You are dead on accurate. When my wife is cleaning around me I cannot help but get up and help because she has learned those lessons. Because she is that way I will move the earth to make her happy !!!!!!!!! Been together 47 years.
The more masculine a man becomes, that allows a woman to be more feminine. The man must lead his wife, and family in the right way. If he doesn't have that ability, then trouble will follow.
I have been married for 23 years and in that time, I cannot recall one time where my wife was a supportive blessing. She has always been a burden seeking to find ways in which I can help carry more of her responsibilities. The small number of times she has seemed to want to know more of what she can do to help me was to simply review what I am currently doing, provide criticism and add to the list. Guys do yourself a favor and be very, very slow and selective when it comes to dealing with women.
Tell her this and divorce would be a godsend. She has aged out of dating world and should be scared of boxed wine and cat land. If she's not, 1/2 your wealth seems a small price to pay for peace of mind.
Wow STB 1971 ))) you nailed !! So true !! If she can find someone better - hold the door open for her and buy her a first class ticket to any where but here !!
@ Todd Homman that is very true! It is hard, very hard, to find a woman who wants and desires to be a wife to her husband out of love. I can give no advice on where these ladies are located, but absolutely without doubt, you will KNOW when you come across one! It will be refreshing to be around them! You will find one, just be impatiently patient and wait and watch, and while you're at waiting, work on yourself, on your character, wisdom, academics, and pay no heed to pathetic, arrogant, hostile women who are destitute of wisdom.
My ex-wife felt the need to share every single last negative thought about me that popped into her noggin. It was twenty years of absolute misery broken up by some rare good times. She either loved me or she hated me. There was no in between. I was way more careful the second time around, and got myself a prenup-which gave the ability to walk away should it become miserable for little to no financial pain. My new wife is a blessing. She’s what a wife should be, and I wish more women would watch this channel. It would save a lot of marriages.
@@lesrealisationsaudet9070 yes. They're grown. They have some emotional issues because of their mom’s out-of-control behavior. Though, my youngest managed to get a 160k scholarship to an elite New England university.
The quiet ones got the most skeletons in their closet. That's why they quiet now. They think they open their mouth a bones gonna fall out. -Eddie Murphy
Ma’am respect to you. This is what our mothers and grand mothers did. That’s why the world was so good. Strong Woman ( not the feminist version)at home is a blessing for the family,the society and the country.👍🏽
This channel is life changing for me- a channel where you speak to women to challenge women to be better, but hearing all this is reminding me to be a better man and a human. To ask my self what I bring to the table rather than think about “what I deserve” in a relationship - whatever that means!.... Thank you for teaching me to be a better human, Jennifer. I am changing my attitude today. Please say a prayer for me. God Bless
and then in the same breath they say "Dont objectify us", last I checked table is an object. If more women will be cooperative, loving and supportive there will be lot more stable relationship and families. But feminism has turned them into combative enemies who distrust men, I hope they wake up one day.
It's every easy to break through that... ready? "Tables" are available at IKEA, brand new, for as low as $119.99. Remind these foolish "tables" that you're not looking for a "table", and that if they would like to see themselves as such, they're probably not even worth the price of an IKEA table.
Love it .. I asked my wife today " If you go back in time . Would you have chosen me ? " I am far from Brad Pitt and far from money . I sing to her my silly songs all the time and tell her I love her a dozen times a day .. I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Cancer overt two years ago . She could see it in my eyes . We both filled each other with hope . Every time I went to the hospital . Id ask . " Is it going to be alright .? . She always said " Yeppers " .I used to joke years ago with women " You were created to be help .. Not a hindrance " .. Great pick up line !!! . . I can only speak for myself. My lady gives me strength . Through her I see that little girl that just wants to be loved . . God created every star in the sky , every flower . He created woman and blessed a man with her beauty and Love . I am grateful for my little Kathy
The answer to the initial question is “no”. EVERYwoman thinks that they deserve better. The only question is if she can give up you (security) for the hope for a better fit. Face it, women are opportunistic.
You ever wonder why a women's curse in the Garden of Eden was to desire a man? Really, that was her curse, along with pain in childbirth. (Gen 3:16) And that man's curses were given, not just bc he sinned, but also bc he "listened to his wife"? (Gen 3:17) It seems our relationships were sewn in rocky soul from the start. I guess that's why we need Jesus to help us get thru' it.
You have me crying. You sound so happy in love🥰 she sounds amazing! I hope you're doing well with the mean ole cancer battle. You're a warrior! God bless you and Mrs Kathy. Love and prayers.. I love my husband and I hope he thinks at least half of what you do about your Lady. 🥰 Thank you so much for sharing your sweet story.
im a 21 yo black male, and ive been following jennifer for a while because of her personality and her tendencies to tell the TRUTH straight forward like it should be told. ily jen
Omg yes. When you said bite your tongue that was spot on. I understand when my wife can't have the house clean at times or when I have to eat frozen food for dinner because she's tired or stressed. I can deal with that stuff easy but when she won't stop debating everything I say or complaining about irrelevant stuff that drives me nuts.
As A New Zealand Man, Husband, and Father... I congratulate you... I thank you on such an excellent, and much needed voice of Good advice to woman on how to make their relationship with their Husbands work. Such a rarity in todays insane woke Man-hating feminist culture. We men certainly will respond well to a woman who actually seeks to fulfill their side of the marriage vows to be a loving wife.
They do exist! Women are lead by other women frequently and given bad advice! You deserve on and on they say to each other! Marriage is between two not the neighbors waiting to you the phrase you deserve! Wonderful advice thank you! Wonderful advice my daughter applied this in her marriage and guess what it works truly their are women that have this concept and it works
@@christyrucker2479 I think it's funny. It took feminism to expose female nature and all its flaws and how desperately women need a strong male hand in their lives.
