How has Japan changed you as a person?
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if it actually does make women quiet we should start sending all western women there
The whole cleanliness thing is a FACT I am in America and people just be petting dogs and grabbing their phones and then touching food and I'm like YO NAH NAH and then they get upset at me for being too strict, it's hygiene. And the shower thing and the bed thing is facts, I used to NEVER use my bed unless it was time to sleep, now I sometimes use it during the day if I don't go out and sleep in the afternoon (rarely) but I am hardly ever in my room unless it is time time sleep
@takashiifromjapan How do you feel after meeting so many different people 🙂 from Tasmania Australia 🦘🇦🇺🦘 do you watch much about real life in other countries 🤔👋🙂.
タカシさん
新聞で見たんだけど、最近、外国出身の議員さんがいるらしいです。
面白そうだから、取材してきてもらえませんか？
世田谷区議会議員 オルズグル氏 ウズベキスタン出身
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Bro, I wanna know what Japanese people think of rap songs, so, make a video on that, please. Also, ask the people what they think of Japanese rappers like Kaneee, JP The Wavy, Yzerr, Candee, etc.
After just 2 weeks in Japan as soon as I got back to the USA I immediately missed the polite and high-quality service.
I often wonder, when people say 'Japan' do they really just mean Tokyo?
Like, most people who visit Japan never go anywhere else.
Same experience here with my wife. We instantly got taken aback at how much "louder" it is here even with other customers. We knew it'd be like that but it was still a very obvious difference.
She's never understood bowing and why I've always done it (taught growing up in an East Asian household) but even she picked it up after just two weeks in Japan.
Kyoto was our favorite over Tokyo. We're both older now and done with the "city that never sleeps" scene. Definitely appreciate the quieter, more polite, cleaner, and more caring culture. I've been missing Japan since we got back.
@@LegionIvory I have visited many regions in Japan, and service provided in Tokyo is probably one of the worst, albeit still very good
Immediately!! I feel ya!
Just got back myself from japan for 3 weeks. Went to Ueno / shibuya / kyoto / and osaka. 100% agree. I got so frustrated right off rip when coming back due to the rude and demanding nature of the airport staff, then went to a restaurant and it blew my mind how the servers didnt show any degree of thankfulness for us being there.
Reverse culture shock in full effect hahaha
After almost 10 years here, the social isolation is a very common issue I’d say. I love living here, but it can be really difficult and frustrating as well regardless of your level of Japanese ability.
Many foreigners and even Japanese people seem to struggle with the lack of meaningful relationships and reliable friendships (and not people to get drunk with). Most of the friends I made throughout the years left after 3 or latest 5 years, which can be really hard when it happens repeatedly. People who stay long term usually have either a Japanese spouse or found a strong niche community based on their interests or stay for their work. Personally, I find it very tiring how everyone is constantly so drained from work and other obligations that meeting someone requires at least 1 month of calendar blocking in advance - just to find out last minute that they cancelled again. Friendships also can stay on a small talk level literally for years, which as a European honestly feels very shallow to me.
Overall, without a Japanese spouse, the feeling of being an eternal foreigner/outsider can make it also very difficult to develop a sense of belonging.
Japan has its perks, no doubt. But there's this thing about human relationships that often gets swept under the rug. It's like everyone's stuck in their own bubble rather than being part of a real community. Love and connection doesn't seem to run deep in Japan. it feels kinda shallow sometimes. You hear about family members turning on each other way too often, which makes you wonder how tight-knit those bonds really are. Back home in the UK, family's a big deal, you know? But here, it's like some folks just go through the motions.
Trying to make friends? Good luck with that. Even out in the boonies where you'd expect people to be tighter, there's this vibe of isolation. On my street alon there's three hikikomori who have just disappeared from society altogether. I didn't even know one guy lived there for five years. Everyone's living in their own little world.
Sure, there are exceptions, like those with a more Western mindset. And thank goodness for places like gaijin bars where you can actually feel some sense of community, even if it's just with fellow foreigners.
Before complaining about the lack of reliable friendships, start speaking Japanese language first, if not already. It’s a matter of common sense. What makes you think you are an eligible person without having a good command of Japanese language? If things seem shallow, maybe it’s because you are shallow?
