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  • @Storyoffreddit
    @Storyoffreddit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35571

    “We’re pretty discreet” * goes an a TH-cam channel with 10 million subs

    • @bakbak2031
      @bakbak2031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      LMAOOOOOO

    • @najwarae8640
      @najwarae8640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I CANT BREATHE😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂 stop thats tooooo hilarious

    • @adityabaruah2179
      @adityabaruah2179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🤣🤣

    • @praxym9293
      @praxym9293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sauravsingh-mu9ib
      @sauravsingh-mu9ib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yeah, for 500 dollars each 😂

  • @NomNomGirl1
    @NomNomGirl1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31965

    "When our friends' ask we can say we're just hanging out."
    Their friends watching this: 👁👄👁

    • @LXW-Arts
      @LXW-Arts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      You're almost there buddy just a few more likes. And you will be at your goal of 1k.

    • @jaidenarias5912
      @jaidenarias5912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Do you want to talk/learn about God and Jesus? God and Jesus both love you and can help you with whatever you may be going through!

    • @lilybrochu-roy5114
      @lilybrochu-roy5114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@jaidenarias5912 what..?

    • @zarrarkhan6964
      @zarrarkhan6964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@lilybrochu-roy5114 thats how jesus works

    • @NomNomGirl1
      @NomNomGirl1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LXW-Arts I hit it

  • @linktheeartist
    @linktheeartist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3781

    As soon as he said he was with another women she started interrogating him. She is in love and this comment section can't see it. He's living his best life and she's saying what she thinks he wants to hear

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      He did the same and lied. I mean the whole thing of who's prettier, who was she, and the relationship questions... he was lying the whole time just to try not to come across as a douche.

    • @eljhin1
      @eljhin1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@dudeorduuude5211 how would you know that he’s lying

    • @shadowmancruse2313
      @shadowmancruse2313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      @@eljhin1 He's 100% lying, he even said "what do you expect me to say" when she asked most guys wouldn't say a girl is ugly if they're having sex or in a relationship with them, that would be dumb. Plus the fact she's being tripled booked constantly, and she's the prettiest, no shot she's going to be triple booked.

    • @kiljaeden5405
      @kiljaeden5405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      FWB favors the guy immensely, I sure would make it last as long as possible

    • @1fromoutside
      @1fromoutside 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      her being jealous doesn't mean she's in love

  • @MarkPheonix
    @MarkPheonix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    I see why a lot of y’all get ya feelings hurt if you think this dude is into her the way she’s into him

    • @sediksabi-ifon3269
      @sediksabi-ifon3269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I dont think he wants more than sex tbh

    • @MarkPheonix
      @MarkPheonix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@PrincePetti exactly. They convince themselves of something else and shocked when they end up realizing they’ve been played

    • @jessivickers3828
      @jessivickers3828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mann I pre that. Especially at the love and bby part. That seal it for me, that dude is awful like his moustache

    • @tyhilt2645
      @tyhilt2645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I swear 😂

    • @hahah822
      @hahah822 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr, you are rgiht my dude she is way more into him and the dude looks like he just wants sex

  • @am-wr6ws
    @am-wr6ws 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16329

    "are you afraid of commitment?"
    "i would say yes and no"
    ironic

    • @joel_bio
      @joel_bio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      not ironic, really the opposite, apt.

    • @matthewfidler
      @matthewfidler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I was looking for this

    • @cassiamegan23
      @cassiamegan23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +200

      Can't even commit to an answer smh

    • @beerzz8345
      @beerzz8345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruv

    • @VictorMainaKinuthia
      @VictorMainaKinuthia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Best comment

  • @Dr-Zoid-Berserk
    @Dr-Zoid-Berserk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28532

    Him whispering “why” when she wouldn’t answer why she doesn’t want to be a real couple was painful.
    Dude wants love, not just the V.

    • @TA12002
      @TA12002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +612

      if he wanted a girlfriend, he would’ve had one

    • @iMusikkForeva
      @iMusikkForeva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +997

      No, he flakes on her all the time lol. If he wanted her, he’d have her

    • @LXW-Arts
      @LXW-Arts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +236

      She didn't say if she had sex with someone. He answer the question. But she didn't

    • @jaidenarias5912
      @jaidenarias5912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Do you want to talk/learn about God and Jesus? God and Jesus both love you and can help you with whatever you may be going through!

    • @rbarajas86
      @rbarajas86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +327

      @@jaidenarias5912 amen brotha but what's that gotta do with anything here? Lol I don't believe throwing your beliefs out in a comment section actually helps anyone want to know about Jesus 🤣👍🏼

  • @beau9956
    @beau9956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    2:11
    Him "are you afraid of commitment?"
    Her "I would say yes and no honestly"
    Bro, its a yes, she couldn't even commit herself to an answer LOL!

  • @Usenabt
    @Usenabt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    That dude is a menace! He knows how to sound interested enough in her, for other answers he gives which are clearly him not being interested in her. She’s caught feelings but doesn’t wanna look like a clown 🤡

  • @chaozgaminginc2030
    @chaozgaminginc2030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33906

    He definitely wants to be with her just following her vibes

    • @StevieB93
      @StevieB93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +642

      He needs to be the leader. Following her would get him nowhere.

    • @CASHHUNNIDS
      @CASHHUNNIDS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +421

      On god dis nigga ain’t cracking da code

    • @alexarkadios9108
      @alexarkadios9108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +407

      @@StevieB93 if he’s the leader, he will lose her. Fwb only works if both are leading

    • @giana6068
      @giana6068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@CASHHUNNIDS 😭😭😭

    • @coltonkleins
      @coltonkleins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@StevieB93 it get him jnto her pants

  • @awarepenguin3376
    @awarepenguin3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10813

    Can it lead to more?
    Him: Yes
    Her: Maybe
    Him: Maybe

    • @madhurima7174
      @madhurima7174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +552

      that was so painful, lol

    • @christopherrio9800
      @christopherrio9800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +328

      😅 thats the first clue that the guy is really into her...

    • @hi-nq5mm
      @hi-nq5mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      he was already looking at her because he's into it and wants her opinion

    • @h3llboyyy407
      @h3llboyyy407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Why are we saying that was painful? He was just being nice by saying it first.

