Su*cide Journey-Britton

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  • @TheMoFauxs
    @TheMoFauxs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +618

    I’m a Police Officer and I, too, have dealt with the same ideations for most of my life. The biggest wake up call for me that completely dissolved my desire to end myself was being on scene of a self inflicted GSW to the head. The man was found dead by his brother in the bathroom. The man had shot himself with the same gun his brother had loaned him the week prior. It was gruesome. Skull fragments. Teeth. Brains. It’s an awful thing to see.
    I then stood outside of the closed bathroom for two hours, making sure no unauthorized personnel entered the bathroom. I stood there and watched about two dozen family members slowly arrive on scene one by one. I saw each person deal with the death at that moment in their own way. It was heartbreaking. When we rolled the body out in the body bag and with the American flag draped over his body (he was a veteran), his mother asked permission to hug him. We granted it and she wailed on her son’s body. I suddenly saw my own mother in her place. I then imagined my wife and kids in the house and imagined myself in the bag.
    I decided right then I would never do that to my family. I hope this guy gets the clarity he needs to keep going.

    • @rebeccauurtamo857
      @rebeccauurtamo857 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Good story 😊

    • @BeeKay4444
      @BeeKay4444 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Bless you for thinking outside of your own internal monologue, which is very difficult.
      The devastation suicide leaves us with with is a never ending cycle of pain that comes in waves out of nowhere. Suicide leaves us, the family with so many unanswered questions that will never be answered. Thank you for your service and your daily sacrifice for the public and our safety. YOU are NEEDED here more than many, please never forget that.

    • @shawnmendrek3544
      @shawnmendrek3544 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      GSW=Gun shot wound

    • @Drivinghealth365
      @Drivinghealth365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Perfectly said.

    • @shawnmendrek3544
      @shawnmendrek3544 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Good man. Never desert your family. Not all got this experience, clearly.

  • @BellaWoodsFarm
    @BellaWoodsFarm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +850

    I can’t quite get past his contradictory nature. He’s basically resigned himself to being a lost cause, but still wants other people to get help and find hope. He wears his ideation like a badge of honor. My husband took his own life and left two boys without a father and me to pick up the pieces. Wanna talk about angry? The devastation left behind is now a daily effort to keep my oldest son alive and not relive the fate of his father. My youngest son is crippled with guilt and shame thinking he could have and should have saved him. He was 16. The damage spreads far and wide. Your pain will be over, but the rest of us are left to suffer.

    • @almabelhumeur6672
      @almabelhumeur6672 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Yes, you are right. I had an uncle who shot his wife and then himself and the trauma that everyone goes through is never forgotten. Family members blame one another and live with the pain of blame.

    • @briannareeves2095
      @briannareeves2095 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I was thinking something similar!!!

    • @christinaortiz0531
      @christinaortiz0531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My thoughts as well

    • @jaywysard
      @jaywysard 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Yeah...he's obviously very, very conflicted about his life and worth and is completely confused. One the one hand, he has a date, place and method planned out and isn't sharing that info with anyone. That's pretty definitive. Then he says, "Oh...I've gone from being at 90% to 40% I wanna die." So it seems like now, today, he has hope. My feeling is that he's tired not so much of living--he seems to have found purpose when he feels likes he's living--but of failing. His failures have, in his mind, been astounding, traumatic, varied, and chronic. So if he goes through psychedelic treatment and things don't work and he can't get any satisfactory traction in his podcast, then my guess is that he'll just quit. Let's hope not.

    • @gwennk4962
      @gwennk4962 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      This is the comment I wanted to see. I'm so sorry . 🙏 I hope your boys can get help with their emotions. And you too. Sending you all the love and hugs and I wish you so much happiness to come. And someday it will come as hard as it is to believe that. I promise you. 💝👋

  • @amandalau6603
    @amandalau6603 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I am a fight nurse and work for the Life Flight company that your Aunt was on!!! We have grown and have three bases now. It’s an amazing program because of people like your aunt who paved the way. I’m so sorry no one was there for you to help you process all of these traumas.

  • @NicholasBrehany
    @NicholasBrehany 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    I met Britton several years ago. Britton, I don’t know if you remember me. I made coffee at church. I distinctly remember your kindness towards me man. You’re a good man, you are loved, and your presence has made an impact on many people, I am completely certain of this. And the Lord loves you too.

    • @976luck
      @976luck 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Wow that is something, very powerful truth, and such a simple gesture makes such an everlasting impact, God bless you both good to know he was in church I believe we should keep him in prayer because LIFE IS BRIEF, DEATH IS CERTIN, JUDGMENT IS REAL!

    • @heidikinsey2290
      @heidikinsey2290 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Anyone know if he lived in San Diego? Or how to contact him?

    • @Annie-cf4tj
      @Annie-cf4tj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Britton I don't know you, but I love you. Please stay here.❤

    • @TheSuicideMonk07
      @TheSuicideMonk07 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nick, thanks man, I do remember you. Its been a long time. Denny was the 2nd person I told as he has been my friend, mentor and pastor for 30+ yrs now. He was more than loving and gracious committing to walk beside me regardless even though he disagreed. To say the least and after several derailed attempts, I now live. I went to an intense therapy ranch in western Co. and found a new life. honestly its beyond a miracle.

  • @carendembowski6860
    @carendembowski6860 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

    I lost my daughter Victoria on July 4th 2008 from a combination of sleep medication. I begged her not to move out because of her restless leg situation. She was only 3mo.s out of our house.
    My daughter Ashley never got over it. Ashley took her life August 30th 2016. The day she was planning to take her life, she told me I know what I'm going to do. I never thought she would do this. Now my husband and I can only visit their grave. No children left and our hearts are broken. We can't be our most people when they talk about their children or grandchildren. Life is very hard without them. We had a wonderful life, but I do know Ashley never meant to hurt us. My poor baby was suffering. Maybe this is a good thing for people to talk about and be more open about this.

    • @Allegra11
      @Allegra11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I'm so sorry 🧡

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🕊️🕊️

    • @SweetDreamz0223
      @SweetDreamz0223 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ❤️ 🕊 🫂 ❤!!!

    • @tinysampson8832
      @tinysampson8832 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @robynconcannon7134
      @robynconcannon7134 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Hi Brit,
      Thankyou for your interview.
      I feel you have been deeply affected by your Mothers suicide attempt, when you were a child.
      I feel like it shattered everything in you and went against every moment of your life.
      Because when someone that close to you as a parent, lover, best friend... chooses to do this it is shattering, and I can't imagine what that would do to a child. Also, I'm very sorry how your Mum treated you; she obviously had alot of pain in herself and inflicted it on others.
      Sewerside is a terrible thing, for the victim, and for the victims of the victim - those left behind...now struggling with a shattered will to live, and possibly guilt, regret, blame, anger, sadness...a whole myriad of strong emotions
      Sewerside goes against ever waking moment of our days in which we sustain our own lives constantly from dawn to dusk.
      When someone close to us does this, or seriously attempts it - it puts sewerside in our own consciousness as a possibility, a choice, a reality...whereas before we never thought about it, as it was a no-go zone for our brain.
      You said you have found truth and beauty in your journey, in your people who also feel this way, battling sewersidal thoughts in your and their consciousness.
      You also said how strong you are.
      Life is a gift.
      I feel you can choose to be a gatekeeper, choosing to hold back people not as strong as you, from entering the field containing the vortex of sewerside, which sucks grieving, tormented souls into hopeless, endless darkness...
      I truelly hope you use your strength and kindness to be a gatekeeper.
      Because, if you sewerside, others will follow you.
      But if you decide not too, you can help others stay here, in light and life and healing and healthy expression. And that is a great and noble purpose in life.
      I hope you fight the darkness within you and conquer it.
      My pets have kept me alive at times in my life when I think my family would be better off without me.
      For those who love you and need you! Your people.
      Please keep living, loving, and shining as you do.
      Fight for your life.
      Your people need people like you.
      Please don't give up.
      🌈 🙏 🤲 ❤️ ; ❤ 🫂

  • @bevanstacykearse9099
    @bevanstacykearse9099 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +367

    any talk of suicide should be listened to and taken very seriously .....from experience

    • @catherinepraus8635
      @catherinepraus8635 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      People think you’re sad it’s not sad it’s torture

    • @lmzaadi
      @lmzaadi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Yeah I don’t like how right off the bat it was said that someone talking about committing suicide isn’t going to do it.. it seems sour and more importantly, *unethical*

    • @Arkie-Sparkle
      @Arkie-Sparkle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      My father threatened to do it many times, and he did.
      However, my grandmother was doing the washing with my mother, said nothing, walked inside - gone!
      Unimaginable heartache!

