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السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ USTADZ/USTADZAH MUALLAF/MUALLAFAH, CONGRATULATION MUALLAF DAY IN THE WORLD. BARAKALLAHU FEEKUM. (at Indonesia, 25 des is MUALLAF DAY FOR THE WORLD).
Everyone here be mindful of your intentions, when you do acts of worship don’t do it for the sake of the opposite gender. Do them for the sake of Allah.
why didnt put Deen first then in this list? Also character is part of Deen, Akhlaq is not something separate. Akhlaq is part of Deen. And what do you mean by "put Allah first"? do you mean pray 24/7? that's putting Allah first but then you give your husband zero time. how is this being a good wife? All a woman needs to do is pray her Fard, the 5 prayers. if you obey your husband and your husband is pleased with you then you can pick any gate to Jannah.
its tough to see brothers comment in videos saying their wives dont respect, obey, and love them. Let me tell you something from a woman's perspective.. yes sometimes we are moody but its only for a while but if this is a long term thing then im sorry to inform you that ur wife doesnt want you. a woman will listen and respect the man she wants physically and emotionally
Brother Gabriel said the truth as a woman I agree all he said and that’s what the shariah tells us if we do that we will be successful in this life and the Akhirah جزاك الله خيرا brother Gabriel
Brother Gabriel, I was 1st introduced to you via Huda TV years ago. I liked you then, but then the last few years, I found you a little hard to take. Only recently, I've noticed that you have become more "realistic" & down-to-earth (IMHO), I have subscribed & even sent a few of your videos to my last single son. This was most enlightening & I will be sharing this one with my 3 daughters-in-law. Great advice for me, as well. Barak Allah feek.
More important than chemistry”, jokes, discussing politics, career? I always say this and brothers always say “what about if you dont click? I want respect more than inside jokes.
If Gabriel sir would use a certain type of thumbnail and won't use words like nikah in caption. These videos would reach to all the large non muslim populations as well for good
Br Gabraeel, you hit it on the target. I have been married for 20+ years with 8 kids, but the only reason I have lost all interest in her because I do not get respect. I have separated from her in the bed for almost threemonths, but she has ignored me completely. I am a practicing men, does everything that Allha and his messenger command. I give all of my time to my family and raise and do tarbiah to kids. Work fulltime and have master degree in engineering. I have never hit her, never cursed her and never take advantage of her financially or in anyway. But after all this I am not taken care and respected as a Men. She is born and raised in America and have Arab family background. She prays five time and dress modesty, but regardless of all of this, I feel that the western society and feminist has hit her. May Allah SWT guide her. Ameen
Subhanallah may Allah make it easy for you brother. Respect for us is submission and readiness to undertake anything we ask of you, to treat us like you would someone of higher authority, to make sure you are obedient always and grateful for your husband. That is respect. That is virtually impossible to find in the West im afraid subhanallah. Even if she isnt a card-holding feminist, she will still find it hard to do what I mentioned above naturally
Be the best to your wife as our Prophet advised us, take him صل الله عليه وسلم as a role model and her respect will be gained effortlessly insha'allah.
Marry a man you can respect that's what I did, that's the number one question I used to ask myself, can I respect this man? If not you shouldn't marry them
Women are driven by emotion. Today she says she respects and tomorrow it withered away. That is the nature of woman. The best of them are the ones that control this rebellious need and respects 247
What I want from a woman is to be her most beloved and top priority. Not her mother not her father and not her friends being more loved or having higher priority than me.I wouldn't want to be her 2nd most beloved or her 2nd highest priority. Except for Allah ofc. That's what I want from a spouse.
@rotting moth the wife has duty make sure the husband feels loved and respected and that parents and friends aren't sidelining or getting in way of their relationship or their love. That's case then the couple should talk about ways to make sure the husband feels loved and respected.
There’s enough space in a women’s heart to love you and her parents I don’t think you should think this way. I’m not gonna love a guy above my mother for example. A guy came later in my life my mum stood by me since being so what kind of comparison is that. She will love you but you don’t need to make her choose between you and your parents that’s childish
Nofap day 75. 1. a best thing a man can have is to do semen retention. 2. Thes energy is high and strong and conscious and patient. 3. Evil energy is also around at nights specifically. Tje book Quran specifically surah al fajr. It was good and then until the 101 I guess Surah Zalzalah and surah Qariah. They helped me alot. There is great teachings in them. 4. Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self Reliance "Cast the bantling on the rocks, Suckle him with the she-wolf's teat; Wintered with the hawk and fox, Power and speed be hands and feet."
