I’m grateful for the Bible helping me get through a rough time ❤️ I know I’m usually someone that offers prayer and encouragement, but I’m the one that needs it from you all today. Thank you for walking alongside me, sister. Sending a hug your way. 🫂
Thank you so much for your open heart! It helped me a lot to remember I am not alone in daily struggles. I just wanted to mention that you are doing such a great job raising your two kids and prioritising God at first place. It is such a blessing to have! You know, our house can be not so clean enough, but our hearts opened towards God's Word and His perfect will for us. Life is overall not so aesthetic as we might think and sometimes some raw thoughts and knowledge of truth are just what we need at the moment. God bless your family and have your hearts in His Holy purity and unconditional love.
Hey sis, love your videos! I wanted to encourage you that you aren't the only one who has been going through trying to have self control when it comes to our babies and even spouses. What has been helping me is repeating Galatians 5 the Fruit of the Spirit and reminding myself what it is. Also just being honest with the Lord about my emotions and that im having a hard time has helped a lot as well. Bless you sister, your a great mommy!
11:21 someone once said, it's not their job or responsibility to regulate us. Ever since then I looked at it differently. I've been working on myself every day and it has helped. Becoming more gentle, slow to anger, the fruits of the spirit. One needs to take care of ourselves, we can't pour from an empty cup. I know it's easier said than done. My observation is that it steams more from overstimulation and overwhelm, rather than their actions. Their actions just happen to be what sets off all the bottled up feelings and emotions. And it's not fair to take it out on them. So we must really work on ourselves. It's crazy how I thought being a mom was just to give birth and feed them. Til I grew up and saw this beautiful world so differently. Such a gift to teach a human being how to go about life in this world! ❤️ WE get to do that for them 💙
I feel your struggle with mum rage. Northern Irish mama again, with 2 under 2 & my toddler is almost 2! I have found that starting my day before the girls get up helps me so much, so that my cup is full and able to pour out from that- not on empty. Sleepwise, I was a nurse and midwife before I had my kids, then studied a masters degree on breastfeeding and maternal mental health which interestingly a lot of the research overlapped with sleeping (as that impacts mental health). We have a safe co sleep environment and have nicknamed our bedroom the family bed. It works really well for all of us and I can't recommend it enough. Love your content. Praying for you ❤
Hi Daisy This is crazy, I’ve been watching TH-cam for YEARS and have never made a handle to comment on a video. So here’s my first! The Lord sent this video my way. I know nothing is by coincidence, He is in control of everything. This is proof. This is the video (and channel) I didn’t know I needed. I feel like I’m watching myself in the mirror. You’ve address so many feelings I’ve been having lately in my life as a homemaker and trying my best to do God’s work. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your vulnerability, your love for those around you and most importantly your love for the Lord. I’m so excited to watch the rest of your content and look forward to your upcoming video on prioritizing your husband and marriage. You’ve encouraged me to reach out and I’m so glad I did! God Bless 💜
Jamie! I am humbled and honestly flattered to be your first comment 🥹❤️ thank you so much for sharing your heart with me. That’s so cool we can be so similar yet come from such unique backgrounds! Hopefully I get the opportunity to learn more about you as we chat in future videos too. I’m thankful for your vulnerability as well, it’s truly beautiful God fearing women like you that makes this a community ❤️ your support and encouragement is definitely appreciated. Sending a big hug your way! 🫂
I’m Filipina and I’m glad you love Filipino food. Thank you for your encouraging videos. I’m dealing with anxiety these past few days and watching your videos help me a lot. God bless you and your family. ❤
My husband is Filipino so I try to learn as many dishes as I can! I think I eat Filipino food more than him 😂 I’m so happy to hear my videos can be a way to help you relax ❤️
Oh, Mama...I am reminded in Ecclesiastes 3:1 "There is a time for everything, and season for every activity under the heavens" I have a 3 month old and a 2.5 year old...in all things God is good. It's just so hard sometimes, though.
Hi 😊 my name is Carla and I stumbled upon you page. #1 i am a new Christian #2 I'm filipinaaaa!! #3 i have a 2 year old boy who has been going through it. I am right there with you and you are such a blessing and encouragement. Thank you for your video! So happy to support you and I'll be praying for you!!! ❤❤❤
Hi Carla nice to meet you!! That is so exciting you recently dedicated your life to Christ, congratulations!! Best decision you could ever make. I’m Mexican but married into a Filipino family. I am slowly learning more and more Filipino dishes so our children grow up around both cultures ❤️🇲🇽🇵🇭 thank you so much for your support. I’m excited you’re here and for us to continue chatting in future videos!
