6:00 value exchange 8:00 offsite 9:00 not value 9:55 show huge interest in them 11:45 coffee shop scan 12:20 intimidated when hr projecting to them 12:50 Bump tool 13:10 Find info about them 14:15 Comment on what she likes 15:45 self sabotage 16:20 stress inoculation in a controlled environment 17:10 &&Lost in their own heads 18:00 How u deliver & What u say 18:45 List of things to talk about 19:30 processes in spying 20:00 Conversational Map scanning 20:45 Tune in to list ur making 21:30 Be on offensive proactive mode 21:55 Have a Plan & Flow 22:30**PACE Plan Primary Alternate Contingency Emergency 23:20 screwed convo if its stuck with 1 24:40 resistance 25:10 too dumb to quit 25:55 Commit, build a rapport, social obligation 27:00 sc pressure 27:30 Persistency Commitment 27:50 overcommitment 28:45 **PACE proceffied how u execute etc 30:00 Emergency 31:00 ppl resist at first 31:30 u dont know who they are 32:30 girl doesnt wear makeup 33:00 Proximity 33:30 Can I sit with u? U 34:10 **Concrete Steps Facts: 34:40 35:15 35:40 **Made a Observation list 36:30 its obvious for her 37:00 Move it from the Conscious to Unconscious37:50Observe things, then Prioritize High Probability High Value 39:00 Visualization 39:30 Transactional before it becomes Relational39:50 41:10 Operational Thinking 41:40 Have deep knowledge to talk about something 42:00 overtalked instead of asking questions 43:15 **Casing Area Familiarizing44:30 45:20 fake stories write down routines 46:00 Alot of fakeness & adding lies 46:30 Social Capital 47:04 Be true & authentic 47:50 Different value Social Capital Costs 48:30 She talking about the beach49:15 Transactional to Relational 50:00 Trained liar, **Only lie 5% off51:00 51:50 they come off as off 52:18 Embody issue eye contact awkwardness 53:00 Mirroring53:45 Trust, Commonality, Openness 54:15mirror back to her physical distance 54:45 it has to be Demonstrable Science 55:20 nlp marketing55:50 56:05 56:25 no denonstrability 56:50 systematic processes consistent 57:15 Push Pull experiences 57:40 **Equal Exchanges to Investing more SC topics 58:10 Asking to know more info to Test & Dont overinvest 58:50 if she becomes defensive, ur debtor gotta make up ground 59:15 Got an Objective to meet 59:55 Operationally its not 1:00:10**Use tools to plan & know who ur target really are 1:1:e0 eye contact strong 1:2:00 **Build a habit of Looking like actively thinking 1:2:30 *Be aware of ur eye contact 1:3:20 How much time we need to know about their personality? 1:4:00 **Assume ppl are always living their Public Life Persona, until they start sharing Private 1:4:50 good job they like me
I like what Robin Williams said in Aladdin “Be yourself”. IMO, If you're dealing from the bottom of the deck or being someone you ain't, then in time things will eventually fall apart at the seams. Finding someone isn’t easy, you have to be patient. Also,try not to make the other person someone they are not; take time to figure them out.
my best approach ever I was at the gym and there was this girl, just my type, doing kettlebell swings. I had tried kettle bell swings a week or two prior and thought it felt awkward, so I actually had something to talk about when I approached her. She showed me how to do them properly. I thanked her and she started asking me about some the of plyometrics drills I do and then the conversation lead to sports we play and some back and forth compliments... I went on date with her later that week.
Honestly, I have learned how to apply these teachings in everryday life too. Exploiting vulnerabilities keeps scammers and frauds away. Good everyday relationship points too. Smart couples who work together. The American Dream. Another great selling point. There is hope again yet. Thank you.
