@Faraz Hashmi Hi Faraz, thanks for asking. I'd say it's important to understand their perspective or motivation. For example, in the case where people might want what's best for you, but then hold you back, it's probably fear. They know you can do more, but fear you taking action because they themselves were afraid to take action in their own lives and so it's an unknown for them. Sometimes it's difficult to please everybody, you have to do what you feel is the right course of action for you and accept that not everyone will approve of that. Don't be reckless, but if you know with absolute conviction it's for your betterment and possibly of benefit to others, then follow through and live your life. It's what I cover a lot on in my content :)
This really hits home for me because I'm an athlete. I discovered this years ago and realized the spirit of wanting to win misses opportunities to learn from others abilities.
Keep your eyes on the ball, your concentration in the game and your mind out of the gutter. Everyone has different journeys. Everyone has different interests. Everyone has different tastes. Everyone has different desires. You have a different goals, different desires, different tastes and different interests than other people. Then why feel worse about yourself by comparing your progress in life with someone else's? Comparison is a huge thief of joy. Stop indulging in it. Focus on who you are, what your goals are, what brings you happiness, and do that. Just that. Nothing else! 🙏🏻💙
Hi! I'm a teenager and I wanted to say Thank you for this video! I'm in a difficult period right now and your words give me strength to go on and to take the ball again if I fail!!! Don't stop the good work! Don't stop inspire people!!! Wish the whole world could watch each any of your video, and people realize what they are missing in the road, that called life... Thank you again and I hope to see you soon!! 😊
"Get your nose out of the lives of others and take a sniff of your own " and see how your life leveling ☝☝❤😊......Thank You Mr.Jay Shetty for a wonderful video
Thanks Jay I was never a competitive person. But life has been so brutal, meeting the wrong people and relying on them to help me study. Made fun of, because I was not a good reader and looked down on for not succeeding a big failure according to them. I have dyslexia and ADHD my question is why would people hurt someone who has a difficulty and laugh at them instead of helping them or just don’t say anything? For some people reading comes easy for others it’s a challenge. For me it was a challenge especially in medical college, but I made it through on my own time. I don’t know if repeated failures made me stronger or weaker? I had lost faith in people for a long time, but recently for the last 2 years I started loving people. I have friends in all age groups and just able to see them for who they are. Hopefully I will be able to have my dreams back for the present time not my past and hopefully fall in love again with a person who likes my difficulties.
*focusing on someone else's score doesn't make yours any better* *Life is alot like bowling* *keep ur eyes on the ball* *your concentration in the game* *n ur mind out of the gutter* *No matter how hard we're hit by life* *No matter how hard we're hit by others* *We have to keep stepping back up*
I agree.. whenever i focus on others score i got more problems.. so, I decide to not focus on others and not compare myself with them.. i am me, and they are just others.. we are all different and success is not all about how much money and stuff you own.. it's all about how you could enjoy and happy and could share your happiness to others..
How you can be so absolute... I mean whenever i get stuck in the problem... Whenever i am just about to sink in the depression.... Notification pops up... Jay shetty added a video.. And it's perfectly like a rescue... Just as someone saved me from drowning... THANKS A LOT JAY.. more power and love to you....
We are not all walking the same path. We all bring something different to the table. Stay in your lane and focus on yourself. You are your only competition
Exactly! I have to focus on all the crime done against me, by criminals, who claim their my friends & family. When actually they all used me, lied to me, played me, and accumulated as much fraud as they could. It's so sad, I've lived such a hard messed up life. Noone truly knows,,that knows me. I keep getting back up, even though I've had it all taken from me, at one point. My kids taken from me, is by far, the worst. I am going to write a book one day. Also get back up, and continue to keep fighting for my rights, and something that means something to me, is going to happen, and I'll stop falling, and quit failing, and stop heads, and get things done!
Thank you Jay for this amazing video. I literally just got back from bowling with my friends and today got big news about my uni life starting this year. This cannot be a coincidence that you post this video at this time. I got into the course I wanted and reflecting on last year I had been comparing on my peer’s results with mine, however recently I haven’t, which was good. I wasn’t the brightest, but in my own way I was able to get want I had been seeking. I felt like I was in the gutter this year, disappointed with my studies, it didn’t go to plan but I persisted and had faith in God. All of these things were also reflected in my bowling, by no comparing but instead focusing on my game, I was able to win games. By using my own bowling technique. By not giving up, I almost made a comeback. Thank you for giving the chance to reflect on these lessons I have learnt, especially on never giving up, even when things seem bad.
