Always know kids hear everything. Doesn’t matter if you think the situation isn’t and wasn’t traumatic. If they don’t know what to do think of it… they don’t know how to deal with it. Always have the rough conversations in private. Don’t take your spouse or partner or whoever into a room when you should be out with your kids. Because all they do is stand next to the door and hear everything. However you handle situations.. conflicts.. arguments.. is the exact same way your child will. Your child picks up on your mannerisms , approaches, behaviors, perspectives. Your child wants to be like you. Even when you scare the child. In other words. The child will copy everything you do and handle situations the same way you did to build rapport with you. However you approach the world… your child will do the same.
It is significant speaks one who successfully brought a child through a parental suicide event at an early age but it misses the sources of all this trauma we're mostly unnecessarily experiencing!
As someone who deals with ptsd from different wars I've been too. One biggest things that got me somewhat able to leave the house was just exposure therapy for a Lil bit
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👍. I've been quite unsure about investing in this current market and at the same time I feel it's the best time to get started on the market. i was at a seminar and the host spoke about making over $972,000 within 3 Months with a capital of $200,000. i need to know how to go about it.
@Alex Benjamin there's a lot of money to be made in crypto. I feel this new interest rates hikes could crash this economy. I'm looking out for a better investing strategy, I have a lump sum that inflation is steady eating up. Please do you mind sharing any means of reaching out to him easily? I'm really interested.
It sounds ridiculous every time you say "kids", as though you think we are all rearing goats in our homes. I have children in my home and communicating is quite simple and effective. Perhaps, firstly defining for yourself the precise form of mammalian to which you speak would be helpful. ..
@Arif Anuar maybe pretend reality matters. "Anorexia is a dismorphic disorder that leads to people killing themselves." Which is why we try to help people with anorexia overcome the delusions (Can't link source (thanks youtube for supressing actual science). Mesh terms are anorexia nervosa delusion pubmed) which are at the root of their disease. Whether they are overvalued ideals (I want to be thin) or strict delusions (I'm fat). What we DON'T do is feed into those delusions by encouraging them to go even farther. Recommending so-called transgender surgery to a patient who believes they are a different gender, is like recommending liposuction, eating less, weight loss, and appetite-suppressing drugs to an anorexic with less than 4% body fat. It is exactly opposite of what that patient needs. In my view, transgender people fall into three camps. The first is the healthy variety. The least common. These are people who realize that they are what they are, and they choose to live as another gender and are willing to accept the inconvenience, pain, potentially shortened life due to hormones, and public scrutiny. I have two friends like this. I was in their respective weddings. But neither of them have any delusions about what they are. In a conversation with the FTM she told me that she understands she is very probably shortening her life by 10 to 20 years because of the combination of testosterone and estrogen blockers. She was mentally stable, and happy before her transition. And she is mentally stable and happy now. That is a non delusional person who recognizes that they are posing as another gender and that's how they want to live their life. And I support that in those cases. The second variety are the delusional. The people who believe they actually have changed from female to male or male to female. Dad is delusion in the face of reality. And that should not be celebrated, or encouraged, and no surgery or hormone therapy should be given in that case. Those people should be treated for their mental illness. The same way that you treat someone suffering from anorexia nervosa. The third group are transtrenders. These are people who are rolling with the trend. Many of them may overlap with the delusional category, but that's a case-by-case. Many of these people are very young, under the influence of public trends. Your typical young person who's going through a crisis of identity. Which is something that every young person goes through as they grow from a child into an adult. The problem is now you've got this entire industry targeting these people telling them that their normal adolescent angst is actually gender dysmorphia and then push and encourage them to follow this path of transgenderism. Frankly that is evil. It isn't like becoming Emo or goth, which are entirely reversible conditions. This leads to permanent physiological and psychological damage. Currently the left is engaging in an all fronts War to influence the second and third type to grab onto transgenderism as their flag. And then fly that flag and hate anyone who attempts to actually help them. This is an extension of the prior push, which was more subtle, where they push adolescents into adopting lgb Lifestyles, and then set up the straw man that conservatives are their enemy because they're gay. But conservative person doesn't care how you live your life as long as you're not hurting others. The line gets drawn when you start pushing particular lifestyles on children or the mentally ill who can't reasonably make decisions. For the second and third type, the delusional and transtrenders, psychological and or psychiatric should be the approach. Not encouraging them to delve ever deeper into delusion. First, face what you really are. Get healthy in that space. Then, as a consenting adult who is not delusional, if you wish to pretend to be another gender, then that's your choice as an adult. I draw another line at being forced to call someone a woman, who is not. I will be polite, As Long As You Are. But I will not pull punches on the facts of the case. And if you decide to try to insist that I call you a woman, when you are not. I will refuse. In the history of humankind no man has ever become a woman. That's reality.
Great speech
Always know kids hear everything. Doesn’t matter if you think the situation isn’t and wasn’t traumatic. If they don’t know what to do think of it… they don’t know how to deal with it.
Always have the rough conversations in private. Don’t take your spouse or partner or whoever into a room when you should be out with your kids. Because all they do is stand next to the door and hear everything.
However you handle situations.. conflicts.. arguments.. is the exact same way your child will. Your child picks up on your mannerisms , approaches, behaviors, perspectives.
Your child wants to be like you. Even when you scare the child. In other words. The child will copy everything you do and handle situations the same way you did to build rapport with you.
However you approach the world… your child will do the same.
