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For the header, I would suggest something that does NOT suggest divisiveness. I like Where Bedheads Click Our Mugs and Unite which is the least divisive and most relatable.
There comes a time for some of us where we have to acknowledge that a relationship is detrimental and no longer serves us. I had to divorce my parents many years ago because of my mother's chronic abuse when I was growing up. I could never understand why she did what she did, and I could not get her to take responsibility for her harmful acts. The best decision I ever made was when I told them that our relationship is finished and that we had no further obligation to each other. It is totally OK to say "enough is enough," and thank you for showing me you are.
@ladydlc550 yes, I've learned that even though my sister and I are related, she has not seen me as we grew up, and knows only mundane things of me so I'm stepping back from whatever it is that we have. Everything will be ok.
Agreed. We want to be loved by our parents, so we keep hoping they will come through if loved long enough. We also may feel pity for them and want to help them grow (which they may make use of). The tragic truth is some folks aren't just mean or insensitive, or demanding - quite a few have an actual personality disorder. I don't know what's wrong with our culture, but at this point identifying more than one serious personality disorder in a single person isn't uncommon. There are people with full blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder, sadism, Machiavellianism, severe emotional dysregulation (BPD), sociopathy (complete inability to feel empathy), and/or psychopathy (priding themselves on violating any boundary of any kind). Such folks may present well in public but take cruelty to an art form even with their toddlers behind closed doors. Such disordered parents' manipulations are too severe and cruel to allow even their children any quality of life, and according to therapists, they rarely change even with therapy. They resist therapy and rarely persist in it if pushed into going. 99% will continue to bully, slander, manipulate, lie, blackmail, guilt, triangulate, shame, and in other ways abuse you all your life if you stick around for it. ("All things grow with love" right? Tried that for decades and decades. Turns out not so much; they have to want to change. If they think they are superior, they will always think you are the problem. You need to jump through their hoops, always. Nothing about them needs to change.) If you're dealing with a problematic person, I encourage you to get therapy right away. Meet with a therapist for your own healing, secretly if you can, and figure out what has been going on. A therapist will give you perspective of how healthy families operate. And help you find your way out of the maze. Be sure they have a lot of training and experience in helping people recover from trauma and knowledge of personality disorders. At the very least, start keeping a journal so you begin identifying the patterns. An experienced therapist can suggest ways to work on the situation. Or help you identify possibly a deeper issue. Otherwise, we can waste most of our life force most of our lives not realizing someone "toxic" actually has a serious personality disorder. We won't understand why we are never heard or treated better, because we won't understand how they think or what they hear when we say things. If they have a personality disorder, people must learn how to communicate and deal with them, because they perceive the world very differently. As therapist Eleanor Greenberg explained, we can't talk with them or relate with them as we do with most people because they're in a very different headspace. They actually infer and react in very different ways. Just as you can't pet a scorpion because it doesn't think or react like a dog, there are specific communication strategies you will need to learn if you decide to keep someone in your life who has an actual personality disorder. Based on my many decades of draining misery and what it has cost me, please immediately get yourself a good therapist and discuss the patterns. A good therapist will help you learn how normal families operate. Help you heal your inner child. You're the only one who can protect your inner child, who deserves at least one adult in their life who will protect and nurture them. These disordered people are tragic, but don't put up with the abuse. No amount of loyalty or sacrifice on your part, even sacrificing for a lifetime, will elicit the loving parent you want. It's just not in them. Some folks are arrested at a very early age emotionally speaking, no matter how intelligent they are, so their demanding emotionality and selfishness knows no bounds. Some are stuck in the terrible twos. Some a bit older. If you decide to keep interacting with them, you need to learn in depth about their disorder, because they see the world very differently. People with NPD lack object permanence, for example. That affects the relationship. And in their reality, you may be merely a vending machine of emotional attention and energy. Whether it upsets you or exhausts you is of no interest (you are an annoying vending machine if you have feelings, thoughts, or selfhood of your own). Unless you learn what you are dealing with, sadly they will reel you in and play you for your energy all your life - unless you remove yourself as far as possible. They often have memory issues that go beyond not seeming to listen to anything you say. They may be compulsive liars, making reality up as they go along. There are all kinds of things you need to learn about their disorder(s) if you plan to continue having them in your life. Eleanor Greenberg has some great material on Quora if you need to explore these things, and she has an understandable book in plain English. People with a personality disorder like actual NPD are not ever going to hear you as you expect. You will have to learn how they see the world and interact accordingly. To people with full blown NPD, for example, their perception of the world is purely utilitarian - your psychic energy, time, and attention are to be available 24/7 as if you were a feed bag. If you resist, they will try a variety of buttons to elicit your energy in whatever manner will work - whether the energy is happy energy or misery energy, they can still feed on it. Odd but true. Buttons they will try pushing to elicit energy: bullying, flattery, shaming, triangulating, insulting, praising, criticizing, playing pitiful, creating false need for rescue, complaining, demanding, blackmailing, guilting, enlisting the flying monkeys, demeaning your partners and achievements, blackmail, slander, even to calling the police in your town on some pretext. You will be manipulated and punished in every way possible, even to turning family against you. You aren't really a person with independent rights and identity and wishes and feelings, they can't relate to the world in that way, oddly. Your asking for human treatment or consideration therefore annoys them. They may buy you a dollar store trinket if it keeps you on the hook for another year, but it's purely for the payoff as they see it. They expect you to automatically surrender your energy, time, life force, attention, health, freedom, and happiness. They are superior, so you owe them that (while asking nothing in return). How many years of that life force do you really want to give away?? It will cost you big in health, happiness, your own dreams and well-being. You matter!! Please get therapy and protect your own energy. If you take the big step of pulling back completely, which is often the sanest and most self-preserving thing to do, be sure you first have a therapist you are already working with. Abusers may try to ruin the rest of your family relationships, slandering you viciously and playing victim, so you have to be ready for that and have another support system in place, a support group or caring circle of friends, a family of choice. You matter. Learn about boundaries, what they really are, and how to set them - they are for you, and it may not change their behavior or emotions at all, but those boundaries can ensure your own energy is available for your own life, as God intended. Les Carter's channel here is good. I can also recommend some great books (they have very helpful insights, advice, and very healing writing exercises): Will I Ever Be Good Enough: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers, by Karyl McBride, PhD. Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide For Daughters, by Susan Forward, PhD. If a parent has BPD, you might read Kimberlee Roth's book, Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds & Build Trust, Boundaries and Self-Esteem, by Kimberlee Roth and Freda Firedman, PhD, LCSW. Another very valuable book, for children of enmeshing/overinvolved parents, is The Emotional Incest Syndrome: What to Do When A Parent's Love Rules Your Life, by Dr. Patricia Love and Jo Robinson.
