Yay i get use one of my favorite quotes for today. “Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain.” ― Vivian Greene
I love how openly you talk about imposter syndrome and that feeling that you aren't supposed to be doing as well as your doing. It helps me realise that it's a common problem and when I feel like this I'm not alone, it helps me pick myself up and think about the achievements I have made. ❤
Carrie, I know you will never read this but I am writing anyway. I like that you are not afraid to let people see you are not perfect. To many role models only show how glamorous their lives are. In today's world it is refreshing to see someone being honest.
These videos are helping me through my studying rn. I have to say tho, that I also get that Boyce in my head, those storms and when they do show up late at night, I don't entertain them either anymore
Unfortunately, you will never win. If you don't show your vulnerabilities and anxieties then you are "false" and "ungrateful". But if you do show that side of your life then you're "attention seeking" or "overdramatic". I personally seek solace in the knowledge that even those that you aspire to have moments of vulnerability and struggle and I admire your honesty. Just do you 👍🏻
I’ve been absolutely loving these May, myself and I videos. I try to take time out of my day every morning to feel good about myself and look after my mental health. These videos are great for this. I love that you use your platform to be so honest. Thank you♥️
Carrie your amazing, a beautiful and empowering woman! You are enough, more than enough! You are some people’s inspiration, most definitely mine❤️ your brain likes to play games, just remember the storm will pass 💙 have a good day ! Keep being yourself! I’m loving may myself and I ! ❤️
After more than a year of unemployment full of doubt and feeling insecure, I finally go back to work tomorrow. It's with people I know and respect to a job I know I can do amazingly, but I'm still having mixed feelings about leaving the safety of the apartment to venture out again. ..
Thank you for sharing your storm honestly. I've been working towards making my own channel and the other day I got caught in a similar negative thought spiral, part of which was thinking that I'd never be as good as you, so it's really helpful to know you fight that sometimes too
I can imagine the performing industry igniting more of those 'moments' because there is a peak of judgement in the job you do. Of course we all have bad days and make terrible decisions, it just takes time to overcome that 'moment'! Hope tomorrow goes well! Xxx
I just hit a miserable stormy point and watching this video just brought me back to earth and reminded me that no, I'm not a disaster and yes this feeling will stop so tHANK YOU (honestly it surprises me each time I watch these videos how much they give me life)
I feel this so much! Constantly at battle with my own storms! But the key thing for me to remember it’s that Storms don’t last, there will always be sunshine after the rain. ♥️
This is what I miss from old Carrie. 💜💜💜You never take sides, your narrative is funny and orderly, always kind and positive. And always have answers on what I also struggle about. Please vlog these type of videos even after May, whenever you have kind sisterly advise.
I just finished a master's degree in history and I go back and forth between being really proud of what I've achieved and of all the work I put in and feeling like my degree couldn't have been that difficult or impressive if even /I/ could do it. So, it's always encouraging, in a funny way, to hear that other people who seem to have really "made it" also struggle to feel secure in what they've accomplished.
I have storms a lot too, appreciate your vulnerability, and damn right they do suck. I came across your channel many years ago, and I recently refound it again at a time when I really needed some light. Your videos calm and reassure me at my darkest. Appreciate you ❤
I don’t watch your videos often but occasionally I turn your video on and enjoy your positivity, and great talents! But the “storm” I can relate with, it’s late at night and things build. In the morning you still may think the same things but it’s not as emotional. Thank you for this video, You say compliments from a stranger aren’t received with importance, but I’m a person living in Ohio and I enjoy you. I can tell you are driven for the right reasons and are VERY talented. Much love from Ohio!
I love that you always share how you’re feeling with us both good and bad. I also get that intruding voice creeping in with the “you don’t deserve to be here!” As you said we all feel like that at times. It’s frustrating! But definitely having good friends to just listen can be so comforting! ☺️💖
The past few weeks I have been struggling a little with depression and yesterday morning everything was all good again. I was explaining to my mum that it was like I could finally breath again and be my normal, cheerful self once more because I didn’t have these barrier stopping me. It sucks for everyone who goes through this sort of thing but I really appreciate that you were honest about your experience 😊
Carrie, I get that these feelings will happen but I say this truely. When I found you singing covers of songs I remembered thinking, "Oh her voice is incredible." I am glad that you have shared bits of your life and I am glad you said this because it means you are humble. I am sure you will continue to enjoy life the best you can.