The thing is that nowadays almost everywhere is like that, not just japan.
@user-eb7lz6xh7t Lol you're such a Japanese purist weeb. Can't let anyone criticize your precious Utopia Japan. Face it dude, Japan ain't perfect, it has its problems. Need I remind you the need for them to have women only trains cause of a word you should recognize, Chikan.
It is fair to say that declining birthrates and social isolation are global trends.
The common responses of becoming more respectful, patient, and considerate of others is really something we should learn to do more today.
It’s the differences in culture
Stop discrimination against people with a mental or a psychological disability.
Since 1970 I've lived in Japan for more than 20 years now, off and on. I raised my son here as a single mom. We crossed the Pacific 3x on Norwegian freighters, back and forth between Japan and Canada. I am now a senior living in Kyoto, a retired English teacher and a color pencil artist for conservation. Japan has had a huge impact on my life, more than I can comment on here. 🥰
Hey thanks again for having me 😊 it was a lot of fun!
Hello, i really wonder what happened to your arms? There are 4 scar lines parallel to each other :( and you are so stylish!!
So, did your British accent form in Orlando?
@@ChantheMan915 That's what I'm wondering. He almost sounds Australian or South African. He said he's from Orlando, and I blurted out, "Uh, yeah, no you're not." That is NOT an American accent.
@@hilalunsal8 thank you! I was super into alternative body mods at one point, but I messed up my scarification lol 🫠
@@ChantheMan915 it’s a pretty long story, but I have a video addressing it on my channel if you’re curious.
We grew up washing hands when we got home (southern U.S) and I love that in Japan it's the standard at home.
I would love to know where you lived in the South. I’ve resided in several states in the Old South, but I’ve never seen that.
I also do the same and im from the South, it's a habit I've had for as long as I can remember.
I think this is probably a more common habit now in lots of places, after the last few years.
I love your interviews!! You’re a great interviewer cause you always make it about the person (interviewee), and you listen to them too!! In addition, you ask GREAT questions!! I love your series!! Keep doing them!!! 💯💯💯
I've lived in Japan for 8 years (so far) and I can relate to every single one of these. Outstanding vid.
Those new graphics are a new impressive touch and helps follow along with the people you’re talking to
After 18 years here I'd say I'm a bit quieter and less outgoing than before. Being a typical Aussie, who usually start a chat with anyone, I found that many Japanese are less open to strangers talking to them. I'm less likely to do it nowadays because of the surprised or shocked looks I got.
Food; my god! I've become so hooked on the food here that I miss it terribly each time I go abroad - a complete reverse to 18 years ago when I missed my big, fatty, Aussie meals.
Final change; I'm starting to lose my native language :( After 18 years of speaking baby English to be understood, I'm starting to forget common English words and phrases that I stopped using. I'm sure my family in Oz wonder what's going on with me when we speak on the phone (lol).
Great place! I'm happy in Japan. But living anywhere has it's pros and cons.
“I care about the people around me more.”
Thanks for the video Takashi san! I love all of their answers.
Just like the guys at Unit 731
EXCELLENT piece! So informative to see their development and understanding. Interesting to see their evolution the longer they stay in Japan. Thank you for this thoughtful segment.
I love these types of videos so so much. I feel like here in Australia we're somewhere in between. It was really nice to hear the stark contrast between what I thought this video would be like and what the reality was! Thank you!
Love this!! The change for everyone all makes a lot of sense.
Thank you so much for the video Takashi. I am planning to apply for the JET program this year and I understand that a lot of JET participants think Japan is a fantasy land but for me I want to know what I’m getting into and that includes the not-so-glamorous aspects of the culture, so I really appreciate these videos because they really teach me a lot.
A gold mine of information with so much variety. Loves every bit of it and while heartedly appreciated it!
Your interviews are so interesting. The contrast between Japan and other cultures is fascinating. Love this ❤❤❤
Thank you for your videos.
I used to live in Japan and I enjoy watching your videos because they show the real state of things and I think they are useful for those people who plan to move to Japan.
