@@acl1504 I understand how hard it can be to admit to need help or to hear things, but just remember there is nothing wrong with needing it, it doesn't make you weak, in fact it makes you stronger cause you can admit it (coming from someone who has the hardest time asking for help)
I´m happy to hear you found my audio relating, I hope it helped. It's my pleasure making these but you're welcome. And thank you for the sub, it's great knowing I can try and help you further
My ex used to tell me things like "You're not manly enough"' "You're too naive"', "You're too slow", "You cry too much","I'm not your mom". Today I understand I'm the way I'm not just because my autism but because I love this kid inside of me. Not like I don't want to grow up, still have responsibilities and have to mask an serious adult when the situation call...But feel much lighter when I can be silly, Use my Looney tunes plastic mug and do whatever I love to do. Those words still hurting a lot.. Don't know if I'll ever find someone that will accept this side of me.. Find someone that I can be romantic, cheerful or cry when I need to.... I'm also afraid of trusting someone again and being judge all over again... This video is so beautiful but trigger again that doubt of "Would someone really love those traits?" I know people like that exist....but would I found this special person ?.... If I found her....hope I can fully trust in her love with all my heart with no doubts..about myself.
First I wanna apologize, I didn´t mean to trigger anything bad. From what you said it sounds like your ex wasn't the best person to date. Men are allowed to cry and to be as emotional as women. We are all humans and we should never feel ashamed for how we feel. I´m really sorry that she said those things to you, you really didn´t deserve it. I understand how scary it can be being yourself to someone, putting all your trust in them. I´m still learning as well from my past relationships, but my partner now has shown me a completely different side, he truly accepts me for me, it's healing me and I´m sure that one day you will find someone like that to. Someone who will let you be vulnerable and feel your emotions. Someone who will give you the time you need to open up.
@@ItsrosaASMRNo need to apologize at all. Your video was very great, I just felt to vent a bit. Very happy to hear healthy and good relationships are still growing in this chaotic time. Thanks for the kind reply and cheering message. Cheers for you and anyone who read this comment, hope you all the best.
@@LionheartWorks Thank you for letting me know. I´m happy that you could vent here, I want it to be a safe place for everyone. I´m glad we could have this short talk, cheers to you as well.
glad you made it through that, man. I'm searching for someone as well. Dealt with similar things through school. (Honestly putting an autistic kid in mainstream school is a terrible idea) so I've felt how it feels. Stay strong
This is wonderful ❤I have autism and I can relate to this. I can get overwhelmed if I’m in a crowded place for too long like in a store or a party. I’m also introverted and need time for myself. But I enjoy being with family and friends. My special interests are Disney, Pixar, Studio Ghibli and other animations. But not adults cartoons. They are not my thing. I also love Harry Potter and my Hogwarts house is Hufflepuff💛🖤🦡Just subscribed to your channel and I’m going to check out your other videos ❤Btw I’m from Sweden 🇸🇪🌸🌻🌼🌺🌹🌷🪻
This audio really helped a lot for today, one of my final presentations went pretty poorly because I was totally overwhelmed and this offered such good comfort for all of those worries and awful feelings, thank you :]
I am very sorry to hear that, I understand how stressful it can be but remember it doesn't define you plus I´m sure that if you weren't overwhelmed it would have gone better, so remember to be easy on yourself, treat yourself to something you enjoy. You deserve it. I´m glad to hear my audios helped and I hope they can continue to help in the far future.
@ItsrosaASMR Thank you so much :] I've been feeling better since then even if I'm still a little anxious over things like grades, but I'm finding ways to keep myself calm and audios like these are a really nice way of easing my worries
I'm autistic and have been in survival mode for 12 years now. Suffering in silence and not feeling loved anymore, Touch starved, etc. I feel beyond empty when I deal with my depression. The weight I carry is so exhausting. I'm overstimulated and emotionally wounded on top of that. But this made me feel loved and cared for again.