This is so important. I have struggled with this since I was a kid. Now I know that it has been severe but I didn't reach out for help because I thought it was normal or that I was right. Wish I had had this video years ago. Thank you Carrie!
Thank you so much for this Carrie! I've struggled over the past couple of years with self doubt in terms of performing and I've always looked up to you. It makes me look up to you even more when you open up like this! So thank you for being so vulnerable! Xoxox
It's so nice to know I'm not the only one who deals with these storms! Especially in pursuing acting where a lot of the time I receive no's to roles I'd really love to have, it's tough t keep going and pushing forward. Thanks so much for your honesty and vulnerability, Carrie - really enjoying this series of videos!
Just had one of those storms a few days ago too. I'm both glad to hear someone else talking about that feeling, and sad that they have to feel it too. But it really is just one of those things-- so I'm glad you're talking about it.
It’s so nice to hear such a talented and established actress feels this way, when you’re starting out you can feel like you’re thinking this because it’s the truth but everyone feels this way at some point, it’s not an indication if your talent, it’s just your negative thoughts being self deprecating
It isn't just you Carrie, my thought spirals are always worst at night as im trying to go to sleep. I can only speak for myself, but during the day I'm more able to 'crack on' and divert my brain from focusing on the anxiety, but at night, in the dark, there aren't any distractions left. And no, it isn't fun at all.
I love how honest you are, you are yourself and you eat whatever you feel like, especially in an industry where weight and looks is so major. You are entitled to your private life and being just you.
With all of the stress and anxiety of final exams, my inner critic's voice feels louder than usual so this video felt like a lovely warm hug. Thank you!!!
I do the same thing sometimes. And at night as well for some reason. Especially when I can’t sleep. Like you said, it’s like a spiral storm of nonsensical negative thoughts. It’s crap. It’s crap for me and it’s crap for you. No matter how hard it rains, don’t let it put out the sun that is your truth.
I had a history of severe anxiety and I now have a personal "rule" (and close friends and my other half know about this) that after 10pm I am not allowed to "think". At 3am I can convince myself that I am the worst person in the world, crap at my job, bad sister/daughter, a bad dog owner, bad neighbour, etc, etc and this can cause so much distress in me and the more I get sucked into the worse it gets. So as soon as I start "evaluating life" or looking in the mirror too much (and getting miserable cuz I still haven't "lost that few pounds"), either I try to just lock it down - either with some TV/movies or gaming, or I just go straight to bed and pop on a hypnotic track to stop my brain so I can actually sleep. If I am "too far gone" into over worrying, subconsciously I know to reach out to my best friend and she will know if she gets a random message at 11pm that she needs to just chat and convince me to just sleep. Now that my other half lives with me, he can spot the "stressing" even before I become aware it's happening and he will literally put me to bed like a child - tuck in me with my teddy and sit/lie with me until I am either almost asleep or totally gone, or if its actually "bedtime" he will just lie and cuddle me. For anyone who reads this and might think, yea I feel like that. I have the same "problems" at 9am the next morning, but some how they never feel quite so major. I know telling someone to "calm down" and "don't think about it" is as useful as a chocolate teapot when someone has either "official medical level anxiety" or just a personality prone to worrying, but if you can find a way to stop your brain when it is over tired, it really does help! (Think of a toddler in need of a nap - they get super cranky and not in full control of their emotions - when adults get overtired too, their brain and emotions do weird things too!) For me, I just searched "hypnotic sleep" on here and tried a few options before I found a channel that really works for me, now if I feel even a tiny be restless or if work was stressful I pop on a track as soon as a lie down and I don't remember the last time I heard more than the second sentence of it! (This changed from me often spending 3/4/5 hours tossing and turning unable to get my brain to just stop thinking about anything and everything enough to let me sleep!) Thanks Carrie for sharing this - its nice to know that even as you say "the successful people" still have days like this too and Good Luck to Carrie and anyone else
I'm from Australia, and absolutely love you and your vlogs. I Find you so inspiring. it was so comforting when I woke up this morning, as you went to bed yesterday ( haha hard to wrap your head around ) and see that even professionals go through feelings like that. I'm going through a time of questioning my ability, not sure if I should go to performing arts university next year and worried ill embarrass myself. its so good to know that we all go through this and that its something all actors go through. thanks for everything xx ash
I feel like the negativity that we conjure within ourselves is something triggered by the way in which society is - the stereotypes placed onto people are horrible and (from my experience from suffering with anxiety) most of my down days are due to not being within that stereotype .... this video was so relatable on so many levels.
