What causes me to like a person more is when that person is engaging in the conversation, takes an interest/shares in your likes & is an easygoing person to hang out with. I've been around some intense people who think coming off combative in a conversation (taking the opposing stance in nearly everything you'd bring up) makes them look smart/clever. With those people I tend to come up with an excuse to leave the conversation & politely excuse myself.
The most powerful skill I've found like this, is the ability to focus on one person, as if they're the only one in the room! I know some very successful people who are insanely busy. And when you meet them, their full attention is on you, and they make it clear they appreciate you taking the time to talk with them! Most people at networking events, etc. Will be shaking hands, passing out cards, and in the same moment, looking for who they're going to meet next. Not these people. Who's next doesn't appear to even be a thought.
Be excited when you meet them for the second time - [00:24] Give compliments, accept compliments, inquire about what happened between the first meeting and the second - [00:39] Express interest in the things they're interested in, especially those you have an interest in yourself - [01:05] Hold your own and not fall back - [01:18] Show up on time - [02:23] Remember personal details - [03:05] Be in control without being controlling - [03:46] Be sarcastic without being a jerk - [04:56] Be willing to make fun of yourself - [05:23] Be straightforward without being rude or disrespectful - [06:04] Not allow random small events to affect your mood - [06:59] Match each other's passions - [07:56] When your personality matches your image - [09:06] Cheer them on genuinely - [09:45] Bring gifts - [10:53]
Destination (1) great eye contact but not in a creepy/serial killer way. (2) when you try to include others in a conversation or catch them up on what the conversation was about (3) giving little tips on small problems they have or giving recommendations that may help improve their lives (4) being proactive and organising things once in a while (5) being communicative and letting people know you are running late, or to confirm that a gathering is still on (6) being present - simple things like not scrolling social media or texting whilst someone is talking, turning your phone face down when in the presence with others
Being a good listener makes people like you more. Good in the sense, a genuine listener. I started on this a couple years ago when I watched one of the Alux videos. In the beginnings, it was hard to listen to people rant or geek out on a topic. But I eventually learnt to admire their enthusiasm instead of getting bored. And one more thing I found out when surveying my closest friends was that people like you more when you allow them to be themselves. I don't mean this in a tyrannical way but people put on different masks in different environments. They will be happy if they can be themselves without wearing any masks. I was clueless about why when a friend of mine told me that that was one of the best things they love about me. And later, I found out I was open to knowing different perspectives without being judgemental. So, these are the 2 things I'd like to add to this topic. And as always, love you, Aluxa.
The bonus message is power. That’s all this comes down to. Like yourself more and be happy to spend positivity to others. People can see the happiness glowing from you! ✨✨✨
Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive, safe healthy and financially blessed Amen ✌🏾✌🏾... And you will never lose a loved one🖤
I’ve been failing for almost 30 years...trying to spread my love and passion to others. I have a deep love for languages and psychology. In my circle nobody was interested in what ever I was. So I’ve close my self up to basically anyone, just giving them the basic version of me. ALux was or is that a mistake?
Go to places to find like minded people like language class, lectures, cooking class (cuisine associated with the language you may wish to practice), courses.
Thank you very much. I will definitely put some of your tips into my daily social life… Very useful tips. I always why I admire/like some people more and faster than others. Now I know
I read How To Win Friends and Influence People and Am I Making Myself Clear. Both of those really do help especially me remembering specifics. For instance my love language to give is gift giving I don’t do very expensive gifts, but I do very thoughtful meaningful gifts regardless of price point.
Destination! Alusyon Thk you so much for the lectures etc. I really, really appreciate it! I❤❤❤❤ all of your advices and everything. I was kinda guilty there so much that I learned. All I can say now is may God Bless you all!❤❤❤❤❤
Man this time last year I was studying for my state licensing exams. Putting in hours every day between reading, practice tests, field work, report writing, and course review. I spent hours watching course videos and shut out all my recreation for over a year. Now I'm working out in my garage at peace knowing I have leveled up my abilities to produce for my family. Alux helped me to get to this place. Thank you ALUX #Destination
@@LifeOdysseyMotivation exactly. I look for issues with the foundation, roofing, electrical systems, and all other critical home systems to ensure safety and functionality.
