's best friend" for a reason.
I turn 31 today and have never so much as held hands with a girl, much less done anything else. Just once I'd like to know what it's like to be wanted, desired, and loved by a woman...
Find your third places that line up with your interest my man. Try to be friendly in them and if only for yourself alone try to be the best you, you want to be and can realistically be.
It is going to be your best shot. While complicated I finally ended up meeting someone on VR Chat of all places, when I wasn't trying to end up with her. It can happen unexpected even if later in life, good luck.
I think the big thing is to understand and cope with the fact that it's never going to happen. It's (probably) not really your fault, that's just the way things are.
Am I happy about where things are? I've got some hobbies I enjoy, and I see my friends often enough to not go crazy. I think that's the best a below-average, average, and even slightly above-average man can hope for, these days.
Depressing, but that's the truth. Much like none of us feel bad that we aren't movie stars or whatever, because it's so laughably unreachable, we need to start viewing women the same way. It just ain't in the cards, and that's just how the world is right now.
Go to Asia.
Easy.
@@Wirmishsame things happening over there too outside of the Philippines. I’d argue they’re a good 10 years ahead of the west. Korea, Japan, and china are toast
@@Cruxis_AngelOh yeah, typically people mean southeast asia when it comes to trying to date. Korea and Japan are worse off than us.
Honestly its kinda nice to see that there are still women who actually give a shit about men.
From my experience (Which to be fair is mostly restricted to the internet, my neighborhood and mostly feminist female family members) its a pretty uncommon sight to see.
Sorry man, you had to experience that.
As a man, if you don't talk to the homiest of the homies about real shit that makes you emotional, then they aren't your homies.
Yes, even I try to make sure all the people I'm friends with are good and try to hang out with them.
Exactly, all my friends abandoned me when I had it rought prooving my peoples proverb, arround a full table many "friends", only 2 girls stayed with me, but sadly bough of them have boyfriends.
Side note: The Match Group owns Tinder, Hinge, Okaycupid, Plenty of Fish, and "many others" from what I've found. This explains why theyre all the same thing and work in the same way. Just wanted to put this here! I dream of a competitive market.
23:56 I love how women it is acceptable that once a month they can be an emotional mess and can live in their emotions nearly all the time but a man speaks out on their emotions once and they get murdered for it.
The think is men also have something akin to periods just without the bleeding.
@@bhart3321 I never argued that men don't I was simply stating that women get let off Scott free more even if they are a raging mega bitch because it is their time of the month then men get for speaking up about how fucked their situation is.
We should stop letting women be that way no one should be an emotional mess or talk about their feelings.
@@Taz-ey4jl I am fine with people talking their emotions but a sign of maturity is not being controlled by your emotions. If your not a functioning member of society simply because you cannot control yourself is a major issue. @bhart3321 never said that men don't get periods but when a women can be forgiven for being a raging emotional mess because it is their time of the month but a man gets bullied for having emotions is the point I was making.
@@andrewsanders17 We don’t get periods though.
17:10 I use to have friends back when I was in education, after leaving all my relationships degraded rapidly and disappeared. Looking back I’ve only ever had surface level relationships with others. Now it’s just me, myself and I.
This is the bigger problem I think. Everyone is constantly moving or going to a new school or college or work place. How can you develop longterm relationships when you'll see few of the people you knew in grade school in high school, none of them in college, and then maybe one or two when you get a job?
@@SpecterVonBaren In theory, that's the purpose of social media, but it is incredibly difficult to maintain any closeness via online means. Especially once they get jobs and simply have no time for that anymore.
@@nygomi8652 Like, looking just at the Vtuber sphere shows this too! Someone leaves a company and it causes a lot of people to lose touch with that person even if they're still doing the same thing they always did.
@@guyg.8529 nobody's got time. You want to socialise? That's gonna be an investment of several hours and about a hundred dollars, and you have to squeeze it into whatever time you're allowed to have between work and sleep. And good luck finding anybody else who can even match their schedule with yours more than once a year to do that.
Short answer: yes.
Longer answer: society has failed everyone.
True but men aren't allowed to complain about it
@@louissteyn6871
Oh that is 100% true. However the reality is that complaining about it does not help. We need to jump straight to acting, which many have not done.
Western Society failed everyone in Asia this is a minor problem
Even longer answer: Society can not act, its a concept. People can. This is shifting blame from actual people to a vague definition
@@actuallyKriminell
Right I think we should set the definition. When saying society, most of us think "a group of people", not the vague entity that also includes culture and stuff. We're referring to a group of people that act a certain way and influence each other.