Teachers are heroes.
Your video is so good and .Thanks so much🥰🥰
Ty
thank so much
wunderful !
Very important message Kristen!
Thankyou!
Are you facing this problem?
It is significant speaks one who successfully brought a child through a parental suicide event at an early age but it misses the sources of all this trauma we're mostly unnecessarily experiencing!
As someone who deals with ptsd from different wars I've been too. One biggest things that got me somewhat able to leave the house was just exposure therapy for a Lil bit
enlightening❤
Tough times create strong mans. So there is no luxury to be scared or vulnerable.
kids need more support than ever! they need to learn how to deal with normal human issues and not think that changing their gender is the solution.
Room temperature IQ answer
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This is so helpful
What if it’s not ok? We have to be realistic too…what then?
Ask for help I guess
i was born in 2005. momma
Fentanyl killed Floyd.
All they do is saying “okey”…
Equating George Floyd to JFK and the twin towers....lets put things in perspective please
and what perspective is that?
Can you provide?
Grants Pass Oregon USA to make Quality of all backgrounds
Now matter what.
New Resources.
To have friends for hours as required for somehow.
In February 18 2025
At less one to more Human Relationship in person
👍. I've been quite unsure about investing in this current market and at the same time I feel it's the best time to get started on the market. i was at a seminar and the host spoke about making over $972,000 within 3 Months with a capital of $200,000. i need to know how to go about it.
@Alex Benjamin there's a lot of money to be made in crypto. I feel this new interest rates hikes could crash this economy. I'm looking out for a better investing strategy, I have a lump sum that inflation is steady eating up. Please do you mind sharing any means of reaching out to him easily? I'm really interested.
@Alex Benjamin Ok, just found his website, impressive, Thank you.
It sounds ridiculous every time you say "kids", as though you think we are all rearing goats in our homes. I have children in my home and communicating is quite simple and effective. Perhaps, firstly defining for yourself the precise form of mammalian to which you speak would be helpful. ..
I'm applying this info to my Australian shepherd. I don't have kids. I am offended 😂
perhaps firstly to not get bogged down by unnecessary details would be helpful.
@Arif Anuar maybe pretend reality matters. "Anorexia is a dismorphic disorder that leads to people killing themselves." Which is why we try to help people with anorexia overcome the delusions (Can't link source (thanks youtube for supressing actual science). Mesh terms are anorexia nervosa delusion pubmed) which are at the root of their disease. Whether they are overvalued ideals (I want to be thin) or strict delusions (I'm fat).
What we DON'T do is feed into those delusions by encouraging them to go even farther. Recommending so-called transgender surgery to a patient who believes they are a different gender, is like recommending liposuction, eating less, weight loss, and appetite-suppressing drugs to an anorexic with less than 4% body fat.
It is exactly opposite of what that patient needs.
In my view, transgender people fall into three camps. The first is the healthy variety. The least common. These are people who realize that they are what they are, and they choose to live as another gender and are willing to accept the inconvenience, pain, potentially shortened life due to hormones, and public scrutiny. I have two friends like this. I was in their respective weddings. But neither of them have any delusions about what they are. In a conversation with the FTM she told me that she understands she is very probably shortening her life by 10 to 20 years because of the combination of testosterone and estrogen blockers. She was mentally stable, and happy before her transition. And she is mentally stable and happy now. That is a non delusional person who recognizes that they are posing as another gender and that's how they want to live their life. And I support that in those cases.
The second variety are the delusional. The people who believe they actually have changed from female to male or male to female. Dad is delusion in the face of reality. And that should not be celebrated, or encouraged, and no surgery or hormone therapy should be given in that case. Those people should be treated for their mental illness. The same way that you treat someone suffering from anorexia nervosa.
The third group are transtrenders. These are people who are rolling with the trend. Many of them may overlap with the delusional category, but that's a case-by-case. Many of these people are very young, under the influence of public trends. Your typical young person who's going through a crisis of identity. Which is something that every young person goes through as they grow from a child into an adult. The problem is now you've got this entire industry targeting these people telling them that their normal adolescent angst is actually gender dysmorphia and then push and encourage them to follow this path of transgenderism. Frankly that is evil. It isn't like becoming Emo or goth, which are entirely reversible conditions. This leads to permanent physiological and psychological damage.
Currently the left is engaging in an all fronts War to influence the second and third type to grab onto transgenderism as their flag. And then fly that flag and hate anyone who attempts to actually help them. This is an extension of the prior push, which was more subtle, where they push adolescents into adopting lgb Lifestyles, and then set up the straw man that conservatives are their enemy because they're gay. But conservative person doesn't care how you live your life as long as you're not hurting others. The line gets drawn when you start pushing particular lifestyles on children or the mentally ill who can't reasonably make decisions.
For the second and third type, the delusional and transtrenders, psychological and or psychiatric should be the approach. Not encouraging them to delve ever deeper into delusion.
First, face what you really are. Get healthy in that space. Then, as a consenting adult who is not delusional, if you wish to pretend to be another gender, then that's your choice as an adult.
I draw another line at being forced to call someone a woman, who is not. I will be polite, As Long As You Are. But I will not pull punches on the facts of the case. And if you decide to try to insist that I call you a woman, when you are not. I will refuse. In the history of humankind no man has ever become a woman. That's reality.
Um what! I think you are just looking for something to hate on lol
@@unknownuser069 Don't care Karen