Yeah I was with the guy up until he said that, what the hell why didn't he just hide it in his car or somewhere in his room of course something like that's gonna get stolen if you leave it outside in the open like that people don't care if your trying to get back at someone or if the electronic like that is working or not when you set it outside like that they see free electronic and take it.
I was adopted (birth parents died,) and whenever I got teased about it, I'd just tell them that at least I can be certain that my parents actually *wanted* me. Shut them up every time.
Well, I know this is supposed to be a over exaggeration, but I've gotta give this reward to the entitled parents with the audacity larger than an obese blue whale.
@@CharliePapaUniform I got a free younger brother at 4 years old to spend the rest of my life with, give advice, help him in any way. Pick on him a little as a joke, THAT WOULD RULE! I put myself and her shoes and i say she is a brat she should be lucky she even has a family. And there's literally adoption papers that legally say yes he is apart of your family.
Exactly! I had thought he hid it under the bed before he said he put it in a hallway. A hallway on a college campus.. Of course it's gonna get yanked..
That story about the kid being adopted and being “too clingy” broke my heart. He now has parents who absolutely love him and that asshole of a sibling was out of line. They got so lucky that he’s clingy! Kids who are adopted or in foster care have a really hard time forming bonds with people:/
That’s hella true i got adopted when i was 17 months old from Haiti and i treat my adoptive parents as my real parent because i don’t know my biological parents and i’m clingy not even gonna lie because they gave me life literally i almost died when i was a baby from not being fed properly i am now 18 years old and healthy and last year we adopted a 7 year old girl she’s gone thru so many foster cares and all that she didn’t care about anything it’s was all about her she had a bad attitude and everything but also shes clingy which i’m getting used to because she would constantly hold on to my leg and not let go which my parents taught me it was attachment problems which took me time to understand and year later she has massively improved on her behaviour she’s still clingy but she laid back on the leg holding i love her with all my heart even if she’s a pain in the butt some time lol
Ok first I have a thing because this post annoyed me a bit 1. She feel like she should have a right to tell people she isn’t related and that they don’t look alike because of that. 2. She wasn’t really indicating that she doesn’t like him 3. The post is saying he just really clingy and that doesn’t mean she hates or doesn’t like him for that she just that is a annoying trait to have 4. Please come against me I want to hear some replies to see if I’m wrong if anything u can clarify about my post please reply
TheBigMac she tells him he is adopted therefore not a true member of their family! Op Is Calais when she speaks about her brother; she’s 17 years old knows that he witnessed his bio family Die tragically at three and doesn’t get why he might be a little clingy? I come from a huge family with many adoptions and bio kids few of us look alike but try to tell one of us that were not siblings and were not a family! Them is fighting words friend! Chances are she’s the only other kid in the family she did say she was old enough to remember when he joined their family and because of the tragedy he went through her parents probably gave him a lot more attention and she wasn’t used to it and started To resent him for it but that still doesn’t mean she’s not a butt hole five out of five definitely the butt hole
I don't go get why TF she would even post an update saying that he saw his family die in a tragic accident and the have the nerve to ask is she the asshole
So, not only having an asshole of a sister, but that sister that you basically idolized basically telling you that she never loved you - heartbreaking!
Anybody else who noticed that the sister in the last thread said she was “talking to her cousins” not their cousins HER COUSINS bc the brother is really not a part of they family in her mind... so sad
Yea the last one was really hard. Imagine being adopted in a family and your new sibling, for your entire childhood, made it absolutely clear to everyone that you are absolutely not related, and that your sibling doesnt see you as a sibling. Absolutely sad. What a terrible person
The kid was happy he has a family, two loving parents and a sibling. Some of those kids never get a chance to have a family and it sucks, he's just glad that he was able to and wanted to show the appreciation...
Also did you notice that it sounded like op in that story was working out indoors and is trying to act like it's the roommates fault for getting annoyed about it
@@pokemonfanj yea, if it was bad weather outside, ofc u would workout indoors but if it isn't raining or anything, u can perfectly go outside and work out.
Oh my gosh, the adopted brother. My heart goes out to him. The trauma that adopted children go through is immense and to lose his parents in such horrible circumstances is awful. He needed love and support and he got an ahole of an adopted sister. Hope HE goes around telling people you aren't related.
To be honest, I almost had hope for OP when they started the story, from the start of it I thought they were going to say something like their adopted brother was nasty entitled, ungrateful, didn't really care about their familyand was demanding something from their dead parents will or something. Nope OP is just a nasty witch.
I just went to the AITA post on reddit: She did NOT like the way reddit responded - pretty much the same of RSlash. Basically she edited her post to say "F*CK ALL OF YOU" and deleted her account
Girlfriend: *tries to gaslight* Gaslighting fails. Girlfriend: "HOW DARE YOU FACT CHECK?!" Also, literally the only time I've seen an appropriate moment to use "He's adopted" to distance oneself from the person in question was after Black Widow said that Loki killed 80 people in 2 days.
About the gaslighting woman: she was simply trying to find an excuse to get out of the relationship. She had to do that probably because he didnt't had anything else she could blame him for.
That’s true. His girlfriend was manipulative and abusive, as rSlash said, he should’ve broken up with her so quickly. He even knew that she was manipulating him.
This is classic NPD. There's more going on than just her wanting to get out of the relationship. I know this for I have experienced this firsthand. Once you've dated a narc, you can't miss the signs.
I had an ex that did this and i felt exactly same the op did and its sad because while my friends knew i wasnt at the wrong this guys friends dont think the same :/
Nah...I kinda doubt it. Lockdown has kinda made a lot of us crazy, and it is already really easy for human brains to emphasize our own actions over the actions of others (good and bad.) She probably didn't realize he was doing equal chores because of that. Then, when he went through a year of security camera records (which...is kinda weird that he even had on hand, honestly) it could definitely seem like someone taking an argument too far.
yeah, agree, he might get like 0.0001 for not doing that, and yeah, if they where close friends, you could argue that, but like the sayibn goes, there is no friends in buisness. You could have said that, but that does not mean you had to
Yeah, completely agree. If he'd done a bit of research he would know, but he probably just looked up Telecastor on eBay and picked a number off that. It's not OPs fault that he was too lazy to look into the actual value of what he has.
Agree. That’s like going into a cheap store, buying something and the store owner demanding you give it back because he found out he could sell it for higher profits. They shook on it, money changed hands it’s done
“I can’t believe my brother, who watched his parents die in front of him, is clingy! Better tell him he doesn’t count as my brother” and you really come out wondering if you’re the bad guy?
Her parents adopted not her she has no obligation to see him as a brother not everyone is ok with adoption he is not a brother if my family suddenly adopted i would not see them as a sibling not everyone is ok with adoption
Hugo Cardenas well that’s and incredibly sad and selfish perspective to have. But even if that’s the perspective you have, telling your brother (who clearly needs you) that he doesn’t count as a brother is horrible. If you honestly can’t see that then I can’t even have this conversation with you because you’re operating under a mindset that makes zero sense to me
"I looked up telecasters online and think $4,000 is fair" - He sold it cheap, because he wasn't able to do proper research. He thought he was doing enough research, I bet he thought he's done a good deal on that, too. Not OPs problem - 0/5 Buttholes. I sold an inherited property for around $140,000. I thought it was a good deal, because it wasn't in prestine condition and in an industrial area and I was in desperate need of money. I got almost 1.5 times the market value. I was happy AF for years. The buyer sold it recently for almost 3 million dollars to a company, because the property lines prevented them from expanding and merging their facilities. I almost bit my own butt - but shit happens, sometimes you're the dog, sometimes you're the tree.
Yeah, and it's just a shit move demanding that someone sell something back to you just because you found out after the sale that it's worth more. If I were the OP I'd have offered to sell the guitar back to the guy for the full $50,000 or whatever it's valued at.
This! This happens all the time!! People loses opportunity they didnt knew they had and then later finds other they know they can finally profit from, as long as a deal seems win win its all fair game imo. I had sold empty rewrittable vhs for like 60 buck for 80 vhs, the person was very interested and would have paid 200 for it lol but i didnt because i posted it at 60$. Thats on me for not knowing this was a niche.
@@paintypaintpaint1689 yes it does. when the saying 'you must be adopted' is used to make fun of someone, as it has been for YEARS, the clarification of ' you aren't my real brother' usually means they aren't thought of as family( which op admits) or are less then. If she doesn't mean it that way why say it at all, there is absolutely no need for that. Also not all siblings look similar.
Well, the guy who sold it had no care for the guitar and just wanted the money, also its his fault for not even looking up about it in the first place... Its not OP's fault for using a bit of common sense and researching about something before buying it.
Yes the Coworker should’ve done waaaayyyyy better research. That being said, my moral compass would’ve said something about it being worth way more than what the coworker was asking for it. However, that is just me. Everyone is different. Also, what the coworker did afterwards is completely unacceptable!!
I mean it’s a pretty common hobby to go to yard sales and stuff and look for rare items that people are selling at a reduced price because they don’t know the value It’s just smart
Right? 4 grand is still a decent amount for a guitar he had no use for or attachment to, and since he was the one to come up with that price, asking op for it back was nothing but a greed play
Jericho Kornwolf, right? It was a transaction which both sides agreed even if it’s asymmetric information from the seller. If it was important to the son then he wouldn’t have even offered it for sale to begin with.
@@keendog601 exactly! I think that if the buyer had said the guitar is worth around $4,000 or even hinted towards the guitar not being worth much, then he'd be a bit of an asshole, but it was 100% the seller who researched and decided on the price
Regarding the guitar: I think it’s the sellers job to research items before selling them to others. Where I’m from if a store has the wrong price tag on the item they will sell it to the customer at that price. Then they will change it to the correct price tag for all other customers.
EXACTLY!!! The fact that he CLAIMED to have done his research on the guitar and got a good price for it is the very first YTA for me. you wouldn't ever find a 50,000$ guitar going for 4 grand so if you were to say you saw a post for one with that price is bullsh*t.
“He has no proof so I doubt it’ll work.” Someone send the police the laptop post! And also, they didn’t just lose their roommate’s laptop. He said he was revising work for an exam! His work is on that laptop, he could literally fail!
Yeah and the roommate hid a jump rope (I assume inside) witch is usually $5-$10 that sounded like it was being used INSIDE and op hid a laptop witch usually costs $500-$1000 with notes for the roommates exam OUTSIDE
@@pokemonfanj the laptop COULD cost more because it depends on the information on the laptop... Because it COULD cost money to get the information back from the roommates school.
The gaslighting girl told your friends some melodramatic, falsified version of events, I guarantee it. "He.... SNIFF ...he had been watching me through the security cameras for the ENTIRE TIME WE LIVED TOGETHER!!"
Unfortunately for him, what he did is extremely easy to twist into him being a paranoid psycho stalker. Of course he had the right to do it for what was happening (props to him for seeing through her gaslighting, not easy to do), but it's an easily manipulated story to serve her needs.
@@starwarriorterra8373 - I wouldn't say so, considering the cameras were already installed and they both knew and had good reason for having them. If he'd gone out and BOUGHT cameras and installed them with the intention of capturing footage of her doing/not doing things, then I'd agree. But at the same time, I suppose a lot of people don't take such nuances into account and just say "he looked at cameras aka bad" :l So... yeah, I suppose you're right in that regard, lol.
the GF also mentions things about violating her privacy...maybe it's me(never dated, i'm socially awkward so i don't know how these things work) but...they're living together...technically it's THEIR privacy, he is allowed to check what's happening in THEIR house and as a victim of possible gaslighting (not native English speaker, i'm learning this word soon as i read it on the video) i would have done the same check of OP if i had cameras all around me...because it's scary to not be sure of your own memories...i'm actually having a few existential crises myself in this period(i've depression and my parents are telling me that when i was a kid i was a "happy bully"...but i don't remember anything about it, i remember being beaten, insulted by other kids and then mocked by my own parents for being weak an pathetic but they insist that it never happened...then from where my inner complexes come from?)
Regarding the Chores story: How are all his friends siding with his ex? Even if they only heard her side of the story, as friends they must give both ppl a chance to explain themselves,and I think he was absolutely in the right. Seems like she just wanted to take her bad mood out on him and got caught
I bet there's more to than chores and him watching security videos. Sounds like she's cheating and needs an excuse to leave without people thinking she's the cause of the break up.
Her behaviour smacks of narcissism, and she's got people doing her bidding, as all good narcissists do. I mean, how is it abusive to go through the tapes both parties knew were there? She sounds like a real piece of crap. Gaslighting extraordinaire.
I don't know why, but listening to that story, the first thing that popped into my mind was, "she's cheating on him and was looking for an excuse to justify breaking up with him while making him the bad guy."
My brother actually tried to tell me I was adopted as a kid; guess what, I'm not. Anyway, I actually looked at him and said "At least mom and dad wanted me. They got stuck with you."