@@thenarrator1984 for sure, although I'm a Christian and the Bible is pretty explicit about that. I could talk for days about it. And about how women left to their own devices are a mess, even the good hearted ones. We just can't help it. (Ask me how I know lol)
I freaking love this! 😁 It's so true and no one is allowed to talk about it. I walked away from my marriage of 13 years, 10 years ago, for this very reason and am still single. Because I refused to settle for the type of women in our world today. WTF happened to the good moms and wives. REfuse to settle!!! stay strong gentlemen. E
Your message makes you a 5 star hottie! God bless you. Women need to know if they just respect men and be a little considerate, most guys will literally die protecting and serving them, ROI (return on investment) is off the charts....ancient wisdom. My wife had an 80 plus year old aunt that used to visit us from the Old Country and she used to be such a good influence on my wife with this message that I always wanted her visiting...same message as this video.
Yes be a blessing! I didn’t used to be as helpful as I am now. Learning to be humble and more useful has helped me be a better person ❤ and totally agree that being a better you will manifest your ideal relationship 😊
@@AbstractAngelArtist I understand you’d assume that, but I’m not anymore. I had a major pivot in 2015 and have totally redesigned my life and now I help other women do the same who want my help.
God created men and women with different strengths for a reason. My wife and I are a blessing to each other. I never thought a marriage could be so easy. When you love someone the way we're supposed to, you do things for them and never expect anything in return. When it goes both ways, it's a wonderful life. Even when the world is trying to beat us up.
Jennifer, you’re a blessing. To us men and more so to the women of this world, trying to remind females to be women and remind us all of simple truths in a world that has embraced the degradation, desecration and deviling of daughters of God.
This is an important video. Women today are completely entitled and it's almost criminal to call them out on anything. It's why men are not getting married. Not worth the hassle.
The Tongue is a 2 edged sword, it can build up or tear down a soul, and neither takes much effort on the wielder. It doesn’t hurt to be nice. A little appreciation goes a long way.
On average most men don’t have to be prompted, reminded, or encouraged to be a “blessing” to their women bc they are expected to be and they want to be. Culturally the message to the modern woman is to be as selfish as possible, meaning it’s all about her happiness. He should be doing all these things and if not find another man who will. Here’s another one I hear quite often: a man shouldn’t rely on you for anything bc that would be considered emotional “labor”. Don’t be a man’s mother, etc. In essence a man has to fulfill a woman’s ever changing ever evolving wants, needs, and desires but shouldn’t expect anything in return or ask anything of her. In other words women want men to be in a one sided non-reciprocating committed relationship where he caters to all her needs but he has to still carry himself as if he’s still single in terms of taking care of himself as if she’s not even in his life but when it comes to his sex life he has to act like he’s in a committed relationship with her. Her on the other hand wants the security and social status/proof that comes with being in a relationship but wants to still exercise/explore her options as if she’s still single especially when it comes to her sex life. In either case women get to have their cake and eat it too. Any push back, resistance, complaints, or reservations from the man, women talk it up as men being weak, insecure, manipulative, or controlling which is just a way to shame, guilt trip, or gaslight men into going along with it. I believe the other reason women are against being a man’s blessing is bc culturally we have programmed women to associate anything she would do for her man as being equivalent to slavery hence all this resistance to relationship reciprocation.
Proverbs 21:9- it is better to live on the corner of your roof than share your house with a quarrelsome wife. Yes men, be very careful. Very careful. And women, listen to what this smart young lady says.
Every Human should be training and putting forth 100% effort to be a Blessing to each other. People need to learn to think of others and not just themselves.
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@phil: your last point, so true. The right attitude can be very attractive. When I was married, I never tried to directly change my wife but tried to set examples and lead that way. She never got it; she almost always wanted to be in control.
Hello Ms first time TH-cam brought up ur page and listened to u all day and I tell u what u made me feel so proud to be a man I walked all day with my chest pumped high thank u
I love this. Thank you!!! When my wife works hard to support me, I kick it in another gear to do things for her. Especially when I feel like she praises me, it makes me feel like Superman and I would take a bullet for her.
The woman I loved dearly had a very smart mouth. I'd give her a compliment and recieved attitude and derision in return. As much as I loved her, and I still do, I stopped talking to her altogether because no matter how nice I was she wouldn't stop. I need someone who can help me make good decisions in life and a healthy, critical discussion with someone you love and who loves you is a blessing.
CAN YOU IMAGINE HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT SPEAK YOUR LANGUAGE? THIS INTERACTION USUALLY ENDS IN CONFUSION & FRUSTRATION. YOU CAN GET ANYTHING FROM ANYONE IF YOU KNOW HOW TO TALK TO THEM. PEOPLE SUBMIT BECAUSE THEY WANT SOMETHING. SURRENDER IS THE WILLINGNESS TO LEARN THE LANGUAGE OF ANOTHER. SURRENDER IS SITTING PATIENTLY @ THE FEET OF THE ONE THAT MADE THE PROMISE. SUBMISSION IS PARASITIC. SURRENDER IS SYMBIOTIC.
I think most men are 100% on board with humanism, men and women are equal in value (no need for Feminists or MGTOWs). But this 3rd wave of Feminist bull has polarized a lot of men into checking out.
I love what you say. I e been watching you for several years now. This is the most important statement you’ve made. Men love peace. Women love drama. Guess who wins ? You can always die alone.
Just by being born you honored your parents... But beyond that honoring them is an ongoing accumulation of all you do which is a credit to them (whether or not it involves obeying them). So yes you can be an automatic blessing but for the most part it's an ongoing effort. If you must be competitive then do so by out-resisting him for all the times he doesn't snap at you. Why should the marriage you agreed to get less effort than when you worked for customers/clients/partners/bosses/etc? You know how to get tips/not-fired so apply that where it matters more.
