How to Recognize a TOXIC Parent (ft. Inside Job)

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  • @rein_serenity
    @rein_serenity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    I feel like Brett and Reagan are like those friends who make those bets who say that if we don't get married by this age we should get together. Not saying I don't ship them. I just appreciate their non-romantic chemistry.

    • @ryanmaclean1720
      @ryanmaclean1720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I honnestly can't tell if they would have an incredibly healthy relationship or something incredibly toxic given how each deal with trauma and the other's physical and emotional needs. If it were to come round that Brett before the mind switch had never slept with a woman before I'd definitely believe that because of his need to not only be the most positive being to ever live and bring people up, but also because of his soul crushing fear that he isn't an actual person metaphorically

  • @mrpalaces
    @mrpalaces 3 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    The creator already said she doesn't see Brett and Reagan as a couple, and that their connection is even deeper than that. So they're basically adoptive siblings and thank Baal for that

    • @tomkatt8274
      @tomkatt8274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We dont thank Baal in this house. Moloch is best waifu god!

    • @harmonetheanimationaddict4419
      @harmonetheanimationaddict4419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Knowing how fandoms work, they’re gonna ship em anyway.

    • @matheusaraujo4570
      @matheusaraujo4570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why Baal and Moloch?

    • @KM-vq1vy
      @KM-vq1vy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noooo
      😭😭😭😭😭

    • @mrpalaces
      @mrpalaces 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@matheusaraujo4570 because fuck Yaweh

  • @theluigifan1
    @theluigifan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    Reagan Ridley is indeed a fine woman.
    Glad most of us agree on that.

    • @theluigifan1
      @theluigifan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @🎩Top Hat🎩 Same, she deserves to succeed in life and be happy. I love her so much.

    • @maldon3659
      @maldon3659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She sure is and oddly enough the thing that attracted me to her was her anger and her hatred of Brett

    • @theluigifan1
      @theluigifan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@maldon3659 She doesn’t hate Brett, though? He seems to be the one positive thing in her life currently. I can easily see her growing closer to him and being either best friends or potential lovers. Personally banking on the best friends route but I won’t be opposed if a romance happens instead.

    • @Grim_Sister
      @Grim_Sister 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude, smart, pretty and can stand up to herself. I like

  • @xoderota
    @xoderota 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I just love Reagan and Brett's dynamic, I honestly don't care if it's still platonic or they get together, I kinda ship it but at the same time I can enjoy them being friends because their friendship is really freaking amazing

    • @TranswealthyTrillionaire
      @TranswealthyTrillionaire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, also I love a good romance, platonic relationships are underrated!

  • @harmonetheanimationaddict4419
    @harmonetheanimationaddict4419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Rand is the kind of guy people first assumed Stan Pines was like.

  • @JuanRodriguez-qw9bd
    @JuanRodriguez-qw9bd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    When you have decent memories of a bad dad it makes it even harder plus the decent moments are very weird and confusing since you don’t know when their gonna turn back to their shit self

  • @mammon8683
    @mammon8683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I can honestly relate when It comes to abusive and toxic fathers...

  • @generalgrievous3731
    @generalgrievous3731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I like how you titled the video "How to Recognize a TOXIC Parent" with the name of the show as only in parentheses. Just goes to show that you value and emphasize analysis, and drawing universal principles about psychology and human nature, over the actual work of fiction. I really like that about your channel. Either that, or you titled it that way to get more clicks (as Inside Job is more of an obscure show), which is understandable too. Maybe I'm just overthinking it. Regardless, great channel and video!

    • @ToonStarterz
      @ToonStarterz  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Some of column A, some of column B lol. Thanks.

  • @ChefMDM
    @ChefMDM ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Rand maybe the worst father in the show, but Brett's father has never even acknowledged until he needed something

  • @sanobr318
    @sanobr318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    3:00 Your Reagan/Rand dialogue plus their blank expressions are hilarious, lol 😂

  • @raimakesanimations
    @raimakesanimations 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    How to recognize a toxic parent: Watch how Gabriel treat adrien in Miraculous

    • @rhysh4625
      @rhysh4625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omggggg

  • @amandajas6287
    @amandajas6287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Actually, I wouldn't be surprised to find out that Brett is asexual, and that he really doesn't think of Reagan that way. Hell, in the eighties episode, when he came up with his ideal fantasy scenario, she was his sister. I LOVE their relationship, and would love to see it stay platonic and not turn into a very stereotypical male/female lead have to hook up situation.

    • @phousefilms
      @phousefilms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Truth. Even in his VR fantasy, he says to his "mom"that he and Reagan are just friends.

  • @annoyedwitch5321
    @annoyedwitch5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    8:25 i hardly ship Reagan with intense therapy

    • @gamegod6859
      @gamegod6859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      its deku x hospital bed all over again

  • @chefcircuit5392
    @chefcircuit5392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    And then there’s that dad who’s so hatable that I don’t even enjoy watching him because he makes me sick to my stomach: Shou Tucker.