    • @LoloO42
      @LoloO42 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not always. Sometimes, people use the threats to emotionally blackmail others.

    • @liber7773
      @liber7773 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@lmzaadiseems like a ploy for attention

  • @cbight4859
    @cbight4859 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    Respectfully Mark, your statement is not always true. My mom told us several times over a 3 month period that she was going to kill herself. She was put on a 72 hour/5150 hold but let go after 24 hours with the doctors telling me she was "just sad". A month later, she did exactly what she said she would, and ten years later, it's still a gut punch.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      His statement isn't true, periodt.

    • @5cry7he5ky
      @5cry7he5ky 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@thematriarchy2075i think it’s more of an over generalization based on the majority of his experiences.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@5cry7he5ky Yes, i understood, but my point is, that this is not true, it is the opposite and having so many viewers, it would be better to not say this

    • @andreasleonhard1512
      @andreasleonhard1512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I've not seen this video all the way through, but my mom has said she was going to commit s*icide for 25 years. The first time I heard it, I was 17 and she said she was going to kill herself while I was in school. I always believed her. Back in 2020 after my father died, I had to convince her on a daily basis to not kill herself for like 3 months. My mom has always been extremely manipulative, and in recent years I've come the conclusion that she uses it to get sympathy. It's really fucked up, because you can't ever truly know, so if she threatens with it, we have to treat it seriously. But I feel with almost a 100% certainty that it is an act.

    • @RebeccaLizEve
      @RebeccaLizEve 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He made that statement from his experience, not yours

  • @chgo60610
    @chgo60610 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Don't assume he won't kill himself because he talks about it. I made that mistake once.

    • @homeopathicfossil-fuels4789
      @homeopathicfossil-fuels4789 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      me too, I will never feel the support of my brother again because of that godawful misconception. It sucks, I loathe modern western society and its views on suicide and death, its so toxic.

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mark made a most erroneous and irresponsible assumption.

  • @shannonography
    @shannonography 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Please don't ever challenge someone who is having suicidal ideations as talking about it because they aren't going to do it. The last time I heard someone say that to someone, the person killed themself that night to prove them wrong. Whether they are expressing their feelings due to needing to feel like they were heard or matter, take it seriously.

    • @kyla6538
      @kyla6538 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      This!!! It really upset me when he did that. It doesn't matter how many people don't actually follow through after talking about it because there will always be that 1 in a hundred that follows through.

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep.

    • @Mocahontas_317
      @Mocahontas_317 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes. Mark came off very condescending here and it really pissed me off. I know someone who talked about it for years before he actually went through with it. People stopped taking him seriously too until the day he was in the car on FB live driving at a high speed, talking about his life while crying and saying goodbye. He ended the live and then wrecked his car. Never assume what somebody won’t do just because they haven’t done it yet.

  • @julieannewalters4600
    @julieannewalters4600 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +194

    I lost my beautiful son Brandon at age 19 5 years ago and the pain and grief is still so raw

    • @InkaPley
      @InkaPley 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I am very sorry for your loss,JulieAnne. ❤

    • @julieannewalters4600
      @julieannewalters4600 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@InkaPley thank you so much , love him and talk to him every day

    • @lauriebrown9714
      @lauriebrown9714 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I’m very sorry. I can’t imagine.

    • @catherinepraus8635
      @catherinepraus8635 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      That’s something you never get over you just try to learn how to live with it I also lost my beautiful son suicid is not selfish you truly think you just you’d be better off dead so you stop hurting the people you love I’m so sorry for your loss love and light

    • @claudinedemantet
      @claudinedemantet 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So sorry, how awful and you never get closure for these things, I don't believe in closure, the pain just gets slightly easier to bear over time. 😢

  • @leneo1731
    @leneo1731 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    My beautiful friend Aicha ended her life last Friday.
    She was only 27.
    It's absolutely horrible.
    Her mother is totally lost.
    The pain is unbearable.
    And yet I totally understand her decision.

    • @monicascott2354
      @monicascott2354 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I'm sorry you're hurting. I had a friend do the same thing as a kid. I didn't agree, but I understood why. Hugs from Colorado.

    • @laurentaylor6391
      @laurentaylor6391 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did she have a diagnosis of any kind?

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laurentaylor6391 Aicha was diagnosed with Anorexia at 14-15. Maybe also Bulimia.
      However she against all odds overcame the eating disorder.
      She did struggle with anxiety, depression and she had a very hard time with relationships.
      Knowing mental health issues very well due to my own struggles, diagnoses and years of experience with the so called system which is supposed to help people, I'm pretty sure she'd been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder if going to a professional.
      After talking to her mother, she believes it happened as a result of her boyfriend ending their relationship.
      That's not enough of a reason in my mind the way I know there was so many layers underneath.
      Her mother believes she was out of her mind drunk or something and just did it on impulse.
      I believe otherwise.
      However, I don't say that to her because I believe that's what she need to believe to be able to go on with her own life.
      I can't even imagine the magnitude of losing a daughter that way and even be the one finding her.
      I seriously don't believe I'd be able to keep living after that.
      But she's very different made than me.
      She had her daughter's studio cleaned out and her dog gone within 4 weeks.
      I'd probably needed years to clean out the studio.
      And the dog was Aicha's absolute Love in this world.
      I don't think I ever could've given the dog up. I feel like she was the last connection to Aicha.
      I actually asked her mother to try and have the dog but since everything happened so fast, she'd already given her away.
      Still this really hurts me so much because I love that dog like she was my own.
      I spent a lot of time with that lovely dog and she was a friend of my late dog and my new dog.
      I'm sorry about this rant!
      You asked me a simple question but I had to write a novel.
      Sorry again.
      Why did you wonder if she had any diagnosis?

  • @davidwarnica7771
    @davidwarnica7771 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    I first thought of suicide at 7. It's an everyday struggle for me. I'm almost 54 now living with severe unmedicated depression. I'm still managing to work, and eat. I eat healthy, take vitamins, and try to exercise to help with my symptoms, but thoughts of suicide are constant demons I live with. It's why I don't own a gun, and likely never will.

    • @MyNordstromwishlist
      @MyNordstromwishlist 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Don’t be afraid of medication. Love from your earth sister.

    • @clayutterback858
      @clayutterback858 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Consider medication.

    • @moo9141
      @moo9141 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Totally relate. And I’m with you on the non medication route. Sometimes that just makes everything worse.

    • @sheilat2014
      @sheilat2014 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I finally got myself medication and I was on it for about 6 years. During that time after I found the right medication I was able to think more clearly and feel emotions appropriately and heal so much better with my brain working correctly. That’s what I call it lol after those 6 years I decided to come off and see how I would be. It’s been 4 years and I’m doing well. I was able to get to a place of being content. I feel happy part of the time. But I don’t believe we are supposed to feel happy all the time. For me getting to a place of being able to be content and feeling my emotions appropriately helped so much. I don’t know if you are against meds or possibly in a place of them being hard to get because of insurance or financial reasons. But I would say maybe give it a chance if you can. You deserve to not have to live in that depression all the time. I always just tell people pay attention to how you are feeling when taking them. The one I started with made me angry all the time and made me feel worse. But I gave another one a chance and it changed my life. I wish you all the best and wish peace for you. You deserve to feel better.

    • @Drivinghealth365
      @Drivinghealth365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @sheilat2014 well said.