Lol I remember when I was younger that my brother made fun of me for having braces, so I told him that at least my parents cared enough about me to pay for braces.( I *really* needed braces, and he only needed them a little)
My brother and I used to tease each other like that. Me: I feel bad for mom and dad, they had me and I was so wonderful they wanted another one, but they got stuck with you instead. Bro: You mean you were so awful they tried for a better kid, and got it. Me: Um, then why’d they stop having kids after you? Because you were so awful they couldn’t bear the chance of another kid like you. Bro: No, they just knew they’d already attained perfection and couldn’t do better than *points to self proudly* me. All siblings don’t tease each other like this?
Hi, Law student here! So in regards to the post on the guitar: Legally speaking the seller may actually have had a leg to stand on if they sued OP. It is considered a unilateral mistake of value (basically, one party makes a mistake on the worth of an object) and in most cases there would be nothing the seller could do to rescind the offer and recoup the money. However there is a clause that (to sum up) basically means that if one party knew there was a mistake and failed to mention it, then the transaction can be considered null and void. This, of course, is not at all stating that OP would lose his case. Actually he'd likely win it as he seems to have not intentionally misrepresented the value to the seller. If he had said something like, "Oh yeah it's junk! You're lucky i'm even buying it for $4k!" Then it would definitely tank him in a suit. But because the seller failed to do his research, OP is scottfree and in this case, is not the asshole.
Not a law anything, but this was my reading of it. Had OP been asked to give a value and lowballed, that would be one thing, but he simply recognized a good deal and paid the asking price. Might as well complain that the dollar coin you used to pay for a candy bar was actually super rare and worth thousands.
Nice point on numismatism, some coins are worth more than face value but you have to learn that to know it and op is like a numismatic seeing a rare coin and buys it face value. Non numismatic have no problems with that he lose no money for him. Not on buyer shoulder to educate their niche lol.
Re: Guitar. The OP was right. That's the nature of all speculation. It isn't the OP's fault that the seller didn't do the proper diligence. Just to play devil's advocate: if the original seller had been forced into making a heavily discounted sale because of dire financial circumstances *and* the original seller had some sort of sentimental attachment to the guitar (because of his father) -- then you could make the case the OP was wrong to refuse to sell it back. However, the seller was fine with the sale until he realized he could have made more money on it. That's it. He lost no initial investment, as he didn't even purchase the guitar himself. He actually lost nothing besides the opportunity for additional profit. He's just bummed that his lack of research resulted in his failing to maximize his profit. Again, welcome to the world of speculation.
Agreed, he literally only talks about the price and calling OP a scammer, when, if you look at his original words, if OP didn't remove or change the tone, saying that "I checked on the site and 4,000$ is fair" implies he was actually trying to get, in his eyes, a lot of money for something he gave zero shits about.
I will add one thing, the only thing he can argue about is OP didn't tell him that "hey man, this thing costs around 50k, are you sure about this?", but that is a huge stretch and I'm just trying to give this guy the best I can think of, because even in this scenario, does he even know the word "business"? He told him he thinks 4,000$ is fair "after checking the site" so who am I to pass on this deal?
As someone who does have a adopted little sister I can say without a single doubt that they ARE a part of your family. If you looked at all of us you wouldn’t even be able to tell she is adopted. The moment we got her till the day our name dies she is a part of our family no matter what!
As a white person with a black little sister, adopted siblings are 100000000% your real family, whether they "blend in" or not! That story made me feel physically sick, especially knowing the trauma and hardships my baby sister has been through that lead her to us. I know first hand that adoption can be so much harder on kids that don't physically look like their family and I can't imagine the pain that that poor kid felt when his own sibling said that shit.
As an adopted human, I often tell people I'm adopted because I'm Hispanic and my parents are white. But, I AM part of the family. My mom has kids she birthed and I was adopted by my dad and they got married as adults, my brother is also adopted. We've always known.
I feel Anne was doing that thing some people do when they are preparing to break up. Gaslighting themselves to make believe the other person the villain. So they are justified in breaking up etc.
Right when op said she was starting fights over it I knew she was looking for anything to get out the relationship. I would say she found her way out but I think OP won this one.
I think Ace Moonshot's opinion is further justified by the fact that she twisted being proven wrong into the reason to break up. It might have even been subconscious on her part, but it's clear she wasn't invested in the relationship.
I want to add another layer of horrible to that last story: OP says that when the issue brought up, they were talking to their cousin & cousin's friends. How does your cousin not recognize your brother you've had for years? What cousin doesn't know your family adopted a sibling? The only reason I can think of would be that OP's cousins live in another country or something which means they barely see each other which can also mean OP has been hiding this brother from distant family which is just added layers of messed up.
Yeah if they're long distance then that makes a lot of sense. My cousin and I live in different continents across the sea and we haven't seen each other since 2008. Last year was the first time I saw her on video chat. Ngl I didn't recognize her at first, I thought she was a friend visiting her. So yeah it's possible that it's LD.
They said it was a friend, not their cousin asking. I'm biologically related to my cousins and my brother, and I wouldn't expect any of their friends to recognize me on sight unless we'd met and spoken to each other before
I have a really large family and my cousins keep popping out kids like crazy. I can't keep track of all the names and the faces so maybe that's what happened here? Especially if someone is creeping in the corner it could be hard to see. I feel bad for that adopted brother saying he wasn't really apart of the family. That is so messed up!
Lexi is right, it was the friends who asked, not the cousin but if it were the cousin, it could be a second cousin or someone who doesn't see the family all too often. I was adopted, my aunts, uncle, & first cousins all know this but most of their kids don't & I will generally refer to my cousins' kids as my cousins when talking about them to make it easier. One of my cousins, my cousin's daughter, I only just met her in 2016 because they lived in San Diego & I'm in northern Oregon, they actually moved closer to us shortly after I visited them in San Diego but his daughter never even knew I existed until I met her on my trip. Family doesn't always know everyone in the family, I don't think my cousin even really knows my younger sister since she never took the time to get to know her after she moved closer. My younger sister was also adopted & doesn't look like the family at all, I'm actually surprised that the extended family who isn't aware that we were adopted never questioned it upon meeting them or if they did, might of been in private with my parents. Oh yeah, I actually met cousins I didn't even know I had at a funeral when I was in high school, they're pretty distant, my dad's cousins' children but they were around my age & have the same interests, plus one of them was also adopted so we instantly bonded. I still wonder why my family never told me about them.
As far as the guitar story goes, I'm on OP's side. I feel bad for the previous owner losing out, but like rslash said he still made four thousand dollars, which is a very nice payday. Also, it was on the previous owner to research the exact value, and OP is not obligated to correct someone's prices. If you saw a giant TV selling for $20, you would probably buy it then and there
Lille Trille yeah I have the same problem but things are a little different, my dad is not my birth farther and only a few people know, when someone finds out the ask about my “real dad” so I just say that the man who raised me is my dad not some other guy who left when I was kid
Adopted family went NC in 2003 over a number of perceived irreconcilable differences. It was being abandoned all over again. I can feel this kid’s pain.
@Ethan Roberts she pretty much said he wasn't her true brother which is a total bitch move. Her saying he was adopted isn't a butthole move at all, I know this. Her saying he wasn't family and basically disowning him was. Were you adopted? If so you should know how much it would hurt to hear that. If not stfu
Because you are bored and have nothing to do, maybe your phone died or your hands are full so you can do nothing but look around to entertain yourself. TBH, I did glance over other people's phone at such times, just curious about what they are doing, but never I look long too closely or long enough to recognize text messages and stuff, since I know it's rude and an invasion of privacy. The most I get would be 'this guy's texting' or this guy's playing a game' and that'd be all. I then try to distract myself looking at other people, imagining, trying to be Sherlock about their lives and stuff. It can be pretty entertaining. But yeah, boredom is what makes strangers look at other people's phones. Morality usually keeps them from looking too long, or at least making a comment about it, but clearly it doesn't apply to everyone.
8:17 OP is in the Clear. The seller didn't care to get his prices right, and only once he learned it could be sold for more did he care to get the guitar back. OP gets a 0 out of 5 Seller gets a 5 out of 5
My garage sale experience: I like to collect depression glass. That’s glassware that was made, obviously, during the great depression. I found a Sunkist juice reamer for fifty cents. At that time, it was worth about $50. I plopped down fifty cents so fast it would’ve made your head spin! I picked it up and took it to the car and left. I pulled over about two blocks away and screamed because I had gotten such a great deal. Several decades later, I still have it and it is still in pristine condition. A few years ago, Martha Stewart decided to start displaying depression glass during her show. Prices for it skyrocketed, so I can’t afford it the way I used to be able to. But that’s OK. I still have wonderful pieces but that one was my best score. And hell no, I wasn’t going to tell them that they had mispriced it!
For the guitar, he is not the asshole. He didn’t haggle or anything, it was the seller who gave the price so the buyer was in the right, and it’s the seller’s fault he sold for such a low price
If the seller 'really' wanted to look up the price of the guitar, he could have done a Much better job, but it seems he was lazy about the price check, and probably thought the 4k was a major price hike on his side. Especially with the receipt. He could have gone to a pawn shop, or even posted pictures of the guitar and receipt online if he really wanted a better view of how much it was worth. But he sold it, and once the money changes hands, he is stuck with his decision.
@@damienburroughs2119 , ya, exactly. If you are selling a vintage piece like that, you do your research. If I were to inherit my mother's moss rose china coffee set that is 150 years old and didn't want to keep it, you bet I'm going to figure out how much those pieces are actually worth. It's really hard cause they are unstamped, have a small flaw which is why my great-great-great aunt received it as a gift from her dad when he couldn't sell it in his store. she divided the set among her daughters, so many pieces are not in my mother's possession.
@@noanfelipe4753 I heard of this case where someone admitted to drunk driving and hit and run on social media and they couldn’t be charged with drunk driving or hit and run because post wasn’t enough proof. Don’t know if that fits under the same umbrella, and the video was Dumb social media post by Matthew santoro.
To me, it hinges on whether the buyer knew it was worth 50,000. When you see a guy selling a 50,000 dollar item for 4000, he's either extremely generous, or extremely misinformed. It only takes one question, even if it's an "are you sure?" to confirm it. Otherwise it's being sold under false pretenses. However, i think OP really messed up in the edit, assuming everyone would do the same. Everyone would not do the same. I know some genuinely kind people who would (and have) pointed out when something is being sold for far less than it's worth. OP did something a little shitty. He took advantage of this guys ignorance. Its not a comparison of finding a great deal at a garage sale for 50 cents. It's the difference between a used car and an entire college fund
@@Hylanos 🤯 I don't get how you could think that! 🤷🏻♀ Its not OP's problem that the seller didn't do his homework. He just quickly googled the price of guitars under the same brand & used that. He should have researched further, asked a professional or gotten it appraised. I can understand being in the position where you don't have any idea that an item could potentially have a high value. That sucks, it really does but that's not OP's fault. If you make a mistake, its not someone else's responsibility to fix it for you. I genuinely don't understand how anyone could think OP is responsible for the sellers mistake. Every seller has a responsibility to do their due diligence. That's even in the terms & conditions and/or rules & tips on many selling sites. Have you ever been to the grocery store & went to buy an item that had a very low price only to find out at the checkout that the price was listed wrong? Most grocery stores (especially large chains) will give you the incorrect price it was listed for or in the very least, a good sized discount (followed by immediately correcting the price for future shoppers) because that was the grocery store's mistake. I'm not replying to in any way come off as rude or argue about it (civil discussion is different) because that's just ridiculous & something I hate TH-cam for. But I genuinely just don't see how this could be OP's fault & I'm floored that anyone thinks it is (but I know I shouldn't be surprised these days).
I didn't even need to hear the "you're not actually part of this family" story before I announced a rare 5/5 buttholes from me That's gonna be a yikes from me, dawg
I really enjoyed the payback in that story, until the OP revealed he hid the laptop outside, and then acted mystified when somebody stole it. He's clearly not intelligent enough for college.
The post where the person denounced their adopted sibling is so disgusting to me. Like bro, younger siblings are clingy by default. I remember my little brother following me and copying me, and this poor child lost his family, thankfully got a new one, and this person has the audacity to disrespect the bonds of family. They have actually been together for most of their lives, if that doesn’t count as being family I don’t know what does.
Her parents adopted not her she has no obligation to see him as a brother not everyone is ok with adoption he is not a brother if my family suddenly adopted i would not see them as a sibling not everyone is ok with adoption
@@BASED877 Periods, please. I know it's TH-cam, but they help reading comprehension. Also, true, she has no obligation to see him as a brother. However, she doesn't have to throw it in his face or treat him like garbage, just for being (understandably) a little clingy. Also, since her parents did make the adoption, she should respect that and treat him like a brother, since legally he is.
@@dariusyew5388 Even if that's true, being a bad person doesn't justify you also being a bad person and ruining/losing/destroying their stuff or otherwise, you need to get a new room or roomate.
I agree, up to the point of telling her friends the situation of why they did not look the same, 2.5 I could chalk that up as poor choice of words. After that point in the story, 5/5
In regards to the guitar guy, I would say that he did nothing wrong. He managed to find a great deal on a guitar that the seller was trying to sell. The seller is the one who came up with that price and said that he even researched a fair price too. I would say that it is the sellers fault for not being more thorough with his research. Also who tries to buy something back after they sold it? It sucks to lose out on an expensive rare item like that but that's why you should look that kind of stuff up before you post an ad selling it,
The fault lies in the amount of research seller "said" he did. I'm assuming he made one (maybe two) google searches and saw those four digits and thought he struck bank. I like the Garage sale analogy as it scales perfectly. The only time this becomes questionable to me is when it gets into millions or tens of millions
Who would be stupid enough to put a laptop outside? Edit: guitar guy was not in the wrong at all. This is like literally something you would a dumb pawn shop character in a comedy do.
