Modern WOMEN AREN'T the issue - MALE PASSIVENESS IS (MASCULINE TRAITS your FATHER didn't teach you)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
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    • @nictibbetts
      @nictibbetts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I really want to agree with Casey on this one but the thing is I’m not just going to give my attention and time away so easily a woman will have to earn it from me. I lose interest fast and disqualify women easily. Woman have been trained to just expect this shit and not work for it. I don’t have time for low interest women, women that don’t do want I want, women that disobey me, or women that fail my tests.

    • @moki0525
      @moki0525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Uncle C, I appreciate this content but I have an honest question. I agree that male passiveness is a significant issue, how is one to navigate this is a post “me too” society in which women seem to “get off” on rejecting men under the guise of sexual harassment.

    • @iamcase1245
      @iamcase1245 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup, just as I thought. You're selling a grift.

    • @leealex24
      @leealex24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How about you reached out but they did not respond? There is no point to give attention to people who dont care. Isnt that being man as well?

    • @nictibbetts
      @nictibbetts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@leealex24 no shit

  • @johncanaparius3233
    @johncanaparius3233 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +345

    Dark Casey is back - when there is no whiteboard you know shit‘s about to get real.

    • @vikingeric3296
      @vikingeric3296 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      For real haha

    • @briandam8126
      @briandam8126 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🤣🤣💯

    • @makaveli1216
      @makaveli1216 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      When he says “any way, shape, or form” you know some shits going down

    • @ChirripoCory
      @ChirripoCory 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Audible lol

    • @ccriztoff
      @ccriztoff 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro took the 😈 for real

  • @StrengthScholar0
    @StrengthScholar0 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    I never had a father. The older I get the more I realize how profound that loss actually was.
    Thank you. I can't even really put into words with this video meant to me, but thank you.

    • @srinavin
      @srinavin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Also on the other hand, no Father is better than a bad father

    • @selmarkalai118
      @selmarkalai118 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same bro same…..

    • @DirtyJamesUK
      @DirtyJamesUK 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here bro, but here's the kicker:
      You don't actually NEED one. Stay focused on being a real man and believe in yourself. And be true to what feels right.
      Definitely don't focus on what you don't have.

    • @StrengthScholar0
      @StrengthScholar0 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DirtyJamesUK
      I partially agree with you. My entire life I was basically unaware of the impact that not having a father had on me. As a matter of fact I never even really thought about it until I was in my 20s. To this day I have no urge to have a father figure whatsoever, I just understand what the ramifications of that roles absence were
      But as I got older and actually became a man I realized how profound the loss of having a male role model to shape your perception of what it means to be a man in this world. Especially when I didn't even have any male role models whatsoever. No coaches, Uncles, nothing.
      I agree with you I shouldn't focus on what I know I don't have. But I need to ascertain what elements of manhood I was never made aware of in order to integrate those into who I am.

    • @DirtyJamesUK
      @DirtyJamesUK 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@StrengthScholar0 you sound so much like me it's crazy. But in many ways I've always been more of a man than most men that I've known. I just didn't listen to myself quite enough to become the best man I could have become. But there's still time...

  • @boomerang379
    @boomerang379 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    You’re exactly right. Here’s another way of looking at it. My ten year relationship to a bossy, pushy overweight single mother just ended because I decided to quit being passive and start being masculine and assertive. Women like her that can’t otherwise get a man want a man that’s a pushover they can browbeat and control. Thank god I finally made the switch. My community and my church would have had me stay with that miserable obese woman until I died from misery. Fellas it isn’t always easy to get out but it’s a relief when you can.

    • @EobardFerguson
      @EobardFerguson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Same here, brother. Crazy how similar actually. Loved seeing this, AND GOOD FOR YOU.

    • @troyvan6952
      @troyvan6952 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Same here man. Welcome to the rest of your (happy) life.