As a muslim young woman...After deep thinking i understand the nature of men and have no problem with polygamy when getting married...but my society sees polygamy as an old habit and men dont even discuss this topic with their potential wives today ...what to do to show that im not against it at all and that i can deal with jealousy ...now most men prefer marrying one to avoid people talking but they dont feel enough and start making chatting with their female mates in the work or not lowering their gaze in street or searching for haram on the internet as if those men fear people criticism but sadly dont fear allah ...i just dont want to marry a man without hayaa ..so i never refuse polygamy bcz its 100% halal.. but family and todays society willl say i ve gone mad because im not the only woman in his life .etc ...anyone has advice for me ?
Religion over society. If Allah says it’s halal, it’s halal. If you are willing to engage in polygamy for a man with hayaa and good character, I don’t see anything wrong with that sister. Wa allahu aalam
@@Kichidakatsumi sure its halal and nothing wrong with that i will never accept bad marriege for temporary happiness ...i mean how to find a real man who comes to my family and speaks honestly about that topic ..most men pretend to be against polygamy bcz they fear people critism.. and after marrying one woman according to society's will ...they do many haram things which society dont blame them on...so if i didn't find a good man with hayaa and honesty about this topic , then i dont want to spend my life with fake muslim man...so i ask if being single is the right decision or not?? a rightoeus man supporting me to get closer to allah or no marriage at all even if family would be against me...i think i will do that and i'm asking if this decision is right or there is other solutions that i dont know to problems of this type in islam?
@@PearlaChan Alsalam alaykum. I was just researching polygamy in Islam, and I believe I have made a mistake regarding what I have told you. What I said about responsibility is true (that if you are not responsible enough to handle more than one wife, then stick to one), but I was mistaken on the nature of men. I believe even as a man myself I must have been brainwashed to some degree to have said what I have said. I think you were correct that 99% (if not 100%) of men want more than one wife and polygamy has many benefits that I can discuss from what I have found if you would like. Wanting more than one wife up to 4 is very natural and makes a man perform better in his life as well as fulfil his duties to his wives better even in intimacy. Again I apologize for the mistake. I think most men don’t even consider this option because society made it taboo. You coming into terms with it shows that you put Allah first and understand His wisdom and why he allowed men to have up to four wives. There are so many benefits. So again, I apologize. And I will delete my previous comments because I have changed my mind now. I believe you were correct 100%, and I wasn’t experienced enough to understand what you were saying. Definitely pick a man who has no problem saying he wants more than one wife who as you said will go about it the halal way of having more than one wife instead of doing zina astaghfurallah. He might not say it straight away if you are the first wife until the urge kicks in i guess. Support your husband if he wants a second third or fourth wife. If you are the second wife, then you will have picked him knowing he wants polygamy so thats obvious.
everything in the qura'n is the ideal solution to our problems i believe it's a great benefit to both males and females so a man will live as allah allowed him in halal way and a widow or divorced woman can find a shelter ,too...but boys (not real men ) are afraid to even marry one woman !! they want to be friends so they can breakup whenever he gets bored ,they aren't mature enough to stay emotionally connected to their wives ...polygyny needs a brave , kind , masculine and responsible muslim men and its really an act of humanity and mercy if done within the islamic ranges as the sahaba and prophet (pbuh) practised it so both men and women could equally get countless benefits from it .jazak allau khayran for the correction.
@SF He probably has a solid reason to keep friends away from you. They're usually jealous and will do anything to ruin your marriage. Single women give married women the worst advice.
women want a man thats close to Allah goes to masjid to make his prayers seek knowledge of the deen. we also want man that knows his obligations as a husband to provide and take care of his wife finaceially .also a man that is good in character no to strict knows how to balance deen and dunya
@SF He probably has seen things you did not like. Also, I'd never have my wife friendless, however, I would like to know if her friend is a righteous one, it would also be ideal if she has a husband as well, so we can create a friendship like family. Where me and him hangout, and her and my wife. Yeah, you have a good point, it depends, I also understand why some men would not want their wives amongst certain women.