    • @maartenvanvliet9411
      @maartenvanvliet9411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The yes wasnt that convincing tho

  • @Aqwtiny
    @Aqwtiny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +594

    Comments saying he’s so into her but mans said “abortion, then we don’t have sex again” and shorty said “but it’ll bring us together” 💀

    • @verawong3323
      @verawong3323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      everyone in the comments are delusional af lmfaoooo

    • @AllAboutPurple
      @AllAboutPurple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Found decent comment lmao! He does not want her period. Whole video is cringe.

    • @operationsearchgate3072
      @operationsearchgate3072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abortion for sureeee

    • @liug_yiuh
      @liug_yiuh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This saying from her part shows how damaged she is. Why need a child s murder help you get closer to someone? And it is obvious if the girl reads the comments section she ll might leave. She is scared of opening up.

    • @acasualdatascientist54
      @acasualdatascientist54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yeah you are the only one who sees it for what it is, too many hollywood deluded bimbos on youtube, she is clearly his option C

  • @antoinealez12
    @antoinealez12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1683

    Jesus Christ a lot of yall in the comment section are going to end up into extremely one-sided relationships if you think for one second that this guy is into this girl. Just watch how invested she was in wanting to know who he hooked up with. She didn't want to answer the relationship question because, he already said he would prefer an abortion if she got pregnant, and he's hooked up with other people.

    • @ooonyxxx
      @ooonyxxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      Thanks You! These people saying that BS are definitely a bunch of teens who are doomed to get played later on in life lmao

    • @bigbro6446
      @bigbro6446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Especially look at her face when he describes the novelty of how friends can become lovers, it’s a fantasy for her and he’s just pulling her along all while he cancels plans with her often.

    • @louera
      @louera 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      I came from aba and preach's video too to confirm if the girl seemed to me what what it seemed to them. I would say, generally, women will always ask men if they find the other people they dated attractive even if it has no consequence to the relationship because a.) they just want to confirm the fact that they're attractive, or b.) they're feeding into their self-hatred by comparing themselves with other women if the opposite is true. The media is always pitting girls against each other, and all women have that self-loathing to a point thanks to society's stringent beauty standards of women. The girl in the video is hotter than most, so it's likely she would be more attractive than the other girl he dated.

    • @Alecexo
      @Alecexo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly

    • @kuroneko8343
      @kuroneko8343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      I was so confused by the comments like its obvious he isn't as into her. He just knows how to play the game and doesn't wanna lose what he gets out of the relationship.

  • @ssttraining962
    @ssttraining962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20950

    His honesty, is admirable.

    • @silas6173
      @silas6173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +613

      That comma, is unnecessary.

    • @thatkidkgosi
      @thatkidkgosi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@silas6173 not really

    • @silas6173
      @silas6173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      @@thatkidkgosi A pause in speech does not always equate to a comma, sorry to break it to ya

    • @harmit6924
      @harmit6924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@silas6173 How would one signify pause in a speech then?

    • @silas6173
      @silas6173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@harmit6924 Sometimes we are limited with language. Grammar rules are often flexible, but not THAT flexible. Also I think I should make it clear that I’m just joking with the original commenter and trying to be pedantic.

  • @charys556
    @charys556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41725

    They so obviously like each other, it’s actually adorable

    • @iris-xo
      @iris-xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1560

      Ikr and they’re both scared to commit 😭😫

    • @jaidenarias5912
      @jaidenarias5912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      Do you want to talk/learn about God and Jesus? God and Jesus both love you and can help you with whatever you may be going through!

    • @Chris77Rocks77
      @Chris77Rocks77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      @@jaidenarias5912 I would love to can you please tell me everything you know about God and Jesus

    • @kolakokaa
      @kolakokaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +666

      Honestly, I didn't get that vibe lol. She doesn't seem into him at all. It feels like for him, he is talking to someone he wants to be with in a more serious way but she ismore "Nah, I wanna have fun & I don't think you're the one" lol

    • @Natalie-yg5rn
      @Natalie-yg5rn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Like. U know... like "friends"

  • @no.6377
    @no.6377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    - sleeps with another girl
    - wants an abortion and to cut off sex if pregnancy occurs
    -triple books himself when they're supposed to hang out
    - "This is Alex...we're fuck buddies"
    Comments: OMG he loves her so much

    • @jn1343
      @jn1343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Damn... Made me laugh! So accurate about Satan being worried. 😂

    • @vvrr6757
      @vvrr6757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!!!! I've always said if a man encourages you to have an abortion, he's not the one for you!
      Not that I am saying women shouldn't decide. But a man who pushes you towards doing it, does not love you. A lot of women have had abortions with the encouragement of a man behind it. Just saying.
      I mean if you think about it rich, entitled, white men legalized it. Kinda like they had something to gain from it...

    • @MeishaaaTalkz
      @MeishaaaTalkz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreee!!!

    • @quentinthernize6678
      @quentinthernize6678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vvrr6757 I mean some men can definitely be manipulative about it but, as half of potential future parents for this child, I think the guy in the video had a solid answer of "I will help however I can but I would lean toward not having kids right now"

  • @SD-hs2pk
    @SD-hs2pk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Wow you guys are also falling for his words, it's so clear that he s not into her like that. Her questions show that she is so into it, trying not to show it too much. Sigh

  • @Heyloois
    @Heyloois 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16754

    He’s definitely more into her and ready to commit but sadly she’s “afraid to commit to the wrong person” which comes across like she knows he’s not the right person for her

    • @user-nz7fe5dx2x
      @user-nz7fe5dx2x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +206

      yah i felt that too

    • @ItsYanabel
      @ItsYanabel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +334

      It’s sad that she’s stringing him on along the way too. It would save a lot of heartache if she would just communicate with him better..

    • @maddiemaryanne426
      @maddiemaryanne426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +476

      @@ItsYanabel she's definitely not stringing him along....youre just really stupid ..an you're aren't very good at reading people lmfaoo

    • @DARKSTEELXD
      @DARKSTEELXD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      crazy how much information you get when you assume someone’s situation🤓

    • @ashtree8868
      @ashtree8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      It’s Yanabel theyre.. friends with benefits bro. She’s just doin her thang in that dynamic

  • @the._.nabihouse
    @the._.nabihouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11825

    "Hooked up but not sleept with"
    *I didnt drink the water but drank it*

    • @chevyon37s
      @chevyon37s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +492

      Just the tip, doesn’t count

    • @doodoobutter101
      @doodoobutter101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1053

      He probably means “made out with”

    • @chungleee
      @chungleee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      he took a sip

    • @coltonkleins
      @coltonkleins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      Or maybe just mouth and hand stuffs

    • @stavroulapitsikali8583
      @stavroulapitsikali8583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      He didn't drink the water he just swallowed it

  • @SinisterAnimationS
    @SinisterAnimationS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +482

    He literally smashed another girl whike with her …how are yall in the comments say he is madly in love with her😭

    • @verawong3323
      @verawong3323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      I DONT GET IT EITHER how is the majority so delusional lol

    • @eren-_
      @eren-_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      You can bone other people and be love with another person tho

    • @RacingPepe
      @RacingPepe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because you don't need to love someone to do these things with them. It's got nothing to do with love on most cases. It's lust.

