lea michele's self help book is lowkey problematic?

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  • @uncarley
    @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +119

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      @mariaalvarez-bq6oe ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @elisadecamposmartins
    @elisadecamposmartins ปีที่แล้ว +3552

    The line "My ancestors suvived the potato famine so I could become reliant on adderall" is pure comedy gold

    • @Angela1111122222
      @Angela1111122222 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      That's the most relatable thing I heard in my life

    • @allyson--
      @allyson-- ปีที่แล้ว +16

      7:43

    • @tonirobinson2389
      @tonirobinson2389 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Best sentence in the whole video!

    • @ajnineteen3
      @ajnineteen3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I just subscribed because of that sentence. I was like, this girl gets it🥲

    • @paige.
      @paige. ปีที่แล้ว +6

      omg yes i lost it😂

  • @pudding1255
    @pudding1255 ปีที่แล้ว +2857

    the fact she thinks broadway is a small unimportant goal is ASTOUNDING

    • @sylviacorvalan7716
      @sylviacorvalan7716 ปีที่แล้ว +243

      It seems like she sees it as a minor thing because it gives you less mainstream recognition and celebrity status. She probably loves being famous more than actual "love for the craft"

    • @xCINDERBABE
      @xCINDERBABE ปีที่แล้ว +124

      @@sylviacorvalan7716 which is wild on it’s own because without her Broadway career she’d literally be nowhere?

    • @zinnialynn9757
      @zinnialynn9757 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Suddenly the wild turn Rachel's character took in the last season or so of Glee makes sense. That wasn't Rachel, it was Lea.

    • @lovestumacher
      @lovestumacher ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FR girly is so oblivious 🫥

    • @aislynncarpenter701
      @aislynncarpenter701 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I think it's likely because she grew up on Broadway (wasn't she playing child roles as a kid?) so she doesn't view it as a huge life achievement. It's something she's always had, so hanging on to it was a minor goal.

  • @ratluvr12
    @ratluvr12 ปีที่แล้ว +2430

    she’s never beating the illiterate allegations😭

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +262

      sorry lea babe

    • @societycrumbles
      @societycrumbles ปีที่แล้ว +221

      I noticed when someone mentions it to her, she laughs but never denies it. So it's either true, or she's hardcore trolling.

    • @Clorala
      @Clorala ปีที่แล้ว +208

      @@societycrumbles tbh I think she's playing into it because it has taken so much attention away from her being terrible to everyone she works with

    • @societycrumbles
      @societycrumbles ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @@Clorala That makes a lot of sense! Also, it's so funny people forgave her for all the racism and bullying because she was good in Funny Girl. At least the whole reading rumor is giving her more attention and that's what she probably loves. Better than being on the hot seat for doing shitty things for sure.

    • @itsyourmumsgf
      @itsyourmumsgf ปีที่แล้ว +21

      no because the thing is it would be easy to prove she can, but she won't.. BECAUSE SHE CANT

  • @JohannahPalomo
    @JohannahPalomo ปีที่แล้ว +864

    lea michele encouraging disordered eating patterns and then immediately being like "it's not extreme it's just about AWARENESS".. girl.

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +58

      LITERALLY

  • @JainaSolo.
    @JainaSolo. ปีที่แล้ว +3192

    I'm a dietitian and the part about health is horrendous. It's basically a how to guide to disordered eating. Also as a health professional I'm really hecking tired of celebrities talking about nutrition like the know something

    • @fleurjoesten
      @fleurjoesten ปีที่แล้ว +153

      It’s probably Lea Michele’s own view and beliefs on food, which, just because you are a celebrity, should not be published as truth or advice. This triggered some shit in me, ngl. People who are unaware of their own problems, such as with food, should not write books about it.

    • @user-lp3ew1xb5u
      @user-lp3ew1xb5u ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Yeah - as a vegan, I’m tired of seeing veganism being leveraged as a heath fad. Being vegan - IMO is about 50% about diet! And the diet part of this belief system - isn’t necessarily heathy, depending on your choices. One can be a junk food vegan.

    • @JTScott1988
      @JTScott1988 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well they DO hire the best nutritionists and always look FANTASTIC so uh… maybe they do

    • @kaykeunil
      @kaykeunil ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@JTScott1988 hiring a nutritionist and listening to their advice is very different from being qualified to give their own advice

    • @JTScott1988
      @JTScott1988 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jessicastjames6202 I agree to a degree but my 600lb life ain’t it either…
      That shit shouldn’t be normalized.