DESTINATION Simply being genuine and leaving all pretenses behind is something that I look for in others. It is something that I do and something that I expect from others. I have noticed that this observation from my youth rings true in life, especially for those trying to hide their true intentions.
Thank you for sharing your insights and recommendations. Its great to explore various investment options, especially well-known companies like Cannafarm Ltd that are gaining popularity. Adding different ventures to our portfolio can help reduce risks in
DESTINATION! Went to a party and people went up to me cause they will remember how I remembered a lot of important things in there life. I pretty much was talking to a lot of people at the party. My husband called me the social butterfly. Lol he said he’s so amazed of how I can just talk to everybody at the party. Thank you Alux love you channel. 😊❤
In light of the impending recession and the fact that inflation is still far higher than the Fed's 2% target, several of the most prominent market analysts have been expressing their views on how terrible they believe the next downturn will be and how far stocks may have to fall. I need advice on what investments to make because I'm attempting to create a portfolio for my children that will at least be $800k in value
I invests and earn by following my Coach's instructions. My advice is to get a professional who will help you invest , plan and enhance your management skills. For the record working with Isabelle Chloe Scott, has been an amazing experience.
Only a good FA will be enough to guide you through the current market volatility. I've been speaking with an advisor for a while now, primarily because I don't have the necessary expertise or stamina to handle these recurrent market conditions. The fact that I made over $300,000 during this downturn proved that there is more to the market than the typical person is aware of. The greatest course of action right now is to have an investing consultant, especially for people who are nearing retirement.
My Financial Advisor is Olivia Chloe Scott . I found her on a CNBC interview where she was featured and reached out to her afterwards. She has since provide entry and exit points on the securities I focus on. You can run a quick online research with her name if you care for supervision. I basically follow her market moves and haven't regretted doing
If someone performs an act of charity or generosity, it shows how much he cares about others and has a soft heart. If someone speaks politely in a decent and respectable way about others.
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
I noticed in the comments in the past enthusiastic individuals, used to put down the main bullet points of the video in the comments. So you could read the comments, and then decide if it is worth giving up 20 minutes of your day to watch. Recently these enthusiasts seemed to have disappeared or been cancelled. This is sad as I enjoy mavericks.
DESTINATION Arrived and I like people who're like me, fast, bold, successful and straight-forward. And ofcourse If a person likes themselves and is at peace then everybody likes them too.
there was many short excample videos on the topic bringing a gift... and all the vidoes was of men bringing gifts to women and not the other way around. that says alot!
Thank you for the valuable tips, as always! ❤️ I have to add that I will forever appreciate healed people-people who don't respond to their defense mechanisms without awareness. To me, there's something so off-putting when someone gets super defensive or overreacts-someone that makes you feel like you need to walk on eggshells to not trigger them. Not bleeding on people who didn't cut you will always be the best policy to win people over.
At the end of the day it si the little things that add up to your attractiveness,applying everything mentioned will not only make you more likeable but also help you come across as a more charming,fun and sociable person.thank you so much alux for your high quality informative content.
You definitely have my sub. This content is next level. For me cannafarm ltd was the turning point. Please keep doing what you do and keep being you, love it.
😂❤ let's meet in real to find out 🎉my choice she should be very presentable, good looking,so 50 marks for that and other 50 she should have a Brain like yours 😅❤❤❤
Hey ALuxers, what makes you instantly like someone?
If you wanna level up in life, get the alux app: www.alux.com/app
Look me in the eye, firm handshake, no pretense are what make me immediately like someone.
What causes me to like a person more is when that person is engaging in the conversation, takes an interest/shares in your likes & is an easygoing person to hang out with. I've been around some intense people who think coming off combative in a conversation (taking the opposing stance in nearly everything you'd bring up) makes them look smart/clever. With those people I tend to come up with an excuse to leave the conversation & politely excuse myself.
