My partner used to (jokingly) say “you’re the second hottest person in the world. it’s Dave Grohl and then you”. When the news broke, they turned to me and said, “Congrats on the number one spot”
His poor daughters & wife have basically been backstabbed by their father/husband & he has the audacity to say he "loves them" & yet betrays them... there goes my hero..
right like now they gotta learn how to fly again bc of his bullshit-ery !! its times like these... but no jokes aside how dare he say "im trying to gain back their trust and i love them" homie im sorry but if u actually loved them you wouldve have done this, hope this helps
For real I was so attached to him, nirvana is such an important thing in my life, and I love Foo fighters as well, and I read his damn book and cried, and now this 😢 it's so disappointing that my favorite artists that don't do anything are all already dead 😬
David literally was the sweetest rockstar ever, donating to charities, doing good stuff, etc. Right until he cheated, its also weird because hes been married her for OVER 20 YEARS!!
To be fair he could still be a nice guy, it’s just that that means he isn’t necessarily a great guy or a loyal one. You can still find him to be a good rockstar, but…it definitely is annoying that he was living this rockstar live style and before he was portrayed as a family man on the road and stayed true to that. Just sucks tbh. It feels werid saying this, but I’m just glad he didn’t do something worse. For this to be the worst thing you’ve done as a rockstar isn’t the worst but I also hate saying that because I hate how rockstars actions are excused for a “rockstar lifestyle”.
Not trying to discredit the good he did, but he unfortunately participated in AIDs denialism. Famous people are still people and people are often guilty of doing at least one thing wrong.
My favorite arc is the "Foo Fighters: AIDS Denialism" arc where his band promoted and raised money for an AIDS denialism organization until the mid 2000's. The founder's baby died because of her beliefs, and she soon succumbed to her disease as well along with many other members of the organization. Dave and the band have never apologized or taken accountability for their involvement despite literally having blood on their hands.
I literally thought it was a joke until I realised it was his official account! I can’t believe it still, it’s so frustrating because this is the typical rockstar behaviour so it’s not surprising, but it just being the fact DAVE GROHL!! I’m annoyed
@@Fritz-the-Brat that’s another reason I’m so frustrated, like I knew about all of that too and my dumbass thought he changed because he was married so long with kids (LMFAO typing this out now I’m realising how stupid I sound), I’m super against this whole celebrity culture (also the parasocialness of it all) and putting them on a pedestal and pretending like you know them, I wasn’t like that with Dave Grohl but I always did like that image he had and seeing him completely betray his family like that and humiliating his family in front of millions just turned me off him
@@yourethelossofmy_life I agree. The Swiftie thing has passed over..... The hypocrisy of the mistress is harder to forget. I don't think anyone will think of him as a good husband again.
Yup trust no one! Men with fame and money are more likely to cheat. My own brother told me most men cheat but not all. Men that say all men cheat are usually narcissists and cheaters trying to justify their bad behavior!
People (men and women) mess up. But using THAT as an excuse is absolutely disrespectful and disgusting. No accountability, no apology, no regard for your self worth. You deserve better and I'm glad you dipped on him.
i just don't understand why can't people be honest and decent and find yourself someone who'll be okay with open relationship instead of finding a monogamous person and gaslight them into being okay with cheating
I respected Dave a lot as a person and artist, but as of now have not listened to a lot of Foo Fighters or Nirvana- I was going to, like, a couple weeks ago though before the drama happened. But I'm so sorry, ik what it feels like to have artists you like end up being shitty people, it really really sucks :( if it makes you feel any better at least you're a normal fan who isn't denying all the rumors and being toxic about it like Melanie Martinez's supporters are!!
As a child of adultery, this is incredibly hard to deal with. My heart really goes out to the baby in the future. It’s a burden, that no child or human should have to carry. The fact a grown man can do this to his family and the unborn child is horrible.
I just feel so bad for the baby when she gets older. Imagine reading your father making public apologies and begging their family to forgive them, due to your existence. He's probably got many children he doesn't even know exist as well. I've been a huge Nirvana fan since 1991 so I'm not hating. It's just what many "rockstars" do and society accepts it for some reason. Groupies are everywhere and it's gross on both ends
I’ve thought about this a lot. Imagine your introduction to the world being your rockstar dad publicly apologizing to his wife and kids that you exist and doing everything he can to right this wrong. Fucking yeesh
Foo Fighters used to have really weird beliefs regarding hiv/aids. They didnt believe hiv led to aids and encouraged people with hiv to not use protection. They had a section on their website for it and even allowed the use of their music on a propaganda piece.
@@MelModica They weren't the only ones. At the beginning of the epidemic even Rolling Stone magazine took that same position. Weird considering how much evidence pointed to the HIV virus.
It's a proven fact, there is no causal connection from HIV to AIDS. Do some research before you make fools of yourselves. Most AIDS victims were killed by doctor prescribed AZT, a chemotherapy so toxic it was discontinued as a treatment.
I never idolized anyone growing up since I knew they could turn out to be terrible people any time. Not gonna lie though, this one stung. I thought it was admirable that he could be a rockstar without all the rockstar baggage. But worst of all, my mom's heartbroken. *That* is truly unforgivable.
Gen X here… if he was gonna screw teenagers… why the fuck didn’t he get a vasectomy?? What an ASS! I’m Dave Grohl’s age… don’t have kids… but seriously? What a freaking jerk!
With david grohls comment about taylor swift, im pretty sure thats the statement that caused all the insane swifties to destroy/deface kurts gravestone...
@@GravityDontMeanTooMuchTooMe I agree, but some people feel as though if you can knowingly be married to someone who does stuff like that then you're part of the problem (not saying I fully agree with that though, I love Gerard
7:15 I actually appreciate this being said out loud. It's easy to mock people who idolize celebs, but that's the nature of the system as we know it! Your perspective again makes me think, ty ❤
This is why when people try to defend a celebrity by going “they’re a good person” I just wish they’d remember that not only do they not know the celebrity as a person they’re literally one bad move away from badly damaging if not ending their career or at least tarnishing your image of them. We’ve seen it SO MANY times and I’m sad regular people keep getting their hearts broken over these celebrities doing shitty things.
Dave does not speak for Nirvana, so get that straight! It's well known that Nirvana essentially was a vehicle for Kurt's talent, and Kurt called all the shots. No denying Grohl is an awesome drummer and was there for Nirvana's three superstar years, but the six previous drummers made some solid contributions too. Grohl was a few years younger than Cobain and Nirvana bassist Krist Novoselic and it seems clear they trolled Grohl a bit in fun and that he knew his place was to play the drums and not speak up too much. Who knows if this is what gave Dave the chip on his shoulder, but ever since he's been trying to recreate that dynamic, with himself in the Kurt position - leader of the band and idolised for his talent. He's built his brand and done all the arena tours, but unfortunately for Dave, Kurt had more talent in his little finger than Dave has in his whole body.
in my personal opinion i think taylor swift has bad music, i love nirvana, but you like what you like man idk why people get so mad at people liking taylor swift. like yeah some of her fans are insane.
Honestly Taylor swift fans are the worst people in the world and her music sucks but I’m a grown man, I don’t listen to pop music. Nirvana was a great band. This is me being nice
@@bwillsskates2638 i agree that there is bad Taylor swift fans. i feel like saying that im not one of those people isn't going to help me or prove im a good person i understand what you're saying and agree but keep in mind that there will always be bad people in EVERY fandom or fans of something
@@EDDIETRUJILLO-q8p probably hundreds.. He’s a bad person. What stuns me is that he married her and cheated? When you marry someone you don’t cheat on them, and he has CHILDREN.
I mean... stop idealizing celebrities. They are people with flaws as any of us. I say this because yall seem so surprised and heartbroken... if you like his music it's ok, you like him as an artist and that's it. He is not your friend or familiar, you don't have to care about their personal life decisions. Imagine having to know the past of all the artists on your playlist... I SWEAR you couldn't like more than 3. If you think you haven't made bad sht, you're probably too young and have not been aware of it or you will do it in a few years.