I love ur channel so much. Man hearing u talk about Martha was powerful im going get that book thank u for being so transparent and not try be perfect content creator. So much to relate to as a new mom
It’s been such an amazing book!!! It’s been taking me months to finish reading it, but we are chugging along 😅 it would be awesome to do a book club on it one day!
Right there in the thick of toddlerhood as well with a 5 month old 🙃. My days are filled with lots of prayers haha but I’m so happy you’re doing a video about community! A big struggle of mine is my children getting sick from church 😔 it’s just so tempting to isolate. I know being sick is not fun for them and it’s also really hard on me
I’m excited for that video too! I’ll work on getting that out in the month of October. My kids gets sick from church too, but also from going to the park and any other outing 😅 there are definitely weeks where we have to skip church and play dates because we’re sick but that’s part of the course. It feels like I have to get back into the routine all over again when I lose my flow!
😊Aww, I see you are watching Dawn from the minimal mom 🥰 I also keep her and Cas from Clutterbug here on YT in the background as I am cleaning the house.
Yes, time with God reading His Word has been my lifeline! & I look forward to waking up to that quiet time! Thanks for this video as we are also going through an unexpected hard time with sickness in our family. God is good and these trials help me lean on Him fully! ❤ toddlerhood is difficult but it will pass. I recommend the books M is for Mama and Hard is not the Same as Bad- both by Abbie Halberstadt. And thanks for the reminder to prioritize time with the Lord as we are both a little Martha & Mary.
Oh no I pray they have a quick recovery and healing in Jesus name ❤️ but I love that you are so aware of your dependency on Jesus. That’s what He truly wants from us! Oh I’ll have to add those books to my read list. I love the book title “Hard is not the same as bad,” it definitely peaks my interest! Oh yes I want to be more like Mary 🙏🏼
I enjoyed this video. It has hit home so much. I'm a SAHM and all my family live in a different State and it gets lonely. I have a church but still is hard to connect and feel alone a lot.
I know what you mean sister. Sometimes it's hard to go to church because my 26 month old runs around everywhere. If I do go, I can't really pay attention to service let alone speak to people. Please know I'm praying for you and all mommy's because sometimes it feels like we are exiled from adult interaction. We are doing the Lord's work and we need to encourage one another. Take the time to greet and pray for eachother. We are not alone
That’s how I feel sometimes too! I have been looking for the right church for my toddler and I as a single mom, it feels like it’s 10 times harder. But Jesus is my husband. He is all we need🙏🏻😇🥰
Aw Lizy I promise there are tons of moms feeling the exact thing as you. Keep showing up to church. Sometimes we have to put ourselves out there to meet friends. It’s not “easy” but it’s worth the effort when you gain a sister in Christ in your corner.
I commented in another video but just reminding you that I'm in the thick of it too with a 2.5 year old. This part of toddlerhood is much harder than I ever imagined it would be. For whatever reason, this week specifically a switch seemed to have been switched for my daughter and she's been having less meltdowns (still daily with crying/yelling out but not lasting as long as before) and she's been comprehending so much more. My husband and I feel like we can breathe again because she's back to being her sweet and silly self. All I can do is thank God because I have been praying for patience like you can't believe. I know God is with you during the challenging moments you're having too. It's something I have to keep reminding myself.
Oh that makes me so happy she is having better behavior! It’s so great when you see their progress and development. He heard your prayers mama ❤️ I’m grateful we are not alone!
This was very encouraging and convicting to but in a good way ....I have 3 year old and a 4 months old and honestly it's been tough some days am sleep deprived and I end up skipping my Bible reading time and prayer all together but this is a great challenge for me to try my best with the grace of God I can do it 😊😊much love from Kenya 🇰🇪 in Africa❤a❤❤❤
You can do it mama, just pick a time where it’s convenient for you and be consistent with it ❤️ it’s what helped me make it a habit and now my day doesn’t feel right unless I open up my Word. Thank you so much for watching and sending a hug your way! 🫂
Thank you for this video. The part where you shared about feeling lonely really spoke to me. I am new to the Word and do not attend church. Where I live I honestly feel like I do not "fit ib" or belong (racial differences,age). I do have little ones so I try my best to include myself in school activities but then again, I am extremely shy (introvert) so I make it very awkard. It is very hard for me to iniate any type of conversation so most times I just stand alone and quiet. I will be having a playdate this Saturday and I am STRESSING so much. I am praying to God since I set it up asking for strength and just be myself. But thanks for sharing ❤ makes me feel less alone.
I know it affected me too, I had 3 back to back girls, now ive been finally succeeded NFP for 2 year's and this help, but went to lots of mom rage and frustration . My kids are a true blessing and there is joy among tears.My next step is stop scrolling the internet during my free time
That’s amazing you were able to learn NFP! I won’t go back to birth control but know I need to be disciplined if I will use NFP. I’m working on not scrolling so much too ❤️
I love listening you as I literally experience everything you share in your videos and it is truly validating! Something we struggle with is attending church regularly as church falls during my 1 year olds nap time. She gets so cranky in the service and will not fall asleep in my arms, so my husband and I take turns holding her in the hall and we miss the message. We often tell each other it’s just easier to watch at home than deal with her screaming and squirming because she is so tired and wants to sleep in her crib. Any tips?