  • @jmb1922
    @jmb1922 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    Her saying just getting Spring Awakening would be a "small career" is fucking crazy. It's a literal BROADWAY ROLE that she's ORIGINATING. That's huge! Especially at 19! It's not even "dreaming small."

    • @annal7406
      @annal7406 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      It’s also crazy because surely her broadway career IS the successful one? Obviously starring in glee was a huge achievement but to my knowledge it’s the only big tv role she’s ever had (and broadway was also a huge part of it?) vs so many huge stage roles.

  • @meganm4812
    @meganm4812 ปีที่แล้ว +813

    Non-GMO popcorn is peak irony because technically all corn in America has been genetically modified.

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +75

      WHAT

    • @Rose-jz6sx
      @Rose-jz6sx ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@uncarley yeah to make it resistant to disease.

    • @lannn360
      @lannn360 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      @@uncarley yep in biology class we tested this out by doing genetic testing on “Non GMO” corn tortilla chips and they contained modified genes because crazily you cannot tell the bees where they can and cannot pollinate lol

    • @sarasthoughts
      @sarasthoughts ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@uncarley girliepop every single crop has been genetically modified through history

    • @bethanybarden1953
      @bethanybarden1953 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I mean, if we want to get real specific, corn only exists because of careful selective breeding--the original genetic modification. Always makes me giggle on the inside when I see any corn product labelled "non-GMO."

  • @chickenfoot2423
    @chickenfoot2423 ปีที่แล้ว +831

    the way she reveals her twisted mindset so earnestly shocks me every time😭 she’ll just heavily imply shes only nice to people so she can use them and then move on to another super sincere story like its normal

    • @hashtagmate
      @hashtagmate ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Funnily enough bad people do that often, they don't even think anything is wrong with what they do so they aren't scared to show their intentions

  • @kat08
    @kat08 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    As someone with celiac (so I have to eat gluten free all the time) it always bugs me that people think gluten free is healthier 😭 there's so much added sugar and other stuff to make the food taste better since it doesn't have gluten in it so it's unhealthy for anyone who doesn't actually need to eat gluten free

    • @petradeffenbaugh4599
      @petradeffenbaugh4599 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      literally and we have to take supplements bc gluten free means not always getting nutrients

    • @carrained
      @carrained ปีที่แล้ว +10

      There are some health reasons for avoiding gluten but if one has to do that then they most likely cannot eat replacement products either, there are both colon and skin diseases that need very strict diets. I don’t know if it’s specifically wheat or if it’s the gluten because I can’t eat gluten but I know that one of them can cause and worsen inflammations!

    • @not_you_i_dont_even_know_you
      @not_you_i_dont_even_know_you ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Another celiac reporting in - I eat like absolute trash. It's possible, thanks to the developments in food science. A hearty thank you to all the fad dieters that made gluten free Oreos possible. And yes, Lea, I am very cognizant of what I am eating when cramming potato chips in my face at 3 am. Get bent.

    • @JTScott1988
      @JTScott1988 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unless u don’t even like taste lolz and lots of (snow bunnies and hares” do not.

    • @kdog8658
      @kdog8658 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whats really good for folks is yeasted/sourdough breads

  • @MarsMcCarthy
    @MarsMcCarthy ปีที่แล้ว +668

    I worked on Glee as an extra cheerleader when I was 18 to look younger (I was about 20ish). My brother also worked on the same set as a student and we would sometimes work together.
    Lea was one of the lead actresses who wouldn’t even so much and LOOK at you. No smile, no hello, no anything, ever.
    The coach (I do not remember her name although I remember her to be a more known actress at the time) was far more cordial, as well as the other members of the cast and crew.
    I definitely don’t think that anyone is owed conversation just because they are sharing the same space. However, it can make for a very uncomfortable experience when your existence goes completely unacknowledged. Especially when the hours are very long and you are there for many days out of the week. A single hello, head nod or moments eye contact can go a long way. Which would be standard for any working environment. Imagine being at a job and a higher ranking employee refuses to even so much as look at you.
    It’s just funny to me that she has the audacity to put in her book and journal anything at all about work space demeanor. It’s actually quite comical.
    Edit, correction, explanation of “18 to look younger”
    I was in my early 20’s, approx 21. It’s called “18 to look younger” as in your over 18 but you look younger so you can play a high schooler, cheerleader etc for purposes of filming a show that is set in a scene or scenes that call for younger looking people. If they were to hire people under 18 the production company would have to follow very strict rules, protocol and have very limited hours that minors can work. So when they hire tv background or other roles they are classified as “18 to look younger” between casting and the production company.

