Good to see that people value the sacred constitution of marriage and are willing to put efforts to make it work. I respect and pray for everyone trying. I feel marriage is a responsibility and a purification one has to go through. Its a journey of lifetimes
@@kassandrabarr6740 Best thing is to live close but separately, I don't know how your partner feels. Don't have any extra marital affairs or any affairs. Both of you. Its a sacrifice that will help your children also. They will also value and respect the institution of marriage. Both of you can also take up some meditation or yoga classes that can also help. Either together or separately. Take help from the lady in the video
My husband told me about a month ago that he fell out of love with me. I have been working on myself since. Ive been going to therapy and been working on my physical and emotional healing already. I'm just glad I am on the right track for myself.
Hands down one of the best marriage videos out there. My summary: "Work on being a healthier you (in all areas) and and work on being emotionally safe towards them." That will definitely bring healing to the one that does it, and create the best opportunity for healing between partners.
I have noticed that working out is a good start and gets you on the track to focus on doing things that are good for you. Which is necessary to be happy in any relationship
Wow! Thank you for the kind response. We have found the working on your PIES is the best thing you can do for YOU regardless of your situation or how it turns out. Thank you for the comment!
@@MarriageHelper another reality is that these kind of marriage helps (counseling) should be like you said, something you do all along. Everything has momentum, so if your marriage is not getting better, you might not realize it, but it's probably getting worse. Tips like you share here are great tips for all marriages.
Thank you for this video. I decided to focus on myself and pray for myself my marriage. I am so exhausted to be honest but I still want to save my marriage.
Amazing video! Every married couple should watch this. Now if I can get my wife to try this we can save our marriage. Praying everyday for reconciliation.
Don't pray for reconciliation, even if it's what you want. Get your life together and let whatever will be to be. If she bails, you at least are ready to control your own destiny. If she comes back, then you will be a man and lead.
My wife has met someone on line and she tells me that there is an unbelievable emotional attraction. She has fallen in love with him, even though she hasn't met him. So much so, that she wants out of our marriage to be with him. He has no money and is not good looking, but the emotional connection with him has destroyed my marriage of 35 years. I can't compete with that. It destroyed me.
@@dianachophy thank you. I am, and her friends. I have made my bathroom a "war room" where i pray when she's asleep. She wants to go and see him, so I am, amongst other things, praying for discord between them before she goes.
One of the things is do not make a big deal out of most everything. Couples argued a lot of time with petty stuffs that amount to nothing. Think on the positive erase the negatives, life is too short compares to eternity. Our life span on earth dissipate and disappear quite fast when we look back in life. Spiritual readiness is quite important. Amen
This hits home for me. Thank you for the valuable information. I have forgotten how important the PIES are and my marriage has faltered after 39 years. I took it and him for granted.
Thank you so much, my Sister, for this! I needed to hear this for my marriage. It just hurts so much in being in a sexless, loveless, and touchless marriage. God bless you for your advice! Peace be with you!
The power of prayer is key. I asked the LORD for help when I suspected my wife of cheating. He answered. As a result I started to look at myself more seeking to effect change. My closer examination of myself along with guidance through faith is beginning to look a lot like what you describe here. It is amazing how ones love for the other grows when one sets out to begin this process. You remember how good it is to be good to your spouse.
My wife and I are separated.. after our separation I’ve been applying this without even knowing. But to know I was on the right path, it was a Godly sign. Thank you. It helped me so much!
This was BY FAR the best advice I’ve seen. After at least 10 prior channels, I’ve stopped crying during your video. I need to work on ME. I’m gonna sub. Thank you.
If I'm taking care of me, maturing, learning, feeling excited about life and it's opportunities, then he's bound to be re-attracted or perhaps it will become clear that this match has outgrown one another and become time to find a new one - maybe even with myself. Find a refreshing role in my own life as the one I champion and root for.
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This spoke to me- thank you for sharing your story- I am currently in a separation and I noticed I was just sitting around waiting for my spouse to ask to see me or even come back and I stopped doing for me. Now I plan to do things I love and date me.