    • @itdobelikedattho8112
      @itdobelikedattho8112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@eren-_ impossible

    • @anthonyvincent4625
      @anthonyvincent4625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      and he said "i don't know if ill ever like fall in love with you. head over heels"

  • @danj8038
    @danj8038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Bruh wtf? She's clearly into him. Sure they are into each other but she seems way more invested

    • @manny3095
      @manny3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      people are only having this opinion after watching aba and preaches video

    • @Temi_the_GOAT
      @Temi_the_GOAT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@manny3095 Nah, I watched this video first and had the same thought. He's literally been hooking up with other women without telling her

    • @danj8038
      @danj8038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@manny3095 he literally said hes hookin up with other girls, and the girl he did hook up with she asked who and if who was hotter, thats jealousy

    • @zmojofoot76
      @zmojofoot76 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manny3095 yeah the majority are regurgitating what they said in their video almost word for word. But this comment section did miss tho. She got upset the moment he said he saw someone else. She talked about wanting to be closer and that guy only played along by asking why he can’t be her significant other so she would think there’s a chance. They could very well like each other they’re already friends with benefits but she’s been more upset about him flaking and seeing other women and he’s not against it but he’s not pushing for it as much as she does

  • @iMusikkForeva
    @iMusikkForeva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3529

    At first I thought maybe he wanted a little more than her, but the more I watched I realized she guarded herself because he definitely doesn’t want more. Making many plans before their hang out, not really talking when they meet, not telling her about any hookups…he treats her like a fwb & she’s afraid of looking like she wants him.

    • @timeme5460
      @timeme5460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +397

      We got a psychologist over here

    • @edithputhy4948
      @edithputhy4948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      ok mr clairvoyant youtube psychologist

    • @sarah_xsms
      @sarah_xsms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@edithputhy4948 bro you just copied the comment above you xD

    • @angg4144
      @angg4144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Deep

    • @rosecoloredbby
      @rosecoloredbby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      I said this in another comment but i don’t know, what if he’s only acting that way because he thinks SHE doesn’t want anything more and doesn’t want to get his hopes up, and then his behavior makes her act like she doesn’t even tho she does, and then her front just confirms his thoughts, and they’re just stuck in this tug of war sort of cycle. Omg, this is love rosie

  • @mosanso
    @mosanso 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7286

    Respect to that girl for putting up with that mustache

    • @artistrilysis
      @artistrilysis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +230

      i read this so wrong i thought you said PULLING up with that mustache 😭 i had to do a double take

    • @soulgazer11
      @soulgazer11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +492

      It suits him well tho

    • @lilfairyprincess1o1
      @lilfairyprincess1o1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +227

      hes still cute too

    • @brandonevans4142
      @brandonevans4142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      Ya I hope he doesn't drive a white van or live near an elementary school.

    • @JordannGeorge
      @JordannGeorge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      imagine kissing that

  • @amymitman173
    @amymitman173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    the amount of laughter they bring each other is actually so cute

  • @brandongustafson3066
    @brandongustafson3066 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    They already talk like a couple!

  • @basedangel7230
    @basedangel7230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2339

    The guy behind the camera is a menace 🤣 this situationship ended right when he asked them to set up the rules and boundaries 😂😂😂

    • @anthonymc8361
      @anthonymc8361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Lol. I lile the word that you used. Menace. Makes it more dramatic

    • @praydogene2765
      @praydogene2765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha 😅 wats dat ? Fact's

    • @breonawarren1507
      @breonawarren1507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Blaine been a menace 😂

    • @youlextube
      @youlextube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@breonawarren1507 LMAO he’s a huge booger

  • @xyql2541
    @xyql2541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7125

    I get the feeling he wants a relationship, but for her he's just kind of a place holder until she meets someone :(

    • @Sabrinalevy789
      @Sabrinalevy789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +268

      YES I agree 100 %. Poor dude he needs to realize what’s going on so he doesn’t waste time

    • @hi-nq5mm
      @hi-nq5mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      place holder or just afraid of commitment, u never know..

    • @astwas
      @astwas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      @@Sabrinalevy789 What do you mean poor dude, he is definitely not complaining about laying pipe.

    • @ina43431
      @ina43431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Trap Rico-san 。 you just sound insecure.

    • @liamadamsandler7823
      @liamadamsandler7823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Trap Rico-san 。 city boys up

  • @pauljohnagustin237
    @pauljohnagustin237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    U must be dreaming if u guys think he is into her
    The girl obviously is into him but for the guy, she is just another option

    • @manny3095
      @manny3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      people are only having this opinion after watching aba and preaches video

    • @sirmister9099
      @sirmister9099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@manny3095 more like the people who watch aba and preach can identify the situation similarly but aba and preach brought the video to their attention

    • @manny3095
      @manny3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sirmister9099 aba and preach came to strong conclusions before the video really began and i believe they went under the bias that the women always wants the relationship in all friends with benefits situations. not saying their take is off but i do believe they have their own biases.

    • @pauljohnagustin237
      @pauljohnagustin237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@manny3095 nah, you can tell when the woman would rather have an abortion to keep the relationship and the way the guy danced thru the questions is sus
      You just gotta observe things

    • @flamingfrenchfry2877
      @flamingfrenchfry2877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@manny3095 uh no, there are very clear signs that she likes him more. Gets visibly upset that he hooked up with another person and asks questions about what they did. She asked if she was hotter than his last hookup. She said an abortion could bring them closer?? She gets upset that he triple books meaning she’s mad she’s not his priority? Bruh pretty obvious she’s more into him

  • @csc5410
    @csc5410 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    My husband and I were on the random hook-up to FWB to "just friends w/o benefits" to dating to married pipeline. When we got together after about 7 years of that nonsense, all of our friends said "fking finally, we all know you've been in love with each other for years"

    • @sixtenbignerafklintberg7662
      @sixtenbignerafklintberg7662 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      7 years!?? Jesus, how that long

    • @theruthmyster
      @theruthmyster 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My issue with this is that my SP wants kids and I don’t so 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @shaunmcinerney2182
    @shaunmcinerney2182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1682

    "We'll make the rules right now."
    Love the cameraman 😂

    • @soulgazer11
      @soulgazer11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I think that's just the producer lol. There's more than just 1 person behind the scene.