"Yea but... Hasan's not a person lmao". Based & literally true ;)
Also "if us VS them (in politics) didn't exist, society would be in a better place" MEGA based.
the latter is not based. It's inherently against human nature.
Politics is basically people deciding how to live as a society. And in a democracy, obviously everyone wants to push for what they think would be the best, which is what benefits them, either out of ignorance or lack of care for the repercutions.
Then, it's only natural to try to get numbers on your side to push what you think it's best, with others that agree.
Us vs Them is the natural result of democracy.
Fun thing I noticed. If you put Hassan, Vaush, and Destiny together, you get Trotsky, Stalin, and Lenin.
@@denkerbosu3551
He ain't talking about "democracy" he's (and Alana) talking about satanizing the other side and only picking one because of bias, way to miss the point, also democracy isn't supposed to be a "versus", but a general agreement, even your first point is a failure.
I’ve known 8 men who have ended themselves, and 1 woman. Of those, only the women, and one of the men showed any signs before. I know several other people who knew men who had offed themselves, and none of them had said anything before either. That whole “they’ll start giving away possessions, and reaching out for help” schtick. That’s mostly reserved for those that are looking for attention. Anyone who’s actually contemplating it or is about to MIGHT seem down for a while, then some also become suddenly happy, but for the most part, you can’t really tell.
In cases of PTS leading to it, they’re a bit more telegraphed due to the underlying symptoms of PTS, but PTS isn’t that common in the average person either.
8:1 just like sc statistics in my country. NOWAY they don't show any sings coz you'll be called weak by everyone and no one's gonna give a damn about you. You become weak, you get some illness and/or disease people more often leave you than not if you're a man. You're replaceable if you're average or below others still bring more wage sl!!!ves here or just take them from other sources.
That's sad that I always try to help people even online and call them from time to time because I got lucky and experienced empathy from 1 person who also suffered for some time in my life to then get abandoned despite my best efforts. People who had it easy can't have a proper empathy in my opinion.
8:1 just like sc statistics in my country. NOWAY they don't show any sings coz you'll be called weak by everyone and no one's gonna give a damn about you. You become weak, you get some illness and/or disease people more often leave you than not if you're a man. You're repl@ceable if you're average or below others still bring more wage sl!!!ves here or just take them from other sources.
I’ve heard somewhere that “people that seem happy the most often are the most lonely”, and it hit me, I always try to crack a joke, lighten up the mood, smile a lot etc. but f*ck I’m dying inside. It’s a coping mechanism I suppose, and yeah of course you won’t talk to anyone, especially work colleagues, because opening yourself to someone to such degree, sharing your very thoughts, that’s not something you can do with anyone.
I wouldn't call it attention-seeking it voice your emotions. Seeking help isn't attention seeking. Plenty of people just hate lying. Or know that not venting that emotion will just lead to self-death
@@ToyotaMotorolaWomen seek out help knowing that they'll get it. Men don't because they know that they likely won't find anything at all.
Men? More like, when will the pain end amirite?
It ends for many by their own hand.
@Spectacular_Insanity yes unfortunately and it's tragic.
@@A_reasonable_individual42Yet for some, it's fucking comedy gold
mostly women @@Alexey_Konstantinovich
Whenever the man decides to. It's almost always the only option the usual man has other than withering over time like a flower in a dry jar.
60 years ago? Psh society has crumbled the way it has in less then the last 20 years. I'm 40 and even when I was still in highschool we still ate dinner at the table as a family, knew all the neighbors, all looked out for each other too. Hell we had Spare keys and door codes for like all the neighbors around us even. You could leave your house unlocked, car in the driveway with windows open and keys in the ignition and didn't have to worry about it. Shit is nothing like that today. Hell most people don't even know who their neighbors are. When I grew up the neighborhood all looked out for each other and kept an eye on all the kids to make sure we were all safe etc. Also made it hard to get away with doing bad shit lol
agreed. I noticed the decline set in since late 90's. but it got in a rapid current since the last 15-20 years.
I remember a moment where we accidentally left the front door open, and we had no idea. Must've been left open for a while, I guess. Suddenly we heard someone call out, whether we were OK. Yup, someone (I think one of the neighbors) saw our open door, and checked on us.
We live nextdoor to a restaurant, and once we got a call from the restaurant owner, saying our car parked in front, got hit. A customer had the wits to make a note of the car's license plate. I called the cops, the cops went to the owner of the car and it was an old lady, who said she hadn't known at all that she hit our car (she broke off one of the side mirrors). Her insurance paid.