    • @petradeffenbaugh4599
      @petradeffenbaugh4599 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      YES I AM SO GLAD SUE IS OK

    • @hashtagmate
      @hashtagmate ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Girl were you 18 or 20ish I'm so confused

    • @MarsMcCarthy
      @MarsMcCarthy ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@hashtagmate sure so I was in my early 20’s, approx 21. It’s called “18 to look younger” as in your over 18 but you look younger so you can play a high schooler, cheerleader etc for purposes of filming a show that is set in a scene or scenes that call for younger looking people. If they were to hire people under 18 the production company would have to follow very strict rules, protocol and have very limited hours that minors can work. So when they hire tv background or other roles they are classified as “18 to look younger” between casting and the production company.
      I mentioned it in my original message because it seems like the ppl are in highschool and I was clarifying that I was not a kid at the time.

    • @claragrace15
      @claragrace15 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@MarsMcCarthy did you get to talk to any of the other main cast members?

    • @tenthwave5834
      @tenthwave5834 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I used to manage a sports team in high school and before some of them started to know me- none of them would talk to me. It was so uncomfortable and I cried when I got into my car everytime cause I hated it. I convinced myself that I was crazy but them learning my name and eventually acknowledging my existence and making me welcome was what got me so interested in the sport

  • @cutenekko
    @cutenekko ปีที่แล้ว +610

    "Normalize small goals." Yes, this should be accepted more in society. My favorite takeaway from your vid. 💯

    • @loftyradish6972
      @loftyradish6972 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Someone recently asked me what was on my bucket list. The only item on my bucket list is to get a urine sample jar, half fill it with apple juice then roll it down the middle of a bus.
      Its a small thing, but I don't know I will ever have the courage.

    • @brioche8123
      @brioche8123 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@loftyradish6972 you gotta do it.
      When I was a kid, an apple with a bite taken out of it rolled down the aisle on the school bus. Everyone was very entertained and to this day idk who did that lol cherished memory. Why don’t you help someone else have a cherished bus-apple memory

    • @loftyradish6972
      @loftyradish6972 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@@brioche8123 I just really like imagining a bus full of adults watch what they think is a jar of urine roll down the isle. Everyone would quietly ignore it, too disgusted to touch it while desperately hoping no one would think it was theirs. The awkwardness would be 10,000 more intense than a box of tampons spilling. I don't know if it would cause the same entertainment for others as an actual apple.

    • @brioche8123
      @brioche8123 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@loftyradish6972 lol yes! It would be hilarious even if it’s only for your own twisted entertainment.

    • @agatamakrucka8065
      @agatamakrucka8065 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes!

  • @bintezahrabukhari
    @bintezahrabukhari ปีที่แล้ว +2081

    love that the only people you’ve made two videos about are emma chamberlain and lea michelle. truly the farthest ends of the spectrum-

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +435

      there are two kinds of people in this world

    • @bintezahrabukhari
      @bintezahrabukhari ปีที่แล้ว +336

      @@uncarley inside you there are two wolves

    • @malina6947
      @malina6947 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      A magnet has two poles

    • @erinmahan6437
      @erinmahan6437 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      The only two genders

    • @ripley4884
      @ripley4884 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      two genders: katy or gaga

  • @vaylo6614
    @vaylo6614 ปีที่แล้ว +1210

    youre so brave for reading all these memoirs

  • @manic_girl
    @manic_girl ปีที่แล้ว +2341

    Hi, just a small correction: I have bipolar disorder, BPD is actually the abbreviation for borderline personality disorder! Fantastic video as always, drag her queen

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +624

      thank you! i honestly just guessed but this is really good info to know! thank you for watching

    • @cerebratt2752
      @cerebratt2752 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Where I’m at (Aus) bipolar disorder also has the acronym BPAD - bipolar affective disorder. Not always but I’ve come across that in the mental health field

    • @julieannelovesbooks
      @julieannelovesbooks ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@cerebratt2752 interesting! Is this something in media or is this the abbreviation used in literature surrounding the disorder? In Europe we use BD for bipolar disorder, and that’s the only way I’ve seen it as well in American research papers.

    • @cerebratt2752
      @cerebratt2752 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@julieannelovesbooks I’ve seen it used in documenting, psychiatric correspondence in the hospital system from working in the mental health service within a large health district. To be fair it was new to me to when I came across it, so I’m not sure how widely implemented it is - but it seems enough so that clinicians are familiar with it. My idea is that it could be easier to differentiate it in records, or that it may lessen stigmatisation

    • @julieannelovesbooks
      @julieannelovesbooks ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cerebratt2752 That’s so interesting! My first thought would be for insurance purposes. The insurance company demands certain abbreviations and codes to be used by clinicians?