@@sebastianduarteguitar telling people they have done bad things or will as way to defend dave is only assuming they have done or will do things as awful as we he did witch is just your assumption We all do bad things at different levels Im also confused Do you care or not about his personal life???
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 I’m not defending him and I don’t care about his life ( I don’t even like FF). What I am saying is some people took his situation as a personal offense because they idealized him in a godly manner and now they can’t listen to his music because they feel heartbroken in regards of Dave’s personal/familiar situation. Take it from this perspective: imagine a friend asking you “hey, did you hear the new FF song? It’s heavy” and then replying “no, Dave cheated on his wife. I won’t listen to it” 😂
@@sebastianduarteguitar I agree 🤣🤣what I was saying is that you said we all do bad things or will and I agree but considering the context it sounded like you were defending him as if people did not have any right to dislike him because well um are you perfect??🤓 Yeah I mean we all do dumb things but to the degree of Dave ???nah Leaving that aside I agree with the rest
It makes me sad that people on Instagram and other platforms keep saying that it should be disregarded as he is a rock star. Morals and humanity have left us humans
As an old gal, I'd disregard the cheating because he is a serial cheater and a rock star. Yes, it would be great to think that all rock stars once in committed relationships didn't cheat. What I find unforgivable is not only did he cheat but he actually had a child w/ the woman that he cheated w/. I can say, w/o a doubt, that the baby could have been conceived in a one night stand w/ neither of the parents using birth control. But was it solely that, which is bad enough OR was it from a longer term relationship, which, to me, makes it even worse. ~ This was the exact reason Jerry Hall's relationship w/ Mick Jagger ended. She knew he cheated (but always came home to her) but when he fathered a child w/ someone else, that was when she said enough. The difference there is a generation (and all the changes, positive and negative that happened within that generational gap) and also, I don't think Jagger was ever perceived as "the good/great guy of rock and roll" even when he was Grohl's age and younger. ~ If you're a married rock star who is going to cheat, the best thing that could have been done in this scenario was to make sure that the woman was using some form of birth control (and not simply saying she was) but also, w/ a wife at home, the common decency to protect her from STDs or worse by wrapping yourself up, which Dave obviously didn't (unless we're going w/ a "the condom broke" story on which I'd call bullshit). ~ I couldn't get through Grohl's The Storyteller for the life of me, which is extremely unusual when it comes to celeb autobiographies/biographies. Perhaps I unconsciously sensed that he was trying to be too authentic, when anything but. ~ I feel sorry for his wife Jordan and their three daughters. If I were Jordan, I may be able to forgive the cheating (as I did w/ my second husband) but his having a child w/ the other woman is absolutely unforgivable. I'm hoping there was no pre-nup and she takes him for as much as she can w/ regard to spousal support w/ their daughters (one of them already) aging out of child support. ~ I do have to say that I absolutely love the thinking of the younger people commenting who do believe, rock star or not, married = no cheating.
honestly i’m glad louise post is getting the attention she deserves. her band is amazing and she’s a wonderful lady and mentor to me. listen to her band veruca salt!!
All of this has disappointed me sm. I’ve idolized Dave since the age of 11, huge fan of nirvana and foo fighters and have 3 signatures by him including his book. He’s still my idol and always will be but this has been a huge surprise.
4:53 before I say this, please know I am not defending this man! Dave Grohl is a disgusting human being who deserves no sympathy. Though about the part with him not saying anything earlier, it could've possibly been because he was still discussing everything with his family, and they didn't want it out yet. Most of the time when things like this, the people involved would rather sort things out before telling others. Though once again, I am not defending Dave Grohl in any way!
Kurt would be so disappointed. I have been a foo fighter and nirvana fan for years and this is upsetting me so bad I'm actually gonna cry,why can't anyone just be unproblematic? I believe in Dave and now,yeah no I don't believe in anyone anymore.
@@mudlinen5988 I see. I looked it up on wikipedia as suggested, and they do have a list of women he cheated on. I feel that I was betrayed and deceived by his fake family man act.
That's what I thought. I have still lost respect for him, but he's not as bad as a lot of the other musicians I've dropped. Like the amount I like Foo Fighters music outweighs the amount of respect I've lost for him.
Yeah, good thing all the damage he did was just psychological (cheating on his wife, traumatizing his daughters so they now have trust issues and a skewed idea of love/relationships) and not physical. At least he didn’t put his hands on anybody so it’s all fine. What a guy! /s
@@W4TSKY I mean I said I lost respect for him. But he didn't commit any crimes. and I think it's the kind of thing that's between him and his family. I've had to drop way too many artists because they are bad people and so I'm trying to weigh the situation. You know, the whole separate the artist from the music thing. Plus I don't idolize anybody, I just like his music.
Men can have a history of cheating and the world just nods and smiles at a "family man" persona the second he switches over, but let a woman have had several normal relationships that simply run their course with a few kids and nothing but hate 🤷🏾♀️
As a huge fan of Veruca Salt and knowing Grohl’s alcohol problems, I completely believe Louise. I also love Foo Fighters and Dave Grohl but I never thought he was perfect. These guys are always capable of doing stuff like this, unfortunately.
when at 6:50 and said there's no excuse to cheat it sucks for me as my abusive and neglectful ex wouldn't let me leave them when i tried more than 7 times. so, I cheated to get them to leave me so i wasn't trapped with them, but it sucks cause im not a cheater or bad person. i will forever just hate myself that i did that. it makes me think i deserved all that my ex did because how can you cheat on someone you love. i still think about them even though they have already moved on to the roommate i thought he had feelings for when for 2 weeks they would cuddle on the couch and watch tv together from dawn to dusk. while i was treated as a side piece. i can never forgive myself but what could i have done when i tried to leave my ex would threaten to hurt themselves or end it or destroy their life and never try again. they have undiagnosed mental health issues that we were both sure was bpd and DID. so am i the monster? i know i wasn't great but like what else could i have done when i was financially drained by them and i lost all 3 of my jobs lost the apartment i tried to rent for them and another shitty roommate. idk i just wish i could take back me even dating them because i still care about them but they just never treated me right i can go into detail but like idk i feel bad even typing this.
I don’t think that’s your fault. it sounds like they were already cheating on you, at least emotionally. I don’t think you should ever cheat on someone as revenge for them cheating, but it genuinely seems like that was the best way for everyone involved you could have ended that relationship. I’m sorry you went through that.
It's alright. Cheating is one thing, being trapped in an abusive relationship and finding someone else while you're stuck is another. Sure, its technically cheating, but nothing is ever black and white, you did what you had to get out and it wasnt pretty but getting out of those relationships never is. We've all dated people we wish we never met, you're not alone and I hope that in time, you can forgive yourself. I know when I was struggling with this, I'd give myself a reality check by asking "how would I feel, if one of my friends was in my position?" and 9/10, I realise i would be furious on their behalf and fully supportive. We tend to be less forgiving of ourselves than others and that reality check helps put things in perspective, looking at ourselves from an outside perspective. Idk if that makes sense, but I hope it does and I hope it helps
I think context does matter a lot when it comes to interpersonal things between people. Cheating is always bad but doing bad things doesn't automatically make you a terrible, unforgivable person. Grohl's situation isn't at all comparable to yours and the fact you show remorse for doing that already shows that you are much better than many other people that cheat just because they want to and are proud of it too. The whole situation you were in was bad, and I think the abuse of your ex outweighs your actions by a large amount
@topfl00rboss I wasn't really checked out. I struggle with feeling too much. So I still think about him. I still think we'll maybe I deserved what happened. I dated them for almost 2 years. They moved in with me and my parents within like a month of us dating they were only at their parents' house 1 day a week. We started dating in September. By that next valentines Day, he proposed, and I was expecting to say yes. Before I met them, I had 7000 dollars in savings. Now I'm more than 7000 dollars in debt. I worked 3 jobs, and they couldn't hold down 1 job because of their mental illness. I was supporting them. My parents kept making him feel bad for not working and having a job, and even though I think he was applying to jobs, he never actually really talked to me too much about things. Like whenever we tried to talk like adults, they would shut down and / or break down, and I'd end up having to comfort them. We had a lot of issues. I asked them to get therapy so we could work together to be better. They only got therapy the day before my 23 birthday, which was on July 31st. They actually left me at the concert. I went to go see destroy boys, sorry mom, d.r.l.n with them. They then ignored me mainly during the 2-3 hour walk towards where our friends apartment was. I started to spiral. As my ex didn't even lend me 2 dollars so I could pay for a concert show even though they used me for money for so long. I had 23 dollars. I just needed a bit extra. But overall, I still care about them, and I worry what is going to happen when they get kicked out of the apartment soon. I worry about them as they are broke they have no family that cares about them.
