I think that this is the first time in my life i can't empathize with the pain of a mother loosing her child. And i don't understand exactly why... Rest in peace little boy❤🙏🏼👼
I think it's her lack of hyper vigilance when water was close by. Some people just dont see danger & live in their own little bubble. Toddlers are super fast & you can't take your eyes off them & "assume", as she says she did. Just last week in rush hour on the Tube in London, i saw a Mom letting a child prob 18months old stagger along alone in the crowd while she dawdled a long ways behind with the buggy. Accident waiting to happen.
@@MC.1990everyone grief is not the same unless you’ve lost your child you have no reason to be judging someone off a video. Our bodies do weird things to cope just like being in a fight or flight mode. Anything can happen anywhere at anytime. Don’t ever think something similar couldn’t happen to you nobody is perfect scroll on if you can’t have empathy.
Very much agree with the floaty. Our son was in a life jacket playing with other kids jumping in the deep end, his dad and I were sitting on the edge. We took it off to eat lunch and within minutes he forgot and jumped in without the life jacket. Thank God we were paying attention, my husband came running and jumped across the pool to grab him. It was under a minute and was terrifying. I am so sorry you had to go through this.
I think this is also a reminder that social situations can be incredibly distracting. My son fell off the sofa recently, I just scratched my skin for a few seconds. He's fine but I'm more paranoid about his safety than ever. My mom told me how she and her siblings grew up essentially unsupervised most of the time and how it's a miracle they're still alive. But even in our times when we are super aware of safety - it always takes luck to survive. You can fall and go unscathed or have bad luck and break your neck just because of a slighly different angle... So much more should be done about the safety of pools, however. Not only humans but many animals drown in them all the time. How horrible.
As someone else said.. this could happen to any of us. Shaming for “taking your eyes off your child for 2 min” is ridiculous, we’ve all done it, we’ve just never had something horrendous come from it so it’s easy to claim. Praying for this mom and family.
If only 2 minutes he should have been able to be resuscitated!! So not sure I believe this. Parents need to be eyes on their kids at all times. Completely unnecessary tragedy & so very sad!
Around a pool? You'd take your eyes off your 2 year old around a pool? Nope. I have a 3 year old and would never. I'm holding his hand or carrying him..
It takes seconds for an under 5 to drown it can be that fast. Impossible to have your eye on them 24-7 but I love the advice about floaties and swimming lessons bless this little one RIEP 🙏🏼🫶and love to the mother, father and the family it’s an absolute tragedy that should not have to be experienced by parents, the loss of a child. Love & God Bless 🙏🏼♥️
Yall should turn off these comments and protect this poor mother from these wild judgmental people who have never been in this situation or anything even close to it. Any parent who says they’ve never let their child out of their sight is delusional and self-righteous and some of these comments are disgusting.
It’s only natural to blame yourself. We lost our son only 5-weeks ago he died of an accidental overdose at 27. But of course we as parents blame ourselves that we could have helped him to prevent what he did. And it will haunt us for the rest of our lives that we didn’t do enough.
It’s very different to loosing a child. But the dreamlike state she describes is something I’ve been through quite recently. I awake at 2.30 am in the morning. Surrounded by fire. I’d woken to a fully involved house fire. 6 hours after purchasing it. An electrical fault. Lost everything except our lives. Thankfully my daughter was on a sleepover. My housemate was out. All the animals survived somehow. Nothing else did. I woke up 4 days later in the intensive care burns unit. From the moment I awoke that night. It just didn’t feel real. I was waiting to wake up. What do you mean my house burnt down 6 hours after purchasing it. That can’t be right. I woke from a dead sleep. To being surrounded by an inferno. This has to be a nightmare. 3 months on I still have that feeling come over me. Where I’m waiting to wake up. Over to next 3 weeks all of my cats and dog were located in various different places. All the living things survived, a miracle. ❤
I can't watch this one. I'm ecstatic that she is moving on so fabulously and surrounded by love and support. If she's over it, why talk about it? She's opening up by saying what they didn't have.... he was careful?