I am truly sorry to hear that. I understand how hard it can be. Suffering in silence is never a good idea, but I understand how hard it can be to open up to other people or ask for help. I can only imagine how hard it is but you are so strong for still fighting and I am so proud of you. I feel honored and speechless to hear that I were able to make you feel that way again. It truly reminds me why I make them. Thank you so much for sharing and I hope that they can continue to help and I hope that with time it can get better. I believe in it and you. If you ever want to you are free to join my server, there are lovely people there to either talk to, play with, ask for help and etc. discord.gg/V796eucGkR
While I don’t have autism I do relate to this story in a way, you may recognise me from the video you did about past trauma and it was due to that which caused me to push away everyone and it was around the 6 month mark of dating my girlfriend now wife that I had a mental breakdown while she was shopping with her friends and I locked myself in the bathroom with a belt after writing a note saying ‘don’t open the bathroom door, call the cops’ but I felt something in my mind holding me back from ending it all, long story short my wife came back early and along with her friends broke the door lock and carefully got the belt from my hand and did end up calling a doctor and psychiatrist and I began going to therapy which I continue to do to this day, now I focus on taking care of the love of my life and our two wonderful kids, thank you for crafting this stories and bringing them to life as they truly do help so many people
I think even tho people don't have autism they can still relate to it since a lot of people including me aren't the best in social situations. I am so sorry that I got that bad, I can only imagine how hard it must have been but I´m so happy that it didn't end up happening and that you got help. I understand how hard it is to ask for it and why pushing others away feels easier because in the end it is. I am so happy to hear that you are doing better now and have two wonderful kids with the love of your life, you all 4 deserve it. I´m just happy that I can make them since I remember how hard it was and how much these audios helped me so the least I can do is help others the way I got help especially that I have the materials for it. I wish you all 4 the best possible life.
@@ItsrosaASMR we both cried again reading this thank you so much for everything you do and I think we speak for many of your subscribers in saying that what you do truly matters and we sincerely and genuinely appreciate you and your content
@@quietdemon8138 Honestly I´m just happy I can do and knowing I help others with it is the best, especially now that I have the chance to make them. Thank you so much for your words
Made me so happy you uploaded, always love to listen your videos. I don't like loud places tbh so it made me happy you tried this idea and i could hear some nice words about it. And i can relate with the fourth bullet(fear of judgement) as well so...for me this is a huge help. Thank you so much for doing it. Also i love your choice regarding the picture, it's very beautiful.
I´m so happy that I could help with this one, once again the pleasure is mine. Thank you for the compliment about the picture, it sure took time but I think this one was good.
Thanks for the video Rosa. Thought im dont have autism ( i think) that video is very relatable for me cause i have some social anxiety and im realy hate loud noises( kinda ironic that my favourite music is metal but its different for me cause its music) so i wear headphones like 24/7. Fun story. When i got to middle school i was in new class. Very loud class. I had to leave school early couple of times because i had headaches because them. And your voice is beautiful as always ❤( need to keep up a tradition)
It was my pleasure. I know my videos are "meant" for a specific thing, but it can always be used for other reasons too. But yeah ironic that your favorite music is heavy metal but hey it is good. And d*am what a class you had, that's honestly awful. I´ve had that my whole life and I lived in my headphones as well and still do. Thank you for your compliment❤(can´t break traditions)
Personally, this hurts not in terms of being cared about or not. But rather being reminded that no matter how hard aspies like me try, we will always have to find workarounds for things. High positions in the workforce just seem so out of reach. I just tend to care more about money than romance because I see it as l self protection. People who say money can't buy happiness are naive. It opens doors to overall salvation and security. Maybe one day I will be able to lead a team. Sorry had to get this off my chest.
First of all, don't apologize for saying it, I´m happy you felt safe sharing it. I understand this point of view. It is hard getting high positions and it takes time, but once you get there it changes a lot. Money is of course a thing that brings a lot to us, it's power. Something love can´t always give. Your point of view it valid and I hope you know that. I believe that you can lead a team one day, and you should to. I never meant to hurt you or others by making these audios. I put myself in them and I say and "do" what I would do in real life.
@ItsrosaASMR Thank you, but I probably won't. I will try, but you don't have to be the leader of the team to make good money. I don't know if you ever watched Monsters University, but that hits very hard. Ever since I watched it, I have been afraid of trying because inborn limitations sometimes hold you back. Also, thank you for not calling me shallow or selfish.
@@Hiddenoddity26 You're welcome. If you keep thinking you won't then you won't, but if you keep thinking you will then you will. I have watched that movie, and I understand what you mean. Well of course you aren't selfish or shallow, we all have our own thoughts and opinions and no one should be judged for it
I for sure can, as of now I won't be able to make it before March but after I for sure will make one. If you have anything specific you would like you are free to tell me
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Not gonna lie, this relates to me personally due to my Autism. Sometimes I question myself more often than not when someone says they care about me.
I hope this can remind you that there are people out there who care about you.
@@ItsrosaASMR I appreciate it because I had days where I needed it, more than I care to admit it
@@acl1504 I understand how hard it can be to admit to need help or to hear things, but just remember there is nothing wrong with needing it, it doesn't make you weak, in fact it makes you stronger cause you can admit it (coming from someone who has the hardest time asking for help)
@@ItsrosaASMR That does make sense. Personal experience I assume?