Dude, I’m SO glad someone is finally talking about this. I don’t have instagram, so on the day that his statement was published, my friend sent me a screenshot and we were DEVASTATED. We’re huge music fans, and we looked up to Dave. It felt like a punch in the gut, and it’s not even my family, so I can only begin to imagine how they feel. Bless his family 😢🤍
The decision to cheat doesn't bother me. The decision to use his family to sell his music, _that_ bothers me. The decision to use his beliefs to sell his music, _that_ bothers me. His tendency to throw other artists under the bus, _that_ bothers me. That he lied about it, consistently, _that_ bothers me.
I've watched some clips about this topic, and, like I'm reading now in this comment section, people are just thrashing a celebrity just for the sake of thrashing him. I could care less about the private affairs of celebreties, and anyways I still will listen to his music. I'm repelled about that visceral reaction like conversative full on christians that throw into the flames records of musicians just 'cause they get conflicted with artist whenever they hear or atest something that apparently goes against their "solid values" 😂. Moreover, riding the high moral horse is pathethic when the stone you throw can go right back you! Still I have to say your comment have reasonable and valid arguments. Mostly when, yeah, ultimate your actions speak greater that your words. That persona just crumbles down like a cheap suit to the pulic eye. You can rise like foam, but you can crash and burn. It's hard to keep up and, like you say, portraying this wholesome identity when, especially in times of the dictatoship of one sided political correctness cancellation (heck, it has always been like this, only that the once oppressed are now the oppresors), a slip up, which can really go deeper and even more obscure, can wash over everything that you have built around an image. Thus, disapointment and disapproval are given. Yet, that visceral indignation for me is immature and absurd.
4:50 tbf if he’d announced the conception of the baby and his affair partner had suffered a miscarriage or still birth, having that aired publicly would’ve been pretty fucking painful for her
So bizarre how a bunch of strangers are acting offended by the actions of a man they DO NOT KNOW… the only one entitled to any opinion at all is literally his wife Jordan. Period.
As a HUGE nirvana fan, i genuinely didnt believe this when i first heard it. All of the 3 members have inspired me to keep going through tough times, without even knowing them.
I was so flabbergasted when seeing Dave's post on IG like I thought he was the one of the few rock stars who isn't controversial (who is alive) but atp idk how to feel about him😓😓 Kurt would be disappointed in him tbh..
For me, Dave Grohl is this generation’s Phil Collins. The “rock star fathers child out of wedlock” story is as old as the hills. However, because it’s Dave Grohl this case is different. I’ve always had problems with the Foo Fighters - they’re like the rock band that’s ok for the under-10s to like and I am 57. Dave Grohl is everywhere - just like Phil Collins was in the 80s-mid 90s. Grohl and Collins have a lot in common - both are drummers who became multi-instrumentalists and both are bandleaders and workaholics - people like this are often control freaks and hard to deal with in real life. Also, there’s nothing that mysterious about the Foo Fighters and they’re overrated. Since the FFs began Grohl has been way too overexposed for my liking, and as Phil Collins found out after playing the wronged cuckolded ex-husband for about 15 years, you can’t go on doing that forever. I guess this incident is Grohl’s first big public screw up and there’ll probably be more in the future. Eventually he’ll probably screw up one time too many like Collins eventually did and the public will turn and bite him on the ass. As regards the behaviour of musicians in their private lives I have always tried not to throw the baby out with the bath water and I won’t stop listening to a good tune just because whoever made it is an asshole because that would be churlish, unless what they’ve done is REALLY bad. Provided he hasn’t been hooking up with children, animals or corpses and the police don’t need to be called it’s nobody’s business but his and that of the others concerned. Other than the “nice guy of rock” tag which grates on me a bit, and the few bits and pieces I see or hear I don’t follow his career because the FFs bore me but they’re always in the news and you can’t avoid stories like this because of how he portrays himself and it sounds like he’s behaved very badly here and keeping a divorce lawyer handy isn’t a good look. Collins lost a LOT of the sympathy the British public had for him when he famously told his second wife he was divorcing her via a fax machine. He’s never really lived it down. Eventually he totally buggered it up by singing songs about the homeless when everyone knew he was absolutely loaded and in 1997 he went to live in Switzerland. The mother of this child can’t say she didn’t know who he was or that she never knew he was married because his face has been everywhere for 25 years and she’s probably looking for money out of this mess. I don’t think she comes out of this well either. He really shouldn’t have put himself on a pedestal as father of the year. Nobody’s THAT nice. Nothing wrong with being a good person but there’s no need to get all attention-seeking about it or get self-righteous with others about it. An act of kindness is something you keep to yourself and do discreetly. You don’t shout about it to the world. For me, people who cast themselves as role models are always suspicious. If he hadn’t done that and started lecturing people hardly anyone would be talking about this. If he was just a regular rock star asshole nobody would bat an eyelid. My sympathy is for his wife and children.
It’s upsetting how people say dave ghrol was the only good rockstar and now they’re are none, Krist Novoselic is still alive, people just don’t pay much attention, but he is an amazing person.
I literally called his behavior “disgusting and abhorrent” on the QOTSA subreddit and had people criticizing me that that language was too harsh for what he’s done 😂 People are CLOWNS
it’s so very easy not to cheat on your partner. like it’s the easiest thing in the world to not cheat. imagine being such a bad and horrible person you cheat on your partner. it’s literally the easiest thing to not cheat. if you think it’s hard, don’t date anyone. if you can’t stop cheating stop dating. easy
One thing I've noticed come out of this whole situation is people saying stuff like, "Oh, this artist I like would never!" I've mostly noticed it with Billie Joe Armstrong since I'm a huge Green Day fan, but I've seen people mention other artists, too. I feel like this whole thing would prove that you shouldn't put celebrities on a pedestal like that and get mad when they mess up, but oh well.
Istg my childhood is falling apart... first the zombies community then this. I’m telling you now if Green Day’s frontman, Billie Joe does some shit like this I’m going to actually die of heartbreak.
My boyfriend grew up with his kids, and I cannot express how this situation has affected everyone. I know having the facts straight in a situation like this is extremely important, but please remember that the lives of the Grohl family aren't entertainment. I also cannot tell you that no one should be contacting anyone involved. We know the facts, and now it's time to move forward and let the families solve this independently. Louis handled this in the most respectful way.
Nah, I think we’re all acting like rockstars aren’t known for cheating, it’s been known since he cheated on Jennifer Youngblood back in like 1996, whole inspiration for the song “Everlong”.
ALSO for any people who don’t know foo fighters they also did “my hero” which is a big(ish) song by then two :,) (Also Louis can you do the neil gaiman shit that’s going down and the stuff about good omens? Thank you love your videos!)