The lady customer who jotted down the license plate left her address and phonenumber to us in case she was needed. She wasn't, but I went there and gave her a big box of chocolate as a thank you. Sometimes, living in a small town isn't so bad.
Sadly those simpler times are gone yet I miss them very much being born in the 1990s things changed and not for the better I still remember when facebook launched I thought this would change the world for the better how fucking wrong I was 😂
Times will change what you expect? Not everything will remain the same.
I don't know where you were you living in the 90s, but I know that doing that where I lived would get you robbed.
some feminists can see the irony of telling a man to man up, and they stop. others see the irony and for some reason feel empowered by the double standard.
A lot of us are just stepping away from society now, it's so much nicer being alone and happy than watching these broken men being dragged around, it's amazing how much you can do with minimum wage as a single man but you need six digits to maintain a single woman... for a while.
As an older guy who's experienced a good life maybe even one of the best ones, it's got to suck for today's men having nothing to look towards.
Women: Make derogatory music about women
People: Men, stop listening to derogatory music about women.
I cant believe Alana died of ligma
Who's Alana?
@@potatobeaterLigma ballz ha gotem
@@potatobeaterAlana my balls *fwooom*
@@potatobeater a tale of soul and swords eternally retold
RIP Bozo
You know, in order to fix these kinds of problems requires one simple but rare thing: you have to care about people. Not 'issues' or 'society' or some nebulous 'positive change'. We need to actually care about human beings, and believe that a person has value simply because they're a person, or we will never fix anything.
0:07 To quote Tenma: "Oh _no,_ I'm going to get canceled by *children,* on Twitter!"
Say it with me men. "It is what it is."
I'm running out of "it is what it is"
*"Whatever happens, happens."*
God I have been saying that ship since I was in the army back in 08, back then it didn't mean for woman....IT DIDN'T MEAN FOR WOMAN!
@iyatemu I feel you bro.
Eso si que es. SOCKS. It is what it is.
A lot of people are going off grid, moving to places where they only see one human a month or less, some people have not seen another human for years, just online communicating
I lived 5 years without talking to anyone outside of my family. If I didn't have bills to pay, I'd go back to it.
@@gaaraofthefunk265How does one pursue such a life? How do you start?
@@BigGainer98 learn gardens, and plants,find a good place with a water source,, and look carefully read the zone and fine print carefully, also watch out for flash flood land,, trees are important, you use them for everything, learn to cook on a cast iron system, and how to fish
Alana: Shoe is an very insightful and righ-
Shoe: This watch makes a perfect gift for my boyfriend
Alana:*spits* SlUt!
Exactly why men are single too so many women slut shame women for finding a guy loving him marring him n being loyal to him hince why women think we aren't worth it but really there going through something men also go threw for settling down it happens to us by our own people because we Don't treat each other as humans anymore because we're afraid of losing friends to love I lost my highschool friend JoJo to his marriage but u don't see me saying he's lame for marring and settling down
society has pretty much failed everyone in some way, but men have definitely fallen the farthest
Yep. Gave the women all the rights and none of the responsibilities. Biggest mistake humanity ever did.
17:04 bumble is dying because lately women haven’t even been going for the top 10% of men, just the top 2-5% and in some cities just the one percent. It’s way worse today. 13:00 no he’s right. It’s just making the problem harder to fix. Fightclub was a cautionary tale written by a gay man 30 years ago concerned with his fellow men’s condition. By today’s standards I’d say he was optimistic. Today, there would be no female romantic interest, he would just degrade further and harder. 18:15 Alana it’s worse. 60% of women are dating 20% of men based of data scraped from dating profiles. It gets even worse for specific groups of people. 20:55 what she doesn’t understand, is figures like Tate and Peterson are preventing much worse figures from taking their place, the supreme gentleman was worse than either of them, and 10 years ago I thought we’d have hundreds of men following his footsteps but with figures like Tate, ironically isolated male violence has gone down and most mass killings are just normal deranged people. 45:29 yeah. I sent Tenma $200 in October after a woman I’d been talking to daily for months disappeared because the last year of her degree was stressing her out a ton.
I can understand the hate for andrew tate. But I don't understand the hate for Peterson. Maybe I just haven't looked closely enough but doesn't Peterson just mainly self help? Like just clean your room and then your house and then start doing X and Y and then when your life is in order then you can go and make healthy relationships. At least that;s what I've understood Peterson to be unless I'm just missing something I don't see why he's bad unless you just have the opinion that people make him out to be smarter than he is or something which I think could be a legit criticism but I don't understand how that puts him the same group of thought as say Andrew Tate.