Out in the barn, NICE :). But we are naturally a blessing, we give birth. That being said, life is way to short to "sweat the little things". Often my husband will make a comment....... very often, I will say "are you asking my thoughts". In all honesty, most of the time he responds yes. I give my thoughts/opinion, sometimes that ends up in great conversation, other times... life just goes on. Finding ways to let your man know how much he is appreciated, if he is a good man, will come back to you many, many times over. Totally agree with the premise "be a blessing".
What planet are you from? I just subscribed, because I literally don’t know how else to respond to your wisdom, it sounds foreign, but deep down inside it feels timeless. Guys don’t want you to be a slave, they just want you to be emotionally constructive.
You nailed it lady !! Thank you !! You always give good advice on us making ourselves ( men to women or women to men ) to be the best spouse we can be.
The "what about the men" comment demonstrates the cultural mentality of having a transactional relationship. "Yeah, but I do this, that, and the other and they only do X." Those who operate by transaction in their relationships are often terrible at truly tallying both their own efforts and the efforts of their partner. There is no love in transactions. Hopefully this message was a blessing to those who need to hear it.
I love your mind and so right on! That’s my wife says women create stress and drama it doesn’t have to be complicated you make it complicated. But they’re always the exception to the rule not everybody’s perfect
Imagine if all women were like this. Men would literally be 350% more productive in their work life and home life. Technology would advance at a much faster rate.
I cook and clean up, I love making food, breads, cinnamon buns, spaghetti sauce etc. It's all so easy to make. Drives me crazy when I see people buying sauce at the store. My wife loves my "clown recipes" specially my Cajun Clown Fries. Married 42 years and still fool around. I also clean the bathroom, she loves her clean tub.
So wise and solid on controlling what one can--yourself. Be a blessing! You do you! in your role. Mostly frustration results in trusting mainly in others fulfilling their part in a relationship.
You have the perfect attitude to be a wife. My wife had the same attitude and she was my life's greatest blessing. Her goal in life was to be a wife and mother. I was the breadwinner. It worked for us very very well. She would have made any man in the world happy but she chose me and she treated me like a king. I did my best to deserve that treatment. Would that I could be that lucky again! I do have beautiful memories to last me from now on.
That is wonderful Gary Stearns! I too hope to be the best blessing to my husband! I hope we remain best friends even when we are old and worn (right now we are in our thirties and worn lol). I have been married 6 years. Best years of my life so far.
You are a light in the Storm. I applaud You. I would imagine you often feel like the Only Women who is trying to speak the truth. I am divorced. At 53 I've had a splendid life. I worry for my 3 sons. Women seem to be a mess, in general. They rant and rave about this or that but are not a positive in any way. 👍👍God bless You
Aww that's really sweet, I hope to meet a woman like that someday. Maybe dating shouldn't be that bad. Maybe I only attract the wrong women. Right now though, dating absolutely sucks for me.
Jennifer - men are thankful for women like you. I am not married, but if I'm ever fortunate to meet someone I want to marry, I pray they have an attitude like you displayed here.
So do you also marry your brothers dead wife because women shouldn't have any say in who they marry or when, they were just property of men back then. Why should that nonsense apply to us today?
Words of wisdom literally reverberated like in a church gathering! Those are conscientious words which we are preprogrammed with! It’s a universal understanding. The Universe gave you the power to tell us all about the greater good many heard the message ! Existence is a remarkable place to be in.
This was a wonderful video! Thank you! And thank you for giving examples. Most people do not give examples of HOW TO do something. They just say do it. Thank you! Awesome video!
I think we as a society are absolutely overwhelmed and bombarded by input of every kind. Overstimulated. And because of that much of it is processed incorrectly, erroneously and with to much emotion. I think it causes us to live in a state of survival and fear most of the time. Thx for your work Jennifer ... It is so important. Be well
I have been atheist since 1958. I am the GREAT grandfather of Daisy. In the UK, weekly church going is 5%. In Sweden they are majority atheist. In the US I have been told that I have no moral core... and by a devout Lutheran who wanted to lynch obviously guilty nwords to save trial money and to machine gun gun Mexican children swimming the Rio Grande.... I have been in the US for 15 years and I am not assimilating well...... Any training in anything other than how to achieve the 4th Reich will be useful...
@@ZaphodsPlanet I agree with that but the reason is that that there are no gods. No pregnant married virgins. It is wonderful that religion alerts me to the gullible so I can take advantage of them before the churches do... How are things in the Beeblebrox household ?
The red pill content in the manosphere is waking women up to the idea that feminism has lied to them. A good man can be the greatest thing that ever happened to a women that appreciates him.
Hahaha !!! Most “woe of man” are already a blessing . Not that they intend to be , but they are , nonetheless... The lessons learned and the relief once the pain abates , are truly an epiphany for men . I’m always grateful when someone expands my world view and gifts me with knowledge and wisdom . I have been taught so much by females . I was taught to cook by them , how to be self sufficient and emotionally independent . Their instability was a perfect example of what not to be . Their contrariness and stubborn willful need to disrupt the flow of life ... even to their own detriment... The addiction to drama ... I’ll admit I was taught to clean and keep things orderly by the military , but how to also have a comfortable home ... that was by a female . Even what self indulgence looks like , and how to engage in it in a somewhat healthy manner from time to time . Rigid discipline at all times makes Jack a dull boy . Regimentation ... while efficient ... can be cold and heartless . But the skill to deal with females and their male orbiters ... socially and professionally , while not allowing them to get any licks in on me privately... Oh , that is the product of years of instruction provided by the Sisterhood ... If one is religious , then one must understand ... God created Eve ... not as a practical joke on , or a punishment for man ... no ... As Paul clearly indicates ... she is a test ... The lessons learned from passing can help a man reach his full potential as a spiritual , wise , self sufficient and capable being . Give him an indulgent , tolerant ... even somewhat fond view of the feminine creature and her wiles . While the test may seem harsh when experiencing it ... in hindsight , we should be grateful to them for their time and effort . They are the perfect foil ... exquisitely designed to do exactly what they do . The infinitely sharp blade . The cruelty with which they perform their function almost flawless . Truly divinely inspired ... Another word for test is “ trap “. And learning how to avoid those is fully worth the price . A blessing indeed . Ave Masculum Invictus ...