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same, 13 yrs w a obese single mom. I was 25 she was 27. Ended 2.5 yrs agom when i was 37 and she was 40. Their kid grew up age 20 and now they want to make up for lost time bc she got pregnant at age 20 by a guy she said she didnt really like. She used him to try and get over a guy she really liked and wanted but he had a woman already. Hed visit her and sleep with her then go back to his life w his gf. He ended up moving away and her ex wanted to date her. She said he was annoying and she just said yes so he'll stop and to get over that other guy.
      She slept with him raw and hed just pull out. Then was drunk and i guess wasnt fasr enough. She got pregnant he left and she stayed single 8 yrs then met me.
      Reading ur comment help me understand how lucky i got. Was super down and out but thank god i never married her or had babies w her. Now i FINALLY feel lucky. Was hard to feel lucky

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just left my bm bossy assm..she wants a pushover and I'm not it

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@CiluhStyle1 they all want a pushover until they get one . Pushovers are emotionally SAFE. she can control him and his money. Chicks live and date in survival mode. Anything to secure herself and herself only. They don't feel bad about draining you and ur money and disappearing. It your fault u let her right ? 🙄 If u say no, ur controlling, if u say yes ur a doormat. This is the situation u put urself in when u get with chicks who don't really like u

  • @rogermagnus1226
    @rogermagnus1226 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I was about to pass on the gym today. I'm so f*cking motivated now. I will go and I will CRUSH IT.

    • @rogermagnus1226
      @rogermagnus1226 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Update: Crushed it :)

    • @geoeconomics5629
      @geoeconomics5629 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gym should be part of your life
      45 minutes to 1 hour
      Is a must 3 4 times a week

  • @PioLisieux
    @PioLisieux 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Dude's got skills. Should've been a salesman . . . Oh wait

  • @lmwvisionaries6451
    @lmwvisionaries6451 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Casey greetings my man. Today I was in the store on two different occasions and and encountered two women that I simply said hello and asked how the day was going and 15 minutes later as I walked away from the two of them I had their number as well as them validating and confirming if I'm going to call. But this video is confirmation that what you're saying is dead on! In both encounters they spoke 80% of the conversation because of their desire to talk to someone. I am 50 years old and you have a way better understanding of these women than I do and I salute you young man.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Praise Be to God

  • @MetanoiaOfferMastery
    @MetanoiaOfferMastery 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    It’s the women too. I’m okay with talking with attractive women, but a lot of them are boring to talk to.

    • @julianterris
      @julianterris 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If she's "boring" ~maybe you didn't ask an interesting question. Ask her about her.

  • @shawnmendrek3544
    @shawnmendrek3544 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I really do not want to talk to them though. I just get bored shortly after, mentally. I am a serious loner.

  • @eneslekovic6985
    @eneslekovic6985 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    You can't say they are not the issue. I was not passive,i could get women i wanted,i'm jacked, successful. But after being betrayed and disappointed constantly,i just don't want them anymore.

    • @thewouldyouratherguy
      @thewouldyouratherguy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro. Getting a hot girl and keeping her are two different things. Lower your standard for gfs.

  • @r.h.7633
    @r.h.7633 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Yes, men are passive. Your message in general is very true, but.........Men are passive today because everything, including laws, is in favor of women, man can get blasted by a woman even if he looks at her and she could interpret this into awkward stalker situation and literally destroy that mans life. For example at the workout at gym there's a guy who glances at her for 1 second, it would be enough to blast them, that's what guys are scared of and these guys are not even doing anything wrong. Sometimes they're not even looking at their direction making it a social component now where people are terrified to get exposed on social media. The social stigma is so incredibly harsh it leaves no room for self expression for men. In the current social climate most men have been absolutely bullied out of having any sort of preference, standard or boundary. Men constantly get shamed for articulating or even having anything that can be viewed as "controlling" or "insecure". This is the destruction of men's impulse to be protectors in the relationship and protecting relationships from attack essentially. Men are disposable, women are not. Men just don't want that sh1t on their shoulders anymore, enough of games, enough of playing around. Modern women do not follow our lead, they don't follow anyone's lead, they only follow their emotions which goes like a roller-coaster up and down on any given moment.

    • @CaseyZander
      @CaseyZander  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Haha it’s Sunday bro. I tried my best.