Besides everything else, is the guitar guy honest about what really happened, the sell TOLD HIM that he looked op the price, sellers fault for wrong pricing.
Honestly that sibling story hit me hard. I used to be so annoyed of my little brother when we were younger but now he’s my best friend and I don’t know what I would do without him
OP on the guitar story My verdict: not the butthole He bought it at the price HE asked and before hand the dude said he looked up so OP those NOT have any problems for buying at that price and I support him on his last remark about the garage sale Edit: I'm grateful for the people who are supporting op in this case
I agree. He only wants it back after knowing how much it is worth and only want the money worth of it. It clear he didn't seem attached to it and its not OP fault that he knew more about his stuff, then he does. OP isn't the Ahole.
I am very split. I agree that at a market sale I would never correct the price. But when talking to a person and discussing price I wouldn't allow such a low price due to lack of knowledge. This is exploiting others ignorance for your own profit, which I am against
@@natanoj16 While I understand that it was the sellers fault for not being informed. He did not have to sell it before doing his own research but he didn't care about it until he found out it was worth some money. Ignorance isn't really an excuse in this case, especially seen as how he was the one who made the offer to OP.
Roommate post: Neither of them sound old enough to be in college. Seriously, you can’t work out your issues civilly? And there is a big difference between hiding a jump rope inside the house and taking an expensive piece of equipment like a laptop and putting it outside where anything could happen to it. Also, where the heck are they going to college that freshman year they each have their own room and a shared kitchen?!?
My freshman dorm was like this and it was just a state college; nothing crazy like a private university or Ivy league school. So, it's not that wierd but I do assume it's a house as they're stuck in quarantine together.
Yeah I felt like everyone sucked there tbh the roommate was an absolute pig and left the bathroom in a horrible state so I'm gonna assume he was pissing outside the bowl and stole his jump rope and op stole one thing which was a laptop they probably both had it coming to them.
@@sabersz its hilarious that they are the future i just hope i dont die before i turn 18 these teens screw my future by crying that theyr screwed theirselves over
Funny enough, if you go to look up the last story, the user account is deleted and the body of the post is replaced with a simple message: "F* ALL OF YOU" Also worth noting is that mod also locked the thread saying people couldn't behave so its possible people were being over the top and abusive. Par for the course I suppose.
Jackson Bailey hell, I loved playing with my big sisters more then anything, they were 12 and 14 years older and at the park, when they took me I would only play with them, and simply ignore other kids. I’m not adopted but THATS WHAT NORMAL SIBLINGS DO! She’s a horrible big sibling, and it’s clear she has major issues and needs to be slapped in the face with a chair
Sometimes go to guitar shop there's still a chance that the seller will scam him. About the research. Not everyone know where and how to get info for such antique thing
@@ReigoVassal Thats still not the buyers fault. If you say you wa t 4000 you get 4000. If you dont know what to price it at, do research. Go to multiple guitar shops, look online etc.
k0cha and he only cared once he found out how much it was worth so he clearly could’ve done more research if he found out later anyway He just didn’t and he didn’t really care for the guitar anyway
@@zaneps151 Yeah, he probably just googled it, saw a price and then used that. Like, if he found out later it cant ve that hard to find out what the guitar was really worth. And I doubt that every single guitar shop is going to scam him and give him a wrong price. He made a mistake, probably feels bad about it, everyone would. And sure he can ask to get the guitar back and give back the money. Thats totally ok. But if the buyer says no, then he has to deal with that. Shit happens
Doug Smithart honestly it should be common knowledge that if you wanna know how much something is worth, you go and see an expert about it He’s just butthurt he missed out but like the video said, he inherited it so it’s not like he lost money
For the guy with the guitar, my boyfriend plays guitar as well and has told me about various brands and values. I can totally understand buying a guitar for that amount of money, people usually take the easiest price, and despite the large undercharge, the guy who sold it should have looked up the value before selling it to you.
The roommate one: the way OP phrases it makes it sound like the roommate is a friend that he's letting into his house, but if they're paying equal rent, then that house is as much the roommate's as it is OP's. OP says that he "never" complains about his roommate, yet this entire post is basically him complaining and it sounds like he's constantly nagging at his roommate. I get wanting a clean house, but there's better ways to go about it than "explaining it to him like he's a child." Also, people tend to tell these stories in a way that paints them as the good guy, so if this is his attempt at sounding like he's in the right, I can't imagine what he might be omitting. Hiding the jump rope may have been immature on the roommate's part, but I would guess they assumed that he wouldn't respond to any attempt to politely ask him to not jump rope at a certain time. What they should have done is sat down and had a mature conversation like the adults I assume they are to find a compromise that'll work for both of them. 5/5 for losing the laptop and not taking responsibility for it, and an additional 3 points for acting like an entitled child. You're not lord of the house, OP. Learn to respect your roommate.
Lexi N the roommate is not immature for hiding the jump rope OP is choosing to be noisy when he’s studying for an exam and the roommate might fail the semester because of OP .
@@justasentientmclarenp1879 i have to disagree in that point, it's 15 minutes, and lets remember the other guy does things like having the house dirty wich for me is one of the most horrible things ever, he IS inmature for hiding the rope, he will not die for some jump sounds for 15 minutes.
FluxBite Both are assholes for not being adults that communicate and compromise, but OP is the bigger asshole. OP thinks that because they pay half the rent he has access to their roommate’s tv in roommate’s room. Also OP’s replies are not doing them any favors as they aren’t able to cope with the legal ramifications they could face being talked about in the post. Example of OP’s replies, “I accept your judgements (I'm aware I received a rule 3 warning) but it baffles me that you guys think this post counts as a reliable proof. If my friend sees this which by the way is a very low chance, I can easily say that he did this to falsely accuse me. You guys are starting to annoy me because despite the fact that I asked you NOT to discuss stuff about court and laws, you guys still do”.
The nosy train lady deserved it and the “chore girlfriend” was looking for a way out. My mother gaslighted me for years, so I know how it is. The OP of the adopted brother is completely 5/5 buttholes as my own biological older sibling completely alienated me from grade school until the end of high school. The fact that the adopted brother is so understandably clingy yet blown off is atrocious. OP really needs a sensitivity class and hope their brother someday forgives.
The last story absolutely broke my heart. I have a nephew who is adopted and we've had him since he was just over a month old, and he's 20 years old now. I could never imagine myself or any of us saying such horrible things to him like OP did. I've always been really close with him and I seriously cannot imagine life or my family without him. I love him just the same as my biological nephews, if not more. I truly honestly believe he was meant for us, and was always meant to be in our family. I don't understand how some families can just not love their adoptive siblings, cousins or family members. Anyways enough of my rambling before I make myself cry lmao
4:33 so you hide his collage laptop that he needs for his collage exams, and studies, and you think it's "no big deal" if it got stolen which is 100% your fault, because you think a laptop is equal value to a freaking jump rope
@@razeddelusion3919 two wrongs don't make a right, and in this case, the roommate has a much bigger loss. It wasn't right to hide the jump rope, but it was way worse to hide, then lose, the laptop. Op is responsible for that loss and should pay for another one.
He also said that he "doesn't complain" when the other guy does things he doesn't like yet early in the post he writes a list of things his roommate has done that has annoyed him, if he can complain about someone else's behaviour other people have the right to complain about his.
@@razeddelusion3919 the fact that it got stolen is a major part of the story! OP got the laptop stolen by putting it outside, but now doesn't want to take responsibility for it. I'd press charges too if I was the roommate; a freaking jump rope is no where near the price of a laptop.
I'm going through the process of becoming a foster parent and one of the first things they told us is that EVERY kid that goes through the system has trauma. If you're lucky the only trauma they have is being separated from their parents, unfortunately they're probably going to have more issues that will last their entire life. When I was listening I assumed the kid had some vanilla trauma (for a kid in the foster/adoption system) but he had some grade A trauma. It's amazing he's not more messed up and speaks to his strength.
The guitar one: No, he absolutely not the butthole because he was offered the guitar for $4000 and he paid so it now belonged to him and he didn’t have to tell the seller the real value or return it when he found out the price (BECAUSE ITS HIS)
That adoption story happened to me....sort of. I'm adopted, and my adopted parents divorced. My dad remarried and she had 2 kids. The girl, who was the same age as me, got into an argument one night and she told me that obviously no one wanted me because my own mother gave me up. I blew up and we ended up in a fist fight. My dad and her mom got woken up and immediately got onto me since I was sitting on top of her. I didn't even try to explain why I struck her and my dad took me back to my mom. My mom took one look at me and asked, "What did she say?" I told her. She told me that I shouldn't have done that and that I shouldn't do it again. She then took a second for that to sink in before she smiled, "Way to take down a bully, though!" I promised I wouldn't do it again but this is STILL one of my favorite memories. So yes, you're an A-hole. Anyone who EVER brings adoption into a fight or conversation without the consent of the adopted is an A-hole. It's a very sensitive subject. Not gonna lie...almost cried for that poor brother. Gosh. I'd just disown her once I'm old enough. She doesn't want me? I don't want her. Probably would keep the parents though. ;)
This happened to me, I was adopted. And my brother told me he wasn’t my real family, and that I didn’t belong. It broke my heart and pushed me into a depression. My mom found out and flipped shit on him.
That last story literally has me crying cause I know how it feels to be disowned/discarded by a family member and it has got to be one of the worst feelings ever. I really, really feel for the brother and hope the sister turns a new leaf very soon!!
WOW, Eff Anne for gaslighting, I had an ex that tried to gaslight me too. Revenge is always the sweetest part when getting back at anyone who gaslights you (or attempts too).
Guitar story: The guy sold it to OP, so it's now OP's property, end of story. OP gets to decide if it's up for resale, OP has the final say, no ifs ands or buts.
@@beth-ug6ti That guy had no care for that guitar, he was just trying to make some money, even though it was his deceased fathers. He didn't care enough about it to research it thoroughly and then got greedier when he already sold it when he actually took the time to research it. He should've done all his research before he sold it, even a person who also didn't know the price and bought but then wouldn't sell it back wouldn't be manipulating because he was too lazy to do the research.
@@beth-ug6ti it is not manipulative to pay for something that someone is offering to you. Yes, it would be manipulative if for example the co worker had said "hey op, ik you know more about guitars than I do, so make a reasonable offer, and I'll accept it". But that is not what happened. He gave a price, and op paid for it. Op didnt try to bargain down lower, or lowball him, he paid the asking price. It is now one's property and if the guy wanted it back so bad, he should pay the price op choses.
@@beth-ug6ti How did he take advantage? The guy who sold it didn't do enough research about the guitar he was selling because he was trying to make a quick buck. It is stated that He priced the guitar based on what he found online. It is not like he asked OP to make him an offer cause he had no clue on its value. The guy made an informed decision based on the research he did on value of Telecaster Guitars. It is kinda funny because what he did was very much the opposite of what you often see happen on Pawn Stars.
@@takeshimasaki2033 It still feel like he was taking advantage of him. He knew the guy didn't have the correct value on the guitar and knew if he did know that he would up the price. If it was a store or some stranger that messed up I would understand. But if a friends coworker was offering something 40 000$ bellow market price I would absolutely make sure they know what they are doing and would hope someone would do the same for me.
I feel like in the roommate story, OP is a total douche bag chad. I mean his roommate is a little messy but this guy is constantly being loud when trying to study and when he says “I’m physically stronger than him so he can’t do anything” that pretty much tells me all I need to know about him
Right? Besides, studying for finals is more important than jumping rope. I can see why it would be annoying to have someone making a bunch of noise while you’re concentrating
"Google, how much is a 1952 Telecaster worth?" Lookit this. First answer. "The price guide of Vintage Guitar lists a 1952 blackguard Tele in 'excellent condition' as worth between $32,000 - $50,000.00" That took 6 seconds. Yeah, the seller is an idiot, and I consider the $46,000 an idiot tax.
And, since the seller offered OP $4000, and already sold the guitar for that price, it's the seller's fault for not getting his shit together before making the sale. And, yes, I agree with the $46,000 idiot tax. 😆
When rSlash read the title about the adopted son, I didn't even hesitate. Out loud "yeah!" Edit: So let me get this straight. This cold was not only unfortunate enough to have his family ripped away from him, but to have witnessed it. The trauma stays with you. Now, clinginess might be annoying, sure but given the circumstances... Seeing his parents die AND having total strangers, it of the kindness of their hearts accept him into their home as one of their own, spring him unconditional love and affection, it's understandable that's he's a little clingy. OP, there is absolutely NO METRIC IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT THE ASSHOLE.
It gets worse. She is down right a terrible person. Her posts consit of her making terrible posts about her and that shes happy that she's made him terrible
My sister is adopted and looks very different than us BUT we NEVER bring up her being adopted, we all forget she’s adopted because she is more family than my own sperm donor of a father.