@@falconbritt5461 Thank you for sharing all this. My niece and I are both dealing with a person that sounds a lot like you're describing. I've been feeling bad that I'm going no contact, but this is another confirmation that I'm doing the right thing. I'm going to share this with my niece to let her know that her going no contact, too, is okay as well.
This is such an important topic. Thank you. It is so important to listen to inner guidance beyond all else. And I think probably what draws people to these kinds of channels is because we do feel an inner yes to so much of it. I'v ecome to these channels just rrecently because I'd been feeling like, "Am I crazy? Am I alone with this?" It was a relief to find all the other "crazies" out there haha. But certainly no one has a one hundred percent clear knowing. It's important to discern and only take what feels true inside. I've watched people over the years get messed up and angry because they gave their power away anad then blame others for leading them away from their inner truith. I'm a "big picture" person in terms of listening to guidance. That includeds listening to tarot readers, astrologers, channels, etc. Everything is filtered. That's not a bad thing as long as we recgnize it and just take what feels true and let go of the rest and not blame anyone for gettng things wrong. We're ALL going to get some things wrong, especially if we try to narrow guidance down to specifics (and in my experience any guidance that narrows things down to specific times is pretty much always off - because in the big picture time is very different from our limited mind's view). I'm guessing that the majority of us here felt something "off" about E day, but there's a big mix of how that is going to look going forward. Big picture - all is well. Might get messy and take time to get to the highest outcome for all. But we're all okay and might as well enjoy the ride.
I think it’s more a validation of feelings and thoughts during these crazy and dark times, that I find useful for me, rather than any answers, when it’s speculative to begin with. Collectively, this space is unique with the potential to grow into something beyond your expectations and the ability to promote positive changes in lives and beyond. Stay authentic!
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My dad's name was Jerry, too! 😂 I am a counselor and went no contact with my mom 14 years ago when I figured out her passive aggressive narcissistic behavior. I tried to reconcile 3 years ago and she showed me she hasn't changed. My self esteem has improved 100 percent. The right decision for now
I put my parents in time out several times throughout my life! Fortunately, my dad and I learned to connect because we both changed! Yes, we were nudged to learn new habits! (Another book, lead the way!) Yes, our Angelic Teams are powerful!
Each person must decide for themselves what serves their lives best and for the higher good of their emotional well being !! It’s not always easy to do but if you make the decision and a weight is lifted off your shoulders then to me that gives the answer !! I had to separate from my severely abusive parents , it was hard but it gave me inner peace , because after I gave them many chances they just couldn’t or wouldn’t take responsibility and change ! I found I could no longer live a peaceful life allowing them to control and abuse me , so I made my choice and found peace snd safety !! ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙋🏻🌈🌈
Each person must decide for themselves what serves their lives best and for the higher good of their emotional well being !! It’s not always easy to do but if you make the decision and a weight is lifted off your shoulders then to me that gives the answer !! I had to separate from my severely abusive parents , it was hard but it gave me inner peace , because after I gave them many chances they just couldn’t or wouldn’t take responsibility and change ! I found I could no longer live a peaceful life allowing them to control and abuse me m, so I made my choice and found peace snd safety !! ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙋🏻🌈🌈
Fiscal responsibility is just budgeting properly( i.e. having more money than you need to spend) which is basic knowledge and is not political. Conservatives have appropriated those terms to be mean, not fiscally responsible.
I love listening to your channel. It really feels like waking up after a sleep-over with your bestie. It's such a comfy place. I've been missing community for many years. Your channel is definitely bringing to light somethings I have needed to hear. I am learning now to listen. To my own SGs, they nudge me more often than I thought.
I subscribed the first time you showed up in my feed. Even with what happened in November, I haven't regretted joining. This channel is becoming an integral part of my day, not every message resonates, but many do.
“Would have, could have, should have, only counts in Horseshoes. Best advice I ever got about N’s is “Run, run as fast as you can!”…no matter who they are in your life. So, that is what I did in 2012. Best thing I ever did. No Contact. Don’t look back! Life just keeps getting better!
My first thought seeing what looks like different seeds/plants, I went to how the Native Americans planted 3 “sister” plants near each other. They would support each other and help each other grow. I thought that we, as a group, can plant our seeds around each other, support each other and grow spiritually. Maybe doesn’t meld so we’ll with looking within, but is what came to my mind.
Congress should bring a lawsuit against Musketeer for interfering in the operation of our government business. Our speaker of the house should not be in a text thread with someone who is obstructing daily governmental affairs. If congress cares about America they will not raise the debt ceiling and they will file suit against him for government interference/conflict of interest with foreign governments. Thank you Lord for that senator from Texas who had a conscience to stop the nonsense about the debt ceiling. That is how we can take some of his richness to pay our debt ceiling down. He owes the country for causing confusion and obstructing government affairs.
Buy gluten free flour and make your own bread ! It’s very easy to make and you just add ingredients or spices in to make the type of bread or baked goods you want ! Use a recipe that makes two loaves and make one plain for sandwiches or rolls and the other for cheese or flavored breads or pizza crust or flavored rolls or buns !
Im an INTP, but actually love my morning "conversations "with" you 🤗. Talking and letting the conversations go where they may I consider to be very fun and I appreciate & enjoy you! Re: gluten, 30 yrs ago a very smart doctor gave an **IGe blood** test for allergies, because the more common scratch test yielded nothing. Results were 3 or 4 pages of bar charts showing degree of reactivity, if any. Among many other things, It showed gluten was irrelevant, that actually I'm allergic to ALL grains, to varying degrees. 4 Important take aways were that 1) the more "pure" the grain (ie "whole grains") the worse my reaction bcz there's more of the grain in it. And 2) that if I eat 2 or more things together that I am allergic to, the effect is *compounded* - a 1, 2, 3 + punch, And 3) it takes up to 72 hours to clear the food(s) from your blood to avoid compounding effect And 4) Allergic reactivity w food is not just "Not Allergic vs Anaphalactic shock". It's a whole range, so in my case, italian food for me for generalized example is something I have to plan for because I also have prob w cooked tomatoes. Pizza, for me, is a 1, 2 punch, and if I have leftovers, or a sandwich, or cookies, or fried ckn w in 3 days, it compounds & drags the reaction out more. One more thing, if you eat even a little allergic items every day, your immune system stays in overdrive without rest.
Thank you. That totally resonated with me because I just had some gluten free, organic oatmeal (with no junk added) and I had a similar reaction. So..definitely more going on here.