    • @Judah677
      @Judah677 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@CaseyZanderI love how the MBT is basically all your videos combined in your channel :)

    • @r.h.7633
      @r.h.7633 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@CaseyZander No it's alright, it's very true. I'm also passive. I can't find a way to get around it coz my last one ended 5 years ago with absolute destruction of my life. I'm glad you made this video,, it's refreshing knocking on my head like a german hammer. Thank you

    • @troyvan6952
      @troyvan6952 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@CaseyZanderLoL

    • @hugevagiine
      @hugevagiine 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly right, MGTOW and prostitution is the way forward, modern women are intolerable!

  • @rjevans2728
    @rjevans2728 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    If “your future wife” didn’t give you ANY choosing signals, then no, you didn’t miss out on anything by not doing cold approach. You’d just be inflating a random woman’s ego and possibly getting some psycho rejection.

    • @EobardFerguson
      @EobardFerguson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hear tiny violins playing sad music in the background when I read comments like these hahaha

    • @paulcosta8297
      @paulcosta8297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​​@@EobardFergusonAll you can do is taunt yet provided ZERO counterargument to this true comment.

    • @EobardFerguson
      @EobardFerguson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@paulcosta8297 Nah. It’s a simp argument. Dudes with that mentality give women all the power. Idgaf if my talking to a chick inflates her ego or not. Rejection of every sort is just part of life- why are you crying about it and blaming other people for your failure? Get over yourself, bro.

    • @paulcosta8297
      @paulcosta8297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@EobardFerguson You ignoramus. Modern women have been overvalidated, lack accountability, and shame and humiliate innocent men. YOU are enabling these behaviors if you kiss the ass of random girls who deserve most likely to be shamed. Start having some self-respect.

    • @balladbuster5109
      @balladbuster5109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      In my opinion, if she didn't give you choosing signals and you somehow get her into a relationship with you, she would always feel like she could still choose better and that she settled for you. Your lack of attraction to her will manifest in her being very passive in the relationship, lack of intimacy, always wanting expensive treatment, etc. Rjevans is right. Not acknowledging a woman's right to participate in choosing her mate by giving choosing signals always results in a very low quality outcome for the man. In fact, negotiating desire by insisting when she's clearly not interested is an indication of a lack of self-worth. Gentlemen, go where you're wanted.

  • @Hammerschool
    @Hammerschool 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Bro just what I needed to hear. I'm in the shape of my life and earning good money but this... shyness and delusion of social awkwardness is definitely something I need to work on.

    • @andrewgiegerich8211
      @andrewgiegerich8211 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fuck it they say no she ain’t the one for you! High interest women only and you can’t get played

  • @tiagoandraderp
    @tiagoandraderp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Dude, these are your best speeches. I think most of us men are really depressed, low test… Besides that, we were not taught how to be active and move things forward regardless of external validation. It lacks that “i want this and i dont give a f” fiercing energy. That doesnt mean to disrepect others, but going for what we want and facing the rejection.

    • @grandfathernurgle2840
      @grandfathernurgle2840 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I don't think rejection is the issue; I could care less about a woman's validation because I know more often than not it's shallow and fleeting. Are men more passive today in areas other than dating? Yes, I'd agree but when it comes to dating it makes sense. I know I'm going to get rejected thats not giving up its being realistic. It's disheartening but its honestly easier to avoid any attempts at an emotional relationship with a woman and just pay for services if you want sex. Focus on building a career, having hobbies, and male friends and your set because more often than not the relationship of growing old with one woman is simply not going to happen.

    • @ABCDyeahyeahyeah
      @ABCDyeahyeahyeah 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is close to how I feel. At least for the moment, I’m not thinking about women or wanting a partner. I just got out of a shitty marriage and am rediscovering myself. Until I sort things out on my own I am not even bothering. Maybe once I feel like things are more settled, it might be worth pursuing something.

  • @lucafrascino3683
    @lucafrascino3683 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude, this is literally one of the best value-aggregating videos I've seen this year. It was suggested to me on TH-cam while I was at the gym, and I clicked.
    I needed this.
    Thank you

  • @user-yf1mv5ji3e
    @user-yf1mv5ji3e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm glad men are passive. I can stand out easily. Less pressure for me.