I love how he ran to grab his Jesus books. 😂 So cute. But I completely understand what it feels like to be surrounded by people that love you and still feel alone.😢 the beautiful thing is the Jesus says he’ll never leave us nor forsake us. 🙌🏾
Here's some encouragement from a mom of 3 who has been a mom for 7 years now and a Biblical counselor: Imagine the words "image of God" are written across their foreheads when times get tough., I had my first two back to back and I had to consciously remember that these kids who are experiencing life for the first time do not have fully developed brains yet.... they do not know or have the ability to regulate their own emotions. So when we mom rage out we're teaching them that's how to regulate themselves and it's a vicious cycle. The brain is not fully developed until about 25 years old and so from birth to then we have to be extra intentional about regulating our emotions in healthy way. Say to your toddler "I can't understand or help you when you scream, try using words so I can help you" and that always works with my own kids. Ask Jesus to help you see them the way He does. I hope this helps ❤
That’s a very powerful reminder!! Thank you for sharing your insight and knowledge sister. I know this will help not only me but other women reading this! ❤️
Thank you for this video and sending prayers your way girl! I’m struggling as well with sleep in my family and I am not my best because of it right now. I can relate to mom rage… Love your channel❤❤❤❤❤
My 2 year old does the same thing with me every morning! She sees me reading my Bible and asks to get her "bible" which is just a flap book about creation haha. It's always hard to actually retain what I'm reading when she is sitting next to me with hers, but I know it's something that's going to form a habbit in her which I think means more than me just getting to read in that moment.
I totally agree with you Kelly, it’s so much more than that! You are literally showing her your love for Jesus and discipline to reading your Bible. I love that for you and your family! ❤️🙏🏼
No seizures for julianne my daughter praise God today❤. I am calling dr again asking fir help for a mood enhancer med. she is suffering with autism mood extremes making eating, toileting, sleeping difficult. Huge screaming fits over 2 hrs daily😢. I trust God to be my peace when I see none. He will make a way and it will be ok because He has got me
My daughter is too aggressive to be around other people. She also has birth defect in feet and walking around is hard so we limit it. I know you are having a hard time but being outside and with others is awesome❤❤❤. I have been isolated for 18 years. I cant do fam gatherings either
The Lord sees you Cathy! You will be blessed abundantly for all the fruit of the spirit you have grown caring for your family. It’s difficult to acknowledge that some of our rewards won’t be here but in Heaven. Sending a hug your way!
@@mrsdaisymama thank you. It is ok. Jesus holds me up and I will keep serving my family even if my life is very sheltered. I am needed here and I trust God
Hi. Im a mother to 9 and my youngest is now 9 yo. I am also a grandmother now to 3. I have recently found a book about discipline with ages 2 to 12. It is the 1,2,3 method and i wish id found it years ago. I think its from the 80s? But when a child does a behaviour that you want to stop you count 1 and the next bad behavior is 2 and when they do the third thing, it's 3. Then they go to their bed room for a minute per year of their age. No emotion from the parent and no discussion, if they kick up and dont go, you add another minute each time they complain. They can do what they want in their room but no screens. The idea is to remove them from what thwy were doing that you didnt like. You have to get to 3 before they go to their rrom and it has to be within a 20 min period or it resets to 0. If they do somethinv terrible you can immediately say 3 and thats it....room. the book is really easy to read its called 123 magic and its by Thomas w. Phelan Ph.D. it goes into further info and about older children. I hope this helps. Its helped me, even with all my experince and it really helps with stayinv calm and teachinv the child every behaviour that you dont like.God bless. Sarah.
Oh wow thank you so much for sharing Sarah! Your explanation of this method was very thoughtful and I’m going to try it out. I’m very grateful for your wisdom and humbled for you to stop by my channel ❤️
You remind me of my gurl friends. I want to call you and let you vent the toddler phase out. Know that Im with you and you CAN do this. Isaiah 40:29 Philippians 4:13
Hola Daisy, mi bebé también tiene 8 meses, quiero preguntarte cómo te va con la transición de tu bebé a su cuarto? Actualmente mi bebé duerme conmigo pero creo que ya es tiempo de que duerma en su cuna (en mi cuarto pero en su cuna). Alguna recomendación que me puedas dar?
