3 signs he's not into you STEVE HARVEY

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 มิ.ย. 2015
  • Steve welcomed Matchmakers, Tana Gilmore and Kelli Fisher who shared the top three signs a guy is not into you on a first date.

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  • @mwendapoleee
    @mwendapoleee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Intuition never lets me down!

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯💯💯💯

    • @tikycz8261
      @tikycz8261 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well I hope u not wrong bcs I like this girl I’m seeing when I’m doing my condition workouts and sometimes it happens that we get a pair in those days and she is rly pretty. So far I didn’t felt this before to no one then I do now. And idk what to do

    • @muffinspuffinsEE
      @muffinspuffinsEE ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And listen to the lord!

    • @mwendapoleee
      @mwendapoleee ปีที่แล้ว

      @@muffinspuffinsEE of course thats the first sign and time tells.

    • @natural3362
      @natural3362 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen. I won't waste in God given intuition. Praise to Jesus

  • @uniqueh5203
    @uniqueh5203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Yes that's true trust your instincts whenever I had a crush on someone when I was at University and that someone wasn't engaging me much in conversations such like others nor paying me much attention in the presence of other girls I immediately k ew that they are not into me so I move on quickly. I used to be disappointed but now I matured up, if you're pretty or nice that doesn't mean that every guy on earth will like you. Every guy looks for different things in girls so girls there don't lose confidence if someone doesn't like you back it's just a matter of different needs.

    • @anthonyo2645
      @anthonyo2645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

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    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN..SOOOO #TRUE 💯💯👍🦋

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@anthonyo2645 SOOOO SORRY..#STAY ENCOURAGED 💯👍🦋✔GOD HAS SOMETHING #SOOO MUCH BETTER 4 U👍💐🌹

    • @bobbyseasons451
      @bobbyseasons451 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't matter. You're not into men too into you anyways. You just want someone hotter than you too.

    • @bobbyseasons451
      @bobbyseasons451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or whatever you think is pretty based on tv

  • @kashifaarahams3787
    @kashifaarahams3787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    If hes on his phone alot, hes also not interested in you.

    • @sheencurry8946
      @sheencurry8946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kashifa Arahams facts

    • @gamalsankara1388
      @gamalsankara1388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That goes both ways.

    • @davidbolha
      @davidbolha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He has to be in contact with his MGTOW bros. 😆

    • @michellerichardson3090
      @michellerichardson3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@gamalsankara1388 I think it's more of a sign for men. Women are interested even if on the phone, we might just have something pop into our heads or have to tell someone something. The guy I'm dealing with gets mad because I'm always on my phone, even when doing stuff with my kids. Told him this is how I communicate with people I can't see face to face

  • @citizensane4387
    @citizensane4387 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    If a guy wants to be with you,
    1) he will introduce you to his family and friends
    2) he will make time for YOU, you won’t ever have to fight to get his time and attention
    3) he will offer up and communicate vulnerable personal information about himself to you
    4) most importantly, he will shut it down. No other women, numbers, distractions. He will let you know he wants to be exclusive with you.

  • @princessingrid6209
    @princessingrid6209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    I pray God locates my husband amen

    • @skyblade1258
      @skyblade1258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      God doesn't need to locate him, God knows where he is, your future husband needs to locate you.

    • @nano404
      @nano404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Have you notified the police?

    • @MsBadBody
      @MsBadBody 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I stopped asking for that cuz it isn't happening

    • @lauriemtz8616
      @lauriemtz8616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Like with GPS? 😂

    • @SobeCrunkMonster
      @SobeCrunkMonster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your first problem is being religious, very unnatractive

  • @elenikominos7404
    @elenikominos7404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +884

    I would rather hear advice about Men from Men 🙄

    • @zakiyareignshinellc4299
      @zakiyareignshinellc4299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Me too! I thought I was the only one who felt this way! Men should advise women and women should advise men.