I'm focusing on myself and where I'm trying to go. I've just cut a bunch of bad weight out my life. One was very very hard. But part of me thinks if I didn't it would never get better between us they never realized what they had in you. Sometimes in life u gotta just put your nose to the ground and keep going even through the storms. If it was meant for you it will always be yours.
I'm 22 years old. and my focus never worked since when I born.. and I've never able to do something in this my lessons, that's why I'm an irrepressible person for myself... to be honest, I've tried to catch up my concentrate all the time, and here am I to following you..
at times when ur best ever efforts wont reap ur goal eventually ... .....it taughts u for life!!!! so no matter what the life destines u give it all ur best everytime....
Jay you’ve always made my life easier and I want to thank you for the effort that you give us some people don’t care but know that I do care you help me grow up better and more mature much love god bless
I have learned lot of things from my student Sam He always said that it doesn't matter how hard life hits you, at the end all have to die so why don't we work hard to die like a Legend. He also told me to have guts to never give up because life is a Game without Losing you cannot GAIN. That "have guts to never give up" quote we both have learned from Naruto
Well said sir. This is the story of my life. Celebrating others successes and never feel jealous because I had belief in myself that my time will come one day.it took me 29 years to taste success and the whole world is celebrating with me 😘😘
This situation was going on in my life... I am a 10th grade student and literally this video is simply awesome for me... Thank you so much, really from the bottom of my heart... Thank you so so so much...
We are all too busy focusing on what people think of us, we start to live and act in the view of that person and believe we are only the way they perceive us. Not actually how we want to be.
@jay shetty i just wanna say thank u everytime i watch one of ur videos after i cant stop thinking about what u say it makes me smile and love everyone around me and i just wamma say thank u for giving me that feeling
This is soo amazing to look im 15 and even I have struggles Im not depressed or something like that but im not perfect, I want to improve my life in different ways
There are many people in our life who gives us advice but there are very few who answers the thing that we are searching for ...thanks for answering those things that I did not get from anyone ❤
that a really GREAT example👍❤👍 thank you very much,jay🙏❤🙏 ❣❣❣focus on YOURSELF❣❣❣ do what's working for you.go your own way & do it your own way❣ peace,love&blessings to everyone☮❤🙏
Your video is my birthday's gift Jay since it was published on my born date. I have had a few struggles until I dont what I have to do. But your video is really inspiring me not to give up easily. Thanks a lot Jay...and you know that we (your followers & audiences) always love you...keep up inspiring us to keep us on the track in life 🙏
This is really awesome 😎 because sometimes we do our best but unable to receive positive result as we expected which makes us to feel down.... it’s not easy to deal that kind of situation but it’s not difficult to start it again with past experience & keep moving.....yes I can..
I just googled to find out who is Jay Shetty and I just subscribed his channel. I feel so inspiring after watching his video. I hope everyone is doing well. Gbu
you are truly incredible, u made my day, I' was so depressed all day, I felt like the world is coming down on me since I lost my job despite being a good employee,
When every day is a struggle and disappointment, what can keep a person standing? I think we need to move away from this typical explanation and go back to days where man had nothing but was happy just exploring. Man should be made to believe that even without anything he can survive and live a life.
I sir I regularly watch u r viedos and they r so inspiration to me..whenever i feel low i see u r viedos. .. actually i want to tell u my prblm in my life i don't have best but I have enof things but I need a friends but all my friends r selfish every time I give my 100% to ppl but they won't give at least 50% it's so hurts we will say all relationship already written by god but only a friend relationship we can select but...😭😥😕 I don't have a friend with whom I can cry like a child do silly things ...i miss that 😕
The good thing is that you can really change your life by changing your language, talking to yourself in a positive way, and starting to ask yourself different questions. Develop habits that steer you towards your goals. If you do that- success in your live is guaranteed. Thanks Jay Shetty ;)
I am sorry to hear that. I have been there too. But please jut keep trying it is going to get better. Just make one step at a time. You can for sure do it!