I second the Neil thing because that hit me pretty hard I did make all my books by him credit Hatsune Miku in that time tho so now I have like 7 books that say they're by her
chino moreno dave grohl and eddie vedder have been my idols since a was a baby 😭😭 i am so upset by this news and i cannot even imagine how his family feels
1:09 In fact, I did, kind sir, 😂 I found this out a little bit after I first really got into their music by doing my own research. And I also have half siblings in my family. This is quite very normal. Still not justifited though, and is so extremely unexpected from him.
Dave Grohl being “rocks nicest guy” is the biggest scam in rock music of the last 30 years. Dude has serial cheated on his wife and kids for so many years while representing himself as a wholesome family man and great role model.
this was devastating news to me when it dropped. i’ve been listening to foo fighters and nirvana and them crooked vultures since i was a kid with my dad. ff was my first concert. walk was the only song i’ve ever put on repeat and it was what helped me get sober. men are all the same
Hey, I just found you completely by accident, dude, you ROCK! Witty, clever, smart, on point, I am going to watch this again, then look for more! You're a huge breath of fresh air, and I love love love your hair! I just subscribed.
tbh I feel kinda bad for him, almost everyone on the internet (for some reason) think that they can/should hold him accountable. when at the end of the day, that is up to his family. I think this is just another situation of putting celebrities on a pedestal when at the end of the day he is just a guy. (edit: just watched the vid and I agree with most of Louis's points)
I Literally Jaw dropped after seeing the Post.. Honestly seeing you post about it is a relief I need to hear somone talk about this.. LIKE DAMN DAVE-.. DAVE.. YOU SAID THIS RIGHT AFTER I WENT TO YOUR CONCERT AUGEST
Though I know this is a rare case , my brother cheated on his abusive wife to get out of the marriage because in my family’s religion if you don’t cheat (or some other things) you can’t get divorced, he figured it was his only way out
Hey, just so you know Kurts grave was never vandalized by swifties; the supposed "evidence" people use is from a article back in 2022. I really suggest you remove that as it is misinformation and could lead to really damaging outcomes
Me, mom and my fiancée are just fucking floored that he thought to share this with the whole world, how absolutely humiliating for his wife and kids, he could have quietly dealt with all of this. Quietly been in his new childs life in some capacity, or better yet not cheat. That said, Grohl cheated on his first wife too iirc
My partner used to (jokingly) say “you’re the second hottest person in the world. it’s Dave Grohl and then you”. When the news broke, they turned to me and said, “Congrats on the number one spot”
lmao
Bro was getting cucked by a cheating musician
This had me cackling. Your partner sounds like they have terrific comedic timing
i love how none of the comments are about the video topic but instead about how exciting it is that louis posted
we’re not quite done watching yet prolly 💔
He has one of the most amazing fanbases it's so refreshing and sweet
i got so excited that i left my gf (its ok thooo i told her why she understood :) )
@@Macandcheesyum WHAT.
but its true, hes just our daily dose of education, scrap that, not education, drama. or both!
His poor daughters & wife have basically been backstabbed by their father/husband & he has the audacity to say he "loves them" & yet betrays them... there goes my hero..
right like now they gotta learn how to fly again bc of his bullshit-ery !! its times like these...
but no jokes aside how dare he say "im trying to gain back their trust and i love them" homie im sorry but if u actually loved them you wouldve have done this, hope this helps
He's (an) ordinary (cheater)
the foo fighters reference 😭
Doesn't concern anyone but them and him
Have looked into John Lennon??? He was horrible to women Ms.Beatles
it's so sad how most musicians cant just.. be chill 😭
For real I was so attached to him, nirvana is such an important thing in my life, and I love Foo fighters as well, and I read his damn book and cried, and now this 😢 it's so disappointing that my favorite artists that don't do anything are all already dead 😬
Is my chem like the only unblemished ppl left?
be more chill💔
@@saladchipz OMG?? IF YOU MEAN THE MUSICAL THEN I LOOOVE BE MORE CHILL...
@@the_b1ggest_hater YEYSYSYSYS I MEAN BE MORE CHIL
David literally was the sweetest rockstar ever, donating to charities, doing good stuff, etc. Right until he cheated, its also weird because hes been married her for OVER 20 YEARS!!
There’s a difference between being nice and being good
To be fair he could still be a nice guy, it’s just that that means he isn’t necessarily a great guy or a loyal one. You can still find him to be a good rockstar, but…it definitely is annoying that he was living this rockstar live style and before he was portrayed as a family man on the road and stayed true to that. Just sucks tbh. It feels werid saying this, but I’m just glad he didn’t do something worse. For this to be the worst thing you’ve done as a rockstar isn’t the worst but I also hate saying that because I hate how rockstars actions are excused for a “rockstar lifestyle”.
I mean my dad was dating my mom for almost 20 years and he cheated on her with multiple women and left her broke, that was in may of 2023
Not trying to discredit the good he did, but he unfortunately participated in AIDs denialism. Famous people are still people and people are often guilty of doing at least one thing wrong.
His first marriage ended because of cheating.
What situation. Don’t do this to me Dave. DONT DO THIS TO ME DAVE.
I'm so sorry, bro, I felt the same way
dave did it….💔
Girl he's been a cheat for decades lmao
@@cranburrey I was never aware of this 😰
IM SO MAD WHAT THE HELL DAVE AHH
My favorite arc is the "Foo Fighters: AIDS Denialism" arc where his band promoted and raised money for an AIDS denialism organization until the mid 2000's. The founder's baby died because of her beliefs, and she soon succumbed to her disease as well along with many other members of the organization. Dave and the band have never apologized or taken accountability for their involvement despite literally having blood on their hands.
dude seeing dave's post actually made my jaw DROP...
I literally thought it was a joke until I realised it was his official account! I can’t believe it still, it’s so frustrating because this is the typical rockstar behaviour so it’s not surprising, but it just being the fact DAVE GROHL!! I’m annoyed
@@emmamae896 not really surprising, all his past relationships ended because of his infidelity. It's even on Wikipedia.
@@Fritz-the-Brat that’s another reason I’m so frustrated, like I knew about all of that too and my dumbass thought he changed because he was married so long with kids (LMFAO typing this out now I’m realising how stupid I sound), I’m super against this whole celebrity culture (also the parasocialness of it all) and putting them on a pedestal and pretending like you know them, I wasn’t like that with Dave Grohl but I always did like that image he had and seeing him completely betray his family like that and humiliating his family in front of millions just turned me off him
for real. i was in the car with my gf and her mom and her mom literally passed her phone around so we knew
OMG HI LILA
Bro why does every band i like have problematic people?😭
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the moment mcr has sm rlly controversial is the day i die
@@IKEA_meatball AGREED.
If you want a not-so-problematic band listen to MCR :)
@@GravityDontMeanTooMuchTooMe I do they’re my second fav band thats the first band my step dad ever showed me :)
Poor Violet. First the whole Swiftie situation and now this. I can't imagine the feeling of defending your dad hardcore only to be let down so hard.
The Swiftie thing is not nearly as bad as this.
@@MoMoLuey No it's not??
I imagine both of the older girls are embarrassed by it.
@@MoMoLuey nah the swiftie thing no one cared about (as a i swiftie i cam comfirm) This is wild in comparison
@@yourethelossofmy_life I agree. The Swiftie thing has passed over..... The hypocrisy of the mistress is harder to forget. I don't think anyone will think of him as a good husband again.
as someone who's best friend loves Dave she was SO UPSET when this happened ):
this world has gone to HELL.
i hope your bestie is feeling better 😢
@@GE3P_GL0RP she is :) !
anytime louis uploads i drop everything, grab snacks, blankets, and roll into my bed giggling
LOUIS LIKED UR COMMENT
no that is REAL
real so real
It got posted just as I got dinner it was great ^^
@@Emmmmaaaa-fk8jtomg he did 😭⁉️
that’s crazy
actually made my day 🥺🫶
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Well, as my ex-boyfriend used to say "no man in the world can be loyal to one woman".
When I said "bye" he didn't understand.