No me va muy bien 🥺 aún no duerme toda la noche y ha estado despertando por lo menos 3x cada noche. La noche peor me despertó más de 5 veces! Entonces ahorita acuesto a los dos a la misma hora en su recámara juntos pero cada noche mi bebé vuelve a la cama nos nosotros. Si lo dejo llorando despierta a mi niño grande entonces mejor me lo llevo conmigo para también descansar mejor. Pero estoy batallando demasiado que se quede dormido 🥲 Tu bebé toma siestas en su cuna? Yo empecé con acostumbrándolo a la cuna durante el día para que no se le haga extraño durmiendo allí sobre noche.
@@mrsdaisymama creo que he super malacostumbrado a mi bebé, durante el día la duermo en brazos y con el pecho y en la noche en mi cama con el pecho. Compré un curso de higiene del sueño para ayudarme a que poco a poco pueda conciliar el sueño ella sola en su cuna, lo implementaré en unos días, espero me vaya bien. Haz intentado pasar su cuna a tu cuarto para que cuando se despierte no despierte a tu otro bebé? Tal vez eso te funcione más.
GIRL YES. It was very disturbing! I was thinking to myself I gotta do a deep dive on this chapter because I’m trying to find the moral of this story 😩😭😭 lol how’d you know!!
@@mrsdaisymama Thank you Daisy for answering my comment, love your content, find it so inspiring💕 Praise the Lord for you! I don’t know why it’s in the Bible but it’s similar-in a way-to Genesis 19. These chapters 19 HAHAHHA. It’s like one of those chapters that you read once and never forget😳😖 hahahah. God bless!!!!
My daughter is 18 special needs and us STILL in that toddler phase. Screaming. Gagging peeing self when upset. Shaking. Raging. Grinding teeth hitting herself😢. I know its hard but please find comfort that it will be short fir you
I appreciate you loving food. I do not. Im thankful Most things make my colon cranky. The things i can eat i am thankful for. For me food is fuel Its neat to see others eat so well. I gag and struggle to eat with stress. I lost weight from this but i am trying to snack often to not lose more. My fav foods are raisins, quinoa, gf bread, fig bar, rice chex cereal, oat tortilla i make, oatmeal, dates, chicken and ground turkey
I'm so glad I came across your video today, it was just what I needed to hear right now. I'm a mother of 5. Ages 13, 6, 4, 2 and 9months. The struggle is REAL. We have only been in our own home for just over a year and I'm still trying to figure this whole thing out. I read my Bible every morning and it's helped me immensely! But what you've said has really resonated with me. Especially about getting back in church. I know the Holy Spirit has been putting that on my heart lately and this was just another confirmation. I need to just get over my fear of being judged and be obedient. God's judgment is all that really matters anyway. Again thank you for the video! I'm praying for you and your family ❤
Brittney there is a community of women in church waiting just for you! Nobody in the church is perfect, and I love that when you get in community and get to know others, you’ll wonder why you ever thought you were the only one with problems you’re working through. We all have struggles and we all sin. But you may not recognize it until you get into friendships and get deeper. Definitely take those steps to get back into the Lord’s house ❤️
I want to encourage you and not discourage you. Ot sounds like you are doing better than me at getting Bible time in. But please consider a King James Version Bible. God warns us about changing one jot or tittle of his word. And the other versions have done that. You can look up videos on how the KJV version was written. What little I know about it is AMAZING.
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I’m grateful for the Bible helping me get through a rough time ❤️ I know I’m usually someone that offers prayer and encouragement, but I’m the one that needs it from you all today. Thank you for walking alongside me, sister. Sending a hug your way. 🫂
Thank you so much for your open heart! It helped me a lot to remember I am not alone in daily struggles. I just wanted to mention that you are doing such a great job raising your two kids and prioritising God at first place. It is such a blessing to have! You know, our house can be not so clean enough, but our hearts opened towards God's Word and His perfect will for us. Life is overall not so aesthetic as we might think and sometimes some raw thoughts and knowledge of truth are just what we need at the moment. God bless your family and have your hearts in His Holy purity and unconditional love.
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Hey sis, love your videos! I wanted to encourage you that you aren't the only one who has been going through trying to have self control when it comes to our babies and even spouses. What has been helping me is repeating Galatians 5 the Fruit of the Spirit and reminding myself what it is. Also just being honest with the Lord about my emotions and that im having a hard time has helped a lot as well. Bless you sister, your a great mommy!
I 1000% that bringing our emotions to God helps so much. We are in this together ❤️ thank you so much for your encouraging words!
