@@sumayyahadetunmbi4347 yeah I remember the white kids being favored in class even tho there were black kids getting better grades on assignments and were more creative. it would have been nice to also get recognized
I just want black girls to stop giving those colorist/racist videos attention and learn to LOVE THEMSELVES without the validation of others. We are so gorgeous and smart and heavenly. We’ve been through a lot and still prosper and shine. I want them to ignore those ugly videos and move on.
Agreed 👏🏾 it just sucks bc I know that if I was on tiktok when I was younger and saw stuff like this, it would have made it a billion times harder for me to get to this point of loving and accepting and respecting myself. Tiktok is putrefying the minds of the young and all we can do is sit and watch it happen
Better yet, sew your seeds on Pro-Black aka *Pan African* pages and sites. It is so refreshing to be the beauty standard because Afrocentric pages and people love and celebrate Black women in their natural state. *no ambiguity, any way you want it*
It’s going to be hard for black girls to love themselves in this colorist/racist society so it’s easier said than done. But a step forward would be to stop watching those colorist videos, celebs , friends and to block them.
Also the “least desired” stastitic came from a freaking dating site and not the 7 billion people who live in this world. So black women next time someone wants to use that realize IT IS NOT A FACT it’s an opinion 100%
THANK YOU! THIS is what I keep telling people. That “black women are the least desired” statistic comes from some random dating app with dumb people. It’s an OPINION. Of course, not everyone will want to date a black girl/woman and that’s fine, but we are desired by many. I wish other could see that.
So so many black women keep ignoring this fact. When I had TikTok, I had went back and forth with an older black lady who kept saying Asian men don’t like black women on a video of Asian men saying they’d date block women. I had to express the fact that China alone has BILLIONS of people, MILLIONS of men. Now think of the rest of the Asian countries and boys/men from the appropriate age range. Then think of the guys who are Asian American or Asian British or anything of the sort. It’s simply illogical to generalize millions of men like that.
exactly lorddd!!!! i wish other young black girls can see this, but im not suprised cause tiktok is anti black in so many wats, so i get people who would be upset.
Also, physical desirability isn’t everything. There are WAY more things that make someone attractive besides sexual attraction. Men always tell me that they like talking to me. I’ve been told that my whole life and it makes me feel good, so I don’t care about conventional beauty that will fade. When people repeat that study to trigger insecurity in black women, I just say “I don’t need *every* group of men to desire me since I’ll only date one, anyway.” That usually shuts them up.
Whoever made that meme definitely has something against black women. Maybe jealously maybe they're just bitter?? The best reaction black women can do is act unbothered and calmly confident.
Def agree! Never had tik tok(nor do I ever plan on having it) but I had insta before and I've been off for more than 9 months now. Im way less insecure than I used to be and don't compare myself as much anymore
@@jackiepeterson6041 well then can you please stop telling them to get bigger lips, hips, butts, and to stop wearing our hairstyles and simulating our hair textures? That would be gravely appreciated!😫❤️❤️
@@jackiepeterson6041 Biologically, you are 100% incorrect. Ambiguous women will always be the standard, as the current beauty standard suggests. Only 8% of white women have the hourglass shape, yet it is the standard? Compared to black women, where upwards of 50% of us have the hourglass shape.
The “one has to go forever” tweet is the same woman in a different race like they picked the most black looking woman in each race ESPECIALLY Asian like no Asian woman actually looks like that? but yet all the comments saying black women... like what
@@AbrasiveYouth exactly! Especially that white girl.....the only white girls I’ve seen in irl that look like that are middle eastern and they usually don’t want to claim being white.
Many Asian women look like that. People need to realize not all Asians are East Asian from Japan, Korea, China etc. Indians are Asians. Laotians are Asians. Cambodians are Asians. Many of them can and do look “racially ambiguous.” But yea all four squares look damn near the the same. And I’m willing to bet every red cent I own that whatever bored troll posted that is light years away from pulling any of the women in that collage. They were a lame nobody wanting to get an anti-black response on purpose.
I really wish more black girls would be indifferent. Giving these bozos attention literally makes it worse. It doesn’t change anything at all. Giving in satisfies them. I’m glad I found this channel, you are really pretty and you’re speaking facts👏🏾
Is it bad that all the black girl hate on tik tok doesn't affect me? Obviously it's bothersome but I can't bring myself to feel saddened by it, I've become numb.
Omg.... same, I thought I was weird for not feeling sad just like no emotions just like "damn they keep hating" but then I just dont care cause I feel nothing💀
Chile...we live rent free in everyone’s minds so I’m really not bothered 🥱. At the end of the day, there’s a reason why they hate us and I’m ok with being hated as long as I know God loves me. Black women, our entire existence is proof that God loves us. We have people shook just from existing, if that isn’t proof of how much power we hold, I don’t know what is. Be blessed, sisters. We are truly winning ✨.
I watched this video of the black girl going around asking people if they would date a black girl (and yes the video did come off a little desperate) but the comments were full of people saying “oh they’re probably all lying” or “they’re just saying yes because she’s black” and part of that can be true but at the same time I was damn it’s like some of y’all can’t comprehend or believe that someone would want to date a black girl it was just giving me very much “nobody wants a black girl” energy
yes oh my god or when someone compliements a darkskin on tiktok theyre like "ur only saying that because shes black" like they cannot comprehend the fact that darkskins can be attractive
I truly will never understand why there is such hate towards black women . It's just so ridiculous because we have not done anything to anyone yet people always want to tear us down by making us feel unwanted . It's weird .
I feel like black women should not have entertained this at all because we already know they're obsessed with us. The sooner we stop entertaining middle-school things, the better we are going to be💕
It’s so obvious they make that type of content knowing the anti-black response they will get. This and constantly reminding black women they’re the least sought after when it comes to the dating world. It’s so tiring being a black girl. I’m strong and confident but I can’t deny the constant toll it takes on you being told all the time you’re unwanted.
Darling they claim that blk women /girls the least wanted,,, facts are different,, blk women limited her option but she much desired and wanted as any other women / girl if not more.
Don’t believe the bs. I’m black and have dated all and have been flirted with and hit on by all races of men. Matter fact a Vietnamese man just hit on me telling me he loves black women and how his ex wife is black and can he have my number. And contrary to my profile picture I’m brown/dark skin. I’m 32 and have dated all races. When dating in most cases it’s about how you carry yourself more then your skin tone. Because I’ve also had colorist BM hitting on me and I’m no where near their “type”.
@Motown Gayes yea I agree with you. I’ve dated out and had amazing experiences. However, you will always be made aware of your skin tone. If I had a dollar for every time I heard “ I didn’t know you liked black girls” being said to my non-black partner I’d be well on my way to being a millionaire
Listen up, my young black beauties: You have a very specific power that most others will never possess; that is why they spend so much energy trying to make sure you never discover what you are. A black women who discovers that power and harnesses it is a goddess amongst mere mortals. 💗
babe you’re gorgeous! the people who go out of their way to downgrade black women on the internet don’t love themselves either, don’t let them define your self esteem.
I’m sad that all the younger black girls are still dealing with this. My advice to you...don’t feed into the bs. Ladies your are beautiful. Uplift yourselves and find content for you. Tik tok is about mob mentality. Focus on yourself and your growth and everyone else will see that. I know it’s hard but it gets better. Stop posting tik toks that ponder to trolls. Watch you tubers like Chrissie,Paris Milan,Etc.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Never have I and never will I want to be anything other than a black woman!👸🏾 To my fellow black sisters who are self confident and to the ones who are not quite there yet, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!❤️
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
BIG UP YA SELF Gyal! I could tell u Caribbean from face alone lol. I'm so happy I found ya channel. Our Black sistrens go thru so much strife and as Black men, we tend to even add to it. This video was eye-opening. Keep up the good work!