I'm trying my hardest to desensitise myself from peoples opinions too because in the end as long as your happy and the people you care about are too then why should it matter what Mr Stranger on the other side of street or world (on Facebook) think of you. But the storms come and finding the balance between sensible insecurity and just plain putting yourself down is so hard sometimes. I'm trying to learn. It's a big lesson uni has taught me.
We’re all different and we’re all imperfect Carrie, it would be boring if we were perfect and the same as one another. We all love and support you no matter what 💙💙
I’m totally in love with these videos! I really hope you might have the energy to do another one of these ‘series’ I guess again. It’s so fascinating to hear your take on these topics and they’re so chill and cute and funny lol. You’re amazing and ur doing great. I look up to u so much Carrie, god bless u❤️
I’m one of those people that always feels they need to offer some useful advice when my friends are in need, because that is something that always helps me- I really need to learn that sometimes people just want to be listened to, they don’t need advice just a shoulder to lean on.
Thank you for this vulnerability. Not only because you are geniune, wich is great, but also because it is an infinite source of inspiration. Sorry this is a bit cliche but i'm going through some personal things and you've given me hope!
You inspire me so much I love that you show all the sides of yourself even those that may not be your favourite sometimes I think that's so brave. Ps purple is defos your colour💜
I honestly do this regularly. Very rarely will I accept praise because of OCD. I also do the same thing if a show doesn't run perfectly, no matter how miniscule the issue.
Really loving your daily videos! I like how relaxed, chatty and kinda old school YT they are. They really are a nice way of ending my day :) Did you ever thought of doing a podcast this style? Just like a casual chat every now and then about what ever is on your mind, or maybe also prompt based I don't know. I would love to listen to that, because it's relaxing but also because all these videos give me things to think about my own live, which is really nice (like the doughnut and the eggs).
Aww no!! All my love to you and your family! Remember all the awesomeness you shared with him and remember that it WILL get easier as time passes, the memories will become fond again and it will be less painful to think about - remember to allow yourself the time you need to mourn Storm but at the sams time remember to live your best life for Storm 😘 big virtual hugs xxx
Imposter syndrome. I get that a lot and it strikes the hardest when I'm trying to get to sleep. When you're lying there, vulnerable, by yourself. sometimes it's just hard to say no, to switch off and get to sleep so you can reset for tomorrow.
This is exactly how I've been feeling. And I have been yelled at and punched and people get angry because "STOP BEING DEPRESSED. SHUT THOSE VOICED!" But is not easy. Is too damn hard and depression is like all around me. Hugging me tight. But watching this video only makes me feel a wee bit better cuz I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE. So yup, if anyone wants to talk, i'm here. Let's be for each other. I need a friend who won't yell or get angry at me but someone to tell me "yeah that sucks and is valid and ur valid and i feel u but we'll be okay"
My daughter starts her GCSE exams tomorrow, she's been working really hard revising loads and has been feeling quite organised and prepared however this weekend her head has just gone, nope! you can't remember a thing, this is going to be a shit storm, you can't do this! As a parent you want to able to reassure and let your kids know it's going to be ok but the brain and the thoughts/emotions/feelings it creates in that situation is hard to overcome! Like trying to hold a brollie in a storm, its not going to work.
You motivate my passion to be a life coach. Whether you take that as a compliment or an insult, I leave solely up to you. I have been a fan, on and off, for 7 years though ^_^
This happens to me late at night as well. Night time is unhealthy for me, staying up late does me no good, so I try to go to bed before midnight and then everything usually looks better in the morning
I feel this way a lot (I actually just graduated college with honors and couldn't stop crying/panicking because Infelt as if I'd lied to everyone) and it's so...weirdly nice to know that you, someone who has been a big influence on my work ethic since I started watching you in high school, feel the same way too? But, it's easier for me to say this because I admire you, harder for me to follow me own advice 😅, I don't think the idea you mentioned about "crashing back to earth" and feeling those imposter feelings should be earth? You, we, me, everyone, needs to be humble, yes, but we do not have to feel like slugs, or imposters, to do that. That's not what humble is and I'm trying to think of when and why I made feeling miserable my 'earth'. It shouldn't be. Or yours! (Though maybe I just needed a quick meditate in the comments....😅😅💜)
Hi Carrie, I know this was a while ago But I wanted to say how much I appreciate it. I too have those storms of self doubt and I feel your advice was spot on ! Thank you. Lots of love from Nebraska ❤ I saw you in Crown Jewels AMAZING hope to visit The West End and maybe see you, Joel or Scott again soon ❤ PS I am balding and was wondering if you could suggest some reliable wig glue ? I would appreciate any guidance 🙏
When I get a case of the impostor syndrome, I try to remind myself that even Neil Bloody Gaiman gets that sometimes. Sometimes that helps! Also, now that I'm finally living with my husband, I'm so grateful I can go to him and get a hug and a kiss and have that calm in the storm when I need it most!