Please. intro the son Romeo first. Start it with Romeo. Not her. Her life. Her tragedy. WTF. I don’t feel anything from her. She said she was the one at the tragedy. No. Romeo was.
Brie sorry for your loss l can't imagine for what you have been through. I almost lost my child literally behind the swimmer structor glad my kid is back okay 🙏🏼 hope we all have more information about that.
Wow these comments are lacking empathy completely. I pray nothing like that happens to any of these negative people thinking that they’re completely in the clear. They’re called ACCIDENTS for a reason. Obviously if it was so “easy” to prevent these types of things they wouldn’t EVER happen. Be better people.
Prayers and love 2 sons in heaven ..most difficult journey a soul will ever encounter...no passage of time changes the pain norrr the LOVE FOR OUR BABIES EVER...without my Father I would not be here ..no drowning involved but I a in AZ and it happens daily here
What an incredible podcast. From start to finish I was invested, educated, and my heart goes out to bri. Thank you for your vulnerability, your honesty and your advice. My son is named Romeo, so this hit home.
Im so sorry for your loss. We grew up swimming, many people do not. However, there used to be lifeguards at lakes, beaches and swimming pools. Kids had to pass a swim test. When did things change? RIP, little man❤
I had thought when I learned of this accident. Obviously so tragic and sad. I’m thinking people should have their toddlers on a leash when around a pool. It sounds so simple, yet I believe it could prevent these tragedies. I’m not here to judge, just to say I’m so sorry.
The judgement people in these comments have is truly sad. In response to her lack of emotion; what would you all like her to act like? Should she be a sobbing mess every podcast that she does? Should she never be allowed to smile or experience joy ever again and just end it all? Life is a LEARNING experience, and to be resilient and transform such a horrific tragedy into something positive in any way is how to learn and grow from the experience. I lost my little brother in a tragic accident and my best friend was “unalived” with her boyfriend on my street, both within 5 months of each other. I relate so much to the dreamlike state she talks about. I too feel completely numb to the emotions and definitely agree it’s some sort of trauma response your brain creates in order to protect you. Like she said, it comes out in waves and when it does the pain is unimaginable. You also have no idea what the appropriate way to communicate with others is anymore. When you’re overly emotional and upset it makes people extremely uncomfortable, when you’re happy and make light of the subject in order to not make other people uncomfortable, it comes off as cold and detached. There is no right way to grieve. Create more space for empathy in your heart, rather than judgement for a life experience that you know NOTHING about. As for her and her ex splitting, grief puts a wedge in your relationship like nothing else can. I think most men have a tendency to run and avoid their feelings and end up making their partners subsequently feel abandoned in their grief, and I went through that experience exactly/still am currently with my husband. Women tend to lean in and have a massive spiritual transformation and healing process and it creates a massive disconnect and shines light on already existent issues you’ve had in your relationship that you may just not have noticed. You essentially transform into two completely different people with different outlooks on life, I’d imagine it’s pretty rare for a couple to heal parallel and not have a falling out. The key is to have empathy for your partner and not resentment for what your own needs are not being met, you’re both two completely different people going through a horrific and painful experience. Communication is absolutely the key.
Im so so so grateful for you that you weren’t hit with 100% of that gief but instead as life goes forward you are met daily with whats bareable not only to be alive or just exist but to feel ok and happy and the need to still thrive! I 100% think it is your body protecting you but what’s awesome about that is it’s not in a denial place. The interviewer mentioned simulation and how it can become dark and that’s when it gets to be a bad place . Well if you’re experiencing full on grief in pain, it’s bound to get there .You’re not numb to the grief or pushing it down, delaying the process,. Your self-aware you’re still still grieving, but Romeo and God decided that you were not to go through debilitating, negative life altering overwhelming lasting pain. Wow. Cool
Also, I wish that this is what grief looked like. A painful but bearable process with windows of extreme agony, but it doesn’t last long enough to extremely impact your life negatively. IMO , its necessary to detach enough from such a debit stating experience to be able to advocate help educate or do something extremely positive with the knowledge you’ve gained . People have a way of judging others for looking numb or not emotional enough. The reason we are able to be in a state of denial is because sometimes we need to be there !!! Denial in your body going into states of numbness or detachment is its way of knowing that you are unable to mentally and physically process what’s happening at that moment or time, or period of life . eventually you come out of those states and are able to feel however Nothing absolutely nothing positive comes from overwhelming devastation. . if one needs to do what they need to do to move forward actually live use these tools. We have been given for this very reason. There is nothing This is amazing.