No y'all don't add to it, y'all are the reason for it. And if you're really a black man that REALLY loves black women then you as a black man need to start pushing back against your so called "brothas" on the internet for talking shit about black women and girls; spreading lies and defaming our characters on a grand scale for over a decade. Y'all are the ones tarnishing the black womens image!!!
@@taters2883 don't be an ass. Attacking an ally for what? How do you know if he speaks against it or not? Why assume he doesn't? He's literally supporting a black woman and encouraging her. Smh. Generalizing shit. I've seen tons of mixed/light skinned women putting down dark skinned black women all over all day everyday and other black women insulting black women based on our same black features but of course not all do. We shouldn't be generalizing anyone based on what other people of their gender/race has said.
@@elisejackson2854 Empty compliments and acknowledging the fact that black men are adding to black womens strife is not being an ally. An ally fights beside you! This black man in the comment section needs to get out of this space and take himself over to the mens channels and start checking them for degrading, defaming, subjugating and stereotyping black women so horribly that it effects every BW/girls daily lives. If he does speak up for BW/ girls, then good for him; however, 9 times out of 10 I can guarantee he isn't. I'm not here for BM who are all talk with no action behind his words. That's all they do! I need them to show and prove, and if that makes me an ass then so be it. They are not my kangs and I do not cape for them. All they do is come in to women's spaces to compliment us and call us "Queens" and "Nubian Princesses" but never check these men who are out here talking shit about BW and girls. You just accept the bare minimum or nothing from these BM. But congratulations, you were the first one to come cape and protect him from being held accountable for why he's not checking his so called "brothas"!
Personally I like when memes like that surface because it shows me who I don't need in my life. Better to know who to stay away from. I swear I've used these types of things to know who to unfollow.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Bro *ON GOD!* If I don't like someone they don't exist. Like who is that? What's their name? What do they look like? Damn I wish I would've met them, they seem cool AF
That makes no sense. I defend our Women relentlessly. You're literally just as ignorant as the people saying Black Women should "leave" compared to other races. You're pushing the same ignorance our people DO NOT NEED. As well as those who liked the comment.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
One of the big reasons this type of ideology keeps getting pushed is because we give it attention and they know it’s gonna get traffic. When that crap comes on my fyp I automatically swiped. If I see anything rave related I don’t watch cause 9/10 it’s about black women being a b and c. Now my page is only filled with dance challenges lol
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Excellent commentary young lady ♥️ l think some older Black women should be tuning in to your channel for positive reinforcement and cultural validation. Sometimes we have to realize the elephant in the room can be our sensitivities. A well thought out post! My prayer is for a hedge of protection to form around you keeping you strong against anything or anyone out to harm you. ♥️
I could care less about those videos. I am a fine ass black girl, living to be great. What I do feel is for other black girls that aren’t like me. There are black girls that aren’t confident, there are black girls that aren’t strong. This is why that strong black woman stereotype faults us. No little 10 year old or teenage 16 year old black girl should hop on an app for entertainment and look at comments calling her slurs and names and being degraded because she’s a black girl. That is what bothers me about these videos.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Honestly as a young black woman i spend so much time trying to defend my femininity. Constantly getting called a man or people asking me if im ftm (which isn’t an insult!) but i know they say that to try to hurt my feelings and diminish my gender identity. As black woman we deal with being extremely sexualized or, getting stripped of our femininity like serena and venus williams :( its really upsetting but i love this video!!
It's upsetting, they were doing that same mess with Meg thee stallion and Michelle Obama too. They seem to get stupid when it comes to successful Black women. Then when we say one of their pREfreNCeS looks like a man(which honestly some of them do) they call us hating ass heauxs, like no keep that same energy.
You are absolutely right and please pay those ignorant people no mind. You are extremely gorgeous and feminine 💗. People just don’t want to see black women happy.
Yep I was a girl who was a bit of a tomboy but still feminine. I felt like being a girl who was funny and into video games would be good qualities. I just got masculined for it. I feel like growing up I was either hyper masculinized, hyper sexualized, or viewed as mature or older. Idk. It definitely messed with my self worth now as a 16-year-old. Sometimes I feel like it’s OK for people to hurt me in any way they want to because I feel like I should take it anyways.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Wow I am shocked that this meme has been brought back to life. Not going to lie, I felt that sting in my stomach that I always felt when I was younger and saw so many black boys making those posts, but your commentary put my head right back on! I agree with following the skinny black girls too lol, I actually followed some girls that you follow to get some inspo and such. I really need to connect with more black girls, maybe it’ll help when crap like this happens.
I wish I would’ve saw more compassion and understanding towards their reactions. They said they were confident but the post made them feel a way. That “tough skin” persona isn’t always the right answer.
I went through a phase when I was younger where I felt ugly as FuC.. But growing up I started to love myself and Stop caring what any MoFo thinks. People love hiding behind the screen, while they talk shit.
The black community/and everyone in general need to keep the same energy for racist content and people for colorist black men and boys both are equally awful and the latter does worse to the bc.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
at a certain point all the racist comments and hate for being a black women just gets to us. i think their reaction was out of frustration and their tired of literally being hated for no reason. it’s hard to be confident and stand tall when people are constantly beating on you it’s tiring.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
As a BW in my 60's, I am happy that I stumbled across your channel. I agree with you Siya. I am going to make sure my great-nieces and young BW become aware of Mojisola. So much goes on in our world, and social media brings out the worst of a lot of people. BW are sometimes alone in white spaces, especially going to colleges, so it can be tough to stand in confidence. Thank you Mojisola.
At this point I don't care, I cant explain why but I have like no feelings towards these things anymore. Maybe I've reached a level of confidence where it doesn't matter what other thinks or maybe bc I see through these people
And yeah... black girls can be confident.. but this is still a VERY sensitive topic... considering it took so long for black girls to love themselves since slavery took place.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Is it really OK to call ourselves bad bitches?! Where does this come from?! Like if you're beautiful without having the "look" ( wigs, nails, etc), then you're not a bad bitch?! Matter fact "being a bad bitch", is it from the outside or the inside, cause many girls try to look a certain way just to be called bad bitches but they don't really feel that way and lack confidence... I enjoy watching your video, thank you❤️
The overarching definition of that term would be ig models but for me I feel like when a girl is confident and in love with herself (not conceded) then she’s automatically a baddie . Thank youu 😊
I didn’t know the post until Coco Chinelo made a TikTok. At first it stung but looking at it now it’s like... thanks ig? 🤨 I too have gone through the phase of wanting to be white/asian and now that I’m over it, these things don’t phase me. And now my preference in men has changed so ✌️
I had to take a mental break from that app, the black girl slander and disrespect was too much. I expect disrespect from other races but it’s a different type of hurt when it comes from your own...
I know this video was about us black girls but I do have to say this shouldn’t be an issue to any race period I’m disgusted that some human beings think they have the right to talk about race like it’s a food menu you can pick choose and refuse in such a nasty way. It’s hurt so much at times when I couldn’t even get a decent compliment it was almost always a “well for a black girl your well mannered” like what is that suppose to mean? Why couldn’t you just say I’m a well mannered person the list of what I’ve heard could go on and on nonetheless thank you for making this video it really meant a lot.
