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  • @TakishaDanet
    @TakishaDanet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    “ No Demon wanna sit round no angel. “ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😌 hallelujah

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Men are not complicated, they either like you or they don't. "Here go a cookie." 😂😂😂

    • @elizabethschilling7178
      @elizabethschilling7178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@broco6608 Tony just talked about men are not intimidated.

    • @JasmineStaceyy
      @JasmineStaceyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@elizabethschilling7178 men have told me they were intimidated a few times...I wasn't flaunting anything smh but I'm not dwelling on that just praying God makes me a woman of good character and substance and I'm gonna keep believing God for a man that is prepared to lead, love and partner with me.

    • @elizabethschilling7178
      @elizabethschilling7178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JasmineStaceyy amen sis. I will be in agreement with you on that. 🙏❤ May the Lord Bless us with the man who he has chosen for us.

    • @TiggysTC
      @TiggysTC 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elizabethschilling7178Ummm.. Yes, they are. But the question is why would we as women want to be with a man who's insecure and intimidated by us?🤔😒🤨

    • @TiggysTC
      @TiggysTC 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @A Bc Exactly!

  • @Bgrace15
    @Bgrace15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I actually had a man tell me this last week. A colleague at work who is married. I'm not even the type of woman who is braggadocious or boasts about degrees or accomplishments. His reason for saying I intimidate men was because I take care of myself and appearance. In his own words, he said men will look at me and think they can't afford me. At this point, I'm just over it lol. you look a mess and they don't want you, you look really good, you intimidate them.

    • @tarshaledwards7468
      @tarshaledwards7468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Any man should not be able to afford you. Great job sis!!

    • @blacksongbird100
      @blacksongbird100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yup!!! I had a few tell me that I'm intimidating bc I look like I have it together. Again, I'm baffled bc I'm like "But you see that I am SUPER friendly. There is NOTHING intimidating about me!" 😆😆😆

    • @Bgrace15
      @Bgrace15 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tarshaledwards7468 Thank you sis!

    • @Bgrace15
      @Bgrace15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Soul Flower I'm over it! At this point, he has to come and find me - just as I am.

    • @Bgrace15
      @Bgrace15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@blacksongbird100 I mean, a woman that looks like she has it together is supposed to be a good thing. But these new-age men are built differently lol Too much feminine energy in them. That's the only thing I can boil it down to.

  • @sincerelybrittany6176
    @sincerelybrittany6176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I was SCREAMING when he impersonated the sororities! 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @audreycathcart3685
    @audreycathcart3685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    God created everyone in this world for someone so if it don’t fit , YOU don’t force it.😎

    • @Joycelang2495
      @Joycelang2495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U right sister

    • @workinperkins
      @workinperkins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Perfect! Also, when there is no attraction there is no need to punish the person not interested by going around telling lies about them.

  • @evocentricpodcast1643
    @evocentricpodcast1643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I love how Tony forces us to hold ourselves accountable. Sometimes it can be a jab but you need to understand the part you play.

    • @viewly390
      @viewly390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @evocentricpodcast1643
      @evocentricpodcast1643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nonyabis those are boys... not men. It is key to understand that.

  • @JasmineStaceyy
    @JasmineStaceyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    "I am a bachelor's of science..... my other name is Laura" SCREAMING lol

  • @vanessasmith3081
    @vanessasmith3081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Women use the word “intimidated” because the words repulsed and turned off are painful. Thank you Tony for all the wisdom and truth with a lot of humor😂

    • @hmblf687
      @hmblf687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true.

    • @KK-bq3ns
      @KK-bq3ns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lololololol FACTS

  • @anitrajohnson7789
    @anitrajohnson7789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I realized that leading with your accomplishments is more annoying than anything. I don't talk my accomplishments unless someone mentions it.