    • @mads-ir7vo
      @mads-ir7vo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      lolol i think it’s Blaine. he loves stirring the pot and staring shit 😂😂😂

  • @arefzreika72
    @arefzreika72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3172

    “Hooked up but not slept with”
    I’ll be dammed

    • @stephenleonchase6929
      @stephenleonchase6929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      This has now been added to memory for future use

    • @JadedbySins
      @JadedbySins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      "Smoocharooni type of thing"

    • @iris-xo
      @iris-xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      I HATEEE when ppl refer to making out as hooking up it irritates my soul 😫

    • @justpassingby3409
      @justpassingby3409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I straight up got confused by his statement

    • @cleo5892
      @cleo5892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      ​@@iris-xo loll sometimes making out crosses a bridge into an in-between territory, and "hooked up with" feels more suitable than "made out with". like it def wasn't just kissing, but I don't feel like explaining what acts took place.

  • @jeremyjohnson7537
    @jeremyjohnson7537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Do people actually think the guy wants to be with the girl?? Its so obvious that the girl is into him but knows the guy doesn't want her
    He is having his time with other woman
    Doesn't even feel bad about it
    And hadn't set rules for FWB relationship
    She is probably his option c....I dont get how people think that these 2 want to be with each other lol

    • @sheldonglasgow1913
      @sheldonglasgow1913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Aba and Preach gang. I wonder when we'd show up.

    • @eljhin1
      @eljhin1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr

    • @MFDoomguy21
      @MFDoomguy21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sheldonglasgow1913 Gang Shit Gang Shit!!

    • @uioplkhj
      @uioplkhj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that really your thought or just the thoughts of two random black dudes?

    • @eljhin1
      @eljhin1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@uioplkhj you do know that people can share the same thoughts right? Or agree with others.

  • @ThomasJDavis
    @ThomasJDavis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I imagine that "friends with benefits" feels like having an affair with someone... but you're both single.

    • @hayleerunnels2385
      @hayleerunnels2385 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol in my opinion, no

    • @nAcolz
      @nAcolz หลายเดือนก่อน

      It doesn't from my experience, but I think it depends on how you set it up together with the other person

  • @matias_8823
    @matias_8823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5665

    "Why can't we work?"
    "...I'm gonna take a shot"
    Oh God the pain my man is going through

    • @lata7854
      @lata7854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Pain lol😂😂😂 ...the guy is hooking up with someone ...at the same time he is sleeping with her .....wat kind of pain is this 🥴?

    • @ElectricPansies
      @ElectricPansies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@lata7854 he kissed someone who moved to Taiwan, that hardly counts 😭

    • @DirtDiver656
      @DirtDiver656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@ElectricPansies you really believed that? At the minimum he got topped off and she aint the only one servicing him.

    • @samsfog3591
      @samsfog3591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She took a shot cause she didn’t know why they wouldn’t work

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DirtDiver656 why do you think that's true though? theres nothing to signify hes with others...

  • @uatu3021
    @uatu3021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5751

    The body language is interesting, what is it she's leaning away from? Is it commitment, his neediness, or the perv-stache, we may never know.

    • @xiloa23
      @xiloa23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      LMAO

    • @xiloa23
      @xiloa23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +600

      You're so right tho! She stays leaned back the entire time. He leans in alot, and moves around much more. He's definitely more interested!

    • @reedabook4319
      @reedabook4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +302

      to me it looks like she's just got good posture ahaha

    • @daquieshakeaundra2854
      @daquieshakeaundra2854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He s a simp

    • @Alienman1212
      @Alienman1212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@xiloa23 wrong, its the opposite

  • @ellenl5283
    @ellenl5283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please make these truth or drink vids longer or post the full video, love them!

  • @nohox9444
    @nohox9444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Friend with benefits is often more a real relationship than most "real" relationships were two people who don't like each other are bundled just to have the status.

  • @zaakiressop448
    @zaakiressop448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5866

    They should just date, they clearly like each other

    • @JohnDeMarco007
      @JohnDeMarco007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      It's 100% because her parents wouldn't approve.

    • @matthiswitt1902
      @matthiswitt1902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@JohnDeMarco007 they are adults Not Teenagers

    • @TA12002
      @TA12002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +377

      @@matthiswitt1902 asian parents don’t give a fuck about that

    • @Kyrohnics
      @Kyrohnics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@TA12002 😭😭 facts

    • @melisasaatci
      @melisasaatci 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@TA12002 well im white and dating an asian and her parents like me

  • @lavluv
    @lavluv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +799

    The questions just yeeted them out of their comfort zones, totally trying to get them to go from fwb to a relationship

    • @scarymaika
      @scarymaika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I thought so also... Every single question was about why they aren't SO... I was uncomfortable on there behalf

    • @XingAoShen
      @XingAoShen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@scarymaika it was kinda disrespectful tbh but they also seemed not very confident with their choice to be fwb

    • @itpaynesme
      @itpaynesme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@XingAoShen I get it but that’s the point of doing this truth or drink & they’ve obviously consented to doing it so

    • @XingAoShen
      @XingAoShen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@itpaynesme true... best of luck to them i guess

  • @Roasttrumpet
    @Roasttrumpet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is so sweet, honest, and SO into her. So cute see

  • @luflo20
    @luflo20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I think I'm afraid to commit to the wrong person" I felt that, this girl is preaching facts

  • @jenniferjones176
    @jenniferjones176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1398

    My fiancé and I were “FWB” when we were about their age and ended up meeting back up after 15 years and now are engaged and live together- you never know what will happen in life..

    • @mrtymrtt5061
      @mrtymrtt5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      what a great story

    • @Rico401Prov
      @Rico401Prov 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Proof or gtfoh

    • @tiffanywyatt5137
      @tiffanywyatt5137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Sounds sad

    • @anttoz4989
      @anttoz4989 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice, u went out into the world and got fucked just to come back to him with Milage lol

    • @christan4913
      @christan4913 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck! Like, really

  • @Yes-hk3ww
    @Yes-hk3ww 2 ปีที่แล้ว +691

    “Could it lead to something more?” “Ehhh”

    • @jaidenarias5912
      @jaidenarias5912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you want to talk/learn about God and Jesus? God and Jesus both love you and can help you with whatever you may be going through!