    • @mabdewn
      @mabdewn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Kenzita v beurden well spoken. I was watching the video out of curiosity (I'm a guy), and I thought the advice was rather silly. What's ironic, we, men are rather simple and dumb creatures. The women who have their men dancing to their tune (good or bad) are the truly smart women

    • @AllPro777
      @AllPro777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@zakiyareignshinellc4299 I wish I could agree, but women give terrible advice on how to deal with them. Besides, ahunter would never ask a deer how to catch them. Women usually just virtue signal and tell men all the things they say they want, but then they go with the opposite of that. Seen and experienced it too many times.

    • @thomascarrillo4548
      @thomascarrillo4548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EXACTLY!!!

    • @DistortedV12
      @DistortedV12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I once heard a woman say she had "quick-fix" advice to attract more guys: wear a lot of makeup. That "quick-fix" really doesn't work as well as some women think it does.

  • @welllivedlife-desireeg2804
    @welllivedlife-desireeg2804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I dated for 4 yrs after my divorce until I found the right man for me. Focus on yourself and become the best version of yourself. Know exactly what you are looking for in a man. Let the man pursue you. My man has always been very consistent and direct. I never had to wonder if he wanted me or not. He just told me he can't wait to marry me and is so proud to be with me. Still so in love after 2 yrs. Don't settle.

    • @ivy6179
      @ivy6179 ปีที่แล้ว

      💜

    • @Sheherhis
      @Sheherhis ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks this is informative!

    • @welllivedlife-desireeg2804
      @welllivedlife-desireeg2804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sheherhis You're very welcome!

    • @totoroneblinny6100
      @totoroneblinny6100 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@welllivedlife-desireeg2804 women are distractions we must stay focused brothers

  • @zuazhar1630
    @zuazhar1630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    My own husband doesn’t pass the test!

    • @smartkookie
      @smartkookie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Leave him🤣🤣🤣

    • @Ines_Ella
      @Ines_Ella 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      These are not The bible verses madam , Mariage isn't perfect , you sometimes live together long enough to get used on each other that things become a little bit of boring , there are also a lot of men who suck at showing love to their own wives when it comes to talking they like to show it with actions try to notice , if he wasn't that much interested in you why would he choose you madam to be his wife ?!

    • @jasjuaquin140
      @jasjuaquin140 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine either

    • @thecatnextdoor12
      @thecatnextdoor12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You can re-marry.

    • @Tojoj22
      @Tojoj22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Go where you’re celebrated

  • @YouTubehandl3333
    @YouTubehandl3333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Steve said it best… INTUITION never lies

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Always follow your gut

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That was the problem. You went out on a date with a guy and YOU THOUGHT the date went well, but the guy never contacts you again. There's a DISCONNECT somewhere. The Matchmakers did not really share any usable advice.

    • @winkletmclarty9497
      @winkletmclarty9497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ysmithriley qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqraui

    • @bennyce5430
      @bennyce5430 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😄

    • @haiwatigere6202
      @haiwatigere6202 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And some women have big guts to follow. And big rump's to trail

  • @jacquelinef7174
    @jacquelinef7174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    That is rude if a man is talking to other people instead of you...while on a date

    • @turn1210
      @turn1210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think this is more when they first meet each other

    • @smartkookie
      @smartkookie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Either the first date or any other date. Try this with me and I will go to the restroom and never return.

    • @michellerichardson3090
      @michellerichardson3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That would be a short date in my book

  • @LordHollow
    @LordHollow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Matchmakers, but neither one of them are wearing wedding rings... Sure, it's not a requirement, but it does lend credibility to their profession...

    • @AllPro777
      @AllPro777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It's interesting how almost all female matchmakers are unmarried. You seldom find one who is.

    • @lee48lee68
      @lee48lee68 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LordHollow -I noticed that too. No ring = no credibility.

    • @smartkookie
      @smartkookie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Actually the one in the green dress does have a wedding ring on. Please observe closely before you knock someone else. Now you have no longer become credible.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lee48lee68 That is awful. Not everyone's life is the same. Don't have to be married to know, maybe there have their own reasons. Life is not the the same for every person. It isn't like you just find that person to begin with. Maybe complications or didn't get to for whatever reason. It is their life.