11:21 someone once said, it's not their job or responsibility to regulate us. Ever since then I looked at it differently. I've been working on myself every day and it has helped. Becoming more gentle, slow to anger, the fruits of the spirit. One needs to take care of ourselves, we can't pour from an empty cup. I know it's easier said than done. My observation is that it steams more from overstimulation and overwhelm, rather than their actions. Their actions just happen to be what sets off all the bottled up feelings and emotions. And it's not fair to take it out on them. So we must really work on ourselves. It's crazy how I thought being a mom was just to give birth and feed them. Til I grew up and saw this beautiful world so differently. Such a gift to teach a human being how to go about life in this world! ❤️ WE get to do that for them 💙
I feel your struggle with mum rage. Northern Irish mama again, with 2 under 2 & my toddler is almost 2! I have found that starting my day before the girls get up helps me so much, so that my cup is full and able to pour out from that- not on empty.
Sleepwise, I was a nurse and midwife before I had my kids, then studied a masters degree on breastfeeding and maternal mental health which interestingly a lot of the research overlapped with sleeping (as that impacts mental health). We have a safe co sleep environment and have nicknamed our bedroom the family bed. It works really well for all of us and I can't recommend it enough. Love your content. Praying for you ❤
Hi Daisy
This is crazy, I’ve been watching TH-cam for YEARS and have never made a handle to comment on a video. So here’s my first!
The Lord sent this video my way. I know nothing is by coincidence, He is in control of everything. This is proof. This is the video (and channel) I didn’t know I needed. I feel like I’m watching myself in the mirror. You’ve address so many feelings I’ve been having lately in my life as a homemaker and trying my best to do God’s work. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your vulnerability, your love for those around you and most importantly your love for the Lord. I’m so excited to watch the rest of your content and look forward to your upcoming video on prioritizing your husband and marriage. You’ve encouraged me to reach out and I’m so glad I did!
God Bless 💜
Jamie! I am humbled and honestly flattered to be your first comment 🥹❤️ thank you so much for sharing your heart with me. That’s so cool we can be so similar yet come from such unique backgrounds! Hopefully I get the opportunity to learn more about you as we chat in future videos too. I’m thankful for your vulnerability as well, it’s truly beautiful God fearing women like you that makes this a community ❤️ your support and encouragement is definitely appreciated. Sending a big hug your way! 🫂
Oh im sorry you are not getting enough sleep😢. I get that. Worship music helps boost my mood when i cant sleep well too
Oh that’s a good tip, using worship music!
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Thank you for watching ❤️
I’m Filipina and I’m glad you love Filipino food. Thank you for your encouraging videos. I’m dealing with anxiety these past few days and watching your videos help me a lot. God bless you and your family. ❤
My husband is Filipino so I try to learn as many dishes as I can! I think I eat Filipino food more than him 😂 I’m so happy to hear my videos can be a way to help you relax ❤️
Oh, Mama...I am reminded in Ecclesiastes 3:1 "There is a time for everything, and season for every activity under the heavens"
I have a 3 month old and a 2.5 year old...in all things God is good. It's just so hard sometimes, though.
That’s such a powerful scripture I will reference often! Through Christ we can do this 👏🏼🥰
The bless you🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. He is a doll❤❤
Thank you!! 🤗❤️
Awww. I listen to Tara-leigh cobble when i first wake up. She is such a blessing❤❤❤
That’s so cool! I’ve listened to her Bible recaps a few times when my toddler doesn’t let me read lol !
Hi 😊 my name is Carla and I stumbled upon you page. #1 i am a new Christian #2 I'm filipinaaaa!! #3 i have a 2 year old boy who has been going through it.
I am right there with you and you are such a blessing and encouragement. Thank you for your video! So happy to support you and I'll be praying for you!!! ❤❤❤
Hi Carla nice to meet you!! That is so exciting you recently dedicated your life to Christ, congratulations!! Best decision you could ever make. I’m Mexican but married into a Filipino family. I am slowly learning more and more Filipino dishes so our children grow up around both cultures ❤️🇲🇽🇵🇭 thank you so much for your support. I’m excited you’re here and for us to continue chatting in future videos!
I love ur channel so much. Man hearing u talk about Martha was powerful im going get that book thank u for being so transparent and not try be perfect content creator. So much to relate to as a new mom
It’s been such an amazing book!!! It’s been taking me months to finish reading it, but we are chugging along 😅 it would be awesome to do a book club on it one day!
Yes my husband is such a blessing❤❤❤
Amen! ❤️
Right there in the thick of toddlerhood as well with a 5 month old 🙃. My days are filled with lots of prayers haha but I’m so happy you’re doing a video about community! A big struggle of mine is my children getting sick from church 😔 it’s just so tempting to isolate. I know being sick is not fun for them and it’s also really hard on me
I’m excited for that video too! I’ll work on getting that out in the month of October. My kids gets sick from church too, but also from going to the park and any other outing 😅 there are definitely weeks where we have to skip church and play dates because we’re sick but that’s part of the course. It feels like I have to get back into the routine all over again when I lose my flow!