    • @kI-cq5xq
      @kI-cq5xq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@jaidenarias5912 I want to learn about the devil

    • @andioop-6846
      @andioop-6846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@kI-cq5xq LOL

  • @gokulsiriah7941
    @gokulsiriah7941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1268

    "Maybe loosing a baby will bring us closer together"
    Excuse me..WHAT THE FCUK

    • @BokorugroRR
      @BokorugroRR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      The level of selfishness in that quote is mind blowing

    • @Wildonnor
      @Wildonnor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      @@BokorugroRR selfish how? getting rid of something that isn't alive? But i suppose that just comes down to whether you think abortion is okay or not tbf

    • @vman9347
      @vman9347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @@Wildonnor it actually is alive since it grows. Just like cells are alive and your alive.

    • @masteryoshi935
      @masteryoshi935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@WildonnorA fetus meets the biological definition for life. Other than that, yes, it depends on your view of abortion.

    • @sirmister9099
      @sirmister9099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@Wildonnor
      cells on mars: we found life!!!!
      cells in the body: “not alive bro”

  • @PhillyCat01
    @PhillyCat01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They only took one shot each, they up front and honest with each other. Very nice

  • @alexstevenson6407
    @alexstevenson6407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    “Why? Why wouldn’t it work?” That part was so sad

  • @xemonkey
    @xemonkey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1897

    They have that awkward energy like they both are planning on proposing in the next hour but are too nervous to pull the trigger
    edit: alright now I'm a few more minutes in and it's even weirder, maybe not

    • @JayJayvanriel
      @JayJayvanriel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just making sure you don't lose your comment

    • @philihc
      @philihc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That's how fear of commitment is showing it's ugly face...

  • @MrDesertPunk
    @MrDesertPunk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so fascinating seeing the fwb structure from the outside.

  • @birdie7910
    @birdie7910 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s crazy bc i’m always switching between both for who I believe is more into it. They honestly both seem to like each other a lot. I hope they stay happy

  • @sjsinterlude7598
    @sjsinterlude7598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +987

    I just came out of a Situationship like this. I caught all the feels. He on the other hand, was doing just fine. I don't advocate for it. Mine didn't end up a disaster as most suggest in the comments, but my heart definitely got broken, after I finally understood that he was not serious. And even crazier...I was the one that cut all the ties.
    In relationships like this, you may go into it with the mindset of " it's just fun" but believe me, your heart don't know the difference between playing games and the actual thing. Someone will catch feelings and hearts will be broken.

    • @SkillzKillzBR
      @SkillzKillzBR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Great advice. Get a FWB but dont be the one who falls in love. Got it!

    • @sjsinterlude7598
      @sjsinterlude7598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@BooksRebound no.. don't get me wrong I don't regret it at all...I learned a lot from the situation I was in and definitely learn on what I want from a real relationship in return. It just sucks that you grow to love someone and they don't reciprocate it. I would much rather fall in love, where I'm allowed to do so, with someone that feels the same way, u know. But even so... I got the chance to fall in love during a pandemic lol

    • @ibz8122
      @ibz8122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same lol.

    • @idontknowagoodname3015
      @idontknowagoodname3015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sjsinterlude7598 do you blame him for not reciprocating?

    • @Velveification
      @Velveification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      This why girls always loose in this kind of relationships, I will never encourage any girl to do that.

  • @heri0n
    @heri0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +961

    Oh man, they both really like each other. Seems like they're having fun together now and are afraid to be really vulnerable to each other. Lucas my man, if you like her don't let her be the one who got away. It's clear that you do and are just hiding behind your jokes right now. Alex seems surprisingly secure in this relationship but it also seems like she likes Lucas but won't commit before he does. Eventually y'all need to figure out what you want before it's too late. Good luck, you both seem like nice people :)

    • @nothingbutawesome.1979
      @nothingbutawesome.1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🔥

    • @sneed3529
      @sneed3529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He likes her far more than vice-versa. He has this very submissive, placating yet probing demeanor in this exchange while she very clearly never demonstrates such except when she asks whether she was more attractive than his hookup. He also uses humor to distract from situations in which he would theoretically have to take the lead or see a future for him and the relationship, because, well, he's just not the kind of guy to take the lead, is he? He probably agreed to the FWB from the beginning to get closer to her and have her eventually change her mind in favor of an LTR. I could be totally wrong, but I'd bet serious cash I'm right. The last question about who likes who more tells it all: she knows he likes her more and he's too cowardly to admit it for fear of getting what he wants for fear of losing his easy access to sex. It's sad, really.

    • @tb8654
      @tb8654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@sneed3529 what are you smoking? Most men who are in FWB relationships just don't give a f*ck about taking the lead dude and men aren't going to be blunt with a woman and say "Oh yeah this definitely will never be more than s*x and hanging out"

    • @josephsmy1994
      @josephsmy1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tb8654 i think you both have good takes. My initial impression was like Sneed's - he looked a bit try hard and wanting to constantly know what she was thinking so i thought he was more invested but actually after rewatching and paying closer attention, it seems like he's focused on her reactions so he doesn't rock the boat - trying to feel her out. I think its a bit of both - they're both a bit nervous around each other - could be because of their own feelings and vulnerability - could be fear of the other's feelings and vulnerability and the impeding commitments and drama therein. I think they're both on the fence - the one who catches feelings harder will likely push the other away bc their relationship doesn't seem to have developed organically.

  • @StorytellerDan
    @StorytellerDan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Always appreciate the emotional maturity of everyone on this show

    • @Dave-cf4vd
      @Dave-cf4vd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOL!

  • @sasukecoochieha
    @sasukecoochieha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This girl and I function on the same wave, Love is such a meaningful thing that it's scares tf outta us.

  • @mike-ru4ph
    @mike-ru4ph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +597

    Everyone here is saying they should be a couple but honestly just let them do what they wanna do. If they don’t think they’d work as a couple at this moment in time then they’re probably going to be right. Let them be lol

    • @Rapscalian
      @Rapscalian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      most of them are saying that he wants a relationship but she doesnt

    • @shacourbrissett9625
      @shacourbrissett9625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Rapscalian Then most of them are wrong.

