I feel like you are one of the few influencers who is so authentic in striving for the balance between rawness and aspirational content, and I love both and I love that you are so honest about trying to find that balance! I'm also new-ish to LA and was living downtown last year and I've gotten such a sense of comfort when you talk about the quirks of LA and downtown because it's definitely been an adjustment lol. Anyway, thank you for doing what you do!
I’ve never had anyone tell me something about my content that REALLY resonates with me like this!! I’m happy you’re here 💞 & yes, downtown is a TRIP. but we gotta love her.
I love you being authentic and showing your annoyances and “talking shit” because tbh it’s a very normal part of life and there’s no reason to hide it :) being your genuine self is beautiful and I appreciate it very much !!
You’re truly one of basically 5 people I stay on social media for. You slay. Try not to intake other peoples offloading too much because you’ve got tons of OG followers who love what you put out.
I love your content & enjoy your DIMLs a lot. Just some perspective & coming from a genuine place- as a human, I feel for you and have empathy for your anxieties & struggles. As an influencer I honestly don’t have sympathy for you & I think the general population relates bc although I’m sure there are ups & downs in that career - your job is traveling to a new city & getting a hotel & having a mini-vacation… and not saying your life is all rainbows & butterflies but it’s hard to feel bad when you’re showing an exuberant display of wealth when most of the country & world doesn’t have the money or means to do what you do. It doesn’t mean your struggles or issues aren’t valid - I just think no one is entitled to feel bad for influencers & I don’t think as a career it’s deserved. I appreciate you as a human and I like watching your content because I think you’re genuine. I hope this didn’t come off aggressive, just think a lot of influencers have a similar mindset to you but it is a tunnel visioned view point imo.
Yeah - I see what you’re saying. Someone will always be worse off, someone will always be better off. I specifically didn’t ask for sympathy because I know it’s difficult for people to understand that work *appears to be* glam & fun for influencers, only after years of being broke, working hours that people would only work with multiple jobs, etc. you don’t just wake up one day in my position! But again, I’m aware there are people who are worse off, though that won’t stop me from sharing my genuine feelings about my life! I don’t want sympathy, at all, just sharing because i was asked to do so. 💞
I appreciate how genuine and authentic you always are and how you don't make things seem as though they're always perfect. Life, in general, is a mix of highs and lows, and as an influencer, I feel as though you represent that and I appreciate it!! Wishing you light and peace! 💛
Ya know, I STARTED as a lifestyle blogger so this does make sense! And Lauryn has become somewhat of my blog big sis so we love that. & yay! I’ll def do more travel 💘
Here are some video ideas i feel kinda fit your vibe and will be something you already know and should be easy fun and stress free. plus i feel we would all love to see some of these. 1) What to pack when traveling or a how to pack video. 2) Being your assistance’s assistant 3) Switching styles with TK for a week 4) Switching lives with TK for a week (would really love to see you work with Alisha like TK does) 5) Being Joe’s assistant for the day 6) How to update your wardrobe for cheap/ wardrobe must haves 7) How you take your instagram pictures 8) How you edit your instagram picture 9) How you vlog/ BTS 10) How you edit your vlogs 11) Halloween Vlogs ( Decorating, Parties, pumpkin patches, apple picking, backing) 12) Boyfriend tag 13) Updated Roomate Tag 14) Wearing your boyfriend’s clothes for a week
Love it! Mid-rant had the Notebook scene 'What do you want?' pop up in my head. I'm glad you posted and shared your truth, as you can see many people can relate/appreciate it. Love all your content, damn straight you're the leader lol X
you're doing amazing sister!!!!! all your feelings are valid and I can speak for everyone when I say I'm so thankful you found someone who feels like such a safe space in the chaos of navigating life
I just recently started watching your videos after finding you through TK and your vibe is so relaxing and soothing that anything you do just feels peaceful.