Jennifer, First time watching your TH-cam channel. Keep up the great work. You are truly one in a million. I wish more women understood men the way you do. Men aren’t that complicated. Please keep your videos coming. Thanks 🙏
First video I've ever seen of a contemporary woman ♀️ actually playing her nurturing, supportive and feminine role as it is supposed to be. She has no makeup and she looks fantastic...why ? Because she is a natural happy feminine woman and not a social media damaged goods entitled narcissist ...🏆 !
Thank you for this topic, and especially for addressing the tongue issue. I reach my word intake limit in about 3 minutes when a woman is processing her day via a drama-laden verbal flash flood. Ugh. A man's primary role in a traditional relationship is to provide physical protection and provision for the woman, who in turn is to provide emotional protection and provision for her man. Everyone is taught the former, and few the latter. A woman can be a great blessing through C.A.R.E... that is, by intentionally and consistently demonstrating Consideration, Appreciation, Respect, and by being 'Easy'. And by easy, I mean keeping the unnecessary drama and intense emotions out of the relationship as much as possible. Consistently offloading her emotions onto her man is equivalent to a man expecting her to do the heavy lifting for him in a hard labor situation. Neither party is suited to these self-serving avoidances. Feel free to use. I'd enjoy hearing your elaborations should you so choose. Cheers.
peace and harmony at the home, add a dash of affection and respect... that's most of it right there. we don't want to argue or fight or have any drama. we want to make you happy. simple really, no bs.
My wife is old school Chinese. We have defined roles. She cooks and cleans (mostly). I do the garbage, repairs and pay the bills. We are 100% and always there for each other against the world. Works for us.
Good advice. My wife and I have been married for 57 years and in this time we have learned to support each other and check each other if needed. We have our primary area's of responsibility but we also step into th other's area if we need too or are ask too.
You are dead on accurate. When my wife is cleaning around me I cannot help but get up and help because she has learned those lessons. Because she is that way I will move the earth to make her happy !!!!!!!!! Been together 47 years.
🎊 congrats. That something to toast too 🍻 (cheers)
Awesome 👏 Congratulations 🍾
Bet you could do with a bit of fresh
The more masculine a man becomes, that allows a woman to be more feminine. The man must lead his wife, and family in the right way. If he doesn't have that ability, then trouble will follow.
@@robdespainjr8275 Laugh out loud..You try that junk on my redhead and she will ISIS you.. Is this a covert BDSM channel for submissive slave women?
I have been married for 23 years and in that time, I cannot recall one time where my wife was a supportive blessing. She has always been a burden seeking to find ways in which I can help carry more of her responsibilities. The small number of times she has seemed to want to know more of what she can do to help me was to simply review what I am currently doing, provide criticism and add to the list.
Guys do yourself a favor and be very, very slow and selective when it comes to dealing with women.
Tell her this and divorce would be a godsend. She has aged out of dating world and should be scared of boxed wine and cat land. If she's not, 1/2 your wealth seems a small price to pay for peace of mind.
Wow, how do you continue?
Wow STB 1971 ))) you nailed !! So true !! If she can find someone better - hold the door open for her and buy her a first class ticket to any where but here !!
This is the story of a sizable majority of women. They think of how the man can be a blessing and NOT how they can be a blessing to him.
Wow , that sounds terrible . I don’t know how u continue . I don’t believe in divorce , but wow
Great advice, the
Problem is finding a Lady that is or wants to be like what you are saying!
Ask and You shall receive! (Jesus Christ)
@@debelix worst, least considerate, most infuriating advice ever.
@@petertrzos6645 Care to explain? I got my wife that way and we are together since 1990.
@ Todd Homman that is very true! It is hard, very hard, to find a woman who wants and desires to be a wife to her husband out of love. I can give no advice on where these ladies are located, but absolutely without doubt, you will KNOW when you come across one! It will be refreshing to be around them! You will find one, just be impatiently patient and wait and watch, and while you're at waiting, work on yourself, on your character, wisdom, academics, and pay no heed to pathetic, arrogant, hostile women who are destitute of wisdom.
My ex-wife felt the need to share every single last negative thought about me that popped into her noggin. It was twenty years of absolute misery broken up by some rare good times. She either loved me or she hated me. There was no in between. I was way more careful the second time around, and got myself a prenup-which gave the ability to walk away should it become miserable for little to no financial pain. My new wife is a blessing. She’s what a wife should be, and I wish more women would watch this channel. It would save a lot of marriages.
Do you have children with your ex-wife ?
@@lesrealisationsaudet9070 yes. They're grown. They have some emotional issues because of their mom’s out-of-control behavior. Though, my youngest managed to get a 160k scholarship to an elite New England university.
Amen. "Blessed is the man who finds a quiet woman."
That's almost a lie
@@stormcrow7698 it's a quote from the Bible.
Facts facts
@@stormcrow7698 "almost" ;)
The quiet ones got the most skeletons in their closet. That's why they quiet now. They think they open their mouth a bones gonna fall out.
