Who Gives A Black Man Permission to Feel? [An Ode to Uncle Stan] by Preston Perry for PIA 2019

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  • This poem was premiered by Preston Perry at the Poets In Autumn Tour 2019. It deals with a black man's perspective on mental health and grief.
    intro video and edit by @ayohopp | shot and directed by @powitskim | thumbnail image by @themediaguy
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  • @aaronzamani9860
    @aaronzamani9860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    "there's no scenes sadder than hurting men afraid to be hurting men in public" 🔥

  • @shanetaylor500
    @shanetaylor500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    "Who gives a black man permission to cry? Jesus does.... " I felt that hit like a brick man. I know my skin doesn't match Preston's, but we've got the same blood in Jesus. Amen.

  • @k.s.p9696
    @k.s.p9696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    " A man mourning doesn't make him weak it keeps him alive."

  • @jonathanminga9122
    @jonathanminga9122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    "y'all I will cry whenever I feel like it!"

    • @sellison08
      @sellison08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's it, right there. We can cry whenever we feel like it, whenever the need or want for release arises.

  • @eunicekalala6502
    @eunicekalala6502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    When grief comes out, it makes room for life to come in 😢👏

  • @LuckyMakobela
    @LuckyMakobela 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A man mourning doesn't make him weak, it keeps him alive.

  • @natelex7084
    @natelex7084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Preston. Thank you my dude, even though i'm not black I can relate. I've been told for a long time to deny my emotions or feelings instead of taking them captive to Jesus. Poems are so powerful. I ordered your poets in autumn DVD and I can't wait to hear it. Thank you for your powerful testimony and ministry. You are well loved my brother in Christ.

    • @amyelise9200
      @amyelise9200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nate Lex you will not be disappointed with the DVD your ordered. I promise. I had the privilege to see all of them live in Seattle with my daughter. What a blessing! These poets are disciples, spreading the Gospel message with love and empathy.

    • @natelex7084
      @natelex7084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amy Elise YES! I love that!!!

  • @dolly2405
    @dolly2405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow!! I am a single Mom raising a son...thank you for this poem..from South Africa.

  • @dinglelawrence8890
    @dinglelawrence8890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do not put words in my mouth! Watch the ones coming from yours!

  • @kellymanana
    @kellymanana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    One of my most favorites from the PIA tour. Thank you Preston for your vulnerability. 🙏

  • @PriscilleBukasa
    @PriscilleBukasa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    man Preston is my absolute favorite, this was soo real and beautifully written. Such an important piece of work for our culture.

    • @debkeeler
      @debkeeler ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For all cultures. With much respect.

  • @_swaggdalion274
    @_swaggdalion274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Brother I could do nothin but cry and smh, I'm from Newark, NJ...its a lot of pain in me I've been letting out, God has let me see, and ive been on ya page every day since I came I came across it a week ago... keep goin what u doin brother, Jesus has softened our hearts and we can see the pain not only we go through but others and to be able to feel is such a blessing

  • @awakened2bme761
    @awakened2bme761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a 52 year old Spiritual Black Female Therapist...I Salute You Brotha,❤️💚🖤

  • @delobiye1456
    @delobiye1456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My wife talks about how it would have been powerful for our parents to prepare us for the prejudice awaiting us.

  • @Mish25
    @Mish25 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is so deep to me!!! I’m so tired of men feeling like they can’t express their feelings! Men are not robots they are human beings who have feelings and should be able to express them! It doesn’t make a man weak because he express how he feels! I would be more worried if you didn’t express how you feel! Make men feel safe enough to express their feelings and emotion!

  • @TheEmerald07
    @TheEmerald07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Growing up in the hood and with a lotta dudes who shunned me for being a sensitive dude and expressing my feelings, this hits home for me personally. Despite that, I continued to be me and express myself and my emotions because that's what real men do. The Bible is filled with sensitive men who expressed their emotions.