When people can grasp ideas ,that's beyond what they have been indoctrinated to think !
@@THEQUOTEOFENGLISHMAN44Please proofread 😂
A nice smile and a eye contact will make me like you ❤
The most powerful skill I've found like this, is the ability to focus on one person, as if they're the only one in the room!
I know some very successful people who are insanely busy. And when you meet them, their full attention is on you, and they make it clear they appreciate you taking the time to talk with them!
Most people at networking events, etc. Will be shaking hands, passing out cards, and in the same moment, looking for who they're going to meet next. Not these people. Who's next doesn't appear to even be a thought.
Be excited when you meet them for the second time - [00:24]
Give compliments, accept compliments, inquire about what happened between the first meeting and the second - [00:39]
Express interest in the things they're interested in, especially those you have an interest in yourself - [01:05]
Hold your own and not fall back - [01:18]
Show up on time - [02:23]
Remember personal details - [03:05]
Be in control without being controlling - [03:46]
Be sarcastic without being a jerk - [04:56]
Be willing to make fun of yourself - [05:23]
Be straightforward without being rude or disrespectful - [06:04]
Not allow random small events to affect your mood - [06:59]
Match each other's passions - [07:56]
When your personality matches your image - [09:06]
Cheer them on genuinely - [09:45]
Bring gifts - [10:53]
Destination
(1) great eye contact but not in a creepy/serial killer way.
(2) when you try to include others in a conversation or catch them up on what the conversation was about
(3) giving little tips on small problems they have or giving recommendations that may help improve their lives
(4) being proactive and organising things once in a while
(5) being communicative and letting people know you are running late, or to confirm that a gathering is still on
(6) being present - simple things like not scrolling social media or texting whilst someone is talking, turning your phone face down when in the presence with others
Being a good listener makes people like you more. Good in the sense, a genuine listener. I started on this a couple years ago when I watched one of the Alux videos. In the beginnings, it was hard to listen to people rant or geek out on a topic. But I eventually learnt to admire their enthusiasm instead of getting bored. And one more thing I found out when surveying my closest friends was that people like you more when you allow them to be themselves. I don't mean this in a tyrannical way but people put on different masks in different environments. They will be happy if they can be themselves without wearing any masks. I was clueless about why when a friend of mine told me that that was one of the best things they love about me. And later, I found out I was open to knowing different perspectives without being judgemental. So, these are the 2 things I'd like to add to this topic. And as always, love you, Aluxa.
I love when I can automatically feel that they're energy is light,joyful,and happy before saying a thing🤗 DESTINATION!That was fantastic thank you 💙
The bonus message is power. That’s all this comes down to. Like yourself more and be happy to spend positivity to others. People can see the happiness glowing from you! ✨✨✨
Psychopaths are instantly liked.
That is why they are so successful.
Energetic people 🎉They spread their high energy.😊
Humility and being easygoing makes me instantly like someone.
You just humiliated yourself by saying this
I’m sorry but that makes no sense.
Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive, safe healthy and financially blessed Amen ✌🏾✌🏾... And you will never lose a loved one🖤
I’ve been failing for almost 30 years...trying to spread my love and passion to others. I have a deep love for languages and psychology. In my circle nobody was interested in what ever I was. So I’ve close my self up to basically anyone, just giving them the basic version of me. ALux was or is that a mistake?
Go to places to find like minded people like language class, lectures, cooking class (cuisine associated with the language you may wish to practice), courses.
"Toxic people gossip, great people elevate"😮
Yes!
If people don’t like me, I let them.
❤❤
Amazing vudeos as usual. May the Lord bless you abundantly
This ain’t for the Ladies. Ladies are liked , unconditionally 😂
Hey ALUX , every day I do what
I learn from ALUX
Positive Energy 🌎 Greetings from Colombia. The Venezuelan immigrant writer 🇻🇪
I like blunt and honest people. I don’t need to second guess with them.
Destination...Thank you Alux. You've been instrumental to our growth.