@@Expiringsoon Yes the honeymoon period will go away after babies, that's so sad to listen 😔😢, you just burst my beautiful expectation bubble sister 😹🤭🤭🥺. Sometimes I wish that the honeymoon period stays all through the years of marriage but that's not reality and one gotta accept it 😪😒💁🏻♀️😹
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I am that kind of woman but men don't seem to want that. They want independent women, who don't need men and don't show any affection..It's been my experience..
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ USTADZ/USTADZAH MUALLAF/MUALLAFAH, CONGRATULATION MUALLAF DAY IN THE WORLD. BARAKALLAHU FEEKUM. (at Indonesia, 25 des is MUALLAF DAY FOR THE WORLD).
Not really true. Physical attraction is just for sex. But i personally look at how she acts and her behaviour. I really like a woman who isnt a sheep and thinks for herself. And isn't desperate to stand out. Someone who is respectful and kind and humble and feminine. Also someone who has deen
If you are a virgin women, should you hint the guy (that your looking to marry) that you have a strong desire for sex? Does it make sense? I am thinking it could go both ways; a virgin never had sex but is eager beaver or she has no idea about sex so doesn't know what to expect...anyways guys hope you understand what I am trying to say.
I strongly suggest to refrain from hinting those types of feelings to anyone who isn’t your husband. Keep in mind that disclosing such information to a stranger can encourage ill intentions.
as a man if a sister would talk to me about her high sex drive while also telling me she is a virgin I would have doubts about her virginity, or at least I would assume that she is masturbating a lot, which is also bad because haram. So as a man, no, don't talk about it at all. Just observe the man in front of you, make sure he has healthy masculine traits, like being responsible human, is exercising or has physical job, healthy diet and sleep schedule etc. Every healthy man has a high sex drive too.
pray istikhara for a man who doesnt satisfy himself, isnt too diabetic or have other issues like shaving the beard and disregarding his fitra and outward strength. allah knows best whats for you.
As a brother i can say that even if it's true that some women need to learn how to give respect to the husband and be real wives, I've got to be honest, nowadays there's an epidemic of non masculine males... and a woman can't have respect for that. After marriage (or worse, children) you ask your wife to go look for a job and pay part (or all) of the bills? respect is GONE. You're a compulsive liar and she learns over time she can't trust whatever you say? respect is GONE. You're a mama's boy with no proper boundaries? Ya rabb! Respect is GONE. May Allah help our sisters, May Allah help our brothers, and this entire Ummah. Amin!
Yes. We do look at beauty. Usually appearance (beauty) will be the first thing that will create chemistry between the parties. Therefore, the Prophet Alayhi Salawatu Wassalam advised the sahaba that they should go and look at each other. BUT if the beauty doesnt come with respect for the maintainer/provider/caretaker ie the man, he knows that he can’t take her as a wife as it wont last long before the problems start building up. Hope this helps.
Goodluck with that. Women only can have demands, but you have to accept their pseudo feminist ideas in Nikkah contracts. As result, the guy gets a hairy beast, who thinks she's all, because of her degree. And he has to suffer.
@@7aemr In the west, this is normal. She can have all her rights. But you can't tell her nothing. You have to deal with her modernism. But you have to be Islamic in giving.
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Salaam aleykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh ! please do it with Russian subtitles
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
USTADZ/USTADZAH MUALLAF/MUALLAFAH,
CONGRATULATION MUALLAF DAY IN THE WORLD.
BARAKALLAHU FEEKUM.
(at Indonesia, 25 des is MUALLAF DAY FOR THE WORLD).
Everyone here be mindful of your intentions, when you do acts of worship don’t do it for the sake of the opposite gender. Do them for the sake of Allah.
- Respect
- Hayaa (Modesty)
- Deen (put Allah first) most important
- Feminity
- Attention, care
- Love, passion
good cooking skills too
obedience
And someone who doesn’t talk 😊
why didnt put Deen first then in this list? Also character is part of Deen, Akhlaq is not something separate. Akhlaq is part of Deen.