Im not an avid podcast listener, however ive seen thousands of interviews in many differing atmospheres, approches, as well as subject matter. I personally think whoever this man is, embodies what is needed to give the perfect interview. One with emotion, fact, knowledge, statistics, as well as detail. Loved it
Angels are not human. God is not the universe. This girl needs Jesus. Praying for her. So sorry she had to go through this. It could happen to any of us.
This can and does happen to anyone. All walks of life. It’s impossible not to blame yourself. However mum you are human. It only takes a few moments. I’m so sorry you’ve had to live with this. Nobody deserves this. I’m so happy you have a baby girl to keep you busy. Sending love from Australia ❤
He wanted to live in a different way!! You messed up as a mom!! He didn’t have a choice!! It is a painful experience for him!! I am sure he didn’t choose to go through that pain!! Feel the grief!! You weren’t there by chance!! You took him there and didn’t watch him!! It is not an accident it was an act of carelessness!!
Most likely nervousness as she stated in the beginning. And also grief and joy can coexist, and until you’ve been in her position do not judge how she presents herself to the world.
@@Team_Blackledge I would never allow my 2 year old to be out of my sight at a POOL when you know the #1 cause of death among children this age is drowning.
This is so sad. Love to her and her family and yes, she needs Jesus. X Also, there's a trend to tell stories from the past in present tense. I find it much harder to follow!
I didn't get a good vibe from this video with how she's acting like she's at peace with it. I have 6 kids and would absolutely be devastated. Rest in peace that poor sweet baby
For God's sake it was 2 years ago. Do you expect her to be sitting there a blubbering mess crying about how she can't go on and wants to die?? I'm sure she probably did that at first. But it's been 2 years and she has chosen to pick herself up and learn to live in a life that is completely different than the one she had. You should be ashamed of yourself for such harsh criticism of a grieving mother
Can me or my sister get on your podcast? Our little brother died 2 months under suspicious circumstanses, and we cant seem to get the police to do anything about it.
@@kkkristi I have a 3 year old! It's my job to watch him - but especially around water, I am not letting him out of my sight. I'm holding his hand, holding him, and in the water with him. He wouldn't have time to get away, because I know how quickly tragedy can happen and it's my job to not allow it to happen.
God 's hand is protecting you.i faced a similar incident and I canbtalk about it and the intense pain is removed.i only believe in jesus christ our Lord
Why the need to victim blame? Don't you think she lives with that every day?? I doubt she wants to come here to see her video and see a bunch of comments blaming her. Shame on you.. Do better...
This. I can't imagine not watching my 3 year old for even a second. This is sad. You know there is a pool there. You know he can't swim. You know. And you still make that choice to sit down, look away, talk to your friend.
Total low blow with the LDS remark. What a dumb thing to say seriously. I’ve been a Latter Day Saint most of my life and have lived through so many tragedies and so has my family and we definitely believe in the healing aspect within. Not even sure how to even articulate how stupid of a remark that was, so far from the truth actually. We believe in the power of Priesthood blessings which we know we have the power from heaven to heal and be healed. We believe in our Savior Jesus Christ and that HE is the Great Healer and we devote our lives to Him and to our loving Heavenly Father. The gospel has literally saved my life so many times because it has taught me the most about who I am and that I know I am heard and loved and in that I am already healed before I even go to Him in prayer.
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have everlasting life". As the evangelical Christian that I am, i believe that the children that passed are with God and they are happy. They are not on this earth. Please becareful to not fall in those New Age believeths which will not bring you to near to God in Jesus Christ.😢❤
Bottom line… this could happen to anyone. Doesn’t make us bad parents. Sometimes things just happen. We cannot judge something we have never been through. Period!!!
I think that this is the first time in my life i can't empathize with the pain of a mother loosing her child. And i don't understand exactly why...