There's a quote that I really like "A Wise man once told me, family doesn't end in blood; but it doesn't start there either. Family cares about you, not what you do for them family's there; for the good, the bad, all of it. They got your back; even when it hurts. That's family"
YTA. You owe him a new lap top! It's your fault completely. I would go after you legally and make you pay all costs. New lap top, court fees, attorney fees and whatever else.
The story about the adopted fellow is heartbreaking. I suspect someone will be in for a major shock in the future. While they may not think of this fellow as their “real” sibling, I’ll bet the parents do. When they aren’t around any longer, I hope the parents leave the man in inheritance, too.
Clearly that young woman still has some resentment over her adoptive brother, she should consider therapy to determine what is the issue. That's not normal behavior with someone you have literally spent 15 years of your life growing up together.
I agree. She might have felt that she was being replaced by him. Common sibling rivalry. Even then, this behaviour is excusable for a 6 yr old, not a 19yr old. I agree she needs therapy. This is a much deeper psychological issue.
What I find weird is that it is only now that its an issue. By the sounds of it she tells everyone he is adopted(because they ask) and he knew he was adopted. so what changed to make it an issue now?
The guy in the laptop story is literally on reddit saying if his roommate uses this as proof he'll say his roommate made up the whole post 🤦♀️ like how much of a dirtbag can one person be??😤😤
4:02 ok he stole a jump rope, A JUMP ROPE. Yes op's roommate should have just worked something out with op but op does not have the right to steal something so SO expensive especially to a college student, and why didn't op just hid it inside!?!?! This makes me so mad on so many levels.
@@dumasss1239 it is a fair point but still hide it inside it's expensive and should be taken care of. He also should have taken responsibility since he didn't pay attention to it and let it get stolen/or lost
Commenting on the adopted brother situation: I’ve never had an adopted sibling, although my mother plans on adopting later in life, I’m ecstatic. I actually plan on adopting later in life. I have a half sister who I love more than words can express. It’s always weird saying “half” because I’ve never seen her as half anything. I love her just as much as I’d love a full blood sibling, and I don’t treat her any differently. Moral of the story: DNA doesn’t matter when it comes to family and if OP doesn’t realize that, I feel sorry for her. Condolences to her brother. That’s literally heartbreaking.
I also have half siblings but my half brother is a copy of my dad and me in behavior and looks. I call my half brother and half sister my brother and sister. But biologically speaking half of their genes are from our dad and the other half from their mom. Still calling them half siblings would be stupid imo
I have a half brother too and we grew up together (different dads) but I never cared if he was my half brother he is my ONLY brother and I've watched him grow into an amazing young man and couldn't be more proud of him. It appauls me that someone would cast aside a sibling (blood or not) that they grew up with, share childhood memories with. This girl really needs to grow up. All siblings get annoying it's part of being a sibling GEEZ.
My only siblings are 'half' siblings. I never like calling them that since I have never been apart from either of them for more than a week their entire lives. We are raised by our shared parent, and have normal sibling relationships. Since I live in a kinda conservative area, when people find out my siblings and I all have different dad's they one, get really judgey about my mom, and two, try and say that my siblings aren't REALLY my siblings. It pisses me off. The older I get the more aggressive I get about telling these people to but the fuck off. What is it with people thinking it's their place to tell me if I can or can't regard my siblings as family?
For the guitar guy, yeah, if I was selling something that was expensive on resell then that's on me not on the knowledgable buyer. I'm the one that made the mistake, the buyer just saw the opportunity. Humans are opportunistic animals after all.
On the story about the adoption I could never imagine doing that to my old foster brother who we almost adopted and if my cousin (who was adopted into a different family) was told by the families biological kid anything op said I swear I would get so pissed off at him. Like I understand getting upset with siblings I've gotten pissed off at my family for giving my old foster brother more attention than their biological kids but I would never try to make him feel different from my other siblings or feel like he's not part of the family.
Yeah the last story was heart wrenching. This kind of thing happened to my Mom. Her mom got pregnant when she was 18 and her boyfriend at the time left her. When my Mom was four years old her mom married a very nice and loving man. He always treated my Mom as if she was his own child. But his family never accepted her. Whenever they would have family pictures they would send her away because she wasn't a "part of the family". To this day, my mom doesn't like pictures because it reminds her of how she was never considered a part of the family. Even her family from her biological dad didn't accept her. And there are countless other instances from my Grandma telling my Grandpa to stop spoiling my mom and to spoil their own children (she has 3 half siblings) to teachers humiliating her in front of her classmates for writing her siblings last name and for not having a father. It was hard to hear my Mom tell me what she went through.
@@gom2565 he never said that wasn't wrong. He was saying if his roommate was going to hide his stuff then its ok for him to hide his roommates. Him loosing the laptop was unacceptable tho.
I think they both sucked. The guy honestly deserved it, because he had been, from what it seems, an absolute shitshow of a roommate for a long time. Sure, OP is the asshole, but it could have been way worse than something that can be replaced. I know if i was in that situation, i’d have snapped and did some irreparable damage. Would that make me an asshole? Probably, but idc, people shouldn’t push others to their breaking point
It sounds like the Anne lady was looking for excuses to cause problems because she wanted out. Telling everyone her boyfriend "spied" on her is just more excuses to disguise the fact that she orchestrated the whole disagreement. She wanted out of the relationship without looking bad, makes me wonder if she had something else going on that nobody knows about.
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“I didnt know it would get stolen!”
If u hide something outside someone is most likely gonna steal it
Who hides things outside and expects it to be there?! Even dogs loose bones after burying them outside...
i know like could they not think of a SINGLE other better place lmao
ravioli king so in the bath tub
Hide it under a mattress like a normal person
Yeah I was with the guy up until he said that, what the hell why didn't he just hide it in his car or somewhere in his room of course something like that's gonna get stolen if you leave it outside in the open like that people don't care if your trying to get back at someone or if the electronic like that is working or not when you set it outside like that they see free electronic and take it.
I was adopted (birth parents died,) and whenever I got teased about it, I'd just tell them that at least I can be certain that my parents actually *wanted* me. Shut them up every time.
Maxwell Edison I’m adopted too this is good I will have to use this next time 😂
Shots. Fired.
Very well said!
That is the best comeback EVER. I wish I had thought of this as a kid (also adopted).
hell yeah...
Sounds like Ann wanted to break up and was trying to make a situation where she could be the victim.
“AITA for reminded my brother that he’s adopted and not a true part of MY family?”
*And the worst person in the universe award goes to...*
But u gota put ureself in her shoes
Well, I know this is supposed to be a over exaggeration, but I've gotta give this reward to the entitled parents with the audacity larger than an obese blue whale.
Hitler has some stiff competition lmfao
@@CharliePapaUniform I got a free younger brother at 4 years old to spend the rest of my life with, give advice, help him in any way. Pick on him a little as a joke, THAT WOULD RULE! I put myself and her shoes and i say she is a brat she should be lucky she even has a family. And there's literally adoption papers that legally say yes he is apart of your family.
dont even give him a fucking reward.
Why didn't they put the laptop under their bed or something instead of OUTSIDE? I wouldn't leave ANYTHING outside especially other people's property!
Exactly! I had thought he hid it under the bed before he said he put it in a hallway. A hallway on a college campus.. Of course it's gonna get yanked..
What about hiding it under is matress or something in his room?
Yeah, putting electronics out in the elements, what a smart move!🤔
Ikr, it's something valuable, if it's gonna be hidden it has to be hidden in a safe place
I feel so sad for the dude without his laptop I hope he’s saved everything on one drive. I can’t imagine losing everything 😭
That story about the kid being adopted and being “too clingy” broke my heart. He now has parents who absolutely love him and that asshole of a sibling was out of line. They got so lucky that he’s clingy! Kids who are adopted or in foster care have a really hard time forming bonds with people:/
That’s hella true i got adopted when i was 17 months old from Haiti and i treat my adoptive parents as my real parent because i don’t know my biological parents and i’m clingy not even gonna lie because they gave me life literally i almost died when i was a baby from not being fed properly i am now 18 years old and healthy and last year we adopted a 7 year old girl she’s gone thru so many foster cares and all that she didn’t care about anything it’s was all about her she had a bad attitude and everything but also shes clingy which i’m getting used to because she would constantly hold on to my leg and not let go which my parents taught me it was attachment problems which took me time to understand and year later she has massively improved on her behaviour she’s still clingy but she laid back on the leg holding i love her with all my heart even if she’s a pain in the butt some time lol
Ok first I have a thing because this post annoyed me a bit
1. She feel like she should have a right to tell people she isn’t related and that they don’t look alike because of that.
2. She wasn’t really indicating that she doesn’t like him
3. The post is saying he just really clingy and that doesn’t mean she hates or doesn’t like him for that she just that is a annoying trait to have
4. Please come against me I want to hear some replies to see if I’m wrong if anything u can clarify about my post please reply
TheBigMac she tells him he is adopted therefore not a true member of their family! Op Is Calais when she speaks about her brother; she’s 17 years old knows that he witnessed his bio family Die tragically at three and doesn’t get why he might be a little clingy? I come from a huge family with many adoptions and bio kids few of us look alike but try to tell one of us that were not siblings and were not a family! Them is fighting words friend! Chances are she’s the only other kid in the family she did say she was old enough to remember when he joined their family and because of the tragedy he went through her parents probably gave him a lot more attention and she wasn’t used to it and started To resent him for it but that still doesn’t mean she’s not a butt hole five out of five definitely the butt hole
I don't go get why TF she would even post an update saying that he saw his family die in a tragic accident and the have the nerve to ask is she the asshole
So, not only having an asshole of a sister, but that sister that you basically idolized basically telling you that she never loved you - heartbreaking!
Anybody else who noticed that the sister in the last thread said she was “talking to her cousins” not their cousins HER COUSINS bc the brother is really not a part of they family in her mind... so sad
Yea the last one was really hard.
Imagine being adopted in a family and your new sibling, for your entire childhood, made it absolutely clear to everyone that you are absolutely not related, and that your sibling doesnt see you as a sibling.
Absolutely sad.
What a terrible person
Notice how their cousins don't even know who the brother is
The kid was happy he has a family, two loving parents and a sibling. Some of those kids never get a chance to have a family and it sucks, he's just glad that he was able to and wanted to show the appreciation...
Mir Pur yeah that’s odd
Anne-Mette Pedersen time to go to work
"I'm physically stronger than him, so he can't do anything about it" doesn't sound like a phrase anyone not in the wrong should say
Also did you notice that it sounded like op in that story was working out indoors and is trying to act like it's the roommates fault for getting annoyed about it
@@pokemonfanj yea, if it was bad weather outside, ofc u would workout indoors but if it isn't raining or anything, u can perfectly go outside and work out.
@@Mommyquackk it obviously wasn't bad weather outside. else why put the laptop out. and if it was raining well that's even worse
@@tekbox7909 also it was with a jump rope witch I'd say is a purely outdoor/gym workout tool that if used inside could/would probably break something
@@pokemonfanj exactly it is annoying when u r trying to study
Oh my gosh, the adopted brother. My heart goes out to him. The trauma that adopted children go through is immense and to lose his parents in such horrible circumstances is awful. He needed love and support and he got an ahole of an adopted sister. Hope HE goes around telling people you aren't related.
To be honest, I almost had hope for OP when they started the story, from the start of it I thought they were going to say something like their adopted brother was nasty entitled, ungrateful, didn't really care about their familyand was demanding something from their dead parents will or something. Nope OP is just a nasty witch.
Damn, rslash answered so quick, he didn't have to read the story to answer the question
ikr... like, the brother could say "I'm the kid my parents CHOSE to have" and honestly I wouldn't blame him given how horrendous OP has treated him 😅
I just went to the AITA post on reddit: She did NOT like the way reddit responded - pretty much the same of RSlash. Basically she edited her post to say "F*CK ALL OF YOU" and deleted her account
@@ScorpiusZA. She doesn't belong there anyway
Girlfriend: *tries to gaslight*
Gaslighting fails.
Girlfriend: "HOW DARE YOU FACT CHECK?!"
Also, literally the only time I've seen an appropriate moment to use "He's adopted" to distance oneself from the person in question was after Black Widow said that Loki killed 80 people in 2 days.
She has a great career in fake news, I'm sure.
@@thunderflare59 I’m assuming you’re talking about the girlfriend unless there’s something I didn’t know about Black Widow.
An Avengers reference! Neat! That was just what I was thinking!
One of the best lines in the movie although my favorite scene was still when Hulk tossed Loki around and then said "Puny God" 😂🤣
About the gaslighting woman: she was simply trying to find an excuse to get out of the relationship. She had to do that probably because he didnt't had anything else she could blame him for.
that sounds correct
That’s true. His girlfriend was manipulative and abusive, as rSlash said, he should’ve broken up with her so quickly. He even knew that she was manipulating him.
This is classic NPD. There's more going on than just her wanting to get out of the relationship. I know this for I have experienced this firsthand. Once you've dated a narc, you can't miss the signs.