-Eddie Murphy
Ma’am respect to you. This is what our mothers and grand mothers did. That’s why the world was so good. Strong Woman ( not the feminist version)at home is a blessing for the family,the society and the country.👍🏽
This channel is life changing for me- a channel where you speak to women to challenge women to be better, but hearing all this is reminding me to be a better man and a human. To ask my self what I bring to the table rather than think about “what I deserve” in a relationship - whatever that means!.... Thank you for teaching me to be a better human, Jennifer. I am changing my attitude today. Please say a prayer for me. God Bless
I've been married 24 years to the biggest blessing in my life she is beyond words. She has always been supportive and will forever be my sweetheart.
"I am the table."
This is what the modern woman brings to a relationship; best of luck trying to break through that.
And many of these women look like they have eaten the damn table 🙄
@@oceanhedonist265 😂 😂 😂 😂
and then in the same breath they say "Dont objectify us", last I checked table is an object. If more women will be cooperative, loving and supportive there will be lot more stable relationship and families. But feminism has turned them into combative enemies who distrust men, I hope they wake up one day.
It's every easy to break through that... ready?
"Tables" are available at IKEA, brand new, for as low as $119.99. Remind these foolish "tables" that you're not looking for a "table", and that if they would like to see themselves as such, they're probably not even worth the price of an IKEA table.
These days, you'd be lucky if they're the TV Tray.
Love it .. I asked my wife today " If you go back in time . Would you have chosen me ? " I am far from Brad Pitt and far from money . I sing to her my silly songs all the time and tell her I love her a dozen times a day .. I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Cancer overt two years ago . She could see it in my eyes . We both filled each other with hope . Every time I went to the hospital . Id ask . " Is it going to be alright .? . She always said " Yeppers " .I used to joke years ago with women " You were created to be help .. Not a hindrance " .. Great pick up line !!! . . I can only speak for myself. My lady gives me strength . Through her I see that little girl that just wants to be loved . . God created every star in the sky , every flower . He created woman and blessed a man with her beauty and Love . I am grateful for my little Kathy
The answer to the initial question is “no”. EVERYwoman thinks that they deserve better. The only question is if she can give up you (security) for the hope for a better fit. Face it, women are opportunistic.
You ever wonder why a women's curse in the Garden of Eden was to desire a man? Really, that was her curse, along with pain in childbirth. (Gen 3:16) And that man's curses were given, not just bc he sinned, but also bc he "listened to his wife"? (Gen 3:17) It seems our relationships were sewn in rocky soul from the start. I guess that's why we need Jesus to help us get thru' it.
Bout to put a tear in my eye brother.
the comments section here... yikes! This was one of the sweetest, most honest things i have read. God has blessed you both :)
You have me crying. You sound so happy in love🥰 she sounds amazing! I hope you're doing well with the mean ole cancer battle. You're a warrior! God bless you and Mrs Kathy. Love and prayers.. I love my husband and I hope he thinks at least half of what you do about your Lady. 🥰 Thank you so much for sharing your sweet story.
im a 21 yo black male, and ive been following jennifer for a while because of her personality and her tendencies to tell the TRUTH straight forward like it should be told. ily jen
@jaq uemo shalom to you sir! I’m glad we agree
Omg yes. When you said bite your tongue that was spot on. I understand when my wife can't have the house clean at times or when I have to eat frozen food for dinner because she's tired or stressed. I can deal with that stuff easy but when she won't stop debating everything I say or complaining about irrelevant stuff that drives me nuts.
As A New Zealand Man, Husband, and Father... I congratulate you... I thank you on such an excellent, and much needed voice of Good advice to woman on how to make their relationship with their Husbands work.
Such a rarity in todays insane woke Man-hating feminist culture.
We men certainly will respond well to a woman who actually seeks to fulfill their side of the marriage vows to be a loving wife.
Very powerful words Jennifer. Sadly my experience is that women like this do not exist.
My experience has been the same. After MANY Years, I am still looking for the exception. I am starting to doubt that exists.
Same...
They do exist! Women are lead by other women frequently and given bad advice! You deserve on and on they say to each other! Marriage is between two not the neighbors waiting to you the phrase you deserve! Wonderful advice thank you! Wonderful advice my daughter applied this in her marriage and guess what it works truly their are women that have this concept and it works
Start going to church. You'll meet several.
@Bruce W. Willett did you just say; Feminine women do not exist?
Ha! Yes! “You are NOT naturally a blessing… to anyone…”. So true. And yes, we should all be training in this area… it’s practice for sure.
It's.mostly.women honestly.
@@thenarrator1984 yes for sure. By “all” I only meant women. Men are so much easier.
@@christyrucker2479 I think it's funny. It took feminism to expose female nature and all its flaws and how desperately women need a strong male hand in their lives.
@@thenarrator1984 for sure, although I'm a Christian and the Bible is pretty explicit about that. I could talk for days about it. And about how women left to their own devices are a mess, even the good hearted ones. We just can't help it. (Ask me how I know lol)
I freaking love this! 😁
It's so true and no one is allowed to talk about it.
I walked away from my marriage of 13 years, 10 years ago, for this very reason and am still single. Because I refused to settle for the type of women in our world today. WTF happened to the good moms and wives. REfuse to settle!!! stay strong gentlemen.
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Your message makes you a 5 star hottie! God bless you. Women need to know if they just respect men and be a little considerate, most guys will literally die protecting and serving them, ROI (return on investment) is off the charts....ancient wisdom. My wife had an 80 plus year old aunt that used to visit us from the Old Country and she used to be such a good influence on my wife with this message that I always wanted her visiting...same message as this video.
Yes be a blessing! I didn’t used to be as helpful as I am now. Learning to be humble and more useful has helped me be a better person ❤ and totally agree that being a better you will manifest your ideal relationship 😊
@@AbstractAngelArtist I understand you’d assume that, but I’m not anymore. I had a major pivot in 2015 and have totally redesigned my life and now I help other women do the same who want my help.