i am also going through this phase for past 1 yr depression someone i loved is nt with me anymore every day is tuff for me i am dead frm inside bt alive somehw dnt knw wht will happn to me
@@aseyabudhu3559 that person nver loved me otherwise she havnt left me like that knwing i will nt able to live without her today was her birthday the gift she wanted frm me was to leave her the best gift i gave her was i left her i freed her frm me forever & i knw i am dead bt i freed frm this prision that was she wanted frm me frm 1 day of relationship
Great message, I love how you used bowling as a metaphor for not comparing ourselves to other people and how sometimes things go to plan and sometimes things don't, but it's important to never give up. I haven't been bowling for ages, and after watching this I genuinely want to go bowling now! 😆
Last lines made be to recap rocky balboa movie scene. "But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!"
It's a real helpful video. Most of student who fail despite of hard work and other who do not deserve move ahead but with this video those student who failed can focus on their goal and not listen or get distracted by the people who taunt them. I feel everything in life happen for reason one set back in life can't get a person mind off it's goal. I feel this video is real inspiring and best ❤️. If u agree to me like 👍
*When you focus on yourself, you can have a much more powerful impact on those around you.* Wonderful Message
@Faraz Hashmi Hi Faraz, thanks for asking. I'd say it's important to understand their perspective or motivation. For example, in the case where people might want what's best for you, but then hold you back, it's probably fear. They know you can do more, but fear you taking action because they themselves were afraid to take action in their own lives and so it's an unknown for them.
Sometimes it's difficult to please everybody, you have to do what you feel is the right course of action for you and accept that not everyone will approve of that. Don't be reckless, but if you know with absolute conviction it's for your betterment and possibly of benefit to others, then follow through and live your life. It's what I cover a lot on in my content :)
A wonderful message indeed.
This really hits home for me because I'm an athlete. I discovered this years ago and realized the spirit of wanting to win misses opportunities to learn from others abilities.
U r amazing 👍
a lot of people call this: anti-social, introvert, selfish, arrogant etc.
“All of us are in the gutter but some of us are looking up at the stars”
Love this 💕
❤❤❤
We are not looking up at the stars we are trying hard to bring out the star inside us. 🙂
Everyone’s going to encounter problems in their lives at one point in time. It is how you face them that will trigger a change in your life.
Keep your eyes on the ball, your concentration in the game and your mind out of the gutter. Everyone has different journeys. Everyone has different interests. Everyone has different tastes. Everyone has different desires. You have a different goals, different desires, different tastes and different interests than other people. Then why feel worse about yourself by comparing your progress in life with someone else's? Comparison is a huge thief of joy. Stop indulging in it. Focus on who you are, what your goals are, what brings you happiness, and do that. Just that. Nothing else! 🙏🏻💙
Thank you for writing it down..
Yes!
@@learnerdecuriousqueen3320 You're most welcome! 🙏🏻💙
@@Luckmeister8 Glad this resonated with you! 💙🙏🏻
Great explanation! Loved it! Thank you!😇
*Thanks for sharing this*
*All those reading my comment I wish you have a wonderful day*
A WALK TO INFINITY Thank You ❤🌹 ..... likewise Dear one❤💐
Life will always put us down but it is our job to stand up every time 🔥
Yes, that final sentence resonated with me very strongly. Today I will stand up again.
Hi! I'm a teenager and I wanted to say Thank you for this video! I'm in a difficult period right now and your words give me strength to go on and to take the ball again if I fail!!! Don't stop the good work! Don't stop inspire people!!! Wish the whole world could watch each any of your video, and people realize what they are missing in the road, that called life...
Thank you again and I hope to see you soon!! 😊
His voice is my fav❤
😝😝😝
"Get your nose out of the lives of others and take a sniff of your own " and see how your life leveling ☝☝❤😊......Thank You Mr.Jay Shetty for a wonderful video
Thanks for that powerful speech😊. Ill bring my ball again
Thanks Jay
I was never a competitive person. But life has been so brutal, meeting the wrong people and relying on them to help me study. Made fun of, because I was not a good reader and looked down on for not succeeding a big failure according to them. I have dyslexia and ADHD my question is why would people hurt someone who has a difficulty and laugh at them instead of helping them or just don’t say anything? For some people reading comes easy for others it’s a challenge. For me it was a challenge especially in medical college, but I made it through on my own time. I don’t know if repeated failures made me stronger or weaker? I had lost faith in people for a long time, but recently for the last 2 years I started loving people. I have friends in all age groups and just able to see them for who they are. Hopefully I will be able to have my dreams back for the present time not my past and hopefully fall in love again with a person who likes my difficulties.