6:00 value exchange 8:00 offsite 9:00 not value 9:55 show huge interest in them 11:45 coffee shop scan 12:20 intimidated when hr projecting to them 12:50 Bump tool 13:10 Find info about them 14:15 Comment on what she likes 15:45 self sabotage 16:20 stress inoculation in a controlled environment 17:10 &&Lost in their own heads 18:00 How u deliver & What u say 18:45 List of things to talk about 19:30 processes in spying 20:00 Conversational Map scanning 20:45 Tune in to list ur making 21:30 Be on offensive proactive mode 21:55 Have a Plan & Flow 22:30**PACE Plan Primary Alternate Contingency Emergency 23:20 screwed convo if its stuck with 1 24:40 resistance 25:10 too dumb to quit 25:55 Commit, build a rapport, social obligation 27:00 sc pressure 27:30 Persistency Commitment 27:50 overcommitment 28:45 **PACE proceffied how u execute etc 30:00 Emergency 31:00 ppl resist at first 31:30 u dont know who they are 32:30 girl doesnt wear makeup 33:00 Proximity 33:30 Can I sit with u? U 34:10 **Concrete Steps Facts: 34:4035:1535:40 **Made a Observation list 36:30 its obvious for her 37:00 Move it from the Conscious to Unconscious37:50Observe things, then Prioritize High Probability High Value 39:00 Visualization 39:30 Transactional before it becomes Relational39:5041:10 Operational Thinking 41:40 Have deep knowledge to talk about something 42:00 overtalked instead of asking questions 43:15 **Casing Area Familiarizing44:3045:20 fake stories write down routines 46:00 Alot of fakeness & adding lies 46:30 Social Capital 47:04 Be true & authentic 47:50 Different value Social Capital Costs 48:30 She talking about the beach49:15 Transactional to Relational 50:00 Trained liar, **Only lie 5% off51:0051:50 they come off as off 52:18 Embody issue eye contact awkwardness 53:00 Mirroring53:45 Trust, Commonality, Openness 54:15mirror back to her physical distance 54:45 it has to be Demonstrable Science 55:20 nlp marketing55:5056:0556:25 no denonstrability 56:50 systematic processes consistent 57:15 Push Pull experiences 57:40 **Equal Exchanges to Investing more SC topics 58:10 Asking to know more info to Test & Dont overinvest 58:50 if she becomes defensive, ur debtor gotta make up ground 59:15 Got an Objective to meet 59:55 Operationally its not 1:00:10**Use tools to plan & know who ur target really are 1:1:e0 eye contact strong 1:2:00 **Build a habit of Looking like actively thinking 1:2:30 *Be aware of ur eye contact 1:3:20 How much time we need to know about their personality? 1:4:00 **Assume ppl are always living their Public Life Persona, until they start sharing Private 1:4:50 good job they like me
I know someone who was in the services. He told me it's too compartmentalized to even get something out of the top level stuff. You're on a need to know basis, etc, etc...
I'm not sure I agree with the part about "It's not how you say it, it's what you say" - or maybe I just don't understand. Isn't non-verbal communication important?
Sounds like some pretty mediocre NLP practitioners at best. 😂 Psychotherapists mess up a lot too. The chick (PhD psychologist) I was working with didn't remember half the shit i told her. Also, her questions weren't even that good. I can ask better questions than she did (now). The most profound positive change I've experienced was when I was self motivated and ready to do so of course, while at the same time working with coaches trained in NLP and hypnosis. Incredible (for me anyway) to say the least. John Grinder was in the CIA and he uses NLP. Well he did help create NLP. The stuff they're talking about regarding NLP I've never even heard of, nor have I heard any certified trainer even mention whatsoever except for the shock technique, which was really a technique from Milton Erickson and Ericksonian hypnosis; and it's for therapeutic change work, not picking up chicks or in a social setting. (The "out there" stuff, nobody teaches it anymore). Also, a lot of the techniques he's talking about are literally some of the principles in NLP and Hypnosis (NLP is just fast track hypnosis), just renamed and reframed. For example, Talking about what's going on "right now" in the experience. That's called pacing the experience (or pacing and leading and it builds massive "rapport"). Watching out for "shift changes." That is using your sensory acuity to spot a "change of state." NLP isn't perfect, and there is a little bit of fluff for sure. But the non-fluff is pretty awesome. Learning and applying the concepts (regarding language especially), and even some of the techniques, in NLP have improved my relationships and my ability to connect with people 10 fold. That being said, The stuff Andrew is talking about is definitely more practical and straight forward for sure. This stuff is 🔥
Thank you to the one who gave a thoughtful and detailed reply sharing your experience and information about NLP and it's uses in responsible hands. I suppose the practitioners I've encountered in the stereotyped situation were the failed students who decided to misuse some techniques to try to get power over me and were obvious and ridiculous, to say nothing of their selfish motives. Perhaps NLP could be valid when used by a responsible practitioner with a genuine therapeutic purpose. And to the other person whose reply was flat contradiction of my point, in one word...incorrect...know that I'm laughing at you, pointing out your intellectual limitations to all my female friends. Nope, Bope.