I’ve developed thick skin as well, but I can’t fault these young girls for feeling insecure. I think it’s important for black women to learn to love themselves because honestly ain’t nobody doing it like us anyways. It’s ok to have preferences but I think it’s unhinged to go in depth on someone you hate.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
I honestly would like black girls to stop reacting to this type of videos because the only thing you are doing is helping the creator gain more views and likes, just don't react honestly you will be perfectly fine. Don't react because that's literally what they want , plus seeing us mad boost their egos. You are beautiful and you know that. And also the internet is not real, half of the thigs that you see on social media are fake or rarely happen in real life
Look around black women are the most copied being on earth. Many laugh at our bold feature but many pay to have them. Some say we are angry but many learn it is just black passion. Look my beautiful black queens from the lightest shade to the darkest melon just know you are great and God has never made a mistake. Now hold your head up so the world can see your bright light
To all my fellow black & Hispanic Queens The reason black men say they don’t like black girls is because we’re not gonna put up with their shit, that’s what that is
I think it’s hurtful because it’s not just a troll it’s MOST peoples actual mindset and it definitely sucks to how to navigate racism and everything even in dating and realize that many of the men we encounter have this mindset...
I understand your point but I also think it is a mob mentality . The people commented this knowing the kinds of reactions they would receive from black girls and they also commented this because others were commenting this . I do not think every single person that commented truly meant it but they wanted to see our reaction .
@@AbrasiveYouth And I think that is frankly psychotic (excuse my exaggeration), but think about how this affects black girls, constantly having to undergo some kind of trauma or social distress. Optics are important, if it looks as though everyone hates black girls and not one person is going to step out of that to go/speak against it, then there really is no safe place for us. We just constantly have to defend ourselves forever against people’s seemingly untrue feelings.
BM would be happier with black women outta the way IMHO There was a video on nylah says vs the BLACK male collective where a man said live that black women should be sacrificed. It was awful really
@@funmilayoaina2658 Grand Risin'... How are u?? That's a very untrue broad accusation your trying promote. I a single undeniable African/Black Warrior King knows that my undeniable beautiful ladies of Melanin Magic are the ones I want a happy forevermore with. 🖤💛💋💋👫🏾🤰🏿🤱🏿🥧🍯🥞💋🌍🌌 Black Love is amazing. Nothing compares. #LoveOfAfricanBlackManAndLady
I just want to let yall know that. We black women are beautiful. Who cares what other people say about us. God says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I know I love my dark chocolate and beautiful skin. And you should too.
I just wanna say to whatever black girl needs to hear this, you are beautiful. Like I just need you to know that. So many people in the world will try to tell you that you aren’t as attractive as someone else because of the shade of your skin, the features on your face, the texture of your hair, and etc. But fuck all of that lol. Black women are the blueprint. I remember being in middle school and just absolutely hating myself because of how I looked. Sometime in high school I gained confidence because I realized how pretty I am. But I’m only 18 and still need to love myself a little more. I’ll get there and you will too💕. & pls don’t let a mans opinion be the reason you’re insecure babe.
As I've grown, I begun to believe that black women are the most beautiful. You'd have to be to have so many people from literally every corner of everywhere trying to put you down and make you hate yourself. That way they can dim your light and shine brighter. And when I say "believe" I mean that I always thought we were the shit. But now I am positive we are.
I think we really need to start teaching the younger black girls to not pay attention to MESS like this. This didn’t hurt my feelings in the slightest and it shouldn’t hurt anyone elses. #1 It’s their preference #2 They dusty anyway . Also, who cares what you like I’m not dating you!
how could we be passed this self hatred phase, when we’re statically the race to have the highest amount of single women, we get told by our OWN, men that we are disgusting, they don’t protect us, we do everything on our own then are called ruthless dehumanizing things for it. personally as a black woman i much rather be with a man of my own color and race because dealing with what we go through is rough, and yes every other race has their own issues but they don’t have OUR issue, nearly every country despises black people, even in black countries they hate themselves, they bleach their skin to look “acceptable and desirable”. it’s a fact that no other race has to deal with being hated on such a large scale by the entire world. indian women are known for dealing with colorism and being hated by their own men but they still have men and just people in general who will be there for them regardless. we don’t have that, it’s tiring and i don’t want to just, toughen up and get passed it i’m tired of being tough, i’m tired of having to build myself up when i see other girls get treated so.. i don’t even know the word to describe it, but i’m not tough, i didn’t choose to be tough i was born into being tough. it’s not fair, and even if i did get with a man of color, i always have the thought of are they really treating me to the best of their ability or are they holding back because i’m a black girl, blck men cherish the love of white women or Latina women so much and black men will use black women then go date a latina, or white women, once something messes up in their new “accepted” relationship they go back to the black women and use her as a back up. i don’t even see myself having kids, or being in a relationship. idc how many “allies” there are on tiktok, af the end of the day most of them call themselves allies to have a good reputation to their name and not be seen as an asshole. most black girls that are loved look nothing like me, i gotta search deep and hard to find any BLACK, everything is black and lightskin, and yes lightskin is black but you know is entirely seen as the new wave of how to have acceptance and privilege, and the black girls who are darkskin or brownskin are only seen as pretty when their noses are mf small like “white women” even though we have our own features and yes we can have small noses nobody believes we can so when they see that they treat them like they’re better, and don’t even see them as a black girl bc they’re too pretty to be one. it’s allll a hot mess and i’m just tired, tired of colorism, tired of thinking i’m going to be alone forever, tired of the disrespect, tired of it all.
I think it's weird to be mad at them for being hurt by this tik tok, a lot of teenagers and young adults are on tik tok. black girls and women are human beings not mystical creatures who always have to be strong and indifferent. it's ok and normal for us to feel hurt when ppl keep dragging us i mean. loving yourself in society that hate you is hard
I am a black woman. And I don't react to someone else portraying their insecurities onto me. There are 24 hours in a day and i don't have time to validate myself to someone who didn't create me. It's a self reflection of what they think of themselves. Now if we gonna talk about what I think of myself and my fellow beautiful sisters filled with melanin is "WE ARE BEAUTIFUL QUEENS, WE ARE UNIQUE AND GOD TOOK HIS TIME CREATING OUR BEAUTY. SLAY QUEEN, AND WALK ON THAT GROUND LIKE YOU OWN IT" ❤👑💅🏽
If we did this with any other race of girl/female men and other girls would stand up for them and say it’s not acceptable. So, why is it that black women get to be made fun of and dragged generation after generation. Another point even the wigs, they act like black women/females/girls are the only females who wear wigs and extensions not true. Additionally, natural hair movement is a problem, not showing 4c hair more representation of loose hair textures. Make it seems as though within black race some females are more superior to others. NO OTHER RACE, makes it a point to distinguish themselves from people within their race based on their hair textures. It’s sad it’s 2021.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
It's because we look very different from others. We will get treated and regarded poorly until we evolve to look differently genetically. Hard truth. But we are the ones responsible for sexual selection. We can be defiant and dig our heels in, but if we keep giving more of the same in the gene pool, nothing will change only worsen for our girls.
I just looked at that Tik tok & literally *EVERYONE!* is saying white girls wtf? 😂😂 It's all wrong at the end of the day.. Remember folks the net isn't reality. The thirst for black women is real 😍
I agree with everything except ugly people are trolling part. People always assume ugly people are the villains and that's not ok. I've met "beautiful" people who like to put others down to boost themselves even more. It might be true that bitter people are more likely to troll others and being ugly might cause someone to be bitter but that's still a huge generalization imo People don't attach their real identity when they are trolling because they don't want to face real life consequences. That has nothing to do with looks.
That post in the beginning... Eww... Even if they chose different it still would've been terrible, and that post is such an insult to all women. You can't just put races up against each other like that. I still hate how literally 99 of the comment section said black... They wonder why we're so insecure... They wonder why we wanna lighten our skin and straighten our hair(nothing wrong with straighting your hair) It be our own kind too but these are the same people who bash us for dating outside our race Also ain't none of them look like they're races? I'm not saying you can't be born a certain way while being a different race, but they all looked like they could be mixed. I didn't even realize that was an Asian girl at first. All the girls in the post look closely similar to black women in features
Donald Dump should've banned TikTok when he had the chance. It's sad how tiktok promotes black women being degraded. Luckily there are black girls making amazing content on tiktok and shout out to divest Twitter for celebrating and honoring the dark skin black woman's image. But unfortunately the algorithm will promote the low self esteem ones. Plus those girls are beautiful. Also black men need to stop disrespecting black women especially dark skin and fat black women. Yall are crazy. I did have a low self esteem back in high school and felt ugly but I always saw dark skin girls as beautiful, even when people made fun of me. I hope people stop disrespecting bw and we teach black girls to be confident and black boys to love dark skin women. And black girls in tiktok need to stop making this pity content. Non black people and black men do not care. Let's focus on uplifting each other.