  • @productofaprayingmom
    @productofaprayingmom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I just screamed 😂🤣🤣😭😩 “I’m trying to wake and bake she’s listening to Marvin Sapp”

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sam I was in tears 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ThisIzKena
      @ThisIzKena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally died..🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @patricemurray6412
      @patricemurray6412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sam i had to rewind it three times to hear that and the singing!🤣🤣🤣

    • @missgoodenergy
      @missgoodenergy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “ohhh, Lord lemme put this out....” 😂😂😂.
      “this my last day.” sent meeeeeeeee!!!! 🤣🤣🤣😭

    • @3333olive
      @3333olive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂🤣😭

  • @sarahmitchell4010
    @sarahmitchell4010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I never thought about the spirituality running a man off. That’s very true.

    • @nitawilliams9726
      @nitawilliams9726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that's what came to me...i never thought about that

  • @KandeeKane85
    @KandeeKane85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The “skkkkeeeee” 7:23 sent me!!! 😩😂💀 I’ve ALWAYS said (even in college) ion need no association to define MY Value!! Lol

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Some people "gather" all those degrees and can not hold a decent conversation....🤔🤔 socially awkward .

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Guilty 🙋🏾😅

    • @deena3003
      @deena3003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You got those who don't have any degrees, yet cannot hold an intelligent conversation without cursing like a sailor.

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@deena3003 oh yes cursing all the time....lol

    • @AmberBrooklyn24
      @AmberBrooklyn24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes or they don’t make the best decisions in relationships. I have a family member working on her doctorate but always dealing with dudes below her. It’s almost as if she wants a man to need her or someone she has to help smh

    • @blessedfavored1691
      @blessedfavored1691 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatever ......GOD Blessed them!!!!!!! So GLAD THE LORD IS REAL HE KNOWS ALL

  • @betelihemtizazu2206
    @betelihemtizazu2206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The sorority thing just killed me! 😂
    Very meaningful message!

  • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
    @AllThingsTiffanyTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    “SKEEEEE...SKEEEEEE” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 babbahahhshahhaaaa “we going to a funeral you got on pink & green” bahahahhaha😂😂😂

    • @juanitacapric6505
      @juanitacapric6505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right 😂😂😂😂

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m dying

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TiffanyB TV I’m crying 😅😂😂😅😂

    • @eunique780
      @eunique780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I fell out🤣🤣🤣

    • @marilynking527
      @marilynking527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was cracking up 😂

  • @RubyRoxxie
    @RubyRoxxie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    “Y’all forgive me, knocked my microphone off.” 🤣🤣🤣 That block ministry serious tho!! 💯

  • @ceelettice
    @ceelettice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    😭😭Well needed message. Nothing against the accolades but lawddd...they will wear those credentials like a MD. Skeeee!...and be a walking nightmare sometimes. You keep us learning and laughing, Tony.

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 facts

  • @3333olive
    @3333olive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I feel like many love to say “oh men are intimidated by me”, “men are such textbook narcissist” when really 9/10 that’s never the case. Just move on from the person without labeling what you think the issue is lol.

  • @TieranniPieranni
    @TieranniPieranni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love these videos. As an introvert though, I have to say for all my fellow introverts that being introverted is not due to insecurity. We’re born that way and it comes with gifts, just like extroversion. Further, being shy and introverted are not the same. Love the videos! Blessed tribe 🥰

  • @beautifullybrianna8059
    @beautifullybrianna8059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Where is the lie?!! This is exactly what happened with me and my ex. Our spirits repelled. Tony your messages are on point every single time.

    • @ABBAFATHER3333
      @ABBAFATHER3333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Beautifully Brianna same here God is more than good .. we shall not be unequally yoked amen

    • @JasmineStaceyy
      @JasmineStaceyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      absolutely! I noticed that about regular friendships too

  • @syneetrawilliams3165
    @syneetrawilliams3165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am convinced that men are not intimidated by women. A man I started dating recently told me that he started paying closer attention to the text messages he sends me since I told him that I am a published writer. He said that he is intimidated. We both laughed because he was making a funny joke, and we moved forward with our fun date. It's not a matter of intimidation. It's more incompatibility. I should know because I was in that situation last year. I think these terms get confused by some people.

