Before You Gossip, Watch This

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 เม.ย. 2020
  • Have you ever watched the negative chain reaction gossiping can create? Jay Shetty warns that gossiping and complaining create negativity in your life and the lives of those around you. The more negative you are now, the more negative your life is likely to be in the future.
    Watch the full video to learn the truth about how gossiping can negatively affect your relationships, your attitude, and even your brain! If you don’t want to hear gossip about yourself, stop gossiping about others.
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ความคิดเห็น • 271

  • @AndreyZenperial
    @AndreyZenperial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I don’t care about anyone gossiping about me. I’m grinding my youth away, putting real hours into what I am truly passionate about and what I believe will turn into a massive success for me

  • @Bitachon
    @Bitachon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Who thinks people gossip because they are jealous?

  • @vincentkingsdale8334

    I absolutely hate gossip....i used to participate in it, and realize how bad it is.....when you call someone out on their gossipping, they get very defensive and hold a grudge

  • @AlexKashie
    @AlexKashie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    The world will be a better place if people could just focus on their own lives!

  • @TanvirAhmed24
    @TanvirAhmed24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    People gossip. People are insecure, so they talk about other people so that they won’t be talked about. They point out flaws in other people to make them feel good about themselves. Do you agree?

  • @suriish3re
    @suriish3re 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is why I stopped gossiping. What happens in somebody else's life has nothing to do with me in the first place

  • @justanothersoul2245
    @justanothersoul2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    A gossip ends at the wise person's ears

  • @keytounlocksuccess2538
    @keytounlocksuccess2538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Rightly said: "If we dont want to hear gossip about us, first we should stop gossiping about others..." And those who gossip to us will gossip about us too.

  • @ydali898
    @ydali898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    We’re harsh towards others because we’re harsh towards ourselves. Society places ridiculous expectations on us and we fail to meet them of course so we tear ourselves down and in turn do the same towards others. Someone who is full of self-love and in a positive place wouldn’t gossip about others.

  • @archanahnagan2329
    @archanahnagan2329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Its so true. Karma is there. And i think there is no neccesity for anyone to gossip about other people. Life is short. Lets just spread only love😊

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    “Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, weak minds discuss people.”

  • @QuotesDailyBook
    @QuotesDailyBook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Don't share your weakness with anyone

  • @akshayanimesh
    @akshayanimesh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    All I know and believe is WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND 💔❤️💔🙏🌞

  • @SadafHeals
    @SadafHeals 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I totally relate to this! I used to have toxic colleagues and friends who were gossiping and i knew they did but had to be around them as I didn’t know what to do. It affected my mental health so much! Since I became self aware and started loving myself, my life has changed completely ❤️🙏🏻

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    You never know what the other one is going through 💕 show respect and kindness to everyone no matter who they are. Kindness will always take us further

  • @wandalee5010
    @wandalee5010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I heard an amazingly positive thing about “good gossip” from a child psychologist on a TH-cam video, he said after you praise someone (a child) let them overhear you whispering about their good accomplishment to someone else, even if you are pretending on the phone. Overhearing gossip is three times more powerful both negatively and positively than someone telling you something straight to your face. So let’s all try to spread good words about others to others, build each other up instead of tearing them down, life is hard enough without adding to it by intentionally hurting others.

  • @sanprovictory3513
    @sanprovictory3513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i stopped gossiping for years.. gossipping is useless.. use our energy to do the right and healthy things.. GBU all

  • @coloringwithpatwilson1506
    @coloringwithpatwilson1506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I've been told that when we talk negatively about someone we are really talking about ourselves.

  • @shrutigupta250
    @shrutigupta250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The most amazing thing is that I never indulged in gossiping until the last year. I shifted and the people around me changed. I participated in gossiping to mix in or just to fit in. Everyone was so into it. I remember one of my 'friends' telling me how she loved gossiping and I thought that was just weird...I mean, who openly says that they love gossiping?

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    We live in the technological era so no one can escape the digital footprint.