Right on the money about being a dominant femme. We don't wanna, but we kinda have to. However I kinda love it. Its given me so much more confidence in myself and knowing facts vs speculation regardless of rejection or acceptance is just *chefs kiss* 51:16
On boiling dildos, if the dildo is made from borosilicate glass, metal, or body safe platinum cure silicone, it shouldn't get damaged by the boiling process. DISCLAIMER: for clear silicone dildos, the silicone may get cloudy when boiled. On dildo cleaning, for any insertable toys its recommended that the material is completely non-porous (e.g. borosilicate glass, metal, or body safe platinum cure silicone). For anything that cant be washed away, these materials can typically be boiled or even baked but defer to manufacturer guidelines on taking care of your insertable toys :) btw, I love the pod :) Thanks for your service ✨
I guess people see me as “masc-presenting” because i mainly wear loose clothing but its actually because im autistic😅 - but then its peak cos I’m attracted to other masc-women and i know too many in our community are against masc4masc.
34:20 I was talking to a friend about something similar recently. I identify as queer so in theory I am open to dating a man but I told my friend that any man I date has to be queer (or trans). I feel like when men are queer or allies (like your friend) they give off a certain level of emotional awareness, intelligence and openness that is not usually found in straight men. I still can't verbalize it properly but it's like they have a deeper awareness of themselves & the world around them than straight men typically do. So it's almost possible that you can feel as safe with them and around them as you do with women. (plz note I said **ALMOST**. not quite, but almost)
ohhhh my god i literally say this all the time. my ex bf of 5 years was a queer man and going back out into the dating world i feel like i cannot fathom being with a straight man. like you said the emotional intelligence, the level of security, it’s just lacking with a lot of straight men and it’s really just the way society brings up men which is so unfortunate for them and more unfortunate for their future partners. i feel like confidence and a strong sense of self is very attractive to me in any gender, and i see that a lot in queer men. i 100% understand u lol
No home kit in America sadly. And most insurance companies limit the number of tests you can get per year. I guess people can go to a separate clinic, but anyway America makes it a headache. I wish I'd seen this before you all.came. I missed you! Also the good Caribbean good is in Flatbush and Crown Heights not Harlem. Good Colombian at Bogota on 5th. The best Latino food is in Queens.
If you go to Harlem go to Jacobs soul food or Amy Ruth's. BK wise you should be able to find great food. Flatbush you will find all the Caribbeans, Haitians. Manhattan will be overpriced
This girl in last dilemma needs to TAKE CARE OF HERSELF. She has an overblown sense of responsibility and she and this guy are clearly trauma bonded. This man is dealing with serious mental care and needs to take care of himself.
Love this podcast! You guys always make my week. I might have to leave a dilemma soon🫠
Right on the money about being a dominant femme. We don't wanna, but we kinda have to. However I kinda love it. Its given me so much more confidence in myself and knowing facts vs speculation regardless of rejection or acceptance is just *chefs kiss* 51:16
I love being a Domme fem
On boiling dildos, if the dildo is made from borosilicate glass, metal, or body safe platinum cure silicone, it shouldn't get damaged by the boiling process. DISCLAIMER: for clear silicone dildos, the silicone may get cloudy when boiled.
On dildo cleaning, for any insertable toys its recommended that the material is completely non-porous (e.g. borosilicate glass, metal, or body safe platinum cure silicone). For anything that cant be washed away, these materials can typically be boiled or even baked but defer to manufacturer guidelines on taking care of your insertable toys :)
btw, I love the pod :) Thanks for your service
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Love this podcast mannn
I guess people see me as “masc-presenting” because i mainly wear loose clothing but its actually because im autistic😅 - but then its peak cos I’m attracted to other masc-women and i know too many in our community are against masc4masc.
I remember a woman telling me to stop getting tested so often because I sleep with women. 😢
34:20 I was talking to a friend about something similar recently. I identify as queer so in theory I am open to dating a man but I told my friend that any man I date has to be queer (or trans). I feel like when men are queer or allies (like your friend) they give off a certain level of emotional awareness, intelligence and openness that is not usually found in straight men. I still can't verbalize it properly but it's like they have a deeper awareness of themselves & the world around them than straight men typically do. So it's almost possible that you can feel as safe with them and around them as you do with women. (plz note I said **ALMOST**. not quite, but almost)
ohhhh my god i literally say this all the time. my ex bf of 5 years was a queer man and going back out into the dating world i feel like i cannot fathom being with a straight man. like you said the emotional intelligence, the level of security, it’s just lacking with a lot of straight men and it’s really just the way society brings up men which is so unfortunate for them and more unfortunate for their future partners. i feel like confidence and a strong sense of self is very attractive to me in any gender, and i see that a lot in queer men. i 100% understand u lol
No S4S shit but Nana is giving big daddy energy for this episode lol swag on 1000
No home kit in America sadly. And most insurance companies limit the number of tests you can get per year. I guess people can go to a separate clinic, but anyway America makes it a headache.
I wish I'd seen this before you all.came. I missed you! Also the good Caribbean good is in Flatbush and Crown Heights not Harlem. Good Colombian at Bogota on 5th. The best Latino food is in Queens.
General eyewear in Camden. Vintage and unique
If you go to Harlem go to Jacobs soul food or Amy Ruth's. BK wise you should be able to find great food. Flatbush you will find all the Caribbeans, Haitians. Manhattan will be overpriced
This girl in last dilemma needs to TAKE CARE OF HERSELF. She has an overblown sense of responsibility and she and this guy are clearly trauma bonded. This man is dealing with serious mental care and needs to take care of himself.
Restaurant in Brooklyn, Pies and Thighs. Southern cuisine.
Roselyn?? 😭
Y’all need some Haitian food please!