    • @ma.2089
      @ma.2089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It says a lot when out of all the characters in that series, he’s the only character to go to hell.

  • @mchia9699
    @mchia9699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    EXACTLY!
    Why can't the show can't recognise how hot Reagan is?

    • @cgecko3
      @cgecko3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't see it, (then again I'm only attracted to men so take my opinion with a grain of salt) but, tbf she did get that one agent guy to fall for her, and she had some relationships not many but some, so objectively some people had to find her attractive. Honestly so far she doesn't have many people that would be a good fit for her, I would say Brett but, I really like where they are right now as friends so I'm 50/50 on that one.

  • @jeremy1860
    @jeremy1860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Few characters have triggered such consistent and justified dislike in me than Rand 😠

  • @lolyolo9590
    @lolyolo9590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Oh tell me , I know how you feel about Breagan. I starve for platonic relationships for television series but when I was given the circumstances I was like: "well, Idk what to do know".

  • @luciuswalker8578
    @luciuswalker8578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    1) I’m so happy you covered this show.
    2) I love your art style. ^^
    3) I love your observations, as well as how real you got when it comes to toxic parents and relationships.
    4) subbed ^^

  • @KM-vq1vy
    @KM-vq1vy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love Brett & ship him w Regan so much! He’s the sweet hearted innocent pure soul she needs as a partner to balance her out

  • @ProfessorChaos56
    @ProfessorChaos56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don't love to hate Rand, I HATE Rand, and I always hated Rand (even before the reveal). Pure uncut hate is what I feel for him. He is my most hated fictional character of all time.

  • @RaiginAnimator
    @RaiginAnimator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You know you saying awful parents aren’t always awful has made me contemplate my parents…

  • @redjirachi1
    @redjirachi1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Darkseid is a worse father but at least he's unrealistic

  • @ellelongacre3723
    @ellelongacre3723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At this point giving me the option to see Regan and Brett as a couple or seeing them as a Best-Friends almost adopted siblings is akin to offering me the option between Pizza and Cake. They're both good I'll take either. Though I think enjoy seeing them as friends in the show and a couple in the fanfics because it allows me to have both.

  • @zayapatria2847
    @zayapatria2847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well, after watching season 2 idk If I still hate Rand or not.

  • @Zeno11Salazar
    @Zeno11Salazar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I honestly don't ship Regan and Brett at all. I love their friendship to death and I would honestly be disappointed if they end up together, mainly because I'm sick of that best friends of opposition sex get together.
    Also, Regan has way too much baggage to be in a healthy relationship. Poor girl need therapy more than she needs a supportive boyfriend honestly.
    However they do get along well and have each other's backs but I just can't see them getting together.

  • @daleketchup7434
    @daleketchup7434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly, they did Rand amazing here. When he first appeared, I expected him to be some asshole parent like you said but he’s more of a thorn on the side or an itch Raegan ignored. But that thorn became a goddamn pike at the end and I fucking loved it!

  • @blue-foods
    @blue-foods 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:17 a bit off topic but those jackets are pretty easy to make. I’m currently making one, I found a purple and white varsity jacket (I think it was $30 off Amazon) then I got a yellow fabric marker ($1 at Michaels) and colored the collar and cuff lines yellow, found a T-shirt with the gang logo on red bubble (about $20) cut out the logo from the Tshirt and sew it onto the back of the jacket, and embroider your name or a characters name into the front.

  • @edmilmaldonado5756
    @edmilmaldonado5756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What's your opinion of “Inside Job”? Also, can you you do an analysis on redemption arcs?

  • @romanovilla
    @romanovilla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I ship them(Brett and Reagan) too🤣 It’s hard not to do it. At first I was saying in my mind “You don’t like them like a romantic couple, you can’t ship it’, but they grew so well…🥲😘

  • @sweetcherry7759
    @sweetcherry7759 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did you do a video about season two yet?

  • @caitlinbrewer4843
    @caitlinbrewer4843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ran Riddley sounds like he'd be great friends with Vinsmoke Judge.

  • @G.F.SF55
    @G.F.SF55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think Reagan and Brett are more like emotionally-damaged buddies.

  • @SallyBMcgill
    @SallyBMcgill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can see them as borderline romantic but will property never actually be canon. I personally ship them, as Brett seems to be the only person Reagan feels she can be truly vulnerable with, especially since he's the first person to recognize her value when she was a teen

    • @ma.2089
      @ma.2089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I feel like they love each other. But not in a romantic way, but entirely platonic. Which is great to see! And why if they ever did get romantic I wouldn’t be shocked and would be ok with it unlike most couples of the best friend/mc and secondary mc type.
      I’m very Into them remaining platonic

  • @luciuswalker8578
    @luciuswalker8578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wanna marry Reagan-chan. >.