Yes and Anem❤. Every morning I NEED my daily life giving bread🍞🕊️
You know it sister ❤️❤️
Praying for you and your toddler to have peace❤❤❤
Thank you Cathy!
😊Aww, I see you are watching Dawn from the minimal mom 🥰 I also keep her and Cas from Clutterbug here on YT in the background as I am cleaning the house.
Dawn has helped me SO MUCH! She is my absolute favorite and inspires me whenever I watch her. So cool you noticed that 🥰
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Yes, time with God reading His Word has been my lifeline! & I look forward to waking up to that quiet time! Thanks for this video as we are also going through an unexpected hard time with sickness in our family. God is good and these trials help me lean on Him fully! ❤ toddlerhood is difficult but it will pass. I recommend the books M is for Mama and Hard is not the Same as Bad- both by Abbie Halberstadt.
And thanks for the reminder to prioritize time with the Lord as we are both a little Martha & Mary.
Oh no I pray they have a quick recovery and healing in Jesus name ❤️ but I love that you are so aware of your dependency on Jesus. That’s what He truly wants from us! Oh I’ll have to add those books to my read list. I love the book title “Hard is not the same as bad,” it definitely peaks my interest!
Oh yes I want to be more like Mary 🙏🏼
I enjoyed this video. It has hit home so much. I'm a SAHM and all my family live in a different State and it gets lonely. I have a church but still is hard to connect and feel alone a lot.
I know what you mean sister. Sometimes it's hard to go to church because my 26 month old runs around everywhere. If I do go, I can't really pay attention to service let alone speak to people. Please know I'm praying for you and all mommy's because sometimes it feels like we are exiled from adult interaction. We are doing the Lord's work and we need to encourage one another. Take the time to greet and pray for eachother. We are not alone
That’s how I feel sometimes too! I have been looking for the right church for my toddler and I as a single mom, it feels like it’s 10 times harder. But Jesus is my husband. He is all we need🙏🏻😇🥰
Aw Lizy I promise there are tons of moms feeling the exact thing as you. Keep showing up to church. Sometimes we have to put ourselves out there to meet friends. It’s not “easy” but it’s worth the effort when you gain a sister in Christ in your corner.
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Thank you Holy Spirit 🤍
I commented in another video but just reminding you that I'm in the thick of it too with a 2.5 year old. This part of toddlerhood is much harder than I ever imagined it would be. For whatever reason, this week specifically a switch seemed to have been switched for my daughter and she's been having less meltdowns (still daily with crying/yelling out but not lasting as long as before) and she's been comprehending so much more. My husband and I feel like we can breathe again because she's back to being her sweet and silly self. All I can do is thank God because I have been praying for patience like you can't believe. I know God is with you during the challenging moments you're having too. It's something I have to keep reminding myself.
Oh that makes me so happy she is having better behavior! It’s so great when you see their progress and development. He heard your prayers mama ❤️ I’m grateful we are not alone!
I also have a 2.5 year old and I am being TESTED daily...at least I know after this I'll be much more patient with people.😂
@@trezanjeri3810 2.5 years will teach us all so fast that we need to have patience lol.
This was very encouraging and convicting to but in a good way ....I have 3 year old and a 4 months old and honestly it's been tough some days am sleep deprived and I end up skipping my Bible reading time and prayer all together but this is a great challenge for me to try my best with the grace of God I can do it 😊😊much love from Kenya 🇰🇪 in Africa❤a❤❤❤
You can do it mama, just pick a time where it’s convenient for you and be consistent with it ❤️ it’s what helped me make it a habit and now my day doesn’t feel right unless I open up my Word. Thank you so much for watching and sending a hug your way! 🫂
Thank you for this video. The part where you shared about feeling lonely really spoke to me. I am new to the Word and do not attend church. Where I live I honestly feel like I do not "fit ib" or belong (racial differences,age). I do have little ones so I try my best to include myself in school activities but then again, I am extremely shy (introvert) so I make it very awkard. It is very hard for me to iniate any type of conversation so most times I just stand alone and quiet. I will be having a playdate this Saturday and I am STRESSING so much. I am praying to God since I set it up asking for strength and just be myself. But thanks for sharing ❤ makes me feel less alone.
I know it affected me too, I had 3 back to back girls, now ive been finally succeeded NFP for 2 year's and this help, but went to lots of mom rage and frustration . My kids are a true blessing and there is joy among tears.My next step is stop scrolling the internet during my free time
That’s amazing you were able to learn NFP! I won’t go back to birth control but know I need to be disciplined if I will use NFP. I’m working on not scrolling so much too ❤️
I love listening you as I literally experience everything you share in your videos and it is truly validating!