    • @julianagarces2389
      @julianagarces2389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah same. A man told me he was intimidated because I always checked him. But I think we’re just incompatible. If we were compatible he wouldn’t feel fear about going all in and putting in the work.

  • @bea.rodriguezm
    @bea.rodriguezm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    BLOOOCKED, BLOCKED 🤣🤣 you're so funny Tony 🙏🏾

  • @evocentricpodcast1643
    @evocentricpodcast1643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    “Do you have a dingaling?! “ They are only intimidated by other men. Men have the upper hand at the end of the day.

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EVOcentric Podcast 😫😫😫😫😫

    • @evocentricpodcast1643
      @evocentricpodcast1643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      WatchAmber it’s unfortunate but we have a special gift that we should cherish so they may cherish it as well.

    • @evocentricpodcast1643
      @evocentricpodcast1643 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joyful n Blessed if you say so. I’m not here to prove anything to anyone. Stay blessed 😊

    • @evocentricpodcast1643
      @evocentricpodcast1643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      M Robin I’m not intimidated by men at all. It’s the world we live in. I’m open to love completely... it’s us as women who need to set the boundaries. As long as we stop falling for the okie doke and focus on ourselves then that will come. When you keep your vagina to yourself you have all the power. That’s all imma say about that.

    • @TiggysTC
      @TiggysTC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ???? I'm confused. What do you mean men have the upper hand?🤔 Do you believe women have no power in relationships?

  • @mariadaskalakis9317
    @mariadaskalakis9317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Truth - “based on your attitude...will determine what you attract into your life...” such a big difference between humility, peace, kindness and true confidence- it definitely doesn’t look like flexing. - truth. ✨💫🔥

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    “So many independent women who go to IWU ... talk themselves out of a love because they are telling themselves that men are intimidated by them.” TG

  • @aaloftsdesign
    @aaloftsdesign 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It's more than what job or degree you have. It can be a class or a looks thing too. If a woman is eloquent and classy and conventionally beautiful, she'll attract lots of guys but the average guy knows he can't offer a similar level of value to her so she may become a turn-off. That or he knows in the back of her mind the minute she meets someone on her level he's in trouble. I'm pretty smart, but if I'm talking to an astrophysicist I can sense really quickly that my current level of smarts won't be enough to sustain them. Not ALL men are intimidated by a successful woman but the average guy knows he won't be able to sustain them.

  • @Sugarsugar4u
    @Sugarsugar4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Not a Bachelor's degree filet mignon and the master's ASPARAGUS 😂😂😂😂!!! You need to do standup as your 120th stream of income 😁😁😁 you'd make a killing(jk) Informative laughs, can't get this everywhere!!!

  • @marthavineyard6959
    @marthavineyard6959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Tony have ever thought about being a stand up comedian?

  • @hathawaytable
    @hathawaytable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Tony... Tony...I am in tears at that “never would of made it” part..... oh my goodness.... you took me out with that.... I am crying real tears...

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tashika Hathaway real tears 🤣🤣🤣

    • @patricemurray6412
      @patricemurray6412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I mean real tears, I replayed it three times!🤣🤣🤣

    • @hathawaytable
      @hathawaytable 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      patrice murray I’m telling you I was crying.... I said this man here 😂😂😂

    • @hathawaytable
      @hathawaytable 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      WatchAmber tears were running down my face..... the way he just bust out with that song... I’m telling you... I’m still laughing typing this right now... tony something else😂😂😂

  • @syrethashirley
    @syrethashirley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    30:54 YOOOOOO🤣😂😂😂😂 TONY!!!!! 🤣😂😂🤣 I am cryyiiiiiinnnggg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was NOT expecting that to come out of your mouth, that caught me so off guard 😂😂😂🤣 man where else can you get knowledge, tough love, spiritually fed aaaand laugh until you can’t breathe?! Haven’t found any other channel like it lol. I laughed so hard I had to press pause man🤣Welcome to the Tony gaskins show, where you must have thick skin and be ready for anything 🤣😂😂🙌🏽