Your story with your husband is exactly what I am going through right now. The only thing is, it's too late. He is with the other woman. However this video taught me that I don't do anything for myself. I will start to do the Pies for myself. For my next relationship, but most importantly for myself
This happen to me I would work so much we lost connection 😞. She lost the feeling for me. We have 2 kids. She never talked about it she hold it in. Now im changing my bad ways she has notice it. Now she's leaving to a 1 room apartment we both gonna share the kids. Im not gonna give up on my wife she's still mad n upset with me. Ima give her space n time to heal
I'm sorry to here that I wish my partner acknowledged that I'm in a process off moving out but you keep fighting even if you have to send her a letter or flowers every day
This was great, I been tryin to find out about "my husband has cheated on me what do i do" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Bonuhappad Intellectual Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is a smashing one off product for discovering how to understand what your husband wishes you knew about him minus the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.
I appreciate the idea behind working on PIES. Its true but realistically. I think it all comes down to the hearts and its intentions. Realistically too, what if either one of us is mentally ill, sickly and is dependant on the other? Will they only love us when we are at our best? What about in times of sickness and in times of bad? We come into marriage to also love our spouses even in inconvenience. Thats true love.
What about the mother in law factor? My wife and I were perfectly happy until I let her mom move in. I wanted her mom to get her own place. My wife disagreed. I even offered to help pay her rent. She wouldn't have it. I was doing my pies too. I was less than a year away from completing a degree. My wife still wanted a divorce. I just know there's got to be more to it than just "working on your PIES". What about outside factors?
Right. Is your wife willing to compromise or is she selfish, sounds pretty selfish Give her what she wants, her mom and the divorce. Remove yourself and she will quickly realize that your not the problem.
This is a real time example to all us mother in laws out there. Do we really want to tear our childs marriage apart? Don't underestimate how much they will resent us for it!
Please pray with me for grace, power and discernment as I try again in my marriage. I’m so weak and defeated but there’s a little glimmer of hope inside me that things could still work.
It depends on the person involved, too, whether they go into the marriage for a long haul or not at the first place, or just quiting when it gets hard. It should be both person willing to work on it because having this similar view. It's about loyalty. Because there will be a case when nomatter what the person do, working on himself/herself, if the other half decided that it's ok to quit nomatter what, then it would not work.
Thank you so much for sharing your story it was very helpful and informative. Unfortunately I went through the divorce even when focusing on myself but he was a narcissist and drank. But going forward I will keep this saved in mind for future relationships. I’ve been single for 10 years and I really needed to hear this today to get me out of my slump and back to the vivacious woman I used to be. Again thank you 🙏🏻
Ha, this is great! So funny, in my church we started a couple of years ago with a renewed fourfold focus for self-improvement: physical, intellectual, social, and spiritual. It's awesome.
I agree all of these are important, but the number one thing women look for in a man is does he make me feel like he could protect me and my possible future children and can he provide for us and give me security. The other stuff means nothing if you can provide and make them feel secure. That is the number one attraction for women.
Discovering this is exactly what I need to be doing. I've come to terms with things I did in our relationship and know what needs changed. I have a vision of our future if my wife would reconsider. I have learned two emotions that make me tetter-totter. I've never been able to see what these emotions are doing to me and others before. I'm sad and feel defeated with no hope and I also see there is hope in myself to be stronger. I love my wife and want it to work out but also learning to accept it not working out. I don't want to be in a dark place again. My wife also did things and she confessed infedelity. The situation on that end I am forgiving. But I don't want to be brought down all the time for the things that I only did. I just need to be the real me like I use to be.
Very similar to my wife and my story. I have been you. My marriage is on the brink but I believe I've started the work that needed to be done before it was too late
My wife HATES it when I work on my PIES and improve myself. Seeing me improving myself makes her feel bad about continuing to do nothing. Seeing me enjoy my hobbies makes her envious that she has no interests she's motivated to pursue. Seeing me do things for myself makes her upset that I am not doing things for her. The great thing though, is that when I am doing what I want to feel good about myself, I am not bothered by her negativity!