It’s a troll page so no one is getting famous off of this . The video is to raise awareness that you shouldn’t allow others to define how you see yourself .
This is so stupid. I really don't understand this because the black girl in the picture is so beautiful it gets harder for me to live in peace as a black girl every day.
Mojisola Adams Grand Risin'....beautiful lady. Forever remember I said this that African/Black Ladies are the amazingly most beautiful of all understood. #MelaninMagic #BlackLove #BlackLoveOfBlackManAndBlackLadyIsForevermore Because I a African/Black Warrior King said so. Love u. - 🖤💛💋 AAMAZIN
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️. Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this. And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Self-love and confidence are certainly valuable, empowering traits to cultivate, that’s what the glorious audacity to not give a fuck is rooted in. But it’s hard to develop them in a vacuum, or if everything that is reflected back to you is degrading. It’s great you’re sharing how you’ve blocked this toxicity from your life. I just think the take that Black girls expressing hurt over this is just cringey insecurity is not great. I mean, I’m 32 years old, I look at these girls as that, girls. Not (supposedly) stable, mature adults. Plus, not all Black girls are diminished and insulted equally. My experience could be (likely was) different than the girls who didn’t have the same infestation (i kid) of Eurocentric traits I do. I’m basically an idiot but I can embarrass the best of them with their own formal language. It was easier for me to develop confidence and ultimately not giving a fuck because even if personally unwanted or unnoticed, society at large sees value in the what they see as distancing me from Blackness, and I get to understand this. It makes sense you don’t understand why some Black girls reacted like this. You’re attractive, thin, lighter complexioned. Obviously you like me are still Black, but there is privilege here you haven’t really addressed. For girls whose features are more richly African, who don’t code switch, who aren’t thin, etc., society takes pleasure in eroding their worth. That meme is an expression of systems centuries old and generations deep, to feel insecure within a culture in which you literally have less or no security is not a character flaw or personal weakness, it’s simply being awake.
This is why I hate tik tok yea it has its funny moments but people are so disgusting on there. It gotten so bad that I had to delete that app because it was ruining my mental health
I wanted to see more Black women choosing to say they would take themselves out of the equation bc we aren't menu items.
mee too I didn’t want them to fall into that trap
Right
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Exactly. No woman is a menu item. Such a disgusting “meme” or whatever tf it would be called.
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I thought I wanted to be a white girl at certain points but now that I look back, I just wanted their privilege
Oh this is deep, because this is probably what I wanted then and not exactly being white. I just wanted to be appreciated for who I am
Oh this is deep, because this is probably what I wanted then and not exactly being white
@@sumayyahadetunmbi4347 yeah I remember the white kids being favored in class even tho there were black kids getting better grades on assignments and were more creative. it would have been nice to also get recognized
They have it too easy so they don't work hard for anything. Trust me , you are better off.
same 😭🤚
It’s the fact that we live in these peoples heads rent free 💅
And I couldn’t really give a damn about them… the best part!
EXACTLY and we don't even think of their existence 😌✨
Imagine if we didn’t exist! The whole world would be so boring and depressing
Mam said there w o r d
Take a seat ppl
@Joseph Berg pressed.
I just want black girls to stop giving those colorist/racist videos attention and learn to LOVE THEMSELVES without the validation of others. We are so gorgeous and smart and heavenly. We’ve been through a lot and still prosper and shine. I want them to ignore those ugly videos and move on.
Agreed 👏🏾 it just sucks bc I know that if I was on tiktok when I was younger and saw stuff like this, it would have made it a billion times harder for me to get to this point of loving and accepting and respecting myself. Tiktok is putrefying the minds of the young and all we can do is sit and watch it happen
and misogynistic like the emphasis even put on a girl/women's appearance and race is honestly sickening
Better yet, sew your seeds on Pro-Black aka *Pan African* pages and sites. It is so refreshing to be the beauty standard because Afrocentric pages and people love and celebrate Black women in their natural state. *no ambiguity, any way you want it*
MEEEEEE
It’s going to be hard for black girls to love themselves in this colorist/racist society so it’s easier said than done. But a step forward would be to stop watching those colorist videos, celebs , friends and to block them.
Also the “least desired” stastitic came from a freaking dating site and not the 7 billion people who live in this world. So black women next time someone wants to use that realize IT IS NOT A FACT it’s an opinion 100%
THANK YOU! THIS is what I keep telling people. That “black women are the least desired” statistic comes from some random dating app with dumb people. It’s an OPINION. Of course, not everyone will want to date a black girl/woman and that’s fine, but we are desired by many. I wish other could see that.
So so many black women keep ignoring this fact. When I had TikTok, I had went back and forth with an older black lady who kept saying Asian men don’t like black women on a video of Asian men saying they’d date block women. I had to express the fact that China alone has BILLIONS of people, MILLIONS of men. Now think of the rest of the Asian countries and boys/men from the appropriate age range. Then think of the guys who are Asian American or Asian British or anything of the sort. It’s simply illogical to generalize millions of men like that.
exactly lorddd!!!! i wish other young black girls can see this, but im not suprised cause tiktok is anti black in so many wats, so i get people who would be upset.
And it’s literally so oldddd.
Also, physical desirability isn’t everything. There are WAY more things that make someone attractive besides sexual attraction. Men always tell me that they like talking to me. I’ve been told that my whole life and it makes me feel good, so I don’t care about conventional beauty that will fade. When people repeat that study to trigger insecurity in black women, I just say “I don’t need *every* group of men to desire me since I’ll only date one, anyway.” That usually shuts them up.
Whoever made that meme definitely has something against black women. Maybe jealously maybe they're just bitter?? The best reaction black women can do is act unbothered and calmly confident.
If you're a black girl with tiktok DELETE THE APP!!! it did wonders for my mental health
I definitely agree!!
I did this and totally agree with you
Def agree! Never had tik tok(nor do I ever plan on having it) but I had insta before and I've been off for more than 9 months now. Im way less insecure than I used to be and don't compare myself as much anymore
Then what will they do when the black girls leave it will go down
Exactly. This stuff didn't even phase me because idgaf about what happens on tiktok
Black women aesthetic is the standard, they just don’t want to admit it.
Agreed
White women are and always will be the beauty standard
@@jackiepeterson6041 well then can you please stop telling them to get bigger lips, hips, butts, and to stop wearing our hairstyles and simulating our hair textures? That would be gravely appreciated!😫❤️❤️
@@jackiepeterson6041 Biologically, you are 100% incorrect. Ambiguous women will always be the standard, as the current beauty standard suggests. Only 8% of white women have the hourglass shape, yet it is the standard? Compared to black women, where upwards of 50% of us have the hourglass shape.
While women are the standard and black women are the blueprint.
Daily reminder: Stop defending and caping for men who don't care about you or your daughters or sisters or mother's and would proudly bash them.
The “one has to go forever” tweet is the same woman in a different race like they picked the most black looking woman in each race ESPECIALLY Asian like no Asian woman actually looks like that? but yet all the comments saying black women... like what
That’s exactly what I was thinking . They all look extremely racially ambiguous yet it’s the black woman that must go 🤨
@@AbrasiveYouth exactly! Especially that white girl.....the only white girls I’ve seen in irl that look like that are middle eastern and they usually don’t want to claim being white.