    • @jc_80
      @jc_80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Matchmakers are so focused on bringing other people together they forget about themselves and I’ve noticed it’s a lot easier to give advice that apply it to your own life...

  • @Nadz2084
    @Nadz2084 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I think he gives good advice in his book. Not all of it applies to all situations but helps women understand men a little better and makes us realise that we should have expectations from a guy (should be reasonable of course)

  • @Dr777andre777
    @Dr777andre777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Why not invite Men....Men knows how men thinks, women knows how women thinks. Stop getting advice from a women about a men.

    • @michaelcap9550
      @michaelcap9550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You think Steve would have figured this out by now.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is FALSE. Women can know what men think. Men can't tell women, but women can tell what men think.

    • @michellerichardson3090
      @michellerichardson3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some men will not tell you everything. It's not hard to find out if a guy likes you. And if he does and doesnt show you, that's a waste of time

    • @samuelmuiga3101
      @samuelmuiga3101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nofybn7794 what? Okay😂🤣🤣how do I logically argue with that! It would drag on for too long,and you are clearly messing with these people. You are absolutely right!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lordoffrog2354
    @lordoffrog2354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Talk about stating the obvious

  • @shamarthompson926
    @shamarthompson926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    3rd one is a lie some of us are a nervous wreck we'll hug or awkward hand shake.

  • @thescatman5029
    @thescatman5029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    A "cold and goodbye hug" might be a careful thing a man does, to not over hug and give a creepy impression.....!

    • @jc_80
      @jc_80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Especially now with the ‘me too’ era

    • @michellerichardson3090
      @michellerichardson3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I've had to give side hugs myself to let them know I didnt want to have sex

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What hug?

  • @alessandrostella9982
    @alessandrostella9982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm a social person. At a times it happens to engage other people in conversations, but that doesn't mean at all I'm not interested in the person. Better, it shows I'm comfortable and confident.

  • @mois9555
    @mois9555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    All this advise but any woman can tell right off when he just not into you. Steve is right about gut feeling.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @rasmuseklof9379
    @rasmuseklof9379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The second advise does not apply on finnish men, because if they once give you a compliment, they practically want to marry you...

    • @bomaidala4727
      @bomaidala4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please elaborate

    • @rasmuseklof9379
      @rasmuseklof9379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bomaidala4727 Finnish people are very (VERY) quiet. We try to only speak facts and flattery is considered irrelevant and stupid, so if he takes inititive to approach you and give you a compliment 1. He really means that and regards what he says to be facts 2. He does probably give around 1 compliment (to someone else than his mother or sister) every 2.5 years.

  • @eshjane
    @eshjane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Ladies~ never chance a man. Let him chase you!!!

    • @Cee-G
      @Cee-G 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pocahontas True but sometimes you ladies don't know when to stop the chase game!!!

    • @sheencurry8946
      @sheencurry8946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Lol why should any of the genders be chasing each other Men don't chase women & woman don't chase men just be with someone who wanna be with you.💯

    • @hennabyrani8180
      @hennabyrani8180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sheencurry8946 yes fr!

    • @vitalygolubchik1535
      @vitalygolubchik1535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ladies, if you are going to play hard to get and waste time. You will have problems finding someone (decent). Remember, there are many single women out there. So dont play the chasing game, because you will be the loser.

    • @salmanakber6368
      @salmanakber6368 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah right lol

  • @floridadivorce
    @floridadivorce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I went on a fabulous date we talked, we laughed and even kissed. He said he was looking forward to meet again. I never heard from him again. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @ronaldreagan7772
      @ronaldreagan7772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😆😆😆

    • @bomaidala4727
      @bomaidala4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @D-Rock_in_BKLYN
      @D-Rock_in_BKLYN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did Covid get him?

    • @pumakel1
      @pumakel1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@D-Rock_in_BKLYN only plausible explanation

    • @lashaunbeazer9264
      @lashaunbeazer9264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Could be cause your breath stank. Either that, or his girlfriend caught him, and he had to block you to keep his relationship. 100% 1 or the 2. Soooo?