I love your rants 😂 I, too, can hardly fkn stand ppl most days due to my anxiety. Also, I live in the 805 & it is very much coupled up. Most ppl also procreate very early & have kids from diff partners pretty young-like 19-25 young. Idk why lol
I've been super off my YT game & am behind on so many videos, so that's why I'm just now seeing this but lemme tell u that bathroom rant made me adore u even more. First off, I am in the same boat with people recently. I literally cannot remember the last time I had good customer service or a good encounter with a company or person where I felt like they were helpful or actually doing their job. & as someone who also struggles majorly with anxiety it drives me INSANE. like it takes all of my restraint to not lose my shit in public lol. Second, I appreciate u so deeply for being real and genuine with your content ALWAYS. I have been following you for like 2ish years now & you're one of the few influencers I actually keep up with bc you're just honest & blunt & I legitimately feel like your friend haha. Put out the content that brings you peace, like u said, u can't make everyone happy & you've grown so much you're obviously doing something right! Just know u will ALWAYS have a supporter/follower in me for as long as u continue to produce content.
I think with social media nowadays I’m instantly turned off when someone posts a vlog clearly doing inauthentic stuff just for their vlog. I appreciate you giving us the best content, and just keeping it real. Tbh could listen to you rant all day, you are so fucking funny. But take time for yourself, we’ll be here when you’re ready/inspired to post
I found your channel about a month ago and you’ve EASILY become one my favorite TH-camrs. I went back and watched so many of your videos! I love your content, keep doing you 🤍
I like you videos because it has good balance of work, fun, health, and fashion. I live in NYC so I love watching your west coast lifestyle! You do a lot of sponsored videos but they are informative and seem genuine. I agree 100% on being disappointed by under performing people constantly. I’m always on defense mode and anxious because of it lol Annoying but it reminds me to NOT be that way. Anyway, I personally love your content and hope you feel better after the trip!
I appreciate the feedback!! Yeah - the sponsorships allow me to KEEP doing videos! Equipment, editing, activities for videos are all PRICEY, and I can’t make them without being paid money to do so. Some people just don’t get it lol. Anyways, thank you for your thoughtful comment 💘
Payton, you are in burnout mode, you need to stop trying to be everything to everyone because you can’t, no one can. If something makes you truly unhappy and anxious don’t do it anymore, do not sacrifice your peace and wellbeing. I have severe anxiety and am also an introvert and it took me too many years to realize I needed to do what felt right to me and cut the rest out but once I did I became much happier. Yes, I still have anxiety but not nearly as bad and I feel much more in control. Take care of yourself. 💕
They don’t want expert advice. Just want to see how you decide where your time goes. You should show ins and out of business. The struggles etc. I love your content.
My problem is, I’m not sure where it goes! I spend most of my day doing things on the computer & phone, so it’s difficult to SHOW people things because I can’t screen record my emails, partnerships, Shopify, bank account, etc. and otherwise I’ll just sit at my computer and talk about what I’m doing rather than showing it!! It’s just… not going to result in people watching, and ultimately that’s the goal!
@@PaytonSartainHH honestly i love to just watch people doing their day-to-day work like going through emails ect you can just talk us through what you are doing not necessarily giving actual details. people just want to be part of a journey you dont need to be an expert and maybe it could be a stress relief, you dont have to know everything, you doing amazing
I really love this and you inspired me to take care of myself today and do a long drive by myself to see friends! Was thinking about doing this and you just validated that I'm not crazy and we all need some time for ourselves like this.💖💌💐
My suggestions is do a " feeling lucky" travel app or throw a dart at the united states and travel to that place and do two things our of your comfort zone.
Don't know if you'll see this at this point but I'm a new follower and I love your chill vibe. Your vlogs just feel like we're hanging out. I also think your life is interesting but you're not out of touch with reality and you have nice style.
Literally SCREAMED what!?! 4.80 for gas. I'm crying over 2.98 in the south for gas. Also get a gas app I have shell and you literally save 5¢ per gallon... I don't work for them just tryna help a girlie out... I would never drive if I had to pay almost 5$ a gallon 😭😭😣
I’ve thought about this but I don’t like other people speaking for me! You never know what she might say thinking it represents me when really it doesn’t!