Lol! Good for you 😊
Yup trust no one! Men with fame and money are more likely to cheat. My own brother told me most men cheat but not all. Men that say all men cheat are usually narcissists and cheaters trying to justify their bad behavior!
Good for you Lala. Have some self-respect. There are a lot of better men out there.
People (men and women) mess up. But using THAT as an excuse is absolutely disrespectful and disgusting. No accountability, no apology, no regard for your self worth. You deserve better and I'm glad you dipped on him.
i just don't understand why can't people be honest and decent and find yourself someone who'll be okay with open relationship instead of finding a monogamous person and gaslight them into being okay with cheating
No I'm genuinely so upset about this, Dave's been my idol for a while.
me too dude
@@nevqrmindd.ৎ I cried I'm ngl. Serj is now the nicest guy in rock/metal (he's been elected]
FR If something happens with Serj I am officially losing faith in everyone😭 @@bwatbit
I respected Dave a lot as a person and artist, but as of now have not listened to a lot of Foo Fighters or Nirvana- I was going to, like, a couple weeks ago though before the drama happened. But I'm so sorry, ik what it feels like to have artists you like end up being shitty people, it really really sucks :( if it makes you feel any better at least you're a normal fan who isn't denying all the rumors and being toxic about it like Melanie Martinez's supporters are!!
@@JustAHuman101 thank you. I hate how hard it is to find good artists in the alternative community.
As a child of adultery, this is incredibly hard to deal with. My heart really goes out to the baby in the future. It’s a burden, that no child or human should have to carry. The fact a grown man can do this to his family and the unborn child is horrible.
I just feel so bad for the baby when she gets older. Imagine reading your father making public apologies and begging their family to forgive them, due to your existence. He's probably got many children he doesn't even know exist as well. I've been a huge Nirvana fan since 1991 so I'm not hating. It's just what many "rockstars" do and society accepts it for some reason. Groupies are everywhere and it's gross on both ends
I’ve thought about this a lot. Imagine your introduction to the world being your rockstar dad publicly apologizing to his wife and kids that you exist and doing everything he can to right this wrong. Fucking yeesh
heard of someone who was a product of this type of thing. absolutely despises their “dad” and wants nothing to do with him (rightfully so).
who cares
@@W4TSKYWhat about his three daughters?
I feel so bad:(she shouldn’t suffer because of the terrible actions of her father.
THERE GOES MY HERO
Watch him as he goes…
@@EnigmaticHandbag666 there goes my hero... he's ordinary..
@@bwatbit Kudos, my hero
@@EnigmaticHandbag666leaving all the best…
@@emmamae896 You know my hero
Foo Fighters used to have really weird beliefs regarding hiv/aids. They didnt believe hiv led to aids and encouraged people with hiv to not use protection. They had a section on their website for it and even allowed the use of their music on a propaganda piece.
Omg?! For real?!
@@MelModica They weren't the only ones. At the beginning of the epidemic even Rolling Stone magazine took that same position. Weird considering how much evidence pointed to the HIV virus.
What the hell is your source ?? This is laughable
It's a proven fact, there is no causal connection from HIV to AIDS. Do some research before you make fools of yourselves.
Most AIDS victims were killed by doctor prescribed AZT, a chemotherapy so toxic it was discontinued as a treatment.
@@Geo_Babe Nate Mendel (The Bassist) did a benefit concert in 2000 for an anti-AIDS conspiracy group called Alive & Well
I never idolized anyone growing up since I knew they could turn out to be terrible people any time. Not gonna lie though, this one stung. I thought it was admirable that he could be a rockstar without all the rockstar baggage. But worst of all, my mom's heartbroken. *That* is truly unforgivable.
Gen X here… if he was gonna screw teenagers… why the fuck didn’t he get a vasectomy?? What an ASS! I’m Dave Grohl’s age… don’t have kids… but seriously? What a freaking jerk!
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yall im actually flabbergasted by the fact that louis just mentioned kurt cobain and brought up and epical picture of kurt cobain
losing my mind hearing louis pronounce Nirvana as "Narvana"
He does it on purpose.
@@75YBANah hes dyslexic
he did this in another video too hehe
@@75YBAi don’t think it’s on purpose babe i think it’s bc there’s lots of vowels and vowels are SO hard
Yea , this guy blows ! I’m out !
With david grohls comment about taylor swift, im pretty sure thats the statement that caused all the insane swifties to destroy/deface kurts gravestone...
swiftes are actually terrible what.
@itz_fae wait they actually did this? That’s horrible!
@@suuske3563 yeah they defaced the whole timing, you can look up stuff about kt
They also gave Violet and her younger sisters r4pe threats
Kurt does not have a grave or a gravestone. Where did this happen? At the memorial in the little park at Aberdeen?
Gerard Way should be known as the rock person who isnt controversal or problematic now
please don’t jinx it please 🙏
Don't jinx it 😭
Also, their wife is problematic (MSI shit) so some people do see them as being kinda problematic too
@@ringo-starrs-biggest-fan yeah but that's his wife not him
@@GravityDontMeanTooMuchTooMe I agree, but some people feel as though if you can knowingly be married to someone who does stuff like that then you're part of the problem (not saying I fully agree with that though, I love Gerard
@feelingkozy true tho, well those people are the kinds of people to spend hours on Twitter
How dare TH-cam hide this for 44 seconds
7:15 I actually appreciate this being said out loud. It's easy to mock people who idolize celebs, but that's the nature of the system as we know it! Your perspective again makes me think, ty ❤
NO! why? why dave? dave is genuinely one of my favorite singers and my friend will blast him. future me, is it bad?
yes
This is why when people try to defend a celebrity by going “they’re a good person” I just wish they’d remember that not only do they not know the celebrity as a person they’re literally one bad move away from badly damaging if not ending their career or at least tarnishing your image of them. We’ve seen it SO MANY times and I’m sad regular people keep getting their hearts broken over these celebrities doing shitty things.
i listen to Taylor Swift AND Nirvana and like why cant everyone just chill?? like be nice and humane??? this is getting frustrating.
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Dave does not speak for Nirvana, so get that straight! It's well known that Nirvana essentially was a vehicle for Kurt's talent, and Kurt called all the shots. No denying Grohl is an awesome drummer and was there for Nirvana's three superstar years, but the six previous drummers made some solid contributions too. Grohl was a few years younger than Cobain and Nirvana bassist Krist Novoselic and it seems clear they trolled Grohl a bit in fun and that he knew his place was to play the drums and not speak up too much. Who knows if this is what gave Dave the chip on his shoulder, but ever since he's been trying to recreate that dynamic, with himself in the Kurt position - leader of the band and idolised for his talent. He's built his brand and done all the arena tours, but unfortunately for Dave, Kurt had more talent in his little finger than Dave has in his whole body.
in my personal opinion i think taylor swift has bad music, i love nirvana, but you like what you like man idk why people get so mad at people liking taylor swift. like yeah some of her fans are insane.
Honestly Taylor swift fans are the worst people in the world and her music sucks but I’m a grown man, I don’t listen to pop music. Nirvana was a great band. This is me being nice
@@bwillsskates2638 i agree that there is bad Taylor swift fans. i feel like saying that im not one of those people isn't going to help me or prove im a good person i understand what you're saying and agree but keep in mind that there will always be bad people in EVERY fandom or fans of something
Louis McClung looks like if Jesus became a pirate, he is Pirate Jesus
Arrrgh, I can walk the plank all day long. I can cross the ocean on foot.
he looks like cliff burton for me
IS IT THAT HARD TO BE A DECENT HUMAN BEING????
For some people, it is impossible.
This time he got caught because the woman got pregnant. How many other times did he cheat?
@@EDDIETRUJILLO-q8p probably hundreds..
He’s a bad person.
What stuns me is that he married her and cheated? When you marry someone you don’t cheat on them, and he has CHILDREN.
