Knowing When to Let Go // The Nona Jones Show // Episode 3
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
- In this episode of Nona Jones, Nona will share lessons she has learned about how and when to let go after being disappointed by people and/or situations.
00:00 Introduction
00:42 Welcome
01:54 Cherry-picked scriptures used to justify remaining in dysfunction
07:33 There comes a time to let go
08:11 Why we subject ourselves to rejection
08:29 When I knew it was time to let go of the relationship with my mom
10:36 Coming to terms with the situation
12:08 Requirements of a healthy relationship
13:02 The difference between an apology and repentance
14:47 Walking away from jobs I loved
18:10 When things get uncomfortable professionally
20:30 When to let go of friendships
22:43 When to drop a romantic relationship
26:06 The process for letting go
27:43 Step 1: Accept the need to let go
28:31 What motivates them to change? Your presence, or threat of absence?
29:16 Step 2: Explore why you stayed in the first place
30:47 Step 3: Forgive the person for hurting you
32:21 Step 4: Communicate your decision without malice
34:49 Closing & Prayer
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I’m Cancer Stage 4 Free for over 12 years now Glory to Jesus who can do it
Praise God
Hallelujah!!!! 🎉🎉🎉 Glory to God!!!! WE THANK YOU JESUS!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🎉🎉💃🏽💃🏽
"There's a huge difference between an Apology and Repentance" so profound
EVERYTHING I needed. Thank you for being obedient and creating this platform.
1. Accept the need to let go
2. Explore why you stayed so long
3. Forgive the person for hurting you.
4. Share your reasons for disconnect without malice intent.
Psalm 68:5
Blessings to you.
I'm currently toiling whether or not to let go of 29 years of marriage. I explored my reason for staying and it was because I liked the institute of marriage and I wanted to be wanted. I believe there is better, I just need to strengthn and courage to get to the other side of this transition instead of staying in the famililar dysfunction.
Your story about your mom makes me feel so heard! I am in the same situation❤. Thank you for sharing it.
Me too, same situation with my mom.🙏🏽
"Forgiveness is necessary because it frees your future from the pain of the past" Nona Jones
This was timely.
My brothers and sisters, please help me pray to let go of the pain I feel after being treated unfairly by someone I truly love.
People don't see heartbreak as a big deal, but it has a way of disturbing your very existence. Even more so when you thought you had found your person.
For anyone in a similar situation, I pray God heals your heart and brings you restoration ❤
Powerful message, Glory to God , Amen Amen , Amen.
Thank you so much for being so transparent about your relationship with your Mom ~ Just so you know God is using you to bring healing, hope and wisdom to those who are having the same struggles God has already delivered you from to bring healing and freedom to us.😭🙏 Thank you Nona ❤ HUGS ❤️
Thaaaaaaaank Abba God for yur commitment and sharing this video. I just told a dear friend that I don’t trust me to stay away from my mother whom I adore who does not want a relationship with me. I had to walk away from her on my birthday Feb this year. But I also told her that I have a funni feelin that I am no longer willing to ignore the truth. And because I had the courage to speak these truthz PappaGod brought me this video the very next day. Thaaaaaank yu Nona soooo much. I saw yu in person at Faithful Central last year and I was never the same.❤❤❤❤❤
I really needed to hear this today. I’m Autistic and I have trouble working out boundaries and when to let go. I did have to let a friend go a number of years ago because they were not putting the effort in and basically lied to police around something that happened to me. They were also autistic and I think the hardest part is learning even sometimes just because a person is disabled doesn’t immune them from intentionally hurting people as well.
Thank you for truth and vulnerability🫂 I’m in Chapter 9 of “Killing Comparisons” and it has been LIFE CHANGING!! Thank GOD for you!!! I love you sister 🙏🏾💫
Such an important message. Letting go is sometimes the hardest part of life.
Amen and thank you 😊🙏🏾❤️
My husband is a serious cheater and I can’t anymore. My heart is broken and I am slowly dying. We have two children and I don’t want them growing up thinking this is okay. I am trying to let go.
His cheating has nothing to do with you. It’s him. When a man cheats he’s essentially cheating on himself. I don’t want you to ever believe that you’re not enough because you are. It’s something deep down in him. You can’t and shouldn’t fix him. Love yourself enough to make that ultimate decision. Of course pray about it. But, once a cheater unfortunately they are habitual offenders. And God doesn’t even like that remember you are Gods daughter. That means you are a princess/queen. Never forget that. Again it’s not being the others are better it’s because he can’t heal his true trauma and now has all off the soul ties/demons on him. If you decide to leave never tell another man you were abused or Cheated on. Always say you were treated the best.