  • @Glamrocs
    @Glamrocs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    10 minutes in and I’m screaming lollllll

  • @tiffanyg1419
    @tiffanyg1419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The 1st 8 minutes of this video has me CRYING at work right now 😂😂😂🤣🤣 help me jesus 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ “skeeeee” but he is not lying though! 🤣😂😆😭😭😭 bahahahahahahah

    • @TakishaDanet
      @TakishaDanet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      rite 😩😂 how does he not laugh at his self

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      T Gaines I’m crying 🤣🤣🤣

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I screamed LAUGHING when Uncle Tony did the sorority signs and sounds. "Why you making that NOISE" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Noone better than Uncle Tony

    • @juanitacapric6505
      @juanitacapric6505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right same here 😂

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      love7 loyalty lmaaaaaaaaooo girl I was weak!!!!

    • @love7loyalty-MHA
      @love7loyalty-MHA 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@officialwatchamber yessss.

    • @love7loyalty-MHA
      @love7loyalty-MHA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juanitacapric6505 EXACTLYYYYYYY

    • @love7loyalty-MHA
      @love7loyalty-MHA 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tiffany Elaine awwww. Glad you're ok. That was definitely my laugh for the day

  • @TreZureTraiL
    @TreZureTraiL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “Neva would have made iiiit!” 😭😭🤣😂😂 You cannot bust out in a Marvin Sapp song like that!! 🤣😂 I swear Toni is comedy!

    • @l.w.3666
      @l.w.3666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Nineto_5
    @Nineto_5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    😂😂😂 I HAD TO COMMENT AFTER THAT “NEVA WOULDVE MADE IIIT!!” I’m done lol ✅ 💯
    Be blessed ❤️

  • @ThisIzKena
    @ThisIzKena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I tell you I literally hollered at..🗣"Never would've made it!"..😂😂😂..was not expecting that at all!

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is Kena in real tears 😭

    • @ThisIzKena
      @ThisIzKena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@officialwatchamber Sis...I had to rewind.. cause I didnt hear NOTHING at least 5 minutes afterwards..🤣😂🤣💀

  • @Coolct
    @Coolct 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Tony is right about sorority girls they can be very annoying about their sorority nobody cares about your pink and green and if you say anything about it they automatically think that you are trying to hate on them. no sis we get tired of hearing about it and those noises that you guys make all the time! aren’t you 45 let it go. I’m a woman and it gets on MY nerves. Also I’d tell you I see you in that BMW girl but your attitude made me think . Never mind!

  • @cheekscheeks5840
    @cheekscheeks5840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    TG you telling the truth . Never understory ppl though that defined them . It’s all about your character and integrity.. Most ppl are so arrogant when it comes to education and having that 4/5 figured job . But that doesn’t define you when your attitude is stank nasty 🤮

  • @tachanyevans8329
    @tachanyevans8329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    LOL I can't deal....he is too funny. Men are NOT intimidated by women point blank peri-yahd!

  • @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy
    @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tony’s videos are so entertaining and hilarious 😂😂😂 They literally pull me right out of a bad mood. Keep up the great work Tony. God bless you.

  • @keehumphrey5284
    @keehumphrey5284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Cuzin Tony❗
    You said a word:
    'When u have HUMILITY
    ...all that (degrees, house, cars) should be icing on the cake'
    *EvThing that's for me I'm going to attract it*

  • @venda1008
    @venda1008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I won't lie, I recently started talking about my accomplishments and its stems down from not having while growing up I just had the need to talk about it,hearing Tony break this makes me realise how a turn off i was,how silly I looked,I use that word a lot, that men are intimidated by me.I have realised my mistakes and I have learnt. I definitely have had a mindset shift

  • @lorigray1150
    @lorigray1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You nailed it Tony! I used it wrong too saying men were intimidated by me, but it was my spirit that irritated theirs! I'm no goody two shoes, but I'm honest and humble and my heart is pure 💓 💖

  • @mariacalagna5339
    @mariacalagna5339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m dying 😂😂😂 “do you have a dingaling “??🤣🤣

  • @phinesseriley7561
    @phinesseriley7561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    That lip smack in these EarPods 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂

  • @TheBthebabe
    @TheBthebabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You don't know this but you are my big brother lol It's so obvious you truly care and you are inspired by the Holy spirit. Thank you so much for all your videos, I'm always sharing them with other women. God bless you and your family!