    • @Rapscalian
      @Rapscalian 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shacourbrissett9625 nice

    • @liliheaity
      @liliheaity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah all these people saying "he likes her more" or "she likes him more" are making me crazy...how would you know by watching a short video lmao

  • @willadyer4282
    @willadyer4282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4414

    I have a feeling he likes Asian women… “She moved to Taiwan”

    • @FaZeTenSe
      @FaZeTenSe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

      I noticed that lmao

    • @nicolekraft175
      @nicolekraft175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      So what? We all have preferences doesn’t mean he fetishizes Asians. Also they live in Seattle there are a ton of Asians

    • @lynn-cm2hb
      @lynn-cm2hb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +489

      @@nicolekraft175 no one said the word fetishizing it’s just something they noticed

    • @user-pp9df6ml6i
      @user-pp9df6ml6i 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@nicolekraft175 nobody accused him of fetishizing Asians, it was just a comment noticing a trend

    • @user-uo1sl6pt1z
      @user-uo1sl6pt1z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Both obsessed to each other maybe it's her.
      Like black dude with white girl, and black girl with white Boyz.

  • @audychan96
    @audychan96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    Here's a reality check for everyone: he's not that into her. She's into him more than he is into her. She's a plan B to him at best. If a man truly loves you, he'll make sure his intentions are clear, not keep you as a side piece and didn't even bother setting up boundaries from the get-go. It's as simple as that. Wake up, this is not some rom-com scenario where they both end up in love with each other and get married. This is a huge mess participated by two immature people because one has commitment issues and the other is pining into scraps, but both has really screwed up communication skills. They're clearly not on the same page.

    • @manny3095
      @manny3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      are these your opinions or were they formulated by aba and preach?

    • @dioltlw3144
      @dioltlw3144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      She's a plan c! he triple books himself

    • @csoniah4432
      @csoniah4432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      None of them are into each other romantically. She is clearly dealing with past stuff and just enjoying the flow and he is doing the same.

    • @michellemakoni7890
      @michellemakoni7890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Rom coms definitely have us believing that love has to involve some type of dramatic/weird plot and then we live happily ever after. The problem is real life is real life and it will not excuse you for whatever reason, it will knock you dead for your choices, ain't no sweet twists there. And it's easy for us to think that a love that starts off as friends with benefits is more exciting(because movies) but sometimes simplicity is just the best.

    • @sselemaNrM
      @sselemaNrM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nah, you got it wrong. Dude is more into her then she is into him

  • @JorgeCastro-ui3pi
    @JorgeCastro-ui3pi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Both playing hard to get but you can tell they both want a relationship plus the chemistry is great

  • @TypicallyUniqueOfficial
    @TypicallyUniqueOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    This is why communication is important. No boundaries, no talking...this is an immature relationship.

    • @talkoholic13
      @talkoholic13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THANK YOU. ❤️

    • @TheKnoxvicious
      @TheKnoxvicious 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Finally someone sees it! The whole comment section thinks this is cute… :/

    • @starmookk
      @starmookk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      it’s not a relationship haha

  • @cerebrxll6064
    @cerebrxll6064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +473

    So he likes her but constantly shows he doesn’t value her time when “triple booking”

    • @Natalie-yg5rn
      @Natalie-yg5rn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes

    • @Bblegum
      @Bblegum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What exactly is triple booking. Like is it him making sure that they're gonna hang out that specific day three times?

    • @rohanvchhabra
      @rohanvchhabra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@Bblegum i think its more that he books 3 things to do at one time or day and obviously cant do it all

    • @sabrinagarcia4238
      @sabrinagarcia4238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think he did it once and she's still felt about it

    • @breonawarren1507
      @breonawarren1507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@sabrinagarcia4238 Nah, 1 time people let it go. If it’s consistent then it’s definitely annoying

  • @oliviaprentice2316
    @oliviaprentice2316 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually love them! What a lovely pair!

  • @yoogeo1
    @yoogeo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Why haven't you introduced me to your parents?"
    Gal, fi wah? Introduce you as what? What is the purpose of introduction? That's girlfriend privileges my friend.

  • @CubixDE
    @CubixDE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    This is basically just the movie friends with benefits…

  • @JohnDeMarco007
    @JohnDeMarco007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +767

    People need to get over this idea of falling in love. If the person you are with makes you happy, it's easy, and they feel like a best friend, that is a marriage that will last.

    • @yeet1208
      @yeet1208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      maybe people aren’t looking for a marriage that will last

    • @skinnylegend1475
      @skinnylegend1475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@yeet1208 i think theyre saying that for people who are looking for a long lasting relationship but are still scared of commitment

    • @kotarodesu_23
      @kotarodesu_23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's human nature to want more though so it's not really something to "get over" as it is something to work through. It's not as easy as that because, sure you feel happy, but it's not always going to be like that for the other person as well who might want more or want something else entirely.

    • @Toenchi
      @Toenchi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are absolutely right. It was hard for me to understand. But i finally understood 💙 happy since 18 years!

    • @Hannah.19996
      @Hannah.19996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You still Need That romantic love tho

  • @ernestassalna995
    @ernestassalna995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    The dude obviously doesn't want anything closer than sex friend and there is something wrong with the girl. She wants a relationship, she's a bit jealous and wtf with the part where she said that abortion might make them closer? Lol she is mad

    • @duncanjong5173
      @duncanjong5173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Aba and preach?

    • @linktheeartist
      @linktheeartist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@duncanjong5173 Aba and preach. They are the truth

    • @MrRyushinn
      @MrRyushinn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      lmao yo these asian girls who crave white dudes are all the same. In the end shes going to settle for some poor shmuck because stable.

    • @luziela.dugart6987
      @luziela.dugart6987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes indeed is crazy I don’t understand why she is lying and tell the dude that she wants a relationship?? And see that the dude doesn’t even care he sees her as last option for get laid she should walk away.

    • @manny3095
      @manny3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luziela.dugart6987 when they are asked if their relationship could be more, didn't you see the slight repulsion and un easyness she had to that?

  • @chrissy-im6nm
    @chrissy-im6nm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love how lighthearted this is

  • @DreamingPreciously
    @DreamingPreciously 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Lucas has most definitely caught feelings

  • @abbywolfe5608
    @abbywolfe5608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1636

    Every FWB video I’ve watched, it’s soooo obvious one person is low key in love with the other. FWB relationships are so unhealthy and toxic to emotions.