  • @vintagespeed
    @vintagespeed 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    i listened to this interview on my 300 mile drive today. now that i'm home i can leave a comment. i've been in your shoes. my BIL killed himself a few months ago. my son is su*cidal. i just came on here to say, we love you. stay with us. you can not reason nor imagine the amount of destruction you will cause to your family, your children, their children, their friends... it is way beyond what you think you've considered. stay and fight. i hope you do.

    • @kristinb3269
      @kristinb3269 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I hope your son will be ok. As you unfortunately know, suicide has a terrible ripple effect on the people left behind, a ripple that never stops and goes farther than one might think.

  • @tristana-cest-moi
    @tristana-cest-moi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Whenever I tell my family about my bad feelings and thoughts, they yell at me till making me cry. I get no consolation, no support. What I have learned in all these years is that I have to hide my depressive thoughts and wear a mask to protect myself. I've stopped talking with my relatives because I can't fake it anymore. I just feel like the person I was years ago is dead. I don't know who I am now, I'm just so empty

  • @mddell58
    @mddell58 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +249

    I'm 60ish, female.
    I've come to the conclusion that most, not all, people who take their own life (unless they're very jacked up on
    drugs/alcohol, at the very end of the day are 100% exhausted.
    Mentally/physically completely 'drained.'
    Nothing left in their emergency tank.
    I only have ONE sibling. One very sweet brother.
    A few years ago,
    he used a gun.
    My heart ❤ still breaks for him.
    He was always very strong, in every way.
    But, he had a very tender heart.
    He told me once, that he would never live longer than our mother (died @ 47 from a brain tumor in the 80s) he felt he didn't deserve to live longer than her.
    Many years later, one day before his 47th birthday he did just that. I truly believed that one time statement was just a one time emotional thing. Well, .... No,
    it wasn't.
    Always HUG the people you love & care about. Always.

    • @Rising_Pho3nix_23
      @Rising_Pho3nix_23 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You're right that not all of us are on drugs or alcohol.

    • @datFUNKYb
      @datFUNKYb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Been there for awhile

    • @--_-_-_-74..
      @--_-_-_-74.. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sending healing light and love to you ❤

    • @InkaPley
      @InkaPley 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hugs. I am sorry to hear.

    • @user-randi1987
      @user-randi1987 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I belive you are right. My son ended his life in September 2020 after several years of very difficult experiences. I think he was just.....tired.
      I am so very sorry for your loss of your brother

  • @TruthfromRicky
    @TruthfromRicky 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +267

    It’s 6 seconds into the video and you guys are all trying to hang mark for his laugh. It’s a natural reaction. I’ve seen people laugh out of disbelief and surrealism during tragic situations as a ICU social worker. It’s the human way of deflection and the incapability to process that chaotic moment.

    • @Mia-qt4th
      @Mia-qt4th 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Exactly, thank you.

    • @skylady64ish93
      @skylady64ish93 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Plus, we have no idea what was being discussed before the tape started rolling.

    • @southernladyish
      @southernladyish 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Absolutely!! I am the same when it comes to laughing during uncomfortable moments.. that some people may think are inappropriate. It’s a natural reaction. There’s a difference in a genuine laugh and a “woooww this is uncomfortable” kind of laugh.

    • @ArtNunez
      @ArtNunez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly. I do it and I understand it comes across as insensitive but it's just a reaction. I usually feel the need to apologize for it.

    • @maryloutibbs654
      @maryloutibbs654 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @marissaa4196
    @marissaa4196 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Coming from someone who’s watched this channel for some time now.. this interview really stuck out to me. I don’t know that I’ve heard another person articulate exactly what I’ve lived for many years. Man it’s tough

    • @zodglubby
      @zodglubby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same

    • @infinitejest.4994
      @infinitejest.4994 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I understand exactly what he’s saying.

    • @moo9141
      @moo9141 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s scary to think others go through this too.

    • @trainattendant5810
      @trainattendant5810 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly.

  • @wolfmayner6274
    @wolfmayner6274 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Having an absent father and a mentally ill mother is a perfect setup for a lifetime of anger issues and mental health problems. I'm not even half this dude's age and I feel like I'm in the exact same boat. It's eye-opening realizing that this is how a lot of people who come from situations like this end up.

  • @jilllinder9975
    @jilllinder9975 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I did 30 years of therapy, told my “story “ many times, read the books, took the courses , medication, workshops, inpatient, outpatient etc, still depressed, heard about somatic therapy which deals with the trauma stuck in the body, 3 years later I’m a completely different happy person.

    • @Drivinghealth365
      @Drivinghealth365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Have never heard of this. I am happy to hear you have healed. That gives so much hope to so many.

    • @jilllinder9975
      @jilllinder9975 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Drivinghealth365 thank you kindly 🙏 it’s worth checking out.

    • @JeffMTX
      @JeffMTX 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow

    • @TeeGreen222
      @TeeGreen222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely. The body stores trauma.

    • @tybowesformerlygoat-x7760
      @tybowesformerlygoat-x7760 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There's a great book called "The Body Keeps The Score".

  • @cardura99
    @cardura99 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Thank you for telling your story. You are not alone. The exhaustion from the constant torment is very real.

  • @countdankula420_
    @countdankula420_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +307

    Life starts at 53 sometimes

    • @Amar1338
      @Amar1338 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ABSOLUTELY!!!!

    • @boardgamesonthemoon
      @boardgamesonthemoon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      …sometimes even 54

    • @anthonypowell7959
      @anthonypowell7959 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I laughed when reading this comment. I’m just 53 and going through a hard time. Would like to believe this

    • @countdankula420_
      @countdankula420_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@anthonypowell7959 Didn’t say life was easy… just said sometimes it starts at 53. Lol

    • @Amar1338
      @Amar1338 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@boardgamesonthemoon WORD!

  • @Bob86339
    @Bob86339 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    I can't stop him, but I wish he decides to live for the people who love him.

    • @southphillylilly
      @southphillylilly 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That will never work. He will never stay alive for the people that love him, there's an obsession with the self when somebody is enamored with suicide. Virginia Wolf said it, I'm only staying alive to satisfy you" . She spoke those words to her husband, and then she killed herself.

    • @redacted8008
      @redacted8008 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When the people who are supposed to love you shun you and cut off contact, what's the point?
      If it's one thing I've learned in life, it's that you can't live for anyone else. You have to live for yourself.
      Otherwise, it's just endless torment, feeling trapped and held hostage by love, making you a spiteful piece of shit.

    • @kreshahicks2182
      @kreshahicks2182 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If it weren't for what it would have done to those who love me I wouldn't be alive. You have to look for the good things and find reasons to be strong for them. Because they are enough of a reason! They are worth it...

    • @FlorentinaBray
      @FlorentinaBray 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Its sounds like he has noone

    • @SA-lz1vx
      @SA-lz1vx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is a very kind comment

  • @SourceAwryT
    @SourceAwryT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Britton, when you get back to Indiana, see if you can get referral for the Neurological Diagnostic Institute in Indianapolis. It is a state psychiatric hospital that specializes in healing childhood trauma.

    • @Mr-Angelo0U812
      @Mr-Angelo0U812 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hope he sees your good suggestion. Have a nice day ✌

  • @sillytrooper
    @sillytrooper 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    just had a patient talking about suicide all day, i used my entire repertoire, couldnt brighten his day to (for me) acceptable levels
    i felt powerless and amateur; overhelming me as i tried to suppress
    watching this, sitting on my balcony after work, unwinding, coffee water and smoke
    helps getting to see such an in depth perspective, thank you for participating and thank you for all your videos!