  • @valeriedominguez607
    @valeriedominguez607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't watch this video at first, but after giving Inside Job a chance I remembered this video existed And watched it to hear your thoughts, and I agree. To everything you said. Dad's an SuperS Tier D***; mom can't care less; terminator knock off was the most human and I love that he's addicted to friends like I was when I first saw it; the co-workers are crap people but we love them anyway; and Ridley and Brett being platonic friends is something I'm okay with, but I also ship them.

  • @jessiefyler3751
    @jessiefyler3751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Don't get me wrong, Ragen's dad is terrible, but her mom is just as bad. She's very critical and negative with her own daughter and I'd like to see more TH-cam videos analysing how terrible Regan's mother is.

    • @godzillavkk
      @godzillavkk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whataboitism is NOT a defense.

  • @daniapfel9673
    @daniapfel9673 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No the worst father ever it's Ozai

  • @ricochet4674
    @ricochet4674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:28 I love this

  • @ricochet4674
    @ricochet4674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:02 okay why does this look almost uncannily like my dad but like with thicker hair. (and also Chris pratt but it might just actually be Chris pratt)

  • @LilyTheSmol
    @LilyTheSmol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So, um, weird question, who is the dude who's face flashes for a brief moment at 7:02?

  • @simonw.1223
    @simonw.1223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:02 who is that?

  • @Ryder-a-Blaze
    @Ryder-a-Blaze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The girl I’m the thumbnail looks like Giulia from Luca.

  • @rachelluviano7514
    @rachelluviano7514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Regen and Rad are the extrime virson of my father and I. Its funny how we even start with R's *Rachel and Roberto. It is not easy growing up with a controlling father and its not easy not to be controlling, Regen and I are also a cotrol freaks at times. IDK Rads back story but I am sure its going be simalr to my fathers they probley had even more Jacked Up childhoods then Regen and mines. Our Fathers some how did gave us better childhood and future then what they had, and even if it was jacked up, I am thankful for that he gave me better then what he had, I sure Regen (if she was real) feels the same way.

  • @GoodWormDoctor
    @GoodWormDoctor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brett and Reagan personify the traits I’m attracted to in both men and women

  • @YoungClarke
    @YoungClarke 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think Christian Slater being so charming as a voice actor makes me want to like Rand, despite his horrible nature.
    And I want Brett to remain platonic. They’re good how they are

  • @quietperson3886
    @quietperson3886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    although im okay with brett and reagan just becoming bffs, im okay too if they become a couple

  • @Gooberwares
    @Gooberwares 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And a real kicker he may have even NAMED regan after his little scheme
    Machine Was made during Regan’s era…
    Project: JELLYBEAN ….
    Hint hint

  • @alexallen9640
    @alexallen9640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video. 🙂 👍
    That guy was a jackass- Yondu

  • @holdendempsey.6330
    @holdendempsey.6330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is what color are your shoes?

  • @maldon3659
    @maldon3659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why isn't Gendo from Eva on your list

  • @Oliviagarry69420
    @Oliviagarry69420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Question who was the guy at 7:02

    • @manticoraus
      @manticoraus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I only say ginger bearded guy

    • @ericfischer5544
      @ericfischer5544 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was able to pause it, it's Chris Pratt. Am I missing something?

  • @sarahzahira7432
    @sarahzahira7432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watch Dogs In Space.

  • @xSoporific1
    @xSoporific1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    mmm

  • @jeffreywho
    @jeffreywho 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take notes anime villains

  • @sanobr318
    @sanobr318 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor Christian Slater took a dozen of years to work in a critically praised show and, when he finally do, it's the most hated/despicable character of it, by far! Lol 🤣

  • @avrinrose5457
    @avrinrose5457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you talk about Kaitou Joker?

  • @ryanmaclean1720
    @ryanmaclean1720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what I find most interesting about Rand is that despite the horrible things he's done there's that little thread of reliability with him in how he lost his job in a company he founded and was replaced with JR. No matter who you are we can all relate to something we were proud of being taken away from us whether it be a business, an object of sentimental value, or even a friendship being unceremoniously being taken from you and that burning feeling that you get because you want it back. Heck they even show this with Reagan when she's let go from her life's work and showed explicitly how it mirrors her situation with her father's with the difference being how she deals with it when compared to her vengeful father. I think its that single thread that just REALLY makes this character's villany really sink in

  • @sasamichan
    @sasamichan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I saw 2 episodes of this before deciding this wasn't for me. Most American Adult shows are not. Ask me to expand on that topic if you want to have an actual discussion.
    But from just 2 episodes I saw that dad as more of a Stan Smith type. I was rooting for him to get his job back too.
    I did think that maybe this video would have more IRL examples of Toxic parents when I clicked on it.

  • @Duckwithblueandredhat
    @Duckwithblueandredhat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No idea what you're talking about would kiss this guy on the lips if I could.