I had an ex that did this and i felt exactly same the op did and its sad because while my friends knew i wasnt at the wrong this guys friends dont think the same :/
Shame on her for breaking up with him during this time. She can't even go anywhere so they're stuck with each other for the time being.
Gaslighter story:chances are the girlfriend was trying to look for a way to break up with them anyway so that she could be in another relationship.
Agreed, wouldn’t be surprised if she was cheating on him
@@phobepotatoegirlpretty5774 and imagine getting caught on CCTV getting themselves off while he was at work
Either that, or she doesnt want to do chores and she is trying to trick OP into doing ALL the housework instead of an even 50/50 split
Nah...I kinda doubt it. Lockdown has kinda made a lot of us crazy, and it is already really easy for human brains to emphasize our own actions over the actions of others (good and bad.) She probably didn't realize he was doing equal chores because of that.
Then, when he went through a year of security camera records (which...is kinda weird that he even had on hand, honestly) it could definitely seem like someone taking an argument too far.
That's exactly what mine did
He didn’t do anything wrong, seller’s remorse sucks but he should have done his research on what he had
yeah, agree, he might get like 0.0001 for not doing that, and yeah, if they where close friends, you could argue that, but like the sayibn goes, there is no friends in buisness. You could have said that, but that does not mean you had to
That is exactly what I was saying
Yeah, completely agree. If he'd done a bit of research he would know, but he probably just looked up Telecastor on eBay and picked a number off that. It's not OPs fault that he was too lazy to look into the actual value of what he has.
Agree. That’s like going into a cheap store, buying something and the store owner demanding you give it back because he found out he could sell it for higher profits. They shook on it, money changed hands it’s done
It’s literally apart of the antique business as well. You find some good stuff then turn it around and sell for a lot.
“I can’t believe my brother, who watched his parents die in front of him, is clingy! Better tell him he doesn’t count as my brother” and you really come out wondering if you’re the bad guy?
Her parents adopted not her she has no obligation to see him as a brother not everyone is ok with adoption he is not a brother if my family suddenly adopted i would not see them as a sibling not everyone is ok with adoption
Hugo Cardenas well that’s and incredibly sad and selfish perspective to have. But even if that’s the perspective you have, telling your brother (who clearly needs you) that he doesn’t count as a brother is horrible. If you honestly can’t see that then I can’t even have this conversation with you because you’re operating under a mindset that makes zero sense to me
@@Second_of_four They've been posting that crap all over people's posts....
@@BASED877 Wow the empathy is oozing out. How can you be such a kind man young sir! Well i hope you never experience losing a family member.
I am deviant shes the bad guy. duh
"I looked up telecasters online and think $4,000 is fair" - He sold it cheap, because he wasn't able to do proper research. He thought he was doing enough research, I bet he thought he's done a good deal on that, too. Not OPs problem - 0/5 Buttholes. I sold an inherited property for around $140,000. I thought it was a good deal, because it wasn't in prestine condition and in an industrial area and I was in desperate need of money. I got almost 1.5 times the market value. I was happy AF for years. The buyer sold it recently for almost 3 million dollars to a company, because the property lines prevented them from expanding and merging their facilities. I almost bit my own butt - but shit happens, sometimes you're the dog, sometimes you're the tree.
Marcus W what was the property out of curiosity?
Yeah, and it's just a shit move demanding that someone sell something back to you just because you found out after the sale that it's worth more. If I were the OP I'd have offered to sell the guitar back to the guy for the full $50,000 or whatever it's valued at.
@@dx1450 you must have in count that op is an expert guitarist and the guitar has a special value for him more than money
This! This happens all the time!! People loses opportunity they didnt knew they had and then later finds other they know they can finally profit from, as long as a deal seems win win its all fair game imo.
I had sold empty rewrittable vhs for like 60 buck for 80 vhs, the person was very interested and would have paid 200 for it lol but i didnt because i posted it at 60$. Thats on me for not knowing this was a niche.
Thats a very big OOF
Sister: **constantly clarifies that Brother is not a biological brother**
Brother: **thinks she hates him**
Sister: :o
Shocked pikachu face
i mean clarifying your not biological siblings doesn't mean you hate them
@@paintypaintpaint1689 most of the time, it does, but yea, sometimes it doesn't. But mostly it does, and It's really sad
i think that they both need therapy.
@@paintypaintpaint1689 yes it does. when the saying 'you must be adopted' is used to make fun of someone, as it has been for YEARS, the clarification of ' you aren't my real brother' usually means they aren't thought of as family( which op admits) or are less then. If she doesn't mean it that way why say it at all, there is absolutely no need for that. Also not all siblings look similar.
Well, the guy who sold it had no care for the guitar and just wanted the money, also its his fault for not even looking up about it in the first place... Its not OP's fault for using a bit of common sense and researching about something before buying it.
Exactly thank you
aka its his fault that he didnt do a research
Yes the Coworker should’ve done waaaayyyyy better research. That being said, my moral compass would’ve said something about it being worth way more than what the coworker was asking for it. However, that is just me. Everyone is different. Also, what the coworker did afterwards is completely unacceptable!!
I mean it’s a pretty common hobby to go to yard sales and stuff and look for rare items that people are selling at a reduced price because they don’t know the value
It’s just smart
Right? 4 grand is still a decent amount for a guitar he had no use for or attachment to, and since he was the one to come up with that price, asking op for it back was nothing but a greed play
On the guitar story: he took advantage of a good deal and wasn't an asshole about haggling or anything. He has literally nothing to feel guilty about
Jericho Kornwolf, right? It was a transaction which both sides agreed even if it’s asymmetric information from the seller. If it was important to the son then he wouldn’t have even offered it for sale to begin with.
Yeah, that guy wanted 4000, so he got 4000. Its not the buyers fault that the seller didn't know his stuff before the sale.
@@AldanFerrox AND the seller researched the price and decided he would sell it for $4,000
@@keendog601 exactly! I think that if the buyer had said the guitar is worth around $4,000 or even hinted towards the guitar not being worth much, then he'd be a bit of an asshole, but it was 100% the seller who researched and decided on the price
I'm surprised people were saying hes a butthole when the guy clearly didnt care about it until he found out how much it was worth
Regarding the guitar: I think it’s the sellers job to research items before selling them to others. Where I’m from if a store has the wrong price tag on the item they will sell it to the customer at that price. Then they will change it to the correct price tag for all other customers.
And OP, from what we know, didnt sell the guitar, he kept it and is using the guitar.
EXACTLY!!! The fact that he CLAIMED to have done his research on the guitar and got a good price for it is the very first YTA for me. you wouldn't ever find a 50,000$ guitar going for 4 grand so if you were to say you saw a post for one with that price is bullsh*t.
The seller is an idiot here. He sold it to OP which mean he have no control over the guitar here and its literally his fault for not researching.
“He has no proof so I doubt it’ll work.”
Someone send the police the laptop post!
And also, they didn’t just lose their roommate’s laptop. He said he was revising work for an exam! His work is on that laptop, he could literally fail!
Yeah and the roommate hid a jump rope (I assume inside) witch is usually $5-$10 that sounded like it was being used INSIDE and op hid a laptop witch usually costs $500-$1000 with notes for the roommates exam OUTSIDE
@@pokemonfanj the laptop COULD cost more because it depends on the information on the laptop...
Because it COULD cost money to get the information back from the roommates school.
@@jessicagemma1234 yeah I was just going based on the base price for an average one
@@pokemonfanj Yeah. I Understand Why But I Thought It Would Also Count To State That😌
@@jessicagemma1234 yeah
The gaslighting girl told your friends some melodramatic, falsified version of events, I guarantee it. "He.... SNIFF ...he had been watching me through the security cameras for the ENTIRE TIME WE LIVED TOGETHER!!"
Unfortunately for him, what he did is extremely easy to twist into him being a paranoid psycho stalker. Of course he had the right to do it for what was happening (props to him for seeing through her gaslighting, not easy to do), but it's an easily manipulated story to serve her needs.
@@starwarriorterra8373 Yes, it is unfortunate. I just hope he's ok now. 😕
@@starwarriorterra8373 - I wouldn't say so, considering the cameras were already installed and they both knew and had good reason for having them. If he'd gone out and BOUGHT cameras and installed them with the intention of capturing footage of her doing/not doing things, then I'd agree. But at the same time, I suppose a lot of people don't take such nuances into account and just say "he looked at cameras aka bad" :l So... yeah, I suppose you're right in that regard, lol.
the GF also mentions things about violating her privacy...maybe it's me(never dated, i'm socially awkward so i don't know how these things work) but...they're living together...technically it's THEIR privacy, he is allowed to check what's happening in THEIR house and as a victim of possible gaslighting (not native English speaker, i'm learning this word soon as i read it on the video) i would have done the same check of OP if i had cameras all around me...because it's scary to not be sure of your own memories...i'm actually having a few existential crises myself in this period(i've depression and my parents are telling me that when i was a kid i was a "happy bully"...but i don't remember anything about it, i remember being beaten, insulted by other kids and then mocked by my own parents for being weak an pathetic but they insist that it never happened...then from where my inner complexes come from?)
Derok Deathaxe homie do you need somebody to talk to?
Regarding the Chores story: How are all his friends siding with his ex? Even if they only heard her side of the story, as friends they must give both ppl a chance to explain themselves,and I think he was absolutely in the right. Seems like she just wanted to take her bad mood out on him and got caught
I bet there's more to than chores and him watching security videos. Sounds like she's cheating and needs an excuse to leave without people thinking she's the cause of the break up.
Her behaviour smacks of narcissism, and she's got people doing her bidding, as all good narcissists do.
I mean, how is it abusive to go through the tapes both parties knew were there?
She sounds like a real piece of crap. Gaslighting extraordinaire.
I think she was actually looking for an out.
They're just not real friends for OP. Its in moment like this you find out the hard way who really ARE your friends and who aren't.
I don't know why, but listening to that story, the first thing that popped into my mind was, "she's cheating on him and was looking for an excuse to justify breaking up with him while making him the bad guy."
My brother actually tried to tell me I was adopted as a kid; guess what, I'm not. Anyway, I actually looked at him and said "At least mom and dad wanted me. They got stuck with you."
My husband adopted my daughter, she has always told our other kids that LoL
_hello police? i'd like to report a murder_
This comment deserves much more attention! 👏👏👏
Lol I remember when I was younger that my brother made fun of me for having braces, so I told him that at least my parents cared enough about me to pay for braces.( I *really* needed braces, and he only needed them a little)
My brother and I used to tease each other like that.
Me: I feel bad for mom and dad, they had me and I was so wonderful they wanted another one, but they got stuck with you instead.
Bro: You mean you were so awful they tried for a better kid, and got it.
Me: Um, then why’d they stop having kids after you? Because you were so awful they couldn’t bear the chance of another kid like you.
Bro: No, they just knew they’d already attained perfection and couldn’t do better than *points to self proudly* me.
All siblings don’t tease each other like this?
“Ur not a true part of my family”
“Wow I can’t believe he got upset at me!!”
Hi, Law student here! So in regards to the post on the guitar: Legally speaking the seller may actually have had a leg to stand on if they sued OP. It is considered a unilateral mistake of value (basically, one party makes a mistake on the worth of an object) and in most cases there would be nothing the seller could do to rescind the offer and recoup the money. However there is a clause that (to sum up) basically means that if one party knew there was a mistake and failed to mention it, then the transaction can be considered null and void. This, of course, is not at all stating that OP would lose his case. Actually he'd likely win it as he seems to have not intentionally misrepresented the value to the seller. If he had said something like, "Oh yeah it's junk! You're lucky i'm even buying it for $4k!" Then it would definitely tank him in a suit. But because the seller failed to do his research, OP is scottfree and in this case, is not the asshole.
Not a law anything, but this was my reading of it. Had OP been asked to give a value and lowballed, that would be one thing, but he simply recognized a good deal and paid the asking price. Might as well complain that the dollar coin you used to pay for a candy bar was actually super rare and worth thousands.
BlackIC Essentially, yes!
Nice point on numismatism, some coins are worth more than face value but you have to learn that to know it and op is like a numismatic seeing a rare coin and buys it face value. Non numismatic have no problems with that he lose no money for him. Not on buyer shoulder to educate their niche lol.
So basically if the buyer tried sharking (directly taking advantage of a less experienced person through persuasion) it would have legal grounds?
@@darianbarber3763 correct!
Re: Guitar. The OP was right. That's the nature of all speculation. It isn't the OP's fault that the seller didn't do the proper diligence.
Just to play devil's advocate: if the original seller had been forced into making a heavily discounted sale because of dire financial circumstances *and* the original seller had some sort of sentimental attachment to the guitar (because of his father) -- then you could make the case the OP was wrong to refuse to sell it back. However, the seller was fine with the sale until he realized he could have made more money on it. That's it.
He lost no initial investment, as he didn't even purchase the guitar himself. He actually lost nothing besides the opportunity for additional profit. He's just bummed that his lack of research resulted in his failing to maximize his profit. Again, welcome to the world of speculation.
Jeffrey Karl are you a lawyer? Damn
Totally agreed. I didnt understand why OP was called A-hole in that situation
Agreed, he literally only talks about the price and calling OP a scammer, when, if you look at his original words, if OP didn't remove or change the tone, saying that "I checked on the site and 4,000$ is fair" implies he was actually trying to get, in his eyes, a lot of money for something he gave zero shits about.