@@spacebars9677 That "white girl" is actually mixed (black and white).
Many Asian women look like that. People need to realize not all Asians are East Asian from Japan, Korea, China etc. Indians are Asians. Laotians are Asians. Cambodians are Asians. Many of them can and do look “racially ambiguous.” But yea all four squares look damn near the the same. And I’m willing to bet every red cent I own that whatever bored troll posted that is light years away from pulling any of the women in that collage. They were a lame nobody wanting to get an anti-black response on purpose.
@@leilanidru7506 she looks more mixed (black and white) then asian to me but idk
I really wish more black girls would be indifferent. Giving these bozos attention literally makes it worse. It doesn’t change anything at all. Giving in satisfies them. I’m glad I found this channel, you are really pretty and you’re speaking facts👏🏾
I totally agree with you & thank you 💕
indifferent! yes! just go: hmm okay...moving on. it would help us sooo much.
Facts 💯
I hate when people make those “one has to go” things. They’re made for the sole purpose of putting down an entire group of people.
Is it bad that all the black girl hate on tik tok doesn't affect me? Obviously it's bothersome but I can't bring myself to feel saddened by it, I've become numb.
Omg.... same, I thought I was weird for not feeling sad just like no emotions just like "damn they keep hating" but then I just dont care cause I feel nothing💀
The only reason why I cried was because of how other black girls would feel.
Chile...we live rent free in everyone’s minds so I’m really not bothered 🥱. At the end of the day, there’s a reason why they hate us and I’m ok with being hated as long as I know God loves me. Black women, our entire existence is proof that God loves us. We have people shook just from existing, if that isn’t proof of how much power we hold, I don’t know what is. Be blessed, sisters. We are truly winning ✨.
Exactly i feel the same
Nah fr at this point I couldn’t care less what the internet or media thinks about me
It’s crazy how much they envy us. BW make the world go round.
It true
If it’s your picture in your pfp, you’re literally gorgeous
@@kittycoutourxxx2706 thank you 💕
Miss gurl you look like you should be in a freaking crest commercial with that smile, you’re so pretty omg!!
@@lavalu1137 thank you 💕
I watched this video of the black girl going around asking people if they would date a black girl (and yes the video did come off a little desperate) but the comments were full of people saying “oh they’re probably all lying” or “they’re just saying yes because she’s black” and part of that can be true but at the same time I was damn it’s like some of y’all can’t comprehend or believe that someone would want to date a black girl it was just giving me very much “nobody wants a black girl” energy
yes oh my god or when someone compliements a darkskin on tiktok theyre like "ur only saying that because shes black" like they cannot comprehend the fact that darkskins can be attractive
I truly will never understand why there is such hate towards black women . It's just so ridiculous because we have not done anything to anyone yet people always want to tear us down by making us feel unwanted . It's weird .
Black women(dark-skin women especially) are so used to degradation that compliments comes across as pandering. It's unfortunate.
This. It’s like they love to wallow in their own self hate.
Like I really don’t understand why y’all engage in that kind of content....I think some of y’all are addicted to your own pain.....
I feel like black women should not have entertained this at all because we already know they're obsessed with us. The sooner we stop entertaining middle-school things, the better we are going to be💕
My thoughts exactly…❤️
It’s so obvious they make that type of content knowing the anti-black response they will get. This and constantly reminding black women they’re the least sought after when it comes to the dating world. It’s so tiring being a black girl. I’m strong and confident but I can’t deny the constant toll it takes on you being told all the time you’re unwanted.
Yeah that person who made the post knew what they were starting. It’s honestly sick.
Darling they claim that blk women /girls the least wanted,,, facts are different,, blk women limited her option but she much desired and wanted as any other women / girl if not more.
Don’t believe the bs. I’m black and have dated all and have been flirted with and hit on by all races of men. Matter fact a Vietnamese man just hit on me telling me he loves black women and how his ex wife is black and can he have my number. And contrary to my profile picture I’m brown/dark skin. I’m 32 and have dated all races. When dating in most cases it’s about how you carry yourself more then your skin tone. Because I’ve also had colorist BM hitting on me and I’m no where near their “type”.
Exactly
@Motown Gayes yea I agree with you. I’ve dated out and had amazing experiences. However, you will always be made aware of your skin tone. If I had a dollar for every time I heard “ I didn’t know you liked black girls” being said to my non-black partner I’d be well on my way to being a millionaire
Listen up, my young black beauties:
You have a very specific power that most others will never possess; that is why they spend so much energy trying to make sure you never discover what you are.
A black women who discovers that power and harnesses it is a goddess amongst mere mortals. 💗
Yes so true!
Lol
Huh
This made me cry thank you.
As a black girl, I’ve always struggled with my race and I often had self hate but I’ve learned to love myself and love my blackness.
Dont be! We love black queens!
That’s amazing keep it up Queen 👸🏾
"Who taught you too hate yourself"?!! 👹🤳🪤🪦What you tell yourself.... is What you believe about yourself is 100% true-#UNLEARN!!!
babe you’re gorgeous! the people who go out of their way to downgrade black women on the internet don’t love themselves either, don’t let them define your self esteem.
U can't love ur self if u have to put another race down on a daily basis don't listen to these people they're miserable
I’m sad that all the younger black girls are still dealing with this. My advice to you...don’t feed into the bs. Ladies your are beautiful. Uplift yourselves and find content for you. Tik tok is about mob mentality. Focus on yourself and your growth and everyone else will see that. I know it’s hard but it gets better. Stop posting tik toks that ponder to trolls. Watch you tubers like Chrissie,Paris Milan,Etc.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
You are very right. You better learn how to accept yourself because this is who you are, beautiful
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Never have I and never will I want to be anything other than a black woman!👸🏾 To my fellow black sisters who are self confident and to the ones who are not quite there yet, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!❤️
Right? I genuinely love it.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Why? What is so great about it? @@bluestripes6037
BIG UP YA SELF Gyal! I could tell u Caribbean from face alone lol. I'm so happy I found ya channel. Our Black sistrens go thru so much strife and as Black men, we tend to even add to it. This video was eye-opening. Keep up the good work!
Thank youu for watching my video . I'm actually Grenadian (mom) & Nigerian (dad) !
@@AbrasiveYouth Caribbean girls run it ask Riri
No y'all don't add to it, y'all are the reason for it. And if you're really a black man that REALLY loves black women then you as a black man need to start pushing back against your so called "brothas" on the internet for talking shit about black women and girls; spreading lies and defaming our characters on a grand scale for over a decade. Y'all are the ones tarnishing the black womens image!!!
@@taters2883 don't be an ass. Attacking an ally for what? How do you know if he speaks against it or not? Why assume he doesn't? He's literally supporting a black woman and encouraging her. Smh. Generalizing shit. I've seen tons of mixed/light skinned women putting down dark skinned black women all over all day everyday and other black women insulting black women based on our same black features but of course not all do. We shouldn't be generalizing anyone based on what other people of their gender/race has said.
@@elisejackson2854 Empty compliments and acknowledging the fact that black men are adding to black womens strife is not being an ally. An ally fights beside you! This black man in the comment section needs to get out of this space and take himself over to the mens channels and start checking them for degrading, defaming, subjugating and stereotyping black women so horribly that it effects every BW/girls daily lives. If he does speak up for BW/ girls, then good for him; however, 9 times out of 10 I can guarantee he isn't. I'm not here for BM who are all talk with no action behind his words. That's all they do! I need them to show and prove, and if that makes me an ass then so be it. They are not my kangs and I do not cape for them. All they do is come in to women's spaces to compliment us and call us "Queens" and "Nubian Princesses" but never check these men who are out here talking shit about BW and girls. You just accept the bare minimum or nothing from these BM. But congratulations, you were the first one to come cape and protect him from being held accountable for why he's not checking his so called "brothas"!