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I’ve asked 3 girls out In last 3 months!First one my gym
    crush said sorry she has a boyfriend 2nd one met me for a coffee but she was not for me and 3rd one was attractive worked in cafe and at university and said she didn’t have time. All 3 were a lot younger than me so probably explains why the other two said no basically, but leased I tried

    • @keylanoslokj1806
      @keylanoslokj1806 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Never began if you are not a shredded 23 yo Chad

  • @HunkyMan777
    @HunkyMan777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Casey is missing one big issue. There are very few quality women worth my time investment

    • @Involent
      @Involent 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I’m going nuts living in a female desert. Most women in this area weigh more than I do and have deeper voices than mine.

    • @katarinadep
      @katarinadep 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      he knows. I actually think he is depressed himself because of it.

    • @HunkyMan777
      @HunkyMan777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Involent I live in New Zealand where a lot of women have buttons larger than the moon. I feel sick

    • @r.h.7633
      @r.h.7633 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This reply is liquid gold

    • @FANNYclNADYN
      @FANNYclNADYN 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are all flawed men in some way, so do the women, there is no need to be so hush on them, just get back of the “field” and have some fun

  • @commonsense3921
    @commonsense3921 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Trust me, Having a wife is not the goal, Having a companion who brings you further peace is great but Women don’t like prolong peace so you have rinse and replace, Enjoy life and enjoy their company knowing that it’s fleeting, Don’t take life to seriously and honestly don’t cold approach without any choosing signals.

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The bible already said it. Woman was made FOR the man. They are here for our pleasure, to serve us, nothing more

    • @JesseC620
      @JesseC620 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I find that giving multiple women micro slices of my time works the best for me...they know they can't control me, are always hoping I give them a bit more of my time and attention, and this keeps things fresh where they will probably stay in my life and crave me sexually far longer than if I were to try to just focus on one and officially make her my exclusive girlfriend or wife...

    • @meyonmastermind7497
      @meyonmastermind7497 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JesseC620facts! Doing this now.

    • @DiggingDeepVlog
      @DiggingDeepVlog 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can’t get down with marriage in this day and age. I would rather just ride the carousel like women rather than be tied down.

  • @ashtonfrett2536
    @ashtonfrett2536 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Straight Gems in this one sir. Thank you so much for your work

  • @Tyler-wl8kq
    @Tyler-wl8kq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Always be a gentleman when approaching women, but you are correct fear IS the masculine killer

  • @ibrahimcisse2981
    @ibrahimcisse2981 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got a lot of self work to do, your video has reminded me of that. I sincerely thank you man, may we all stop limiting ourselves and embracing the masculine beings that we are.

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I rather risk rejection than not taking a chance and later wonder what could have been if i had taken that chance, it doesn't hurt to try, plain and simple

  • @nodistortions
    @nodistortions 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This will be the video I watch every morning.

  • @adm7038
    @adm7038 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Just a note, it’s not worth it at place of work.

    • @bad.chickie66
      @bad.chickie66 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah cause you have to deal with seeing her with your buddy after she dumps you

  • @batmaninja1
    @batmaninja1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks I needed this reminder almost like perfect timing...keep it up CZ this is the real sauce that men need in their life

  • @percy2185
    @percy2185 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Casey is so good to the point I like the moment I open the video💀 keep this up, man

  • @quentonperry7696
    @quentonperry7696 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real talk this was the talk I needed. A week ago, I deleted my dating profiles, not just the apps. Since I watched this a few days ago, I been asking ONE girl a day for them digits and I'm grateful because it's thanks to this taking to be have me. The one thing he didn't tell about was the absolute THRILL of it. You don't get that hunting thrill being too passive. Thank you boss.

  • @AlbertAguirre
    @AlbertAguirre 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Once again, you are 100% on point
    This is coming from almost 2 decades of dating.
    I'm sharing this with my young adult sons

  • @Remember-Death
    @Remember-Death 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You know it's serious business when Casey ditches the whiteboard.

  • @BrunoPadilhaOficial
    @BrunoPadilhaOficial 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This channel is great. I'm 34, been studying pickup/masculinity since I was 18, even worked for Mystery as a coach in south america.
    This dude is speaking truths that no one else is saying

  • @luckycali13
    @luckycali13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Keep these videos up love the content new to the channel but I listen to other influential people about this type of topic and you are spot on dont stop doing this its what men need to know and hear def will be back and I'm subscribing

  • @educ8te
    @educ8te 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This applies to all aspects of your life as a man.Imagine all the missed possibilities and opportunities you never took.Thanks Casey.