Incidentally, Carrie, it still says "song from Sierra Burgess is a loser" in the description. Or is that the background music? Just wondering really cos I kinda liked it! Xx
Like I commented on both previous videos: I loved it! And I literally said to my husband: this girl is so incredibly talented. I wish I was 1/10th talented like her. But I understand what you are talking about. At the moment, I feel like such a failure..I am ashamed that I need professional help to get my mental health back on track. I know I shouldn't be. But I often do. It feels exactly like there's a storm inside of me. Conflicting with itself...with me. And I feel guilty because I know there are people who have to go through much worse things or who are much sicker than I am. And then I feel weak. I wish I had such a friend, the one that you were talking about. That would be nice. I hope you've got a few of those! But I think you do and that makes me so happy for you. Hope you're ok, wishing you all the best and I can't wait for the next video! :-) xxxx lots of love straight from Belgium. xxxx
Here's the thing--if you're doing motherhood right, you will never feel like a full-on success. The very nature of caring for a completely dependent human being is that the rules always change and there is never hard and fast rules to follow. You're trying to navigate an insane map that I once thought would make sense when kids got older, but-spoiler-it doesn't. If you're trying your best you'll always 'feel' like a failure becasue there's no one set way to succeed. The only way to keep on is to love (both your child and yourself) as much as possible.
Hi:) people don’t know you’re positive side fully but they do not. Need to... ... I don’t need to know all of you to know that you are a positive force... it only takes a second to see the negative side of someone .... they show that quickly
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Yay i get use one of my favorite quotes for today.
“Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain.”
― Vivian Greene
Torchyc _ Chloe I love that quote 💙
At a really stressful time, these videos are like a daily dose of fresh air for me. Thank you 💙
I love how openly you talk about imposter syndrome and that feeling that you aren't supposed to be doing as well as your doing. It helps me realise that it's a common problem and when I feel like this I'm not alone, it helps me pick myself up and think about the achievements I have made. ❤
Carrie, I know you will never read this but I am writing anyway. I like that you are not afraid to let people see you are not perfect. To many role models only show how glamorous their lives are. In today's world it is refreshing to see someone being honest.
These videos are helping me through my studying rn. I have to say tho, that I also get that Boyce in my head, those storms and when they do show up late at night, I don't entertain them either anymore
Unfortunately, you will never win. If you don't show your vulnerabilities and anxieties then you are "false" and "ungrateful". But if you do show that side of your life then you're "attention seeking" or "overdramatic". I personally seek solace in the knowledge that even those that you aspire to have moments of vulnerability and struggle and I admire your honesty. Just do you 👍🏻
I’ve been absolutely loving these May, myself and I videos. I try to take time out of my day every morning to feel good about myself and look after my mental health. These videos are great for this. I love that you use your platform to be so honest. Thank you♥️
Carrie your amazing, a beautiful and empowering woman! You are enough, more than enough! You are some people’s inspiration, most definitely mine❤️ your brain likes to play games, just remember the storm will pass 💙 have a good day ! Keep being yourself! I’m loving may myself and I ! ❤️
After more than a year of unemployment full of doubt and feeling insecure, I finally go back to work tomorrow. It's with people I know and respect to a job I know I can do amazingly, but I'm still having mixed feelings about leaving the safety of the apartment to venture out again. ..