@@acl1504 Definitely personal experience
As an autistic person i can definitely relate to being overstimulated thank you for this amazing video. I just subscribed to you
I´m happy to hear you found my audio relating, I hope it helped. It's my pleasure making these but you're welcome. And thank you for the sub, it's great knowing I can try and help you further
My ex used to tell me things like "You're not manly enough"' "You're too naive"', "You're too slow", "You cry too much","I'm not your mom".
Today I understand I'm the way I'm not just because my autism but because I love this kid inside of me. Not like I don't want to grow up, still have responsibilities and have to mask an serious adult when the situation call...But feel much lighter when I can be silly, Use my Looney tunes plastic mug and do
whatever I love to do.
Those words still hurting a lot..
Don't know if I'll ever find someone that will accept this side of me.. Find someone that I can be romantic, cheerful or cry when I need to....
I'm also afraid of trusting someone again and being judge all over again...
This video is so beautiful but trigger again that doubt of "Would someone really love those traits?"
I know people like that exist....but would I found this special person ?....
If I found her....hope I can fully trust in her love with all my heart with no doubts..about myself.
First I wanna apologize, I didn´t mean to trigger anything bad. From what you said it sounds like your ex wasn't the best person to date. Men are allowed to cry and to be as emotional as women. We are all humans and we should never feel ashamed for how we feel. I´m really sorry that she said those things to you, you really didn´t deserve it. I understand how scary it can be being yourself to someone, putting all your trust in them. I´m still learning as well from my past relationships, but my partner now has shown me a completely different side, he truly accepts me for me, it's healing me and I´m sure that one day you will find someone like that to. Someone who will let you be vulnerable and feel your emotions. Someone who will give you the time you need to open up.
@@ItsrosaASMRNo need to apologize at all. Your video was very great, I just felt to vent a bit.
Very happy to hear healthy and good relationships are still growing in this chaotic time.
Thanks for the kind reply and cheering message. Cheers for you and anyone who read this comment, hope you all the best.
@@LionheartWorks Thank you for letting me know. I´m happy that you could vent here, I want it to be a safe place for everyone. I´m glad we could have this short talk, cheers to you as well.
glad you made it through that, man. I'm searching for someone as well. Dealt with similar things through school. (Honestly putting an autistic kid in mainstream school is a terrible idea) so I've felt how it feels.
Stay strong
This is wonderful ❤I have autism and I can relate to this. I can get overwhelmed if I’m in a crowded place for too long like in a store or a party. I’m also introverted and need time for myself. But I enjoy being with family and friends. My special interests are Disney, Pixar, Studio Ghibli and other animations. But not adults cartoons. They are not my thing. I also love Harry Potter and my Hogwarts house is Hufflepuff💛🖤🦡Just subscribed to your channel and I’m going to check out your other videos ❤Btw I’m from Sweden 🇸🇪🌸🌻🌼🌺🌹🌷🪻
This audio really helped a lot for today, one of my final presentations went pretty poorly because I was totally overwhelmed and this offered such good comfort for all of those worries and awful feelings, thank you :]
I am very sorry to hear that, I understand how stressful it can be but remember it doesn't define you plus I´m sure that if you weren't overwhelmed it would have gone better, so remember to be easy on yourself, treat yourself to something you enjoy. You deserve it. I´m glad to hear my audios helped and I hope they can continue to help in the far future.
@ItsrosaASMR Thank you so much :] I've been feeling better since then even if I'm still a little anxious over things like grades, but I'm finding ways to keep myself calm and audios like these are a really nice way of easing my worries
I'm autistic and have been in survival mode for 12 years now. Suffering in silence and not feeling loved anymore, Touch starved, etc. I feel beyond empty when I deal with my depression. The weight I carry is so exhausting. I'm overstimulated and emotionally wounded on top of that. But this made me feel loved and cared for again.
I am truly sorry to hear that. I understand how hard it can be. Suffering in silence is never a good idea, but I understand how hard it can be to open up to other people or ask for help. I can only imagine how hard it is but you are so strong for still fighting and I am so proud of you. I feel honored and speechless to hear that I were able to make you feel that way again. It truly reminds me why I make them. Thank you so much for sharing and I hope that they can continue to help and I hope that with time it can get better. I believe in it and you. If you ever want to you are free to join my server, there are lovely people there to either talk to, play with, ask for help and etc. discord.gg/V796eucGkR
While I don’t have autism I do relate to this story in a way, you may recognise me from the video you did about past trauma and it was due to that which caused me to push away everyone and it was around the 6 month mark of dating my girlfriend now wife that I had a mental breakdown while she was shopping with her friends and I locked myself in the bathroom with a belt after writing a note saying ‘don’t open the bathroom door, call the cops’ but I felt something in my mind holding me back from ending it all, long story short my wife came back early and along with her friends broke the door lock and carefully got the belt from my hand and did end up calling a doctor and psychiatrist and I began going to therapy which I continue to do to this day, now I focus on taking care of the love of my life and our two wonderful kids, thank you for crafting this stories and bringing them to life as they truly do help so many people
I think even tho people don't have autism they can still relate to it since a lot of people including me aren't the best in social situations. I am so sorry that I got that bad, I can only imagine how hard it must have been but I´m so happy that it didn't end up happening and that you got help. I understand how hard it is to ask for it and why pushing others away feels easier because in the end it is. I am so happy to hear that you are doing better now and have two wonderful kids with the love of your life, you all 4 deserve it. I´m just happy that I can make them since I remember how hard it was and how much these audios helped me so the least I can do is help others the way I got help especially that I have the materials for it. I wish you all 4 the best possible life.