  • @A-list
    @A-list 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Be cautious ladies most of the "actions" they mentioned are also true if a guy is shy, nervous and/or insecure and exude those antics being very interested.

  • @darkknight901
    @darkknight901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Trust your gut? If women have such good instincts then why do they keep getting played?

    • @Layha36
      @Layha36 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Because they ignore them trying to be more logical lol

    • @thisblackgirloverhere9013
      @thisblackgirloverhere9013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Dark Knight Women have great intuition, it’s just they ignore it for various reasons.

    • @user-yk5xu8gr1e
      @user-yk5xu8gr1e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Childhood insecurities

    • @jennifersykes2163
      @jennifersykes2163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's not that we liked to be played. We believe it will get better. Well to the know not my ass, shit if your shoes are croaked, or wing around the color,or ass is color blind. I ain't fucking with u.

    • @chenryufongene508
      @chenryufongene508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most are into materialism other than the real which is life and more

  • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
    @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I guess common sense really just isn’t that common🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @kurstina9349
      @kurstina9349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My thoughts exactly!!!

    • @blaccknight1
      @blaccknight1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not these days.. SMH

    • @ginowilliams4737
      @ginowilliams4737 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right.

    • @sparrowhawk5673
      @sparrowhawk5673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men most often need to be told clesrly what your trying to really say. You don't think its going to the same the other way around?🤨

  • @arieladelinechoo9845
    @arieladelinechoo9845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Chemistry and physical attraction are not something you can do it through text message. So it's fine if after the first meeting and it's not "exciting" to continue, you should just move on, no hard feelings....

  • @zuleigaagulhas9740
    @zuleigaagulhas9740 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips and advise. Will defo keep them in mind👋👋

  • @rosabbx
    @rosabbx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Honestly if he’s not interested and you notice it during the date..straight up leave. Don’t even stay any longer and waste any more of your time.

    • @thescatman5029
      @thescatman5029 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So, you advocate ghosting....?

    • @rosabbx
      @rosabbx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Scatman I don’t know do I ?

  • @fsmithh
    @fsmithh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Moral of the story: Girls never listen Timur heart cause ur heart is deceiving and that is our weakness. We tend to make decisions out of emotions because we are hoping for that cute lovestory to come true but all we are left with at the end is a bitter heartbreak.. always listen to ur HEAD..that is the true gut instinct..listen to the advice you give ur girlfriends and be logical

  • @monkeyred6138
    @monkeyred6138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every date I've been on I get stalked after

  • @michaelsix9684
    @michaelsix9684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    matchmakers are hustlers, they are in business to try to create relationships, they're costly and rarely useful

  • @veerilakshirsagar1403
    @veerilakshirsagar1403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's really true'..
    I have experienced it a day before yesterday..end of the 7 year's relationship

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Every lady has intuition but not everyone has it developed...most are blind & clueless.

    • @AllPro777
      @AllPro777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Women are only blind and clueless for Chad/Tyrone. For every other guy, she can see everything. Funny how that works...

    • @pamelamcgraw4637
      @pamelamcgraw4637 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And some are just plain thirsty

  • @oneofyou6773
    @oneofyou6773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    “If he’s discussing the game with everyone but you “”chances”” are he’s not into you”. LMAO… Chances? That reminds me of a question a woman asked Steve long time ago. “My ex told me to never contact him again and to go burn in hell and he’d report me to police if I ever called. So what does he really mean by that”.

    • @aniketsharma3154
      @aniketsharma3154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would like to tell, that I did something similar.. I told my ex girlfriend to not to call me otherwise I'll block her from every possible platform.. And the reason was, I had emotions for her, she was cheating on me, I left her, but I was ready to accept her again, she used to cry over call and tell me how she miss me and it was a mistake but she did not want to come back to me.. it was giving me mental trauma..

    • @oneofyou6773
      @oneofyou6773 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aniketsharma3154 So what you are saying is that you told her not to call you for her to call you? Okkk.