And what do you mean by "put Allah first"? do you mean pray 24/7? that's putting Allah first but then you give your husband zero time. how is this being a good wife?
All a woman needs to do is pray her Fard, the 5 prayers. if you obey your husband and your husband is pleased with you then you can pick any gate to Jannah.
Because his talking about reality
brother Gabriel's car recordings are the best😂😂😂
😂❤ best content
As a man, I can confirm what brother Gabriel said is 100% true
It will be successful, InShaAllah
Would the husband reciprocate?
@@786jaaneman In Sha Allah he will.
its tough to see brothers comment in videos saying their wives dont respect, obey, and love them. Let me tell you something from a woman's perspective.. yes sometimes we are moody but its only for a while but if this is a long term thing then im sorry to inform you that ur wife doesnt want you. a woman will listen and respect the man she wants physically and emotionally
Already married and doesn't want her husband?
That’s fine, we’ll just take a second wife who does respect us
@@yourfamilydoctor172 if you think that's the answer but not wise 🤷♀️
@@Expiringsoon it’s usually the woman who’s at fault.
@King Sultan 😂
100% facts. Sisters this is the honest truth. All we want is a sweet woman with a good past that fears Allah and is a good muslimah.
Brother Gabriel said the truth as a woman I agree all he said and that’s what the shariah tells us if we do that we will be successful in this life and the Akhirah جزاك الله خيرا brother Gabriel
What we want:
-Deen
-Modesty
-cooks/cleans
-Good past
-Submissive
-Supportive and Respectful
And the men that don’t have a good past? Do they still expect a woman with a good past
@@hellocello4931 ys they do but they don't deserve.
@@hellocello4931 no one likes a woman with a bad past(no real man) for a LONG term relationship(the only halal relationship,i.e marriage)
@@taimurahmad5730women dont like non-virgins with bad past i as a woman practicing muslim i can say that.
If someone repented and doing righteous things. There is no need for past to bring up on her face again.
As Allah is most merciful and most forgiving.
AssalamuAlaikum, nice Gucci shades Ustadh, Allahumma barik
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Salam alaykum! So helpful. I'm writting down notes. Baraka Allahu fik.
Mashallah. You hit the nail on the head, brother. That is everything I really want in a wife.
Listen up sisters! 👂🏼
Brother Gabriel, I was 1st introduced to you via Huda TV years ago. I liked you then, but then the last few years, I found you a little hard to take. Only recently, I've noticed that you have become more "realistic" & down-to-earth (IMHO), I have subscribed & even sent a few of your videos to my last single son. This was most enlightening & I will be sharing this one with my 3 daughters-in-law. Great advice for me, as well. Barak Allah feek.
What is respect for man....respect means different things to different people
"If we become married, inshallah, the most important thing for me is *respect*..." Happily married since 2014 الحمد لله
Al-Hamdu-liLLĀH
More important than chemistry”, jokes, discussing politics, career? I always say this and brothers always say “what about if you dont click? I want respect more than inside jokes.
They know what all men want & they will leverage themselves above you iif you let them.
I rate your glasses akhi
Can you do a video on what women wants from men
If Gabriel sir would use a certain type of thumbnail and won't use words like nikah in caption. These videos would reach to all the large non muslim populations as well for good
Big Louis frames Masha Allah my arkhhhhhh
Very good advices
Jazak Allah khair
Best advices from the best Gabriel 💖 masha'ALLAH may ALLAH bless you 🥰🤲
Br Gabraeel, you hit it on the target. I have been married for 20+ years with 8 kids, but the only reason I have lost all interest in her because I do not get respect. I have separated from her in the bed for almost threemonths, but she has ignored me completely. I am a practicing men, does everything that Allha and his messenger command. I give all of my time to my family and raise and do tarbiah to kids. Work fulltime and have master degree in engineering. I have never hit her, never cursed her and never take advantage of her financially or in anyway. But after all this I am not taken care and respected as a Men. She is born and raised in America and have Arab family background. She prays five time and dress modesty, but regardless of all of this, I feel that the western society and feminist has hit her. May Allah SWT guide her. Ameen
Brother, could you please give me an example of what one would respect? I don't know what this applies to, it would help me understand Insha'Allah
Subhanallah may Allah make it easy for you brother. Respect for us is submission and readiness to undertake anything we ask of you, to treat us like you would someone of higher authority, to make sure you are obedient always and grateful for your husband. That is respect. That is virtually impossible to find in the West im afraid subhanallah. Even if she isnt a card-holding feminist, she will still find it hard to do what I mentioned above naturally
Respect respect respect
Listen listen listen.