    • @edithputhy4948
      @edithputhy4948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      don't project your own bs onto other people

    • @Thedancinglemon
      @Thedancinglemon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      @@edithputhy4948 no, you're right- fucking up a friendship to sleep with them and wait for one of you to catch feelings isn't a shitty choice at all 😂😂 angry af for no reason 😂😂

    • @astwas
      @astwas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Long-term FWB always ends up in someone catching feelings.

    • @rocketpit101
      @rocketpit101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I've had several fwb and nobody caught feelings, or was in love. I am still friends with all of them.

    • @phantomgg7790
      @phantomgg7790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@edithputhy4948 No, fuck FWB relationships, sure maybe a few people can make it work, but that is the minority, the reality is, one person ends up liking the other to much, and it leads to drama, and I been on both sides of that story. Fuck that shit, never again, either im dating you, or im not. No weird middle ground bs

  • @adeclau6765
    @adeclau6765 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow they are so down to earth, chill and honest. They would make an amazing couple but if not, they seem like whatever they choose to be, will be healthy

  • @gochi6542
    @gochi6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    It’s crazy how y’all are getting this so wrong. I hope most of you here to not get into this kind of relationship cause obviously it’s not gon end well. Bro clearly don’t like her like that, and she’s the one who’s ready for something more. He “triple books” himself when they’re supposed to hang out, he’s with other women and not even telling her, etc. He’s exploring his options and she wasn’t having it. She asked all them questions when he told about the girl who moved to Vietnam. Sounded just like a jealous gf. If it was truly just a fuck buddy relationship with NO real rules or boundaries and they both saw it that way, she wouldn’t have reacted that way. Have conversations folks, all I gotta say.

    • @samsfog3591
      @samsfog3591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      U spittin facts. Everybody saying she not into him n he pushing. It’s completely the opposite

    • @Nightmare1z
      @Nightmare1z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I also watched yesterday's Aba and Preach video, nice paraphrasing

    • @shaun9184
      @shaun9184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      real spill

    • @sselemaNrM
      @sselemaNrM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah, you missed the part where he asked her if this could work out. She seems more guarded then him, while he seems to be more afraid of committment

    • @fetdebelithinmrsavi8896
      @fetdebelithinmrsavi8896 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sselemaNrM nah he is just afraid of rejection

  • @MaiRowd
    @MaiRowd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    People would like to see them dating, but I would disagree, I understand why they keep the friendship, and seems like she will never fall in love with him, they like to be together, but doesn't mean it has to be in a romantic way. The friendship connection is there. He will never be a lover or a brother.

  • @emikotagahushi941
    @emikotagahushi941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Her laugh is so sweet and contagious! ☺️

  • @zabby25
    @zabby25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've never wanted an updated more lol

  • @brigitterobson3489
    @brigitterobson3489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He seems like a great catch. Great communication and honesty 👍

  • @AngysDream
    @AngysDream 2 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    "Hooked up but not sleep with"
    same energy as: I didn't eat it, but I ate it

    • @aquamina766
      @aquamina766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It’s more like “I licked it but didn’t eat it”.

    • @Ddsirensound
      @Ddsirensound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Some people consider a make out as a hook up. I do.

    • @iGottakissU
      @iGottakissU 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "adriana licked the donut but did not buy it" kinda vibes ?

    • @mbnvnd5775
      @mbnvnd5775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iGottakissU Adriana? 💀💀

    • @ezra4566
      @ezra4566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ddsirensound hooking up means sex tho

  • @aadhatkattel6691
    @aadhatkattel6691 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lot of things are happening except the words we're hearing; the body language, the giggles and obviously taking shot is also a desperate means of expression between these two.
    Loved it

  • @williamfischer3990
    @williamfischer3990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is basically just a relationship without the commitment

  • @greedygirl20
    @greedygirl20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I would like to see cut do update videos between the years. With a lot of these games on the channel, we see different relationships and we always have hopes about them, or wanna see how things changed over the years. I hope they do that for some of these pairings.

  • @skyhigh6377
    @skyhigh6377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Honestly she is playing around. She obviously likes him. She doesn’t like when he makes other plans. She’s already showing signs of jealousy. If he really wants to be with her he needs to lay the law, and quit making himself available. He’s given her the option of friends with benefits and because of that option she hasn’t committed.

  • @Joshow313
    @Joshow313 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This brings up my FWB days. I had several but caught feelings for one while others, that I did not care for, caught feelings for me. I wouldn’t want to relive those days. So much games, hiding, and uncertainties. I really only wanted the one but sadly the feeling was not mutual.

  • @evacope1718
    @evacope1718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    "Abortion could bring us together"... WHAT. Our generation is fucked. Wow

    • @pierogentille8748
      @pierogentille8748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nathaliazerves9961 you don't know what beautiful is

    • @kuzivam1
      @kuzivam1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She means having gotten pregnant and eventually deciding to get an abortion would probably be something serious that could make them become closer.

    • @ketamine2502
      @ketamine2502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kuzivam1 that’s crazy to even think dawg

    • @Sakkiuh
      @Sakkiuh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kuzivam1 As indecisive as both of them are I can't see them in a relationship. I don't know how aborting a child would make you grow closer. If anything, the opposite should bring you closer.

    • @dakotarayne9420
      @dakotarayne9420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Getting rid of something unplanned and unwanted isn't bad?

  • @eetusironen402
    @eetusironen402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    He likes her a lot and she likes him, but is afraid of letting herself fully feel like that way because of her fear of commitment.

    • @marmar90000
      @marmar90000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nah, I think she sees that he's fun to be around, but not great to have as a long-term partner. His "triple-booking" is a sign of this.

    • @tiarakirana7426
      @tiarakirana7426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May i know what triple booking terms mean?

    • @marmar90000
      @marmar90000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tiarakirana7426 It means that he made plans to hang out with her, but also made two other plans at the same time (triple booking), and ultimately had to choose between her and the other two plans. It seems that she was not chosen in the end, and shows that he does not necessarily prioritize her.

  • @cl4za
    @cl4za 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    my hearts broke. i would love them to have a relationship but it sounds like they have a lot to work through individually but also together.