  • @GaryTurbo
    @GaryTurbo ปีที่แล้ว +823

    Lea Michele is a prime example of when you feed a person's ego

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +144

      shes just a social experiment at this point!

  • @ScouseJazmin
    @ScouseJazmin ปีที่แล้ว +270

    I thought maybe "how your ancestors came to America" might have been a brief moment of self-awareness and LM realising she didn't have the pull to sell books to an international audience, but as I went on I realised she probably just doesn't think the world outside the USA exists

    • @emilemig5
      @emilemig5 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think that sadly many Americans don't really consider that other people might not live there lol.. especially on the internet 🫣

    • @faceofvision
      @faceofvision 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That, but also clearly not thinking much outside of WHITE Americans 💀💀💀

  • @alexandraramz
    @alexandraramz ปีที่แล้ว +586

    petition to stop letting famous ppl think they can do it all

    • @MaryFrankShelfy
      @MaryFrankShelfy ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Please let me sign this-

    • @kevinhansen9258
      @kevinhansen9258 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A great way to do that is to not pay attention to them ie not making videos on them or having discussions about them

    • @ayajade6683
      @ayajade6683 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's always been like this her parents fed her ego that much

    • @AmbassadorKat
      @AmbassadorKat ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exception for Idris Elba

  • @kiluanon
    @kiluanon ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This woman writing a self-help book is like the Staircase Murderer writing a book about how to not murder people on staircases.

  • @verzrc2772
    @verzrc2772 ปีที่แล้ว +2926

    I'm so glad Lea Michele invented self help ❤️

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +297

      lea michele invented journaling 💖

    • @karendinkel9040
      @karendinkel9040 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Let’s be real, Lea michelle invented ambition!

  • @gabberdoo2180
    @gabberdoo2180 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    "as we discussed at length in Brunette Ambition" the vibes this gives off, the implication that not only did you read her other book already, but that it is required reading and also somehow counts as a long involved conversation that you, the reader, had with Lea Michele personally

  • @floral-smoke
    @floral-smoke ปีที่แล้ว +190

    She really said "ask not what you can do for your colleagues, but what your colleagues can do for you" and she is so wrong for that xD

  • @debridermusic
    @debridermusic ปีที่แล้ว +362

    Nothing says girl boss like encouraging kids to journal and execute months-long, non doctor approved, elimination dieting 🤩

  • @Rachel-sv9pq
    @Rachel-sv9pq ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I love that she says you have to work hard for things in the same chapter she says she just tagged along to an audition not even knowing she could sing and got the part

  • @annasutton4029
    @annasutton4029 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    The story about your murderer relative made me far happier than it should’ve, sorry English policemen

    • @claireconolly8355
      @claireconolly8355 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hahaha... me too

    • @cassiehosh1677
      @cassiehosh1677 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      cannot believe carley's great uncle invented acab omg

    • @moonstruckfaye
      @moonstruckfaye ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I imagine her family visiting Ireland and everyone high-fiving them and giving them free drinks lol

  • @rosinecarail2420
    @rosinecarail2420 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    She did not write a book about being friendly to co-workers when all of her co-stars from Glee said she was a terrible human being and super rude now, did she ? Big yikes

  • @alexusdunlap4990
    @alexusdunlap4990 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love that she said never made it a priority to read books so she found more creative was to expand her mind like DVD’s

  • @kailane9987
    @kailane9987 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    "i know i have therapy i just read a lea michelle book" i’m CRYING

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +36

      we had a lot to unpack in that session

  • @briannamaitland
    @briannamaitland ปีที่แล้ว +108

    As a current dietetic intern studying to become a dietitian, THANK YOU for calling out the diet and nutrition part! I swear me and my friends rant about how many unqualified people (aka, NOT DIETITIANS) are out here giving nutrition advice and encouraging disordered eating! Drives me insane!!!

  • @Thevitan13
    @Thevitan13 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    absolutely obsessed with the notion that miss ma'am over here wrote this book, sent it to her publishers, and not a single person had ANY feedback to give. they read all this nonsense about dieting and friendship in the workplace and went 'oh this. this is fine. this is good actually. good and great. readers are gonna eat this up' and agreed to publish it

  • @caleighjusten1821
    @caleighjusten1821 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    Wow! I genuinely appreciate you calling out the diet culture and food shaming speech! Love you and your videos!