I just love this video!!! It was good to hear about Japan from expat from different countries.
Great advice on learning WHY you say a word. Helpful for many non-Western languages.
Love this! Idk what it is it feels different from your past videos but this is great. Crisp! Can’t wait to watch your next one 🙏🏼
Takashii this is the best video you have made so far in my personal opinion, and I like a lot of your other videos. The questions, answers, and variations within them were excellent. For me, this is one of my top 3 reasons of wanting to work in Japan for a year, and potentially end up living there longer. I want to become a better person in different ways that Japan would definitely help foster within me, so this video for me was an awesome source of information. Thank you :) Good learning tool recos in there as well
I love this channel. It always has such interesting content and people.
Thanks for another great upload Takashii. I love your channel. It's always nice to hear first hand experience from people and not some marketing.
Thank you for making this! This video was really interest in and answered some questions I wondered about, like how I might feel after living in Japan for a while.
hey! Love the new intro and motion graphics! 👍🏼 The editing overall feels a lot cleaner too! Great work, Takashii!
Thanks again Takashii! Always fun when we hang out 😄
Everyone asking about the rice cooking….. 🍚
So I grew up in Oklahoma/Texas (USA) and in southern food we do have rice of course but it’s not sticky rice and it’s not a daily part of our staple meals. So I didn’t see a rice cooker until I was 19 in university living with my Japanese and Korean friends, my family usually just used the stovetop or microwave (gasp)🤣
I felt like those methods was easier to mess up rice like too wet or too dry,,,, etc…
After living in Japan rice is of course a huge part of our daily meals so after almost 10 years I mess up a lot less, and yes now I have a rice cooker, 🍚🤍
3:50 totally agree. I was so amazed by how people are so caring for each other and helping each other so casually when I moved to the US...which I never expected.
Your channel is so excellent. I learn so much. I study geopolitics, economics, but I gain the greatest insight from your show and a few others, whether on Japan, China,Korea, France or elsewhere. Thank you.
Long time fan here! I teach English and my advanced students will love this one. Thanks, Takashii!
While I would love to visit Japan, I also wonder what it would be like actually living there (dealing with day-to-day things like banking, working, commuting, etc.). Hearing about people from abroad feel about living in Japan is extremely educational. Thank you, TAKASHii!
Love your videos! Would love to hear from foreign families (with or without kids) living in Japan. I can imagine the experience being quite different!
I really love your videos. You present a great picture of life in Japan, please continue.
I've only been in Tokyo for two days, and I'm already getting a taste of what everyone talks about! Being somewhat introverted, I come from a culture where there was always something happening, even if I wasn't directly involved. In Japan, it's easier to feel isolated, and I can see how that might affect the population growth.
Takashi I love your videos. I learn a lot about Japan from you.
I’m from Canada and our family always wash hands when we get home.
Congratulations, this channel always gets good interviewees.
This is a really helpful video. I am just finishing up a visit to Japan and have been happy with my Japanese, but am also ready to take it up a level. I'd appreciate any recommendations for dramas to watch and music channels (maybe on Spotify?) to follow, to mix it up. Arigato gozaimashita. Minna san, ganbarrimashyou.
I'm going to Tokyo for 10 days next week, and I've been watching a ton of your videos lately! Thank you for all of them!
You will be surprised how racist the Japanese really are. You don't learn that watching anime in your home country.
I'm Japanese and I've just started learning English. Most Japanese people are so kind that they will help you spent living in Japan. Enjoy your trip to Japan!
Thanks again for another insightful video 👍🏼
WOW!I Love your channel and the way you ask all these interesting questions. It will be really nice if you'd make a video on Japanese fashion and what are cultural "no-no" when on a trip to Japan.
日本に滞在していた時（2023年6月〜8月）、私は日本人であることの意味を理解することができました。その本質は、他者第一、自己第二です。ブラジルでは日系人の妻と結婚していますが、日本人は非常に特異な社会生活の形を持っています。日本は私に何を変えたのでしょうか？私が間違った場所で生まれたことを確信させてくれました。私はこの国をその本質で知ることができたこと（一般の市民が日常生活を送る方法）に永遠に感謝し、いつか妻と子供と一緒に戻り、日本の素晴らしい国の発展に貢献したいと思っています。
Video was great, please keep doing what you do takashi-san! :)
love you content Takashi. Very insightful! love the bowing snapshots from each interviewee at the end :D
Excellent work Takashii!