@@Name-nq7tjpeterson pushes literal nazi conspiracy theories and climate change denial and he's very much in the same basket as taint, he just uses bigger words and word salad to cover his disgusting views
@@Name-nq7tj he's anti trans, the whole pronouns bs, argues for conservative values, marriage, not be a 304 (to both men and women, lol)
I personally dislike how most of his speech is aimed at men instead of the larger voting population that votes for the current society to stay as it is.
He's a cuckservative that will insist on the "everyone has issues" but won't recognize most come from one side.
@@Name-nq7tj "I can understand the hate for andrew tate. But I don't understand the hate for Peterson."
I can understand the hate for both of them; just because I can understand a thing doesn't mean that thing isn't fundamentally irrational.
If anyone hates either Peterson or Tate, it's because they're a radicalized leftist. I strongly disagree with some of the things Tate says, like I don't like how he focuses on materialism, I don't like how he calls certain men 'losers' if they're not making a certain amount of money, but overall I see Tate as a net-positive. I see Peterson much the same way; if Peterson had his way, all men would go back to being the servants of women and he would call that good and heroic. I don't agree.
@@StupidAnon-gn8ih The way I see Peterson's view is that he's telling men how to act in a healthy, RECIPROCAL, relationship. The problem is we live in a system where that causes you to get taken advantage of. His advice can only work if society is fixed.
Society cant fail me if i never expected anything from it in the first place
That "I'm tired boss"... too real. I feel ya
women taking advice about men from other women is the equivalent of asking a barber how to be a pilot
Not exactly.
If she’s a woman in a successful relationship, surely she has SOME insight into how to communicate, cohabitate and cooperate, and please a man.
@@TheTsugnawmi2010 You KNOW that's not who's actually taking on the jobs of "dating coaches", though. They're a meme for a reason. Dating coaches are town bicycles, everyone's ridden them and they can't maintain a relationship what-so-ever.
@@TheTsugnawmi2010 Certainly some women are genuinely good dating coaches for other women.
But "is in a relationship" isn't some kind of proof of competence at all. If a woman is just not stupidly picky, congrats, she's in a relationship. Or even if she is stupidly picky but she was lucky / born with good genes, congrats, she's in a relationship.
they put the man into strawman
Yes, its so accurate that out there there are likely barbers that play flight simulators every day and have watched all the free learning materials online aswell as every major crash report.
Men and women aren't opposites; they're matched counterparts, like locks and keys. To completely isolate one from the other is to render both useless.
lets give ShoeOnHead a salute for shifting through all the twitter sludge she had to work through in the editing of her video, hot dang there's some doozies in there lol
I was once engaged. I've been on dating apps, and they all suck. Most, if not all, require men to pay for premium just to see who likes you. Women don't need to pay for premium. It's really not worth it. Dating in general might not be worth it.
You're not missing on much. The dating scene is a scam that only benefits womena t alrge and a select few men.
I've been in three relationships. I don't think dating is worth it. I could find another relationship, but I'm choosing not to.
Tell me about it im watching a fox who broke out of a mental asylum at 4:19 am 😐 im almost 21 and haven't even held someone's hand let alone anything else. Kindergartners have gotten farther than me😭
I got farther in kindergarten than I do now.
Aye, a comrade. Good luck bro
Doesn't get any better by 26.
@@jakell4711 24, same. Though at least I'm a college grad who's starting the career ladder now. I won't be homeless or without my 40k plastic crack, but alone forever.
Them's the shakes, I guess.
You're concerned about hands at 21? I got suddenly assaulted by affection only at 24
Never thought of a woman, when I left house, all thoughts were left watching some stuff occasionally...
Credit where it's due for being quite possibly the first woman i've ever heard to bring up male suicide without immediately jumping into the "but women ATTEMPT suicide more so that means women have it worse" argument.
tbh, all i ever wanted is someone who cares about me, since i never experienced something like that, be it my family or "friends" i had, they always came to me when they needed something but never for just me being me
What kind of psychopath says "Just die already" to people who have problems?
A psychopath... probably. You can really tell that these people are far gone at this point.
Women apparently.
Women when you're under 6'0.9999
A woman.
The Canadian govt if you need healthcare ❤
The only thing keeping me alive is funeral costs and the mess of blowing my head off. So, just not wanting to inconvenience anyone
Loneliness is real its driving me insane
Brother, it is better to be alone than to be tied with someone who is deliberately draining you of your resources while banging half the town behind your back.