  • @christiezanoni5215
    @christiezanoni5215 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I lost my only Son to suicide when he was 15. It has totally broken me. Please stay! Tomorrow can be better. The pain you leave behind is horrific. ❤

    • @moonkraab
      @moonkraab 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤ I'm sorry . Sending you love ❤

  • @bambineal1956
    @bambineal1956 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    The most hurtful part of suicide are the ones you leave behind. You are gone, but those that love you are haunted by grief, regret, and a myriad of feelings that never go away. My Grand daughter's Dad jumped off the Skyway Bridge in Florida. She lives with believing he did not love her enough to want to live.
    Horrible things happen to people. Things that can feel overwhelming enough to not want to be here anymore. I am grateful I believe my life is not mine to take. I have a Creator that it belongs to.
    Listening to this young man's story I realize again, the best way to overcome whatever has hurt us in life is to give of ourselves. That is what he is doing, and has worked for him. He is still here.
    Thank you Mark, for bringing this into the light.❤

    • @AntiGuru498
      @AntiGuru498 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you truly believe human life belongs to god then how do you explain him letting people kill themselves ?

    • @bambineal1956
      @bambineal1956 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AntiGuru498 It is my choice, my will to write back to you or not write back to you...thus free will.

    • @AntiGuru498
      @AntiGuru498 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@bambineal1956 Precisely, so for deciding to live or not it's the same thing. Free will.

    • @shawnmendrek3544
      @shawnmendrek3544 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God is always watching.

    • @AntiGuru498
      @AntiGuru498 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@shawnmendrek3544 Maybe instead of watching he should start acting because the world is going to shit.

  • @kalmanoelle719
    @kalmanoelle719 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Britton, you're an incredible person. Talking about the things you've been through with a smile on your face, you take strength to another level

  • @joeandersen6553
    @joeandersen6553 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    There is a young person out there who needs you.

  • @kelleennordquist5697
    @kelleennordquist5697 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Mark, THANK YOU! Your videos have taken such a turn and now it's my favorite show of all time. So, thanks.

  • @truesavings1988
    @truesavings1988 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    We all need that one friend to just listen. It makes a world of difference.

    • @Mr-Angelo0U812
      @Mr-Angelo0U812 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Definitely agree with you.

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I doubt this is the first time he’s talked about this.

  • @jeepnjazz1629
    @jeepnjazz1629 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    This man isn’t alone. So many people are feeling the fears and suffocating reality of this life. He is worthy of so much. To use himself as an example on how to learn how to live in this life with these tragedies. Please live!

  • @Raezuvlite
    @Raezuvlite 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Mark, the statement you made in the beginning isn't true at all. My mom told me about a week before she attempted to commit suicide that she wanted to die. I took her seriously and tried to get her help, but it wasn't enough. A little over a month after her first unsuccessful attempt, she made a second attempt and was successful.
    Just because people tell someone they're suicidal doesn't mean they won't go through with it! This is a terrible thing to say to someone who is suicidal. It's highly dismissive and causes the suicidal individual to be less likely to come foward when they are suicidal!

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Agree, he made a very harmful statement there.

  • @madhatter2970
    @madhatter2970 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My 27 year old sweet darling son died of an accidental overdose in March and I am beyond devastated. I've wanted to commit su my whole life but now I have to live on for my other son. I will never leave him because he is so precious to me and now he will need my love and support forever. No one could measure how much i love them both. At some point you have to make the decision to keep on living.

  • @MenifeePeeWeeD
    @MenifeePeeWeeD 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I also think about dying everyday. It's a horrible battle I'm in with myself.

    • @moo9141
      @moo9141 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      You aren’t alone

    • @lisahinton9682
      @lisahinton9682 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @MenifeePeeWeeD
      Same here. My very existence is one of torment. I hate my life but, like Britton, I don't want to attempt it more than once. I sure don't want to mess it up and be stuck here maimed, which would be an even worse existence than the one I am in now.

    • @intubinistic
      @intubinistic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same 🥺

    • @JeffMTX
      @JeffMTX 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Are there any human beings in your vicinity whose day you could make better? While you’re still here, maybe someone could use some of your compassion. Maybe it’s worth a try.

    • @redsonya3088
      @redsonya3088 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hugs ❤

  • @jilllinder9975
    @jilllinder9975 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +302

    Addiction to being a victim keeps people from looking at being a survivor.

    • @markstrickland438
      @markstrickland438 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      You nailed it, 100%.

    • @mgal6234
      @mgal6234 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      This is SO TRUE. I was a victim until I decided not to be…and it has set me free ❤

    • @BeeKay4444
      @BeeKay4444 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      100%

    • @Ldub0302
      @Ldub0302 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Wow. This is such an uncomfortably powerful truth..
      Well said.

    • @AHedgecliff4977
      @AHedgecliff4977 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Beautiful!! Agree 100%…

  • @MelissaGonzalez-ch1dw
    @MelissaGonzalez-ch1dw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    So much contradiction just by listening to him. It must be a painful, daily, exhausting, torment to live like that. Wish him peace and love for whatever he decides to do.

  • @sararodgers704
    @sararodgers704 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    At the very least do not be a bully on here. Their is a reason he’s telling his story, wether you believe it or not! You are meant to be here, don’t give up!!!

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      some people on here are truly awful. kicking someone when they are down is a bad look.

  • @martyliming6171
    @martyliming6171 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Mark, I hope you’ll keep us updated if possible on this wonderful man❤️

    • @francoisfrancois7353
      @francoisfrancois7353 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you think all humans are wonderful by default?

    • @borano2031
      @borano2031 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@francoisfrancois7353 Some are disqualified by asking stupid questions. Consider this for a moment... Rgr

    • @martyliming6171
      @martyliming6171 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@francoisfrancois7353 I do think we all have the potential to be wonderful. Whether we chose to be that is within our control and only our control.

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@francoisfrancois7353
      Saying his wonderful is wild, he thinks he is though.

  • @dorothyjakab8285
    @dorothyjakab8285 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    He is a man in so much pain. What a shame he’s life has been ruined by horrendous people

    • @carynmartin6053
      @carynmartin6053 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      He allowed that, for whatever reason. Ultimately, we are responsible for ourselves once we become adults. You can choose to dwell on the negative or try to find the light at the end of the tunnel, as long as you don't give up and throw in the towel. I find that self pity can be a form of deep internal sloth, unwillingness to do the soul searching necessary to be able to find gratitude for being alive

    • @claudinedemantet
      @claudinedemantet 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@carynmartin6053some of us don't know how to do that and we don't have the support from our loved ones which makes it even harder.

    • @Kittycakes22
      @Kittycakes22 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We don’t have to allow people to ruin our lives.

    • @firecatcher91
      @firecatcher91 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@carynmartin6053 All of this, are just words and words after words, without any solution, empathy and feeling that you can even relate to his pain. Just very one dimensional perspective of the subject which gives a whole a lot of nothing. A pain like this is a multilevel and complex, and paradoxical. Just saying something "you need to do soul searching" like what?! Perhaps you could provide a tool if not solution for it, because how the hell one can do something, which he doesn't know how to do, or have a mental resources to do? Or...you could just be quiet, and say nothing which doesn't help.

    • @Drivinghealth365
      @Drivinghealth365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And yet he still has so much purpose left to encourage others to get through. I am so grateful I have had the opportunity to turn it around in my experience. Because I chose to keep going and not fall into ending my own life, I have seen incredible moments happen, that I would not have seen, maybe they would not have overcome their experiences, if I would have succeeded in what hopelessness lied to me about.
      So many of us have endured great trauma. People that have offended me in the worse possible ways, I have had the opportunity to forgive and give them grace of forgiveness. I'm grateful for forgiveness. Their is magic in forgiveness. The hardest forgiveness.
      Rejection.
      Attention deficit disorder. Menopause making it 100x worse.
      It feels hopeless. It feels like there is no light in the darkness. It feels like no matter how much effort you put into "something" you will still fail, and then when you do, that is confirmation.
      I have lived through much trauma in my life, but I am chosing to be better than the day before, trying to fix it. Make life better for the people I love. Taking my own life is cruel to the people I love. I might as well fight for them and give them more than I am able to. So at my lowest point, I have gone to the alter. When I stopped being focused on myself and "what is wrong with me" and in turn focused on Jesus, every single thing started to turn around. God has given me a purpose. He saved me from myself.
      He gave me beauty for ashes.
      Life is still difficult but I know I am winning,because Jesus walks with me. He is my light, my hope, my heart.
      If anyone has children. No matter what the relationship is between them, fight. Fight really hard. When it feels like there is nothing else left read Psalm 91.
      God goes before us.