I love the reminder that we are remembering. In Native American and Buddhist perspective, ' we remember that which we already know. buddha mind/ beginners mind ' and 'that which transpires behind that which appears' resonates so nicely with the topic to not look outside ourselves for answers we hold within. We remember. This also is the foundation of spirit release, sometimes consciousness of spirit simply forgets we are light, and we are never truly seperated from loving light source/ home. We do forget though. 😊 The different decks you share are fun to see. I loved the akashic deck, the use of the animal kingdom as symbolic artistic representation is very beautiful. The Bradley Valentine Tarot I hope to add. I like your heading for Blue Sky as is, just input. No buy 2025 yes here. Have a best day all! 🦋✨☺️
You're so silly! 💙Hey Lob! Marcia! fyi...transcription is available below the description if you 're attempting to take notes. 💜makes it easier. Fly high everyone! keep the faith and...❤Carry on!
I clear my throat often also. I didn't know i did it until my nephew when he was young mimiced me. I still missed it, my sister pointed it out. So then it was on my radar, drat.
I'm listening to several healing meditational 'tones' lately, and I have to share that I experienced odd( but not bad) feelings. I believe it was physical that affected me emotionally, but I'm really unable to explain it all. Chat, how was your solstice???
I spent some time talking to my guides about the next year from this solstice. My personal concerns and hopes. Spirit Animal cards assured me it would all work out if I stayed positive and released everything to the universe. I woke up this morning feeling at peace and contented. 😊
Hello Dorothy. I think both are interconnected- how one thinks can certainly effect how one feels and vice versa. Something to consider is how our bodies are mostly water; and we now have proof that water carries information and does physically react to the information; this leads me to think the self talk we have ongoing, has a direct effect upon how we feel. Be kind to yourself and trust yourself, and the Schumann frequency tones to assist in healing, both physically and emotionally. I’m cheering you on!
@yellowstonekat thanks so much. I've been listening to Annie Bond and how our body %'s add up. I have been calm about everything working out, I do feel much better today.
Do you put anything dairy in your coffee? Try black coffee with a tiny pinch of pink salt in it to see if that makes a difference. Dairy does that to me, but I don’t use much.
"Where bedheads, critical thinkers and blue hearts congregate to cogitate." Voilà ! 💜 ALSO!!! My daughter, who was born in the UK, but grew up here in France is geting her Masters in the USA. She has had digestive issues since being in the States (since 2016) and can't eat American bread, even the organic bread from Whole Paycheck (Foods.) YET, as soon as she is back here for a week, she's fine again! I used to make a loaf of Granary bread a day for my daughters, which they would wolf down. Maybe try King Arthur flour, we used that at NECI, where I worked, it's really good flour.
@LaCheshireChat My boys were raised in France, with my youngest born there. I can tell you that I have always said there's something very different about the milk there (cheese also). Definitely the bread, too (sliced American bread is pretty inedible). My oldest son who was 5 when we moved from the US to France, is now 6'3". My youngest son, born in France and raised there until age 6 is 5'7", pretty typical for the south of France but not so much America. The milk tastes soooo much better in France, but now back in America, he and I both are lactose intolerant and can't drink milk at all. Strange, huh? There's a big difference in the food, and I am very sure that's the cause of their vast height difference and the milk intolerance. Tell her to buy organic milk, or go to oat milk, which is what we did. Just my observation after 10 years in France. Vive La France!!! ❤ Love, light, and truth awakening to all 💙💙💙🌎🇺🇸
@@k.8553 My daughter turned Vegan when she moved to the States, she used almond and oat milk, yes, but when she's back HERE, she will eat just about anything, except beef, but LOVES the raw milk I get from a local organic dairy, Terres Bleues, who also do wonderful ice cream! Hugs and quiches from Morbihan, Bretagne! 💜💜💜
Click! I love your mug! I don't hear you swallowing, but then I never paid attention to it before. I used to do psychic readings for people. My guides told me to stop, as it was time for people to go within and find their own answers. I now avoid reading others and giving advice. I am focused more on energy work and deepening my own connection to Source. It feels lonelier, but I think that's just because it's a change. But since I've changed, my biological family has walked away. The more I think about it, the more I'm okay with it. They are all caught up in blame and drama. I have moved on. I think that's the point.
Hi Karen! Intention. Love it. I've been trying to have the right intentions in my thoughts and what I release into the world. It's been difficult. I'm sure I will be referring back to this video.
I like Bluesky for the most part there are a lot of like minded highly intelligent people on there. Social media is nice but sometimes I find that if I actually use my picture of my face I get hit on. I am a married (20 yrs.) Mom of two teenaged children. So sometimes I have to put creepster men in their place!
Sometimes your Spirit Guides will work through someone else. It may be that your Spirit Guides are trying to get a message to you, and you're not hearing them, so they may use someone else to get the message to you. It's up to you whether or not you want to take the advice. Discernment is the key. I normally don't ask other people for advice. I talk to my Spirit Guides all the time. I think I got tired of asking people for advice and decided to take my guide's Advice. I listened and made my decision to follow what I thought was best. Did I always make the right decision, NO! I'm human. 😅
Stacey, I’m so sorry your sister crossed over. I do agree with k.8553 with knowing your sis will always be close by, since love is the glue for our energies, regardless if seen or not. I’ve had too many experiences to ignore this and have been nudged to share it with others. Anytime you think of her, she’s nearby. And perhaps look for clues she’s acknowledging this to you- subtle clues & signs.. sending light n love
I think many people something to confirm not validate info. We need to look at all angles and keep our emotions in-check. We want to know if what our perspective is correct.
Coughing/reflux: I have it too (back after eliminating it altogether). Did you put pepperoni or Italian sausage on your pizza? Processed meats (nitrates, some śpices) will do it, as can the high fat of cheese.
But as a child you're wise in spiritual terms not necessarily in pragmatic terms. ( on dissecting your b.father's behaviour, narcissism.) I think I know how you feel. I've felt the same way about knowing my parents earlier, i.e. a child.
I had the same thought, but then turned it into “Where Bedheads Awake and Unite”. I think this is less divisive and it subtly speaks to the spiritual awakening I’ve had thanks to Karen’s light work.
I found it very interesting that when you were speaking about setting a boundary with your Dad, and your Energy had an ‘I deserve to do this’ feel, you didn’t have a froggy throat. You spoke clearly. It wasn’t until you returned to how you’re trying to justify doing it by asking others their opinions that you started croaking again. 🤔 I know you must be afraid if you set this boundary, something may happen to him and you’ll never be able to get closure or answers from him. That may happen. Also, it may not. But what if it’s in his Soul contract to NOT be a good father so that YOU can fulfill YOUR soul contract and learn to stand up for yourself and set boundaries? When I have BIG problems to solve, I try pulling my view all the way back to where I can see the whole Earth. Then I zoom in slowly and watch my situation from the rooftops level. What is actually happening? If that wasn’t me, and was a friend instead, what would I tell them. Would that behavior against me be ok? Would I point out how terribly they’re being treated? Would I feel justified for them to break off contact with that person? I call that ‘zooming out.’ It’s ok to stand up for yourself. It’s ok to hold parents accountable when they’ve done things that made you feel unloved and continue to do so. Because when he dies, even if you kept the status quo and never put your boundary up, you’re still going to grieve for two fathers. The father that he was - the real one, and the father he SHOULD have been to you. Maybe, if you put up this boundary it will give him the chance to think about things and decide to change. It’s rare, but it does happen. In the meantime, you deserve NOT TO BE TREATED LIKE CRAP by a man who should have loved you unconditionally. This whole situation has Divine Work written all over it. 💜
Bedhads for. . .truth, compassion & kindness. Maybe try fasting to clear your body of toxins & build ups. 3 day fasts are not that difficult. My mother & I took a 10 year time out, basically the best years of my life!