It's a shame that my husband of 25 years didn't care if I started working on the things that I needed to change about myself he was already disconnected from me and the marriage and was ultimately ready to move on
The ending of this video is the best part for me. Im going through a difficult time with my husband. From the moment we got married he's never shown interest in my feelings and would bash me every time I was vulnerable with him. I think all of this has accumulated over the years and now the loudest thought in me is leave, he doesn't care about you anyway. I'm constantly needy for affection and he intentionally denies me. I unfortunately began a conversation out of frustration and said alot of mean things to him. Now looking at this video i realise i would have done a better job at approaching the situation and instead focused on better myself and not his weaknesses.
I am not trying to be difficult but I question the relationship with the two words "process", and "falling". It seems to me that the two are completely different.
I can't believe how similar your situation is with mine. I'm also stuck in my little house in Korea waiting for my husbands return daily. We fight just like you did. I have recently started to work on my P and I but I never knew that I should work on the E and S as well. This is such an eye opener. I will work on myself and thank you for the video
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Both my husband and I was too busy with work and kids that after 30 years of marriage he’s emotional checked out and wants a divorce. I’m heart broken because he’s the only one in my life. I don’t know how to get him back to love me again 😢
@@kimngocqt ignore him and love ourself while being good to him at the same time, don’t chase him. Go out with friends and visit your family no matter how distant they are. Keep updating him on your whereabouts, dress reeeeeally teeeeeealy nicely in the way you know he used to like. Smile and force your tone to be happy always Whenever he brings up divorce matters again you say ok, let me think on my reply get get back to you once I have. This attitude always surprises them. Cry in the corners of your bathroom whenever you have to but DO NOT LET him see your tears or weakness or neediness no matter how sad you are. Be intentional about doing this FOR 10 days, then another 10 days if it’s yet to show a turnarounds sis but make sure you are also doing the opposite of the things he always complied about you
@@SeventimesLighter Thanks so much!!! at first I was angry and hurt. Then I ignored him for a week and went out with friends dressing very sexy, slept in a different room. He ignored me but then one day he came and gave me hugs, but still avoid kissing and any intimacy. I’m sure in his mind he’s thinking that he only loves me as a charity love. I caved, still showing him love but I guess he needs to feel threatened of loosing me. I won’t beg though. I’m an attractive person, fairly successful in career, very good cook, kind and caring too. We didn’t really fight at all, nor I nagged or treated him disrespectfully. It was a shock to me. I wonder if midlife crisis has anything to do with this. He’s not doing anything crazy or having anyone else, just started drinking a lot and wants to be alone. Ugh!
@@kimngocqt good. Now don just do it for a week, sis I’m telling you this because that’s how my husband got back to me. He started calling me “too much and needy” just because he started loving me less than before. I would cry and complain but it only made me look more pathetic to him and It destroyed my self esteem because he was all I had, no friends or family in the city etc so I started going to church and made some friends even though I wasn’t really interested Sometimes I’d fake “hanging out with a friend” but of just go to the beach or cinema and cry, then speak to strangers and have them take happy pictures with me to post on my stories so that he sees me having “fun”. I also dressed up fine and cleaned the house more and made more delicious meals so he knows what he’s about to miss. He would sometimes say he wasn’t hungry and I’ll say okay then “there’s food in the fridge when you’re hungry” and is serve my own meal sooooo nicely and eat it well. Lool all sounds petty but it worked!! Now he’s literally cuddling and making love every night and sending me “I love you texts” when he’s at work. I cave sometimes too but when I see that unloving behavior coming back again, I do all this over and over again. Also make sure you ask him for help to lift heavy items or little things like that to remind him you’re still very feminine Start saying “I feel unloved when you do this to me” instead of saying “you don’t love me” etc whenever there’s an argument I wish you all the best!
@@kimngocqt if he’s drinking a lot he might also be going through something- maybe depression. Even so, give him space. Do the same things no matter how hard!
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I loved and adored my wife and after 24 years she filed for divorce. It breaks my heart every day but I hope she finds whatever it is she needs to be happy.