I feel like you are one of the few influencers who is so authentic in striving for the balance between rawness and aspirational content, and I love both and I love that you are so honest about trying to find that balance! I'm also new-ish to LA and was living downtown last year and I've gotten such a sense of comfort when you talk about the quirks of LA and downtown because it's definitely been an adjustment lol. Anyway, thank you for doing what you do!
I’ve never had anyone tell me something about my content that REALLY resonates with me like this!! I’m happy you’re here 💞 & yes, downtown is a TRIP. but we gotta love her.
@@PaytonSartainHH when I tell you I screamed when you said in your stories that DTLA is not for the faint of heart 😮💨 but exactly gotta love her!!!
I love you being authentic and showing your annoyances and “talking shit” because tbh it’s a very normal part of life and there’s no reason to hide it :) being your genuine self is beautiful and I appreciate it very much !!
You’re truly one of basically 5 people I stay on social media for. You slay. Try not to intake other peoples offloading too much because you’ve got tons of OG followers who love what you put out.
THANK YOU OMG - this brings me so much peace. I really appreciate you and THANK YOU for following along 🖤
“i’m in a bad fucking mood all the time” SAMEEEEE
morning routines!!! i also love ur day in a life’s my absolute fav vidoes to watch!!
I love your content & enjoy your DIMLs a lot. Just some perspective & coming from a genuine place- as a human, I feel for you and have empathy for your anxieties & struggles. As an influencer I honestly don’t have sympathy for you & I think the general population relates bc although I’m sure there are ups & downs in that career - your job is traveling to a new city & getting a hotel & having a mini-vacation… and not saying your life is all rainbows & butterflies but it’s hard to feel bad when you’re showing an exuberant display of wealth when most of the country & world doesn’t have the money or means to do what you do. It doesn’t mean your struggles or issues aren’t valid - I just think no one is entitled to feel bad for influencers & I don’t think as a career it’s deserved. I appreciate you as a human and I like watching your content because I think you’re genuine. I hope this didn’t come off aggressive, just think a lot of influencers have a similar mindset to you but it is a tunnel visioned view point imo.
Yeah - I see what you’re saying. Someone will always be worse off, someone will always be better off. I specifically didn’t ask for sympathy because I know it’s difficult for people to understand that work *appears to be* glam & fun for influencers, only after years of being broke, working hours that people would only work with multiple jobs, etc. you don’t just wake up one day in my position! But again, I’m aware there are people who are worse off, though that won’t stop me from sharing my genuine feelings about my life! I don’t want sympathy, at all, just sharing because i was asked to do so. 💞
I seriously appreciate this video! Thanks for being honest and up front with us! I genuinely think you’re doing great!! 🙌🏾
I appreciate how genuine and authentic you always are and how you don't make things seem as though they're always perfect. Life, in general, is a mix of highs and lows, and as an influencer, I feel as though you represent that and I appreciate it!! Wishing you light and peace! 💛
Thank you so much Anna!!
Lollll thank u girl! Exactly if I’m paying wth!
I feel like you get those suggestions because you have Lauryn Bosstick vibes. I love your travel guides personally!
Ya know, I STARTED as a lifestyle blogger so this does make sense! And Lauryn has become somewhat of my blog big sis so we love that. & yay! I’ll def do more travel 💘
Here are some video ideas i feel kinda fit your vibe and will be something you already know and should be easy fun and stress free. plus i feel we would all love to see some of these.
1) What to pack when traveling or a how to pack video.
2) Being your assistance’s assistant
3) Switching styles with TK for a week
4) Switching lives with TK for a week (would really love to see you work with Alisha like TK does)
5) Being Joe’s assistant for the day
6) How to update your wardrobe for cheap/ wardrobe must haves
7) How you take your instagram pictures
8) How you edit your instagram picture
9) How you vlog/ BTS
10) How you edit your vlogs
11) Halloween Vlogs ( Decorating, Parties, pumpkin patches, apple picking, backing)
12) Boyfriend tag
13) Updated Roomate Tag
14) Wearing your boyfriend’s clothes for a week
THANK U!!
