A Gay Who's Never Been In Love (what can we learn?)
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Have you ever seen that movie "Never Been Kissed" with Drew Barrymore? Well, today is kind of the adult gay man version of that story...only with love.
I'm sure many people out there can relate to Tyler Boyle's story of being a 30' something gay man who still has yet to fall in love. After being a late bloomer Tyler found himself navigating a very different dating world compared to his heteronormative past life. Along his journey, he figured out 4 key things to help him navigate this new gay world and to hopefully, one day, find love.
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Have you ever been in love??
Type “Yes” or “No” in the comments 🔽
I am 33 years old, never been in love or had a relationship. This topic is extremely crucial & a huge concern for gay men.
I've only ever been truly in love once... but it was unrequited love 😥 too jarred to ever fall in love again..
Awe :( sending a big hug your way Ricardo. Whenever love finds you, you’re going to realize “AHHH ok! THIS is what people were talking about” and it will all click. Keep that heart open, the world will be a better place for it ❤️
I like this a lot. I'm a clinical psychologist, and in my therapy with clients I use something called Narrative Therapy (the person is the person, the problem is the problem) and, much like Liz Gilbert talks about, I "externalise" problems, by defining them and giving them an image or a character, so we can look at their effects on different domains of life (work, relationships, home...) and then claim a position (we we as a person for or against this, and why) - this gives us a springboard to look at what we value, hold in high regard - and these values direct us, right or left,
about how to go forward.
Oh awesome! Thanks so much for the comment Dane and glad you enjoyed listening :)
Beyond unrequited crushes towards straight male friends, I've never been in love. Like it was mentioned in the episode, gay dating is more intentional where as straight dating is more organic, and I kinda dislike that about gay dating. As a result, I don't pursuit it. I've been learning to focus more on having a better relationship with myself, and learning what I like and what I actually want out of life. I feel more content focusing on myself, and I don't have some urge to find the so called one. However, that doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone if I met a guy I liked one day.
I never found someone to connect emotionally. It's like no guy would like to discuss something meaningful (usually, they get protective of project insecurities) or be open for something more than casual sex either. Guess, my social anxiety gets in my way when trying to approach guys I would like to know, too.
I've dated but honestly never been able to ake anything last longer than 6 months. I thought I was weird or broken. This helped.
Glad it helped!
Hey Derek, I'm so glad this episode helped you! You're not alone and you're not the only one
This was my FAVOURITE episode yet!
YAY! I’m so happy to hear that JerBear!! ❤️🙏
I am 52 and I felt aspects of love but never been in love. Been out since my mid 20s. Dating is really hard.
Thanks for sharing your experience. Dating can indeed be challenging. Wishing you the best on your journey to finding love. 🌈
Tyler needs to come to Australia. I’ll give him all the loving he needs 😅❤️
Thank you for the love and support! We'll be sure to pass on your message to Tyler. Australia sounds like an amazing place, and your kind offer is much appreciated.
He, has a whole lot of new stuff to learn. Yep im 55yo,About emotions, his feelings, as well as theirs. Not too mention, that vast array of beauty and masculine poise, in makeing love, to a fellow man, his own. Then ultermately that long walk down the aisle, as they both prepare to marry, saying those too little words, i do.
✝️ ❤ ✝️
Never Been Kissed is one of my favorite movies! I've only felt "that thing" a handful of times but since I'm still single, obviously none of those relationships worked out. Thank you to you and Tyler for sharing these tips and I do hope Tyler and other folks listening find love.
Lol I loved the tough love attitude: be a big boy, roll your sleeves up and do what you have to do. I have (really) been in love twice, I am in love right now and fortunately it is recoprocate. However a lot of these pieces of advice can definitely be applied to my current situation, and to many I guess, because I still sometimes can be childish, I have my BIG demon, or get lost in non-realistic fantasies; so I really appreciate this. Good vibes, G. x
This was SO good ! Insightful funny and true to the core. ✌❤🌈
We're glad you liked it!
Awe thanks so much! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!!
Great episode 🥺♥️
Soooo Gooooood!! Thank you!
Yes, loved many times, my feeling is I am beginning to perfect it, though I encourage life to challenge me further.
💔U don't know how lucky U R. I had to fire myself from dating
Hey! That sixology is brilliant! Useful
Thanks guys
That first kiss, a passionate 💋 with someone. ✝️
Tyler needs to come to Australia. I’ll give him all the loving he needs 😅❤️