I will add one thing, the only thing he can argue about is OP didn't tell him that "hey man, this thing costs around 50k, are you sure about this?", but that is a huge stretch and I'm just trying to give this guy the best I can think of, because even in this scenario, does he even know the word "business"? He told him he thinks 4,000$ is fair "after checking the site" so who am I to pass on this deal?
Amy haha. No - just someone doing his best to avoid going crazy in self-quarantine.... and so here I am in TH-cam Comment World.
That last "Sister" is a GRUNT straight up. YTA is not enough.
The inheritance fight is gonna be brutal
@@garrethutchington1663 at least the brother can say that the parents chose him to be their kid. Its not like you get to choose your biological kids.
As someone who does have a adopted little sister I can say without a single doubt that they ARE a part of your family. If you looked at all of us you wouldn’t even be able to tell she is adopted. The moment we got her till the day our name dies she is a part of our family no matter what!
As a white person with a black little sister, adopted siblings are 100000000% your real family, whether they "blend in" or not! That story made me feel physically sick, especially knowing the trauma and hardships my baby sister has been through that lead her to us. I know first hand that adoption can be so much harder on kids that don't physically look like their family and I can't imagine the pain that that poor kid felt when his own sibling said that shit.
@@spoopy132 Thanks for being a decent human being, after that story your take is almost therapeutic.
"reminding my brother he's adopted and not a part of MY real family"
Me: Yes, yes you are
RSlash: yes!
Clau Panquecito I mean, you can clarify he's adopted, especially if he doesn't look like you. But "not a part of MY real family"? Get outta here!
It's like HOLY FUCK HOW DO YOU NOT SEE IT?!
Omfg she could’ve just told her friends he was adopted and moved on! She does not need to say he’s not apart of the family.
As an adopted human, I often tell people I'm adopted because I'm Hispanic and my parents are white. But, I AM part of the family. My mom has kids she birthed and I was adopted by my dad and they got married as adults, my brother is also adopted. We've always known.
As soon as I heard him read the title i was like "ugh....its ridiculous." That kid is gonna be scarred because of his "sister".
I feel Anne was doing that thing some people do when they are preparing to break up. Gaslighting themselves to make believe the other person the villain. So they are justified in breaking up etc.
Exactly my thought.
Had the same thought! It seemed clear she was just looking for a reason to leave.
He should run fast in the opposite direction and not look back!
Right when op said she was starting fights over it I knew she was looking for anything to get out the relationship. I would say she found her way out but I think OP won this one.
I think Ace Moonshot's opinion is further justified by the fact that she twisted being proven wrong into the reason to break up. It might have even been subconscious on her part, but it's clear she wasn't invested in the relationship.
I want to add another layer of horrible to that last story: OP says that when the issue brought up, they were talking to their cousin & cousin's friends. How does your cousin not recognize your brother you've had for years? What cousin doesn't know your family adopted a sibling? The only reason I can think of would be that OP's cousins live in another country or something which means they barely see each other which can also mean OP has been hiding this brother from distant family which is just added layers of messed up.
Yeah if they're long distance then that makes a lot of sense. My cousin and I live in different continents across the sea and we haven't seen each other since 2008. Last year was the first time I saw her on video chat. Ngl I didn't recognize her at first, I thought she was a friend visiting her. So yeah it's possible that it's LD.
They said it was a friend, not their cousin asking. I'm biologically related to my cousins and my brother, and I wouldn't expect any of their friends to recognize me on sight unless we'd met and spoken to each other before
I have a really large family and my cousins keep popping out kids like crazy. I can't keep track of all the names and the faces so maybe that's what happened here? Especially if someone is creeping in the corner it could be hard to see. I feel bad for that adopted brother saying he wasn't really apart of the family. That is so messed up!
OP was a her not a he
Lexi is right, it was the friends who asked, not the cousin but if it were the cousin, it could be a second cousin or someone who doesn't see the family all too often. I was adopted, my aunts, uncle, & first cousins all know this but most of their kids don't & I will generally refer to my cousins' kids as my cousins when talking about them to make it easier. One of my cousins, my cousin's daughter, I only just met her in 2016 because they lived in San Diego & I'm in northern Oregon, they actually moved closer to us shortly after I visited them in San Diego but his daughter never even knew I existed until I met her on my trip. Family doesn't always know everyone in the family, I don't think my cousin even really knows my younger sister since she never took the time to get to know her after she moved closer. My younger sister was also adopted & doesn't look like the family at all, I'm actually surprised that the extended family who isn't aware that we were adopted never questioned it upon meeting them or if they did, might of been in private with my parents. Oh yeah, I actually met cousins I didn't even know I had at a funeral when I was in high school, they're pretty distant, my dad's cousins' children but they were around my age & have the same interests, plus one of them was also adopted so we instantly bonded. I still wonder why my family never told me about them.
As far as the guitar story goes, I'm on OP's side. I feel bad for the previous owner losing out, but like rslash said he still made four thousand dollars, which is a very nice payday. Also, it was on the previous owner to research the exact value, and OP is not obligated to correct someone's prices. If you saw a giant TV selling for $20, you would probably buy it then and there
if someone is selling a Lamborghini for $100 not knowing the price I'm still going to buy that Lamborghini same with the guitar
I’d probably think it’s a scam or something bc it’s too good to be true
@@Jacky.c.v id take the risk for 100 bucks
If it's a replica or something else the parts would still be worth more than 100 bucks
I think you might be taking advantage of a 'special needs' person, and you may find the law is not on your side.
Yeah I agree when your selling something it’s up to you to do your research and price whatever it is your selling accordingly
Agreed
As an adoptee,
i can say when someone is adopted they are LEGALLY a part of the family!
Thats true
I was adopted as a baby. At the age of 45 I still find it offensive when people ask me about my "real" family
Ikr that woman should not have the ability to speak seriously just someone go find her and sew her mouth shut
Lille Trille yeah I have the same problem but things are a little different, my dad is not my birth farther and only a few people know, when someone finds out the ask about my “real dad” so I just say that the man who raised me is my dad not some other guy who left when I was kid
For those who seen this comment but not heard the story for whatever reason or just wants to listen to it again, here, on the house.
14:09
I was adopted and if my older siblings did that to me I would never talk to them again! That is such a bitchy move!
Adopted family went NC in 2003 over a number of perceived irreconcilable differences.
It was being abandoned all over again. I can feel this kid’s pain.
@Ethan Roberts she pretty much said he wasn't her true brother which is a total bitch move. Her saying he was adopted isn't a butthole move at all, I know this. Her saying he wasn't family and basically disowning him was. Were you adopted? If so you should know how much it would hurt to hear that. If not stfu
@@Fieryfae95 it's bitchy but true
@@PinkGoldBeans6197 It's not true.
well it's a good thing it's fake then
She tried to gaslight and manipulate you. Tell those mutual friends that they can have her. She can mess with their heads.
I honestly wonder if she told her friends ge secretly installed the cameras and not that they were already there.
Why would, as a stranger, would you read someone else’s phone over their shoulder?
Snoopiness.
My brother is a nutcase and does it all the time
@@brycewatts2461 i could give a list of names including my own who've done this
Boomers
Because you are bored and have nothing to do, maybe your phone died or your hands are full so you can do nothing but look around to entertain yourself. TBH, I did glance over other people's phone at such times, just curious about what they are doing, but never I look long too closely or long enough to recognize text messages and stuff, since I know it's rude and an invasion of privacy. The most I get would be 'this guy's texting' or this guy's playing a game' and that'd be all. I then try to distract myself looking at other people, imagining, trying to be Sherlock about their lives and stuff. It can be pretty entertaining. But yeah, boredom is what makes strangers look at other people's phones. Morality usually keeps them from looking too long, or at least making a comment about it, but clearly it doesn't apply to everyone.
Legit 90% of women in Florida wear a sports bra while jogging. I like to imagine she goes around asking every jogger she sees the same question.
Ms Anonymous facts bra facts
@@msanonymous6951 - LOL. 👍
8:17 OP is in the Clear. The seller didn't care to get his prices right, and only once he learned it could be sold for more did he care to get the guitar back.
OP gets a 0 out of 5
Seller gets a 5 out of 5
My garage sale experience: I like to collect depression glass. That’s glassware that was made, obviously, during the great depression. I found a Sunkist juice reamer for fifty cents. At that time, it was worth about $50. I plopped down fifty cents so fast it would’ve made your head spin! I picked it up and took it to the car and left. I pulled over about two blocks away and screamed because I had gotten such a great deal. Several decades later, I still have it and it is still in pristine condition. A few years ago, Martha Stewart decided to start displaying depression glass during her show. Prices for it skyrocketed, so I can’t afford it the way I used to be able to. But that’s OK. I still have wonderful pieces but that one was my best score. And hell no, I wasn’t going to tell them that they had mispriced it!
For the guitar, he is not the asshole. He didn’t haggle or anything, it was the seller who gave the price so the buyer was in the right, and it’s the seller’s fault he sold for such a low price
yeah, and he said that the guitar wasn't even an heirloom
If the seller 'really' wanted to look up the price of the guitar, he could have done a Much better job, but it seems he was lazy about the price check, and probably thought the 4k was a major price hike on his side. Especially with the receipt. He could have gone to a pawn shop, or even posted pictures of the guitar and receipt online if he really wanted a better view of how much it was worth. But he sold it, and once the money changes hands, he is stuck with his decision.
@@damienburroughs2119 , ya, exactly. If you are selling a vintage piece like that, you do your research. If I were to inherit my mother's moss rose china coffee set that is 150 years old and didn't want to keep it, you bet I'm going to figure out how much those pieces are actually worth. It's really hard cause they are unstamped, have a small flaw which is why my great-great-great aunt received it as a gift from her dad when he couldn't sell it in his store. she divided the set among her daughters, so many pieces are not in my mother's possession.
exactly
"He doesnt have proof"
Continues to post it on reddit
Hope the roommate finds the reddit post and figures out a way to trace it to the OP.
@@deutschesmaedchen would love to read that
I don’t know why this is, but reddit posts aren’t proof enough. No clue why.
@@chickenpermission9964 if a person admits a crime and you trace it to them, its probably enough lol
@@noanfelipe4753 I heard of this case where someone admitted to drunk driving and hit and run on social media and they couldn’t be charged with drunk driving or hit and run because post wasn’t enough proof. Don’t know if that fits under the same umbrella, and the video was Dumb social media post by Matthew santoro.
The man selling the guitar should have done his research. Common sense
and HE'S the one that said "4000$ OK?", not the buyer.
He had receipts even.
Always do intense research and not an eBay look-up.
To me, it hinges on whether the buyer knew it was worth 50,000.
When you see a guy selling a 50,000 dollar item for 4000, he's either extremely generous, or extremely misinformed. It only takes one question, even if it's an "are you sure?" to confirm it. Otherwise it's being sold under false pretenses.
However, i think OP really messed up in the edit, assuming everyone would do the same. Everyone would not do the same. I know some genuinely kind people who would (and have) pointed out when something is being sold for far less than it's worth.
OP did something a little shitty. He took advantage of this guys ignorance. Its not a comparison of finding a great deal at a garage sale for 50 cents. It's the difference between a used car and an entire college fund
@@Hylanos 🤯 I don't get how you could think that! 🤷🏻♀ Its not OP's problem that the seller didn't do his homework. He just quickly googled the price of guitars under the same brand & used that. He should have researched further, asked a professional or gotten it appraised. I can understand being in the position where you don't have any idea that an item could potentially have a high value. That sucks, it really does but that's not OP's fault. If you make a mistake, its not someone else's responsibility to fix it for you. I genuinely don't understand how anyone could think OP is responsible for the sellers mistake. Every seller has a responsibility to do their due diligence. That's even in the terms & conditions and/or rules & tips on many selling sites.
Have you ever been to the grocery store & went to buy an item that had a very low price only to find out at the checkout that the price was listed wrong? Most grocery stores (especially large chains) will give you the incorrect price it was listed for or in the very least, a good sized discount (followed by immediately correcting the price for future shoppers) because that was the grocery store's mistake.
I'm not replying to in any way come off as rude or argue about it (civil discussion is different) because that's just ridiculous & something I hate TH-cam for. But I genuinely just don't see how this could be OP's fault & I'm floored that anyone thinks it is (but I know I shouldn't be surprised these days).
I didn't even need to hear the "you're not actually part of this family" story before I announced a rare 5/5 buttholes from me
That's gonna be a yikes from me, dawg
I feel so bad for that adopted brother. My heart goes out to him.
Guitar story: NTA. The person gave OP a price when asked. OP agreed. It was sold. End of story. Not OP's problem the guy didn't research properly.
Alyssa Davies agreed!
Agreed
As noted, Buyers Remorse.
I completely agree. The seller's a commie bastard spy.
@@rockerdude1973 Seller's remorse. The seller felt bad, not the buyer.
That last story is the making of a psychopath, OP feels nothing. This is not just asshole behaviour OP is Chaotic evil.