Love it! Mid-rant had the Notebook scene 'What do you want?' pop up in my head. I'm glad you posted and shared your truth, as you can see many people can relate/appreciate it. Love all your content, damn straight you're the leader lol X
you're doing amazing sister!!!!! all your feelings are valid and I can speak for everyone when I say I'm so thankful you found someone who feels like such a safe space in the chaos of navigating life
I appreciate you bb!!
I just recently started watching your videos after finding you through TK and your vibe is so relaxing and soothing that anything you do just feels peaceful.
I love how negative this is. Truly awesome. Real talk with no sugar sociol media coating
Absolutely loving the rant content 👏🏾👏🏾 you just being you is enough, honestly so refreshing ❤️❤️
Thank you 🥺🖤
You are doing great and I’m so glad i started following you!
Thank you 🥺
I love your rants 😂 I, too, can hardly fkn stand ppl most days due to my anxiety. Also, I live in the 805 & it is very much coupled up. Most ppl also procreate very early & have kids from diff partners pretty young-like 19-25 young. Idk why lol
so it’s the culture lol
@@PaytonSartainHH 10000%
I've been super off my YT game & am behind on so many videos, so that's why I'm just now seeing this but lemme tell u that bathroom rant made me adore u even more. First off, I am in the same boat with people recently. I literally cannot remember the last time I had good customer service or a good encounter with a company or person where I felt like they were helpful or actually doing their job. & as someone who also struggles majorly with anxiety it drives me INSANE. like it takes all of my restraint to not lose my shit in public lol. Second, I appreciate u so deeply for being real and genuine with your content ALWAYS. I have been following you for like 2ish years now & you're one of the few influencers I actually keep up with bc you're just honest & blunt & I legitimately feel like your friend haha. Put out the content that brings you peace, like u said, u can't make everyone happy & you've grown so much you're obviously doing something right! Just know u will ALWAYS have a supporter/follower in me for as long as u continue to produce content.
I think with social media nowadays I’m instantly turned off when someone posts a vlog clearly doing inauthentic stuff just for their vlog. I appreciate you giving us the best content, and just keeping it real. Tbh could listen to you rant all day, you are so fucking funny. But take time for yourself, we’ll be here when you’re ready/inspired to post
I genuinely love your content 😩😍. Girl just keep doing you.
omg loved this vibe so much. Loved the more real and honest chat! Please keep that in vids going further.
Love your this solo trip video!! Also, your first outfit (gray knit up) is sooo cute😍
I found your channel about a month ago and you’ve EASILY become one my favorite TH-camrs. I went back and watched so many of your videos! I love your content, keep doing you 🤍
video ideas! : about instagram, taking pics. story times. oversized t shirt outfits.
THANK YOU!!
Queen P! Love how authentic you are and definitely relate, love your rants!
I like you videos because it has good balance of work, fun, health, and fashion. I live in NYC so I love watching your west coast lifestyle! You do a lot of sponsored videos but they are informative and seem genuine. I agree 100% on being disappointed by under performing people constantly. I’m always on defense mode and anxious because of it lol Annoying but it reminds me to NOT be that way. Anyway, I personally love your content and hope you feel better after the trip!
I appreciate the feedback!! Yeah - the sponsorships allow me to KEEP doing videos! Equipment, editing, activities for videos are all PRICEY, and I can’t make them without being paid money to do so. Some people just don’t get it lol.
Anyways, thank you for your thoughtful comment 💘
I enjoy your content, I enjoy your energy. Film what you want to film and the right people will watch it ♡
when you said you were over people and they underperform I felt it in my BONES
What size are you in the black dress? Just added it to my cart 🖤
Sorry so late here! I usually get a 4!
We all love you and thank you so much for all the effort you make for your audience!