    • @KidCrowder
      @KidCrowder 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad am not the only one who sees it this way too

  • @noana9365
    @noana9365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very valid information. 👏Getting this information out to even more men would be very good and to get them to hear the message in itself. Very good that you are mentioning the time limit. Very good that you are bringing up polarity.

  • @BingBongWasheeWashee
    @BingBongWasheeWashee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of your best vids Casey fr, I felt the fire

  • @quentonperry7696
    @quentonperry7696 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think what i got most out of this is to grab hold of the reasons "why I'm good enough to -"
    Thanks man.

  • @CrayCrayVids
    @CrayCrayVids 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the best damn video you have made, dropping bar after bar, had to bring my notebook out for this one.

  • @aceofbase7239
    @aceofbase7239 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Maybe "most" men were rejected enough

  • @nivlacrussell2389
    @nivlacrussell2389 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hard pill to swallow, but straight Facts!!

  • @thelasthokage4347
    @thelasthokage4347 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really needed to hear this. Thanks brother.

  • @johnolive9477
    @johnolive9477 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have to agree with the previous comments.
    Your last few videos have been gold.
    Keep it up.
    -D

  • @victorsuarez3
    @victorsuarez3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This right here is your best video so far. Cold hard truth straight to the point.

  • @smileyface3107
    @smileyface3107 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The truth. Very happy I've been following this channel for so long.
    My question is, what if you don't really know what you want or have conflicting feelings.

  • @gmotivation8286
    @gmotivation8286 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Today 8th of January 2024
    I made eye contact with a girl 8-9 in a metro(train) but i wasn't sure that if she wants me to initiate verbal contact or it was a just a fluke, she proceeds to give me slight side eye and i kinda knew that she wanted me to say hi but still not 100℅ sure but after some time when i gathered enough courage to talk to her then immediately i started getting thoughts like" What if she slaps me in front of these people, what if she publicaly humiliates me, what if i creep tf out her, why would such a pretty girl would even talk to me anyways " Cut short i just looked her one last time and again had a eye contact and straight up went home without saying a word.......
    After 5mins i felt like crying and knew that i should have given her the opportunity to reject me instead of rejecting myself........

  • @bengasco3605
    @bengasco3605 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Im going to listen to this everyday and put it into action

  • @lukeizydorczak7239
    @lukeizydorczak7239 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was the best video you made by far thank you for that!

  • @treviancalhoun7693
    @treviancalhoun7693 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is facts, exactly why I don’t text. Only talk otp, FaceTime, send voice messages or communicate in person💯

  • @Mohdzn
    @Mohdzn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Recently ive decided to go after what i want, and who i want. Which was to break the fear of rejection. ive been rejected 3 times in the past 3 months and have never felt better
    . Got only 1 number out of them all. However, i told myself i rather do it and get rejected, than not do it and feel the regret.
    *edit* : brothers, if your reading this... believe me you feel empowered and stronger in rejection. if you get a no, u know that u did what u could do
    remember, that just because she said no doesnt make u the reason. sometimes she can be the reason for rejecting u. stay focused brothers.

    • @vincentmartinez8241
      @vincentmartinez8241 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ah the road not taken!

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts...I used to always have women comin to me...I got rejected only 3 times in my life out of 100 women. After a divorce, being a lil rusty I was rejected but it felt great after some hours of tryna process wtf just happened. Gotta get out more. Know you the man.

  • @GrahamLaight
    @GrahamLaight 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    What's the correct adjective for this guy's principles? Some suggestions: (1) Caserian (2) Zanderan (3) Zanderian: I'm voting for option 3: Zanderian.

  • @djjukeboxhero6491
    @djjukeboxhero6491 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He is right its never their fault...they are like fish, they just do things. Its our fault for letting our pimp hands weaken.

  • @alexzil2142
    @alexzil2142 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re the GOAT of this man. No one compares on YT

  • @IronNike929
    @IronNike929 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    i’m not passive, i’m not shy: i just don’t like giving random women the opportunity to shit on me. i’m overtly handsome & have been so my entire life dating back to grammar school ‘03. i’m a huge target to women to try to use for an ego boost. from the days i did cold approach consistently, i learned women’s mo. let women approach you. be patient. letting women choose you results in the best interactions.