My time in Japan taught me respect, humility and to appreciate education. An Australian friend overheard my conversation talking about this subject and he just rolled his eyes and guffawed but it's very true.
Love these videos.
Shower twice a day - one in the morning, one at night lol
Orlando, FL represent! LoL And love the Taking Back Sunday shirt lol brought me back to my teenage years
Same here lol
As much as I'd love to visit Japan I'll never be able to. Although I hope that this one TH-camr The Kiffness does a concert. He's this offhand musician who makes music with animal sounds mostly with cats
very interesting, thanks for bringing it up. I really appreciate
As a foreigner working based in Tokyo, everyone in this video has mentions a ton of strong points and truth to Japan (at least in Tokyo). Great video!
That was excellent! Are there differences for foreigners living in Tokyo vs. Osaka, Iwate, or other places in Japan?
I've had difficulty back here in the US at an American school. In Japan I was at a #1 ranked school. Now, in my head I often compare the school here to the one in Japan. It's difficult for me. I took things for granted in school in Japan. Things worked the way they were supposed to work. It's hard to understand why things are so difficult here at my school in the US.
I find that a lot of J students, either they start off to a great start in their studies and then burn out eventually (because they end up slacking, find the work too overwhelming, don't know how to study effectively) OR they might've always been like that even in elementary school once they start junior high.
In the US, not sure about the new generations, but they take the work seriously and don't have the group cultural aspects of 「面倒くさい」 and 「頑張れ。」 I like to think that hearing these words all the time causes people's motivation to wear easily in Japan.
Plus, the grading system is COMPLETELY different between the two countries.
Is this what you're struggling with? Is it something entirely different?
最後に皆さんおじぎをしていたのが好きです。
Honestly great interview good questions and answers. How does the topic idea arise?
The guy from Orlando sounds Australian.
i thought he doesnt sound like american
I'm an Aussie. I think he sounded like a Brit.
He definitely sounds like someone else 😆
maybe he's around Aussies and Brits a lot
Yeahhh I was like he sounds Brit !!!
He may have been living in Orlando FL USA as an American citizen prior to Japan but based on his accent he was not born there... nor in the USA. Normally I would say it doesn't matter. But in the context of Takashi's insightful interviews and questions its important to know where people are coming from... figuratively and literally... because it often shapes why they answer his questions the way they do.
Very interesting video. So many different experiences, but they also share certain opinions.
One of my favourites!
Over two decades ago, my husband received a fellowship to live in Japan for a year. We moved into a Japanese neighborhood. My 2 sons went to an international school. We all loved it. Had my husband been able to get a job there, we would have definitely moved back there. We have been back to Japan about 5 times since then for a visit. Also, we have discovered that as older citizens, it is difficult to move back there, hence we are planning on moving to Portugal. But if it was not so difficult to live there again as retired adults, Japan would be our choice of places to live.
Absolutely Outstanding
You should interview at the open base events in Atsugi or Yokosuka. They only happen maybe twice a year though.
love these videos, do you have one about sports culture in Japan? My understanding is baseball is very big, but i don't know how big, or what the other sports are. I assume football/soccer and....badminton? Is it something people do or watch to relax? Do people wish they had more time to be active? so many questions
I'm American and I wash my hands when I get home ☺
I passed you in Toronto the other day and knew you looked familiar. Later, I realized it was from your videos.
Mayday san! I never wouldve imagined seeing you interviewed by Takashi. A very plesant surprise
10:49 You can usually see it in the eyes, small mannerisms and which words they choose to use. For me personally, it wasn't hard to tell right from the beginning as a Finn, since we have the exact same thing here. However, I don't think it should be that hard to learn if you just pay attention to their body-language, instead of their words
Interesting channel, subbed also coz I LOVE Japan and love all Asian countries 😇
i love your interview so much, can know japan better, from all aspects. hhh
Coming home and not washing your hands is CRAZY for me.