Comparing yourself to others kills your own SELF-ESTEEM ! It only does you harm. Stop doing it !
*focusing on someone else's score doesn't make yours any better*
*Life is alot like bowling*
*keep ur eyes on the ball*
*your concentration in the game*
*n ur mind out of the gutter*
*No matter how hard we're hit by life*
*No matter how hard we're hit by others*
*We have to keep stepping back up*
We have to keep stepping back up
I agree.. whenever i focus on others score i got more problems.. so, I decide to not focus on others and not compare myself with them.. i am me, and they are just others.. we are all different and success is not all about how much money and stuff you own.. it's all about how you could enjoy and happy and could share your happiness to others..
i got fallin down in my GPA. got stuck and deeply sad. chaos. and when i open youtube and watched this video. SO MUCH THANK YOU JAY!
How you can be so absolute... I mean whenever i get stuck in the problem... Whenever i am just about to sink in the depression.... Notification pops up... Jay shetty added a video.. And it's perfectly like a rescue... Just as someone saved me from drowning... THANKS A LOT JAY.. more power and love to you....
That's why he is doing this all
We are not all walking the same path. We all bring something different to the table. Stay in your lane and focus on yourself. You are your only competition
Comparison is a thief of Joy. Good quote.
Yeah man focus on yourself, you won't get what you want but you'll get what you deserve!
Exactly! I have to focus on all the crime done against me, by criminals, who claim their my friends & family. When actually they all used me, lied to me, played me, and accumulated as much fraud as they could. It's so sad, I've lived such a hard messed up life. Noone truly knows,,that knows me. I keep getting back up, even though I've had it all taken from me, at one point. My kids taken from me, is by far, the worst. I am going to write a book one day. Also get back up, and continue to keep fighting for my rights, and something that means something to me, is going to happen, and I'll stop falling, and quit failing, and stop heads, and get things done!
Thousands of motivational videos on youtube...but only JAY SHETTY motivates me at the best of my spirits.
life is too short to be unhappy .. smile while you have teeth 😁
I just love these words. ❤️😊❤️
Excellent words really meaningful
It would be so nice if smiling alone could make oneself happy... wouldn't it?
@@maciejkleszczynski9808 But it makes a little difference in our attitude. Doesn't it?
❤️
This message helped me a lot when I was struggling, thank you so much
'Focusing on someone else school doesn't make yours better" it hit me hard 💛👏🏻
Thank you Jay for this amazing video. I literally just got back from bowling with my friends and today got big news about my uni life starting this year. This cannot be a coincidence that you post this video at this time. I got into the course I wanted and reflecting on last year I had been comparing on my peer’s results with mine, however recently I haven’t, which was good. I wasn’t the brightest, but in my own way I was able to get want I had been seeking. I felt like I was in the gutter this year, disappointed with my studies, it didn’t go to plan but I persisted and had faith in God. All of these things were also reflected in my bowling, by no comparing but instead focusing on my game, I was able to win games. By using my own bowling technique. By not giving up, I almost made a comeback.
Thank you for giving the chance to reflect on these lessons I have learnt, especially on never giving up, even when things seem bad.
A real torchbearer who brings light in the dark life of millions of people... 👍👍👍
No matter how life goes be positive and happy ..........keep trying still u get it with a positive mind.......this video is very good and pleasing 😊
I'm focusing on myself and where I'm trying to go. I've just cut a bunch of bad weight out my life. One was very very hard. But part of me thinks if I didn't it would never get better between us they never realized what they had in you. Sometimes in life u gotta just put your nose to the ground and keep going even through the storms. If it was meant for you it will always be yours.