I guess I’m not ready to try again in my marriage of 13 years. I have tried to try really hard to rally and be the hero in my marriage. But after a few months, I am still giving and he is still taking and I’m exhausted emotionally. Then things fall apart and I’m lonely and desperate. The cycle continues. Now I am unexpectedly pregnant with out 4th child and I had to go off my anti-depressant. I’m soul sick.
Everything she is saying is very much true and would be very very much helpful; it would've helped me a lot, and those are the activities that my body and mind are craving. But things are different when you have kids. And as of the moment, i am also half way across the globe, far away from home, away from friends and family.
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I like that you bring up God! I really like your videos. My marriage is doing really good. It has had it’s ups and downs and it really almost went south a few years ago. I decided I wanted to keep moving forward. Sometimes even though things are good, I feel a little distance but not the suspicion that something is going on. I just want to keep things really good between us before I could do anything to push him away. I have that kind of personality at times, but I am aware of it. I am working on myself. Thanks again!
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What if the other partner left 6 months ago for another man and is no longer interested in him and wants her family back but is stuck in another country due to fear of Corona VIrus...can this broken marriage be restored? If you think so, I'd love to talk to you.
What if your spouse pulled away from everything? Doesn’t want things to work, told me repeatedly he’s done. I am going to start on my PIES but I honestly don’t know what else to do. He’s unwilling to talk to me now and we live together right now.
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Hi. I am a really struggling with this. My ex husband. We were married for 12 year ls and dated for 2,5 years before than hated me intensely. I am an adult child of alcholics. I never knew love. At first I grasped at the attention my ex gave me. But he was so critical, demeaning, controlling and isolating the price I paid was in self worth. He, my ex is now living with another woman from a different religion shortly after we were seperated. He never apologized for harassing me, for the emotional and sometimes physical abuse. I am struggling with this.. This man hates me. How can I ever want to go back to him, let alone love him. All I ever wanted was a family and to be loved. This man tried/is trying to destroy me.
In times of leave him,,,,leave her...how can u be so sure to stay ... everyone says divorce.......what makes u stay while being separated,,, bcz my family says its low self estemm like i cant think k will fine someone better than him ...etc etc ..what makes u so sure to continue marriage..what was the thought
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Good to see that people value the sacred constitution of marriage and are willing to put efforts to make it work. I respect and pray for everyone trying. I feel marriage is a responsibility and a purification one has to go through. Its a journey of lifetimes
You mean sacred institution?
@@carolemoritz6937 yes
thank you, her vids have been helpful but i think i lost her, luv her alot! x1000
@@kassandrabarr6740 Best thing is to live close but separately, I don't know how your partner feels. Don't have any extra marital affairs or any affairs. Both of you. Its a sacrifice that will help your children also. They will also value and respect the institution of marriage. Both of you can also take up some meditation or yoga classes that can also help. Either together or separately. Take help from the lady in the video
My husband told me about a month ago that he fell out of love with me. I have been working on myself since. Ive been going to therapy and been working on my physical and emotional healing already. I'm just glad I am on the right track for myself.
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Thanks Helena this helped me save my broken marriage
Hands down one of the best marriage videos out there.
My summary:
"Work on being a healthier you (in all areas) and and work on being emotionally safe towards them."
That will definitely bring healing to the one that does it, and create the best opportunity for healing between partners.
I have noticed that working out is a good start and gets you on the track to focus on doing things that are good for you. Which is necessary to be happy in any relationship
This video should be required to view before a divorce or before marriage.
Wow! Thank you for the kind response. We have found the working on your PIES is the best thing you can do for YOU regardless of your situation or how it turns out. Thank you for the comment!
@@MarriageHelper another reality is that these kind of marriage helps (counseling) should be like you said, something you do all along. Everything has momentum, so if your marriage is not getting better, you might not realize it, but it's probably getting worse. Tips like you share here are great tips for all marriages.
I believe this is something every person in a relationship should watch. Change yourself first to see the change you want in others. Sooo good! ❤️
Thank you for this video. I decided to focus on myself and pray for myself my marriage. I am so exhausted to be honest but I still want to save my marriage.