Yes it is! We have reconciled the last 18 months because my mom is getting ready to transition. I'm glad that we did, but my life definitely has more turmoil in dealing with her negative energies. Her life-long negatives are probably looking for a new home as they about to be evicted!
"Spirit Teams and Freedom thinkers United"? W the "thinkers", it can be associated to the Feelers' and Analytical Thinkers' type of ppl, and the freedom part is pretty obvious. I too agree w your take on the "Conservative" (early on in the video) part on how our Government should be, I think we need less Government for certain things, and more Government on other things....like, w someone's body, nobody should decide that (no Government should be involved), the Police needs to be reformed, we need better food legislation and Laws, etc...I fall under the "Social Democrat" scale, but I've turned Independent after the Democratic Party didn't vote for A.O.C. (she's one of the best communicators and tries to help the Working Class), so now I'm Independent (for the Working Class; a.k.a., Bernie's Party). **Honestly, I think that if someone is a detriment to you, you need to get them out of your life, ppl don't get better when having a Karmic stay in their life, they're not good for you, and will typically make you have brain fogg, clog your Throat Chakra, you'll be out of balance. Some ppl can change, but others' won't, in that case, they're better out.** 🌹
seeking answers outside your self , the question is this is there answers inside ones self Being as we are all Spirit (energy, Mind) Experiencing Life Through These Avatar there is nothing inside we are conscious of really . I know there are some Not Sensitive enough to to tune in these things . to me any how Spirit Giudes as they say are just the bigger or Collective part of all Energy .
Seeking answers outside yourself often leads to the question: are the real answers already within us? If we are all spirit-energy and mind-experiencing life through these physical avatars, then what we perceive as "inside" may not even be tangible. Conscious awareness seems to reside more in our connection to the energy around us than within any one part of our being. Some individuals may not feel sensitive or attuned enough to recognize this connection. But for me, spirit guides-often spoken of as external forces-feel more like an extension of a greater collective energy, the universal current that flows through all existence. Rather than being separate entities, these guides might represent the expanded, unified consciousness of all energy. They are not external voices but reflections of the larger tapestry of existence that we are intrinsically part of. Perhaps the answers aren’t "inside" or "outside" us, but rather in the unity of everything we are connected to. In tuning into this collective energy, we might find that the wisdom we seek has always been there-not as something external, but as an inseparable part of the vast, interconnected web of existence.
How about " free spirits" if the others manage to get on bluesky they will see the word liberal which makes it a target. Also could you please consider using the word " clink" instead of click because when you touch glasses it actually makes a clink as opposed to a click which you use to turn things off and on. Im sorry hope i didnt offend
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For the header, I would suggest something that does NOT suggest divisiveness. I like Where Bedheads Click Our Mugs and Unite which is the least divisive and most relatable.
Beautiful. Yes. That’s perfect. Unity is always best.
I like it!!!!
How about “bed heads, coffee and mugs a plenty”? Just a thought. Have a wonderful day.
Best bed head ever today Karen❤
How about Bedheads spirit guides and coffee Oracles
Where forward-thinking intuitives and bedheads unite!
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There comes a time for some of us where we have to acknowledge that a relationship is detrimental and no longer serves us. I had to divorce my parents many years ago because of my mother's chronic abuse when I was growing up. I could never understand why she did what she did, and I could not get her to take responsibility for her harmful acts. The best decision I ever made was when I told them that our relationship is finished and that we had no further obligation to each other. It is totally OK to say "enough is enough," and thank you for showing me you are.
@ladydlc550 yes, I've learned that even though my sister and I are related, she has not seen me as we grew up, and knows only mundane things of me so I'm stepping back from whatever it is that we have. Everything will be ok.
@@dorothywalters7448 My heart is with you as you make this decision to take care of yourself.
Agreed. We want to be loved by our parents, so we keep hoping they will come through if loved long enough. We also may feel pity for them and want to help them grow (which they may make use of). The tragic truth is some folks aren't just mean or insensitive, or demanding - quite a few have an actual personality disorder. I don't know what's wrong with our culture, but at this point identifying more than one serious personality disorder in a single person isn't uncommon. There are people with full blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder, sadism, Machiavellianism, severe emotional dysregulation (BPD), sociopathy (complete inability to feel empathy), and/or psychopathy (priding themselves on violating any boundary of any kind). Such folks may present well in public but take cruelty to an art form even with their toddlers behind closed doors. Such disordered parents' manipulations are too severe and cruel to allow even their children any quality of life, and according to therapists, they rarely change even with therapy. They resist therapy and rarely persist in it if pushed into going. 99% will continue to bully, slander, manipulate, lie, blackmail, guilt, triangulate, shame, and in other ways abuse you all your life if you stick around for it. ("All things grow with love" right? Tried that for decades and decades. Turns out not so much; they have to want to change. If they think they are superior, they will always think you are the problem. You need to jump through their hoops, always. Nothing about them needs to change.)
If you're dealing with a problematic person, I encourage you to get therapy right away. Meet with a therapist for your own healing, secretly if you can, and figure out what has been going on. A therapist will give you perspective of how healthy families operate. And help you find your way out of the maze. Be sure they have a lot of training and experience in helping people recover from trauma and knowledge of personality disorders. At the very least, start keeping a journal so you begin identifying the patterns. An experienced therapist can suggest ways to work on the situation. Or help you identify possibly a deeper issue.
Otherwise, we can waste most of our life force most of our lives not realizing someone "toxic" actually has a serious personality disorder. We won't understand why we are never heard or treated better, because we won't understand how they think or what they hear when we say things. If they have a personality disorder, people must learn how to communicate and deal with them, because they perceive the world very differently. As therapist Eleanor Greenberg explained, we can't talk with them or relate with them as we do with most people because they're in a very different headspace. They actually infer and react in very different ways. Just as you can't pet a scorpion because it doesn't think or react like a dog, there are specific communication strategies you will need to learn if you decide to keep someone in your life who has an actual personality disorder. Based on my many decades of draining misery and what it has cost me, please immediately get yourself a good therapist and discuss the patterns. A good therapist will help you learn how normal families operate. Help you heal your inner child. You're the only one who can protect your inner child, who deserves at least one adult in their life who will protect and nurture them.