Personally I like when memes like that surface because it shows me who I don't need in my life. Better to know who to stay away from. I swear I've used these types of things to know who to unfollow.
True people will expose themselves especially when others agree with them too.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
It's pretty interesting that someone will keep going out their way to express how they don't like something.
Bro *ON GOD!* If I don't like someone they don't exist. Like who is that? What's their name? What do they look like? Damn I wish I would've met them, they seem cool AF
We black girls or black women also need to like not defend black men lol
Like let’s defend ourselves
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That makes no sense. I defend our Women relentlessly. You're literally just as ignorant as the people saying Black Women should "leave" compared to other races. You're pushing the same ignorance our people DO NOT NEED. As well as those who liked the comment.
@@JustGio1111 then keep doing it king
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
One of the big reasons this type of ideology keeps getting pushed is because we give it attention and they know it’s gonna get traffic. When that crap comes on my fyp I automatically swiped. If I see anything rave related I don’t watch cause 9/10 it’s about black women being a b and c. Now my page is only filled with dance challenges lol
YESSS I make sure I have a lot of Black’s women in luxury, makeup and beautiful hair tutorials, and just resting in their beauty
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Excellent commentary young lady ♥️ l think some older Black women should be tuning in to your channel for positive reinforcement and cultural validation. Sometimes we have to realize the elephant in the room can be our sensitivities. A well thought out post! My prayer is for a hedge of protection to form around you keeping you strong against anything or anyone out to harm you. ♥️
Thank you so much I really appreciate this comment !
I could care less about those videos. I am a fine ass black girl, living to be great. What I do feel is for other black girls that aren’t like me. There are black girls that aren’t confident, there are black girls that aren’t strong. This is why that strong black woman stereotype faults us. No little 10 year old or teenage 16 year old black girl should hop on an app for entertainment and look at comments calling her slurs and names and being degraded because she’s a black girl. That is what bothers me about these videos.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Honestly as a young black woman i spend so much time trying to defend my femininity. Constantly getting called a man or people asking me if im ftm (which isn’t an insult!) but i know they say that to try to hurt my feelings and diminish my gender identity. As black woman we deal with being extremely sexualized or, getting stripped of our femininity like serena and venus williams :( its really upsetting but i love this video!!
It's upsetting, they were doing that same mess with Meg thee stallion and Michelle Obama too. They seem to get stupid when it comes to successful Black women. Then when we say one of their pREfreNCeS looks like a man(which honestly some of them do) they call us hating ass heauxs, like no keep that same energy.
You are a girl ❤❤ and if that's you in your icon we can tell you're a girl. They're doing it to try to make you insecure
You are absolutely right and please pay those ignorant people no mind. You are extremely gorgeous and feminine 💗. People just don’t want to see black women happy.
Yep I was a girl who was a bit of a tomboy but still feminine. I felt like being a girl who was funny and into video games would be good qualities. I just got masculined for it. I feel like growing up I was either hyper masculinized, hyper sexualized, or viewed as mature or older. Idk. It definitely messed with my self worth now as a 16-year-old. Sometimes I feel like it’s OK for people to hurt me in any way they want to because I feel like I should take it anyways.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Wow I am shocked that this meme has been brought back to life. Not going to lie, I felt that sting in my stomach that I always felt when I was younger and saw so many black boys making those posts, but your commentary put my head right back on!
I agree with following the skinny black girls too lol, I actually followed some girls that you follow to get some inspo and such.
I really need to connect with more black girls, maybe it’ll help when crap like this happens.
I wish I would’ve saw more compassion and understanding towards their reactions. They said they were confident but the post made them feel a way. That “tough skin” persona isn’t always the right answer.
I went through a phase when I was younger where I felt ugly as FuC.. But growing up I started to love myself and Stop caring what any MoFo thinks. People love hiding behind the screen, while they talk shit.
7:40
Our dad in his Nigerian accent “ EVERYOBODY DEH SHOW THEIR OWN BUT YOUR OWN DEH FOR LOCK AND KEY, WEYTIN DEH HAPPEN??” 😂😂
R.I.P to my niece I think black girls are the most intelligent, attractive, sexy, empathic and resolute women on the internet
The black community/and everyone in general need to keep the same energy for racist content and people for colorist black men and boys both are equally awful and the latter does worse to the bc.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
at a certain point all the racist comments and hate for being a black women just gets to us. i think their reaction was out of frustration and their tired of literally being hated for no reason. it’s hard to be confident and stand tall when people are constantly beating on you it’s tiring.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
I know I'm aiming high but I hope this video gets 1 million views at the end of the day.
All Gen z black women need to watch this.
manifesting this ✨✨ thank you so much 💕
As a BW in my 60's, I am happy that I stumbled across your channel. I agree with you Siya. I am going to make sure my great-nieces and young BW become aware of Mojisola. So much goes on in our world, and social media brings out the worst of a lot of people. BW are sometimes alone in white spaces, especially going to colleges, so it can be tough to stand in confidence. Thank you Mojisola.
Yeah people really needs to watch this more
At this point I don't care, I cant explain why but I have like no feelings towards these things anymore. Maybe I've reached a level of confidence where it doesn't matter what other thinks or maybe bc I see through these people
I had to take a break from tiktok cuz Chile it can get toxic
It really is ! I took a break about 5 months ago for 5 months and now I do not want to delete , I am actually addicted .
And yeah... black girls can be confident.. but this is still a VERY sensitive topic... considering it took so long for black girls to love themselves since slavery took place.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
Is it really OK to call ourselves bad bitches?! Where does this come from?! Like if you're beautiful without having the "look" ( wigs, nails, etc), then you're not a bad bitch?! Matter fact "being a bad bitch", is it from the outside or the inside, cause many girls try to look a certain way just to be called bad bitches but they don't really feel that way and lack confidence... I enjoy watching your video, thank you❤️
The overarching definition of that term would be ig models but for me I feel like when a girl is confident and in love with herself (not conceded) then she’s automatically a baddie . Thank youu 😊
“bad chic” is better. 💯
I didn’t know the post until Coco Chinelo made a TikTok. At first it stung but looking at it now it’s like... thanks ig? 🤨
I too have gone through the phase of wanting to be white/asian and now that I’m over it, these things don’t phase me.
And now my preference in men has changed so ✌️
Yess , I saw her post and overall the whole situation is bizarre because what was the point of making a meme like this ?
being a black girl >>
Coco Chanel made a tiktok with the “you suck” thing like shown in the video?
i will never understand how people will waste so much of their energy just to say they hate us, like dont y'all have jobs?? leave us alone
Clearly not . If they had jobs they would be too tired to find the time to make post like these .
Factsss. Why spend energy hating on someone? unless said hated person is doing actual harm, I don’t see why ppl waste their time
fr most of them hate their own lives
I had to take a mental break from that app, the black girl slander and disrespect was too much. I expect disrespect from other races but it’s a different type of hurt when it comes from your own...
I know this video was about us black girls but I do have to say this shouldn’t be an issue to any race period I’m disgusted that some human beings think they have the right to talk about race like it’s a food menu you can pick choose and refuse in such a nasty way. It’s hurt so much at times when I couldn’t even get a decent compliment it was almost always a “well for a black girl your well mannered” like what is that suppose to mean? Why couldn’t you just say I’m a well mannered person the list of what I’ve heard could go on and on nonetheless thank you for making this video it really meant a lot.