*insert dungeons & dragons meme here*
Caring way too much about blood relations sounds more lawful evil to me
She's definitely not chaotic. Chaotic evil wouldn't use the "not blood family" as an argument. Probably some Lawful evil (wich are the real shit btw)
Sociopath*
@@ILoveWockiana This. She doesn't seem born with the attributes, they appear made.
"I stole his laptop and hid it outside, then it was stolen from me."
*Shocked Pikachu face*
"Totally his fault for hiding my $2 rope."
I really enjoyed the payback in that story, until the OP revealed he hid the laptop outside, and then acted mystified when somebody stole it. He's clearly not intelligent enough for college.
And it sounded like op was using the jump rope inside
@@pokemonfanj which isn't just a nuisance for OP's roomate its also for their neighbors
@@M0M0_454 yeah
Moral of the story don't steal and hide other peoples property or your laptop will get stolen.
The post where the person denounced their adopted sibling is so disgusting to me. Like bro, younger siblings are clingy by default. I remember my little brother following me and copying me, and this poor child lost his family, thankfully got a new one, and this person has the audacity to disrespect the bonds of family. They have actually been together for most of their lives, if that doesn’t count as being family I don’t know what does.
Her parents adopted not her she has no obligation to see him as a brother not everyone is ok with adoption he is not a brother if my family suddenly adopted i would not see them as a sibling not everyone is ok with adoption
@@BASED877 Periods, please. I know it's TH-cam, but they help reading comprehension.
Also, true, she has no obligation to see him as a brother. However, she doesn't have to throw it in his face or treat him like garbage, just for being (understandably) a little clingy. Also, since her parents did make the adoption, she should respect that and treat him like a brother, since legally he is.
@@BASED877 one word. Stupid
@@akl2k7 legally yes but to her he is not family and it's ok that she doesn't see him as family you can't force someone to see someone as family
@@continualvariability3345 yes I agree you are
OP left his roommate's laptop... OUTSIDE and doesn't realize that he's the ahole for putting it there it the first place... 5/5
Yeah if it inside in his room I would say he isn't the Asshole but because he put it outside and got stolen yeah he's 100 percent the asshole
@@1985toyotacamry Like, even if it didn't get stolen it could have easily got water damaged or something could have been knocked onto it by the wind.
U should read his comments. U would wanna kill him
@@dariusyew5388 Even if that's true, being a bad person doesn't justify you also being a bad person and ruining/losing/destroying their stuff or otherwise, you need to get a new room or roomate.
@@vgamesx1 what are trying to say? Im talking about OP comments on reddit
Ok the adopted one
Telling people he’s adopted, sure
Saying he’s not part of the family, WTH
I agree, up to the point of telling her friends the situation of why they did not look the same, 2.5 I could chalk that up as poor choice of words. After that point in the story, 5/5
Lmao he literally checked security cameras to make sure he's right. HOW IS HE THE AH TO HER FRIENDS!
Anne probably has a side dude and she’s salty that she’s not in quarantine with him.
In regards to the guitar guy, I would say that he did nothing wrong. He managed to find a great deal on a guitar that the seller was trying to sell. The seller is the one who came up with that price and said that he even researched a fair price too. I would say that it is the sellers fault for not being more thorough with his research. Also who tries to buy something back after they sold it? It sucks to lose out on an expensive rare item like that but that's why you should look that kind of stuff up before you post an ad selling it,
Agreed
Yep
I'm inclined to agree, but I'm pretty sure I recall from business law that the seller does have grounds to sue the buyer in a case like this
@@matthewmarchbanks8211 what
The fault lies in the amount of research seller "said" he did. I'm assuming he made one (maybe two) google searches and saw those four digits and thought he struck bank. I like the Garage sale analogy as it scales perfectly. The only time this becomes questionable to me is when it gets into millions or tens of millions
Who would be stupid enough to put a laptop outside?
Edit: guitar guy was not in the wrong at all. This is like literally something you would a dumb pawn shop character in a comedy do.
Guitar guy 0/5 assholes
Besides everything else, is the guitar guy honest about what really happened, the sell TOLD HIM that he looked op the price, sellers fault for wrong pricing.
Laptop guy should have placed it under the roommates mess/in a closet.Not outside
Honestly that sibling story hit me hard. I used to be so annoyed of my little brother when we were younger but now he’s my best friend and I don’t know what I would do without him
I've seen enough "BUT WE'RE FAMILY!!!" to know that blood only takes you so far in family...
Meh, they're all leeches anyway
Technically we're family with bananas in our dna
Adam Hennessy not really how that works. Yeah we’ve got similarities between our DNA but it’s order is so different that we’re in different Kingdoms.
The blood of the coven is thicker than the water of the womb🤗
OP on the guitar story
My verdict: not the butthole
He bought it at the price HE asked and before hand the dude said he looked up so
OP those NOT have any problems for buying at that price and I support him on his last remark about the garage sale
Edit: I'm grateful for the people who are supporting op in this case
I agree. He only wants it back after knowing how much it is worth and only want the money worth of it.
It clear he didn't seem attached to it and its not OP fault that he knew more about his stuff, then he does. OP isn't the Ahole.
@@estydiaz3751 agreed
I am very split.
I agree that at a market sale I would never correct the price.
But when talking to a person and discussing price I wouldn't allow such a low price due to lack of knowledge.
This is exploiting others ignorance for your own profit, which I am against
I agree it should be the sellers responsibility to through research
@@natanoj16 While I understand that it was the sellers fault for not being informed. He did not have to sell it before doing his own research but he didn't care about it until he found out it was worth some money. Ignorance isn't really an excuse in this case, especially seen as how he was the one who made the offer to OP.
Roommate post: Neither of them sound old enough to be in college. Seriously, you can’t work out your issues civilly? And there is a big difference between hiding a jump rope inside the house and taking an expensive piece of equipment like a laptop and putting it outside where anything could happen to it. Also, where the heck are they going to college that freshman year they each have their own room and a shared kitchen?!?
A house?
My freshman dorm was like this and it was just a state college; nothing crazy like a private university or Ivy league school. So, it's not that wierd but I do assume it's a house as they're stuck in quarantine together.
A lot of college students are crybaby children. It's hilarious but also sad
Yeah I felt like everyone sucked there tbh the roommate was an absolute pig and left the bathroom in a horrible state so I'm gonna assume he was pissing outside the bowl and stole his jump rope and op stole one thing which was a laptop they probably both had it coming to them.
@@sabersz its hilarious that they are the future
i just hope i dont die before i turn 18 these teens screw my future by crying that theyr screwed theirselves over
Funny enough, if you go to look up the last story, the user account is deleted and the body of the post is replaced with a simple message: "F* ALL OF YOU"
Also worth noting is that mod also locked the thread saying people couldn't behave so its possible people were being over the top and abusive. Par for the course I suppose.
imagine leaving someone you’re supposed to spend the rest of your life with because you got proven wrong one time.
It was a blessing for this guy.
Yeah, sounds like that was a bullet dodged.
@@Waskomsause More like a missile.
@@gb3458 ... With a hint of nuclear fision.
OP dodged a major bullet there, IMO. She is manipulative, and if they had gotten married it would have gotten a lot worse.
"He loves to play with me, more than other kids"
Maybe, he's your brother?
Jackson Bailey hell, I loved playing with my big sisters more then anything, they were 12 and 14 years older and at the park, when they took me I would only play with them, and simply ignore other kids. I’m not adopted but THATS WHAT NORMAL SIBLINGS DO! She’s a horrible big sibling, and it’s clear she has major issues and needs to be slapped in the face with a chair
bUt He'S nOt My ReAl BrOtHeR
It’s the guys fault for not doing enough research on the guitar
He could’ve taken it to a guitar shop and gotten it appraised
Sometimes go to guitar shop there's still a chance that the seller will scam him.
About the research. Not everyone know where and how to get info for such antique thing
@@ReigoVassal Thats still not the buyers fault. If you say you wa t 4000 you get 4000. If you dont know what to price it at, do research. Go to multiple guitar shops, look online etc.
k0cha and he only cared once he found out how much it was worth so he clearly could’ve done more research if he found out later anyway
He just didn’t and he didn’t really care for the guitar anyway
@@zaneps151 Yeah, he probably just googled it, saw a price and then used that. Like, if he found out later it cant ve that hard to find out what the guitar was really worth. And I doubt that every single guitar shop is going to scam him and give him a wrong price.
He made a mistake, probably feels bad about it, everyone would. And sure he can ask to get the guitar back and give back the money. Thats totally ok. But if the buyer says no, then he has to deal with that. Shit happens
Doug Smithart honestly it should be common knowledge that if you wanna know how much something is worth, you go and see an expert about it
He’s just butthurt he missed out but like the video said, he inherited it so it’s not like he lost money
For the guy with the guitar, my boyfriend plays guitar as well and has told me about various brands and values. I can totally understand buying a guitar for that amount of money, people usually take the easiest price, and despite the large undercharge, the guy who sold it should have looked up the value before selling it to you.
OP's guitar issue: He's not at fault. The dude wanted to sell it without proper research, its his fault.
The roommate one: the way OP phrases it makes it sound like the roommate is a friend that he's letting into his house, but if they're paying equal rent, then that house is as much the roommate's as it is OP's. OP says that he "never" complains about his roommate, yet this entire post is basically him complaining and it sounds like he's constantly nagging at his roommate. I get wanting a clean house, but there's better ways to go about it than "explaining it to him like he's a child." Also, people tend to tell these stories in a way that paints them as the good guy, so if this is his attempt at sounding like he's in the right, I can't imagine what he might be omitting. Hiding the jump rope may have been immature on the roommate's part, but I would guess they assumed that he wouldn't respond to any attempt to politely ask him to not jump rope at a certain time. What they should have done is sat down and had a mature conversation like the adults I assume they are to find a compromise that'll work for both of them. 5/5 for losing the laptop and not taking responsibility for it, and an additional 3 points for acting like an entitled child. You're not lord of the house, OP. Learn to respect your roommate.
lol and hes mad at his roommate for not cleaning because HE goes into his roommates room to watch his roommate's tv
Lexi N the roommate is not immature for hiding the jump rope OP is choosing to be noisy when he’s studying for an exam and the roommate might fail the semester because of OP .
Lexi N right!? And why the fuck did op hide it outside where it could easily get stolen or damaged! Put it in an air vent or some shit but outside!?
@@justasentientmclarenp1879 i have to disagree in that point, it's 15 minutes, and lets remember the other guy does things like having the house dirty wich for me is one of the most horrible things ever, he IS inmature for hiding the rope, he will not die for some jump sounds for 15 minutes.
FluxBite Both are assholes for not being adults that communicate and compromise, but OP is the bigger asshole. OP thinks that because they pay half the rent he has access to their roommate’s tv in roommate’s room. Also OP’s replies are not doing them any favors as they aren’t able to cope with the legal ramifications they could face being talked about in the post. Example of OP’s replies, “I accept your judgements (I'm aware I received a rule 3 warning) but it baffles me that you guys think this post counts as a reliable proof. If my friend sees this which by the way is a very low chance, I can easily say that he did this to falsely accuse me. You guys are starting to annoy me because despite the fact that I asked you NOT to discuss stuff about court and laws, you guys still do”.
The nosy train lady deserved it and the “chore girlfriend” was looking for a way out. My mother gaslighted me for years, so I know how it is.
The OP of the adopted brother is completely 5/5 buttholes as my own biological older sibling completely alienated me from grade school until the end of high school. The fact that the adopted brother is so understandably clingy yet blown off is atrocious. OP really needs a sensitivity class and hope their brother someday forgives.
The last story absolutely broke my heart. I have a nephew who is adopted and we've had him since he was just over a month old, and he's 20 years old now. I could never imagine myself or any of us saying such horrible things to him like OP did. I've always been really close with him and I seriously cannot imagine life or my family without him. I love him just the same as my biological nephews, if not more. I truly honestly believe he was meant for us, and was always meant to be in our family. I don't understand how some families can just not love their adoptive siblings, cousins or family members.
Anyways enough of my rambling before I make myself cry lmao
4:33 so you hide his collage laptop that he needs for his collage exams, and studies, and you think it's "no big deal" if it got stolen which is 100% your fault, because you think a laptop is equal value to a freaking jump rope
They were tryna focus yet OP wouldn't stop, if ya wanna exercise can't OP do it somewhere else?
Studying is more important than a stupid jump rope.
@@razeddelusion3919 two wrongs don't make a right, and in this case, the roommate has a much bigger loss. It wasn't right to hide the jump rope, but it was way worse to hide, then lose, the laptop. Op is responsible for that loss and should pay for another one.
He also said that he "doesn't complain" when the other guy does things he doesn't like yet early in the post he writes a list of things his roommate has done that has annoyed him, if he can complain about someone else's behaviour other people have the right to complain about his.
Josh_the_ jester ya no kidding.
@@razeddelusion3919 the fact that it got stolen is a major part of the story! OP got the laptop stolen by putting it outside, but now doesn't want to take responsibility for it. I'd press charges too if I was the roommate; a freaking jump rope is no where near the price of a laptop.
Guitar story: The seller set the price. The buyer did not haggle or try to get a lower price. He paid full ASKING price.