i literally dont know how to talk to people but when i drink i do this naturally if the vibe is right. i learned to talk to police officers like this too because the whole i know my rights thing is combative so i started being interested talking about their flashlights and joking around. this is one of the best videos on how to talk to people, it all seems so dumb and obvious but its simply aligning and being aware of the surroundings and the persons characteristics then just commenting on them.. it really is so elementary that a genius like me has been oblivious to it because it seems so stupid and easy.. i dont do any of this. i recoil into a shell and live inside my own head and think about how uncomfortable i am.. but also i have to neg this because that guy is kind of a chad so things like this will come easy.. that alone will get him positive responses whereas someone who isnt very attractive will get disgusted responses.. like when they say she wont even give me the time of day.. hi what time is it? go away freak im calling the police!
Fellas, I’m a give you some sauce. Do you walk up to her? Preferably she’s downtown with her friends and you just tell her “that’s not fair.” She will be curious to what you’re talking about and inquire, and then you simply tell her “ these boys got lives live, you can’t be out here looking like that like it’s all nonchalant” or something to that tune
Pardon my skepticism, but I do not think that the Agency will be ok if someone, who were involved in the real ops, would disseminate the Agency’s “internal use only” methods. It looks similar to, for example, if the generals from JCS, would run videos on YT on the current US strategy and tactics. Just curious, if this is some sort of “common knowledge”, as part of what was said can be found even in Carnegie’s books.
23. Als iets niet lukt forceert z. List of relevant things happening around, then prioritize. Know arrea ahead to not be overwhelmed. Your boths past as topic weighs more for connection, and deeper likes dislikes. 57, 5
honestly I'm dissapointed... I've been making lots of approaches, nowadays its just impossible to make a conversation to women. I applied all of this and way more. Nothing works. Also lots of people say I'm good looking and have confidence... I've been to many psychologist, even hired a dating coach. I read the whole internet and watched every video. Its impossible to have a conversation with women. There are just way too many men competing for every woman.... I don't know who will read this comment or what he will think. There is just no solution.
Try making contact outside the usual "hunting grounds". I mean, at the mall, at the bus stop,... you will also get some good training, if you talk to people whom you don't want to hit on.
And maybe that's the problem, your so focused on the outcome and having a.successful conversation or finding a girlfriend that it causes u to come off as not natural, which girls are pros at noticing. Next time u go out to meet girls still talk to alot of them but go just to have a good time and dont care if u have sucess or not.... Another thing I highly suggest u do is ask one of ur really good friends what they think ur main problem is. And it's a bonus if u have a woman friend u can ask. And tell them to be blunt and honest with u, even if they think it'll hurt ur feelings or sound harsh. Alot of ppl aren't aware when they do certain stuff that comes off as awkward or off-putting. Last one, force the conversation. Find a gurl ur attracted to, wait til she's alone, walk up to her and say "hey im ___ , im sure this is prob the 10th time you've been told this tonight but u are freakin gorgeous and i know I woulda regretted it if I left and didn't say anything to u and I'd love to get ur number if u dont have a boyfriend"...... say that as casual as u can. I'm nothing special but I've had pretty damn good luck woth women some how and u can approach 100 girls with That paragraph and atleast 4/10 is gonna be a positive response
@@maysonrello1041 bro thank you but.... it just doesn't work for me.. "Another thing I highly suggest u do is ask one of ur really good friends what they think ur main problem is." I've done this countless times. I also been to many psychologists and even hired a dating coach. There is nothing wrong with me they all said, including my friends. I'm short so thats the whole problem. I'm too short to date. I know its ridiculous but Its the truth... "And maybe that's the problem, your so focused on the outcome and having a.successful conversation or finding a girlfriend that it causes u to come off as not natural, which girls are pros at noticing. Next time u go out to meet girls still talk to alot of them but go just to have a good time and dont care if u have sucess or not...." I know very well this thing about being free from outcome. I've done it so many times and i do it still. I do it every single time I go out. It has never helped me. Sorry if i come off as frustrating but none of those things have helped me with women. They helped me being a bit more social but thats it.. Thanks for trying to give me advice tough..
Best way i built up my confidence with woman was/is strip clubs. For the cost of a few lap dances, i can chat up a beautiful woman that has her breasts out. What to say to make her at ease. What to say to get her laughing. What to say to get her to do things that i want. After years of that, Starbucks is the easiest hit job.
