The issue with becoming or getting into a relationship is the fact that if you need more attention, pulling away, constantly can become very exhausting if you’re having to pull away just to get him to chase you. You shouldn’t have to play games like that seems as if that would take its toll on a person mentally, and emotionally to constantly have to calculate and figure out how to act in order to get your partner to be how you need them to be. It’s kind of hard to find somebody who is going to fulfill all your needs in this big, wild world without just being able to communicate them and not constantly play some sort of game to make them chase. Yes, I believe that before starting a relationship or in the beginning of a relationship, you should always 150% let the man be the one to chase because if you’re chasing after the man he’s going to end up Either just or settling for you when you’re not the one who wanted to chase. And I apologize for any typos I prefer talk to text cause I’m always in a hurry and I don’t wanna spend all day typing. 😅
I don't chase anyone but I attract them. I know where my boundaries are and what I'm worth. If I have to prove to anyone what and how much I'm worth so that they would love me, they can go back from where they came as far as I'm concerned. I'm not a joker and certainly not arrogant. Through all the setbacks, pain, sorrow and deceit caused by others I have learned what my boundaries are. Setting your boundaries and self-respect are two important factors of so many to give your life a value and meaningful meaning. So I say to every man and woman, don't let your feet be rattled! Happy New year and use your brains! 🎉❤
Tuff! Just saying dance! enjoy life! look at the beautiful things. You don’t have to chase anyone and you don’t have to run from anyone. Just enjoy the beauty of life!!🎶🎉🎵🎊💋 forget about relationships. Find some friends and have a good time. Life is short happy new year.😘🎁💗🕊️🔥❤️🎶🎉🎵🥳
I have been praying to God for this man over 10 years I realize rejection is protection but thank you for all your teachings I'm hopeful one day I will find my humble husband
Jordan I appreciate you and your whole entire family you're beautiful wife and daughter thank you for sharing all your wisdom kindness in love may God bless you all the whole world in this new year
Doing just this, as I watch and listen to Jordan Peterson. Who has all the time to play mind games! That's exhausting. Better to pray for more strength.
Maybe it is more about being an adult. His perception is somehow a distortion from childhood trauma. Men consider it chase when it truly is not. His ego leads him to false narratives. If he lacks confidence that is about him. So, if you are not into the relationship, walk away.
How long is this supposed to go on? I've been waiting four years to actually meet him. Neither one of us has been with someone else. I'm sure of it. He was a no show once and l blocked him. Then l let him back in and it was two years ago. I have a theory we are both avoidant personalities. I have felt responsible for him because he has been I'll a lot of the time. I am the one who gives him moral support. He also does that. It's all a virtual romance. It started during Covid when we couldn't meet in person. Somehow it stalled even after that. I'm the one who feels like I'm fulfilling a role..an emotional need that can never come to fruition. It's crazy making. I'm trying to quit again.
Question please I invited him to spend New Year’s Eve together and he never even replied yet Xmas morning I woke at 8am to a long message hi sweetheart thinking of be good or be good at it
If hes not your boyfriend, I wouldn’t invite him out or do holidays yet, unless it’s to scope him out with other people lol. But give him space over 1-3 months to show he’s interested in being exclusive first then go make an effort to set up a plan with him in mind.❤
The issue with becoming or getting into a relationship is the fact that if you need more attention, pulling away, constantly can become very exhausting if you’re having to pull away just to get him to chase you. You shouldn’t have to play games like that seems as if that would take its toll on a person mentally, and emotionally to constantly have to calculate and figure out how to act in order to get your partner to be how you need them to be. It’s kind of hard to find somebody who is going to fulfill all your needs in this big, wild world without just being able to communicate them and not constantly play some sort of game to make them chase. Yes, I believe that before starting a relationship or in the beginning of a relationship, you should always 150% let the man be the one to chase because if you’re chasing after the man he’s going to end up Either just or settling for you when you’re not the one who wanted to chase. And I apologize for any typos I prefer talk to text cause I’m always in a hurry and I don’t wanna spend all day typing. 😅
How about not playing games
It's not games. It's strategy.
@@etiquetteconnoisseur6184 All games have strategies.