@@AbstractAngelArtist
You must be a disappointment of a man to state such things against an educated successful woman
@@DrTaylorBurrowes
Ok now I'm disappointed in you too
@@wyleecoyotee4252 don’t be silly, life is beautiful and I have created a business that is flexible enough now to leave room for personal life.
@@DrTaylorBurrowes Proctology
And the work you do provide in and around the house do so with joy!!!!
God created men and women with different strengths for a reason. My wife and I are a blessing to each other. I never thought a marriage could be so easy. When you love someone the way we're supposed to, you do things for them and never expect anything in return. When it goes both ways, it's a wonderful life. Even when the world is trying to beat us up.
Jennifer, you’re a blessing. To us men and more so to the women of this world, trying to remind females to be women and remind us all of simple truths in a world that has embraced the degradation, desecration and deviling of daughters of God.
Husbands may be the head of the household and final decision maker but wives are the ones who set the tone for the marriage. Thank you Jennifer.
@@jackwalker1822 men are to be the head of their wives, the wife is to be the head of the household. no disrespect intended it there is a difference.
Wow, I'm envious of your husband. He has a great wife!
This is an important video. Women today are completely entitled and it's almost criminal to call them out on anything. It's why men are not getting married. Not worth the hassle.
So true
This is a brave lady.
The Tongue is a 2 edged sword, it can build up or tear down a soul, and neither takes much effort on the wielder.
It doesn’t hurt to be nice.
A little appreciation goes a long way.
On average most men don’t have to be prompted, reminded, or encouraged to be a “blessing” to their women bc they are expected to be and they want to be. Culturally the message to the modern woman is to be as selfish as possible, meaning it’s all about her happiness. He should be doing all these things and if not find another man who will. Here’s another one I hear quite often: a man shouldn’t rely on you for anything bc that would be considered emotional “labor”. Don’t be a man’s mother, etc.
In essence a man has to fulfill a woman’s ever changing ever evolving wants, needs, and desires but shouldn’t expect anything in return or ask anything of her. In other words women want men to be in a one sided non-reciprocating committed relationship where he caters to all her needs but he has to still carry himself as if he’s still single in terms of taking care of himself as if she’s not even in his life but when it comes to his sex life he has to act like he’s in a committed relationship with her. Her on the other hand wants the security and social status/proof that comes with being in a relationship but wants to still exercise/explore her options as if she’s still single especially when it comes to her sex life. In either case women get to have their cake and eat it too. Any push back, resistance, complaints, or reservations from the man, women talk it up as men being weak, insecure, manipulative, or controlling which is just a way to shame, guilt trip, or gaslight men into going along with it.
I believe the other reason women are against being a man’s blessing is bc culturally we have programmed women to associate anything she would do for her man as being equivalent to slavery hence all this resistance to relationship reciprocation.
A lot of words. ALL worth the read.
Cheers brother! 🍻
Proverbs 21:9- it is better to live on the corner of your roof than share your house with a quarrelsome wife.
Yes men, be very careful. Very careful.
And women, listen to what this smart young lady says.
You are Awesome! ✌️❤
Every Human should be training and putting forth 100% effort to be a Blessing to each other.
People need to learn to think of others and not just themselves.
Any woman can nag. It takes a good woman to NOT NAG!!!!
This!!!
Spot on Jennifer. Very well said. Great message. Thank you.
_I've watched several of your videos and plan to watch all of them. My questions are ... where did you come from (philosophy, education, values, upbringing)? Do you have a single sister? How did you avoid drinking the Kool Aid of society? I luv you £ (#) keyword._
You are a blessing Jennifer. Always !!
This woman is Bright.
This woman is Intuitive.
The information she shares is on point. And she is / her attitude is incredibly attractive.
@phil: your last point, so true. The right attitude can be very attractive. When I was married, I never tried to directly change my wife but tried to set examples and lead that way. She never got it; she almost always wanted to be in control.
Hello Ms first time TH-cam brought up ur page and listened to u all day and I tell u what u made me feel so proud to be a man I walked all day with my chest pumped high thank u
I love this. Thank you!!! When my wife works hard to support me, I kick it in another gear to do things for her. Especially when I feel like she praises me, it makes me feel like Superman and I would take a bullet for her.
The woman I loved dearly had a very smart mouth. I'd give her a compliment and recieved attitude and derision in return. As much as I loved her, and I still do, I stopped talking to her altogether because no matter how nice I was she wouldn't stop. I need someone who can help me make good decisions in life and a healthy, critical discussion with someone you love and who loves you is a blessing.
CAN YOU IMAGINE HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT SPEAK YOUR LANGUAGE? THIS INTERACTION USUALLY ENDS IN CONFUSION & FRUSTRATION.
YOU CAN GET ANYTHING FROM ANYONE IF YOU KNOW HOW TO TALK TO THEM.
PEOPLE SUBMIT BECAUSE THEY WANT SOMETHING.
SURRENDER IS THE WILLINGNESS TO LEARN THE LANGUAGE OF ANOTHER.
SURRENDER IS SITTING PATIENTLY @ THE FEET OF THE ONE THAT MADE THE PROMISE.
SUBMISSION IS PARASITIC.
SURRENDER IS SYMBIOTIC.
you cannot control others, you can only control your reaction to others.
First! We need more Jennifer!
I think most men are 100% on board with humanism, men and women are equal in value (no need for Feminists or MGTOWs). But this 3rd wave of Feminist bull has polarized a lot of men into checking out.
Feminism has destroyed more marriages than anything else. I'd rather be homeless and on the streets than be married to an American harpy.