I love a guy who knows how to have and maintain a conversation but money are important too … it’s a life reality that can not be ignored …… 🤷🏻♀️Sex is NOT everything ….
Hey man, actually next year we do not have any European workshops scheduled due to the complexities we faced the last two years with covid and countries closing/opening/closing, etc. - Andrew, TFM Team
I appreciate your knowledge and expertise, Andrew, but I must strongly disagree with your 30/70 example. To me, it's the opposite; it's not what you say it's how you say it. At least it's moreso how you say it.
I get what Andrew is saying, but I think he underestimates my inability to come up with good questions based on three talking points, "oh you're wearing a skirt? I love what's under skirts." Yeah sorry man I think I'm beyond even the CIA's help
Haven't even seen the vid but your comment man say this "your wearing a skirt huh cool literally I couldn't do it, wear shorts that is" see easy. Self control over sexual comments replaced with subtle funny hints that show interest is way better than talking about what's under her skirt.
This video had very basic info, tbh Seems like social capital is a rebrand of small talk Like girls aren't use to randomly affirming and compliment bombing them if a guy is not perceived as attractive several comments are just going to be considered creepy and off putting, And an easy out for most women will be to ask if the guy is a stalker, Because why are you looking at my bag and making assumptions. Most guys aren't equipped for that kind of fall out or public spectacle. This advice would work for trying to make guy friends or same gender friends maybe.
look im dead . my parents in their age unbeknownst to me have been talking the worst ish . throwing shade trying to get laid saying the worst ish ypy can imagine. as if im bait. they pay god knows to have me shut down and put in my station bruh wtf
There are aspects of this that I can believe, but at the end of the day it depends on who is applying the technique. If you look like Harvey Weinstein...it's not happening for you.
Andrew is actually quite a person. Meeting him in person was really impressive. Air Force officer, recruited directly by the CIA, very top notch. If you are truly curious, check out the Fearless Street Course on our events page: www.thefearlessman.com/events/. He will be there to teach us deeper ways to connect using tools taught to him by the CIA. Landon, TFM
Andrew is smart.....each time Brian says something, he says : exactly, you're totally right & smiles alot...
6:00 value exchange 8:00 offsite 9:00 not value
9:55 show huge interest in them 11:45 coffee shop scan 12:20 intimidated when hr projecting to them 12:50 Bump tool 13:10 Find info about them 14:15 Comment on what she likes 15:45 self sabotage
16:20 stress inoculation in a controlled environment 17:10 &&Lost in their own heads 18:00 How u deliver & What u say 18:45 List of things to talk about 19:30 processes in spying 20:00 Conversational Map scanning 20:45 Tune in to list ur making 21:30 Be on offensive proactive mode 21:55 Have a Plan & Flow 22:30**PACE Plan Primary Alternate Contingency Emergency 23:20 screwed convo if its stuck with 1
24:40 resistance 25:10 too dumb to quit 25:55 Commit, build a rapport, social obligation 27:00 sc pressure 27:30 Persistency Commitment 27:50 overcommitment 28:45 **PACE proceffied how u execute etc 30:00 Emergency 31:00 ppl resist at first
31:30 u dont know who they are 32:30 girl doesnt wear makeup 33:00 Proximity 33:30 Can I sit with u? U 34:10 **Concrete Steps Facts: 34:40 35:15 35:40 **Made a Observation list 36:30 its obvious for her 37:00 Move it from the Conscious to Unconscious37:50Observe things, then Prioritize High Probability High Value 39:00 Visualization 39:30 Transactional before it becomes Relational39:50 41:10 Operational Thinking 41:40 Have deep knowledge to talk about something 42:00 overtalked instead of asking questions 43:15 **Casing Area Familiarizing44:30 45:20 fake stories write down routines 46:00 Alot of fakeness & adding lies 46:30 Social Capital 47:04 Be true & authentic 47:50 Different value Social Capital Costs 48:30 She talking about the beach49:15 Transactional to Relational 50:00 Trained liar, **Only lie 5% off51:00 51:50 they come off as off 52:18 Embody issue eye contact awkwardness 53:00 Mirroring53:45 Trust, Commonality, Openness 54:15mirror back to her physical distance 54:45 it has to be Demonstrable Science 55:20 nlp marketing55:50 56:05 56:25 no denonstrability 56:50 systematic processes consistent 57:15 Push Pull experiences 57:40 **Equal Exchanges to Investing more SC topics 58:10 Asking to know more info to Test & Dont overinvest 58:50 if she becomes defensive, ur debtor gotta make up ground 59:15 Got an Objective to meet 59:55 Operationally its not 1:00:10**Use tools to plan & know who ur target really are 1:1:e0 eye contact strong 1:2:00 **Build a habit of Looking like actively thinking 1:2:30 *Be aware of ur eye contact 1:3:20 How much time we need to know about their personality? 1:4:00 **Assume ppl are always living their Public Life Persona, until they start sharing Private 1:4:50 good job they like me
Andrew's conversations truly never boring! Love to listen and learn with him.