I’ve developed thick skin as well, but I can’t fault these young girls for feeling insecure. I think it’s important for black women to learn to love themselves because honestly ain’t nobody doing it like us anyways. It’s ok to have preferences but I think it’s unhinged to go in depth on someone you hate.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
I honestly would like black girls to stop reacting to this type of videos because the only thing you are doing is helping the creator gain more views and likes, just don't react honestly you will be perfectly fine. Don't react because that's literally what they want , plus seeing us mad boost their egos. You are beautiful and you know that. And also the internet is not real, half of the thigs that you see on social media are fake or rarely happen in real life
Exactly 👏🏽
I AM ABSOLUTELY LOVING THIS COMMENT SECTION. SHOUT OUT TO ALL MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK GIRLS LIKE MYSELF 💓
I am the girl to the right of the thumbnail, thank you so much! For spreading awareness :)
Look around black women are the most copied being on earth. Many laugh at our bold feature but many pay to have them. Some say we are angry but many learn it is just black passion. Look my beautiful black queens from the lightest shade to the darkest melon just know you are great and God has never made a mistake. Now hold your head up so the world can see your bright light
To all my fellow black & Hispanic Queens The reason black men say they don’t like black girls is because we’re not gonna put up with their shit, that’s what that is
I think it’s hurtful because it’s not just a troll it’s MOST peoples actual mindset and it definitely sucks to how to navigate racism and everything even in dating and realize that many of the men we encounter have this mindset...
I understand your point but I also think it is a mob mentality . The people commented this knowing the kinds of reactions they would receive from black girls and they also commented this because others were commenting this . I do not think every single person that commented truly meant it but they wanted to see our reaction .
@@AbrasiveYouth And I think that is frankly psychotic (excuse my exaggeration), but think about how this affects black girls, constantly having to undergo some kind of trauma or social distress. Optics are important, if it looks as though everyone hates black girls and not one person is going to step out of that to go/speak against it, then there really is no safe place for us. We just constantly have to defend ourselves forever against people’s seemingly untrue feelings.
BM would be happier with black women outta the way IMHO
There was a video on nylah says vs the BLACK male collective where a man said live that black women should be sacrificed. It was awful really
@@funmilayoaina2658 Grand Risin'... How are u?? That's a very untrue broad accusation your trying promote. I a single undeniable African/Black Warrior King knows that my undeniable beautiful ladies of Melanin Magic are the ones I want a happy forevermore with. 🖤💛💋💋👫🏾🤰🏿🤱🏿🥧🍯🥞💋🌍🌌 Black Love is amazing. Nothing compares. #LoveOfAfricanBlackManAndLady
@@aamazintribe what are you the king of exactly? Don't say wakanda
I just want to let yall know that. We black women are beautiful. Who cares what other people say about us. God says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I know I love my dark chocolate and beautiful skin. And you should too.
3:38 I mean.. the black girl was the only one without lip fillers 💀
Hi to all my black QUEENS👑remember All the races came from us😌
Uhh...yea that's literally not how it works. Go study some books young lady. White people didn't come from black people.
@@DMZRPG Everybody originated in Africa
@@OreoOreoCookie234 yes exactly. White people not come from black people.
@@OreoOreoCookie234Yes, but not from black people.
I just wanna say to whatever black girl needs to hear this, you are beautiful. Like I just need you to know that. So many people in the world will try to tell you that you aren’t as attractive as someone else because of the shade of your skin, the features on your face, the texture of your hair, and etc. But fuck all of that lol. Black women are the blueprint. I remember being in middle school and just absolutely hating myself because of how I looked. Sometime in high school I gained confidence because I realized how pretty I am. But I’m only 18 and still need to love myself a little more. I’ll get there and you will too💕. & pls don’t let a mans opinion be the reason you’re insecure babe.
Thank you! ❤️❤️
It's sad how much you can still see that the discrimination against black women has not left the chat....🙄😑
As I've grown, I begun to believe that black women are the most beautiful. You'd have to be to have so many people from literally every corner of everywhere trying to put you down and make you hate yourself. That way they can dim your light and shine brighter. And when I say "believe" I mean that I always thought we were the shit. But now I am positive we are.
Honestly wouldn't be surprised if a black m man made this meme, it's just so.... Like them
Tiktok is the absolute worst social media platform even worse than twitter
frrr
Agreed
I agree. And I deleted both.
I think we really need to start teaching the younger black girls to not pay attention to MESS like this. This didn’t hurt my feelings in the slightest and it shouldn’t hurt anyone elses. #1 It’s their preference #2 They dusty anyway . Also, who cares what you like I’m not dating you!
The ones publicly saying black girls are the same sending you thirsty DMs
how could we be passed this self hatred phase, when we’re statically the race to have the highest amount of single women, we get told by our OWN, men that we are disgusting, they don’t protect us, we do everything on our own then are called ruthless dehumanizing things for it. personally as a black woman i much rather be with a man of my own color and race because dealing with what we go through is rough, and yes every other race has their own issues but they don’t have OUR issue, nearly every country despises black people, even in black countries they hate themselves, they bleach their skin to look “acceptable and desirable”. it’s a fact that no other race has to deal with being hated on such a large scale by the entire world. indian women are known for dealing with colorism and being hated by their own men but they still have men and just people in general who will be there for them regardless. we don’t have that, it’s tiring and i don’t want to just, toughen up and get passed it i’m tired of being tough, i’m tired of having to build myself up when i see other girls get treated so.. i don’t even know the word to describe it, but i’m not tough, i didn’t choose to be tough i was born into being tough. it’s not fair, and even if i did get with a man of color, i always have the thought of are they really treating me to the best of their ability or are they holding back because i’m a black girl, blck men cherish the love of white women or Latina women so much and black men will use black women then go date a latina, or white women, once something messes up in their new “accepted” relationship they go back to the black women and use her as a back up. i don’t even see myself having kids, or being in a relationship. idc how many “allies” there are on tiktok, af the end of the day most of them call themselves allies to have a good reputation to their name and not be seen as an asshole. most black girls that are loved look nothing like me, i gotta search deep and hard to find any BLACK, everything is black and lightskin, and yes lightskin is black but you know is entirely seen as the new wave of how to have acceptance and privilege, and the black girls who are darkskin or brownskin are only seen as pretty when their noses are mf small like “white women” even though we have our own features and yes we can have small noses nobody believes we can so when they see that they treat them like they’re better, and don’t even see them as a black girl bc they’re too pretty to be one. it’s allll a hot mess and i’m just tired, tired of colorism, tired of thinking i’m going to be alone forever, tired of the disrespect, tired of it all.
I think it's weird to be mad at them for being hurt by this tik tok, a lot of teenagers and young adults are on tik tok. black girls and women are human beings not mystical creatures who always have to be strong and indifferent. it's ok and normal for us to feel hurt when ppl keep dragging us i mean. loving yourself in society that hate you is hard
It’s 5 am I just found this video and now I’m obsessed with you🙏🏽
thank youuu 😭
I am a black woman. And I don't react to someone else portraying their insecurities onto me. There are 24 hours in a day and i don't have time to validate myself to someone who didn't create me. It's a self reflection of what they think of themselves. Now if we gonna talk about what I think of myself and my fellow beautiful sisters filled with melanin is "WE ARE BEAUTIFUL QUEENS, WE ARE UNIQUE AND GOD TOOK HIS TIME CREATING OUR BEAUTY. SLAY QUEEN, AND WALK ON THAT GROUND LIKE YOU OWN IT" ❤👑💅🏽
It's giving fan behavior! people are MAD at black women because we don't live to satisfy no one but ourselves.
If we did this with any other race of girl/female men and other girls would stand up for them and say it’s not acceptable. So, why is it that black women get to be made fun of and dragged generation after generation. Another point even the wigs, they act like black women/females/girls are the only females who wear wigs and extensions not true. Additionally, natural hair movement is a problem, not showing 4c hair more representation of loose hair textures. Make it seems as though within black race some females are more superior to others. NO OTHER RACE, makes it a point to distinguish themselves from people within their race based on their hair textures. It’s sad it’s 2021.