Rachael Cramer good luck, you'll be great! Taking the first step can be scary but your confidence will come back in time x
@@OneSneakySloth thank you xxx
Hope you had a good first day! Out of the storm into the sunshine you go ☀️
@@elieska I did, I smiled all day ☺ tired from information overload though 😪
@@rae-el-gee That's great to hear! And it sounds totally normal to be a bit overwhelmed :)
Thank you for sharing your storm honestly. I've been working towards making my own channel and the other day I got caught in a similar negative thought spiral, part of which was thinking that I'd never be as good as you, so it's really helpful to know you fight that sometimes too
I can imagine the performing industry igniting more of those 'moments' because there is a peak of judgement in the job you do. Of course we all have bad days and make terrible decisions, it just takes time to overcome that 'moment'! Hope tomorrow goes well! Xxx
I just hit a miserable stormy point and watching this video just brought me back to earth and reminded me that no, I'm not a disaster and yes this feeling will stop so tHANK YOU (honestly it surprises me each time I watch these videos how much they give me life)
thanks for sharing this.
this kind of "brain-storm" hits me often so its an amazing relief to be reminded that others also go through this. Xx
I just felt like crap this past few days and here you are inspiring and making me feel like I'm normal. Thank you Carrie.
Everything you have just said, I needed to hear. Thank you ❤❤
I feel this so much! Constantly at battle with my own storms! But the key thing for me to remember it’s that Storms don’t last, there will always be sunshine after the rain. ♥️
This is what I miss from old Carrie. 💜💜💜You never take sides, your narrative is funny and orderly, always kind and positive. And always have answers on what I also struggle about. Please vlog these type of videos even after May, whenever you have kind sisterly advise.
I just finished a master's degree in history and I go back and forth between being really proud of what I've achieved and of all the work I put in and feeling like my degree couldn't have been that difficult or impressive if even /I/ could do it.
So, it's always encouraging, in a funny way, to hear that other people who seem to have really "made it" also struggle to feel secure in what they've accomplished.
I have storms a lot too, appreciate your vulnerability, and damn right they do suck. I came across your channel many years ago, and I recently refound it again at a time when I really needed some light. Your videos calm and reassure me at my darkest. Appreciate you ❤
Thank you Carrie for being a great person, you have helped me so much!💜
I don’t watch your videos often but occasionally I turn your video on and enjoy your positivity, and great talents! But the “storm” I can relate with, it’s late at night and things build. In the morning you still may think the same things but it’s not as emotional.
Thank you for this video,
You say compliments from a stranger aren’t received with importance, but I’m a person living in Ohio and I enjoy you. I can tell you are driven for the right reasons and are VERY talented.
Much love from Ohio!
I love that you always share how you’re feeling with us both good and bad. I also get that intruding voice creeping in with the “you don’t deserve to be here!” As you said we all feel like that at times. It’s frustrating! But definitely having good friends to just listen can be so comforting! ☺️💖
The past few weeks I have been struggling a little with depression and yesterday morning everything was all good again. I was explaining to my mum that it was like I could finally breath again and be my normal, cheerful self once more because I didn’t have these barrier stopping me. It sucks for everyone who goes through this sort of thing but I really appreciate that you were honest about your experience 😊
Carrie, I get that these feelings will happen but I say this truely. When I found you singing covers of songs I remembered thinking, "Oh her voice is incredible." I am glad that you have shared bits of your life and I am glad you said this because it means you are humble. I am sure you will continue to enjoy life the best you can.
I have nothing but respect for fabulous ladies who can do their makeup standing a ways from a mirror... I have to sit inches away from mine 😂❤️
This is so important. I have struggled with this since I was a kid. Now I know that it has been severe but I didn't reach out for help because I thought it was normal or that I was right. Wish I had had this video years ago. Thank you Carrie!
I need some one for days like this.
Thank you so much for this Carrie! I've struggled over the past couple of years with self doubt in terms of performing and I've always looked up to you. It makes me look up to you even more when you open up like this! So thank you for being so vulnerable! Xoxox
It's so nice to know I'm not the only one who deals with these storms! Especially in pursuing acting where a lot of the time I receive no's to roles I'd really love to have, it's tough t keep going and pushing forward. Thanks so much for your honesty and vulnerability, Carrie - really enjoying this series of videos!
Just had one of those storms a few days ago too. I'm both glad to hear someone else talking about that feeling, and sad that they have to feel it too. But it really is just one of those things-- so I'm glad you're talking about it.
It’s so nice to hear such a talented and established actress feels this way, when you’re starting out you can feel like you’re thinking this because it’s the truth but everyone feels this way at some point, it’s not an indication if your talent, it’s just your negative thoughts being self deprecating
It isn't just you Carrie, my thought spirals are always worst at night as im trying to go to sleep. I can only speak for myself, but during the day I'm more able to 'crack on' and divert my brain from focusing on the anxiety, but at night, in the dark, there aren't any distractions left. And no, it isn't fun at all.