I'm 22 years old. and my focus never worked since when I born..
and I've never able to do something in this my lessons, that's why I'm an irrepressible person for myself... to be honest, I've tried to catch up my concentrate all the time, and here am I to following you..
at times when ur best ever efforts wont reap ur goal
eventually ...
.....it taughts u for life!!!!
so no matter what the life destines u give it all ur best everytime....
Whenever I feel am down in my life situations his speech lifts me giving confidence.
you are just awesome sir...nearly 1yr after uploading this video,now i could listen and analyse it with life...wow thank you so much sir
Jay you’ve always made my life easier and I want to thank you for the effort that you give us some people don’t care but know that I do care you help me grow up better and more mature much love god bless
Yep, sometimes effort doesn't matter ..its a sad truth.
Still be ready to fight ..a day ll come ..Don't ever lose HOPE ###
I have learned lot of things from my student Sam
He always said that it doesn't matter how hard life hits you, at the end all have to die so why don't we work hard to die like a Legend.
He also told me to have guts to never give up because life is a Game without Losing you cannot GAIN.
That "have guts to never give up" quote we both have learned from Naruto
Well said sir. This is the story of my life. Celebrating others successes and never feel jealous because I had belief in myself that my time will come one day.it took me 29 years to taste success and the whole world is celebrating with me 😘😘
This situation was going on in my life... I am a 10th grade student and literally this video is simply awesome for me... Thank you so much, really from the bottom of my heart... Thank you so so so much...
Keep these messengers in mind during your further study. This one is extremely relatable having just finishing high school.
*Focus on Yourself...*
We are all too busy focusing on what people think of us, we start to live and act in the view of that person and believe we are only the way they perceive us. Not actually how we want to be.
@jay shetty i just wanna say thank u everytime i watch one of ur videos after i cant stop thinking about what u say it makes me smile and love everyone around me and i just wamma say thank u for giving me that feeling
Build your life in your own way and keep going
This is soo amazing to look im 15 and even I have struggles Im not depressed or something like that but im not perfect, I want to improve my life in different ways
There are many people in our life who gives us advice but there are very few who answers the thing that we are searching for ...thanks for answering those things that I did not get from anyone ❤
Where your focus is, your energy flows...
Resourceful message. ..
Jays voice is so touchy
It's not about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward
You can make the most of everything in the wide world 🙏
Good thoughts good steps good actions leading to good path.
Fantastic speech with demonstration l love and appreciate ❤Jay genius.
that a really GREAT example👍❤👍
thank you very much,jay🙏❤🙏
❣❣❣focus on YOURSELF❣❣❣
do what's working for you.go your own way & do it your own way❣
peace,love&blessings to everyone☮❤🙏
This guy's a legend, im not even lying
Thank you Jay ! For inspiring me. whenever I get demotivated I see your videos which makes me feel better ! 💯
Your video is my birthday's gift Jay since it was published on my born date.
I have had a few struggles until I dont what I have to do. But your video is really inspiring me not to give up easily.
Thanks a lot Jay...and you know that we (your followers & audiences) always love you...keep up inspiring us to keep us on the track in life 🙏
Give importance to yourself and the world will give importance to you 😊
Focusing in someone's score doesn't make yours any better💓💓
Where your focus is, your energy flows..
Resourceful message. .
my life is in the gutter and i really needed this !!!!! need to look at the stars !! thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is really awesome 😎 because sometimes we do our best but unable to receive positive result as we expected which makes us to feel down.... it’s not easy to deal that kind of situation but it’s not difficult to start it again with past experience & keep moving.....yes I can..
I'm still lost in my mind and this world, i don't know were I'm at or going to be at!!!
*There is nothing noble in being superior to other people, true nobility is being superior to your former self*
When you fail not a time but many time after focusing..... You will never have the same courage to get up and focus again.... That's reality☺
Thanks for lifting me up again..
Truly cannot live without your motivational videos. Thank you as always.
None of Jay Shetty's videos disappoint me!!
I just googled to find out who is Jay Shetty and I just subscribed his channel. I feel so inspiring after watching his video. I hope everyone is doing well. Gbu
This man always inspires me. I just listen to him when i am down in life. Thank you JAY for all you have done ❤️👍
you are truly incredible, u made my day, I' was so depressed all day, I felt like the world is coming down on me since I lost my job despite being a good employee,
Life is surely all about improving oneself
True Jay .. I think that bowling is the perfect analogy regarding this matter .. I praise and value your observation
May god bless you (Jay Shetty ) with all the happiness in the world. You motivate me a lot. I love your voice. Thanks a lot Brother.