I like what Robin Williams said in Aladdin “Be yourself”. IMO, If you're dealing from the bottom of the deck or being someone you ain't, then in time things will eventually fall apart at the seams. Finding someone isn’t easy, you have to be patient. Also,try not to make the other person someone they are not; take time to figure them out.
my best approach ever I was at the gym and there was this girl, just my type, doing kettlebell swings. I had tried kettle bell swings a week or two prior and thought it felt awkward, so I actually had something to talk about when I approached her. She showed me how to do them properly. I thanked her and she started asking me about some the of plyometrics drills I do and then the conversation lead to sports we play and some back and forth compliments... I went on date with her later that week.
Honestly, I have learned how to apply these teachings in everryday life too. Exploiting vulnerabilities keeps scammers and frauds away. Good everyday relationship points too. Smart couples who work together. The American Dream. Another great selling point. There is hope again yet. Thank you.
6:00 value exchange 8:00 offsite 9:00 not value
9:55 show huge interest in them 11:45 coffee shop scan 12:20 intimidated when hr projecting to them 12:50 Bump tool 13:10 Find info about them 14:15 Comment on what she likes 15:45 self sabotage
16:20 stress inoculation in a controlled environment 17:10 &&Lost in their own heads 18:00 How u deliver & What u say 18:45 List of things to talk about 19:30 processes in spying 20:00 Conversational Map scanning 20:45 Tune in to list ur making 21:30 Be on offensive proactive mode 21:55 Have a Plan & Flow 22:30**PACE Plan Primary Alternate Contingency Emergency 23:20 screwed convo if its stuck with 1
24:40 resistance 25:10 too dumb to quit 25:55 Commit, build a rapport, social obligation 27:00 sc pressure 27:30 Persistency Commitment 27:50 overcommitment 28:45 **PACE proceffied how u execute etc 30:00 Emergency 31:00 ppl resist at first
31:30 u dont know who they are 32:30 girl doesnt wear makeup 33:00 Proximity 33:30 Can I sit with u? U 34:10 **Concrete Steps Facts: 34:40 35:15 35:40 **Made a Observation list 36:30 its obvious for her 37:00 Move it from the Conscious to Unconscious37:50Observe things, then Prioritize High Probability High Value 39:00 Visualization 39:30 Transactional before it becomes Relational39:50 41:10 Operational Thinking 41:40 Have deep knowledge to talk about something 42:00 overtalked instead of asking questions 43:15 **Casing Area Familiarizing44:30 45:20 fake stories write down routines 46:00 Alot of fakeness & adding lies 46:30 Social Capital 47:04 Be true & authentic 47:50 Different value Social Capital Costs 48:30 She talking about the beach49:15 Transactional to Relational 50:00 Trained liar, **Only lie 5% off51:00 51:50 they come off as off 52:18 Embody issue eye contact awkwardness 53:00 Mirroring53:45 Trust, Commonality, Openness 54:15mirror back to her physical distance 54:45 it has to be Demonstrable Science 55:20 nlp marketing55:50 56:05 56:25 no denonstrability 56:50 systematic processes consistent 57:15 Push Pull experiences 57:40 **Equal Exchanges to Investing more SC topics 58:10 Asking to know more info to Test & Dont overinvest 58:50 if she becomes defensive, ur debtor gotta make up ground 59:15 Got an Objective to meet 59:55 Operationally its not 1:00:10**Use tools to plan & know who ur target really are 1:1:e0 eye contact strong 1:2:00 **Build a habit of Looking like actively thinking 1:2:30 *Be aware of ur eye contact 1:3:20 How much time we need to know about their personality? 1:4:00 **Assume ppl are always living their Public Life Persona, until they start sharing Private 1:4:50 good job they like me
Andrew’s sound quality⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Him employing women to let men learn conversation is a genius idea.