Rest in peace little boy❤🙏🏼👼
I can’t emphasize either; she’s smiling too much and doesn’t seem to have genuine remorse.
I think it's her lack of hyper vigilance when water was close by. Some people just dont see danger & live in their own little bubble. Toddlers are super fast & you can't take your eyes off them & "assume", as she says she did. Just last week in rush hour on the Tube in London, i saw a Mom letting a child prob 18months old stagger along alone in the crowd while she dawdled a long ways behind with the buggy. Accident waiting to happen.
@@MC.1990everyone grief is not the same unless you’ve lost your child you have no reason to be judging someone off a video. Our bodies do weird things to cope just like being in a fight or flight mode. Anything can happen anywhere at anytime. Don’t ever think something similar couldn’t happen to you nobody is perfect scroll on if you can’t have empathy.
Me either wow years into child loss and I still am not smiling
If parents are by water why would they ever take their eyes off the child...she is nit sorrowful as my heart is ..a Lil confusing
Very much agree with the floaty. Our son was in a life jacket playing with other kids jumping in the deep end, his dad and I were sitting on the edge. We took it off to eat lunch and within minutes he forgot and jumped in without the life jacket. Thank God we were paying attention, my husband came running and jumped across the pool to grab him. It was under a minute and was terrifying. I am so sorry you had to go through this.
I think this is also a reminder that social situations can be incredibly distracting.
My son fell off the sofa recently, I just scratched my skin for a few seconds. He's fine but I'm more paranoid about his safety than ever.
My mom told me how she and her siblings grew up essentially unsupervised most of the time and how it's a miracle they're still alive.
But even in our times when we are super aware of safety - it always takes luck to survive. You can fall and go unscathed or have bad luck and break your neck just because of a slighly different angle...
So much more should be done about the safety of pools, however. Not only humans but many animals drown in them all the time. How horrible.
As someone else said.. this could happen to any of us. Shaming for “taking your eyes off your child for 2 min” is ridiculous, we’ve all done it, we’ve just never had something horrendous come from it so it’s easy to claim. Praying for this mom and family.
Yes, but most parents don't take their eyes off their 2 yr old baby for a second at the pool
@@FaithCastro-u7f I actually agree with you! Good point and you’re absolutely right. That put it into perspective.
If only 2 minutes he should have been able to be resuscitated!! So not sure I believe this. Parents need to be eyes on their kids at all times. Completely unnecessary tragedy & so very sad!
Around a pool? You'd take your eyes off your 2 year old around a pool? Nope. I have a 3 year old and would never. I'm holding his hand or carrying him..
It takes seconds for an under 5 to drown it can be that fast. Impossible to have your eye on them 24-7 but I love the advice about floaties and swimming lessons bless this little one RIEP 🙏🏼🫶and love to the mother, father and the family it’s an absolute tragedy that should not have to be experienced by parents, the loss of a child. Love & God Bless 🙏🏼♥️
Yall should turn off these comments and protect this poor mother from these wild judgmental people who have never been in this situation or anything even close to it. Any parent who says they’ve never let their child out of their sight is delusional and self-righteous and some of these comments are disgusting.
Bumping this.
THANK. YOU.
Why? Because we are responsible parents telling it like it is
This interview feels off. I am not sure I would have posted this. I really am not sure why, but feels unsettling in a sense.
Yeah she’s way too giggly and care free considering the situation.
@@MC.1990 she might feel uncomfortable around this man. She might be emotionally shut down.
#single mom vibes
Agree
Strange girl
That part about the little boy asking his mother if he is her angel broke me 😭💗
The part about the mom not watching her son broke me
I thought that was sweet too.
It’s only natural to blame yourself. We lost our son only 5-weeks ago he died of an accidental overdose at 27. But of course we as parents blame ourselves that we could have helped him to prevent what he did. And it will haunt us for the rest of our lives that we didn’t do enough.
