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I went on about 6-7 casual cafe dates in Makati and Angeles when I met my wife 22+ years ago and none of them asked to bring someone along. They were all professional working women, living away from family . Actually, my wife did bring someone unannounced and left immediately after sizing me up and told her “he’s fine, have a good time.”
I ended a relationship with a Filipina I was trying to be serious with because of too many monetary demands from her family members. I never regretted the decision.
Hey move on. you'll find somebody soon. Take your time. No need to rush observed their actions some are really nice and they will treat you really good.
If she brought a chaperone in your case, she would probably kept you busy while the other one robbed you, working as a team. It happened to a friend of mine. rotten girls work together.
I knew a guy who going to me this girl's parents and he asked her 3 times , just you and your parents ? and she yes. When his taxi pull up in across from the restaurant, he saw the girl was there her parents and 10 other people. He told the taxi driver to take him back to the hotel and he moved to to a different room in the hotel and the hotel not to tell anyone that he was there.
I remember Reekay having a similar situation to what you said at the end, where the date brought a friend. He and the date didn't really hit it off, but got along really well with the friend and dated her for a while. I guess having a chaperone isn't the worst thing if it's a friend or closely-aged relative. Plan B and all.
Hey Michael how's it going? Have you heard anything out of Ruler Girl? She hasn't posted anything in forever.... which is probably a good sign, maybe she met someone and wanted to get off-line. Did you ever make it over to PH? You were headed to Cebu right? Peace, Billy Goat
I met a girl in Cebu who brought her younger sister. I would have been fine with it if she brought her more than once. She was a great girl but not that pretty. I regret not pursuing her. She was fit and thin. Looks fade but character doesn't. That was before the Plandemic. I am ready now to move there permanently. A girl like her is actually a true beauty.
Hey Gio, I Finally went ahead and subbed your channel. You and Maya make a cute couple, Congrats. Thanks for the summary on Chaperones.... hopefully I will make it back over soon so I can put your advice to work for myself. Peace and Love, B Goat
My wife’s sister N cousin went to the airport with her on our first meet. Then we headed straight to Jollibee the 3 of them ate, not me it was almost midnight. Then they follows us all the way to my hotel in taxi I paid. Once at the hotel they asked for fare to go back home which was puzzling to me. Why didn’t they go home from jollibee I wondered. They didn’t have a peso, and was shy to ask me so they made my wife ask. I didn’t really know any better in first visit but I told my wife if I knew then what I didn’t understand then I would have said too bad and possibly end the relationship with you. But over all it all worked out and we are married 12 years now.
Should be talked about prior to just showing up. That is disrespectful to the man. If you show up to meet someone bringing extea people you should expect him to just leave. But keep in mind the guy might like your friend more than you. Also, a guy can learn a lot about someone by seeing who she hangs out with. What would the girl think if the guy shows up to the date with his buddies?
You need to be flexible here. Especially if you are looking for a very young Filipina. Meeting a Foreigner for a date might be one the biggest moments in her young life. You should be more careful with the ones that want to rush into your hotel.. so they can tell you she’s pregnant. Fun fact…. You’re not the Father
You bring up a good topic that most TH-camrs don’t talk about. The expectations of family for financial support and gifts from Western relatives are high. And compared to Western cultures, Filipino families don’t go Dutch.
I know for me. The first lady I dated in the philippines.. Brought a neighbor of hers . When we got where we needed.. The neighbor got out of the taxi and disappeared..
Great to have the other side of things from a PH viewpoint. Feel for you on the date with the chaperone who was more interested in you than your date. Bet she won't bring a pretty girl with her if she ever dates a foreigner again. J
Yes, the chaperone thing, that may be Asia-wide? The thing is, how do you get to know if you'd like to spend time just with your date, if they're always accompanied by others? You don't want to be dating several people at the same time, right? That's how it is when you've always got chaperones hanging around. You're dating a group; not a single person. So dating someone with a chaperone/s (group dating) needs to stop pretty quickly, otherwise it's just group dating 🤷
Hey, Filipina when you go for a date don't bring any chaperone, Because this person is not paying for your chaperone. the person you're dating might not not come back for you. If i'm the guy forget it. you need a chaperone? then go by yourself. date yourself. This is one thing tell your wife to share this to her friends in the future. Because not all filipinas knows about this. This is just me. I don't know the rest about paying for chaperone if you go on a date.
I understand your position. But it can be extremely intimidating for a girl with little to no experience to meet up with a big foreign guy for the first time. I would say that 1 chaperone for the first meeting would be OK. After that, no. But we all have different ideas about how we should run our lives. How much would that extra person actually cost? $5? Compare that to the Western gal that expects you to pay for her $100 meal on the first date. And only went out because she was hungry and has no interest in ever seeing you again. That is what I am hearing dating a modern woman is like now.
If it's a guy she's never met before, she may feel safer bringing someone along. If you can't deal with it then you need to educate yourself about the culture here.
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I went on about 6-7 casual cafe dates in Makati and Angeles when I met my wife 22+ years ago and none of them asked to bring someone along. They were all professional working women, living away from family . Actually, my wife did bring someone unannounced and left immediately after sizing me up and told her “he’s fine, have a good time.”
I ended a relationship with a Filipina I was trying to be serious with because of too many monetary demands from her family members. I never regretted the decision.
My first 3 days in the Philippines went horribly. I was robbed by my LDR. I want a chaperone. lol
Hey move on. you'll find somebody soon. Take your time. No need to rush observed their actions some are really nice and they will treat you really good.