I mean... stop idealizing celebrities. They are people with flaws as any of us. I say this because yall seem so surprised and heartbroken... if you like his music it's ok, you like him as an artist and that's it. He is not your friend or familiar, you don't have to care about their personal life decisions. Imagine having to know the past of all the artists on your playlist... I SWEAR you couldn't like more than 3.
If you think you haven't made bad sht, you're probably too young and have not been aware of it or you will do it in a few years.
@@sebastianduarteguitar telling people they have done bad things or will as way to defend dave is only assuming they have done or will do things as awful as we he did witch is just your assumption
We all do bad things at different levels
Im also confused
Do you care or not about his personal life???
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 I’m not defending him and I don’t care about his life ( I don’t even like FF). What I am saying is some people took his situation as a personal offense because they idealized him in a godly manner and now they can’t listen to his music because they feel heartbroken in regards of Dave’s personal/familiar situation.
Take it from this perspective: imagine a friend asking you “hey, did you hear the new FF song? It’s heavy” and then replying “no, Dave cheated on his wife. I won’t listen to it” 😂
@@sebastianduarteguitar I agree 🤣🤣what I was saying is that you said we all do bad things or will and I agree but considering the context it sounded like you were defending him as if people did not have any right to dislike him because well um are you perfect??🤓
Yeah I mean we all do dumb things but to the degree of Dave ???nah
Leaving that aside I agree with the rest
It makes me sad that people on Instagram and other platforms keep saying that it should be disregarded as he is a rock star. Morals and humanity have left us humans
I feel the same way because just because many rock stars has done it before, doesn't mean we should normalize it wtf
As an old gal, I'd disregard the cheating because he is a serial cheater and a rock star. Yes, it would be great to think that all rock stars once in committed relationships didn't cheat. What I find unforgivable is not only did he cheat but he actually had a child w/ the woman that he cheated w/. I can say, w/o a doubt, that the baby could have been conceived in a one night stand w/ neither of the parents using birth control. But was it solely that, which is bad enough OR was it from a longer term relationship, which, to me, makes it even worse.
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This was the exact reason Jerry Hall's relationship w/ Mick Jagger ended. She knew he cheated (but always came home to her) but when he fathered a child w/ someone else, that was when she said enough. The difference there is a generation (and all the changes, positive and negative that happened within that generational gap) and also, I don't think Jagger was ever perceived as "the good/great guy of rock and roll" even when he was Grohl's age and younger.
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If you're a married rock star who is going to cheat, the best thing that could have been done in this scenario was to make sure that the woman was using some form of birth control (and not simply saying she was) but also, w/ a wife at home, the common decency to protect her from STDs or worse by wrapping yourself up, which Dave obviously didn't (unless we're going w/ a "the condom broke" story on which I'd call bullshit).
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I couldn't get through Grohl's The Storyteller for the life of me, which is extremely unusual when it comes to celeb autobiographies/biographies. Perhaps I unconsciously sensed that he was trying to be too authentic, when anything but.
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I feel sorry for his wife Jordan and their three daughters. If I were Jordan, I may be able to forgive the cheating (as I did w/ my second husband) but his having a child w/ the other woman is absolutely unforgivable. I'm hoping there was no pre-nup and she takes him for as much as she can w/ regard to spousal support w/ their daughters (one of them already) aging out of child support.
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I do have to say that I absolutely love the thinking of the younger people commenting who do believe, rock star or not, married = no cheating.
LOUIS: " the ego is a disease"
Me: " I think that I should try to kill my ego, because if I don't my ego might kill me!" - halsey 2024
You can't kill your ego. You can let it die slowly by neglect.
Stop it because I literally saw him live 3 years ago and it was LIFE-CHANGING. I loved him so much. Now I can’t bear it.
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A 55 yrs old man who now has to pay child support into his 70s
Pathetic!
Also how old is the mother of his kid...not his age that's for sure
2 very good points!! ❤
@@ykook7000 What has age got to do with anything about this?!
(And the "this" isn't really something to be upset about either...)
@@FoxizRumor is that she is the now turned 20 friend of his oldest daughter.
@@marisoltammero3331 If that rumor is to be believed, then... ...what's your point?
@@Foxiz You don’t think macking on your daughters friend, who you met when she was 13 isn’t problematic?? Ewww
honestly i’m glad louise post is getting the attention she deserves. her band is amazing and she’s a wonderful lady and mentor to me. listen to her band veruca salt!!
All of this has disappointed me sm. I’ve idolized Dave since the age of 11, huge fan of nirvana and foo fighters and have 3 signatures by him including his book. He’s still my idol and always will be but this has been a huge surprise.
yeah this is actually crazy.
my bsf loves him so much and this completely shocked her.
exactly
You are such an apologist. This should disgust you to the point of dropping the idol status man.
I don't know the guy but people being surprised by a rockstar cheating on his wife it's kind of funny
@@SL-ze6su people are only surprised because Dave is basically known as a ig humble man that loves his family in the rock community.
4:53 before I say this, please know I am not defending this man! Dave Grohl is a disgusting human being who deserves no sympathy. Though about the part with him not saying anything earlier, it could've possibly been because he was still discussing everything with his family, and they didn't want it out yet. Most of the time when things like this, the people involved would rather sort things out before telling others. Though once again, I am not defending Dave Grohl in any way!
Kurt would be so disappointed.
I have been a foo fighter and nirvana fan for years and this is upsetting me so bad I'm actually gonna cry,why can't anyone just be unproblematic? I believe in Dave and now,yeah no I don't believe in anyone anymore.
as a lover of veruca salt (louise post's band), ive known grohl was like this for a long time
singing the doot doot doot part :)
You already KNEW THIS about David Grohl???? How?
@@MoMoLuey not that he was having a baby that he’s a serial cheater
@@mudlinen5988 I see. I looked it up on wikipedia as suggested, and they do have a list of women he cheated on. I feel that I was betrayed and deceived by his fake family man act.
Tell us something we don’t know
in the realm of musicians, i'm not that concerned about a cheater.
True tho there's worse
That's what I thought. I have still lost respect for him, but he's not as bad as a lot of the other musicians I've dropped. Like the amount I like Foo Fighters music outweighs the amount of respect I've lost for him.
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Yeah, good thing all the damage he did was just psychological (cheating on his wife, traumatizing his daughters so they now have trust issues and a skewed idea of love/relationships) and not physical. At least he didn’t put his hands on anybody so it’s all fine. What a guy! /s
@@W4TSKY I mean I said I lost respect for him. But he didn't commit any crimes. and I think it's the kind of thing that's between him and his family. I've had to drop way too many artists because they are bad people and so I'm trying to weigh the situation. You know, the whole separate the artist from the music thing. Plus I don't idolize anybody, I just like his music.
god fucking dammit dave.
Men can have a history of cheating and the world just nods and smiles at a "family man" persona the second he switches over, but let a woman have had several normal relationships that simply run their course with a few kids and nothing but hate 🤷🏾♀️
I don’t. Neither is ok.
@@75YBA Based 🗿
I take you've had a few failed relationships and kids from them?
Where?
As a huge fan of Veruca Salt and knowing Grohl’s alcohol problems, I completely believe Louise.
I also love Foo Fighters and Dave Grohl but I never thought he was perfect.
These guys are always capable of doing stuff like this, unfortunately.
when at 6:50 and said there's no excuse to cheat it sucks for me as my abusive and neglectful ex wouldn't let me leave them when i tried more than 7 times. so, I cheated to get them to leave me so i wasn't trapped with them, but it sucks cause im not a cheater or bad person. i will forever just hate myself that i did that. it makes me think i deserved all that my ex did because how can you cheat on someone you love. i still think about them even though they have already moved on to the roommate i thought he had feelings for when for 2 weeks they would cuddle on the couch and watch tv together from dawn to dusk. while i was treated as a side piece. i can never forgive myself but what could i have done when i tried to leave my ex would threaten to hurt themselves or end it or destroy their life and never try again. they have undiagnosed mental health issues that we were both sure was bpd and DID. so am i the monster? i know i wasn't great but like what else could i have done when i was financially drained by them and i lost all 3 of my jobs lost the apartment i tried to rent for them and another shitty roommate. idk i just wish i could take back me even dating them because i still care about them but they just never treated me right i can go into detail but like idk i feel bad even typing this.