💔😢🙏🏻💔
She should blame herself. It's her fault
It’s very different to loosing a child. But the dreamlike state she describes is something I’ve been through quite recently. I awake at 2.30 am in the morning. Surrounded by fire. I’d woken to a fully involved house fire. 6 hours after purchasing it. An electrical fault. Lost everything except our lives. Thankfully my daughter was on a sleepover. My housemate was out. All the animals survived somehow. Nothing else did. I woke up 4 days later in the intensive care burns unit.
From the moment I awoke that night. It just didn’t feel real. I was waiting to wake up.
What do you mean my house burnt down 6 hours after purchasing it. That can’t be right.
I woke from a dead sleep. To being surrounded by an inferno. This has to be a nightmare.
3 months on I still have that feeling come over me. Where I’m waiting to wake up.
Over to next 3 weeks all of my cats and dog were located in various different places.
All the living things survived, a miracle. ❤
What a traumatic experience. Hope you can get rest and recovery you need. That is definitely an insane story and miracle everyone actually survived.
I can't watch this one. I'm ecstatic that she is moving on so fabulously and surrounded by love and support. If she's over it, why talk about it? She's opening up by saying what they didn't have.... he was careful?
Please. intro the son Romeo first.
Start it with Romeo. Not her. Her life. Her tragedy. WTF.
I don’t feel anything from her. She said she was the one at the tragedy. No.
Romeo was.
Brie sorry for your loss l can't imagine for what you have been through. I almost lost my child literally behind the swimmer structor glad my kid is back okay 🙏🏼
hope we all have more information about that.
Wow these comments are lacking empathy completely. I pray nothing like that happens to any of these negative people thinking that they’re completely in the clear. They’re called ACCIDENTS for a reason. Obviously if it was so “easy” to prevent these types of things they wouldn’t EVER happen. Be better people.
It won't happen to us because we won't take our eyes off a baby around a pool like this idiot
Not watching tbe rest shes all about her ..even after her baby died weird to me
This is an adult teenager being interviewed
Prayers and love 2 sons in heaven ..most difficult journey a soul will ever encounter...no passage of time changes the pain norrr the LOVE FOR OUR BABIES EVER...without my Father I would not be here ..no drowning involved but I a in AZ and it happens daily here
What an incredible podcast. From start to finish I was invested, educated, and my heart goes out to bri. Thank you for your vulnerability, your honesty and your advice. My son is named Romeo, so this hit home.
People deal with pain differently.
Im so sorry for your loss. We grew up swimming, many people do not. However, there used to be lifeguards at lakes, beaches and swimming pools. Kids had to pass a swim test. When did things change? RIP, little man❤
also not allowed to swim after eating for like 30 mins
I had thought when I learned of this accident. Obviously so tragic and sad. I’m thinking people should have their toddlers on a leash when around a pool. It sounds so simple, yet I believe it could prevent these tragedies. I’m not here to judge, just to say I’m so sorry.
The judgement people in these comments have is truly sad. In response to her lack of emotion; what would you all like her to act like? Should she be a sobbing mess every podcast that she does? Should she never be allowed to smile or experience joy ever again and just end it all? Life is a LEARNING experience, and to be resilient and transform such a horrific tragedy into something positive in any way is how to learn and grow from the experience.
I lost my little brother in a tragic accident and my best friend was “unalived” with her boyfriend on my street, both within 5 months of each other. I relate so much to the dreamlike state she talks about. I too feel completely numb to the emotions and definitely agree it’s some sort of trauma response your brain creates in order to protect you. Like she said, it comes out in waves and when it does the pain is unimaginable. You also have no idea what the appropriate way to communicate with others is anymore. When you’re overly emotional and upset it makes people extremely uncomfortable, when you’re happy and make light of the subject in order to not make other people uncomfortable, it comes off as cold and detached. There is no right way to grieve. Create more space for empathy in your heart, rather than judgement for a life experience that you know NOTHING about.
As for her and her ex splitting, grief puts a wedge in your relationship like nothing else can. I think most men have a tendency to run and avoid their feelings and end up making their partners subsequently feel abandoned in their grief, and I went through that experience exactly/still am currently with my husband. Women tend to lean in and have a massive spiritual transformation and healing process and it creates a massive disconnect and shines light on already existent issues you’ve had in your relationship that you may just not have noticed. You essentially transform into two completely different people with different outlooks on life, I’d imagine it’s pretty rare for a couple to heal parallel and not have a falling out. The key is to have empathy for your partner and not resentment for what your own needs are not being met, you’re both two completely different people going through a horrific and painful experience. Communication is absolutely the key.