Thank you so much for sharing your real and honest self. It's nice to be reminded that I'm not the only one who feels that way sometimes ❤
Thank you for sharing your storm- I’m currently in the midst of my own and being reminded I’m not alone is very helpful x
Can’t explain how much I’m loving these videos - they’re so real and raw and honest and it’s so refreshing ❤️❤️
Love your shirt.
THANK YOU thank you thank you... it’s so good to hear you talk about this... i needed to hear it
I love how honest you are, you are yourself and you eat whatever you feel like, especially in an industry where weight and looks is so major. You are entitled to your private life and being just you.
With all of the stress and anxiety of final exams, my inner critic's voice feels louder than usual so this video felt like a lovely warm hug. Thank you!!!
Ok I’m loving this series please do it next year but with different promps
I do the same thing sometimes. And at night as well for some reason. Especially when I can’t sleep. Like you said, it’s like a spiral storm of nonsensical negative thoughts. It’s crap. It’s crap for me and it’s crap for you. No matter how hard it rains, don’t let it put out the sun that is your truth.
I had a history of severe anxiety and I now have a personal "rule" (and close friends and my other half know about this) that after 10pm I am not allowed to "think". At 3am I can convince myself that I am the worst person in the world, crap at my job, bad sister/daughter, a bad dog owner, bad neighbour, etc, etc and this can cause so much distress in me and the more I get sucked into the worse it gets. So as soon as I start "evaluating life" or looking in the mirror too much (and getting miserable cuz I still haven't "lost that few pounds"), either I try to just lock it down - either with some TV/movies or gaming, or I just go straight to bed and pop on a hypnotic track to stop my brain so I can actually sleep. If I am "too far gone" into over worrying, subconsciously I know to reach out to my best friend and she will know if she gets a random message at 11pm that she needs to just chat and convince me to just sleep. Now that my other half lives with me, he can spot the "stressing" even before I become aware it's happening and he will literally put me to bed like a child - tuck in me with my teddy and sit/lie with me until I am either almost asleep or totally gone, or if its actually "bedtime" he will just lie and cuddle me.
For anyone who reads this and might think, yea I feel like that. I have the same "problems" at 9am the next morning, but some how they never feel quite so major. I know telling someone to "calm down" and "don't think about it" is as useful as a chocolate teapot when someone has either "official medical level anxiety" or just a personality prone to worrying, but if you can find a way to stop your brain when it is over tired, it really does help! (Think of a toddler in need of a nap - they get super cranky and not in full control of their emotions - when adults get overtired too, their brain and emotions do weird things too!) For me, I just searched "hypnotic sleep" on here and tried a few options before I found a channel that really works for me, now if I feel even a tiny be restless or if work was stressful I pop on a track as soon as a lie down and I don't remember the last time I heard more than the second sentence of it! (This changed from me often spending 3/4/5 hours tossing and turning unable to get my brain to just stop thinking about anything and everything enough to let me sleep!) Thanks Carrie for sharing this - its nice to know that even as you say "the successful people" still have days like this too and Good Luck to Carrie and anyone else
I'm from Australia, and absolutely love you and your vlogs. I Find you so inspiring. it was so comforting when I woke up this morning, as you went to bed yesterday ( haha hard to wrap your head around ) and see that even professionals go through feelings like that. I'm going through a time of questioning my ability, not sure if I should go to performing arts university next year and worried ill embarrass myself. its so good to know that we all go through this and that its something all actors go through. thanks for everything xx ash
I feel like the negativity that we conjure within ourselves is something triggered by the way in which society is - the stereotypes placed onto people are horrible and (from my experience from suffering with anxiety) most of my down days are due to not being within that stereotype .... this video was so relatable on so many levels.
These videos are my favorite thing during the day.. it’s so calming and simple :’)
I'm trying my hardest to desensitise myself from peoples opinions too because in the end as long as your happy and the people you care about are too then why should it matter what Mr Stranger on the other side of street or world (on Facebook) think of you. But the storms come and finding the balance between sensible insecurity and just plain putting yourself down is so hard sometimes. I'm trying to learn. It's a big lesson uni has taught me.