@@ItsrosaASMR we both cried again reading this thank you so much for everything you do and I think we speak for many of your subscribers in saying that what you do truly matters and we sincerely and genuinely appreciate you and your content
@@quietdemon8138 Honestly I´m just happy I can do and knowing I help others with it is the best, especially now that I have the chance to make them. Thank you so much for your words
I honestly didn't want this one to end. It sounded so good. I may not have autism, but i still got lost in your voice. Amazing as always ❤️.
Sadly the script wasn't longer, but I´ll definitely make more. It's amazing to hear you got lost in my voice, biggest complaint. Thank you❤
Its hereee!!
This one hits personal, and i love how supportive and understanding it was :]
Amazing video as always!
It sure is!!
I´m happy you hear you enjoyed it and thank you for the compliment:)
Made me so happy you uploaded, always love to listen your videos. I don't like loud places tbh so it made me happy you tried this idea and i could hear some nice words about it. And i can relate with the fourth bullet(fear of judgement) as well so...for me this is a huge help. Thank you so much for doing it.
Also i love your choice regarding the picture, it's very beautiful.
I´m so happy that I could help with this one, once again the pleasure is mine. Thank you for the compliment about the picture, it sure took time but I think this one was good.
Thanks for the video Rosa. Thought im dont have autism ( i think) that video is very relatable for me cause i have some social anxiety and im realy hate loud noises( kinda ironic that my favourite music is metal but its different for me cause its music) so i wear headphones like 24/7. Fun story. When i got to middle school i was in new class. Very loud class. I had to leave school early couple of times because i had headaches because them. And your voice is beautiful as always ❤( need to keep up a tradition)
It was my pleasure. I know my videos are "meant" for a specific thing, but it can always be used for other reasons too. But yeah ironic that your favorite music is heavy metal but hey it is good. And d*am what a class you had, that's honestly awful. I´ve had that my whole life and I lived in my headphones as well and still do. Thank you for your compliment❤(can´t break traditions)
Personally, this hurts not in terms of being cared about or not. But rather being reminded that no matter how hard aspies like me try, we will always have to find workarounds for things. High positions in the workforce just seem so out of reach. I just tend to care more about money than romance because I see it as l self protection. People who say money can't buy happiness are naive. It opens doors to overall salvation and security. Maybe one day I will be able to lead a team. Sorry had to get this off my chest.
First of all, don't apologize for saying it, I´m happy you felt safe sharing it. I understand this point of view. It is hard getting high positions and it takes time, but once you get there it changes a lot. Money is of course a thing that brings a lot to us, it's power. Something love can´t always give. Your point of view it valid and I hope you know that. I believe that you can lead a team one day, and you should to. I never meant to hurt you or others by making these audios. I put myself in them and I say and "do" what I would do in real life.
@ItsrosaASMR Thank you, but I probably won't. I will try, but you don't have to be the leader of the team to make good money. I don't know if you ever watched Monsters University, but that hits very hard. Ever since I watched it, I have been afraid of trying because inborn limitations sometimes hold you back.
Also, thank you for not calling me shallow or selfish.
@@Hiddenoddity26 You're welcome. If you keep thinking you won't then you won't, but if you keep thinking you will then you will. I have watched that movie, and I understand what you mean. Well of course you aren't selfish or shallow, we all have our own thoughts and opinions and no one should be judged for it
RELATABLE.
Thank you for the ASMR video Rosa ! I'm not happily victim of autism but I love the video anyways! Take care and much love as always Rosa! ❤❤❤
You're welcome, I´m happy I could and I´m so glad to hear you love it. Take care as well and much love from me too❤❤❤❤
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Can you do more autistic listener asmr please
I for sure can, as of now I won't be able to make it before March but after I for sure will make one. If you have anything specific you would like you are free to tell me
@ ok thanks
@@logangirard5175 You're welcome. If you ever have another request feel free to tell me.