Im so so so grateful for you that you weren’t hit with 100% of that gief but instead as life goes forward you are met daily with whats bareable not only to be alive or just exist but to feel ok and happy and the need to still thrive! I 100% think it is your body protecting you but what’s awesome about that is it’s not in a denial place. The interviewer mentioned simulation and how it can become dark and that’s when it gets to be a bad place . Well if you’re experiencing full on grief in pain, it’s bound to get there .You’re not numb to the grief or pushing it down, delaying the process,. Your self-aware you’re still still grieving, but Romeo and God decided that you were not to go through debilitating, negative life altering overwhelming lasting pain. Wow. Cool
Also, I wish that this is what grief looked like. A painful but bearable process with windows of extreme agony, but it doesn’t last long enough to extremely impact your life negatively. IMO , its necessary to detach enough from such a debit stating experience to be able to advocate help educate or do something extremely positive with the knowledge you’ve gained . People have a way of judging others for looking numb or not emotional enough. The reason we are able to be in a state of denial is because sometimes we need to be there !!! Denial in your body going into states of numbness or detachment is its way of knowing that you are unable to mentally and physically process what’s happening at that moment or time, or period of life . eventually you come out of those states and are able to feel however Nothing absolutely nothing positive comes from overwhelming devastation. . if one needs to do what they need to do to move forward actually live use these tools. We have been given for this very reason. There is nothing This is amazing.
My Friend's child drowned. She suffered so much. I am so sorry for Romeo to have passed and for your loss😢
Im not an avid podcast listener, however ive seen thousands of interviews in many differing atmospheres, approches, as well as subject matter.
I personally think whoever this man is, embodies what is needed to give the perfect interview. One with emotion, fact, knowledge, statistics, as well as detail. Loved it
It makes me sad that she just left her long term relationship and is already in another:(
Why does that make you sad? I’m surprised you’d have any feelings about it.
Angels are not human. God is not the universe. This girl needs Jesus. Praying for her. So sorry she had to go through this. It could happen to any of us.
Amen.
Just listened to this, And I was thinking the same thing… yes she needs JESUS…
@@rosenapatton8265 Don’t we all. 💛🙏💛
Amen. We all do!
People have so many excuses for when they make terrible choices
Not trying to judge, but the guy seems more upset than she does…. ?
Because he’s interviewing a narcissist
@@Ram-dq1gq Yep
Yes agree and I am on this most difficult journey of child loss years in and she's off wayyyt off to me js
@@Ram-dq1gqexactly
It's been two years... People deal differently. I have no doubt she suffers and goes through crushing grief all the time.
This can and does happen to anyone. All walks of life. It’s impossible not to blame yourself. However mum you are human. It only takes a few moments. I’m so sorry you’ve had to live with this. Nobody deserves this. I’m so happy you have a baby girl to keep you busy. Sending love from Australia ❤
She’s saying 2-3 minutes really means 5-10 minutes
Thank you ❤😊
He wanted to live in a different way!! You messed up as a mom!! He didn’t have a choice!! It is a painful experience for him!! I am sure he didn’t choose to go through that pain!! Feel the grief!! You weren’t there by chance!! You took him there and didn’t watch him!! It is not an accident it was an act of carelessness!!
bless your heart
I have nothing but anger towards this woman. I have NEVER let my children be around water without a life jacket on and me right beside them.
Also, why is she smiling so much? No way I'd be smiling 2 years or 20 years after my son drowned in my care.
Most likely nervousness as she stated in the beginning. And also grief and joy can coexist, and until you’ve been in her position do not judge how she presents herself to the world.
Different person, different process. Don’t judge.
She does have a serious case of the giggles
@@Team_Blackledge I would never allow my 2 year old to be out of my sight at a POOL when you know the #1 cause of death among children this age is drowning.