I don’t think that’s your fault. it sounds like they were already cheating on you, at least emotionally. I don’t think you should ever cheat on someone as revenge for them cheating, but it genuinely seems like that was the best way for everyone involved you could have ended that relationship. I’m sorry you went through that.
It's alright. Cheating is one thing, being trapped in an abusive relationship and finding someone else while you're stuck is another. Sure, its technically cheating, but nothing is ever black and white, you did what you had to get out and it wasnt pretty but getting out of those relationships never is.
We've all dated people we wish we never met, you're not alone and I hope that in time, you can forgive yourself. I know when I was struggling with this, I'd give myself a reality check by asking "how would I feel, if one of my friends was in my position?" and 9/10, I realise i would be furious on their behalf and fully supportive. We tend to be less forgiving of ourselves than others and that reality check helps put things in perspective, looking at ourselves from an outside perspective. Idk if that makes sense, but I hope it does and I hope it helps
thats not even really cheating you were checked out of the relationship already
I think context does matter a lot when it comes to interpersonal things between people. Cheating is always bad but doing bad things doesn't automatically make you a terrible, unforgivable person.
Grohl's situation isn't at all comparable to yours and the fact you show remorse for doing that already shows that you are much better than many other people that cheat just because they want to and are proud of it too. The whole situation you were in was bad, and I think the abuse of your ex outweighs your actions by a large amount
@topfl00rboss I wasn't really checked out. I struggle with feeling too much. So I still think about him. I still think we'll maybe I deserved what happened. I dated them for almost 2 years. They moved in with me and my parents within like a month of us dating they were only at their parents' house 1 day a week. We started dating in September. By that next valentines Day, he proposed, and I was expecting to say yes. Before I met them, I had 7000 dollars in savings. Now I'm more than 7000 dollars in debt. I worked 3 jobs, and they couldn't hold down 1 job because of their mental illness. I was supporting them. My parents kept making him feel bad for not working and having a job, and even though I think he was applying to jobs, he never actually really talked to me too much about things. Like whenever we tried to talk like adults, they would shut down and / or break down, and I'd end up having to comfort them. We had a lot of issues. I asked them to get therapy so we could work together to be better. They only got therapy the day before my 23 birthday, which was on July 31st. They actually left me at the concert. I went to go see destroy boys, sorry mom, d.r.l.n with them. They then ignored me mainly during the 2-3 hour walk towards where our friends apartment was. I started to spiral. As my ex didn't even lend me 2 dollars so I could pay for a concert show even though they used me for money for so long. I had 23 dollars. I just needed a bit extra. But overall, I still care about them, and I worry what is going to happen when they get kicked out of the apartment soon. I worry about them as they are broke they have no family that cares about them.
always the 'good guy/family man'
Dude, I’m SO glad someone is finally talking about this. I don’t have instagram, so on the day that his statement was published, my friend sent me a screenshot and we were DEVASTATED. We’re huge music fans, and we looked up to Dave. It felt like a punch in the gut, and it’s not even my family, so I can only begin to imagine how they feel. Bless his family 😢🤍
That’s why everyone on TikTok is using the “God, fcking damnit Dave” sound 😭
The decision to cheat doesn't bother me. The decision to use his family to sell his music, _that_ bothers me. The decision to use his beliefs to sell his music, _that_ bothers me. His tendency to throw other artists under the bus, _that_ bothers me. That he lied about it, consistently, _that_ bothers me.
I've watched some clips about this topic, and, like I'm reading now in this comment section, people are just thrashing a celebrity just for the sake of thrashing him. I could care less about the private affairs of celebreties, and anyways I still will listen to his music. I'm repelled about that visceral reaction like conversative full on christians that throw into the flames records of musicians just 'cause they get conflicted with artist whenever they hear or atest something that apparently goes against their "solid values" 😂. Moreover, riding the high moral horse is pathethic when the stone you throw can go right back you! Still I have to say your comment have reasonable and valid arguments. Mostly when, yeah, ultimate your actions speak greater that your words. That persona just crumbles down like a cheap suit to the pulic eye. You can rise like foam, but you can crash and burn. It's hard to keep up and, like you say, portraying this wholesome identity when, especially in times of the dictatoship of one sided political correctness cancellation (heck, it has always been like this, only that the once oppressed are now the oppresors), a slip up, which can really go deeper and even more obscure, can wash over everything that you have built around an image. Thus, disapointment and disapproval are given. Yet, that visceral indignation for me is immature and absurd.
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4:50 tbf if he’d announced the conception of the baby and his affair partner had suffered a miscarriage or still birth, having that aired publicly would’ve been pretty fucking painful for her
So bizarre how a bunch of strangers are acting offended by the actions of a man they DO NOT KNOW… the only one entitled to any opinion at all is literally his wife Jordan. Period.
As a HUGE nirvana fan, i genuinely didnt believe this when i first heard it. All of the 3 members have inspired me to keep going through tough times, without even knowing them.
Cliff Burton talking about Dave Grohl.. this feels like a crossover episode
I love the way Louis is able to break down information into simple terms and jokes into a way my brain rot can understand
Jesus Christ our generation is doomed
@ that’s the point of the comment, lol.
Ima be honest but Louis has been cooking up videos and I’m here for it
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I was so flabbergasted when seeing Dave's post on IG like I thought he was the one of the few rock stars who isn't controversial (who is alive) but atp idk how to feel about him😓😓 Kurt would be disappointed in him tbh..
my friend just told me two days ago in the middle of class and it was surprising
There’s a lot of rock stars who aren’t controversial tho?
@@averagecomrade5072 yes I know that, I said he was ONE of them until the news hit
@@aim-.....ee2 bro forgot he said “one of the few”
@@averagecomrade5072 I apologize for my bad English, I'm not a native English speaker :/
For me, Dave Grohl is this generation’s Phil Collins. The “rock star fathers child out of wedlock” story is as old as the hills. However, because it’s Dave Grohl this case is different. I’ve always had problems with the Foo Fighters - they’re like the rock band that’s ok for the under-10s to like and I am 57. Dave Grohl is everywhere - just like Phil Collins was in the 80s-mid 90s. Grohl and Collins have a lot in common - both are drummers who became multi-instrumentalists and both are bandleaders and workaholics - people like this are often control freaks and hard to deal with in real life. Also, there’s nothing that mysterious about the Foo Fighters and they’re overrated. Since the FFs began Grohl has been way too overexposed for my liking, and as Phil Collins found out after playing the wronged cuckolded ex-husband for about 15 years, you can’t go on doing that forever. I guess this incident is Grohl’s first big public screw up and there’ll probably be more in the future. Eventually he’ll probably screw up one time too many like Collins eventually did and the public will turn and bite him on the ass. As regards the behaviour of musicians in their private lives I have always tried not to throw the baby out with the bath water and I won’t stop listening to a good tune just because whoever made it is an asshole because that would be churlish, unless what they’ve done is REALLY bad. Provided he hasn’t been hooking up with children, animals or corpses and the police don’t need to be called it’s nobody’s business but his and that of the others concerned. Other than the “nice guy of rock” tag which grates on me a bit, and the few bits and pieces I see or hear I don’t follow his career because the FFs bore me but they’re always in the news and you can’t avoid stories like this because of how he portrays himself and it sounds like he’s behaved very badly here and keeping a divorce lawyer handy isn’t a good look. Collins lost a LOT of the sympathy the British public had for him when he famously told his second wife he was divorcing her via a fax machine. He’s never really lived it down. Eventually he totally buggered it up by singing songs about the homeless when everyone knew he was absolutely loaded and in 1997 he went to live in Switzerland. The mother of this child can’t say she didn’t know who he was or that she never knew he was married because his face has been everywhere for 25 years and she’s probably looking for money out of this mess. I don’t think she comes out of this well either. He really shouldn’t have put himself on a pedestal as father of the year. Nobody’s THAT nice. Nothing wrong with being a good person but there’s no need to get all attention-seeking about it or get self-righteous with others about it. An act of kindness is something you keep to yourself and do discreetly. You don’t shout about it to the world. For me, people who cast themselves as role models are always suspicious. If he hadn’t done that and started lecturing people hardly anyone would be talking about this. If he was just a regular rock star asshole nobody would bat an eyelid. My sympathy is for his wife and children.