Something we struggle with is attending church regularly as church falls during my 1 year olds nap time. She gets so cranky in the service and will not fall asleep in my arms, so my husband and I take turns holding her in the hall and we miss the message. We often tell each other it’s just easier to watch at home than deal with her screaming and squirming because she is so tired and wants to sleep in her crib. Any tips?
I really needed this.
I’m glad you were able to connect with this video ❤️
I love how he ran to grab his Jesus books. 😂 So cute. But I completely understand what it feels like to be surrounded by people that love you and still feel alone.😢 the beautiful thing is the Jesus says he’ll never leave us nor forsake us. 🙌🏾
Isn’t it so sweet!!! It makes me happy every time 🥹🥰
I needed to hear that, thank you 🦋
I’m so glad it resonated with you! I’d love to pray for you if you want to share ❤️
Just do the next right thing. Whats done is done. Shake it off. Bring to God and move on
I love that, “do the next right thing.” ❤️
Here's some encouragement from a mom of 3 who has been a mom for 7 years now and a Biblical counselor: Imagine the words "image of God" are written across their foreheads when times get tough., I had my first two back to back and I had to consciously remember that these kids who are experiencing life for the first time do not have fully developed brains yet.... they do not know or have the ability to regulate their own emotions. So when we mom rage out we're teaching them that's how to regulate themselves and it's a vicious cycle. The brain is not fully developed until about 25 years old and so from birth to then we have to be extra intentional about regulating our emotions in healthy way. Say to your toddler "I can't understand or help you when you scream, try using words so I can help you" and that always works with my own kids. Ask Jesus to help you see them the way He does. I hope this helps ❤
That’s a very powerful reminder!! Thank you for sharing your insight and knowledge sister. I know this will help not only me but other women reading this! ❤️
Thank you for this video and sending prayers your way girl! I’m struggling as well with sleep in my family and I am not my best because of it right now. I can relate to mom rage… Love your channel❤❤❤❤❤
I’m comforted I’m not alone but feel for you with what we’re both going through. Thank you for your prayers and support! ❤️
Him getting his bible. That country song im your buck a roo i wanna be like you and do all you do dad song🥹
My 2 year old does the same thing with me every morning! She sees me reading my Bible and asks to get her "bible" which is just a flap book about creation haha. It's always hard to actually retain what I'm reading when she is sitting next to me with hers, but I know it's something that's going to form a habbit in her which I think means more than me just getting to read in that moment.
I totally agree with you Kelly, it’s so much more than that! You are literally showing her your love for Jesus and discipline to reading your Bible. I love that for you and your family! ❤️🙏🏼
No seizures for julianne my daughter praise God today❤. I am calling dr again asking fir help for a mood enhancer med. she is suffering with autism mood extremes making eating, toileting, sleeping difficult. Huge screaming fits over 2 hrs daily😢. I trust God to be my peace when I see none. He will make a way and it will be ok because He has got me
In Jesus name the new medication will help her 🙏🏼🙏🏼 you got this Cathy!! She is so blessed to have you.
My daughter is too aggressive to be around other people. She also has birth defect in feet and walking around is hard so we limit it. I know you are having a hard time but being outside and with others is awesome❤❤❤. I have been isolated for 18 years. I cant do fam gatherings either
The Lord sees you Cathy! You will be blessed abundantly for all the fruit of the spirit you have grown caring for your family. It’s difficult to acknowledge that some of our rewards won’t be here but in Heaven. Sending a hug your way!
@@mrsdaisymama thank you. It is ok. Jesus holds me up and I will keep serving my family even if my life is very sheltered. I am needed here and I trust God
Hi. Im a mother to 9 and my youngest is now 9 yo. I am also a grandmother now to 3. I have recently found a book about discipline with ages 2 to 12. It is the 1,2,3 method and i wish id found it years ago. I think its from the 80s? But when a child does a behaviour that you want to stop you count 1 and the next bad behavior is 2 and when they do the third thing, it's 3. Then they go to their bed room for a minute per year of their age. No emotion from the parent and no discussion, if they kick up and dont go, you add another minute each time they complain. They can do what they want in their room but no screens. The idea is to remove them from what thwy were doing that you didnt like. You have to get to 3 before they go to their rrom and it has to be within a 20 min period or it resets to 0. If they do somethinv terrible you can immediately say 3 and thats it....room. the book is really easy to read its called 123 magic and its by Thomas w. Phelan Ph.D. it goes into further info and about older children. I hope this helps. Its helped me, even with all my experince and it really helps with stayinv calm and teachinv the child every behaviour that you dont like.God bless. Sarah.
Oh wow thank you so much for sharing Sarah! Your explanation of this method was very thoughtful and I’m going to try it out. I’m very grateful for your wisdom and humbled for you to stop by my channel ❤️
@mrsdaisymama oh thank you so much. You're doing a great job mama. Let me know how it goes. X
You remind me of my gurl friends. I want to call you and let you vent the toddler phase out. Know that Im with you and you CAN do this.