How do you find out about his training program?
Please do an escape and evade kidnapping episode. For real.
i liked the acronyms, actually gives credence to the D.E.N.N.I.S. system
Thanks for sharing. I love you guys. Have a great one. :)
came back to this one and just realized how brian love to impower other man colleagues. love that
Merci beaucoup ! Muchas gracias ! Thank you a lot!
I’ve been enjoying Andrew’s channel. Thanks Brian & team! 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
What is his channel?
Nice video. I've always wondered if there was a method to get tased. Idea fo next video: a pitch for a monorail. In Springfield.
Thank you
I just ran across your channel, great episode! I’ll be back for more!
I liked the video at 10:33 lol it got so deep right there . Big realization
This video is full of value. Thanks so much!!
I really enjoyed this video. Hope to hear more from him.
This info is valuable beyond measure. You guys are awesome for this.
Incorrect
Thanks
Be born again 🙏
I know someone who was in the services. He told me it's too compartmentalized to even get something out of the top level stuff. You're on a need to know basis, etc, etc...
45:45 Right!?!? People & their stories. Lol
I’ve never heard someone that has actually been in Intel refer to it as the agency. Only on tv shows or films. Only when acting.
This is a spectacular video. Thanks guys.
I'm not sure I agree with the part about "It's not how you say it, it's what you say" - or maybe I just don't understand. Isn't non-verbal communication important?
Great info
Awesome material. 👍🏼
doesn’t “heady” mean dabbing cannabis concentrate?
I can always tell an NLP practitioner. They screw up a lot. They don't pay attention to the responses they're getting.
Sounds like some pretty mediocre NLP practitioners at best. 😂 Psychotherapists mess up a lot too. The chick (PhD psychologist) I was working with didn't remember half the shit i told her. Also, her questions weren't even that good. I can ask better questions than she did (now).
The most profound positive change I've experienced was when I was self motivated and ready to do so of course, while at the same time working with coaches trained in NLP and hypnosis. Incredible (for me anyway) to say the least.
John Grinder was in the CIA and he uses NLP. Well he did help create NLP. The stuff they're talking about regarding NLP I've never even heard of, nor have I heard any certified trainer even mention whatsoever except for the shock technique, which was really a technique from Milton Erickson and Ericksonian hypnosis; and it's for therapeutic change work, not picking up chicks or in a social setting. (The "out there" stuff, nobody teaches it anymore).
Also, a lot of the techniques he's talking about are literally some of the principles in NLP and Hypnosis (NLP is just fast track hypnosis), just renamed and reframed. For example, Talking about what's going on "right now" in the experience. That's called pacing the experience (or pacing and leading and it builds massive "rapport"). Watching out for "shift changes." That is using your sensory acuity to spot a "change of state."
NLP isn't perfect, and there is a little bit of fluff for sure. But the non-fluff is pretty awesome. Learning and applying the concepts (regarding language especially), and even some of the techniques, in NLP have improved my relationships and my ability to connect with people 10 fold. That being said, The stuff Andrew is talking about is definitely more practical and straight forward for sure. This stuff is 🔥
Sometimes people are a lot like Columbo, they’re listening more than you know.
Incorrect
Thank you to the one who gave a thoughtful and detailed reply sharing your experience and information about NLP and it's uses in responsible hands. I suppose the practitioners I've encountered in the stereotyped situation were the failed students who decided to misuse some techniques to try to get power over me and were obvious and ridiculous, to say nothing of their selfish motives. Perhaps NLP could be valid when used by a responsible practitioner with a genuine therapeutic purpose.
And to the other person whose reply was flat contradiction of my point, in one word...incorrect...know that I'm laughing at you, pointing out your intellectual limitations to all my female friends. Nope, Bope.
. I thought it was called mindfulness. That's what my therapist said! * some sarcasm
i literally dont know how to talk to people but when i drink i do this naturally if the vibe is right. i learned to talk to police officers like this too because the whole i know my rights thing is combative so i started being interested talking about their flashlights and joking around. this is one of the best videos on how to talk to people, it all seems so dumb and obvious but its simply aligning and being aware of the surroundings and the persons characteristics then just commenting on them.. it really is so elementary that a genius like me has been oblivious to it because it seems so stupid and easy.. i dont do any of this. i recoil into a shell and live inside my own head and think about how uncomfortable i am.. but also i have to neg this because that guy is kind of a chad so things like this will come easy.. that alone will get him positive responses whereas someone who isnt very attractive will get disgusted responses.. like when they say she wont even give me the time of day.. hi what time is it? go away freak im calling the police!