I haven't met up with someone irl to hang out in 3 years. I play mmos just to talk with people. I feel ya man.
looking back at myself 5 years ago, I can confidently say that I'm going Insane.
Yeah, when you start questioning your own thoughts and thinking weather you’re going insane, being soft on yourself or a mix of both, yeah it’s probably not good.
@@Maalithian I'm actually start to feel it. The last irl friend I had passed away a bit over 1 year ago. He was my age and we had common interests, but he had more of a social life than me, so we rarely met.
Maybe once every 2 months or so.
Now I legit feel alone and miserable.
“If you take two hours you have a problem” sounds like something that someone afraid of a challenge would say.
Honestly the fact that women are allowed to talk about their problems but men can’t… by all means if you feel you don’t need to talk, don’t, but if you feel you can’t do this alone, everyone deserves to have someone willing to help, even if that help is just listening.
Yep so true
“Hasan’s not a person”
Holy based wait wtf I love Alana now??
Post-nut Clarity actually makes it worse sometimes.
Cuz usually, you think about yourself. And thinking about yourself too much is usually the cause of depression
Not for me mostly cuz ina way I did have sex in my mind with what ever person I masterbated too ofc I mostly do that to a video game Carter because I don't wanna do some slut who will just bang anything with a penis
Now yes it's in my mind and no I can't have children with them but hopefully technically will eventually create a way to live in such world of a video game ie cyberpunk or fallout 4 and have a family inside of such world and make money etc that can be brought into real world so that through money earned u can buy things u need IRL cuz in real world if u have enough money u can buy a mail order wife in forgen country's witch is what id do if such could exist tech wise
@@alexautobotjolly9170 you do realize Cyberpunk’s entire lesson was in how bad that would be, right?
Yes id do but for lack of a better solution I feel it's our best and last hope as men sadly until women wake up and stop cheating liein etc
@@alexautobotjolly9170 not all women cheat and lie dude.
You believing all do will cause the problem to get worse.
By design. It was all intentional.
Stuff like the twitter montage shows is one reason why I don't bother with romantic relationships. Another is the horror stories of women ruining men's lives with false allegations. Try to woo the wrong woman, have fun being labeled a creep to the whole world, or worse. Then there's gold-diggers using prenup-divorce womb o-combo to take all they own, etc. And of course, the statistics showing an uptick of narcissistic personalities (because of social media), who would definitely do shit like what I'd just mentioned. I'm sure there are plenty more reasons that can be listed.
In summary, dating feels like walking a tight-packed minefield, that is getting more and more filled up with mines. Who wants to deal with that? Not me, that's for sure.
"My dog stepped on a bee"
"The world might be a better place without me, that's why I keep on living"
in terms of male loneliness, I'll put it like this.
I'd rather die a lonely man, then die having my name dragged through the mud or having fake ass people pretend they cared about me only AFTER I'm already gone. For me, it's not even really the fact of me not wanting a female in my life, but I've been fucked over so many times by "lovers", "friends" and "family" that I am happier being alone. Loneliness is nowhere near as bad as having my heart shattered and trust broken at every turn, this is something I've learned through experience.
One man's advice for men.
If you feel bad and want to talk to someone about it, never do it to a woman, especially if it's your wife or girlfriend. They will lose what little respect they had for you and leave you. If you want to talk to someone about it, talk to men. We are not assholes like the feminists are killing themselves to say, on the contrary, we will listen to you because we know.
The men cry yes, but alone in their rooms. Take the hits and be strong!
> We are not assholes like the feminists are killing themselves to say, on the contrary, we will listen to you because we know.
Lmao, no.
Dudebros are the same manipulative POS as women are, if not even worse.
Most women yes but my dad does and my mom has never lost interest in him yes he's a stepdad and yes she says it's true love but it all comes back to knowing your spouse fully
Actually I'd say to talk to your girlfriend about your struggles as soon as possible, if she loses interest in you because of that she was a bich that was not worth your time and you get to dodge a bullet before it's to late, better alone than married to an asshole
I heard about this stuff so much a year or two ago.
And since ive basically gone full "Hikikomori" since C-19 i have no idea what the real world is like rn.
So kind of a bummer to know nothings changed.
if you know about the mouse utopia experiment then what is happening seems similar to that, and the end results
We're at the end where most male don't want to interact with the female, and just do their own things. The female became mental from stress, eating their own babies IIRC, and chad mouse just go around smashing.