These disordered people are tragic, but don't put up with the abuse. No amount of loyalty or sacrifice on your part, even sacrificing for a lifetime, will elicit the loving parent you want. It's just not in them. Some folks are arrested at a very early age emotionally speaking, no matter how intelligent they are, so their demanding emotionality and selfishness knows no bounds. Some are stuck in the terrible twos. Some a bit older. If you decide to keep interacting with them, you need to learn in depth about their disorder, because they see the world very differently. People with NPD lack object permanence, for example. That affects the relationship. And in their reality, you may be merely a vending machine of emotional attention and energy. Whether it upsets you or exhausts you is of no interest (you are an annoying vending machine if you have feelings, thoughts, or selfhood of your own). Unless you learn what you are dealing with, sadly they will reel you in and play you for your energy all your life - unless you remove yourself as far as possible. They often have memory issues that go beyond not seeming to listen to anything you say. They may be compulsive liars, making reality up as they go along. There are all kinds of things you need to learn about their disorder(s) if you plan to continue having them in your life. Eleanor Greenberg has some great material on Quora if you need to explore these things, and she has an understandable book in plain English.
People with a personality disorder like actual NPD are not ever going to hear you as you expect. You will have to learn how they see the world and interact accordingly. To people with full blown NPD, for example, their perception of the world is purely utilitarian - your psychic energy, time, and attention are to be available 24/7 as if you were a feed bag. If you resist, they will try a variety of buttons to elicit your energy in whatever manner will work - whether the energy is happy energy or misery energy, they can still feed on it. Odd but true. Buttons they will try pushing to elicit energy: bullying, flattery, shaming, triangulating, insulting, praising, criticizing, playing pitiful, creating false need for rescue, complaining, demanding, blackmailing, guilting, enlisting the flying monkeys, demeaning your partners and achievements, blackmail, slander, even to calling the police in your town on some pretext. You will be manipulated and punished in every way possible, even to turning family against you. You aren't really a person with independent rights and identity and wishes and feelings, they can't relate to the world in that way, oddly. Your asking for human treatment or consideration therefore annoys them. They may buy you a dollar store trinket if it keeps you on the hook for another year, but it's purely for the payoff as they see it. They expect you to automatically surrender your energy, time, life force, attention, health, freedom, and happiness. They are superior, so you owe them that (while asking nothing in return).
How many years of that life force do you really want to give away?? It will cost you big in health, happiness, your own dreams and well-being. You matter!! Please get therapy and protect your own energy. If you take the big step of pulling back completely, which is often the sanest and most self-preserving thing to do, be sure you first have a therapist you are already working with. Abusers may try to ruin the rest of your family relationships, slandering you viciously and playing victim, so you have to be ready for that and have another support system in place, a support group or caring circle of friends, a family of choice. You matter. Learn about boundaries, what they really are, and how to set them - they are for you, and it may not change their behavior or emotions at all, but those boundaries can ensure your own energy is available for your own life, as God intended. Les Carter's channel here is good. I can also recommend some great books (they have very helpful insights, advice, and very healing writing exercises): Will I Ever Be Good Enough: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers, by Karyl McBride, PhD. Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide For Daughters, by Susan Forward, PhD. If a parent has BPD, you might read Kimberlee Roth's book, Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds & Build Trust, Boundaries and Self-Esteem, by Kimberlee Roth and Freda Firedman, PhD, LCSW. Another very valuable book, for children of enmeshing/overinvolved parents, is The Emotional Incest Syndrome: What to Do When A Parent's Love Rules Your Life, by Dr. Patricia Love and Jo Robinson.
@@falconbritt5461 Thank you for sharing all this. My niece and I are both dealing with a person that sounds a lot like you're describing. I've been feeling bad that I'm going no contact, but this is another confirmation that I'm doing the right thing. I'm going to share this with my niece to let her know that her going no contact, too, is okay as well.
This is such an important topic. Thank you. It is so important to listen to inner guidance beyond all else. And I think probably what draws people to these kinds of channels is because we do feel an inner yes to so much of it. I'v ecome to these channels just rrecently because I'd been feeling like, "Am I crazy? Am I alone with this?" It was a relief to find all the other "crazies" out there haha. But certainly no one has a one hundred percent clear knowing. It's important to discern and only take what feels true inside. I've watched people over the years get messed up and angry because they gave their power away anad then blame others for leading them away from their inner truith.
I'm a "big picture" person in terms of listening to guidance. That includeds listening to tarot readers, astrologers, channels, etc. Everything is filtered. That's not a bad thing as long as we recgnize it and just take what feels true and let go of the rest and not blame anyone for gettng things wrong. We're ALL going to get some things wrong, especially if we try to narrow guidance down to specifics (and in my experience any guidance that narrows things down to specific times is pretty much always off - because in the big picture time is very different from our limited mind's view).
I'm guessing that the majority of us here felt something "off" about E day, but there's a big mix of how that is going to look going forward. Big picture - all is well. Might get messy and take time to get to the highest outcome for all. But we're all okay and might as well enjoy the ride.
Loving, authentic misfits
Bedheads, spiritual communications, and following your own path.
I think it’s more a validation of feelings and thoughts during these crazy and dark times, that I find useful for me, rather than any answers, when it’s speculative to begin with.
Collectively, this space is unique with the potential to grow into something beyond your expectations and the ability to promote positive changes in lives and beyond. Stay authentic!
A lot of viewers (youtubers in particular like myself) have their subscription visibility turned off so people can't tell which channels they're subscribed to. I've actually been subscribed since the early days of your channel.
That’s great to know. And…thanks so much for your support. It’s awesome having you here!
Header idea. Where bed heads spirit teams and the curious unite.
Good Morning Karen 🙌...Love having coffee with you and all the thoughts👏🥰...I felt called to share this with you, I hope it's okay😅...I had recently found out that in the winter months we have a lot less vitamin D3 & K2...No sun shine🌟 This can cause an annoying congestion in the throat...Your clearing your throat sounds exactly like my 15 yr old and Myself through the winter. We recently added a vitamin D3 K2 and it was almost overnight it went away❣️I had to take a higher dose than he. I take 15,000 IU daily and it has to have the K2. It also helps ringing in the ears. Thought this might help. It's not something that many people know about. Thank you so much for your videos❣️✨️ Wishing you and your whole community a Wonderful Holiday season ❣️🙌✨️🤗
My dad's name was Jerry, too! 😂 I am a counselor and went no contact with my mom 14 years ago when I figured out her passive aggressive narcissistic behavior. I tried to reconcile 3 years ago and she showed me she hasn't changed. My self esteem has improved 100 percent. The right decision for now
Wow. Thank you for sharing. Very helpful.