Fellas, I’m a give you some sauce. Do you walk up to her? Preferably she’s downtown with her friends and you just tell her “that’s not fair.” She will be curious to what you’re talking about and inquire, and then you simply tell her “ these boys got lives live, you can’t be out here looking like that like it’s all nonchalant” or something to that tune
That doesn’t make any sense
This is the third different place I've heard Andy say he was from 🤣🤣
Thanks guys!!!!
Pardon my skepticism, but I do not think that the Agency will be ok if someone, who were involved in the real ops, would disseminate the Agency’s “internal use only” methods. It looks similar to, for example, if the generals from JCS, would run videos on YT on the current US strategy and tactics. Just curious, if this is some sort of “common knowledge”, as part of what was said can be found even in Carnegie’s books.
Never fails to teach me something new 💯✊
The oldest profession in the world is agriculture followed by or equalled by hunting.
😂Aha...I never looked at it this way.
Hunting def older than farming
Yeah but hunting never started out as a profession, it was literally for survival.
Incredible insights
23. Als iets niet lukt forceert z. List of relevant things happening around, then prioritize. Know arrea ahead to not be overwhelmed. Your boths past as topic weighs more for connection, and deeper likes dislikes. 57, 5
Rock it man!!
Free advice : be in the middle of the screen, shouldn't look down all the time, your microphone is " akward"😉
What’s crazy is that bold guy entire career career is based on attracting women but Andrew seems like the one who is trained as this lol
How to counter the PACE plan, when used against self ?
What do you fo when you know your a sitting duck or easy kill?
This was another great video , covered a lot of bases .
NLP is so obvious to notice now
Wonderful Info!! Any plans to come to Germany?
Not at the moment; however, there is always a possibility a door will open that would allow us to.
Landon, True Courage
Great interview, a very interesting point of view of social interactions. Thanks a lot!
What’s your biggest takeaway from this conversation?
Is this content on spotify? I looked for this and another of your videos but couldn’t find it
No, but I’m working on turning it into a podcast.
Great video, but don't share eyeliner lol
honestly I'm dissapointed... I've been making lots of approaches, nowadays its just impossible to make a conversation to women. I applied all of this and way more. Nothing works. Also lots of people say I'm good looking and have confidence...
I've been to many psychologist, even hired a dating coach. I read the whole internet and watched every video.
Its impossible to have a conversation with women.
There are just way too many men competing for every woman....
I don't know who will read this comment or what he will think. There is just no solution.
Hit the gym
Send me an email and let's discuss this.
Landon, True Courage
landon@truecourage.io
Try making contact outside the usual "hunting grounds". I mean, at the mall, at the bus stop,... you will also get some good training, if you talk to people whom you don't want to hit on.
And maybe that's the problem, your so focused on the outcome and having a.successful conversation or finding a girlfriend that it causes u to come off as not natural, which girls are pros at noticing. Next time u go out to meet girls still talk to alot of them but go just to have a good time and dont care if u have sucess or not....
Another thing I highly suggest u do is ask one of ur really good friends what they think ur main problem is. And it's a bonus if u have a woman friend u can ask. And tell them to be blunt and honest with u, even if they think it'll hurt ur feelings or sound harsh. Alot of ppl aren't aware when they do certain stuff that comes off as awkward or off-putting.
Last one, force the conversation. Find a gurl ur attracted to, wait til she's alone, walk up to her and say "hey im ___ , im sure this is prob the 10th time you've been told this tonight but u are freakin gorgeous and i know I woulda regretted it if I left and didn't say anything to u and I'd love to get ur number if u dont have a boyfriend"...... say that as casual as u can. I'm nothing special but I've had pretty damn good luck woth women some how and u can approach 100 girls with That paragraph and atleast 4/10 is gonna be a positive response
@@maysonrello1041 bro thank you but.... it just doesn't work for me..
"Another thing I highly suggest u do is ask one of ur really good friends what they think ur main problem is."
I've done this countless times. I also been to many psychologists and even hired a dating coach. There is nothing wrong with me they all said, including my friends. I'm short so thats the whole problem. I'm too short to date. I know its ridiculous but Its the truth...