@@etiquetteconnoisseur6184So, games have no strategies? 😅
I don't chase anyone but I attract them. I know where my boundaries are and what I'm worth. If I have to prove to anyone what and how much I'm worth so that they would love me, they can go back from where they came as far as I'm concerned. I'm not a joker and certainly not arrogant. Through all the setbacks, pain, sorrow and deceit caused by others I have learned what my boundaries are. Setting your boundaries and self-respect are two important factors of so many to give your life a value and meaningful meaning. So I say to every man and woman, don't let your feet be rattled! Happy New year and use your brains! 🎉❤
You didnt get his point apparently
It's the Dopamine they feel when they have to make an effort...they like the Dopamine feeling
Tuff! Just saying dance! enjoy life! look at the beautiful things. You don’t have to chase anyone and you don’t have to run from anyone. Just enjoy the beauty of life!!🎶🎉🎵🎊💋 forget about relationships. Find some friends and have a good time. Life is short happy new year.😘🎁💗🕊️🔥❤️🎶🎉🎵🥳
Thank you ❤ this is really good ❤
Don't chase ever. Men or women.❤😂🎉
Then none of us are ever getting together lol😂
I have been praying to God for this man over 10 years I realize rejection is protection but thank you for all your teachings I'm hopeful one day I will find my humble husband
You are so welcome
Jordan I appreciate you and your whole entire family you're beautiful wife and daughter thank you for sharing all your wisdom kindness in love may God bless you all the whole world in this new year
I’m learning so much by listening. Thank you. Just subscribed. 👍🏻
95 percent of people are playing narcissistic mind games now. There's no more relationships.
Thank you for the advice...May we be empowered with your words...The will not to chase approval, for the Law of attraction thrives in mystery. Thanks!
Why dont you tell how to get rid of men who chase you that you wish would vanish?
👍.✨😂
@@RHathemoment Please!
Well..yeah..first NO contact.and be clear about what you want and dont want. After à while.they have to stop
😂
I’m exactly there. Your clear explanation is helping me to mature. Thank you.
Great post
I have patience long enough my patience has definitely run out
Brilliant!
Doing just this, as I watch and listen to Jordan Peterson. Who has all the time to play mind games! That's exhausting. Better to pray for more strength.
You must be lunatic to chase someone for ever. Also if you want to be chased by anyone forever. Come on . Get real!
Maybe it is more about being an adult. His perception is somehow a distortion from childhood trauma. Men consider it chase when it truly is not. His ego leads him to false narratives. If he lacks confidence that is about him.
So, if you are not into the relationship, walk away.
no gameaa
How long is this supposed to go on? I've been waiting four years to actually meet him. Neither one of us has been with someone else. I'm sure of it. He was a no show once and l blocked him. Then l let him back in and it was two years ago. I have a theory we are both avoidant personalities. I have felt responsible for him because he has been I'll a lot of the time. I am the one who gives him moral support. He also does that. It's all a virtual romance. It started during Covid when we couldn't meet in person. Somehow it stalled even after that. I'm the one who feels like I'm fulfilling a role..an emotional need that can never come to fruition. It's crazy making. I'm trying to quit again.
Let him go. You haven´t met him in four years! If he is not getting it from you (sex) he is getting it somewhere else. He has no intentions with you.
Check out Mathew Hussey as well. He’s a great relationship coach on line. The book Attached by another author was a game changer for me.
Not Jordan,..
BS
Kya pakaya.. 2 min video.. 20 min khicha
Question please I invited him to spend New Year’s Eve together and he never even replied yet Xmas morning I woke at 8am to a long message hi sweetheart thinking of be good or be good at it
Whenever he finally gets back to you... wait as long as he waited to reply. If it's 3 weeks, wait a 3 days at least to reply
Call instead of text. Sheeez
If hes not your boyfriend, I wouldn’t invite him out or do holidays yet, unless it’s to scope him out with other people lol.
But give him space over 1-3 months to show he’s interested in being exclusive first then go make an effort to set up a plan with him in mind.❤
...as he says..."regain your sense of power"
Your friend's reply requires no response; it is frivolous (only sexual) in my opinion.
He had plans with another girl for New Year’s Eve
u have to only accept marriage. and the guy has to carry you.
To marry a person without knowing what he/she is? Sounds not logical