Oh yes !! Life put me down but I'm not going to put it down
That message is so true❤️💝
Sir ur TH-cam collection always have something to help us when we feel low...this video really goes directly to our heart
life is short you have to enjoy it
Very well said...just experienced this today with my life but being in your group helps me stay more positive...thanks and much love 💖
U r an awesome mind trainer .You Always make me think out of the gutter in my difficult times... hats off to u...
When every day is a struggle and disappointment, what can keep a person standing?
I think we need to move away from this typical explanation and go back to days where man had nothing but was happy just exploring. Man should be made to believe that even without anything he can survive and live a life.
I sir I regularly watch u r viedos and they r so inspiration to me..whenever i feel low i see u r viedos. .. actually i want to tell u my prblm in my life i don't have best but I have enof things but I need a friends but all my friends r selfish every time I give my 100% to ppl but they won't give at least 50% it's so hurts we will say all relationship already written by god but only a friend relationship we can select but...😭😥😕 I don't have a friend with whom I can cry like a child do silly things ...i miss that 😕
I like this use of analogy where you connect life like a bowling ball 🎳
Life is not a race ...everyone has his or her breakthrough in life🤗
Better be the first rate version of yourself than being the 2nd rate version of someone else.
SIMPLE YET GRACEFUL❤️
so true , can't stop look others ....
I love Jay Shetty
Videos like this motivates me to encourage more people in my videos from my channel. Thanks jay!
The good thing is that you can really change your life by changing your language, talking to yourself in a positive way, and starting to ask yourself different questions. Develop habits that steer you towards your goals. If you do that- success in your live is guaranteed. Thanks Jay Shetty ;)
how can you be so good!!! wonderfully explained thanks for such a positive guidance jay!! thanks alot
Hi jay am been going through a lot of Depression and it’s really make I feel down am feeling like am nobody and like it don’t make sense am alive
I am sorry to hear that. I have been there too. But please jut keep trying it is going to get better. Just make one step at a time. You can for sure do it!
Am trying but I just keep seeing everything that happened in front of me am in a dark world with there is lock of love 😭😭
i am also going through this phase for past 1 yr depression someone i loved is nt with me anymore every day is tuff for me i am dead frm inside bt alive somehw dnt knw wht will happn to me
It’s too much pain because that person knows you love them and then they mess your heart up
@@aseyabudhu3559 that person nver loved me otherwise she havnt left me like that knwing i will nt able to live without her today was her birthday the gift she wanted frm me was to leave her the best gift i gave her was i left her i freed her frm me forever & i knw i am dead bt i freed frm this prision that was she wanted frm me frm 1 day of relationship
Arguably one of the best ❤️
Repeat after Me: You Are, Who You Are - And I am, Who I am 🙏😉🙏 Great Video Jay Shetty
Great message, I love how you used bowling as a metaphor for not comparing ourselves to other people and how sometimes things go to plan and sometimes things don't, but it's important to never give up. I haven't been bowling for ages, and after watching this I genuinely want to go bowling now! 😆
Jay Shetty, you make my day every day by your thoughtful thought :) Thank you
the matter is focusing on our thoughts it's make us to be strong
Thanks to make me strong because I can't forgot my past my ex
It's not life that let's you down. Those who keep lying is their lies. I accepted my faults
Thank you for always being the voice of love
I don't know what to say to this video but every word mean to me thanku Jay
I love your voice.. It really energies me... I feel so depressed after my breakup...
Last lines made be to recap rocky balboa movie scene. "But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!"
Really motivated and inspired me. Been uninspired recently. This helped. loved the video!
It's a real helpful video. Most of student who fail despite of hard work and other who do not deserve move ahead but with this video those student who failed can focus on their goal and not listen or get distracted by the people who taunt them. I feel everything in life happen for reason one set back in life can't get a person mind off it's goal. I feel this video is real inspiring and best ❤️.
If u agree to me like 👍
Life is all about mindset