It’s upsetting how people say dave ghrol was the only good rockstar and now they’re are none, Krist Novoselic is still alive, people just don’t pay much attention, but he is an amazing person.
4:07 egg roll
I literally called his behavior “disgusting and abhorrent” on the QOTSA subreddit and had people criticizing me that that language was too harsh for what he’s done 😂 People are CLOWNS
I mean.. if they’ll defend that douchebag Josh Homme.
Funny because Josh kicked a woman in the head and threatened an elementary teacher because he asked for an autograph.
@@75YBAKyuss>QOTSA
That's Reddit for ya.
its the fact this happened TWICE, not once TWICE.
that we know of
it’s so very easy not to cheat on your partner. like it’s the easiest thing in the world to not cheat. imagine being such a bad and horrible person you cheat on your partner. it’s literally the easiest thing to not cheat. if you think it’s hard, don’t date anyone. if you can’t stop cheating stop dating. easy
It's a lot easier to do when one of you travels a lot.
@@MoMoLueySo...is the same what @anaacceptablename332,why he dated?...why he get married?
you could have shortened this by at least 3 sentences
@@johnlesher3001 …okay?
One thing I've noticed come out of this whole situation is people saying stuff like, "Oh, this artist I like would never!" I've mostly noticed it with Billie Joe Armstrong since I'm a huge Green Day fan, but I've seen people mention other artists, too. I feel like this whole thing would prove that you shouldn't put celebrities on a pedestal like that and get mad when they mess up, but oh well.
i hope billie joe armstrong never does something weird
Istg my childhood is falling apart... first the zombies community then this.
I’m telling you now if Green Day’s frontman, Billie Joe does some shit like this I’m going to actually die of heartbreak.
Me too,
My boyfriend grew up with his kids, and I cannot express how this situation has affected everyone. I know having the facts straight in a situation like this is extremely important, but please remember that the lives of the Grohl family aren't entertainment. I also cannot tell you that no one should be contacting anyone involved. We know the facts, and now it's time to move forward and let the families solve this independently. Louis handled this in the most respectful way.
Nah, I think we’re all acting like rockstars aren’t known for cheating, it’s been known since he cheated on Jennifer Youngblood back in like 1996, whole inspiration for the song “Everlong”.
Bro I just saw Dave in Seattle back on August 18th and it was the best show I’ve ever seen.
There goes my hero…watch him as he goes…
ALSO for any people who don’t know foo fighters they also did “my hero” which is a big(ish) song by then two :,)
(Also Louis can you do the neil gaiman shit that’s going down and the stuff about good omens? Thank you love your videos!)
I second the Neil thing because that hit me pretty hard
I did make all my books by him credit Hatsune Miku in that time tho so now I have like 7 books that say they're by her
@@Addy-ve1yc bro 💀💀💀 rightfully so….I taped over his name in my book lol
@@GhostOpossum Lmao
My mom said "is something wrong with it?" when she saw the tape and I went "...yeah"
this title just made me shit myself what
holy shit murdoc pfp 🔥
@@stinkysockuser boutta to comment the same thing fr🙏💯
@@stinkysockuser and also love the kirk pfp
chino moreno dave grohl and eddie vedder have been my idols since a was a baby 😭😭 i am so upset by this news and i cannot even imagine how his family feels
Don't idolize people you never met nor know.
This is common sense I fear
EARLIEST IVE BEEN TO LOUIS VIDEO YIPEEE just gotta say dude you are my comfoet youtuber and i just finished a surgury, GREAT TIMING
Sameee (hope ur surgery went well and you heal soon)
@@amritalall8140 AWHH TYSM! and it did so yippee! I hope your night/day is going well too!
1:09 In fact, I did, kind sir, 😂 I found this out a little bit after I first really got into their music by doing my own research. And I also have half siblings in my family. This is quite very normal. Still not justifited though, and is so extremely unexpected from him.
Dave Grohl being “rocks nicest guy” is the biggest scam in rock music of the last 30 years. Dude has serial cheated on his wife and kids for so many years while representing himself as a wholesome family man and great role model.
YESSS THANK YOU THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED AT 1AM 💪💪
this was devastating news to me when it dropped. i’ve been listening to foo fighters and nirvana and them crooked vultures since i was a kid with my dad. ff was my first concert. walk was the only song i’ve ever put on repeat and it was what helped me get sober. men are all the same
Crocheting to this 🔥🔥🗣🗣
love seeing people crocheting to these lol
Yayyy Louis video
Another dude that yaps about his wife and how he’s a family man turned out to be a cheater… I see a pattern here 🧐
Hey, I just found you completely by accident, dude, you ROCK! Witty, clever, smart, on point, I am going to watch this again, then look for more! You're a huge breath of fresh air, and I love love love your hair! I just subscribed.
Louis you’re slaying again😞
You dont know how excited i am that u made this video
tbh I feel kinda bad for him, almost everyone on the internet (for some reason) think that they can/should hold him accountable. when at the end of the day, that is up to his family. I think this is just another situation of putting celebrities on a pedestal when at the end of the day he is just a guy.
(edit: just watched the vid and I agree with most of Louis's points)
i like how in an hour the title changed from "the dave grohl situation" to "dave grohl failed us all" to "dave grohl has an infidelity baby"
How dare TH-cam hide this video from me for 22 seconds
I Literally Jaw dropped after seeing the Post.. Honestly seeing you post about it is a relief I need to hear somone talk about this.. LIKE DAMN DAVE-.. DAVE.. YOU SAID THIS RIGHT AFTER I WENT TO YOUR CONCERT AUGEST
What dave did was horrible, but why is the medias 1st idea to attack his family??😭
Idk because they’re mad and want to take out their frustration on his family (which is wrong)
Though I know this is a rare case , my brother cheated on his abusive wife to get out of the marriage because in my family’s religion if you don’t cheat (or some other things) you can’t get divorced, he figured it was his only way out
DETECTIVE LOUIS HAS POSTED AGAIN‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼
WAKE UP BABE LOUIS POSTED!!
Wake up everyone, OUR KING HAS POSTEDDD
Just got home from one of the roughest nights at work and smiled knowing I get to lay in bed and watch Louis’s new vid
kurt would be so disappointed in him
LOUIS BACK WITH STR8 BANGERS 🗣️‼️🔥🙏🙏
DAVE HOW COULD YOU.
(0:55, kurt :D)
THE BEATLES CHEATED ON THEIR WIVES A BUNCH OF TIMES (IM DELUSIONAL, I LOVE HIM, I LOVE NIRVANA, IM SORRY)
i am distraught
why do people feel the need to do this
Hey, just so you know
Kurts grave was never vandalized by swifties; the supposed "evidence" people use is from a article back in 2022.
I really suggest you remove that as it is misinformation and could lead to really damaging outcomes
@@daisydroid I said allegedly
Me, mom and my fiancée are just fucking floored that he thought to share this with the whole world, how absolutely humiliating for his wife and kids, he could have quietly dealt with all of this. Quietly been in his new childs life in some capacity, or better yet not cheat. That said, Grohl cheated on his first wife too iirc