  • @christyfallinger8716
    @christyfallinger8716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm a work in progress..this is why I watch your videos

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love this message. I have seen men talking on this topic recently & the lessons seem to be the same. Ladies listen & learn.

  • @talicialee
    @talicialee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mannn. That restaurant re-inactment had me rolling because people do act like that and they don't even realize why men be finessing them. I can attest because I use to think I was the stuff because I had a degree. I didn't treat a waiter like that though.

  • @sharonharper2143
    @sharonharper2143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tony keep on telling us the truth as I said in my other comment, you are a therapist all we have to do is be honest with ourselves and change some of the things you say we are doing like talking to much that's me. I'm learning to listen more, and stop saying I intimidate men, I literally just said that yesterday because it's better than admitting that he just doesn't like me and it brings up some hurt in my past when I didn't have the body or the clothes everybody else had and that's why I dress the way I do everywhere I go, not disrespectful but always sharp, classy and well put together. You are right POINT BLANK PERIODDD.

  • @onecoollady2196
    @onecoollady2196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so funny and true. 1. Yes, demons do not want to sit with angels. That's a biggie. And 2. Career and goal oriented women find out the hard way that applying the skills that help you become successful do not help you in matters of love. Two things wil happen when you proudly wear your accomplishments...1. A man will use you. Or 2. A man will resent you, treat you like trash and trade you in for a woman who is more ladylike, humble and not necessarily accomplished in any manner.

  • @portia547
    @portia547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    😂😂😂 Tony, your Angel repelling his demon. I was on a date, he asked me if I smoked weed. When I said "no" he did a double take so hard, I thought he bout broke his neck 🤣.

    • @quishia
      @quishia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤣

  • @sabrinadjones
    @sabrinadjones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I absolutely love the narrations and animations in between the points you make, they are hilarious, yet true! I had a few men tell me that men are intimated by me, I say, "Well, that's not my problem, that's between that man, God and the devil." I am not going to stop being myself or shrink who I am to make someone feel comfortable and secure in themselves. In most cases, I don't even mention anything unless asked. I am humble and remain that way. I thank God for my accomplishments, but I judge a person by their character, integrity, and personality. I come from humble beginnings and continue to remain humble.

  • @sisterinchrist4698
    @sisterinchrist4698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I didn’t even skip the ads on this video....THIS WAS SUCH A POWERFUL VIDEO! Make yo money Uncle Tony💯 I definitely needed to hear this message 🙏🏾

  • @domtee
    @domtee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They way I hollered when he hit that skee-wee 🤣🤣🤣 and yes, I’m an AKA and Its SUPER FUNNY !!!

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Nope because men are nature and with maturity comes masculinity and with masculinity comes being an Alpha and with being Alpha men are not intimidated by anything or anyone...

  • @Niya98
    @Niya98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lovvvvvveeee how he impersonate naive women!!! The humor is great! It gives the lectures balance! At lot of laughing and crying!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️😂🤣

  • @ibcandy
    @ibcandy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “Bruh, hush, go on somewhere wit all dat noise” -lol 😂🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️

  • @tyoung3509
    @tyoung3509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Indeed very annoying to lead with education, materials, and groups. I moved to the D.C. area three years ago and I see this a lot.

    • @n.Lenice
      @n.Lenice 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was in the DMV for the last 2 years and it was very annoying and pathetic. 🙄

  • @kenae.527
    @kenae.527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for providing a spiritual perspective to relationships. I kept thinking it was me, but it was a revelation for you to point out that our spirits can repel men.