I love what you say. I e been watching you for several years now. This is the most important statement you’ve made. Men love peace. Women love drama. Guess who wins ?
You can always die alone.
More women need to be honest like this. Looking forward to more videos.
Just by being born you honored your parents... But beyond that honoring them is an ongoing accumulation of all you do which is a credit to them (whether or not it involves obeying them).
So yes you can be an automatic blessing but for the most part it's an ongoing effort.
If you must be competitive then do so by out-resisting him for all the times he doesn't snap at you.
Why should the marriage you agreed to get less effort than when you worked for customers/clients/partners/bosses/etc? You know how to get tips/not-fired so apply that where it matters more.
I absolutely love how honest and authentic this video is. Good for you.
Jennifer! You’re awesome.
Out in the barn, NICE :). But we are naturally a blessing, we give birth. That being said, life is way to short to "sweat the little things". Often my husband will make a comment....... very often, I will say "are you asking my thoughts". In all honesty, most of the time he responds yes. I give my thoughts/opinion, sometimes that ends up in great conversation, other times... life just goes on. Finding ways to let your man know how much he is appreciated, if he is a good man, will come back to you many, many times over. Totally agree with the premise "be a blessing".
Always a Blessing. Thank you, your advice " to men as well " is very helpful
Jennifer; You young lady are a real Proverbs 31 Woman! Your husband is sooo blessed!
What planet are you from? I just subscribed, because I literally don’t know how else to respond to your wisdom, it sounds foreign, but deep down inside it feels timeless.
Guys don’t want you to be a slave, they just want you to be emotionally constructive.
JENNIFER .... you're a BLESSING with your ADVICE GIRL ❤️ !!!!
You nailed it lady !! Thank you !! You always give good advice on us making ourselves ( men to women or women to men ) to be the best spouse we can be.
You are 💯percent correct.
The "what about the men" comment demonstrates the cultural mentality of having a transactional relationship. "Yeah, but I do this, that, and the other and they only do X." Those who operate by transaction in their relationships are often terrible at truly tallying both their own efforts and the efforts of their partner. There is no love in transactions. Hopefully this message was a blessing to those who need to hear it.
I love your mind and so right on! That’s my wife says women create stress and drama it doesn’t have to be complicated you make it complicated. But they’re always the exception to the rule not everybody’s perfect
Imagine if all women were like this. Men would literally be 350% more productive in their work life and home life. Technology would advance at a much faster rate.
You have a powerful voice and I wish and hope your teachings reach more women before its 2 late
I cook and clean up, I love making food, breads, cinnamon buns, spaghetti sauce etc. It's all so easy to make. Drives me crazy when I see people buying sauce at the store. My wife loves my "clown recipes" specially my Cajun Clown Fries. Married 42 years and still fool around. I also clean the bathroom, she loves her clean tub.
So wise and solid on controlling what one can--yourself. Be a blessing! You do you! in your role. Mostly frustration results in trusting mainly in others fulfilling their part in a relationship.
You have the perfect attitude to be a wife. My wife had the same attitude and she was my life's greatest blessing. Her goal in life was to be a wife and mother. I was the breadwinner. It worked for us very very well. She would have made any man in the world happy but she chose me and she treated me like a king. I did my best to deserve that treatment. Would that I could be that lucky again! I do have beautiful memories to last me from now on.
That is wonderful Gary Stearns! I too hope to be the best blessing to my husband! I hope we remain best friends even when we are old and worn (right now we are in our thirties and worn lol). I have been married 6 years. Best years of my life so far.
Subscribed on the title alone! Great work
You are a light in the Storm.
I applaud You.
I would imagine you often feel like the Only Women who is trying to speak the truth. I am divorced.
At 53 I've had a splendid life.
I worry for my 3 sons. Women seem to be a mess, in general.
They rant and rave about this or that but are not a positive in any way.
👍👍God bless You
Aww that's really sweet, I hope to meet a woman like that someday. Maybe dating shouldn't be that bad. Maybe I only attract the wrong women. Right now though, dating absolutely sucks for me.
Jennifer - men are thankful for women like you. I am not married, but if I'm ever fortunate to meet someone I want to marry, I pray they have an attitude like you displayed here.
Wait, you mean like the opposite of a complete pain in the ass and energy drain?
find a woman who wants to be a wife instead of a woman who wants to be married and you will be good. Proverbs 18:22
Some great wisdom from the man upstairs.
So do you also marry your brothers dead wife because women shouldn't have any say in who they marry or when, they were just property of men back then. Why should that nonsense apply to us today?
@@JacksonHoulihan I mean Hunter started to
@@bigDrob, Must mean he's very godly
@@JacksonHoulihan not Godly, but definitely the most high🤣🤣
Thank you!!!
You are right, you won't be popular but you are right. Men respond to how they are treated
You are wise and obviously a great wife ! God bless you and I hope many women listen to your sage advice 😉
Words of wisdom literally reverberated like in a church gathering! Those are conscientious words which we are preprogrammed with! It’s a universal understanding. The Universe gave you the power to tell us all about the greater good many heard the message ! Existence is a remarkable place to be in.
Always on point Moleski. Keep talking.
This was a wonderful video! Thank you! And thank you for giving examples. Most people do not give examples of HOW TO do something. They just say do it. Thank you! Awesome video!
I love this lady's channel, content, and sense of humor. The fact that she's VERY easy on the eyes doesn't hurt either.
I think we as a society are absolutely overwhelmed and bombarded by input of every kind. Overstimulated. And because of that much of it is processed incorrectly, erroneously and with to much emotion. I think it causes us to live in a state of survival and fear most of the time. Thx for your work Jennifer ... It is so important. Be well
Thank you for doing what you do.