Isaiah 40:29
Philippians 4:13
I recommend using the back burners.wen cooking ive kearn no matter how much u teach the kids about danger in the kitchen they can get hurt 😢
That’s so true Karina! That’s a habit I will have to work on for sure. ❤️🙏🏼
Hola Daisy, mi bebé también tiene 8 meses, quiero preguntarte cómo te va con la transición de tu bebé a su cuarto? Actualmente mi bebé duerme conmigo pero creo que ya es tiempo de que duerma en su cuna (en mi cuarto pero en su cuna). Alguna recomendación que me puedas dar?
No me va muy bien 🥺 aún no duerme toda la noche y ha estado despertando por lo menos 3x cada noche. La noche peor me despertó más de 5 veces! Entonces ahorita acuesto a los dos a la misma hora en su recámara juntos pero cada noche mi bebé vuelve a la cama nos nosotros. Si lo dejo llorando despierta a mi niño grande entonces mejor me lo llevo conmigo para también descansar mejor. Pero estoy batallando demasiado que se quede dormido 🥲
Tu bebé toma siestas en su cuna? Yo empecé con acostumbrándolo a la cuna durante el día para que no se le haga extraño durmiendo allí sobre noche.
@@mrsdaisymama creo que he super malacostumbrado a mi bebé, durante el día la duermo en brazos y con el pecho y en la noche en mi cama con el pecho. Compré un curso de higiene del sueño para ayudarme a que poco a poco pueda conciliar el sueño ella sola en su cuna, lo implementaré en unos días, espero me vaya bien.
Haz intentado pasar su cuna a tu cuarto para que cuando se despierte no despierte a tu otro bebé? Tal vez eso te funcione más.
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JUDGES 19!!!
GIRL YES. It was very disturbing! I was thinking to myself I gotta do a deep dive on this chapter because I’m trying to find the moral of this story 😩😭😭 lol how’d you know!!
@@mrsdaisymama Thank you Daisy for answering my comment, love your content, find it so inspiring💕 Praise the Lord for you! I don’t know why it’s in the Bible but it’s similar-in a way-to Genesis 19. These chapters 19 HAHAHHA. It’s like one of those chapters that you read once and never forget😳😖 hahahah. God bless!!!!
My daughter is 18 special needs and us STILL in that toddler phase. Screaming. Gagging peeing self when upset. Shaking. Raging. Grinding teeth hitting herself😢. I know its hard but please find comfort that it will be short fir you
Perspective really changes things ❤️ praying for you and Julianne!
I listen to esv audio bible❤. I dont like audio books. Im a big book reader but not much time.
I’m not a huge fan of audio books either! But im trying to listen to the Bible more often too
I appreciate you loving food. I do not. Im thankful
Most things make my colon cranky.
The things i can eat i am thankful for. For me food is fuel
Its neat to see others eat so well. I gag and struggle to eat with stress. I lost weight from this but i am trying to snack often to not lose more. My fav foods are raisins, quinoa, gf bread, fig bar, rice chex cereal, oat tortilla i make, oatmeal, dates, chicken and ground turkey
Sounds like you eat a healthy diet!! That’s going to do your body so well in the long run
I'm so glad I came across your video today, it was just what I needed to hear right now. I'm a mother of 5. Ages 13, 6, 4, 2 and 9months. The struggle is REAL. We have only been in our own home for just over a year and I'm still trying to figure this whole thing out. I read my Bible every morning and it's helped me immensely! But what you've said has really resonated with me. Especially about getting back in church. I know the Holy Spirit has been putting that on my heart lately and this was just another confirmation. I need to just get over my fear of being judged and be obedient. God's judgment is all that really matters anyway. Again thank you for the video! I'm praying for you and your family ❤
Brittney there is a community of women in church waiting just for you! Nobody in the church is perfect, and I love that when you get in community and get to know others, you’ll wonder why you ever thought you were the only one with problems you’re working through. We all have struggles and we all sin. But you may not recognize it until you get into friendships and get deeper. Definitely take those steps to get back into the Lord’s house ❤️
@mrsdaisymama I know you're right. Thank you for your encouragement, I definitely will! ❤️
I have to use the audio Bible because I don’t find it easy to understand the Bible especially King James.
It’s such a great resource! ❤️
I want to encourage you and not discourage you. Ot sounds like you are doing better than me at getting Bible time in. But please consider a King James Version Bible. God warns us about changing one jot or tittle of his word. And the other versions have done that. You can look up videos on how the KJV version was written. What little I know about it is AMAZING.
I recently picked up a KJV Bible at the thrift store sister! I’m going to try using it more often. ❤️🙏🏼🥰
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