That’s what we want.
Be the best to your wife as our Prophet advised us, take him صل الله عليه وسلم as a role model and her respect will be gained effortlessly insha'allah.
Thank u❤
Marry a man you can respect that's what I did, that's the number one question I used to ask myself, can I respect this man? If not you shouldn't marry them
Women are driven by emotion. Today she says she respects and tomorrow it withered away. That is the nature of woman. The best of them are the ones that control this rebellious need and respects 247
@Samira Qurbani don't blame your actions on others. take accountability for yourself and your modesty. ameen sister.
I am not talkative ,not communicable .that's how i am .
Same
What I want from a woman is to be her most beloved and top priority. Not her mother not her father and not her friends being more loved or having higher priority than me.I wouldn't want to be her 2nd most beloved or her 2nd highest priority. Except for Allah ofc. That's what I want from a spouse.
@rotting moth can you be more random??? Parents????
@rotting moth did I really say that. I think now parents should be a higher priority. Definitely not friends.
@rotting moth the wife has duty make sure the husband feels loved and respected and that parents and friends aren't sidelining or getting in way of their relationship or their love. That's case then the couple should talk about ways to make sure the husband feels loved and respected.
There’s enough space in a women’s heart to love you and her parents I don’t think you should think this way. I’m not gonna love a guy above my mother for example. A guy came later in my life my mum stood by me since being so what kind of comparison is that. She will love you but you don’t need to make her choose between you and your parents that’s childish
Nofap day 75.
1. a best thing a man can have is to do semen retention.
2. Thes energy is high and strong and conscious and patient.
3. Evil energy is also around at nights specifically. Tje book Quran specifically surah al fajr. It was good and then until the 101 I guess Surah Zalzalah and surah Qariah. They helped me alot. There is great teachings in them.
4. Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self Reliance
"Cast the bantling on the rocks, Suckle him with the she-wolf's teat; Wintered with the hawk and fox, Power and speed be hands and feet."
May Allah keep us steadfast
@@liby254 thank you bro. i relapsed yesterday at 103 days.
Good job bro, I’m on day 4, wish me luck
As a muslim young woman...After deep thinking i understand the nature of men and have no problem with polygamy when getting married...but my society sees polygamy as an old habit and men dont even discuss this topic with their potential wives today ...what to do to show that im not against it at all and that i can deal with jealousy ...now most men prefer marrying one to avoid people talking but they dont feel enough and start making chatting with their female mates in the work or not lowering their gaze in street or searching for haram on the internet as if those men fear people criticism but sadly dont fear allah ...i just dont want to marry a man without hayaa ..so i never refuse polygamy bcz its 100% halal.. but family and todays society willl say i ve gone mad because im not the only woman in his life .etc ...anyone has advice for me ?
Religion over society. If Allah says it’s halal, it’s halal. If you are willing to engage in polygamy for a man with hayaa and good character, I don’t see anything wrong with that sister. Wa allahu aalam
@@Kichidakatsumi sure its halal and nothing wrong with that i will never accept bad marriege for temporary happiness ...i mean how to find a real man who comes to my family and speaks honestly about that topic ..most men pretend to be against polygamy bcz they fear people critism.. and after marrying one woman according to society's will ...they do many haram things which society dont blame them on...so if i didn't find a good man with hayaa and honesty about this topic , then i dont want to spend my life with fake muslim man...so i ask if being single is the right decision or not?? a rightoeus man supporting me to get closer to allah or no marriage at all even if family would be against me...i think i will do that and i'm asking if this decision is right or there is other solutions that i dont know to problems of this type in islam?