We’re all different and we’re all imperfect Carrie, it would be boring if we were perfect and the same as one another. We all love and support you no matter what 💙💙
I’m totally in love with these videos! I really hope you might have the energy to do another one of these ‘series’ I guess again. It’s so fascinating to hear your take on these topics and they’re so chill and cute and funny lol. You’re amazing and ur doing great. I look up to u so much Carrie, god bless u❤️
I’m one of those people that always feels they need to offer some useful advice when my friends are in need, because that is something that always helps me- I really need to learn that sometimes people just want to be listened to, they don’t need advice just a shoulder to lean on.
Thank you for this vulnerability. Not only because you are geniune, wich is great, but also because it is an infinite source of inspiration. Sorry this is a bit cliche but i'm going through some personal things and you've given me hope!
You inspire me so much I love that you show all the sides of yourself even those that may not be your favourite sometimes I think that's so brave.
Ps purple is defos your colour💜
I love may my self and I 😍💕
Bella Shewan i feel like i like it’s all based around one word and Carrie is sharing her thoughts. It’s a nice series. 🙂
these videos are so calming and relaxing
Proud of you Carrie xxx
You're so down to earth, keep these videos going on forever
I both love and hate that someone as amazing and talented as you could still doubt themselves
I watched the whole video thinking Put the empty toilet rolls in the bin! Xx
Maybe Tom and Gi collect them to do crafts with the boys.
I saw them and thought thank God my house isn't the only one! hahaa
It really is refreshing to see a video like this. I think our insecurities make us more beautiful, and honest ❤
Thank you for being so genuine and honest. 💜
I honestly do this regularly. Very rarely will I accept praise because of OCD. I also do the same thing if a show doesn't run perfectly, no matter how miniscule the issue.
Really loving your daily videos! I like how relaxed, chatty and kinda old school YT they are. They really are a nice way of ending my day :) Did you ever thought of doing a podcast this style? Just like a casual chat every now and then about what ever is on your mind, or maybe also prompt based I don't know. I would love to listen to that, because it's relaxing but also because all these videos give me things to think about my own live, which is really nice (like the doughnut and the eggs).
Thank you so much for "Success isn't a free pass to happiness." It's going to help my own imposter syndrome quite a lot. 💙
I have severe anxiety disorder so I'm very familiar with these kind of storms. Sending love
So surprised no one has made already pun about how this video is about storms but the only storm I see trooper in the background! ;)
Uh,love this series
Todays word makes me think of my cat Storm who unexpectedly passed away today. I'm gonna miss him so much!
Aww no!! All my love to you and your family! Remember all the awesomeness you shared with him and remember that it WILL get easier as time passes, the memories will become fond again and it will be less painful to think about - remember to allow yourself the time you need to mourn Storm but at the sams time remember to live your best life for Storm 😘 big virtual hugs xxx
@@StarshipRanger93 that's such a sweet message, thank you so much 💞
@@nicky8379 😘😘 no worries
How was your day today? Xx
Imposter syndrome. I get that a lot and it strikes the hardest when I'm trying to get to sleep. When you're lying there, vulnerable, by yourself. sometimes it's just hard to say no, to switch off and get to sleep so you can reset for tomorrow.
Honestly if Carrie has those kinds of insecurities it both gives me hope and absolutely shakes me to my very core
Carrie you are amazing we as hopefuls love you 💖
This is exactly how I've been feeling. And I have been yelled at and punched and people get angry because "STOP BEING DEPRESSED. SHUT THOSE VOICED!" But is not easy. Is too damn hard and depression is like all around me. Hugging me tight. But watching this video only makes me feel a wee bit better cuz I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE. So yup, if anyone wants to talk, i'm here. Let's be for each other. I need a friend who won't yell or get angry at me but someone to tell me "yeah that sucks and is valid and ur valid and i feel u but we'll be okay"
I love you Carrie❤️ if read this I will be so happy 😊 and you played veroncia soo good but I never got to see it. I've seen some clips
Don't believe everything you think. Thoughts are just that - thoughts.
-Allan Lokos
some times you’ve just got to just say nooooo 🎶 just in time 😂
My daughter starts her GCSE exams tomorrow, she's been working really hard revising loads and has been feeling quite organised and prepared however this weekend her head has just gone, nope! you can't remember a thing, this is going to be a shit storm, you can't do this!
As a parent you want to able to reassure and let your kids know it's going to be ok but the brain and the thoughts/emotions/feelings it creates in that situation is hard to overcome!