The difference will be, the mouse utopia got free food, and just living. Real world need infrastructure maintenance. Would be fun to see when everything start breaking apart.
Ah yes The behavioral sink. Something I learned about in high school and I think I might have even mentioned it in an essay.
@@MichaelBW-bn9gf and thank you for reminding me of the term
And then people wonder why the trans population is exploding...
I mean, I know it, but I think that it's more straightforward to just point to social media and internet dating having wrecked things.
"Women are so kind and caring they are the light of the world" then women say all this bs. I wonder why men aren't helping others anymore.
That sponsor man, people who care try to sell you something: are you lonely? Wear expensive things to show, that you have money … even if you don’t
Idk man, Holzkern seems pretty based for being willing to sponsor videos that are otherwise controversial. Don't have any of their watches (though they did look nice the one time I saw them at the mall) but I'm down for sponsors on controversial videos.
@@ryanh7167 well maybe controversial in America because everything is political there, but yeah no same obviously, I just like how she plays into the irony in that whole part
@@easylemon2547 the mall I saw Holzkern in was in Austria as an aside. I don't know if they have physical shops in America but I saw them a lot in Austria and Czechia.
I get what you are saying though. It probably shouldn't be controversial but America is a bit crazy at the moment.
@@ryanh7167 well for about at least 8 years yes
@@easylemon2547 I'd say longer than that. It's been crazy for about as long as I've been aware enough to notice it (so closer to 20 years). I think there's a lot of very deep things happening in America driving the craziness (the rapid rise from being one of the bigger players to being the world empire in less than 100 years, the complete lack of competition after the cold war and then rapid deindustrialization, etc.).
In some ways I like living in Europe and have had the luxury of doing so for various work contracts, and yet something keeps bringing me back to America regardless of how much I enjoy Europe.
Edit: I'm aware none of this matters to you. Thanks for reading my blog.
Hey lady I want to tell most important thing.
Depression and Anxiety is a mood for men. We just live with it
Edging for 4 hrs a day? Alana, they need to pump those numbers up, we need at least 6 hrs to start the day.
Literally was told by my father as a child, "You'll have to tough it out, simply because no one gives a damn."
This video is some what right. I don't have the addiction but from just watching my family and talking with them, i can say guy 1 was in a divorce, 1 was recently cheated on, 3 couples arguing. I said if this is marriage,I'd rather die alone.
I disagree about her comment about America not being about individualism. I think she is getting individualism confused with narcissism.
America has always been about individualism. Just look at history and how it affects politics to even today.
Individualism is the name narcissists give to their toxic habits when they want to be praised. It's why western liberal republics were never going to succeed in the long term against the collectivistic, orderly societies of Asia.
Just more proof that genuine hate and disgust for some people is a very natural and even justified emotion that doesn’t need to be explained because of how obviously deserving some people are of it.
"Send random girls on the internet money." Every VTuber ever
basically, in short:
women these days has been sexist
and men cant be (are not allowed to be) sexist back.
for me personally, that hate just goes into a pile of nothing. or in other words, i dont care enough to stress about other's negative thoughts. and i think this is good advice to other men out there. dont listen to hate, listen to critiques.
(P.S got somebody cookin in the reply section, if you wanna argue just put up factual information and f off. no need to continue the argument)
Really don’t think this is the case bro… let’s not try to make this a blue vs pink thing dude. men can absolutely be sexist, it’s silly to think otherwise
@@jonafloppa8336of course, but men see a lot more backlash for being sexist, you can get easily banned from the platform, loose a job even, meanwhile there’s plethora of women saying insane, absolutely insane things about men and they thrive, even mainstream media can be incredibly sexist without much pushback, I’m sorry but on this one women are enjoying incredible entertainment and double standards it’s not even a question.
@@italianspiderman5012 I would have contention with the idea that sexism in women and men are the same, but Yeah I agree that misandry is more socially acceptable in mainstream ideas (and I do thing it’s cringe) but I really don’t think that it’s without pushback considering the popularity of people like Andrew Tate and Sneako where where men are increasingly becoming radicalized. While yes I think women saying “I hate men” on twitter is cringe and needlessly divisive, but I don’t think that’s enough to tell the whole story of the gender wars.
@@jonafloppa8336 definitely, there is pushback, that’s why the likes of Tate came to be, toxicity breads toxicity.
I wouldn’t say it’s “cringe”, it’s sexisms, full stop, even you yourself trying to downplay it, why?