Payton, you are in burnout mode, you need to stop trying to be everything to everyone because you can’t, no one can. If something makes you truly unhappy and anxious don’t do it anymore, do not sacrifice your peace and wellbeing. I have severe anxiety and am also an introvert and it took me too many years to realize I needed to do what felt right to me and cut the rest out but once I did I became much happier. Yes, I still have anxiety but not nearly as bad and I feel much more in control. Take care of yourself. 💕
I needed this validation and I appreciate this so so much. Thank you angel 💘
Your amazing ! Everything you post is enough, its great. ❤
i have never related to someone so much. thank you so much for this video
I am OBSESSED with you. I am OBSESSED with your content. You’re doing amazing sweetie!!!!! ❤️🔥
THANK U ILY
I just love everything you do. Anything productive which is all of your videos ;)
Love you exactly as you are girl! Keep fucking killing it!
They don’t want expert advice. Just want to see how you decide where your time goes. You should show ins and out of business. The struggles etc. I love your content.
My problem is, I’m not sure where it goes! I spend most of my day doing things on the computer & phone, so it’s difficult to SHOW people things because I can’t screen record my emails, partnerships, Shopify, bank account, etc. and otherwise I’ll just sit at my computer and talk about what I’m doing rather than showing it!! It’s just… not going to result in people watching, and ultimately that’s the goal!
@@PaytonSartainHH honestly i love to just watch people doing their day-to-day work like going through emails ect you can just talk us through what you are doing not necessarily giving actual details. people just want to be part of a journey you dont need to be an expert and maybe it could be a stress relief, you dont have to know everything, you doing amazing
The rant was too relatable. I think you just gotta do you. Ignore the people that are annoying 🤣
love you P !
Love you!
a whole mooood I love you!
Do not mess with ya cheekbones babe! Ya face looks great already!
Girl, create the content you want and feel excited about. Don’t overthink it!😄
Love this!!!! 😌❤️❤️
I watch because I'm a 93 baby with anxiety and I like you...I'll watch u because ur u and i think ur the coolest 😎
Omg thank you! 93 anxiety babies gotta stick together. 🤎
I really love this and you inspired me to take care of myself today and do a long drive by myself to see friends! Was thinking about doing this and you just validated that I'm not crazy and we all need some time for ourselves like this.💖💌💐
My Capricorn soul felt this entire video so deep
Wow yes
andersens is the BEST
My suggestions is do a " feeling lucky" travel app or throw a dart at the united states and travel to that place and do two things our of your comfort zone.
Just bumped into your vlog. ILYSFM!!!!!! 🔥❤️🥰 - all the way from South Africa. 🇿🇦
YES YOU ARE THE LEADER HAAHAH
Pop off! So appreciate you sharing. I’ve followed you for a long time on all your platforms - you do you. Fill your own cup first.
:)♥️♥️🌟yay for Sartain
Happiest travels to you 🏝
Go Miss P!! We love your videos 💗
Don't know if you'll see this at this point but I'm a new follower and I love your chill vibe. Your vlogs just feel like we're hanging out. I also think your life is interesting but you're not out of touch with reality and you have nice style.
So pure 🥺 thank you!
Lolll ya hilarious in this video
Literally SCREAMED what!?! 4.80 for gas. I'm crying over 2.98 in the south for gas. Also get a gas app I have shell and you literally save 5¢ per gallon... I don't work for them just tryna help a girlie out... I would never drive if I had to pay almost 5$ a gallon 😭😭😣
Omg thank you P! This is helpful. ❤️
Have assistant answer DM’s
I’ve thought about this but I don’t like other people speaking for me! You never know what she might say thinking it represents me when really it doesn’t!
@@PaytonSartainHH maybe have her do it then sign w her name ! so no one gets confused and you get the help :)
@@Megatronbeauty wait great idea!!
Transformers 2050!!!
TRANSFORMERS WORLD 2050
I don’t love that top that’s to open in the front
Boundaries! Honestly, you don’t sound like you like your job. Is it worth your peace?
Serious q: are you looking for a new friend hehe (((:
I’m in San Diego tho 😅🤣
no need to take it so seriously, people are just bored looking for something to watch
This is how I pay my rent 🙃 so I def have to think critically about it!