"And maybe that's the problem, your so focused on the outcome and having a.successful conversation or finding a girlfriend that it causes u to come off as not natural, which girls are pros at noticing. Next time u go out to meet girls still talk to alot of them but go just to have a good time and dont care if u have sucess or not...."
I know very well this thing about being free from outcome. I've done it so many times and i do it still. I do it every single time I go out. It has never helped me.
Sorry if i come off as frustrating but none of those things have helped me with women. They helped me being a bit more social but thats it.. Thanks for trying to give me advice tough..
Best way i built up my confidence with woman was/is strip clubs. For the cost of a few lap dances, i can chat up a beautiful woman that has her breasts out. What to say to make her at ease. What to say to get her laughing. What to say to get her to do things that i want. After years of that, Starbucks is the easiest hit job.
step one: have Andrews smile.
Seriously! Geez it’s nice I’m jelly.
I love a guy who knows how to have and maintain a conversation but money are important too … it’s a life reality that can not be ignored …… 🤷🏻♀️Sex is NOT everything ….
We know you love a money guy...304
How you can go from short to long hair so fast?🎉
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An obvious power trip is a turn off. Clumsy
You never get out the business.
Hi brian when do you think you are coming to europe?
Hey man, actually next year we do not have any European workshops scheduled due to the complexities we faced the last two years with covid and countries closing/opening/closing, etc. - Andrew, TFM Team
We need plans for girls heheheh how to attract a guy 😂😂
I appreciate your knowledge and expertise, Andrew, but I must strongly disagree with your 30/70 example. To me, it's the opposite; it's not what you say it's how you say it. At least it's moreso how you say it.
You interrupted him.
Spies are too dumb to quit...I like it!
This nigga jawline is flawless wtf
I get what Andrew is saying, but I think he underestimates my inability to come up with good questions based on three talking points, "oh you're wearing a skirt? I love what's under skirts." Yeah sorry man I think I'm beyond even the CIA's help
Haven't even seen the vid but your comment man say this "your wearing a skirt huh cool literally I couldn't do it, wear shorts that is" see easy. Self control over sexual comments replaced with subtle funny hints that show interest is way better than talking about what's under her skirt.
Sounds like insider trading
This video had very basic info, tbh
Seems like social capital is a rebrand of small talk
Like girls aren't use to randomly affirming and compliment bombing them
if a guy is not perceived as attractive several comments are just going to be considered creepy and off putting,
And an easy out for most women will be to ask if the guy is a stalker,
Because why are you looking at my bag and making assumptions.
Most guys aren't equipped for that kind of fall out or public spectacle.
This advice would work for trying to make guy friends or same gender friends maybe.
Am boring because am just not me ….
Hard to move away from the island
To be with snakes
70 % is what you say ? 18 min in and I am out! 18 min with a talk with a spy and “ you walk up to a girl and ask her about her lap top”
Bye
Lying is P.A.C.E.
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look im dead . my parents in their age unbeknownst to me have been talking the worst ish . throwing shade trying to get laid saying the worst ish ypy can imagine. as if im bait. they pay god knows to have me shut down and put in my station bruh wtf
theres no reaching them.
There no such thing as ex Cop and ex prostitute 😉😉😉
Lesson learned on both accounts.
There are aspects of this that I can believe, but at the end of the day it depends on who is applying the technique. If you look like Harvey Weinstein...it's not happening for you.
Harvey Weinstein was very successful for a very long time. He got complacent with his success and got lazy and took it for granted.
millionaire in Indian rupees?
Good stuff for business, etc., but wouldn't ever waste the time thinking out a pace plan just to talk to a woman--they're not worth it.
new kind of bullshido...😂 the andrew guy is selling the same age old snake oil in new packaging
I have a feeling this spy guy doesn't really have game
Andrew is actually quite a person. Meeting him in person was really impressive. Air Force officer, recruited directly by the CIA, very top notch. If you are truly curious, check out the Fearless Street Course on our events page: www.thefearlessman.com/events/.
He will be there to teach us deeper ways to connect using tools taught to him by the CIA.
Landon, TFM
Look closer.
Go back to sleep.
@@elissitdesign I'm actually up very early just to reply to you
@@sleepysleepy9913cope harder
nice conversation. worst example of practice. manipulating women!!!!!!!!!