Amazing video! Every married couple should watch this. Now if I can get my wife to try this we can save our marriage. Praying everyday for reconciliation.
Wrong way to look at it initially. Just start with you!
Don't pray for reconciliation, even if it's what you want. Get your life together and let whatever will be to be. If she bails, you at least are ready to control your own destiny. If she comes back, then you will be a man and lead.
stop praying start reconciling... dont waste time on some BS nothingness ...
How’s your marriage going?
How did you get on?
My wife has met someone on line and she tells me that there is an unbelievable emotional attraction. She has fallen in love with him, even though she hasn't met him. So much so, that she wants out of our marriage to be with him. He has no money and is not good looking, but the emotional connection with him has destroyed my marriage of 35 years. I can't compete with that. It destroyed me.
Pray
@@dianachophy thank you. I am, and her friends. I have made my bathroom a "war room" where i pray when she's asleep. She wants to go and see him, so I am, amongst other things, praying for discord between them before she goes.
@@daveleighton4683 how are things now?
@daveleighton4683 Hey, how are things?
@daveleighton4683 it's all in there mind once she meets him and sees it's real life. That will fizzle out
I came across this at the right time when I am feeling like my relationship is falling apart, i need to adopt the PIES strategy
This is amazing. Been married for 32 years. Personal change. Very important stuff to help me hit the reset button
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This is exactly what i needed to hear rn, that i have not gotten from any talks with my friends. Thank youu!
One of the things is do not make a big deal out of most everything. Couples argued a lot of time with petty stuffs that amount to nothing. Think on the positive erase the negatives, life is too short compares to eternity. Our life span on earth dissipate and disappear quite fast when we look back in life. Spiritual readiness is quite important. Amen
This hits home for me. Thank you for the valuable information. I have forgotten how important the PIES are and my marriage has faltered after 39 years. I took it and him for granted.
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Thank you so much, my Sister, for this! I needed to hear this for my marriage. It just hurts so much in being in a sexless, loveless, and touchless marriage. God bless you for your advice! Peace be with you!
How is it going now, brother?
The power of prayer is key. I asked the LORD for help when I suspected my wife of cheating. He answered. As a result I started to look at myself more seeking to effect change. My closer examination of myself along with guidance through faith is beginning to look a lot like what you describe here. It is amazing how ones love for the other grows when one sets out to begin this process. You remember how good it is to be good to your spouse.
My wife and I are separated.. after our separation I’ve been applying this without even knowing. But to know I was on the right path, it was a Godly sign. Thank you. It helped me so much!
@madtofuboi808 update on the marriage?
Did your wife come back to you
How did this work out for you?
This was BY FAR the best advice I’ve seen. After at least 10 prior channels, I’ve stopped crying during your video. I need to work on ME. I’m gonna sub. Thank you.
Great video and very true. The only person you can change is yourself. As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.
I truly thank God for you! I’m just in tears at how God gave us you . I’m so thankful for the testimony of the saved marriage.
This is amazing, i definitely blamed my wife for a long long time for not growing together, when in reality shes changing while i remained stagnant
Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. Invariably they are both disappointed. - Albert Einstein.
Everything she says hits the nail on the head. I'm destroyed but now I have an idea of what I need to do Thank You!!!
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If I'm taking care of me, maturing, learning, feeling excited about life and it's opportunities, then he's bound to be re-attracted or perhaps it will become clear that this match has outgrown one another and become time to find a new one - maybe even with myself. Find a refreshing role in my own life as the one I champion and root for.
This made me cry so hard. I'm going through the same thing and nothing is going right
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This spoke to me- thank you for sharing your story- I am currently in a separation and I noticed I was just sitting around waiting for my spouse to ask to see me or even come back and I stopped doing for me. Now I plan to do things I love and date me.
Your story with your husband is exactly what I am going through right now. The only thing is, it's too late. He is with the other woman. However this video taught me that I don't do anything for myself. I will start to do the Pies for myself. For my next relationship, but most importantly for myself
Hi friend,i really understand how you feel right now,do you really need help?