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
It's because we look very different from others. We will get treated and regarded poorly until we evolve to look differently genetically. Hard truth. But we are the ones responsible for sexual selection. We can be defiant and dig our heels in, but if we keep giving more of the same in the gene pool, nothing will change only worsen for our girls.
I just found your channel today any ways your very beautiful and very informative I hope more black girls will watch your content 😀🥰
thank youu 💗💗
@@AbrasiveYouth your welcome 😍
LOVE your videos, keep them coming 👏🏾👏🏾
More to come!
TIKtok. Ewwww. Avoid. Not a good place at all.
here to boost the algorithm. more people need to see this
Thank youu 💗💗
I just looked at that Tik tok & literally *EVERYONE!* is saying white girls wtf? 😂😂 It's all wrong at the end of the day.. Remember folks the net isn't reality. The thirst for black women is real 😍
The real TikTok was taken down
@@AbrasiveYouth I mean but still....most of the comments were white girls. But like I said, it's wrong either way
Road to 4K❤️❤️ & looool I want better for Black girls!!
Yess & I have not forgotten books . My goal is to read 30 books this summer !
@@AbrasiveYouth looool uni is on my neck!! 30 books I respect it!
Girl you’re content is lit 🔥 I saw one video last night the Bougie black woman and Subbed keep going sis
thank youu 💕💕
im black and there's nothing wrong with it and nothing i would do about it i love it!
The only black women that has to be actually hurt is the one in that damn post that these trolls made😠
This why I deleted tiktok. it’s literally the slums.
every time i see stuff like this i say please stop then there’s another one then next day :/ get off tiktok ladies, it’s bad for our health
I agree with everything except ugly people are trolling part. People always assume ugly people are the villains and that's not ok. I've met "beautiful" people who like to put others down to boost themselves even more. It might be true that bitter people are more likely to troll others and being ugly might cause someone to be bitter but that's still a huge generalization imo People don't attach their real identity when they are trolling because they don't want to face real life consequences. That has nothing to do with looks.
That post in the beginning... Eww...
Even if they chose different it still would've been terrible, and that post is such an insult to all women. You can't just put races up against each other like that. I still hate how literally 99 of the comment section said black... They wonder why we're so insecure... They wonder why we wanna lighten our skin and straighten our hair(nothing wrong with straighting your hair)
It be our own kind too but these are the same people who bash us for dating outside our race
Also ain't none of them look like they're races? I'm not saying you can't be born a certain way while being a different race, but they all looked like they could be mixed. I didn't even realize that was an Asian girl at first. All the girls in the post look closely similar to black women in features
Donald Dump should've banned TikTok when he had the chance. It's sad how tiktok promotes black women being degraded. Luckily there are black girls making amazing content on tiktok and shout out to divest Twitter for celebrating and honoring the dark skin black woman's image. But unfortunately the algorithm will promote the low self esteem ones. Plus those girls are beautiful. Also black men need to stop disrespecting black women especially dark skin and fat black women. Yall are crazy.
I did have a low self esteem back in high school and felt ugly but I always saw dark skin girls as beautiful, even when people made fun of me. I hope people stop disrespecting bw and we teach black girls to be confident and black boys to love dark skin women. And black girls in tiktok need to stop making this pity content. Non black people and black men do not care. Let's focus on uplifting each other.
@Mojisola Adams I happen to come across your video, you are very wise for your age, keep up with the good work
Thank youu ✨
As a Black male, I LOVE Black women. Serious chocolate addiction. I have a beautiful melaninated queen I love to death.
Black women outrage is making people famous! Let’s stop it!!! I’m glad I’m not 16 anymore!
It’s a troll page so no one is getting famous off of this . The video is to raise awareness that you shouldn’t allow others to define how you see yourself .
@@AbrasiveYouth Yeah true! I love the video. I was talking about more in general with non troll pages black women outrage sells.
The way we stay minding our own business and ppl stay coming for us... are you that obsessed??
And then call us bitter, irrational or projecting whenever we call out the shit it doesn't make any sense to me.
@@lauren6509 honestly it’s sickening
The pictures of the 4 girls are all wrong too the “white girl” is literally biracial and the Hispanic is asian
It be dumb people that make those kind of posts 😂😂😂
Hispanic isn't a race, it's an ethnicity. You can be any race but still be Hispanic.
@@seeia1673 frrr
@@imaninfantilekageroo3172 Oop I didn’t know
@@imaninfantilekageroo3172 but the way half of the list wrong it’s probably not even her ethnicity
This is so stupid. I really don't understand this because the black girl in the picture is so beautiful it gets harder for me to live in peace as a black girl every day.
Mojisola Adams Grand Risin'....beautiful lady. Forever remember I said this that African/Black Ladies are the amazingly most beautiful of all understood. #MelaninMagic #BlackLove #BlackLoveOfBlackManAndBlackLadyIsForevermore Because I a African/Black Warrior King said so. Love u. - 🖤💛💋 AAMAZIN
at this point we are going to have to have a social media version of the civil rights movement
I said the same thing like a random human's post won't make me hate myself lol anyhow black girls are beautiful don't doubt it
YOU ARE SO PRETTY (Totally off topic lol)
but yeah! I'm a young black girl and I have ALOT of insecurities, and this helped me a bit. Thanks!
Tbh as a black girl who dates outside my race I've learned enough to kind of get why they said black🤷🏾♀️.
Alot of black girls are ghetto, loud, unnecessarily rude, classless and there tends to be a consistent pattern of jealousy and bitterness in darkskin girls towards other black girls that are prettier than them. It's not that other races don't have these types of ppl but when they do have ppl that act like this its frowned upon whereas in the black community it is encouraged and promoted and with the stereotypes and agendas that are already on black ppl it doesn't help the situation when black girls act like this.
And tbh alot of ppl don't find black girls attractive unless they not fully black and have unique features, they're mixed , theyre lightskin etc.
i just wanna say you're beautiful moji!
I can’t get how hilarious it is to watch people do this behind a screen and can never come to your face with that shit. It’s highly amusing.
It seriously is ! People don’t have guts
Self-love and confidence are certainly valuable, empowering traits to cultivate, that’s what the glorious audacity to not give a fuck is rooted in. But it’s hard to develop them in a vacuum, or if everything that is reflected back to you is degrading.
It’s great you’re sharing how you’ve blocked this toxicity from your life. I just think the take that Black girls expressing hurt over this is just cringey insecurity is not great.
I mean, I’m 32 years old, I look at these girls as that, girls. Not (supposedly) stable, mature adults. Plus, not all Black girls are diminished and insulted equally. My experience could be (likely was) different than the girls who didn’t have the same infestation (i kid) of Eurocentric traits I do. I’m basically an idiot but I can embarrass the best of them with their own formal language. It was easier for me to develop confidence and ultimately not giving a fuck because even if personally unwanted or unnoticed, society at large sees value in the what they see as distancing me from Blackness, and I get to understand this.
It makes sense you don’t understand why some Black girls reacted like this. You’re attractive, thin, lighter complexioned. Obviously you like me are still Black, but there is privilege here you haven’t really addressed.
For girls whose features are more richly African, who don’t code switch, who aren’t thin, etc., society takes pleasure in eroding their worth. That meme is an expression of systems centuries old and generations deep, to feel insecure within a culture in which you literally have less or no security is not a character flaw or personal weakness, it’s simply being awake.
This is why I hate tik tok yea it has its funny moments but people are so disgusting on there. It gotten so bad that I had to delete that app because it was ruining my mental health
Your personality is always so cute and bubbly ❤❤❤
thank youu 💕💕
I just started watching your channel yesterday and let me just say I love your content! Keep going, can’t wait to see your next video 🥳
thank youu 🤗🤗
I stumbled upon your channel and I’m glad I did. Can’t wait to see you channel grow ❤️
Thank youuu ✨✨