  • @shovel5526
    @shovel5526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i love when cut uploads a video and the whole comment section becomes majored in psychology

  • @khoitran4232
    @khoitran4232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Got exactly the same thing now, and sometimes I feel like the girl that I'm having a rlts with only considers me as a temporary place until she can find someone that she really loves. But I don't regret what we are going through, and what I've done to her, to help her. She has just broken with her ex like half a year ago, she also has a lot of problems with her family, so I love making her smile whenever she's down. And when the time comes, when she finds someone that she can really fall into, I will let her go. Like, as long as I can make her happy, then I'm happy too. People say that I'm stupid to have a feeling in this kind of rlts, but at the end of the day, that's a nice experience, making someone happy.

  • @KateCarew
    @KateCarew 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    All the comments so certain he’s more into her…she got a rude awakening when he brings up the person who moved to Taiwan, he didn’t tell her and she clearly suspected it, and he knows she cares about time with him yet consistently “triple books”.
    I think she has genuine feelings for him but can’t commit to someone who can’t commit.
    They both need to quit back burner-ing each other because they think life is a fairy tale and just recognize that they’re compatible and this IS a relationship.
    Friends with benefits? Sort of a misnomer. It’s more like people who are casually dating without expectations.

    • @hungrybeakstudios472
      @hungrybeakstudios472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yea this makes sense looking back on her responses to him and everything
      Hope they both just be honest even if it's uncomfortable for them

    • @lonewaer
      @lonewaer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Finally someone who can think.

    • @cassity2029
      @cassity2029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly. This is what people call a ‘situationship’ now and basically it’s all the perks of dating someone but without the commitment so you can 1) Easily cut things off if you meet someone else 2) Sleep around with other people and it not technically be cheating. I ended up in a ‘situationship’ for about 8 months with a guy who told me he loved me, constantly brought me around his family, and even asked me to move in with him but wouldn’t commit. Eventually found out why when I came over late one night and there was another girl in his bed. 🙃
      This whole video gave me flashbacks. 😂

    • @sneed3529
      @sneed3529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lonewaer She was only interested in the other person because of her own insecurities; she didn't actually care that he "saw" someone else. The entire time, he was far more engaged, submissive, and inquisitive than she was. She really didn't seem to care either way.

    • @lonewaer
      @lonewaer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sneed3529 And those would be their respective facades. He puts up a facade of seemingly caring more about their situation than he actually does (not saying he doesn't care at all), and she puts up a facade of seemingly caring less about it than she actually does. He does it to keep smashing (and maybe he likes her a little bit more, it's possible), she does it to protect herself (and she definitely likes him a lot).
      Yes, she's insecure, and those insecurities resurfaced when the right questions came about. Specifically that question about who else he was seeing. That one cut deep, and she couldn't hide it, I disagree about her not caring about that.

  • @RailingMedia
    @RailingMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good people… emotionally articulate and empathetic. Both are very comfortable with showing gratitude.

  • @spazeasterix6723
    @spazeasterix6723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    *"maybe it would bring us closer together"*
    Jesus christ...

  • @ricardodurante8753
    @ricardodurante8753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    i'm definetely going to stalk them on instagram and try to figure out whenever they actually become a couple

    • @blueberry3210
      @blueberry3210 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any info by now?

    • @ricardodurante8753
      @ricardodurante8753 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@blueberry3210 i was sadly too high to remember to actually check it but I choose to believe that they're together and happy

    • @rvssian7702
      @rvssian7702 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @andrewizard8285
      @andrewizard8285 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ricardodurante8753 😂😂😂👍🏿

    • @way9883
      @way9883 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ricardodurante8753 lmaooo 😭

  • @er-lo7fm
    @er-lo7fm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    I feel like the girl has been hurt in the past and the reason why she's afraid to commit 🙁

    • @lata7854
      @lata7854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is afraid to commit to him ( a guy who is hooking up with someone at her back ) ....

    • @h3llboyyy407
      @h3llboyyy407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lata7854 are you dumb??? They didn't have rules lmao they both literally could have done that 💀 and no boundaries would be broke. Also she never was asked that question...so who cares if he did

    • @lata7854
      @lata7854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@h3llboyyy407 nope I am not .....but are u ??????????????????????.....

    • @h3llboyyy407
      @h3llboyyy407 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lata7854 they were never in a committed relationship to begin with. Only now do they have some kind of boundaries this isn't something you can flip on him lmao. Also she just wants to know when he has sex with someone else. She's not mad that he had sex with others...

    • @lata7854
      @lata7854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@h3llboyyy407 🍉 have some watermelon .....u must be tired after explaining so much about someone else's relationship 🥴

  • @sakutaro3musik486
    @sakutaro3musik486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    it makes me sad that people are so afraid of commitment, it can be so beautiful.

  • @nailafreilich
    @nailafreilich ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want an update on this two! They don't know how much they like each other...

  • @falconvelocity
    @falconvelocity 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He's CLEARLY more into her than she is to him. It was obvious from the first sentence!

  • @itsrenanyall
    @itsrenanyall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    i felt like she wants to be with him but she's insecure and afraid, i can relate to that

    • @rajashhree
      @rajashhree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      absolutely

  • @DareDB
    @DareDB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I think once both of them mature more and realize where they want to go in life, they could eventually come around to realizing they're a match for each other. Sometimes it takes going through pitfalls on their own to bring them closer together. That, and I think once the mustache goes, the possibilities are endless really.

  • @anthonydoan1991
    @anthonydoan1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They vibe so well... just get together already and be an awesome cute couple.

  • @SimuLord
    @SimuLord 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching this as a 44-year-old Gen-Xer who had plenty of this sort of late-adolescent fun back in the mid-late '90s, I am both astounded by and yet completely understanding of in a "some things truly never change" way these young folks.

    • @doctordarcy8385
      @doctordarcy8385 ปีที่แล้ว

      Times change, but human nature doesn't

  • @DreamUN
    @DreamUN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I had a friend with benefits relationship like them. Like they dont want to fall inlove, they seem happy with just hanging out and having seg sometimes & it’s just peaceful/ healthy. No hard feelings just chilling & having seggs

  • @nigelnicholas4832
    @nigelnicholas4832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She wants him but she keeps thinking ‘what would my parents say’?

  • @3lttlbrds
    @3lttlbrds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Did not expect this to be so cute!!! They're so gentle and caring with each other 😊 he's sooooooooooooo into her

  • @rodstone
    @rodstone ปีที่แล้ว +3

    CAN WE PLAESE GET AN UPDATE ON THESE TWO

  • @jeremyperdomo7618
    @jeremyperdomo7618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They are just so cute together. I was blushing the whole time😍definite chemistry between them…