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +72

      anytime bestie! that shit PISSED ME off food is already so loaded in our culture i dont need a glee cast member giving children EDs

  • @deborahtheexplorer
    @deborahtheexplorer ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Carly ever since the Prince Harry video, I've literally been OBSESSED with your content babe! Your sense of humour is peak older gen z, who loves camp and is completely unhinged and I'm living for ittt😎

  • @kailane9987
    @kailane9987 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    once again … thank you for reading a book i never wanted to read myself but now i can laugh and talk about it … you’re doing god’s work as always !

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +17

      thank you for watching! i love giving back to my community

  • @JulEnglefaris
    @JulEnglefaris ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love how she frames Broadway being as low on the totem pole as something to attain.

  • @ollieb.9731
    @ollieb.9731 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Not Lea Michele shaming me for eating a bag of chips when she got part of her face permanently removed 💀

  • @crystalnelta9022
    @crystalnelta9022 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I admire what she went through in order to write a book as an illiterate person

    • @VideosOfRandomContext
      @VideosOfRandomContext ปีที่แล้ว

      As a person with dyslexia this comment is very rude

    • @mars_mayday
      @mars_mayday ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@VideosOfRandomContext I'm also dyslexic + have asygmatism and I found it HILARIOUS

    • @nejdalej
      @nejdalej 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her ancestors were illiterate so she can have the can do attitude she has today (and inability to read).

  • @Terri_MacKay
    @Terri_MacKay ปีที่แล้ว +153

    "Food as a punishment." YES! YES! YES! Of course we should eat healthy, and encourage children to do so as well in an age appropriate way, but eating should be ENJOYABLE, and not just a chore we perform 3 times a day to keep ourselves alive.
    Four years ago, my daughter (at 25) found herself at 350lbs. We realized that we both had to lose weight. We changed the way we ate, without sacrificing taste or the enjoyment of eating. We experimented more with food, and discovered so many new cuisines and recipes that we now eat regularly. We also began looking at fast food as a treat...something we have once a month, with no guilt attached to it. If we go to a family birthday, and have an extra big slice of cake, we enjoy it guilt free. I hate the expression "cheat days", because it implies that you're doing something wrong. There should never be any guilt attached to food. If your diet is generally healthy, it can withstand a couple treat days (not cheat days) a month.
    My daughter worked hard, and lost 200 lbs, and feels very good about herself at 150lbs. I went from 200lbs to 150lbs, and feel fantastic. And since we lost the weight slowly, and by changing our eating habits, instead of "dieting", we'll be able to maintain those weight losses.

    • @Terri_MacKay
      @Terri_MacKay ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jessicastjames6202 Thank you. 😊

    • @wasnlos2676
      @wasnlos2676 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Honestly that's how anyone looking to loose weight or eat healthier should go about it. I also want to change my eating habits that way.

    • @kaisam2361
      @kaisam2361 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is a very healthy approach to things that we never see enough of. Congrats to you both on the changes and your achievements!

    • @divine555
      @divine555 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eating isn't enjoyable though, it is a chore lol

    • @maddieb.4282
      @maddieb.4282 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@divine555get therapy

  • @yerennysalas1619
    @yerennysalas1619 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    I will write an entire paper thanking you for reading these books just for us not to. Truly girlboss hero !

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +37

      thank you for your service

    • @yerennysalas1619
      @yerennysalas1619 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I will even use APA style for the references !!!

  • @margitdanielakienzl1130
    @margitdanielakienzl1130 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    this is turning into celebrity memoir book club in the best way possible. you and those podcast girlies would get along so well - they also do stand up!

  • @JJ-lh1ds
    @JJ-lh1ds ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The way you dropped the great-uncle story and then just moved on 😭😭 The delivery was so funny.

  • @cascharles3838
    @cascharles3838 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    God I hate the idea that keeps being perpetrated that theatre is unimportant, or just a temporary thing to focus on while moving on to bigger, better things. Theatre is one of the most impressive, entertaining and physical art forms i can think of

  • @Maria_745
    @Maria_745 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    She really manifested funny girl (and her fans' EDs) by journaling 😍📝👑

  • @maqima
    @maqima ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Oh my god yeah, people with small dreams should be respected. Honestly bestie be realistic, set goals you can reach, that will build your confident like nothing else. idk about yall but I was kind of conditioned to look down on people who wanted humble and fulfilling lives :)

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +17

      same! i was told that you need to dream as big as possible and if thats your jam then go for it! but also its fine to want to have a quiet lovely life too!