I put my parents in time out several times throughout my life! Fortunately, my dad and I learned to connect because we both changed! Yes, we were nudged to learn new habits! (Another book, lead the way!) Yes, our Angelic Teams are powerful!
Hi Karen. I prefer Progressive in place of Liberal.
Morning Karen, you can also color in the stars for more positive themes. Don't use sharpies !
Oooooo. Great idea. A yellow dry erase marker
All is as it should be. Shine on. Hold the balance.
Words to consider: genuine, freedom fighters, independent, patriots, authentic, intuitives, truth seekers
Spirit and bedhead unite as one
Spiritually we're learning what we don't want.
Each person must decide for themselves what serves their lives best and for the higher good of their emotional well being !! It’s not always easy to do but if you make the decision and a weight is lifted off your shoulders then to me that gives the answer !! I had to separate from my severely abusive parents , it was hard but it gave me inner peace , because after I gave them many chances they just couldn’t or wouldn’t take responsibility and change ! I found I could no longer live a peaceful life allowing them to control and abuse me , so I made my choice and found peace snd safety !! ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙋🏻🌈🌈
Been there, done that, totally agree!
I so agree with you and I love your channel. You make me smile in this no so nice world !❤
Each person must decide for themselves what serves their lives best and for the higher good of their emotional well being !! It’s not always easy to do but if you make the decision and a weight is lifted off your shoulders then to me that gives the answer !! I had to separate from my severely abusive parents , it was hard but it gave me inner peace , because after I gave them many chances they just couldn’t or wouldn’t take responsibility and change ! I found I could no longer live a peaceful life allowing them to control and abuse me m, so I made my choice and found peace snd safety !! ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙋🏻🌈🌈
Fiscal responsibility is just budgeting properly( i.e. having more money than you need to spend) which is basic knowledge and is not political. Conservatives have appropriated those terms to be mean, not fiscally responsible.
Yeah 🎯 the Conservative (Tory) party in UK have been saying they are that for ages & it's been proven they are not.
How about Love and Like minded individuals who seek the truth for Bluesky#🤩💗💟
I like progressive instead of liberal
I love listening to your channel. It really feels like waking up after a sleep-over with your bestie. It's such a comfy place.
I've been missing community for many years. Your channel is definitely bringing to light somethings I have needed to hear. I am learning now to listen. To my own SGs, they nudge me more often than I thought.
Sooooo glad to read that Heather!
I’m on bluesky waiting for you to get there 😊
I subscribed the first time you showed up in my feed. Even with what happened in November, I haven't regretted joining.
This channel is becoming an integral part of my day, not every message resonates, but many do.
Haha😂. Hair hilarious.
Good morning everyone !!
Good morning! 💙
“Would have, could have, should have, only counts in Horseshoes. Best advice I ever got about N’s is “Run, run as fast as you can!”…no matter who they are in your life. So, that is what I did in 2012. Best thing I ever did. No Contact. Don’t look back! Life just keeps getting better!
I cared for my Dad for 11 yrs after his stroke. I pulled him from nursing home, they let him fall 3 times.
My first thought seeing what looks like different seeds/plants, I went to how the Native Americans planted 3 “sister” plants near each other. They would support each other and help each other grow. I thought that we, as a group, can plant our seeds around each other, support each other and grow spiritually. Maybe doesn’t meld so we’ll with looking within, but is what came to my mind.
Congress should bring a lawsuit against Musketeer for interfering in the operation of our government business. Our speaker of the house should not be in a text thread with someone who is obstructing daily governmental affairs. If congress cares about America they will not raise the debt ceiling and they will file suit against him for government interference/conflict of interest with foreign governments. Thank you Lord for that senator from Texas who had a conscience to stop the nonsense about the debt ceiling. That is how we can take some of his richness to pay our debt ceiling down. He owes the country for causing confusion and obstructing government affairs.
Your hair! 😂 Good morning! I'll see you on Bluesky! 🌸
Gluten sets off joint pain and inflammation in me. But I cheat occasionally because I love bread!
Buy gluten free flour and make your own bread ! It’s very easy to make and you just add ingredients or spices in to make the type of bread or baked goods you want ! Use a recipe that makes two loaves and make one plain for sandwiches or rolls and the other for cheese or flavored breads or pizza crust or flavored rolls or buns !
@ which flour do you like best? I have tried a couple brands and the consistency was sort of a gritty feel when chewing.
Im an INTP, but actually love my morning "conversations "with" you 🤗. Talking and letting the conversations go where they may I consider to be very fun and I appreciate & enjoy you!
Re: gluten, 30 yrs ago a very smart doctor gave an **IGe blood** test for allergies, because the more common scratch test yielded nothing. Results were 3 or 4 pages of bar charts showing degree of reactivity, if any. Among many other things, It showed gluten was irrelevant, that actually I'm allergic to ALL grains, to varying degrees.
4 Important take aways were that
1) the more "pure" the grain (ie "whole grains") the worse my reaction bcz there's more of the grain in it. And
2) that if I eat 2 or more things together that I am allergic to, the effect is *compounded* - a 1, 2, 3 + punch, And
3) it takes up to 72 hours to clear the food(s) from your blood to avoid compounding effect And
4) Allergic reactivity w food is not just "Not Allergic vs Anaphalactic shock". It's a whole range, so in my case, italian food for me for generalized example is something I have to plan for because I also have prob w cooked tomatoes. Pizza, for me, is a 1, 2 punch, and if I have leftovers, or a sandwich, or cookies, or fried ckn w in 3 days, it compounds & drags the reaction out more.
One more thing, if you eat even a little allergic items every day, your immune system stays in overdrive without rest.
Thank you. That totally resonated with me because I just had some gluten free, organic oatmeal (with no junk added) and I had a similar reaction. So..definitely more going on here.
I love the reminder that we are remembering. In Native American and Buddhist perspective, ' we remember that which we already know. buddha mind/ beginners mind ' and 'that which transpires behind that which appears' resonates so nicely with the topic to not look outside ourselves for answers we hold within. We remember. This also is the foundation of spirit release, sometimes consciousness of spirit simply forgets we are light, and we are never truly seperated from loving light source/ home. We do forget though. 😊 The different decks you share are fun to see. I loved the akashic deck, the use of the animal kingdom as symbolic artistic representation is very beautiful. The Bradley Valentine Tarot I hope to add. I like your heading for Blue Sky as is, just input. No buy 2025 yes here. Have a best day all! 🦋✨☺️
Politics is your spirituality demonstrated.
That's a great card for the solstice. Seedplanting. ❤
You are ROCKING that bedhead this morning! LOL!