    • @jld4870
      @jld4870 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are blessed to know and have the courage to express your emotions. Need more of you.

    • @ilovekene9697
      @ilovekene9697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True dat 🙌

  • @Teyliaj
    @Teyliaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So powerful, everyone needs to watch this video.

  • @Elijahrising1
    @Elijahrising1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Praise YESHUA! The more I listen to you , I understand the youth! I say youth because most youth want to be a black youth/Kool!
    This testimony/poem is sad and uplifting!
    You're an amazing young man!
    I'm 63! THE LORD IS using you to teach me about The Youth and how to, not let a finger nail under my skin when witnessing!
    Funny! Its not the youth that keep my head from turning!
    I look for to your book and more teaching videos!
    I'm blessed by your and wife ministry!
    And seeing what Family looks like!
    Blessings 🙏❤🔥🌍
    B

  • @lauralafleur3997
    @lauralafleur3997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was at the OKC PIA Tour. Thank you for this poem. I was not ready. Your words pierced through my soul and time stopped. I felt so many emotions as tears ran down my face. I grieve and mourn with my brothers and sisters from the black community. #JesusPlusTherapy #BlackLivesMatter #MyHusbandMatters

  • @user-yi4gk6mf7m
    @user-yi4gk6mf7m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They can only see the Black in my soul, thats why they act so cold, the cold shoulder is all I've felt, oh the distaste they've dealt. I feel u! It's still hard to cry... Now I know why! Thanks!

  • @SpiritofaLevite
    @SpiritofaLevite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Much respect Preston👊🏿 We appreciate your artistry!

  • @mphumudzenimbelengwa7197
    @mphumudzenimbelengwa7197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of my favourites from PIA Tour 2019! I have been waiting for it. Thank you Preston

  • @TheJuan08861
    @TheJuan08861 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This had me teared up the whole time, thank you for sharing this

  • @eboniarmstrong4401
    @eboniarmstrong4401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was my favorite from this year! I was literally in tears! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @jacob777jacob
    @jacob777jacob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's not society's fault though, MEN have never had a platform for emotions and feelings and it's due to MEN, no one else can be blamed for it.

  • @lifewithdanicepedersen821
    @lifewithdanicepedersen821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful. Thank you Jesus for my brother.

  • @durkduggie
    @durkduggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Definitely one of my favorite poems on the tour!!

  • @miguelgonzalez9364
    @miguelgonzalez9364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for addressing the hidden issues of the heart

  • @debkeeler
    @debkeeler ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes! "I will cry whenever I feel like it." Thank you for addressing this. No matter our gender, color or religion, I believe if we all cried more as adults, many people would be in a more healthy mindset. Thank you for your words, they are so important.

  • @Sweeettt.Caroline
    @Sweeettt.Caroline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved it in person love it now !

  • @brandonhaines6936
    @brandonhaines6936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Preston

  • @lizzymwamba7546
    @lizzymwamba7546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This blessed me 🙌 thank you

  • @ronalddowdell1931
    @ronalddowdell1931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just beautiful.

  • @chilubamumba2806
    @chilubamumba2806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @kfutwahlaura9242
    @kfutwahlaura9242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Preston for being an open book, it's easier to identify God's works through a transparent man.

    • @jld4870
      @jld4870 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen and amen!

  • @voiceofreason1613
    @voiceofreason1613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow wow wow😭💯❤🙏🏾. This was such a amazing poem and speaks to soo many truth of black men.

  • @MrMorale96
    @MrMorale96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is going straight to Favsville!!!! Awesome piece

  • @kimbutler9501
    @kimbutler9501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Powerful poem!!!

  • @michealjohnson8715
    @michealjohnson8715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Touched my soul on this one iseen him do this live and i teared up

  • @wetwaters7400
    @wetwaters7400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man I loved this

  • @bigsidrealprisontalk9173
    @bigsidrealprisontalk9173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just found your channel I love your testimony man

  • @Mzlizzy
    @Mzlizzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know I'm a black girl,have seen the reflection of my skin in the eyes of too many stares in my life time to begin

  • @lydiakatongole8480
    @lydiakatongole8480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, just wow❤❤

  • @MaryMason007
    @MaryMason007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it!!