    • @annikania2682
      @annikania2682 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A big dream also looks different for everyone, that is also something to consider. A person might want to be CEO of everything, and that is a big dream. Another person might just want to live a financially stable life with good work life balance, in a home on the countryside. Sipping tea in the sun and reading. In todays world, that can be an equally big and challenging dream to reach.
      We should just not look down on people, maybe as long as they don’t maliciously harm other people for their goals.
      Also, life becomes easier if you see that even just getting up and doing the tiniest thing, means you did reach a goal, and you don’t need to beat yourself up for not reaching that „that girl“ image or dream.

    • @marianletterio
      @marianletterio ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Also, in this economy, I wouldn't even consider settling with financial stability as dreaming small. I can't even afford adopting a dog right now, and I'm 32 yo

    • @lizzylouisewoo
      @lizzylouisewoo ปีที่แล้ว

      I was also conditioned that way

  • @user-ze9nz5po7y
    @user-ze9nz5po7y ปีที่แล้ว +22

    she is insane I'm SHOOK at the diet and nutrition part.. I've had ED struggles since i was young and this is literally like a pro eating disorder guide I would've made or saved off of tumblr back then. I cant believe she thought was a good idea to publish..??

  • @emmym.f.6118
    @emmym.f.6118 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    the level on unhinged is unmatched in this video and I'm living for it

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      honestly thank you

  • @samantharose1001
    @samantharose1001 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “If you want to dream smaller…that’s not like immoral” !!!! ty yes

  • @simplesimply3753
    @simplesimply3753 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I hate self help books. The language is always classist and ableist. I’ve written for years I want a healthy body. Wanna know what I got? Surgery and even more limited energy. Yay me. /s

    • @sampepper7682
      @sampepper7682 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah "Go on a walk it will make you feel better" I'm sorry Barbra but it looks like I have three knees now instead of one so imma stay inside

    • @kaykeunil
      @kaykeunil ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@sampepper7682 yeah 💀there’s genuinely helpful stuff in there somewhere but all the self-help books I’ve read operate from a very neurotypical, non-disabled POV. Like yes it’s good to try and exercise or go outside and it is helpful for many people, but assuming that everyone has both the energy and strength and privilege to do that is not great

    • @sampepper7682
      @sampepper7682 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaykeunil Yeah

  • @raffaeletropeano4341
    @raffaeletropeano4341 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Nearly choked on my dinner when you made the matcha joke. Thank you for the laughs and for reading these books.

  • @vanessayuro190
    @vanessayuro190 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    carley. you own my heart. also as a current theater kid i hope you know that watching you eviscerate *the* theater kid is all the therapy i will ever need and i thank you

  • @Claram0611
    @Claram0611 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    7:17 I love how she just assumes everyone reading her book is American

  • @ettena93
    @ettena93 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm so proud of Leah for finally learning how to read. She's an icon 😍

  • @dudamendesmili1071
    @dudamendesmili1071 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You didn’t mention it in the video but she talks about how she didn’t want to “”settle”” for Broadway basically, but now in 2022 she’s doing Funny Girl on Broadway and I would argue it’s the most successful thing she’s done since Glee

  • @orlakenny2987
    @orlakenny2987 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My friend and her brother had a lot of food intolerances growing up and ultimately wrote a cookbook called “What to eat when you can’t eat anything “ WITH a qualified dietician- yes they were on the cover and the recipes were theirs but anything relating to diet and nutrition came from the professional

  • @charcharchar__
    @charcharchar__ ปีที่แล้ว +26

    the blissful moments between leah michelle scandals where i can just forget she exists are truly my favourite time of the year

  • @cheyennemartin8138
    @cheyennemartin8138 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As someone who has struggled with EDs since high school, my jaw was on the floor during that horrendous section dude.
    Thank you for making fun of this trainwreck and your humor. ❤

  • @Arianna-qh6nm
    @Arianna-qh6nm ปีที่แล้ว +7

    'I never want to eat these foods again'??? LIKE?? this is what we definitely DON'T need in our lives. thank you for the video tho, the way you summarise it is pretty incredible. eye-opening to say the least.

  • @frithfiver
    @frithfiver 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for the "don't tell me not to live, just sit and putter"

  • @honplace1362
    @honplace1362 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You've officially become one of my comfort youtubers... you will be playing to try to fall asleep when I'm struggling yey

  • @glutenfreesnark
    @glutenfreesnark ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "My ancestors survived the potato famine so that I could become reliant on adderall." 🤣 that felt like a call out

  • @librarianontheloose
    @librarianontheloose ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I found out one of my ancestors was a German tassel maker and if that doesn't mean I should follow my bliss as a burlesque performer I don't know what does.