@@PearlaChan Alsalam alaykum. I was just researching polygamy in Islam, and I believe I have made a mistake regarding what I have told you. What I said about responsibility is true (that if you are not responsible enough to handle more than one wife, then stick to one), but I was mistaken on the nature of men. I believe even as a man myself I must have been brainwashed to some degree to have said what I have said. I think you were correct that 99% (if not 100%) of men want more than one wife and polygamy has many benefits that I can discuss from what I have found if you would like. Wanting more than one wife up to 4 is very natural and makes a man perform better in his life as well as fulfil his duties to his wives better even in intimacy. Again I apologize for the mistake. I think most men don’t even consider this option because society made it taboo. You coming into terms with it shows that you put Allah first and understand His wisdom and why he allowed men to have up to four wives. There are so many benefits. So again, I apologize. And I will delete my previous comments because I have changed my mind now. I believe you were correct 100%, and I wasn’t experienced enough to understand what you were saying. Definitely pick a man who has no problem saying he wants more than one wife who as you said will go about it the halal way of having more than one wife instead of doing zina astaghfurallah. He might not say it straight away if you are the first wife until the urge kicks in i guess. Support your husband if he wants a second third or fourth wife. If you are the second wife, then you will have picked him knowing he wants polygamy so thats obvious.
everything in the qura'n is the ideal solution to our problems i believe it's a great benefit to both males and females so a man will live as allah allowed him in halal way and a widow or divorced woman can find a shelter ,too...but boys (not real men ) are afraid to even marry one woman !! they want to be friends so they can breakup whenever he gets bored ,they aren't mature enough to stay emotionally connected to their wives ...polygyny needs a brave , kind , masculine and responsible muslim men and its really an act of humanity and mercy if done within the islamic ranges as the sahaba and prophet (pbuh) practised it so both men and women could equally get countless benefits from it .jazak allau khayran for the correction.
@@PearlaChan Mashallah absolutely spot on sister. Wa jazaki allahu khayran
Gucci shades 🔥
wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Very true
Marriege is super solution
Of course
We would like to hear what the sisters want from men
@SF He probably has a solid reason to keep friends away from you. They're usually jealous and will do anything to ruin your marriage. Single women give married women the worst advice.
women want a man thats close to Allah goes to masjid to make his prayers seek knowledge of the deen. we also want man that knows his obligations as a husband to provide and take care of his wife finaceially .also a man that is good in character no to strict knows how to balance deen and dunya
@SF He probably has seen things you did not like. Also, I'd never have my wife friendless, however, I would like to know if her friend is a righteous one, it would also be ideal if she has a husband as well, so we can create a friendship like family. Where me and him hangout, and her and my wife. Yeah, you have a good point, it depends, I also understand why some men would not want their wives amongst certain women.
@@Expiringsoon Yes the honeymoon period will go away after babies, that's so sad to listen 😔😢, you just burst my beautiful expectation bubble sister 😹🤭🤭🥺. Sometimes I wish that the honeymoon period stays all through the years of marriage but that's not reality and one gotta accept it 😪😒💁🏻♀️😹
@@Expiringsoon Awww...Summa Ameen dear sister 🌹🥺, May Allah grant u a righteous spouse and beautiful children 🥰💕
assalāmu aleikom wa rahmatuLlāhi wa barakātuH, my dear sibling in Islam! I hope this message finds you well and that Allah is blessing you with His grace and mercy. I wanted to gently remind you that displaying images of women, which would additionally include non-sharia prescriped displays hijabi women’s faces and hands is not permitted in Islam, as stated by contemporary scholars such as Sheikh Uthmān Al Khamēs. This is not in regards to the matter of niqab versus hijab, rather this is in regards to the matter of posting online. I know you most likely did not do this with abhorrent intentions, and that is why I am reminding you of this ruling with love and kindness. Please take some time to reflect on this matter, and know that I am writing this out of a place of care and concern and obedience to Allah in enjoining good and forbidding evil, and not out of a place of judgment 💛💛 😊❤
I am that kind of woman but men don't seem to want that. They want independent women, who don't need men and don't show any affection..It's been my experience..
They don't have ghuznal Dhan...There is lots of good ladies out there
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
USTADZ/USTADZAH MUALLAF/MUALLAFAH,
CONGRATULATION MUALLAF DAY IN THE WORLD.
BARAKALLAHU FEEKUM.