    • @user-ui4cu6fy4i
      @user-ui4cu6fy4i 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That is passiveness

    • @nickelbothello6210
      @nickelbothello6210 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ui4cu6fy4iur wrong they use men for attention if they want they have to open their mouths cuz they want the bragging rights to reject men

    • @nickelbothello6210
      @nickelbothello6210 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same with me bro most of them just attention hoes ..It’s a fact the most women u approach based on choosing signals r nothing but for attention

    • @IronNike929
      @IronNike929 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ui4cu6fy4i it’s not. it’s strategic. it’s only passive if i don’t get women. i get more women than average + i receive groupie energy from women in person & online. my approach & outlook is different because i’ve learned what’s best for me over the years of positive interactions i’ve received… you wouldn’t expect drake to be in every woman’s face: only the ones he truly desires. others have to approach him. not passive. strategic. knowing how to play a winning hand.

  • @user-td5ze2pj7u
    @user-td5ze2pj7u 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This information is pure gold

  • @hotmiclegend
    @hotmiclegend 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Isn't it fascinating though when men do decide to step up they are gaslighted and or canceled to oblivion?

  • @hugevagiine
    @hugevagiine 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Women absolutely need to take accountability for their horrendous attitudes now, in the UK 🇬🇧 if you criticise or suggest a better way of doing something you will catch a grape/assault charge. Unless you are mega rich then you will get away with it for a little while

    • @user-ui4cu6fy4i
      @user-ui4cu6fy4i 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women only have power because weak men stand behind them. Weak beta men are always the problem

  • @meffer
    @meffer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you were right at the beginning of the video. This is actually one of the most eye opening speeches i have heard on your channel or really anywhere.
    Just let go.

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    True courage is not the absence of fear.... It is the strength and fortitude to take action in spite of it.

  • @garymalone547
    @garymalone547 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your work brother. GF is already more respectful and playful after I stopped talking so much and introduced some tension.

  • @MrMarlonski
    @MrMarlonski 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Straight Facts Brother 🏆💪🏾

  • @kgries2100
    @kgries2100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your best work yet Casey

  • @edmx2057
    @edmx2057 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I totally endorse this message 1000% 😅

  • @danielmuoto7731
    @danielmuoto7731 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Casey, you're the real GOAT 🐐 .
    I learned a lot from you. Thank you

  • @BradRodriguez-oj7lj
    @BradRodriguez-oj7lj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this. Thanks man

  • @KipperStudios
    @KipperStudios 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this. Thank you.

  • @mmcalifornia8600
    @mmcalifornia8600 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Damn, this hits hard.
    100% accurate!

  • @atlisiv
    @atlisiv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this!

  • @andrewbait3160
    @andrewbait3160 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "one day, or day one." the rock

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Men have to catch up to the changes of modern women. it is because we have not been taught how to adapt to this dysfunctional society because it was never meant for us to have to so now we must take our power back by not tolerating bad behavior from them nor accepting sexual offering and marketing from them. We have to work as man and woman but it's more so for the man to be in charge of themselves and not trying to control women

    • @gnarlytothemax
      @gnarlytothemax 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      is the juice even worth the squeeze anymore?

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gnarlytothemaxif you go no porn and no fap, you will quickly realize that a hole isnt even that good. Our emotions trick us, making average shi special

    • @balleraap007
      @balleraap007 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Passport

  • @blakeshumway
    @blakeshumway 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Huge slap in the face. Needed to hear this, thank you

  • @julianterris
    @julianterris 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is (also) absolutely true. If you don't ask, the answer will always be no. #JustDoIt.

  • @Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq.
    @Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I put this mindset into motion just after listening to the vid while on patrol (I work security). There was this debris in the gutter that I have to swerve around every time I drive around this parking lot's perimeter. For months, I thought, _"Someone should clean that up but, it's not my department."_ This time, I thought, *_"You know what? F-CK IT! I'm going to be the change I want to see in the world!"_* Just tossed it in a dumpster and am feeling good. Now I just have to keep that up and not slide back into passivity.
    Thanks for the video man; you're right.