  • @OasisWullie1872
    @OasisWullie1872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    My friend, my brother Franny took his own life. This was a good looking, popular, successful young man BUT I think it was the BULLYING that left him with severe PTSD...I HATE BULLIES!!!

    • @lisahinton9682
      @lisahinton9682 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @OasisWullie1872
      So sorry, honey. And I know this is cold comfort, but, I've been bullied my entire life. Had I had the courage and skill to have offed myself when I was young, it would have saved me a lifetime of further bullying. So, in a way, your brother escaped a life of misery.
      As I said, I know it's cold comfort, but, try to shift from focusing on your own pain, to realizing he's at peace, and didn't have to go through 40 or 50 or 60 more years of being bullied. Because some people, like me, are always always targets for bullies. Bullies in school, bullies in the workplace, bullies at the damned doctor's office reception desk, ffs. So, wish your brother Franny a restful sleep, and remember him fondly.

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🕊️

    • @OasisWullie1872
      @OasisWullie1872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@lisahinton9682 ❤

  • @kristinb3269
    @kristinb3269 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "This world was never meant for one as beautiful as you". One of my favorite song lyrics and you reminded me of it.

  • @hollyharris1874
    @hollyharris1874 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Stay here with us, Brit! You're needed - especially by your babies! Much love from Alabama💜

    • @Braxgrey59
      @Braxgrey59 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      251 shit!!

  • @dm96177
    @dm96177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I believe some souls on this earth struggle more than others. I’ve had a good life but have struggled with depression and suicide ideation since I was a child as well. I think some just have a melancholy depth to them most do not understand. Our society in the US amplifies these feeling even more so. It is very challenging to stay alive and keep operating in society.

    • @heidihgreen
      @heidihgreen 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So true.

  • @brittanyp9334
    @brittanyp9334 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I appreciate this interview so much. He reminds me of my friend that took his own life. My friend was around 70 when he passed. He suffered from depression his whole life. He had multiple attempts throughout his life. His depression would go in waves. He would be good for a few years and then suffer for a few years. Towards the end, there was a 5 year episode, the last 2 years being debilitating. He also planned his suicide and told everyone. Of course all his loved ones tried to help. They made him promise he wouldn't do it until it was the last resort. He was in therapy all his life. At the end, he also tried electric shock therapy and ketamine treatments, none were successful. When he finally did it, none of us were shocked. Of course we were sad but also somewhat relieved that he wasn't in pain anymore. I agree that this needs to be talked about more and not just lock up anyone that says they're suicidal.

  • @NotHumanHarry2000
    @NotHumanHarry2000 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I lost my brother to su*cide 5 years ago next month. And for years I’ve wished I could switch places with him, I’ve even attempted multiple times but I’m still here because of a loving family and it breaks my heart that so many people don’t have that and are suffering the same.

    • @carendembowski6860
      @carendembowski6860 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Please don't do it. Your family sounds wonderful and they would suffer so much if you were gone 💔. Haug in there, life will always have its ups and downs . But it is worth it. God bless you 🙏 ❤️.

    • @JeffMTX
      @JeffMTX 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It helps me to know that God loves me.

    • @laurentaylor6391
      @laurentaylor6391 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Would you mind sharing what was going on for your brother? Did he have a mental health diagnosis?

  • @killmoreturtles
    @killmoreturtles 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I, like many MANY people, have depressive episodes. I know far to well how dark it can get, and you always forget that the depression will eventually end, and you'll eventually feel good again. but when you're stuck in those down times, it never fails, you always feel like the light is not coming back on this time

    • @smitty7758
      @smitty7758 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said!!!! I will re read this during rough times

  • @jessicaanne3710
    @jessicaanne3710 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've attempted 3 times. The nervous / uncomfortable laughter is something I have also done when speaking on those attempts. He was not laughing at the situation. I appreciate you Mark 🧡

  • @winros
    @winros 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    What he said.
    Was so profound to me.I lost my mom when I was 10, and there was no therapy.... to help me through it! No one helped me throw it!

    • @Mark-gn5rw
      @Mark-gn5rw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Buffalo NY fam sends u prayers. We understand..hope ur ok

    • @terriblue68
      @terriblue68 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm very sorry for your loss. It's never too late to get the help you need. Hope you're doing better today because you know better now. You certainly wouldn't then? Far too young. Sending love from Atlantic Canada 🇨🇦 ❤️ 🙏

    • @robynconcannon7134
      @robynconcannon7134 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm so sorry.
      Hope you are getting help now.
      There are "survived after suicide" courses.
      Please look after yourself.
      🙏 🤲 ❤️ 💐

    • @shawnmendrek3544
      @shawnmendrek3544 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry you had no help. I hope you have it now. There is many online sources now too.

    • @iamnoone2953
      @iamnoone2953 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost my mom when I was 18 mo old. My grandma raised me and my sister but didn't tell us she wasn't our mom til I was 9. I never got any help. I always wondered why she treated us differently.

  • @angp7929
    @angp7929 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    My sister took her life 2 weeks ago it was sudden and tragic she is only 21 it’s very painful to think about and I’ll never understand why she felt it was her only option. Fortunately our family was able to donate her organs and 5 people get a chance to live…

    • @sup393
      @sup393 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That was brave of your family. When my Husband suicided 13 years ago I did the same. It gave me hope. I hope you find some peace. There's a group called Survivors of Suicide and some on line sites I found helpful. ❤✌️

    • @Drivinghealth365
      @Drivinghealth365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sending you so much love. I'm so sorry.

    • @braedonmcknight154
      @braedonmcknight154 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ridiculous

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@braedonmcknight154
      You.

  • @LexiGoLightly
    @LexiGoLightly 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    My sister was 21 when she committed suicide. I was 33. We were never close, but I miss her terribly. I never told her enough how much I loved her, even tho I didn't necessarily like her most of the time. Tell your people you love them, please 💔

    • @moonkraab
      @moonkraab 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @Cbow3977
    @Cbow3977 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    People usually laugh because it's uncomfortable, or to keep from crying. I get it. When you hear yourself say it out loud you feel like it sounds ridiculous than when you hear it in your own head.

    • @art.junk13
      @art.junk13 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This..

  • @chachi9256
    @chachi9256 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank You for sharing. I feel suicidal today. Just listening to you has given me another minute, another hour, another day to keep going. What a beautiful person you are. I don't feel worthy of Christ either. Lots of shame, still. But I know He created me and he knows me better than I know myself. So he's with me and letting me lean on Him.

  • @PSthefirst1
    @PSthefirst1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I feel so bad that he is suffering the way he is. He really seems like a great person who has had so many hardships. Listening to his story made me realize a great deal about life and myself. I hope he finds the inner peace he needs. He seems like a really great guy.

  • @kathrynmartin9014
    @kathrynmartin9014 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This popped up on my screen yesterday. I prayed for you several times throughout the day …. I’m so sorry that you have suffered so.
    I live in Northeast Indiana myself, not far from South Bend . I will continue to pray that the tormentors will not have access to you anymore. You have so much to offer people ….

  • @adityatyagi4009
    @adityatyagi4009 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I really hope this man does not commit suicide. There is so much value to him despite all the struggles he has experienced. C'mon Britton, don't do it! Please like this comment and leave a comment to show your support. I want him to see how much people care.

    • @chewonthis...
      @chewonthis... 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can appreciate your cognitive distortion, it has this way of locking us in emotionally. Our way of thinking keeps us imprisoned within ourselves...making our world pathetically small with nothing to look forward to. Stay the course! Something has to be more important than you! Your loved ones perhaps?

  • @jenbingham0914
    @jenbingham0914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All his suicidal ideations, combined with the absolute rage, combined with such childhood trauma just screams borderline personality disorder. I am absolutely shocked he hasnt been diagnosed with it. Treatment for it could help him greatly. I was diagnosed at 41 with it and through years of treatment combined with medication to treat the symptoms of that along with my depression and bipolar, I actually no longer meet the diagnostic criteria for borderline. I still have symptoms just not enough to be considered borderline.