One of the thing that make me to like people in our first instance is smile
Thank you very much. I will definitely put some of your tips into my daily social life…
Very useful tips. I always why I admire/like some people more and faster than others. Now I know
I read How To Win Friends and Influence People and Am I Making Myself Clear. Both of those really do help especially me remembering specifics. For instance my love language to give is gift giving I don’t do very expensive gifts, but I do very thoughtful meaningful gifts regardless of price point.
Same!
Destination! I like when something is genuine and welcoming when we first meet.
Destination! Alusyon Thk you so much for the lectures etc. I really, really appreciate it! I❤❤❤❤ all of your advices and everything. I was kinda guilty there so much that I learned. All I can say now is may God Bless you all!❤❤❤❤❤
Man this time last year I was studying for my state licensing exams. Putting in hours every day between reading, practice tests, field work, report writing, and course review. I spent hours watching course videos and shut out all my recreation for over a year. Now I'm working out in my garage at peace knowing I have leveled up my abilities to produce for my family. Alux helped me to get to this place. Thank you ALUX #Destination
We’re proud of you Michael! Shoot us an email with your story!
May I know what is your work now? Thanks.
@@LifeOdysseyMotivation Home Inspector
@@michaelshine8837 Thanks Michael.
Are you the person who checks the house whenever someone is buying or?
@@LifeOdysseyMotivation exactly. I look for issues with the foundation, roofing, electrical systems, and all other critical home systems to ensure safety and functionality.
DESTINATION
Simply being genuine and leaving all pretenses behind is something that I look for in others. It is something that I do and something that I expect from others. I have noticed that this observation from my youth rings true in life, especially for those trying to hide their true intentions.
Destination. What attracts me is one's personality.
Great video! Keep hustling you never know how close you are to your DESTINATION!
So true, deep and goose bumping line :)
Thank you for sharing your insights and recommendations. Its great to explore various investment options, especially well-known companies like Cannafarm Ltd that are gaining popularity. Adding different ventures to our portfolio can help reduce risks in
I love someone that is confident yet humble
I like people who laugh at my jokes even if it is not funny.. 😂
DESTINATION! Went to a party and people went up to me cause they will remember how I remembered a lot of important things in there life. I pretty much was talking to a lot of people at the party. My husband called me the social butterfly. Lol he said he’s so amazed of how I can just talk to everybody at the party. Thank you Alux love you channel. 😊❤
Cool video! Id like to add that there are other investment options in businesses like cannafarm ltd as well.
gifts depend on the personality. I personally dislike people trying for my favor with gifts, so you need to apply some judgement on this one
Destination. So nice. Quality information Alux. Thank you.
Destination. Thanks very much for sharing this video. I've learned a lot from it.
Personal, people around me likes me because I'm an optimistic and trying to find solutions instead of complain
Q.O.T.D: For me, it's when someone matches my energy and self confidence!
Love it! ❤ yes!
I LIKE someone who gets excited when we meet .AND that person has to match my passions .
Someone who talks positively about me whether from the past or in the future and an exemplary leader.
In light of the impending recession and the fact that inflation is still far higher than the Fed's 2% target, several of the most prominent market analysts have been expressing their views on how terrible they believe the next downturn will be and how far stocks may have to fall. I need advice on what investments to make because I'm attempting to create a portfolio for my children that will at least be $800k in value
I invests and earn by following my Coach's instructions. My advice is to get a professional who will help you invest , plan and enhance your management skills. For the record working with Isabelle Chloe Scott, has been an amazing experience.
Only a good FA will be enough to guide you through the current market volatility. I've been speaking with an advisor for a while now, primarily because I don't have the necessary expertise or stamina to handle these recurrent market conditions. The fact that I made over $300,000 during this downturn proved that there is more to the market than the typical person is aware of. The greatest course of action right now is to have an investing consultant, especially for people who are nearing retirement.