Same for coming home and not taking off your shoes.
I guess that is a common point between japanese and arab culture
all balcanic countries does the same thing.
It's the basics in Europe
Same. I'm in Canada but I was raised by my Polish family who immigrated here. Maybe it's not common among others?
As an American who has lived abroad for half my life and the other half was also influenced by Japan, one can see, understand and follow the customs of cleanliness because it makes sense for health
Western (white) culture too
Looking forward to seeing how or if you'll be covering the recent lawsuit in race discrimination in Japan.
It is amazing how they all radically become or sound like a totally different person when they speak in Japanese, especially the guy from London. They even totally change their body language.
Takashii! I'm a recent fan! you gotta come to LA! you could do a lot of interesting interviews here! There's a big Asian community in LA!
These videos are so useful, ありがとごさいます
“benevolently ignore” HAH! well put
There are places in the U.S. that aren’t aggressively extroverted. The Midwest is a region where it’s not unusual to be an introvert. The U.S. has many variations in perspective and culture. Minnesota is very different from New York, Florida and California, as they are different from each other. Variety is the key to the US citizen’s personality.
Exactly!
I prefer diversity. I have my gripes about America, but I truly appreciate its diversity. I also prefer people being themselves rather than conforming to be like everyone else.
Cool! Sounds like an interesting region to visit!
Yes! Authenticity is not a word Japan has fostered for thousands of years. Before the modern era, and I’m assuming it still goes on to some extent, everyone was expected to be extremely formal and basically be performing customs that we would expect are a part of some royal tradition. The way women were expected to walk, speak and even hold their hands while performing tasks was very robotic like and if anyone stepped out of line, they were punished heavily. Mindsets like that don’t just disappear; the expectations just shift some.
@@TheSarahJane33 I don't authenticity is the correct word.
More like non-conformity.
Although compared to how I remembered Japan back in the early 2000s, there has been quite remarkable change related to more progressive thinking.
Some good, some not so good (i.e. social media shit).
Thanks!
11:38 spot on. And right after that, YES! Low tech for a reason. I think the little bits of exposure to different people via the old way of doing things is really good for society as a whole. You need to talk to people from all walks of life to be a well-rounded society. If people are not getting together because of work, time, family, etc. And if things are always delivered, or done in a non-human way. Then this little bit of interaction is better than nothing.
living in japan for almost 5 years and their answers are very relatable.
cant believe this channel has already more than 1.9 million subs. what a feat
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Look at those new motion graphics ^^
I am hoping to move to Japan because I want to be an MMA fighter in Rizen, and I am hoping to also make that my main income, any advice for learning Japanese, living in Japan, and just overall finding a side job to sustain me before I hopefully rise the ranks in Rizen?
I stopped in the middle to order the Tae Kim book. And maybe I need to explore more Japanese TV.
thank you for your videos
6:38 I also my hands as soon as I get home. And I can’t lay on bed with my outside clothing. Some people had told me that showering everyday is too much….
I would speak Japanese every day or use it at Japanese restaurants. The news like NHK news hour also helps. That or educational TV.
Good insight
The safety and public transportation of japan are the primary things that makes me want to go there
The Taking Back Sunday guy has a really strong Australian accent. He sounds like a guy who grew up in Aus and then spent time in America before moving to Japan.
Im American and I take a bath before I sleep, and change to indoor clothes. I cringed when my toddler niece and nephews ran on my bed when they were playing and I changed the sheets right after lol
Amazing video! Japan made me prouder of my African roots. We have a lot in common, especially the importance of family, taking off shoes indoors, snack gifting, respect for elders, and "Shoganai" mentality but for some reason Japanese identify with European culture. Japan made me more punctual, patient and respectful of public property.
Drinking at a picnic yup exactly like here in Hawai'i which is why hawaiians get along with Japanese easily 🤙🏾
Also rental video stores like Blockbuster.
much respect to the guy with Taking Back Sunday t-shirt!
Why?
I'm literally using Tae Kim's textbook to study japanese😅 and it's cool tbh
Excelent. Thank you.
Same happened to me when I worked for a Japan Company for several years