  • @norriskp
    @norriskp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Such a beautiful smile, Britton has. I hope he finds relief and decides to stay around awhile.

    • @denisevermeulen4984
      @denisevermeulen4984 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think the very same. Britton’s face just lights up when he smiles

  • @countdankula420_
    @countdankula420_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This guy could be a great youth mentor or anything he wants to be… but he shouldn’t be dead and I hope he changes his mind.

  • @angilawaddell5892
    @angilawaddell5892 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    You have been such a gift. Thank you. I dance with similar tormenting. What's so ironic.... I grew up in immense indoctrination. Bible belt. You may not be a Christian. But I see Him in you. You're a beautiful, empathetic soul. Thank you for being a spark. All I needed was a spark. I'm sick in the hospital right now. The physical hospital.
    I hate hugging. But I'd hug the hell out of you if i could. Thank you for being my spark. The one thing that i have learned is to nurture myself, as i do others.
    You are so loved.

    • @angilawaddell5892
      @angilawaddell5892 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      P.s good luck at treatment ❤

    • @sillytrooper
      @sillytrooper 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hey, nurse here, hit me up if u have any treatment/procedure-questions!

    • @leonablack-walker1036
      @leonablack-walker1036 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN AMEN AMEN ❤❤❤

  • @katkohlerschwartz7386
    @katkohlerschwartz7386 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What I’ve learned from my coaching individuals, these videos, and being around depressed and self-destructive people is that they hang on the negative events in life - death, accidents, abuse. It’s stuck in the mind forever. My take is that they, at some point, were kind, meek, and sensitive children who grew up in the most terrible of circumstances. They cannot dig out of the layers and layers of emotions that were created to protect them from the constant abuse that wrecked them. The negatives are what are familiar and all that they know. I am so sorry for their loss of joy or sense of purpose in life. It is saddening to watch. I just want to hug them all and say, “ you are loved.”

  • @shannon_w.
    @shannon_w. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OMG my husband went to Teen Challenge and his experience was EXACTLY the same!!!!! I pushed so hard for him to go there because he was addicted to heroin and he needed the help. The first time I went to see him he was at a big like charity event at a nice hotel and when I left there I called my girlfriend and told her "I think I just made the biggest mistake in my life, those people are NOT genuine!"

  • @chrisgant3409
    @chrisgant3409 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Self worth is the basis of survival. I believe he thinks he’s innately flawed and irredeemable. And defining yourself according to your weaknesses is a kind of mental illness (not insanity). He is completely loved for who he is, not because of what he isn’t or does. It’s a daily practice/reality I face too (I believe many do). Unconditional love, acceptance and value! Right? Bless you my friend.

  • @milesman7624
    @milesman7624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    To be self aware, a product of violence, surrounded by selfish manipulation, and devalued by a society, then abandoned by those close to you; it just works it's way into your bones. His journey is so similar.

  • @allyjooste8339
    @allyjooste8339 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watching this as someone who is seriously contemplating offing myself and I feel so seen. Thank you Britton for sharing your story 🫂

    • @Braxgrey59
      @Braxgrey59 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      keep pushing

  • @beastinshow2362
    @beastinshow2362 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was a difficult watch/listen for me. Burst out crying a couple of times, still thankful for the experience and opportunity to listen in.
    Britton's absolutely correct regarding which demographic that most commonly commit suicide today, and I believe that some part in fixing/improving those sad statistics, should be talking about it more openly.
    Another side note; while I recognize there's substance behind those claiming that people who actually commit suicide don't talk about/mention it to anyone leading up to that fact- however, that's definitely no general/universal rule.
    Especially someone who has experienced (seriously attempted) suicide by a close relative, like Britton- I clearly see&hear that he's very capable of actually 'checking himself out prematurely', still.
    I just deeply hope that he'll keep choosing to not act on those dark thoughts. I believe he can still help others, as he can speak on some of these dark things from extensive personal experience.
    Thanks for your talk Britton, please take care of yourself.

  • @LoloO42
    @LoloO42 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mark, what you said at the beginning was spot on! I've survived ideation, major depression, and even a few attempts. Ive also overcome alcohol addiction. And homelessness. I never asked anyone for help. I never made threats. Never asked anyone to let me move in. I always just ghosted and handled my problems alone.

  • @thealrightestguitarist9135
    @thealrightestguitarist9135 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    After reading through many of the comments, I feel compelled to write this. I realize how difficult it is for most people to understand feelings like these, so I want to try and help you see the other side. I can't speak for this man, but I will speak for myself and what I know.
    _"He's faking and just wants attention"_
    That could be the case, but it's important to realize there's a difference between superficial validation (posting pictures to get likes, for example) and someone who has been taught they're worthless timidly reaching out in the hope that someone will tell them they have some sort of value. Unfortunately, their low self image makes positive statements impossible to believe, so they never feel whole and eventually stop trying.
    _"He's laughing and joking around"_
    It's been my experience that the funniest people are often also the most messed up. Humour is a way to cope with negative emotions and/or make people like you, so it's natural to see those traits develop together. People also learn to make light of their pain just to get from day to day. Things like that are very hard to talk about because people are often mocking or entirely indifferent, so you learn not to ask for help and just hope someone will recognize your suffering unsolicited.
    _"Everybody has bad stuff happen to them"_
    Absolutely, but it's a question of degree and perspective. There's a difference between feeling blue and being depressed. If your goldfish dies, you might be sad for a couple of days. Depression is a different thing entirely. I've seen people take the stoic's position of "you choose to feel bad", but clinical depression isn't something a sufferer has any control over. It's like telling someone in a wheelchair that they're just choosing not to walk.
    _"Get some hobbies/passions" or "Hit the gym"_
    There's definitely value in this idea, especially for younger people. If you're feeling low because you got dumped, get your ass in gear and work on yourself to get better. But it's not the same for depressed people. I have tons of interests, but you reach a point where you're so low that you just can't do them. Your greatest passions bring you no joy at all. If anything, they only make you feel angry and empty.
    _"It's a cowardly/selfish thing to do" or "It's hardest on those left behind"_
    If you think about it, isn't it just as selfish to demand someone keep suffering just because it would make you feel bad to lose them? Another brutal irony is that it's often the very people who complain about someone deleting themselves who did nothing to ease their pain while they were alive. If someone you love is talking about harming themselves, take it seriously and be willing to understand you could be part of the problem.
    _"There's always hope"_
    No, there isn't. Again, a lot of this comes back to age. A 20 year-old still has a huge amount of potential and opportunity to change, so should be encouraged to do so. A 50 year-old doesn't have that same luxury. Most folks fail to understand that hope comes with an expiry date stamped on the corner. At some point you reach a precipice where the hope is gone and all that's left is the certainty of suffering. Talking about it or "trying to work through it" means nothing because nothing can be fixed or made better at that point. Sometimes you just can't get there from here.
    I'm 47 and have experienced a lot of what Britton talked about. It's not that you want things to end, it's that you experience such an immense and immovable weight by simply existing. The colour literally leaches out of the world around you. You realize there's nothing left. Younger people should be helped and encouraged, but it gets harder as you get older.

    • @Amyjo3800
      @Amyjo3800 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This!!!!!!! 💯 Thank you! ❤️

    • @lisahinton9682
      @lisahinton9682 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @thealrightestguitarist9135
      This may be the best, most well-thought-out, succinctly-expressed, comment I've ever read on TH-cam. Thank you. And you are spot-on.
      I wish we were neighbors as I'd invite you over for a cuppa, but, I suspect you live on the other side of the world. (I am in Phoenix, Arizona.)

    • @purpleturtle7477
      @purpleturtle7477 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely beautifully and perfectly expressed. Thankyou for enlightening people.

    • @norriskp
      @norriskp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow! Beautifully put. Couldn't agree more.

    • @thealrightestguitarist9135
      @thealrightestguitarist9135 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lisahinton9682 Thanks very much, Lisa. I had intended to write more, but ended up deciding to leave it there.
      I'm not on the other side of the world, but I'm definitely too far away to pop over for coffee (I'm on the east coast of Canada). I used to have a friend who lived in Phoenix, though. It's a small big world, lol.