(at Indonesia, 25 des is MUALLAF DAY FOR THE WORLD).
I thought guys go for beauty but obviously there has to be some physical attraction.
Not really true. Physical attraction is just for sex. But i personally look at how she acts and her behaviour. I really like a woman who isnt a sheep and thinks for herself. And isn't desperate to stand out. Someone who is respectful and kind and humble and feminine. Also someone who has deen
@@AbuTuraab72 thanks, nice to know how and what guys think!
looks matter too. if a man has chosen to marry a woman then there was something there he was attracted to
looks matter for both men and women ! u dont need to be a model to by physcially attractive..take care of urself and practice hygiene(beyond wudhu)
We do as long as she's average looking or slightly above. Btw we'd prefer to be with 3 that's good in all aspects than a 10 that's useless.
Nice
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Ustadh Gabriel
Yes he will 😂
@7:30
If you are a virgin women, should you hint the guy (that your looking to marry) that you have a strong desire for sex? Does it make sense? I am thinking it could go both ways; a virgin never had sex but is eager beaver or she has no idea about sex so doesn't know what to expect...anyways guys hope you understand what I am trying to say.
@@somo1757 thanks for the advice!
I strongly suggest to refrain from hinting those types of feelings to anyone who isn’t your husband. Keep in mind that disclosing such information to a stranger can encourage ill intentions.
as a man if a sister would talk to me about her high sex drive while also telling me she is a virgin I would have doubts about her virginity, or at least I would assume that she is masturbating a lot, which is also bad because haram. So as a man, no, don't talk about it at all. Just observe the man in front of you, make sure he has healthy masculine traits, like being responsible human, is exercising or has physical job, healthy diet and sleep schedule etc. Every healthy man has a high sex drive too.
pray istikhara for a man who doesnt satisfy himself, isnt too diabetic or have other issues like shaving the beard and disregarding his fitra and outward strength. allah knows best whats for you.
@@tahirballikaya213 omagh sh
How women are choosing to marry men they don’t fully respect in the first place is beyond me.
As a brother i can say that even if it's true that some women need to learn how to give respect to the husband and be real wives, I've got to be honest, nowadays there's an epidemic of non masculine males... and a woman can't have respect for that. After marriage (or worse, children) you ask your wife to go look for a job and pay part (or all) of the bills? respect is GONE. You're a compulsive liar and she learns over time she can't trust whatever you say? respect is GONE. You're a mama's boy with no proper boundaries? Ya rabb! Respect is GONE. May Allah help our sisters, May Allah help our brothers, and this entire Ummah. Amin!
What is D?
@4:49
Walk like an Egyptian 😂
Female bashing at the beginning, not warranted. The rest of the vlog…FANTASTIC! Allahu Akbar!!!
Where exactly was the female bashing?
@@talana9777 Brother, needs to have tact sometimes. Maybe, he is just unaware. ALLAHU AKBAR!!!
So they don't look at the beauty?
Yes, men look at beauty. But the more important thing is that a woman respects her man
Yes. We do look at beauty. Usually appearance (beauty) will be the first thing that will create chemistry between the parties. Therefore, the Prophet Alayhi Salawatu Wassalam advised the sahaba that they should go and look at each other.
BUT if the beauty doesnt come with respect for the maintainer/provider/caretaker ie the man, he knows that he can’t take her as a wife as it wont last long before the problems start building up.
Hope this helps.
Sex, sandwich and silence. Thank me for revealing the secret.
no sound!
As a women I want a real love from my husband 😑😢😔
But he can't show me he doesn't have that sense of humour 😭
Like a real man 😒😑
Goodluck with that. Women only can have demands, but you have to accept their pseudo feminist ideas in Nikkah contracts. As result, the guy gets a hairy beast, who thinks she's all, because of her degree. And he has to suffer.
dont project brother. it sounds like you had a bad experience, May Allah make it easy for you. Have Sabr and put your Trust in Allah Alone.
@@7aemr In the west, this is normal. She can have all her rights. But you can't tell her nothing. You have to deal with her modernism. But you have to be Islamic in giving.
And then he gets bored with that wife and gets another one. Because the praise and attention of one is not enough.
Islam. Written by men for men.
@5:30