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This happen to me I would work so much we lost connection 😞. She lost the feeling for me. We have 2 kids. She never talked about it she hold it in. Now im changing my bad ways she has notice it. Now she's leaving to a 1 room apartment we both gonna share the kids. Im not gonna give up on my wife she's still mad n upset with me. Ima give her space n time to heal
I'm sorry to here that I wish my partner acknowledged that I'm in a process off moving out but you keep fighting even if you have to send her a letter or flowers every day
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This was great, I been tryin to find out about "my husband has cheated on me what do i do" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Bonuhappad Intellectual Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is a smashing one off product for discovering how to understand what your husband wishes you knew about him minus the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.
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I think this is the best video and guidance ive ever seen. And the first time ive felt any hope in my situation at all. Thank you so much.
When I feel really low and down on myself and my relationship, I revisit this video. It's an incredible reminder. Thank you. 💚🧜♀️💜
I appreciate the idea behind working on PIES. Its true but realistically. I think it all comes down to the hearts and its intentions. Realistically too, what if either one of us is mentally ill, sickly and is dependant on the other? Will they only love us when we are at our best? What about in times of sickness and in times of bad? We come into marriage to also love our spouses even in inconvenience. Thats true love.
U r so right. Love is a commitment. Yes,,together in sickness too, but always try to improve, Don t give up
My marriage is broken and you give me hope! Wow this is a great video!!!!
We waiting?
What about the mother in law factor? My wife and I were perfectly happy until I let her mom move in. I wanted her mom to get her own place. My wife disagreed. I even offered to help pay her rent. She wouldn't have it. I was doing my pies too. I was less than a year away from completing a degree. My wife still wanted a divorce. I just know there's got to be more to it than just "working on your PIES". What about outside factors?
Moving the in-laws in with you pretty much guarantees that you'll be miserable. NEVER a good idea.
Right. Is your wife willing to compromise or is she selfish, sounds pretty selfish Give her what she wants, her mom and the divorce. Remove yourself and she will quickly realize that your not the problem.
Holy shit, you just described my situation... Your not alone.
I’m still trying to figure out what pies are
This is a real time example to all us mother in laws out there. Do we really want to tear our childs marriage apart? Don't underestimate how much they will resent us for it!
Please pray with me for grace, power and discernment as I try again in my marriage. I’m so weak and defeated but there’s a little glimmer of hope inside me that things could still work.
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Thank you so much for sharing your story it was very helpful and informative. Unfortunately I went through the divorce even when focusing on myself but he was a narcissist and drank. But going forward I will keep this saved in mind for future relationships. I’ve been single for 10 years and I really needed to hear this today to get me out of my slump and back to the vivacious woman I used to be. Again thank you 🙏🏻
Ha, this is great! So funny, in my church we started a couple of years ago with a renewed fourfold focus for self-improvement: physical, intellectual, social, and spiritual. It's awesome.
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I agree all of these are important, but the number one thing women look for in a man is does he make me feel like he could protect me and my possible future children and can he provide for us and give me security. The other stuff means nothing if you can provide and make them feel secure. That is the number one attraction for women.
Discovering this is exactly what I need to be doing. I've come to terms with things I did in our relationship and know what needs changed. I have a vision of our future if my wife would reconsider. I have learned two emotions that make me tetter-totter. I've never been able to see what these emotions are doing to me and others before. I'm sad and feel defeated with no hope and I also see there is hope in myself to be stronger. I love my wife and want it to work out but also learning to accept it not working out. I don't want to be in a dark place again. My wife also did things and she confessed infedelity. The situation on that end I am forgiving. But I don't want to be brought down all the time for the things that I only did. I just need to be the real me like I use to be.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
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I LOVE ❤️ this!!! I really need to start working on me. Everyone tells me that, but it’s hard to know what that looks like and how to start.
I’m with you on that! “Keep busy” “work on yourself” is what EVERYONE says & I’m just like how?? But this video has given a starting point.
Thank you so much for this insightful, game-changing information!