You're so silly! 💙Hey Lob! Marcia! fyi...transcription is available below the description if you 're attempting to take notes. 💜makes it easier. Fly high everyone! keep the faith and...❤Carry on!
Hey Wanda, Lob here and greetings from windy Wyoming! ✌🤓 Hope you have a good Holiday!
I clear my throat often also. I didn't know i did it until my nephew when he was young mimiced me. I still missed it, my sister pointed it out. So then it was on my radar, drat.
I'm listening to several healing meditational 'tones' lately, and I have to share that I experienced odd( but not bad) feelings. I believe it was physical that affected me emotionally, but I'm really unable to explain it all. Chat, how was your solstice???
I spent some time talking to my guides about the next year from this solstice. My personal concerns and hopes. Spirit Animal cards assured me it would all work out if I stayed positive and released everything to the universe.
I woke up this morning feeling at peace and contented. 😊
Hello Dorothy. I think both are interconnected- how one thinks can certainly effect how one feels and vice versa. Something to consider is how our bodies are mostly water; and we now have proof that water carries information and does physically react to the information; this leads me to think the self talk we have ongoing, has a direct effect upon how we feel. Be kind to yourself and trust yourself, and the Schumann frequency tones to assist in healing, both physically and emotionally. I’m cheering you on!
@yellowstonekat thanks so much. I've been listening to Annie Bond and how our body %'s add up. I have been calm about everything working out, I do feel much better today.
Do you put anything dairy in your coffee? Try black coffee with a tiny pinch of pink salt in it to see if that makes a difference. Dairy does that to me, but I don’t use much.
I like to call myself progressive. I think that covers it all. Progressive spiritual junkies 😂
"Where bedheads, critical thinkers and blue hearts congregate to cogitate."
Voilà ! 💜
ALSO!!! My daughter, who was born in the UK, but grew up here in France is geting her Masters in the USA. She has had digestive issues since being in the States (since 2016) and can't eat American bread, even the organic bread from Whole Paycheck (Foods.) YET, as soon as she is back here for a week, she's fine again! I used to make a loaf of Granary bread a day for my daughters, which they would wolf down. Maybe try King Arthur flour, we used that at NECI, where I worked, it's really good flour.
Great tips. Thank you!
Yes, there is a lot of additives and sugar in USA store bought bread. I've also had great results using King Arthur flour! 👑
@LaCheshireChat
My boys were raised in France, with my youngest born there. I can tell you that I have always said there's something very different about the milk there (cheese also). Definitely the bread, too (sliced American bread is pretty inedible). My oldest son who was 5 when we moved from the US to France, is now 6'3". My youngest son, born in France and raised there until age 6 is 5'7", pretty typical for the south of France but not so much America. The milk tastes soooo much better in France, but now back in America, he and I both are lactose intolerant and can't drink milk at all. Strange, huh? There's a big difference in the food, and I am very sure that's the cause of their vast height difference and the milk intolerance. Tell her to buy organic milk, or go to oat milk, which is what we did. Just my observation after 10 years in France. Vive La France!!! ❤
Love, light, and truth awakening to all
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@@k.8553 My daughter turned Vegan when she moved to the States, she used almond and oat milk, yes, but when she's back HERE, she will eat just about anything, except beef, but LOVES the raw milk I get from a local organic dairy, Terres Bleues, who also do wonderful ice cream! Hugs and quiches from Morbihan, Bretagne! 💜💜💜
I LOVE it !!
Be grateful for every day.
Click! I love your mug! I don't hear you swallowing, but then I never paid attention to it before. I used to do psychic readings for people. My guides told me to stop, as it was time for people to go within and find their own answers. I now avoid reading others and giving advice. I am focused more on energy work and deepening my own connection to Source. It feels lonelier, but I think that's just because it's a change. But since I've changed, my biological family has walked away. The more I think about it, the more I'm okay with it. They are all caught up in blame and drama. I have moved on. I think that's the point.
Whether I seek outside self, depends on what I am seeking
Yes, I hear the swallow except when you try to swallow quieter. But I don’t care. No big deal.
Mic working perfectly!
woo-hoo! 🥳
Hi Karen! Intention. Love it. I've been trying to have the right intentions in my thoughts and what I release into the world. It's been difficult. I'm sure I will be referring back to this video.
Love your hair
Bed Head, Spirit Teams or Intuitives, compassionate caring people unite.
You can truly love damily members but not really like them. Yes, that is definitely possible. Everyone, even family, are individuals
Have you seen Dr. Jennifer Lisa Vest's post for today and her very short, short for yesterday?
I have. Love listening to her.
lol-I love your mugs! Someday will you be giving a tour of your mug collection?! Do they fill an entire cabinet?!😅😁
Great idea!
“Bedheads, intuitives and progressives unite”
Bed heads definitely,, spirit chasers maybe,,,,, seekers of some sort,,,,,I love your ideas, I’m trying to hatch one?!?!?!
Keep going. I’m listening. 😋
I like Bluesky for the most part there are a lot of like minded highly intelligent people on there. Social media is nice but sometimes I find that if I actually use my picture of my face I get hit on. I am a married (20 yrs.) Mom of two teenaged children. So sometimes I have to put creepster men in their place!
Good for you. What the heck creepers. Knock it off! 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Sometimes your Spirit Guides will work through someone else. It may be that your Spirit Guides are trying to get a message to you, and you're not hearing them, so they may use someone else to get the message to you. It's up to you whether or not you want to take the advice. Discernment is the key. I normally don't ask other people for advice. I talk to my Spirit Guides all the time. I think I got tired of asking people for advice and decided to take my guide's Advice. I listened and made my decision to follow what I thought was best. Did I always make the right decision, NO! I'm human. 😅
I can't get over losing my only sister 3 years ago
I'm so sorry. That's got to be so hard. She'll be around you with love when you think of her.
Love, light, and healing to you. 🩷
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@k.8553 many thanks I have her photo on the wall across my side of the bed
Stacey, I’m so sorry your sister crossed over. I do agree with k.8553 with knowing your sis will always be close by, since love is the glue for our energies, regardless if seen or not. I’ve had too many experiences to ignore this and have been nudged to share it with others. Anytime you think of her, she’s nearby. And perhaps look for clues she’s acknowledging this to you- subtle clues & signs.. sending light n love
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Great video. Thanks so much. I needed this.
I must be Gluten Free!
Thank you
Truth seekers unite
Bedheads spirit guides and coffee cuties😂
Italian flour is helpful for me too, are you sure it was not the dairy? That’s all mucous producing.
Totally could be. I’ll start paying attention more for sure. Thanks!
I think many people something to confirm not validate info. We need to look at all angles and keep our emotions in-check. We want to know if what our perspective is correct.