  • @Elizabeth.C.Holmes
    @Elizabeth.C.Holmes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mark, when someone says they are thinking of killing themselves, ALWAYS take them seriously. ALWAYS!! I worked on a suicide crisis hotline and it is imperative to speak to that person asap and/or get them resources. NEVER brush it off or think the person just wants attention. Here is a mini assessment. It is better to ask than not and then it's too late:
    The six questions
    The first five questions are about a person’s feelings over the past month. These questions can be asked of people ages eight and older. They need to be included within an empathetic conversation indicating concern for the person, and asked in a non-alarming, matter-of-fact manner.
    1. Have you wished you were dead or wished you could go to sleep and not wake up?
    2. Have you actually had any thoughts about killing yourself? If the loved one answers “yes” to question 2, ask questions 3, 4, 5 and 6. If the person answers “no” to question 2, go directly to question 6.
    3. Have you thought about how you might do this?
    4. Have you had any intention of acting on these thoughts of killing yourself, as opposed to you have the thoughts but you definitely would not act on them?
    5. Have you started to work out or worked out the details of how to kill yourself? Do you intend to carry out this plan?
    Always ask question 6:
    6. In the past three months, have you done anything, started to do anything, or prepared to do anything to end your life?

  • @barikitchens6383
    @barikitchens6383 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I feel you’re an empath. Being an empath is so difficult because of feeling so much. Not knowing our purpose. I connect with so much your saying. I wish you all the best. You sound like such a wonderful person ❤

  • @hannahw.3315
    @hannahw.3315 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Adults now starting to talk about suicide ideations as children is mind blowing- freaking tragic and I hope we can unstigmatize the subject and address it at young ages.

  • @skeeshjusto8704
    @skeeshjusto8704 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I believe Suicidal traits can be passed down to your kids. Especially if you go through with it. My aunt and older female cousin (mom and daughter) lived successfully and beautiful lives but both ended up committing suicide out the blue 😪 still don’t understand it 😢 TALK TO SOMEBODY PPL 🙏

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It is hereditary, yes.

    • @PBJ-17
      @PBJ-17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Suicidal thoughts and suicide completion are NOT hereditary. Mental illness can be, though.

    • @thematriarchy2075
      @thematriarchy2075 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PBJ-17 Yes, it is, although there isn't a "suicidal gen"
      And no, also people without a mental illness can commit suicide

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If there lives were so beautiful and wonderful they would not have ended their own lives. Something was wrong and bothering them even if you do not know what that was.

  • @Bibibosh
    @Bibibosh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I once almost died in a vehicle incident. "Would have been written as su*cide by the morgue". Dead men can't defend there actions even in suspected su*cide

    • @RussiaIsARiddle778
      @RussiaIsARiddle778 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Can you please explain why the police would have thought su* side to be the cause? Thank you.

    • @naturaljustice4654
      @naturaljustice4654 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Barely survived a staged "traffic accident" June 2022. "They" informed me 2019 it might going to happen, (they=unit I was part of in a civil war).
      The hospital incl myself, can't believe I survived, should be cleared up as traffic accident on my E-Scooter, all staged 02.00 AM.
      A female journalist warned me I have to watch my back (I blew the whistle 2019), she told me about 3 different fatal "accidents", 1 in Britain, 2 in the US (or the opposite).
      All 3, so called traffic accidents, 1 on bicycle (female), 2 walking on the sidewalk (male).
      I believe you 100%, they some times choose easy solutions.

    • @kyla6538
      @kyla6538 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@naturaljustice4654 I'm not understanding what you guys are talking about. Would you mind explaining please 🙏

  • @crazeekids9744
    @crazeekids9744 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I spent 20 years of my life living angry. I know now it was to cover up the deep fear and hurt inside.
    Pain can be healed. There is hope that change can come. It starts from the inside and grows it’s way out.

  • @Hugoadventures4u
    @Hugoadventures4u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry you went through so much horrific trauma. Thank goodness for the ones who meant so much to you. Cling on to those. They will always be with you xx

  • @joyce9523
    @joyce9523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Lost my dad to su#cide 😢He suffered from depression, After years of battling drug use😢,He just got so tired and gave up, Reach out friends if this is how your feeling,im sure they have a number

    • @robynconcannon7134
      @robynconcannon7134 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      May your Dad rest in peace, and may you live in health, peace and happiness. 🙏

    • @joyce9523
      @joyce9523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robynconcannon7134 ty ❤️

  • @Rachel-im6yj
    @Rachel-im6yj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    So this is his process to unalive himself yet all I hear are the reasons for him to stick around. Mark I hope we are here in a year listening to a follow-up.

  • @josienekeMattie
    @josienekeMattie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Seeing such a handsome grown man fight his tears 😢😢 its heartbreaking, wishing him all he desires ❤

  • @irishguyjg_2ndchancerecovery
    @irishguyjg_2ndchancerecovery 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for being brave and sharing this! I was also a victim of molestation and also lied about it because i thought in my teenage mind that everything would fall apart or no one would believe me. Im in Minnesota and ive been through an extensive amount of trauma too, but im sober 13 years in August, and i do outreach, recovery outreach to help save the lives of others. Bless you dude. I hope you choose life over death, its not for us to choose our ending, thats God's job

  • @datFUNKYb
    @datFUNKYb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This video has helped me. Thanks to everyone involved

  • @vickiedouglas401
    @vickiedouglas401 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hey! Britton I also was born in Iowa and went from there to Colorado too. 4 years in Denver and 5 in Boulder. By my teens we moved to Pennsylvania. I'm old now... 71. I wrestle with bipolar 2 and major depression. I have had a bad time with the suicidal desires for decades. I will never act on it because I won't do that to my family. They say suicide becomes more likely when a family member has already died by suicide. God forbid! But it's not easy to repeatedly go through such deep sadness. I do meds and have a good shrink. I'm learning how to look back over my life with a new understanding that a lot of things that I regret were out of my control. I beat up on myself too much. Guilt, shame and anger. I also have CPTSD from infancy on my mama never liked me. I cried too much so she would put me in the garage. She never did like me. At least I've faced it all and tried really hard to do things right. There is a lot of beauty in life but there sure is a lot of trouble. Best wishes to you down the road.

  • @thewarsimmoral2646
    @thewarsimmoral2646 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    “I’m the strongest man I know.” Is such a strange thing to say. The strongest man I know wouldn’t even talk about himself like that.

    • @james87367
      @james87367 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Never!

    • @norriskp
      @norriskp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You have no idea what strength it requires to keep putting one foot in front of another when you're in this amount of pain, for this length of time. No idea.

  • @truesavings1988
    @truesavings1988 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Praying for you Britton to overcome your torture and find the beauty in life.

  • @lesliepfeifer8518
    @lesliepfeifer8518 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I sure can relate to so much of what you said. I'm on medication, and it has definitely helped. I was hospitalized twice for suicide attempts. I'm 59, this was 6 years ago. I'm numb now, because of the medication. I relate to you're anger, you're disdain for the human race, for squandering my life, for failing at relationships, the depression, etc.
    Now my life is pretty good. I got on disability, I take care of my elderly mom, I have 9 cats and a dog, I don't go anywhere, Walmart, is pretty much it. I absolutely can't deal with people though. I describe it as 99% hate, 1% love people. I'm looking forward to death, not dying. What I can say is we do melow out when we get old. I understand where you're coming from. I hope you find some peace and purpose in the time you've got left. I don't like it here either. It fucking sucks. It does sound like you're making a difference in peoples lives, this is a really positive and powerful thing. I wish you love and light on you're journy♡♡♡♡

  • @bookdragon3806
    @bookdragon3806 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am one of the people who has lived in darkness since I was 13. I too had rage from hurt that turned inward and became a terrible depression and anxiety that has almost destroyed me multiple times. Medication and therapy have helped me tremendously, but I had to let go of my victimhood. I had to find the source of that rage inside and process it fully. It was the most painful thing I have ever done, but it brought me into the light of hope and a future. My truth is I sometimes miss the dark. It was, in a way, my natural environment. Becoming a different person who can deal with the world around me takes a lot of effort, but it is worth it! I hope this man finds his light. Right now, he's so lost in hopelessness he can't see himself in anything but darkness.