Lmao! Holy crap dude. 😂 that sucks
You've posted about this on every PH channel. get over it already and move on.
Embrace your single life. Don't jump in to any situation so fast af
If she brought a chaperone in your case, she would probably kept you busy while the other one robbed you, working as a team. It happened to a friend of mine. rotten girls work together.
I knew a guy who going to me this girl's parents and he asked her 3 times , just you and your parents ? and she yes.
When his taxi pull up in across from the restaurant, he saw the girl was there her parents and 10 other people.
He told the taxi driver to take him back to the hotel and he moved to to a different room in the hotel and the hotel not to tell anyone that he was there.
I remember Reekay having a similar situation to what you said at the end, where the date brought a friend. He and the date didn't really hit it off, but got along really well with the friend and dated her for a while. I guess having a chaperone isn't the worst thing if it's a friend or closely-aged relative. Plan B and all.
Hey Michael how's it going? Have you heard anything out of Ruler Girl? She hasn't posted anything in forever.... which is probably a good sign, maybe she met someone and wanted to get off-line. Did you ever make it over to PH? You were headed to Cebu right? Peace, Billy Goat
I met a girl in Cebu who brought her younger sister. I would have been fine with it if she brought her more than once. She was a great girl but not that pretty. I regret not pursuing her. She was fit and thin. Looks fade but character doesn't. That was before the Plandemic. I am ready now to move there permanently. A girl like her is actually a true beauty.
Hey Gio, I Finally went ahead and subbed your channel. You and Maya make a cute couple, Congrats. Thanks for the summary on Chaperones.... hopefully I will make it back over soon so I can put your advice to work for myself. Peace and Love, B Goat
Thank you for subbing and your support.
First time I've seen Mia. Good job!
My wife’s sister N cousin went to the airport with her on our first meet. Then we headed straight to Jollibee the 3 of them ate, not me it was almost midnight. Then they follows us all the way to my hotel in taxi I paid. Once at the hotel they asked for fare to go back home which was puzzling to me. Why didn’t they go home from jollibee I wondered. They didn’t have a peso, and was shy to ask me so they made my wife ask. I didn’t really know any better in first visit but I told my wife if I knew then what I didn’t understand then I would have said too bad and possibly end the relationship with you. But over all it all worked out and we are married 12 years now.
Should be talked about prior to just showing up. That is disrespectful to the man. If you show up to meet someone bringing extea people you should expect him to just leave. But keep in mind the guy might like your friend more than you. Also, a guy can learn a lot about someone by seeing who she hangs out with.
What would the girl think if the guy shows up to the date with his buddies?
Why disrespectful to the man? It's common here even on all Filipino dates
You need to be flexible here. Especially if you are looking for a very young Filipina.
Meeting a Foreigner for a date might be one the biggest moments in her young life.
You should be more careful with the ones that want to rush into your hotel.. so they can tell you she’s pregnant.
Fun fact…. You’re not the Father
Im a Filipino-USC. Date with chaperon happen only in rural area maybe. But Suburb setting, a no-no.
You bring up a good topic that most TH-camrs don’t talk about. The expectations of family for financial support and gifts from Western relatives are high. And compared to Western cultures, Filipino families don’t go Dutch.
Thank you for the tips. I am kinda a shy guy but I am getting better.
I know for me. The first lady I dated in the philippines.. Brought a neighbor of hers . When we got where we needed.. The neighbor got out of the taxi and disappeared..
I feel like the chaperone needs to be distance, give some space, stay out of the conversation. Watch the date, not be in the date,
I took out her entire family to dinner. We had a great time. Love her family 👍❤️
Great to have the other side of things from a PH viewpoint. Feel for you on the date with the chaperone who was more interested in you than your date. Bet she won't bring a pretty girl with her if she ever dates a foreigner again. J
Yes, the chaperone thing, that may be Asia-wide? The thing is, how do you get to know if you'd like to spend time just with your date, if they're always accompanied by others? You don't want to be dating several people at the same time, right? That's how it is when you've always got chaperones hanging around. You're dating a group; not a single person. So dating someone with a chaperone/s (group dating) needs to stop pretty quickly, otherwise it's just group dating 🤷
Hey, Filipina when you go for a date don't bring any chaperone, Because this person is not paying for your chaperone. the person you're dating might not not come back for you. If i'm the guy forget it. you need a chaperone? then go by yourself. date yourself. This is one thing tell your wife to share this to her friends in the future. Because not all filipinas knows about this. This is just me. I don't know the rest about paying for chaperone if you go on a date.
I understand your position. But it can be extremely intimidating for a girl with little to no experience to meet up with a big foreign guy for the first time. I would say that 1 chaperone for the first meeting would be OK. After that, no. But we all have different ideas about how we should run our lives. How much would that extra person actually cost? $5? Compare that to the Western gal that expects you to pay for her $100 meal on the first date. And only went out because she was hungry and has no interest in ever seeing you again. That is what I am hearing dating a modern woman is like now.
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No Chaperone Period. Why do you have to go on a date if you one extra person, that's dumb.
If it's a guy she's never met before, she may feel safer bringing someone along. If you can't deal with it then you need to educate yourself about the culture here.
It's normal here. Many don't feel comfortable with a guy they never met
You would never make it dating an Amish girl,,, every date until marriage is chaperoned!!!
Isn't lechon like 300+ dollars? That is a lot of money for a party. If there were no foreigners, how do they pay for it? specially in the province?
You aren't going to buy a whole pig for a first date. We'll, at least I'm not.
A lot of family involvement it would seem.
two words : trust issues
Philippines is wierd and different from the rest of the world