  • @toot6476
    @toot6476 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Girlboss Lea single handedly reviving the mind destroying vibes of ED positive 2014 Tumblr, we love to see it 😍😍😍

  • @Allthingsania
    @Allthingsania ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Perfect video for a little break during a late night study session for med school finals

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      omg praying for you bestie YOUVE GOT THIS

    • @kinga3731
      @kinga3731 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck girl! ✨️

  • @tvmayer
    @tvmayer ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Gal - you make me smile and bring so much brightness just by existing. Grateful for you! Also love that I can claim to know all about the contents of these celeb books without the torture of reading them. ❤

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      eek im so glad! this comment made me smile thank you so much!

  • @melopepo
    @melopepo ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m vegan and I hate when people associate veganism to diets or “””clean””” eating, vegan does not equal healthy and it’s not its purpose either

  • @blumina99
    @blumina99 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Girl I love that you said, that people dream small as well, because thats so me!! I am a med student and i am just looking forward to just having my little family medicine practise and I do not aspire to be chief of internal medicine. My friends and family don‘t really get this and I felt like everybody else on this planet either 😅
    So just thank you for seeing me and the other non ambitious souls 😊
    (sorry for my poor english skills…😂 love from germany ✨)

    • @JasminMiettunen
      @JasminMiettunen ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm not a med student but isn’t aspiring to have your own practice pretty ambitious? Actually, becoming a doctor is a pretty big goal, too 😂 Weird that your friends and family don’t get it!
      Edit: as someone with depression and anxiety my goals are making friends, socialising, working through my trauma, becoming happier, being able to contribute more to chores… I can’t even imagine striving to become a doctor 😅

    • @scarlettletterman2667
      @scarlettletterman2667 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's so interesting, I'm the opposite and I've always wondered if everyone wants what I do or if there are people that prefer a quieter less out there life/work. Thank you for sharing and I hope you get your dream ❤

  • @xoluciaxo_3721
    @xoluciaxo_3721 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Just imagining Lea Michelle reflecting on herself and journaling it down is hilarious to me. I can’t even imagine that she ever journaled in her life but i’ll take her word for it i guess😭💀

  • @wrenbear
    @wrenbear 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    insane that i have therapy in 30 minutes and the video opens with carley also having therapy in 30 minutes. i feel so connected to you rn

  • @awezomnezz1
    @awezomnezz1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    thanks for going hard on the food section, that kind of thinking stole a lot of joy from my childhood and teen years ❤

  • @emilyjones1
    @emilyjones1 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    The talent oozing off of you is real

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +17

      omg 😳so kind thank you

  • @br4ttyb4b3
    @br4ttyb4b3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “incessantly and obsessively” lol 😂 this whole book reads like me writing a paper the night before desperately trying to reach the word count. she also sounds like she’s genuinely trying so hard to use the biggest words she can think of.

  • @katsala918
    @katsala918 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This honestly makes me want to write a guided journal for kids and teens that encourages actually healthy behavior and not, like, EDs

  • @tianathegoose1691
    @tianathegoose1691 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The “my ancestors survived the potato famine so I could be reliant on adderall” line 💀💀💀💀 subscribing right away

  • @moony7103
    @moony7103 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Her doing a self help book is the most Rachel Berry thing she could’ve done

  • @_laurenolo_
    @_laurenolo_ ปีที่แล้ว +18

    And she's back with another absolute banger 🙌🏻 thank you for feeding us, master girlboss 🙇‍♀️

  • @estegrant123
    @estegrant123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    just so you know, your channel is now my comfort channel. i now re-watch your videos when i'm having a bad day because they are so funny and so good

  • @cassaspell
    @cassaspell ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg, when you said "i always wondered what wet dust tasted like" about almond butter i almost spit out my drink 😂😂

  • @annedamink
    @annedamink หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    your line "journal, wake up at 6 am, uhmmm- fucking put matcha in your ass" made me DIE laughing. always enjoying your roasts

  • @Gloupyli
    @Gloupyli ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I agree with your appraisal of peanut butter. Got gifted almond butter - it's not bad. But adding honey to it makes it magnificent, and I was sooo disappointed to come to this realisation when I was close to finishing it. But peanut butter rules

  • @Empressco
    @Empressco 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love every single detail of you and your fireplace 💗

  • @Ginmabes
    @Ginmabes ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "I've had people at work tell me I legit smell like a teabag". Okay, I quit being a writer. It's all already been done.

