honestly, i genuinely think it's okay to prefer wearing your 4c hair out once it gets to the length that is flattering. i think it is self preservation, honestly. we know how society is. why do black women (specifically ALWAS dark skinned black women) always have to be the strong, confident unshakeable pillars of strength? aren't we woman too? don't we get to be fragile and insecure as well? by all means, wear your natural hair of course - i am growing mine out right now. but im so over this implication that there's something wrong with you if you choose not to wear yours out until a certain length - or at all. the hair industry is a billion dollar industry. black women are not the only ones who wear wigs. but because of the shaming of our hair texture, it is assumed that we do, have you noticed that? sometimes, you just like the hair style! sometimes you want the blonde lace without bleaching your real hair! i have also noticed that when someone has a looser shinier hair texture, the comments, from other black people are like "you don't need to wear a wig" implying that there is a demographic that does. my point is, this entire topic is fraught, and i don't care what another woman has on her head. honestly.
Thanks for watching and commenting. I just want to say that I don’t believe because a woman does not wear her natural hair or even has processed hair that she does not like her hair. That is not what I mean at all. However, it also does not mean that there aren’t some women who don’t like their hair as I was such a woman. I’m coming from the point of a woman who so happens to be African (as you can see even my comparisons were black/African woman who had hair of a certain length or texture). What I want to focus on is to love my hair in the present and its process. I didn’t want to wait for a future of waist length hair to take pride in my hair. I knew the thoughts I had about my hair in my heart and they were not thoughts of self - love. Finally, please wear the extensions, wear the wigs, dye the hair and relax it if you want. Have fun with your hair. Wearing your hair out is not the only way to appreciate your hair; but for me that was the route I needed to take. That joy about my wigs and braids that I have; I wanted that joy for my hair too and this was the way I found to achieve it.
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honestly, i genuinely think it's okay to prefer wearing your 4c hair out once it gets to the length that is flattering. i think it is self preservation, honestly. we know how society is. why do black women (specifically ALWAS dark skinned black women) always have to be the strong, confident unshakeable pillars of strength? aren't we woman too? don't we get to be fragile and insecure as well? by all means, wear your natural hair of course - i am growing mine out right now. but im so over this implication that there's something wrong with you if you choose not to wear yours out until a certain length - or at all. the hair industry is a billion dollar industry. black women are not the only ones who wear wigs. but because of the shaming of our hair texture, it is assumed that we do, have you noticed that? sometimes, you just like the hair style! sometimes you want the blonde lace without bleaching your real hair! i have also noticed that when someone has a looser shinier hair texture, the comments, from other black people are like "you don't need to wear a wig" implying that there is a demographic that does. my point is, this entire topic is fraught, and i don't care what another woman has on her head. honestly.
Thanks for watching and commenting. I just want to say that I don’t believe because a woman does not wear her natural hair or even has processed hair that she does not like her hair. That is not what I mean at all.
However, it also does not mean that there aren’t some women who don’t like their hair as I was such a woman. I’m coming from the point of a woman who so happens to be African (as you can see even my comparisons were black/African woman who had hair of a certain length or texture).
What I want to focus on is to love my hair in the present and its process. I didn’t want to wait for a future of waist length hair to take pride in my hair. I knew the thoughts I had about my hair in my heart and they were not thoughts of self - love. Finally, please wear the extensions, wear the wigs, dye the hair and relax it if you want. Have fun with your hair. Wearing your hair out is not the only way to appreciate your hair; but for me that was the route I needed to take. That joy about my wigs and braids that I have; I wanted that joy for my hair too and this was the way I found to achieve it.