Like trying to hold a brollie in a storm, its not going to work.
A video a day, I feel blessed 💚
Ahhh your so pretty!
You motivate my passion to be a life coach. Whether you take that as a compliment or an insult, I leave solely up to you. I have been a fan, on and off, for 7 years though ^_^
This happens to me late at night as well. Night time is unhealthy for me, staying up late does me no good, so I try to go to bed before midnight and then everything usually looks better in the morning
Can you please do your daily makeup tutorial!! Makeup is stunning on you!! 👍💜
You are amazing with the best job ever
Your videos help me so much💕
Love you Carrie😘
Honestly 5k in 40 minutes is VERY fucking good since you didnt start too long ago. Well done! 💜💛
I get this a lot
We all have our down days😊💙
I feel this way a lot (I actually just graduated college with honors and couldn't stop crying/panicking because Infelt as if I'd lied to everyone) and it's so...weirdly nice to know that you, someone who has been a big influence on my work ethic since I started watching you in high school, feel the same way too? But, it's easier for me to say this because I admire you, harder for me to follow me own advice 😅, I don't think the idea you mentioned about "crashing back to earth" and feeling those imposter feelings should be earth? You, we, me, everyone, needs to be humble, yes, but we do not have to feel like slugs, or imposters, to do that. That's not what humble is and I'm trying to think of when and why I made feeling miserable my 'earth'. It shouldn't be. Or yours! (Though maybe I just needed a quick meditate in the comments....😅😅💜)
Lol, I was watching this video whilst taking off my makeup. Felt like you were just in the bathroom with me having a chat 😂
Hi Carrie, I know this was a while ago But I wanted to say how much I appreciate it. I too have those storms of self doubt and I feel your advice was spot on ! Thank you. Lots of love from Nebraska ❤ I saw you in Crown Jewels AMAZING hope to visit The West End and maybe see you, Joel or Scott again soon ❤ PS I am balding and was wondering if you could suggest some reliable wig glue ? I would appreciate any guidance 🙏
When I get a case of the impostor syndrome, I try to remind myself that even Neil Bloody Gaiman gets that sometimes. Sometimes that helps!
Also, now that I'm finally living with my husband, I'm so grateful I can go to him and get a hug and a kiss and have that calm in the storm when I need it most!
Remember you are incredible as a person and actress it’s ok we have really crap days
Woop woop! Well done on the 5k! But please check that you’ve got the right running shoes and technique for your ankle
I wish I watched this last night.
Incidentally, Carrie, it still says "song from Sierra Burgess is a loser" in the description. Or is that the background music? Just wondering really cos I kinda liked it! Xx
Like I commented on both previous videos: I loved it! And I literally said to my husband: this girl is so incredibly talented. I wish I was 1/10th talented like her. But I understand what you are talking about. At the moment, I feel like such a failure..I am ashamed that I need professional help to get my mental health back on track. I know I shouldn't be. But I often do. It feels exactly like there's a storm inside of me. Conflicting with itself...with me. And I feel guilty because I know there are people who have to go through much worse things or who are much sicker than I am. And then I feel weak.
I wish I had such a friend, the one that you were talking about. That would be nice. I hope you've got a few of those! But I think you do and that makes me so happy for you. Hope you're ok, wishing you all the best and I can't wait for the next video! :-) xxxx lots of love straight from Belgium. xxxx
i was waiting for the purple-ish lipstick! aww haha. you look lovely in purple (lilac?) kisses!
I experience this as a mother. I feel like a failure and a fraud all. the. Time.
Here's the thing--if you're doing motherhood right, you will never feel like a full-on success. The very nature of caring for a completely dependent human being is that the rules always change and there is never hard and fast rules to follow. You're trying to navigate an insane map that I once thought would make sense when kids got older, but-spoiler-it doesn't. If you're trying your best you'll always 'feel' like a failure becasue there's no one set way to succeed. The only way to keep on is to love (both your child and yourself) as much as possible.
carrie, THANK YOU FOR POSTING ITS BEEN THE SHITTIEST DAY I LOVE YOU
Its my birthday and Im so happy you posted this haha
Happy birthday!
Hi:) people don’t know you’re positive side fully but they do not. Need to... ... I don’t need to know all of you to know that you are a positive force... it only takes a second to see the negative side of someone .... they show that quickly
Agreed
Impostor syndrome... the bane of every true creative.