Very similar to my wife and my story. I have been you. My marriage is on the brink but I believe I've started the work that needed to be done before it was too late
My wife HATES it when I work on my PIES and improve myself. Seeing me improving myself makes her feel bad about continuing to do nothing. Seeing me enjoy my hobbies makes her envious that she has no interests she's motivated to pursue. Seeing me do things for myself makes her upset that I am not doing things for her.
The great thing though, is that when I am doing what I want to feel good about myself, I am not bothered by her negativity!
Thank you so much for this information it really help me an I been married 38 yr but you can always learn how to keep your marriage happy ❤️
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This was fantastic and very helpful. Thank you, Kimberly!
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It's a shame that my husband of 25 years didn't care if I started working on the things that I needed to change about myself he was already disconnected from me and the marriage and was ultimately ready to move on
Don’t lose hope. I send your hugs, you’re not alone
The ending of this video is the best part for me. Im going through a difficult time with my husband. From the moment we got married he's never shown interest in my feelings and would bash me every time I was vulnerable with him. I think all of this has accumulated over the years and now the loudest thought in me is leave, he doesn't care about you anyway. I'm constantly needy for affection and he intentionally denies me. I unfortunately began a conversation out of frustration and said alot of mean things to him. Now looking at this video i realise i would have done a better job at approaching the situation and instead focused on better myself and not his weaknesses.
Hopefully, you’re not with him anymore because you would drive any man crazy… not in a good way either
@@Gotoworkkk please enlighten me on what it is I'm doing wrong, perhaps I can learn from you or see things from a different perspective?
I am not trying to be difficult but I question the relationship with the two words "process", and "falling". It seems to me that the two are completely different.
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I learned too much , right now me and my husband wasn't in a good situation but coz of your program i've a lot thank you very much
How about married to emotionally unavailable person/ narcs would these works?
@@beamka89 oh thank you for clarifying..it make sense now..
All narcs have unresolved childhood trauma. He needs therapy.
Thank you for your testimony. This brings great insight to how I see what I need to do to fix my own personnel problems. Thank you.
I can't believe how similar your situation is with mine. I'm also stuck in my little house in Korea waiting for my husbands return daily. We fight just like you did. I have recently started to work on my P and I but I never knew that I should work on the E and S as well. This is such an eye opener. I will work on myself and thank you for the video
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So grateful for your contant as I kee coming back to keep on track with my marriage
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Both my husband and I was too busy with work and kids that after 30 years of marriage he’s emotional checked out and wants a divorce. I’m heart broken because he’s the only one in my life. I don’t know how to get him back to love me again 😢
@@kimngocqt ignore him and love ourself while being good to him at the same time, don’t chase him. Go out with friends and visit your family no matter how distant they are. Keep updating him on your whereabouts, dress reeeeeally teeeeeealy nicely in the way you know he used to like. Smile and force your tone to be happy always
Whenever he brings up divorce matters again you say ok, let me think on my reply get get back to you once I have.
This attitude always surprises them.
Cry in the corners of your bathroom whenever you have to but DO NOT LET him see your tears or weakness or neediness no matter how sad you are. Be intentional about doing this FOR 10 days, then another 10 days if it’s yet to show a turnarounds sis but make sure you are also doing the opposite of the things he always complied about you
@@SeventimesLighter Thanks so much!!! at first I was angry and hurt. Then I ignored him for a week and went out with friends dressing very sexy, slept in a different room. He ignored me but then one day he came and gave me hugs, but still avoid kissing and any intimacy. I’m sure in his mind he’s thinking that he only loves me as a charity love. I caved, still showing him love but I guess he needs to feel threatened of loosing me. I won’t beg though. I’m an attractive person, fairly successful in career, very good cook, kind and caring too. We didn’t really fight at all, nor I nagged or treated him disrespectfully. It was a shock to me. I wonder if midlife crisis has anything to do with this. He’s not doing anything crazy or having anyone else, just started drinking a lot and wants to be alone. Ugh!