  • @raevyncoker1877
    @raevyncoker1877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Once he started singing Marvin Sapp I lost it Tony is really hilarious. 🤣😂

  • @feliciaallen6228
    @feliciaallen6228 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never talk about my material possessions on purpose. In my experience a guy will like me and my personality; until he comes to my home, parents home, job or family gathering all of a sudden he is turned off. Sometimes people like to date people that are on their same level or situation in life. Yes, the angel or straight and narrow stuff will chase a man with bad intentions away. Also all of a sudden the guy tries to judge me on where I am now and convinced that I've never had to struggle. It may not be intimidation but definitely causes jealousy in men that have low self esteem and are not mature men.

  • @Bri_Brit
    @Bri_Brit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m screaming 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭it’s the sorority impersonation for me. This man is a whole vibe😭

  • @KAAT2239
    @KAAT2239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    TG you are the funniest !!!!!!!!!!! thank you for teaching us ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @FutureAttyInTheMaking
    @FutureAttyInTheMaking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!! Life Coach/Honorary Pastor Gaskins! Be Blessed and We Thank You for sharing the Independent Women’s University session(s), as it is a true blessing to hear your unapologetic insight - Thank You!

  • @rosagreene4364
    @rosagreene4364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “IDC University” 😂😂

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂 “skeeee” I’m screaming, preach Tony!!

  • @jazzyone1011
    @jazzyone1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tony is a God-send, so much humor and truth! I love it!!

  • @TakishaDanet
    @TakishaDanet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    31:17 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😌 hallelujah you are absolutely right Tony. Most of the time it’s these men spirits that got them disappearing !

  • @crystaldemarr
    @crystaldemarr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Tony, I know you say a man is never intimated by a woman, but you did mention that he could feel unworthy of her. Could you please do a video on that?

    • @femininelounge9240
      @femininelounge9240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joyful n Blessed men are not petrified of rejection. The corporate world is filled with men. That world is the most demonic evil community I've ever been part off. The fact is simple. He either likes you or not. He knows in himself what he can handle or not.

  • @pamwhipple7580
    @pamwhipple7580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Degrees definitely don't secure a job

  • @ginafromdabronx9333
    @ginafromdabronx9333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had a guy tell me:
    "You're so intimating"
    I said:
    "How so??"
    Guy:
    "Idk...you're just intimating"
    I was like....whatever!!! I didnt say that I just thought that in my head.
    I really think he had it easy from a lot of girls...bc he was leery about giving me a hug. But he did THEN he tried to kiss me. I turned my head! It was our first DATE & LAST. He didn't ever ask me again.
    Oooohhh well....
    No big whoop!!!

  • @alaina.81
    @alaina.81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I knew I was getting "gas lit" by my husband for many years now, going against my intuition and good sense (never again). I understand why you are and will continue to be so blessed. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @JasminWilliams94
    @JasminWilliams94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “A brokenaire” 😂😂

  • @janae412
    @janae412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    “We going to my cousins funeral and you wearing pink and green! You disrespecting the dead. Can you wear some black? 🤣🤣🤣”

    • @l.w.3666
      @l.w.3666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @antoinettebarnett2635
    @antoinettebarnett2635 ปีที่แล้ว

    bingewatching because you feel like a safe place sir. also no cursing.
    no condescending tone either.
    your time & efforts for your peeps is much appreciated

  • @ladyboss38
    @ladyboss38 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I say Tony Gaskins is on point.... God has truly given him a gift 🎁

  • @charlinecharlostin3188
    @charlinecharlostin3188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “ You attract what you are, you attract what you become”.

  • @constanceragsdale3305
    @constanceragsdale3305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you...I was raised to accept ppl regardless of education...I was a high school dropout, single parent, and work hard to be an example for my grandchildren n children, that you can accomplish anything regardless of life setbacks....not to put others down...plz tell me what you see in my pic...I was marred 2x 10/30 yrs...been single 4yrs, 65 yrs., and I demand respect....I have my own...not sleeping around...was raised in a Christian home... wish I had this information when I was dating and married....I am not bitter or mad at the exes because we did not make it....but one was a mama boy n other cheater...