  • @jorgevalllllllll
    @jorgevalllllllll 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The best motivational video you have done

  • @ROBBIE2787
    @ROBBIE2787 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The pill may be hard to swallow but it’ll help heal the wound! Great video

  • @samthethird_
    @samthethird_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Casey 🙏 your videos keep my head cool

  • @nictibbetts
    @nictibbetts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I really want to agree with Casey on this one but the thing is I’m not just going to give my attention and time away so easily a woman will have to earn it from me. I lose interest fast and disqualify women easily. Most women have done NOTHING to earn my time and attention. Woman have been trained to just expect this shit and not work for it.

    • @SDHome-nc3qy
      @SDHome-nc3qy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A good virtuous feminine woman has been taught to take care of herself and her loved ones, guard herself from harm by taking time to get to know a man with her legs crossed, and trust her father’s discernment and discretion of the men in her life. If you can’t step up to that than you are not a man worthy of a virtuous woman.

  • @carlorizzo827
    @carlorizzo827 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ThankU!👍 Really dig your message. Welll, i'm old, the heart/brain get tired, losing energy. But i am manic, get more done. Also, being old, don't give a damn re being a fool. Made tons o progress in self care. All that's great. My dilemma, my unanswered question: This passivity operates at a subliminal, neurological level, seemingly impervious to positive thinking or affirmations. Therapy helped, but something intractable endures. Sometimes there's success momentum. But there's also self destruct momentum, like a rip tide: best thing is don't fight it, relax, move lateral. Phew. Man i'm glad i'm old

  • @_hencethename
    @_hencethename 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    My thing is that Im not fearful of rejection as much as Im fearful of her saying yeah and then realizing the real me is more nerdy, nice, awkward and expressive. I literally act stoic and strong silent type BS that gets the girl to like me but when Im myself they all immediately want to look elsewhere. Its been the same story for 30 years. I hate putting on this masculine front all the time just to get girls. Its not my normal behavior. I know what it is that women respond to. I also know how to "play it cool" say charismatic things be witty anf funny and charming but its an act. I hate that thats the only thing that keeps good lookong girls around. Sure I can pull 1s 2s and 3s all day and theyll stick around. Hell theyll get attached to any guy very quickly. Im not attracted to them at all. Im actually disgusted for the most part. But I know exactly what the 6s thru 10s want and its all an act for me. Thats my issue. Be the fake me that speaks and channels my inner kobe bryant true G mamba mentality of the game when Im really robin williams or sort of goofball. Thats the part for me that sucks. Im sure many guys can relate. Theres only one way that good looking women respond to and stay around and thats the highly masculine highly assertive, goes after what he wants always charming amd witty knows exactly how to play it cool while seeming interestedly disnterested. That aint me at all. Ive learned to put on that hat but hate eveey minute of it.

    • @Adam-oy7lj
      @Adam-oy7lj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      This is exactly me. I can play their game and play it well but their game is fucking bullshit. What most women want out of men is disgusting, dehumanizing, and offensive. But I like sex with women. So I play their game when I get urges, just for the sex, but always resent myself for playing their game at all. I definitely don't have to try to be disinterested, though, I lost interest in them as anything more than playthings a long time ago due to their behavior and the way they view men.

    • @DJEkilibrium
      @DJEkilibrium 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You will hate to be Entropy, it´s normal. It´s the Natural Human form of being. Despise what can corrupt it.

  • @lacopa222
    @lacopa222 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I been saying hey, making them laugh, getting instagrams and still 😂

  • @ccriztoff
    @ccriztoff 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro took the 😈 emoji for real

  • @tonyanapolis2424
    @tonyanapolis2424 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This one of the realest ones yet

  • @Andy-rk9mu
    @Andy-rk9mu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. This applies to married guys too who love their wives buy are stuck with passiveness too

  • @superiergaming5463
    @superiergaming5463 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These calibrations are very subtle I wonder why. Also please do more eye frame settings

  • @user-ie4pi2eo6x
    @user-ie4pi2eo6x 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He’s 💯 correct play to win y’all

  • @payuderguy8079
    @payuderguy8079 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This actually touched on in the book ''notes from the underground'' the man in the underground overthinks and is jealous of the man of action.