Coughing/reflux: I have it too (back after eliminating it altogether). Did you put pepperoni or Italian sausage on your pizza? Processed meats (nitrates, some śpices) will do it, as can the high fat of cheese.
But as a child you're wise in spiritual terms not necessarily in pragmatic terms. ( on dissecting your b.father's behaviour, narcissism.)
I think I know how you feel. I've felt the same way about knowing my parents earlier, i.e. a child.
When lawsuits fly off the cuff towards these billionaires, we will see the pendulum swing back to the middle.
It could be dairy
That was my thought too
I'm an Empath but am an ENFT
For a tag line, how about-
Upbeat bedheads finding answers with our spirit-guides
lol-Didn’t mean to hyphenate spirit guides! 🤪
Bed head, coffee loving spiritual high vibe club.
Level headed
Good morning ☀️ do you watch Jennifer Lisa Vest? She is a Native American Dreamer. I enjoy her stories. I really enjoy your messages too ❤
I do!
Instead of liberals, what about open-minded?
Instead of liberals use “woke”
I had the same thought, but then turned it into “Where Bedheads Awake and Unite”. I think this is less divisive and it subtly speaks to the spiritual awakening I’ve had thanks to Karen’s light work.
How about humanists instead of liberals?
Jesus was a liberal. I thought we were proudly taking the title back.
How about "open?"
I found it very interesting that when you were speaking about setting a boundary with your Dad, and your Energy had an ‘I deserve to do this’ feel, you didn’t have a froggy throat. You spoke clearly. It wasn’t until you returned to how you’re trying to justify doing it by asking others their opinions that you started croaking again. 🤔
I know you must be afraid if you set this boundary, something may happen to him and you’ll never be able to get closure or answers from him. That may happen. Also, it may not. But what if it’s in his Soul contract to NOT be a good father so that YOU can fulfill YOUR soul contract and learn to stand up for yourself and set boundaries?
When I have BIG problems to solve, I try pulling my view all the way back to where I can see the whole Earth. Then I zoom in slowly and watch my situation from the rooftops level. What is actually happening? If that wasn’t me, and was a friend instead, what would I tell them. Would that behavior against me be ok? Would I point out how terribly they’re being treated? Would I feel justified for them to break off contact with that person? I call that ‘zooming out.’
It’s ok to stand up for yourself. It’s ok to hold parents accountable when they’ve done things that made you feel unloved and continue to do so. Because when he dies, even if you kept the status quo and never put your boundary up, you’re still going to grieve for two fathers. The father that he was - the real one, and the father he SHOULD have been to you. Maybe, if you put up this boundary it will give him the chance to think about things and decide to change. It’s rare, but it does happen. In the meantime, you deserve NOT TO BE TREATED LIKE CRAP by a man who should have loved you unconditionally. This whole situation has Divine Work written all over it. 💜
"Fair minded people"
Bedhads for. . .truth, compassion & kindness. Maybe try fasting to clear your body of toxins & build ups. 3 day fasts are not that difficult. My mother & I took a 10 year time out, basically the best years of my life!
All great suggestions. Thanks! Loved your comment about your time out with your mom. So interesting, isn’t it?
Yes it is! We have reconciled the last 18 months because my mom is getting ready to transition. I'm glad that we did, but my life definitely has more turmoil in dealing with her negative energies. Her life-long negatives are probably looking for a new home as they about to be evicted!
We can still hear the swallowing, but that does not bother me. I am a coffee drinker too.
"Spirit Teams and Freedom thinkers United"? W the "thinkers", it can be associated to the Feelers' and Analytical Thinkers' type of ppl, and the freedom part is pretty obvious.
I too agree w your take on the "Conservative" (early on in the video) part on how our Government should be, I think we need less Government for certain things, and more Government on other things....like, w someone's body, nobody should decide that (no Government should be involved), the Police needs to be reformed, we need better food legislation and Laws, etc...I fall under the "Social Democrat" scale, but I've turned Independent after the Democratic Party didn't vote for A.O.C. (she's one of the best communicators and tries to help the Working Class), so now I'm Independent (for the Working Class; a.k.a., Bernie's Party).
**Honestly, I think that if someone is a detriment to you, you need to get them out of your life, ppl don't get better when having a Karmic stay in their life, they're not good for you, and will typically make you have brain fogg, clog your Throat Chakra, you'll be out of balance. Some ppl can change, but others' won't, in that case, they're better out.** 🌹
$5 does not deserve to enter that office due to the 14th amendment.
That is a really good perspective. We have been asking if 45 will enter the presidency however not if he deserves to!
Hairlarious!
Where open-minded & spiritual seekers gather
Perhaps you could include “like-hearted people”?
Less is more🎉🎉🎉
Would be nice to have a link to your Blueskye-profile...
I'll add it to the description below the video for future videos! bsky.app/profile/askthespiritguides.bsky.social
Spirit Teams could reference football and cheerleading. 🧐. Also liberal strikes familiarity. To gather like minded souls.
Header: Where Open-minded Spiritual Seekers Gather.
I would take the political-ness out. You don’t need it. When things calm down, you may not be asking the SGs about politics a lot.
liberals but Conservatives hmm They call that Moderate yup they do , maybe it where the Moderately thinking Liberals meet
seeking answers outside your self , the question is this is there answers inside ones self Being as we are all Spirit (energy, Mind) Experiencing Life Through These Avatar there is nothing inside we are conscious of really . I know there are some Not Sensitive enough to to tune in these things . to me any how Spirit Giudes as they say are just the bigger or Collective part of all Energy .
Seeking answers outside yourself often leads to the question: are the real answers already within us? If we are all spirit-energy and mind-experiencing life through these physical avatars, then what we perceive as "inside" may not even be tangible. Conscious awareness seems to reside more in our connection to the energy around us than within any one part of our being.
Some individuals may not feel sensitive or attuned enough to recognize this connection. But for me, spirit guides-often spoken of as external forces-feel more like an extension of a greater collective energy, the universal current that flows through all existence.
Rather than being separate entities, these guides might represent the expanded, unified consciousness of all energy. They are not external voices but reflections of the larger tapestry of existence that we are intrinsically part of. Perhaps the answers aren’t "inside" or "outside" us, but rather in the unity of everything we are connected to.
In tuning into this collective energy, we might find that the wisdom we seek has always been there-not as something external, but as an inseparable part of the vast, interconnected web of existence.
Can not hear you swallowing at all. Total sound is so much better!!
How about " free spirits" if the others manage to get on bluesky they will see the word liberal which makes it a target. Also could you please consider using the word " clink" instead of click because when you touch glasses it actually makes a clink as opposed to a click which you use to turn things off and on. Im sorry hope i didnt offend
Lmao. You are absolutely right. Clink. Of course. Thanks for pointing that out. Click just became a habit. Let’s see if I can break it. 😋