  • @katarinakarakas7800
    @katarinakarakas7800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    22:14 lmao he's so funny 😂😂 but fr I don't think men care about our degrees, he's not the only one saying that

  • @darlene4025
    @darlene4025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have helped me navigate dating during quarantine so much better. Thank you.

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    From what I've seen, the job is going to come up waaay before date 3, 4, and 5. That's one of the first questions men ask.

  • @katrinadodd2315
    @katrinadodd2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did Tony just sing? I'm dying laughing. I love Tony Gaskins! I love that he speaks truth, he empowers women and he makes me laugh while doing it. Tony, you are a teacher, preacher and comedian all wrapped in one. I pray God's covering and blessings on you and your family. Keep letting the Lord use you to build His kingdom.

  • @LadyVBlessed
    @LadyVBlessed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The clarity of this video is immense. Lol I found myself hysterically laughing and being shocked at the same time. Thank you again Uncle Tony. Men are not that complicated. Ask God to continue to order your steps to position you for his best. YOU ARE THE FAVOR! No need to explain what is understood sis.

  • @mshunter6210
    @mshunter6210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You be having me ROLLIN😭😭 while appreciating your gift of giving🖤👑

  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so glad I found your TH-cam. You are so funny!!!!!

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whew! Finally! Thanks for this upload, Uncle Tony

  • @sunshine-gj8lq
    @sunshine-gj8lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Tony can sing!! Neva would have made it🎵🎶

  • @yasmeengivens8091
    @yasmeengivens8091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😂😂😂 he said “Lord I prayed for Ruth and you sent me Dalilah” 😭😭😂😂😂 I just love these funny lessons!!! You’re awesome!!👍🏾👍🏾

  • @dadecountess305
    @dadecountess305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “That’s why your stomach hurts , cuz u got too many degrees” 😂😂 stay humble

  • @mileyroe4877
    @mileyroe4877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm happy you made this video. I thought that we were to speak about our accomplishments since you were encouraging us to educate ourselves, obtain our degrees etc. and spoke about Mrs. Gaskins obtaining her masters being one of the things that attracted you to her. Now I understand a bit more. Thank you. I hope that you speak more on this topic, I'd like more insight.

  • @ArtByLynn7070
    @ArtByLynn7070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have so much to do. Thank you Tony. You next to god and my pastor are my blueprint. I'm listening, learning and shutting up

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bro Tony you something serious 🤣🤣😂🤣 when you say am from the streets

  • @missangel221
    @missangel221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh my , I cannot with the questions he gets....
    What’s TB mean ...?! 😐 people really do just ASK ANY AND EVERYTHING..

  • @peaceful_and_blessed2879
    @peaceful_and_blessed2879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tony, this video is gold!! My ex personal trainer told me that i attract men at the gym because they think I’m naive! Thats why they approach me he said!

  • @iscelaarias3957
    @iscelaarias3957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just arrived home from a long day at work.... Thank you Tony for the teaching and for putting smile.... my 19th year old think I’m crazy laughing out loud in the shower..... God bless you

  • @officialwatchamber
    @officialwatchamber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m SCREAMING 🤣🤣🤣 at never would have made it ....

    • @Deeplyrooted125
      @Deeplyrooted125 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MsBlackberry36
    @MsBlackberry36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "his demon can't be around my angel" 😊🤗💯

  • @belleame4671
    @belleame4671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dear tony gaskins, from 43:57 -42:00 that statement you made about being insecure, dealing with pain from the past and how another women of a race or size is getting all of the attention or being favored more.. I compared your statement to black and white women... How their European beauty standards were praise and we went outside of ourselves just to please someone when we didn't look within ourselves.
    How black men degrade and demean us and we as black women go out of our way to please and look up to those standard even when black men are bashing us...
    I know this is long, but as black women we have to truly and spiritually love ourselves...

  • @candidlycamille
    @candidlycamille ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never laughed while learning so much at one time ! LOL