I remember that Conan O’brien show, where a Hollywood writer told a story of what is wildly accepted as sexual harassment, then firing the victim, and everyone clapped, people thought it was hilarious, because she was a woman that did it to a man, if the roles were reversed, if she was a man groping a woman and then firing her, he would be finished. There’s a clear double standard, after decades of being told “it’s about equality”.
@@italianspiderman5012 im not really "downplaying it" its because like i said i don't think sexism in men and in women are the same.... when women say "i hate men" it isnt taken that seriously, cause it's (most of the time) not really serious. its mostly just a stab at men in frustration. when a man says "I hate women" its taken more seriously due to the malice that men have had against women. idk about you but i have been in both male, and female friend groups and the way men talk about women is pretty unbelievable. that being said can a woman actually hate men? yeah, but considering we live in a pretty male centric society it isn't as harmful or as malicious as when a group of men talk about women in a dehumanizing way, than a women saying "men are bad". cause im not worried about people on twitter or conan obrien or whatever im more worried about people in charge with our laws and legislation (which is mostly men)
I would like to reiterate that people shouldn't in general talk about the other gender in a dehumanizing way. i think it can only lead to malice and vitriol in your life. people have had bad experiences with men and women, but we should have level headed ideas about problems we face regarding our gender, and not turn it into a blue vs pink thing.
Realistically, get rid of alimony and child support and youll see marriage and relationships soar. Ive seen too many divorces to see where marriage goes. I think i only know of one marriage thats held up from people in my age group, the rest are on their second or third marriage or have given up altogether.
That's icing, and certainly they are hinderances. I want to know the root cause for these people to be so reprehensible. Is it just boredom?
No, those things can be useful, it’s just that they are way too abused today. We need to fix it, not just throw it out
Lonely men are the origin of vtubing
The only corn addiction I have is to KoRn. BOOM CHA DA BOOM, CHA DA INNA! :)
This truly is a freak on a leash. You really are coming undone. Such a twisted transistor.
I’m loyal to Khorn
BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD
SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE
I believe that a reason that this is happening is the focus on the self. You know, the "if your friends dont believe in the same ideology that you do, then they're not your friends." Or the "if your husband doesnt like [thing] then you should dump him."
This lack of compromise and focus on "MY mental wellbeing"(when few people have been mentally sound these past few decades) is- what I think- the catalyst for the focus on the self. Then there are all of the other issues that spiderweb around this like the internet's ease of access, misandry, misanthropy, economical issues, and everything else.
I dont think that there is a single issue that is a direct lead to this shit and in turn will either send it into overdrive in the coming years or it'll be a huge undertaking to fix.
The thing with "pathriarcal society" is that is hirarchical.
Like miltary service.
The mayor eating cheese with wine tell you to be hapy at least you got caduce MRE.
This has been for literally the whole of society.
Goes back to even greece with Plato teaching bables while slaves clean his ass and farmers who lost their arm in war is homeless for not reaching the tide requirement.
With industrialisation, cities become bigger, so now you have ecosystems with THOUSAND more people.
Thus the whole "individuality", "self made", "you can also be a millionaire", is all hirarchical.
Woman? Woman are trophies, notches in belts.
Tho, now woman have been integrated to the factor, so now woman too are becoming the ones at the top and others at th beottoms.
Why you thinks the "girlfailure" and "female incel" has become more present.
Woman are not as much trophies, so now have to deal with reality of hirarchy.
And yes, i know woman already had some hirarchies in groups, now is just institutionalize.
Sharing a moment of weakness has only revealed how alone I really am.
if society barely gives a shit about me, I'm not gonna give a shit about society. I'll sit here with a pack of beer and watch it collapse.
Same
People don't care about men. That's why sc statistics is 8x ratio in my country. You're replaceable show signs of weakness and you gonna get abandoned. Get some illness, disease and unless you learn to deal with everything by yourself you gonna lose. That's the sad reality. Now I'm alone and learning to live by myself, excercise, eat healthy and talking with people (especially those after hardships) without judgement and trying to cheer them up even while I'm dying on the inside.
I have little to no local friends cuz they either moved away or knifed me in the back and my local area is full of treacherous types or people I'd never get along with. I think one of the reasons there's a loneliness epidemic is the unfortunate thing being that infidelity has become more common and has made both men and women too scared to form attachments as they've been hurt more than once in most occasions.
I rarely hear my online friends say their relationship ended because the spark died and they mutually decided to end it and I hear way more "they cheated" and most of my relationships ended the same way. My last relationship was with a girl I knew for a long time, didn't stop her from sleeping with damn near the whole town while we were dating.