  • @777filippos
    @777filippos 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks man for your videos

  • @Zer-gy8bh
    @Zer-gy8bh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Casy says 😂 most important video in every new videos

  • @robertgonzalez9018
    @robertgonzalez9018 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    120% the most valuable // facts

  • @MySheldon1
    @MySheldon1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video needs more views. The whole world need to hear this shit

  • @starzgalaxy17
    @starzgalaxy17 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My mother always tells me that my dad was the baddest dude out there he wasn't shy at all, if he wanted something he went for it, I'm the opposite but after this vid I'm conditioning myself to go out there and get what I want.

  • @jclutch5618
    @jclutch5618 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks man for your knowledge
    I already got a girl phone number and started to put myself out there by just going to the mall
    This video was like a wake up call for me to be a better man today

  • @JohnQPublic345
    @JohnQPublic345 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm a 58 year old man, listening to this. If that doesn't tell you that these issues with women never ends........

  • @duanemcclure8324
    @duanemcclure8324 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How ya doing, mah brutha from anutha mutha. I recently subbed after stumbling across your channel. I like the way you think. I agree. I do have a question or two though. The first thing that got my attention was the 'stat' you gave stating that the average guy passed over his potential wife 50 times in the last year. Where did that figure come from and how did they figure that out? I'm curious as to how "they" would even do that survey - IF that's what it was. I assume so. As you see, communication is NOT a problem be verbally or text. The fear most men have, I think, is the possible legalities involved. That kinda started about 25 years back when they started cracking down on us construction workers hangin' off the sides of buildings giving "cat calls" down to the skirts walking by at lunch everyday. They passed a law making it a punishable offense. What I'm not sure of is...was it an early form of "me too" slowly coming to fruition? Who else could lobby for those laws? So, I'm not sure I agree with the whole title. I still think that feminism/modern women ARE a large part of this. I'm a gen X'er and meeting women face to face is the only way I've ever known to meet them. I don't care for new technology. I'm old school and men have been doing it that way since the dawn of time...until they invented laws. 😁 I have NO problem approaching women and I'm actually a vocalist with broadcast experience so I'm used to "drawing attention" by nature and my voice is deep. Women actually like that most because they compliment it. I recently escaped from a 2 year long ordeal with a "malignant narc" back in July of 23. Ever since, I've had problems approaching women with attitudes or they look at me like I'm Ted Bundy. My friend called it "stranger danger" - a 'new phenomenon' that recently appeared. Whatever it is, it wasn't there before. I dunno. Any ideas? I dig the channel. You have some good tips here. I'm 56 and I'm ALWAYS learning cuz it's always changing...especially with the advent of the internet. THAT'S what did it! It's all about "me" now.. Everyone wants to be "famous" but ends up infamous instead..

  • @SiangTalk
    @SiangTalk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You remind me of me few years back. I just talk to girls I have no trouble getting a gf. Now I seems to make excuses not to approach because I want to hold on to my energy, probably need to change my mindset!

  • @ViperStrikesAgain0160
    @ViperStrikesAgain0160 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This only applies if you're just an average guy Joe Schmoe and below average.
    Handsome men dont need to pursue and chase modern women because they're already attracted to him.

  • @theeyesofjah
    @theeyesofjah 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    spot on and 100 percent

  • @MannyFresh33
    @MannyFresh33 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks big bro💪🏾

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on Casey 👍👍

  • @pravitt4852
    @pravitt4852 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is gold.

  • @billmiddleton1235
    @billmiddleton1235 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a reasonably assertive man, caution is at times warranted. There is truth in this message and maybe for some this is your most important message. In pretend world she doesn't have to see us.. but yeah, this hits the mark in our day to day decisions

    • @billmiddleton1235
      @billmiddleton1235 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      BTW, I totally got the one I want and I have you to thank for it. You've educated me in ways I can't explain. You'll never know who I am but I'll never forget you

  • @Mcchubsterwubster
    @Mcchubsterwubster 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate you Casey. I didn’t have a dad or grandpa or any male figures to guide me so your videos are extremely helpful. Most of the stuff you talk about is instinctive for me so your videos help reinforce these things and let me know I’m not crazy.