Thankyou. ! So so much !
a woman must prepare to be a wife, a man must prepare to be a husband. playing house will not prepare you
Bravo.
I have been atheist since 1958. I am the GREAT grandfather of Daisy. In the UK, weekly church going is 5%. In Sweden they are majority atheist. In the US I have been told that I have no moral core... and by a devout Lutheran who wanted to lynch obviously guilty nwords to save trial money and to machine gun gun Mexican children swimming the Rio Grande.... I have been in the US for 15 years and I am not assimilating well...... Any training in anything other than how to achieve the 4th Reich will be useful...
@@chevinbarghest8453 Two things…. 1.Get help. 2. Go back👋🏾🤦🏾♂️🚶🏾♂️
@@chevinbarghest8453 You will not find Yah/god in any church.
@@ZaphodsPlanet I agree with that but the reason is that that there are no gods. No pregnant married virgins. It is wonderful that religion alerts me to the gullible so I can take advantage of them before the churches do... How are things in the Beeblebrox household ?
Amen & Thank you!
The red pill content in the manosphere is waking women up to the idea that feminism has lied to them. A good man can be the greatest thing that ever happened to a women that appreciates him.
Blimey! I didn't know women like you exist anymore! Spot on. But how can I subtly introduce your channel to my wife?!!!
Hahaha !!!
Most “woe of man” are already a blessing .
Not that they intend to be , but they are , nonetheless...
The lessons learned and the relief once the pain abates , are truly an epiphany for men .
I’m always grateful when someone expands my world view and gifts me with knowledge and wisdom .
I have been taught so much by females .
I was taught to cook by them , how to be self sufficient and emotionally independent .
Their instability was a perfect example of what not to be .
Their contrariness and stubborn willful need to disrupt the flow of life ... even to their own detriment...
The addiction to drama ...
I’ll admit I was taught to clean and keep things orderly by the military , but how to also have a comfortable home ... that was by a female .
Even what self indulgence looks like , and how to engage in it in a somewhat healthy manner from time to time .
Rigid discipline at all times makes Jack a dull boy .
Regimentation ... while efficient ... can be cold and heartless .
But the skill to deal with females and their male orbiters ... socially and professionally , while not allowing them to get any licks in on me privately...
Oh , that is the product of years of instruction provided by the Sisterhood ...
If one is religious , then one must understand ...
God created Eve ... not as a practical joke on , or a punishment for man ... no ...
As Paul clearly indicates ... she is a test ...
The lessons learned from passing can help a man reach his full potential as a spiritual , wise , self sufficient and capable being .
Give him an indulgent , tolerant ... even somewhat fond view of the feminine creature and her wiles .
While the test may seem harsh when experiencing it ... in hindsight , we should be grateful to them for their time and effort .
They are the perfect foil ... exquisitely designed to do exactly what they do .
The infinitely sharp blade .
The cruelty with which they perform their function almost flawless .
Truly divinely inspired ...
Another word for test is “ trap “.
And learning how to avoid those is fully worth the price .
A blessing indeed .
Ave Masculum Invictus ...
Yes because women have no other purpose on this world but to drag men off the right path 🤦
Oh my goodness, I love your message!
Jennifer, First time watching your TH-cam channel. Keep up the great work. You are truly one in a million. I wish more women understood men the way you do. Men aren’t that complicated. Please keep your videos coming. Thanks 🙏
First video I've ever seen of a contemporary woman ♀️ actually playing her nurturing, supportive and feminine role as it is supposed to be.
She has no makeup and she looks fantastic...why ? Because she is a natural happy feminine woman and not a social media damaged goods entitled narcissist ...🏆 !
She is wearing makeup, unfortunately.
You’re right about the qualities of her character, but she most definitely is wearing (a tasteful amount of) makeup!
Another Great Video Jennifer !
😎👍🌴☀️
Thank you for this topic, and especially for addressing the tongue issue. I reach my word intake limit in about 3 minutes when a woman is processing her day via a drama-laden verbal flash flood. Ugh.
A man's primary role in a traditional relationship is to provide physical protection and provision for the woman, who in turn is to provide emotional protection and provision for her man. Everyone is taught the former, and few the latter.
A woman can be a great blessing through C.A.R.E... that is, by intentionally and consistently demonstrating Consideration, Appreciation, Respect, and by being 'Easy'. And by easy, I mean keeping the unnecessary drama and intense emotions out of the relationship as much as possible.
Consistently offloading her emotions onto her man is equivalent to a man expecting her to do the heavy lifting for him in a hard labor situation. Neither party is suited to these self-serving avoidances.
Feel free to use. I'd enjoy hearing your elaborations should you so choose.
Cheers.
Much truth here, my Wife will work around the house tirelessly, she motivates me to help more than I might otherwise!
The under 35 year old birthing units must be freaking the hell out at this.
Oh my God, a real woman.
If only they would listen to advice like this.
Absolutely correct.
peace and harmony at the home, add a dash of affection and respect... that's most of it right there. we don't want to argue or fight or have any drama. we want to make you happy. simple really, no bs.
My wife is old school Chinese. We have defined roles. She cooks and cleans (mostly). I do the garbage, repairs and pay the bills. We are 100% and always there for each other against the world. Works for us.
this is true, high tier wisdom
I am married 47 years to my precious. I will wake up tomorrow next to her, my love forever. I worry she doesn’t know that!
Great stuff... Much appreciated 👍🏽
Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us
Nice thoughts. Good to realize that being a good spouse will get you more of you want in return. I like your attitude
Good advice. My wife and I have been married for 57 years and in this time we have learned to support each other and check each other if needed. We have our primary area's of responsibility but we also step into th other's area if we need too or are ask too.
I’m not married but I’ve been in my fair share of relationships. You got it 💯 right. You got another subscriber
Lot of love for you