  • @prerza
    @prerza ปีที่แล้ว +1

    at this point carley's videos do be saving me from the everyday atrocities of life, ily bestie

  • @lychee-beat-boy
    @lychee-beat-boy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    as someone from scotland with grandparents from ireland, your great-uncle sounds like an absolute lad and you should absolutely model your life on his 💖💖

  • @kat6613
    @kat6613 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    watching carley's videos at 1.5x speed is really upping my auditory processing abilities

  • @wren1996
    @wren1996 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The part about your great-uncle actually caused me to choke on my non-GMO McDonald's fries. 💀

  • @StephKyriacou8
    @StephKyriacou8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have very quickly become a new comfort person for me to watch and I absolutely cannot handle how funny you are 😭

    • @maimunaali3072
      @maimunaali3072 ปีที่แล้ว

      same. she my new fav youtuber!

  • @mememememememememe
    @mememememememememe ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can't believe Lea Michelle published a book if she can't even read 😍 how inspiring

  • @phoebe.aur0ra
    @phoebe.aur0ra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ‘I also just never really read books, so I expanded my mind by watching this DVD series’ L M F A O LIKE YOU CANNOT BE MAKING THIS UP

  • @giorgia.m
    @giorgia.m ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why is this so cathartic to me

  • @mildlyvintage3136
    @mildlyvintage3136 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh my god the “friend Jonathan” in question is literally Jonathan Groff

  • @luinreads
    @luinreads ปีที่แล้ว +6

    bpd is borderline personality disorder but this bpd right here loves u and supports u

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg thank you! i didn't know the acronyms were different!

    • @luinreads
      @luinreads ปีที่แล้ว

      @@uncarley not a problem 🥰 in fact it happens a lot

    • @nette813
      @nette813 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah bipolar disorder is now borderline personality disorder in the dsm5

  • @sejhammer
    @sejhammer ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your humor and your delivery! thanks for uploading

  • @JNDReacts
    @JNDReacts ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lea’s story about unintentionally getting a role on Broadway when her friend went to audition reminds me of a Rachel and Santana storyline from Glee, except in that case Santana is the girl who unintentionally got a big role on Broadway. There’s a lot of differences, but also some interesting similarities.

  • @dylanvillain8254
    @dylanvillain8254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    1:18 bpd stands for borderline personality disorder, not bipolar disorder 🥲

    • @letsjustjumpoffacliffshallwe
      @letsjustjumpoffacliffshallwe หลายเดือนก่อน

      It can be either, but yeah I assume borderline personality disorder is what they meant

    • @dylanvillain8254
      @dylanvillain8254 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@letsjustjumpoffacliffshallwe there are 2 separate abbreviations for the disorders. “bd” stands for bipolar disorder, and “bpd” stands for borderline personality disorder.

    • @letsjustjumpoffacliffshallwe
      @letsjustjumpoffacliffshallwe หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dylanvillain8254 Really? I’ve never heard BD used for Bipolar Disorder. I must’ve gotten it wrong because I’ve heard BP used for bipolar, sorry.

    • @dylanvillain8254
      @dylanvillain8254 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@letsjustjumpoffacliffshallwe probably because most people aren’t well educated on the subject and use the incorrect abbreviation.

    • @jackioff
      @jackioff 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I have watched two videos in the last hour that have made this mistake. My algorithm is so bizarre

  • @tiffany8132
    @tiffany8132 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    you’d need external help after completing that self help journal

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      it literally undoes any mental wellness you had beforehand

  • @ashmosphere
    @ashmosphere หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ‘I always wondered what wet dust tasted like’ I spit out my icecream

  • @ElizabethEddelman
    @ElizabethEddelman ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The term partner sitting there like 👁️👄👁️every time Lea writes “guy or girl”

  • @ieatgremlins
    @ieatgremlins ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Girl, I had a journal similar to the nutrition section of her journal when I was deep into my bulimia. The "goal" page of foods to cut out of your diet is verbatim what people with ED use. This is awful.

  • @kyrasaturn
    @kyrasaturn ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Jack bullies celeb's taste in books and Carley bullies celeb's books.

  • @ghostroads81
    @ghostroads81 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what watching your videos on lea michele has taught me (because no i'm not gonna read those books myself) it's that s5-7 of glee are no longer about rachel berry, they are about lea michele. like everything that happens to rachel is inspired by lea's own life. i find this crazy like the level of meta narrative...

  • @frankiewashere
    @frankiewashere ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is randomly one of my fav videos of yours - i love your thoughts !!

    • @uncarley
      @uncarley  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omg! thank you! im so glad!