  • @stasiajuicy
    @stasiajuicy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    incredible

  • @cookwithqueenzy5818
    @cookwithqueenzy5818 ปีที่แล้ว

    So refreshing and powerful more Grace man of God🙏

  • @chevelynjozefzoon
    @chevelynjozefzoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wauw ! Love it 🔥🔥

  • @ashb7636
    @ashb7636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Preach!

  • @ngozia34
    @ngozia34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow!!

  • @sunnypark2087
    @sunnypark2087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just found you....wow. Thank God for you.

  • @micom6082
    @micom6082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, bless up

  • @nh2008
    @nh2008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow... Wow...
    Anointed
    Wowww

  • @terria.mccurdy9190
    @terria.mccurdy9190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    xcellent...amen...amen...amen...

  • @rickbeastrandolph
    @rickbeastrandolph 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wowww

  • @mariahdomyhair2401
    @mariahdomyhair2401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen

  • @sharonmbabazi7481
    @sharonmbabazi7481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOOW

  • @Healing_her
    @Healing_her ปีที่แล้ว

    “I thought ‘she doesn’t need a weak man in the house at this time’ she doesn’t need a husband so human” woooww

  • @mclaniyisapphire80
    @mclaniyisapphire80 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here after 3 years.

  • @kashawnaforte9364
    @kashawnaforte9364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WHEWWWWWWW 🔥🔥🔥

  • @danielbassa2354
    @danielbassa2354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When the black free indeed hoodie coming back in stock

  • @jacqueline9575
    @jacqueline9575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @rachelleiverson655
    @rachelleiverson655 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @ilovekene9697
    @ilovekene9697 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not a man. But I do struggle with emotional health. I often feel I don't have the right to laugh or smile or feel some way. I often feel my sentiments are invalid. This poem is great.

  • @BlueSea92
    @BlueSea92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🔥🔥🔥Wow

  • @tunuk4060
    @tunuk4060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏👏

  • @mangalisoxhamela4246
    @mangalisoxhamela4246 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn.

  • @9105tvp
    @9105tvp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤🙏❤

  • @whitediamonds444
    @whitediamonds444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That one dislike got me feeling like………😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

    • @thehoodedpoet9105
      @thehoodedpoet9105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @edwardwright7295
      @edwardwright7295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can't do anything about people who dislike videos like this maybe they dislike because they haven't found that comfort in Christ to know that it's okay to feel down just know that he can pick you up. Got to pray for people who don't understand have keep them in prayer so the Love of Christ can come in there hearts

    • @whitediamonds444
      @whitediamonds444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Edward Wright 👍🏾 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾 fist bump

    • @latashaallana7252
      @latashaallana7252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Theirs always one or few haters.🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @karenwallaceadventures3146
    @karenwallaceadventures3146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💙

  • @Reneica1
    @Reneica1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏾👏🏾

  • @narcherdsda
    @narcherdsda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonder what race that one dislike is and if they cried recently..

  • @rickbeastrandolph
    @rickbeastrandolph 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @realonethreesevens3640
    @realonethreesevens3640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm from Atlanta, what church are you a part of Preston? I am interested in attending, I've been trying to find a righteous Bible based church to be apart of

  • @karstenrogers7178
    @karstenrogers7178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi I am requesting permission to use this video for a youth service

  • @broderickbrown6028
    @broderickbrown6028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bruh ! Where you been 🙏🏾

  • @nakadapu...3138
    @nakadapu...3138 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍

  • @lawrencemanley4401
    @lawrencemanley4401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo....

  • @isaaclungu545
    @isaaclungu545 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus gives them the permission to cry

  • @dinglelawrence8890
    @dinglelawrence8890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is describing living oppression! Thanks, and No!