"You are no true part of this family, you were adopted."
If my son ever say something like that, He is no son of mine.
No kidding!
well the story is fake so your comment is moot
@@randomboys1000 Do you have any proof of that?
I'm going through the process of becoming a foster parent and one of the first things they told us is that EVERY kid that goes through the system has trauma. If you're lucky the only trauma they have is being separated from their parents, unfortunately they're probably going to have more issues that will last their entire life. When I was listening I assumed the kid had some vanilla trauma (for a kid in the foster/adoption system) but he had some grade A trauma. It's amazing he's not more messed up and speaks to his strength.
The guitar one: No, he absolutely not the butthole because he was offered the guitar for $4000 and he paid so it now belonged to him and he didn’t have to tell the seller the real value or return it when he found out the price (BECAUSE ITS HIS)
That adoption story happened to me....sort of. I'm adopted, and my adopted parents divorced. My dad remarried and she had 2 kids. The girl, who was the same age as me, got into an argument one night and she told me that obviously no one wanted me because my own mother gave me up. I blew up and we ended up in a fist fight. My dad and her mom got woken up and immediately got onto me since I was sitting on top of her. I didn't even try to explain why I struck her and my dad took me back to my mom. My mom took one look at me and asked, "What did she say?" I told her. She told me that I shouldn't have done that and that I shouldn't do it again. She then took a second for that to sink in before she smiled, "Way to take down a bully, though!" I promised I wouldn't do it again but this is STILL one of my favorite memories. So yes, you're an A-hole. Anyone who EVER brings adoption into a fight or conversation without the consent of the adopted is an A-hole. It's a very sensitive subject.
Not gonna lie...almost cried for that poor brother. Gosh. I'd just disown her once I'm old enough. She doesn't want me? I don't want her. Probably would keep the parents though. ;)
This happened to me, I was adopted. And my brother told me he wasn’t my real family, and that I didn’t belong. It broke my heart and pushed me into a depression. My mom found out and flipped shit on him.
Hi
Aww, I hope you recovered 💜
Someone died tonight
That last story literally has me crying cause I know how it feels to be disowned/discarded by a family member and it has got to be one of the worst feelings ever. I really, really feel for the brother and hope the sister turns a new leaf very soon!!
Old Lady: *Doesn't mind her own business*
OP: *Cusses back at her*
Old lady and guy: *Surprised Pikachu Face*
Nice
Might be an old meme but it's true
Nice one
@@Twinklethefox9022 agreed
WOW, Eff Anne for gaslighting, I had an ex that tried to gaslight me too. Revenge is always the sweetest part when getting back at anyone who gaslights you (or attempts too).
Guitar story: The guy sold it to OP, so it's now OP's property, end of story. OP gets to decide if it's up for resale, OP has the final say, no ifs ands or buts.
Legally yeh, but its manipulative to do that to a someone you know. He took advantage of that guy for sure.
@@beth-ug6ti That guy had no care for that guitar, he was just trying to make some money, even though it was his deceased fathers. He didn't care enough about it to research it thoroughly and then got greedier when he already sold it when he actually took the time to research it. He should've done all his research before he sold it, even a person who also didn't know the price and bought but then wouldn't sell it back wouldn't be manipulating because he was too lazy to do the research.
@@beth-ug6ti it is not manipulative to pay for something that someone is offering to you. Yes, it would be manipulative if for example the co worker had said "hey op, ik you know more about guitars than I do, so make a reasonable offer, and I'll accept it". But that is not what happened. He gave a price, and op paid for it. Op didnt try to bargain down lower, or lowball him, he paid the asking price. It is now one's property and if the guy wanted it back so bad, he should pay the price op choses.
@@beth-ug6ti How did he take advantage? The guy who sold it didn't do enough research about the guitar he was selling because he was trying to make a quick buck. It is stated that He priced the guitar based on what he found online. It is not like he asked OP to make him an offer cause he had no clue on its value. The guy made an informed decision based on the research he did on value of Telecaster Guitars.
It is kinda funny because what he did was very much the opposite of what you often see happen on Pawn Stars.
@@takeshimasaki2033 It still feel like he was taking advantage of him. He knew the guy didn't have the correct value on the guitar and knew if he did know that he would up the price. If it was a store or some stranger that messed up I would understand. But if a friends coworker was offering something 40 000$ bellow market price I would absolutely make sure they know what they are doing and would hope someone would do the same for me.
1st Story - "IT'S FLORIDA! It gets hot here!"
My reaction to karen
"amia for cussing an entitled Karen"
Me:no you did the right thing and saved time
A true hero
Not entitled, just nosey
@@name-uh5ee she thinks she's entitled enough to snoop around in other's business. So yes, entitled. but also nosy.
*and space
*liked* (it's on 69 i can't do it)
I feel like in the roommate story, OP is a total douche bag chad. I mean his roommate is a little messy but this guy is constantly being loud when trying to study and when he says “I’m physically stronger than him so he can’t do anything” that pretty much tells me all I need to know about him
I do feel like some things are exaggerated or minimized to make you agree with the Op in every story
Yep the op could have just adjusted since studies is a lot more important.
Right? Besides, studying for finals is more important than jumping rope. I can see why it would be annoying to have someone making a bunch of noise while you’re concentrating
I was gonna say something here but Joe4 explained it better than me.
@@War_is_cool I agree
"Google, how much is a 1952 Telecaster worth?"
Lookit this. First answer. "The price guide of Vintage Guitar lists a 1952 blackguard Tele in 'excellent condition' as worth between $32,000 - $50,000.00"
That took 6 seconds. Yeah, the seller is an idiot, and I consider the $46,000 an idiot tax.
And, since the seller offered OP $4000, and already sold the guitar for that price, it's the seller's fault for not getting his shit together before making the sale. And, yes, I agree with the $46,000 idiot tax. 😆
When rSlash read the title about the adopted son, I didn't even hesitate. Out loud "yeah!"
Edit: So let me get this straight. This cold was not only unfortunate enough to have his family ripped away from him, but to have witnessed it. The trauma stays with you. Now, clinginess might be annoying, sure but given the circumstances... Seeing his parents die AND having total strangers, it of the kindness of their hearts accept him into their home as one of their own, spring him unconditional love and affection, it's understandable that's he's a little clingy.
OP, there is absolutely NO METRIC IN WHICH YOU ARE NOT THE ASSHOLE.
The girl who reminded her brother that he was adopted is actually more horrible than shark tale and the entirety of the transformers movies COMBINED
It gets worse. She is down right a terrible person. Her posts consit of her making terrible posts about her and that shes happy that she's made him terrible
Steel-Dragon Ω Thats heart breaking! When I read that I literally felt my heart shattering and dropping to my stomach
Those movies are good but I see where ur coming from well
My sister is adopted and looks very different than us BUT we NEVER bring up her being adopted, we all forget she’s adopted because she is more family than my own sperm donor of a father.
Steel-Dragon Ω is the post still up on Reddit?
Guitar guy did nothing wrong. The seller was just mad he didn’t do his research before hand.
There's a quote that I really like "A Wise man once told me, family doesn't end in blood; but it doesn't start there either. Family cares about you, not what you do for them family's there; for the good, the bad, all of it. They got your back; even when it hurts. That's family"
Sounds like a quote Iroh from avatar would say
@@nathangaspacio6128 also dean winchester would say
Neil whitaker dean winchester said that
YTA. You owe him a new lap top! It's your fault completely. I would go after you legally and make you pay all costs. New lap top, court fees, attorney fees and whatever else.
The story about the adopted fellow is heartbreaking. I suspect someone will be in for a major shock in the future. While they may not think of this fellow as their “real” sibling, I’ll bet the parents do. When they aren’t around any longer, I hope the parents leave the man in inheritance, too.
Anne sounds like she was just looking for an excuse to end the relationship.
Clearly that young woman still has some resentment over her adoptive brother, she should consider therapy to determine what is the issue. That's not normal behavior with someone you have literally spent 15 years of your life growing up together.
I agree. She might have felt that she was being replaced by him. Common sibling rivalry. Even then, this behaviour is excusable for a 6 yr old, not a 19yr old. I agree she needs therapy. This is a much deeper psychological issue.
What I find weird is that it is only now that its an issue. By the sounds of it she tells everyone he is adopted(because they ask) and he knew he was adopted. so what changed to make it an issue now?
FuNot FuMe My guess is it’s because op explained how they think their brother is too different from their family.
K, so here's a thing adopted siblings could use as an argument to "you're adopted"
"At least I was chosen"
The guy in the laptop story is literally on reddit saying if his roommate uses this as proof he'll say his roommate made up the whole post 🤦♀️ like how much of a dirtbag can one person be??😤😤
4:02 ok he stole a jump rope, A JUMP ROPE. Yes op's roommate should have just worked something out with op but op does not have the right to steal something so SO expensive especially to a college student, and why didn't op just hid it inside!?!?! This makes me so mad on so many levels.
But he only hid it.
@@garrethutchington1663 FairPoint
@@dumasss1239 it is a fair point but still hide it inside it's expensive and should be taken care of. He also should have taken responsibility since he didn't pay attention to it and let it get stolen/or lost
He hid it outside, where any normal person would know it could get stolen.
Commenting on the adopted brother situation:
I’ve never had an adopted sibling, although my mother plans on adopting later in life, I’m ecstatic. I actually plan on adopting later in life. I have a half sister who I love more than words can express. It’s always weird saying “half” because I’ve never seen her as half anything. I love her just as much as I’d love a full blood sibling, and I don’t treat her any differently.
Moral of the story: DNA doesn’t matter when it comes to family and if OP doesn’t realize that, I feel sorry for her. Condolences to her brother. That’s literally heartbreaking.
I also have half siblings but my half brother is a copy of my dad and me in behavior and looks.
I call my half brother and half sister my brother and sister.
But biologically speaking half of their genes are from our dad and the other half from their mom.
Still calling them half siblings would be stupid imo
I have a half brother too and we grew up together (different dads) but I never cared if he was my half brother he is my ONLY brother and I've watched him grow into an amazing young man and couldn't be more proud of him. It appauls me that someone would cast aside a sibling (blood or not) that they grew up with, share childhood memories with. This girl really needs to grow up. All siblings get annoying it's part of being a sibling GEEZ.
My only siblings are 'half' siblings. I never like calling them that since I have never been apart from either of them for more than a week their entire lives. We are raised by our shared parent, and have normal sibling relationships. Since I live in a kinda conservative area, when people find out my siblings and I all have different dad's they one, get really judgey about my mom, and two, try and say that my siblings aren't REALLY my siblings. It pisses me off. The older I get the more aggressive I get about telling these people to but the fuck off. What is it with people thinking it's their place to tell me if I can or can't regard my siblings as family?
For the guitar guy, yeah, if I was selling something that was expensive on resell then that's on me not on the knowledgable buyer. I'm the one that made the mistake, the buyer just saw the opportunity. Humans are opportunistic animals after all.
On the story about the adoption I could never imagine doing that to my old foster brother who we almost adopted and if my cousin (who was adopted into a different family) was told by the families biological kid anything op said I swear I would get so pissed off at him. Like I understand getting upset with siblings I've gotten pissed off at my family for giving my old foster brother more attention than their biological kids but I would never try to make him feel different from my other siblings or feel like he's not part of the family.
Yeah the last story was heart wrenching. This kind of thing happened to my Mom. Her mom got pregnant when she was 18 and her boyfriend at the time left her. When my Mom was four years old her mom married a very nice and loving man. He always treated my Mom as if she was his own child. But his family never accepted her. Whenever they would have family pictures they would send her away because she wasn't a "part of the family". To this day, my mom doesn't like pictures because it reminds her of how she was never considered a part of the family. Even her family from her biological dad didn't accept her. And there are countless other instances from my Grandma telling my Grandpa to stop spoiling my mom and to spoil their own children (she has 3 half siblings) to teachers humiliating her in front of her classmates for writing her siblings last name and for not having a father. It was hard to hear my Mom tell me what she went through.
The second one is a piece of crap! A jump rope and a laptop are two different things! Especially when one is needed for _everything!_
It's a difference in sums, but the fundamentals are the same: Maybe don't go taking and hiding other people's property
@@zashgekido5616 but she lost the laptop. That's the difference
@@zashgekido5616 but also you probably shouldn't hide a laptop outside in the open enough for someone to steal it.
@@gom2565 he never said that wasn't wrong. He was saying if his roommate was going to hide his stuff then its ok for him to hide his roommates. Him loosing the laptop was unacceptable tho.
I think they both sucked. The guy honestly deserved it, because he had been, from what it seems, an absolute shitshow of a roommate for a long time. Sure, OP is the asshole, but it could have been way worse than something that can be replaced. I know if i was in that situation, i’d have snapped and did some irreparable damage. Would that make me an asshole? Probably, but idc, people shouldn’t push others to their breaking point
It sounds like the Anne lady was looking for excuses to cause problems because she wanted out.
Telling everyone her boyfriend "spied" on her is just more excuses to disguise the fact that she orchestrated the whole disagreement.
She wanted out of the relationship without looking bad, makes me wonder if she had something else going on that nobody knows about.