@@kimngocqt good. Now don just do it for a week, sis I’m telling you this because that’s how my husband got back to me. He started calling me “too much and needy” just because he started loving me less than before. I would cry and complain but it only made me look more pathetic to him and It destroyed my self esteem because he was all I had, no friends or family in the city etc so I started going to church and made some friends even though I wasn’t really interested
Sometimes I’d fake “hanging out with a friend” but of just go to the beach or cinema and cry, then speak to strangers and have them take happy pictures with me to post on my stories so that he sees me having “fun”.
I also dressed up fine and cleaned the house more and made more delicious meals so he knows what he’s about to miss.
He would sometimes say he wasn’t hungry and I’ll say okay then “there’s food in the fridge when you’re hungry” and is serve my own meal sooooo nicely and eat it well. Lool all sounds petty but it worked!!
Now he’s literally cuddling and making love every night and sending me “I love you texts” when he’s at work.
I cave sometimes too but when I see that unloving behavior coming back again, I do all this over and over again.
Also make sure you ask him for help to lift heavy items or little things like that to remind him you’re still very feminine
Start saying “I feel unloved when you do this to me” instead of saying “you don’t love me” etc whenever there’s an argument
I wish you all the best!
@@kimngocqt if he’s drinking a lot he might also be going through something- maybe depression.
Even so, give him space. Do the same things no matter how hard!
thank you so much It's an eye opener because I'm in the situation now i do hope and pray to do what I'm supposed to do....🙏wish me luck!!!!
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I was against how you started,but you shore open my eyes wow!I went through a simarlier situation.
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I subscribed after hearing your testimony.
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I loved and adored my wife and after 24 years she filed for divorce. It breaks my heart every day but I hope she finds whatever it is she needs to be happy.
This is such an amazing video. Personal account of someone's own life /relationship
I guess I’m not ready to try again in my marriage of 13 years. I have tried to try really hard to rally and be the hero in my marriage. But after a few months, I am still giving and he is still taking and I’m exhausted emotionally. Then things fall apart and I’m lonely and desperate. The cycle continues. Now I am unexpectedly pregnant with out 4th child and I had to go off my anti-depressant. I’m soul sick.
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I like that you bring up God! I really like your videos. My marriage is doing really good. It has had it’s ups and downs and it really almost went south a few years ago. I decided I wanted to keep moving forward. Sometimes even though things are good, I feel a little distance but not the suspicion that something is going on. I just want to keep things really good between us before I could do anything to push him away. I have that kind of personality at times, but I am aware of it. I am working on myself. Thanks again!
Great video. This is helping me a lot through my own break up.
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What does one do when a spouse doesn't allow for time with friends, whether personal or together?
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What if the other partner left 6 months ago for another man and is no longer interested in him and wants her family back but is stuck in another country due to fear of Corona VIrus...can this broken marriage be restored? If you think so, I'd love to talk to you.
don't be another person's second option. Let her rot in that other country, and tell her as much.
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How do I get over the fact that my husband ignores me?
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What if your spouse pulled away from everything? Doesn’t want things to work, told me repeatedly he’s done. I am going to start on my PIES but I honestly don’t know what else to do. He’s unwilling to talk to me now and we live together right now.
I am working on my PIES....hopefully my marriage will be eventually restored....thank you for confirmation
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Hi. I am a really struggling with this. My ex husband. We were married for 12 year ls and dated for 2,5 years before than hated me intensely. I am an adult child of alcholics. I never knew love. At first I grasped at the attention my ex gave me. But he was so critical, demeaning, controlling and isolating the price I paid was in self worth. He, my ex is now living with another woman from a different religion shortly after we were seperated. He never apologized for harassing me, for the emotional and sometimes physical abuse. I am struggling with this.. This man hates me. How can I ever want to go back to him, let alone love him. All I ever wanted was a family and to be loved. This man tried/is trying to destroy me.
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What if you didn't love your spouse to begin with and were forced into marriage?
How do you overcome been upset about your spouse filing for divorce.
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In times of leave him,,,,leave her...how can u be so sure to stay ... everyone says divorce.......what makes u stay while being separated,,, bcz my family says its low self estemm like i cant think k will fine someone better than him ...etc etc ..what makes u so sure to continue marriage..what was the thought
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