Wow, I am uncomfortable in both my fairly recent new job and new relationship. I was literally just texting my friend that things shifted last night and not in a good way. This has been on repeat, and I keep attempting to work at it. But I find myself in this cyclical unhealthy stall. Thank you. Lord give me the strength to properly handle these dynamic.
This is so good and so timely that I had to go back and watch again from the 20 minutes mark. I recently broke up with my friend of 19 years, and this was confirmation that it was time to let go 🙏🙌❤️
Thank you so much. This was so good and something that I really needed to hear today.
My God this spoke to me!!! I wanted to be badly "wanted". I was the one carrying the relationship!
Thank you, my sister. For being so vulnerable and sharing so many important pointers. Thank God for you and your love to bless the people of God.
This was all some GEMS💎👑 Thank you, Lord.
So good and so needed in this season of my life!!! Thank you woman of God!!❤
Thank you for sharing this. I am walking this very thing out. I thank God for going through this because it taught me a lot about myself.
The reality is there are alot of guys out here that are spiritually empty but continue to function in society. I know a guy currently on several social media sites posting relationship advice with Bible scriptures. This individual wears a wedding ring to keep up a good man image. What he is not doing is being transparent & disclosing that the woman he was with walked out & left him months ago & that he's dating multiple women. Transparency is key! Ladies, don't allow a male to sell you dreams & smoke screens! Walk away from situations that don't feel right or serve your best interest. God already validated you, no other validation needed.
Nona, this is so true. My husband and I were just talking about this very subject. This is true enlightenment. Deep, keep it coming.
Hi Nona, your relationship with your mom is similar to my relationship with my sister, but my mom died, and I had to move in with that sister. I love her genuinely, but that love isn't returned. I don't have the financial means to leave, so I am stuck and feel like a burden even though I help a lot. I've prayed and prayed, but what if this is my wilderness? God bless you!
Oh, Nona.... thank you 🌬🙏🏽💙
A great topic delivered beautifully. Thank you.
thank you Ms. Nona 💛
This was good. I must be in relationships with people who are willing to change because I'm present rather than change because I'll leave. That's it right there
This was good and right on time.
😊😊😊😊 thanks for sharing your testimonial Pastor Nona Jones 😊😊😊
Thank you so much this was just for me im going through all what was said God spoke directly through you to me
Thank you for this series
To God be Thy Glory ❤️🤗🙏🙏 Thank You Father for everything you do for Us 🙏🙏🗣️🗣️📛📛✅✅😇😇🌈🌈 Amen 😇 Amen 😇
Thank you!! This message is confirmation in so many ways! Healing the mother wound is so hard but so necessary. So many people try to guilt trip me into putting my feelings aside and nurturing a relationship with my mother… oh but they don’t know my story… and they don’t realize they are teaching children who eventually become adults that it’s okay to accept toxic behavior, people and relationships!
Praying for all of us trying to heal our mother wound and let go❤️🩹!
Yes Ma'am... Amen❤❤👍🏾🙌🏿
So well done and said Nona,
Thank you ❤
I needed this. This is such great timing♥️🙌
This is soooo good! I needed to hear this Nona🙏🏽😊
Thank you. This is such an on time word for me ❤
*Yes, I understand.*
Thank you so much for sharing.
So Powerful Thank U!
Thanks nona
Thanks Amen❤🙏🙌
“If you DO that’s called a crash” was hilarious!!!
Thank you for sharing ❤
Again say, oh Nona.... you're a God send for this conversation. 🌬🙏🏽💙
Amen
Thank you
You are truly an answer to my prayers. Thank you very much!❤️
Thank you so much! Such a blessing. I felt peace and clarity listening to you
1.) accept you need to let go
2.) explore why you stayed
3.) forgive the person
4.) communicate your decision to that person without malice
You can apologize and try to make it right but some people are emotionally committed to their own version of history, and they are not safe.
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These tips. This conversation is none we’ve not heard before. We have to BELIEVE AND DO THE TIPS.
Get into the WORD. Believe GOD’S TRUTH.
An apology is about relieving our feelings of guilt, but we repent when we don’t want to hurt a person anymore.
Huge heart and need to be more direct... 🙏🏽
omg where you been all my life
*The experience.*
Nona what about marriage relationships!
I've kept quiet to my spouse for betrayal infidelity and am praying for breakthrough is it possible that am sinning coz I need stand still and wait upon salvation of GOD IS it the right direction
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I love u
My goodness....
Does this message apply to marriage? Explain: toxic and abusive. A lot of church leaders say to stay.
Hello, do you happen to have a book?
I just found you
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Spiritual Narcissism.
Spiritual bypassing...🧎🏾♀️