@@lelanddevlin476 It's creepy.
losing my ex absolutely defined who i am 💔
The Universe reference is scary. It is only GOD and he is definitely your Angel! But that is because of God!
I just want to be on the show man I got stories to tell.
Also this mom didn't fight for him to stay alive?! Does she know its possible to recover from brain injuries
This is so sad. Love to her and her family and yes, she needs Jesus. X
Also, there's a trend to tell stories from the past in present tense. I find it much harder to follow!
If there was another kid with the baby how old was he ,cause some kids play ruff even as little they know 😢
Why do u think ur ganna go to heaven if u dont or not whiling too have a relationship with God, it's not the universe wow its God its jesus christ ❤
I didn't get a good vibe from this video with how she's acting like she's at peace with it. I have 6 kids and would absolutely be devastated. Rest in peace that poor sweet baby
For God's sake it was 2 years ago. Do you expect her to be sitting there a blubbering mess crying about how she can't go on and wants to die?? I'm sure she probably did that at first. But it's been 2 years and she has chosen to pick herself up and learn to live in a life that is completely different than the one she had. You should be ashamed of yourself for such harsh criticism of a grieving mother
She is probably on meds as well to be able to survive such a tragedy!
You should be ashamed for saying that!!!!! I also lost my 2 year old and UNTIL YOU walk a mile in a grieving mother's shoes...shut your mouth.
So sorry for your unbelievable loss. And so sorry you have yo endure such ignorant comments @@bobbie-jodesilva206
Same! She’s like telling a family vacation story 😳😳
Can me or my sister get on your podcast? Our little brother died 2 months under suspicious circumstanses, and we cant seem to get the police to do anything about it.
I dont like this woman at all.
Agreed!
How on earth do you take your eyes off a 2 year old, for even a second? Just sad. Totally preventable. Do not take your eyes off your toddlers.
You’re pretty judgemental. I wonder how you’d handle the exact situation.
All the comments from all the perfect parents. Unbelievable.
@@Team_Blackledge actually I think those comments are from people who don’t even have children.
@@kkkristi I have a 3 year old! It's my job to watch him - but especially around water, I am not letting him out of my sight. I'm holding his hand, holding him, and in the water with him. He wouldn't have time to get away, because I know how quickly tragedy can happen and it's my job to not allow it to happen.
@@Team_Blackledge perfect? No. No one is perfect. Vigilant? Yup. Proactive? Yup.
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God 's hand is protecting you.i faced a similar incident and I canbtalk about it and the intense pain is removed.i only believe in jesus christ our Lord
That poor 2 1/2 year old imo could've been prevented if the mother never took her eyes off that baby! 2 1/2 🤐 not for a second...Rest in Paradise 🕊💔
Why the need to victim blame? Don't you think she lives with that every day?? I doubt she wants to come here to see her video and see a bunch of comments blaming her. Shame on you.. Do better...
I agree as lots of us near water are super observant and I would never stand around talking not watching my child near a pool
This. I can't imagine not watching my 3 year old for even a second. This is sad. You know there is a pool there. You know he can't swim. You know. And you still make that choice to sit down, look away, talk to your friend.
Really. Judgy much.
Total low blow with the LDS remark. What a dumb thing to say seriously. I’ve been a Latter Day Saint most of my life and have lived through so many tragedies and so has my family and we definitely believe in the healing aspect within. Not even sure how to even articulate how stupid of a remark that was, so far from the truth actually. We believe in the power of Priesthood blessings which we know we have the power from heaven to heal and be healed. We believe in our Savior Jesus Christ and that HE is the Great Healer and we devote our lives to Him and to our loving Heavenly Father. The gospel has literally saved my life so many times because it has taught me the most about who I am and that I know I am heard and loved and in that I am already healed before I even go to Him in prayer.
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have everlasting life".
As the evangelical Christian that I am, i believe that the children that passed are with God and they are happy. They are not on this earth. Please becareful to not fall in those New Age believeths which will not bring you to near to God in Jesus Christ.😢❤
Jesus
Bottom line… this could happen to anyone. Doesn’t make us bad parents. Sometimes things just happen. We cannot judge something we have never been through. Period!!!