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bookdragon3806
      He enjoys what he does, gives him attention. The only ones in his life who are victims are his children.

  • @moba7984
    @moba7984 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sounds a lot like a borderline stuff going on which also would make a lot of sense considering all the trauma he's been through.
    Thanks for an interview and sharing and fingers crossed, fighter.
    Sending a lot of compassion your way.

  • @jennifergardner9343
    @jennifergardner9343 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I truly believe people willing to talk about suicide are the ones we can save if we pay attention. The people I have lost did not speak out, no red flags, no warning.

  • @johnfernandez2060
    @johnfernandez2060 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    If his dad had him at 40, but then says his dad was 76 when he died and he was in his forties? I ain’t no mathematician but the math ain’t mathing

    • @mainreason9601
      @mainreason9601 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He said he has trouble with his timelind

    • @zodglubby
      @zodglubby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He said his dad just died recently. He said at 76 he thought he could finally kick his dad's button, that how tough he was. Listen to it again

  • @KM-me6ev
    @KM-me6ev 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My 5 year wedding anniversary is today .. my close friend at work told me it’s also the 1 year anniversary of her best friends suicide. The pain I saw on my colleagues face I would not wish on anyone.. my husband suffers from depression and I worry daily he could hurt himself one day. I spent the last 2 days crying non stop .. seeing the pain suicide has caused someone, considering what a life without my husband would do to me or his parents.. the loss of someone’s life .. all they could experience if they got help .. don’t do this.. your life has value and the Iives of all that love you will become the pain you are experiencing now.. why transfer that to others ?!? You have to get help for them..for YOU… for your future.

  • @Camposdarko
    @Camposdarko 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    26:17 mark compliments him being likable and this and that, he lights up. He assures mark he’s on the edge.
    He seems like a vulnerable narcissist.
    He’s also “ the strongest man he knows”
    He’s also not able to love he says.

    • @lisahinton9682
      @lisahinton9682 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @hextorcampis6113 Maybe he "lights up" (I noticed that, too) because everyone else in his life, and he himself, is telling him he's no good at anything, is a failure, can't even have a strong relationship with his daughters, on and on. Ever think of that??? Maybe that is why when he gets a tiny crumb of an "Atta boy!", he lights up.
      Ffs.

    • @Camposdarko
      @Camposdarko 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lisahinton9682 people that are not used to getting “atta boy” don’t respond with lighting up with pleasure of getting the ego rubbed. Not a “atta boy “ but w.e , like I was saying they don’t light up they tend to feel extremely uncomfortable when they are complemented and aren’t able to take compliments.
      You are in need of unleashing anger I can see. Try journaling and taking a long walk

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lisahinton9682
      Ffs🙄

  • @Claire-zg2di
    @Claire-zg2di 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    GOD this is triggering...my daughters father was violently killed at 33...he didn't ask for it but in the end he had a devastating childhood. Was never even allowed to be a kid. I hope he's at peace now. R.I.H MDH II 💚 we all miss you #forever33

  • @janetpersons7647
    @janetpersons7647 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    His poor children. I feel for them big time.

  • @kristaquin
    @kristaquin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Despite never having met you, I feel more connected to you than to many of the people I see in my daily life! I connect best with people when we can share our struggles and talk about the "darker" things and what we've learned from them. Forget small talk, which is mostly what we're stuck with in real life. I wish we could just open up like books and really connect this way all the time, every day. Connection is what we all really need.

  • @brandonluther80
    @brandonluther80 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Committing suicide when you have kids is very selfish.

    • @G2020-
      @G2020- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      The pain people feel is insufferable, selfishness does not come in to the equation.

    • @jodie3278
      @jodie3278 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True. I think at that point they truly are not thinking of them.

    • @sillytrooper
      @sillytrooper 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      convincing

    • @moo9141
      @moo9141 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Expecting someone to live a tormented life so YOU aren’t inconvenienced is selfish.

    • @Creamteam69420-s
      @Creamteam69420-s 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@moo9141 kids losing there parent is just an inconvenience ????? I’m sorry if ur a parent suck it up . Ur not living for yourself anymore when your a parent

  • @PBJ-17
    @PBJ-17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Trauma Therapist here. Yes, you do know more about yourself than any therapist, which, interestingly, is part of the what is keeping you stuck in this hopeless space. A therapist’s knowledge of us is not what heals; it is the quality of relationship between the client and the therapist that provides the most healing. Not long ago, a client - whose story and way of presenting that story is very much like you and yours - was talking about their experiences with previous therapists and said, “I knew I was smarter than all of them, so they couldn’t help me. You’re the first one who is smart enough to understand what I’m talking about.” The honest truth is that I don’t always know what he/she talking about, but I’ve found ways to connect with them so they feel understood. It’s not too late for you, Britton. Find someone who helps you feel understood and life may start to feel a little less dark. On a logistical note, you mentioned living in CO. I am licensed in CO and am open to talking with you if you’re interested.

  • @izzydeadyet7336
    @izzydeadyet7336 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ive had suicidal thoughts since i was very young.. having kids changed it, as soon as i became a mother it felt like my depression went away. But instead it manifested as anxiety and panic attacks, and i became dependant on opioids which has caused the thoughts to return the minute im in withdrawal and feel like I've been sick my whole life.. its the physical suffering that makes me feel hopeless. But still my kids keep me from acting out and instead hang on.. feelings go up and down, suffering goes up and down .. what an awful thing to leave your kids, them not understanding and thinking they had something to do with it

    • @izzydeadyet7336
      @izzydeadyet7336 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We can all sit and dwell on the state of the world, our crappy childhood, people and things we miss.. or we can choose to see the beauty in things, intentionally put ourselves in proximity to beauty and filter what goes in our eyes and ears and mouth!

    • @harnesshorselady
      @harnesshorselady 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    • @norriskp
      @norriskp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been where you are. I hope you seek out treatment for your addiction and feelings. Recovery really is an option, if you can surrender & ask for real help. I'm sorry for your pain.

  • @marywaldmann2641
    @marywaldmann2641 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally get what this guy is saying. Every so often I will have a split second where I feel what I believe he is talking about feeling and I always think “I couldn’t imagine being stuck in that feeling”.

  • @tammic2016
    @tammic2016 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m not really sure what to say about Britton. It’s not my position to tell him what to do as I don’t live with his torment but I will say he seems like his mood definitely changed during the course of the interview and that to me signifies hope. Hope that tomorrow will be brighter. Hope is what carries us through. As long as he is hopeful he will make it ❤ Thanks for sharing your story Britton and keep us updated on him Mark.

  • @katconlin2855
    @katconlin2855 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's the key element of someone with suicidal thoughts is listening, walking beside people, and being open to the new journey of therapy.
    Also, by stepping outside if yourself to help others is key.
    Blessings to you, Britton.

  • @anitamartindale3585
    @anitamartindale3585 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I wish him well, where ever his journey takes him. I understand much of what he feels. I didn't suffer any trauma but felt invisible growing up which led to years of alcohol abuse(24 years sober thus year). It's taking me to be 70 years old to finally realize what's important. P.S.....I hug people too, it feels soooo good.

  • @Acke1975
    @Acke1975 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well said. My husband killed himself 6 years ago leaving behind his 8 year old son and wife to suffer. Thinking a note could smooth everything over.
    Britton remember this… when YOU decide to meet your maker and give account for what you did, you’re not going to be able to blame anyone for it but yourself.

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bentheredonethat-lx6nh
      Excuse me?

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bentheredonethat-lx6nh
      Just like the original commenter never said anything to you.

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bentheredonethat-lx6nh
      Sanctimonious 🙄

    • @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md
      @UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8md 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bentheredonethat-lx6nh
      I live in the real world unlike you 🥱