Biggest thing society can do is create some kind of social consequence to cheating. Even something as small as choosing not to associate with that person does *something*. It won't solve everything, but it'll show those who were once afraid that they may have a chance to get back on the dating scene and that there are good people within their community who have a sense of morality that helps direct them of who is trustworthy and who isn't.
its shit like this that i avoid big social media where i can see the toxsisity of humanity it's depressing
I'd blame politics for the friendship recession, id blame that female choosiness distribution with evolutionary psychology, the fact they're constantly shopping around for something better and exacerbated with social media inflating their ego, having never learned the ability to choose and commit beyond the traditional communities some are born into
Politics had always been around,I think it's just a byproduct rather than the cause.
@@A_reasonable_individual42 yeah but it's been particularly extreme recently. I mean the progressives could get people to abandon their families over a presidential vote, of course friends too
We got adorable vtubers to keep us happy.
As a Takodachi and a Clam(smaller Vtuber) I am in fact satisfied at the moment.
the beloved wolf girl released a cover today and i am also very satisfied at the moment
Ngl, i am sad Vaush is known for the horse and loli shit now, there are much better things he has done that can be laughed at, like arguing with somebody and grasping at straws so hard he says "aqua isn't the same as agua" because the word is written differently when the other guy just talked about water
Yeah, and it's mostly loli too because the people who are having problem with him just hate loli and anime stuff.
@@LilPale That shit easily shows his hypocrisy, but it's not nearly as funny as the other dumb shit he has said
@@Honerkamp Yeah, i mean that people hate him but they fixate on loli and the horse, age of consent and other stuff that came from him they hold so loosely.
Yeah, like Vaush being an unironic fed informant LARPing as a regressivist egoist communist....
One thing people get wrong. This is not just a western issue. China and India are having similar but different problems with this for different reasons. But it's the same basic problem. People talk about South East Asia with this problem like, "oh look, this small country there doesn't have this issue so it's a western issue.". Forgetting that the two countries with a combined population of 3 billion people are undergoing a major societal upheaval. India, gunna be honest on this one... kinda deserved. If I was a father of a girl I wouldn't want my daughter marrying into the Indian system. The sexism problem is different there, so much so I don't even think it should be labeled the same thing. China on the other hand. The One Child Policy that favored men has given the dating app statistic discrepancies of here an actual physical form in the brick and mortar world. There really are less women, and this has led to so so so many problems with men there. This is a worldwide issue with pockets of something that could be considered sanity.
due to westernization, india actually isnt really sexist at all anymore. Women are literally bullied when they are housewives or take traditional roles in half the country, and they promote education and job training heavily. The marriage system is also mostly love based not arranged now in most parts of the country except for extremely poor families with no choice. The women is also mostly treated with respect in the modern age, shit, the situation is biased against men in places like kerala and almost all large cities. People think india is the same place socially as it was in 1950, its weird.
Adam called, he wants his rib back.
Huh it funny u mentioned that I even prayed to God at my lowest when struggling threw this very problem for him to re create the Adam and eve thing whith me and my sex doll witch I bought with my COVID check witch was a temporary fix cuz yes she can't love me back and yes she can't have kids but at least I have something to cuddle and cry too about my woes hince why I advocate for buying sex dolls as it's not only a sexual relif tool but it can help emotionally somewhat aswell
Another problem is that men in tighter circles were defined by what they do or accomplish.
But nowadays, because of so many people, it doesn’t make you feel different to another person, like you don’t have different skills or things to bring for others.
And women can have those jobs now too, which is not a bad thing.
But that adds more to not feeling different individually.
"And women can have those jobs now too, which is not a bad thing. "
You don't think literally doubling the labor pool with a bunch of people who will be sexually interested in the members of the work force that are already on the job is a bad thing? Just thinking about it in plain language makes it sound like a terrible idea, and the results speak for themselves.
that kinda thing was all too real when I was in a california university, I even had a teacher who outright said stuff like "all men are trash" on the regular
it looks like satire
it really isn't
Commiefornia has been a shit hole since before you came to school here and before I was born
I honestly don’t know what to do as a man, other than just work my exhausting job and sleep, squeeze in the side aspirations when possible, and save what little money I have left over instead of date, because I cannot do both.
What am I supposed to do other than pray? A check mark in the voting booth isn’t going to change this.
Yes true but let's say your vote actually puts a Republican in office and due to that u get job u earn enough now to afford a mail order wife then the problem is fixed but remember in future no vote no hope for happiness cus all it takes is one missed vote for bad people to end up in power for us men