My Financial Advisor is Olivia Chloe Scott . I found her on a CNBC interview where she was featured and reached out to her afterwards. She has since provide entry and exit points on the securities I focus on. You can run a quick online research with her name if you care for supervision. I basically follow her market moves and haven't regretted doing
Destination...... a smile is always good!!
ENTHUSIASTIC FOR LIFE👍
Nope! 98% of this video is not me.'Coz I'm an introvert and prefer to be alone most of the time.
DESTINATION.😁🤔
If someone performs an act of charity or generosity, it shows how much he cares about others and has a soft heart.
If someone speaks politely in a decent and respectable way about others.
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
Much love 😍💝 from Nigeria ✅
Thank you ALUX,,
Overcoming is the name of the game 🔵
the time and name stuff is very, very true.
We know it is
Thank you it makes me feel happy and makes me think about future
I noticed in the comments in the past enthusiastic individuals, used to put down the main bullet points of the video in the comments.
So you could read the comments, and then decide if it is worth giving up 20 minutes of your day to watch.
Recently these enthusiasts seemed to have disappeared or been cancelled.
This is sad as I enjoy mavericks.
DESTINATION
Arrived and I like people who're like me, fast, bold, successful and straight-forward. And ofcourse If a person likes themselves and is at peace then everybody likes them too.
Been awhile since I come across a good content on TH-cam. Destination
Loved the end message 🙏
That's when you can add value to the group. No one should have to carry you around like a liability.
The Bonus Tip is all about "being present", "being conscious". Read Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now".
Sarcasm is intelligent only to those who come up with it. Otherwise, it's stupid to everyone else. Oscar Wilde's observation was about his own ego.
Destination 💪🏾❤️
Thanks Alux for this Video :) :)
there was many short excample videos on the topic bringing a gift... and all the vidoes was of men bringing gifts to women and not the other way around. that says alot!
The crooked lines look cheap🥴
the thing is when you want to get close to someone badly but you don't see any common denominator. They're being quiet makes you appear ughhhhh. 😩
Excellent Content 👍
Thanks for sharing
Eye contact and a nice smile makes me like you.
Nice
Thank you for the valuable tips, as always! ❤️
I have to add that I will forever appreciate healed people-people who don't respond to their defense mechanisms without awareness. To me, there's something so off-putting when someone gets super defensive or overreacts-someone that makes you feel like you need to walk on eggshells to not trigger them. Not bleeding on people who didn't cut you will always be the best policy to win people over.
Good points !!
What's the background music?
Show me your importance without telling me how heavy your crown is. Destination.
I'm literally Ryan Gosling
Well here is my bonus that wasn’t on the other video I watched. Destination is the word of the day!!
Destination... keep on despite
At the end of the day it si the little things that add up to your attractiveness,applying everything mentioned will not only make you more likeable but also help you come across as a more charming,fun and sociable person.thank you so much alux for your high quality informative content.
Excellent video! Excellent editing!
Thank you😊
Being peaceful and self accepting is among my most likeable traits. DESTINATION.
I don't care if people don't like me, i don't like them eirher. People are evil and greedy...
narrator says you have to like watching 15 videos in alux channel daily to get likes
Insightful to the core ❤
destination!2023
DESTINATION! ❤
DESTINY
AMAAAZING!!
You definitely have my sub. This content is next level. For me cannafarm ltd was the turning point. Please keep doing what you do and keep being you, love it.
Gigantic stuff again.
destination
I will like someone that will approach me and greet me with a smile, followed by appropriate grooming. DESTINATION.
Someone who treats their subordinates with kindness
Amazing ❤
Destinations💯
I think the second chance is the most important-the first times are odd. The second time is when you make the decision.
I will just be myself so there's no surprise later.
Success is a journey not a destination
DESTINATION- Enjoying the bumps and bruises along the way.
🧡🤍💚🥰 from LEO 👍🙏🇮🇳
@sss-sm2pm 🪴
😂❤ let's meet in real to find out 🎉my choice she should be very presentable, good looking,so 50 marks for that and other 50 she should have a Brain like yours 😅❤❤❤
1 thing will make people like you don't lie to others.
I love Alux