    • @lashaunbeazer9264
      @lashaunbeazer9264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oneofyou6773 What he's saying is. He's a fucking SIMP. Men shouldn't act like that, if you take a woman back who cheated on you, 8/10 times, she'll NEVER respect you. And 20% isn't good odds.

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The second example clearly he’s not interested and wants to be left alone. But I’ve seen many instances where a man is so interested in a woman that he gets nervous and will talk to her less than other people because he hasn’t gotten the nerve to engage with her yet.

  • @Faustinembeh_backup
    @Faustinembeh_backup ปีที่แล้ว

    Yep! Uncle Steve I said that too use your intuition 👌😘

  • @hannahscott6604
    @hannahscott6604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I would just leave if a guy was on his phone during a date

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AMEN AMEN AMEN..ME 2✔✔✔✔✔✔

  • @basiekekae
    @basiekekae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1:18 oh papa Steve😂

  • @gracielabravo819
    @gracielabravo819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He plays a lot...difficult to say. The fact is I'm insecure, but confident at the same time. There must be a difference..

  • @bobbyseasons451
    @bobbyseasons451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dear men, you don't want to pass this test..be super into her and see what happens

  • @collarmole1819
    @collarmole1819 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gotta know how to pick 'em.

  • @pamelamarcano-cooper2421
    @pamelamarcano-cooper2421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We all have had our share of anxiously waiting and it didn't happen so we know by now.

  • @AbhishekPandey-jt7co
    @AbhishekPandey-jt7co 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    can anyone plz tell me the song playing at last?

  • @jimmehlich6093
    @jimmehlich6093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Men have intuition too.

  • @squirrelboss7067
    @squirrelboss7067 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love me a gropey hug!💁‍♀️😍

  • @iWillFightYouInComments
    @iWillFightYouInComments 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well, for one time he actually did not simp

  • @gracevalle5437
    @gracevalle5437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need a match maker. Wow the two ladies are right! I dated a younger than me. That's what happened just like they said.

  • @devinarai8975
    @devinarai8975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When a man is not into u... U will feel so. No need to find out signs. And if he is into u...he will make u feel so. It's simple.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Ohkeh640
      @Ohkeh640 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree

  • @mabelw7
    @mabelw7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Alot of guys not looking for relationship

    • @davidbolha
      @davidbolha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MGTOW spreading faster then this plandemic. 😎😆😄

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯💯💯💯

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@davidbolha AMEN AMEN AMEN ✔✔✔✔✔✔

  • @erfroot3829
    @erfroot3829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'll give her 2 chances to win my heart,if she can't by then,she has to go.

  • @KA-eu9sy
    @KA-eu9sy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He doesn't call you he doesn't ask you out he doesn't want to see you

  • @jewell2352
    @jewell2352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never been asked on a date in 2019

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This happen to me. I had a good date but i think we didnt have chemestry at all. And some men when they dont feel that they dont want to be friends and they move on. Is ok. Is not personal. We dont have chemestry with everybody.

  • @veryboy4662
    @veryboy4662 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i don't what he do but i know if i want him or not first time i listening to him my call

  • @sofiasofia2979
    @sofiasofia2979 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Speak about those FOXES that come dressed in Angel clothes !

  • @jairobinson2127
    @jairobinson2127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men know men
    Women know women…
    And God knows us all
    🙏🙏✝️✝️🥰🥰💥💥

  • @debbieryan2768
    @debbieryan2768 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been divorced for 10 years, n I just feel like I'm not ready...

  • @marlanaferro1481
    @marlanaferro1481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If he lifts his leg at the table and rips a real beauty without hesitation or shame.. guess what, he's probably Not That Into You. Who knew???

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got none of those Red Flags & i looked like a million bucks! He looked happy, chatted away & text me all the way home. Then a morning text & BAM 💥 nothing

  • @callieford2228
    @callieford2228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do these hints apply in marriage??🤔

  • @debbieryan2768
    @debbieryan2768 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, it has...

  • @kyabagyeesther3278
    @kyabagyeesther3278 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know

  • @MISS_SHERRY
    @MISS_SHERRY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Truth be told trust your gut

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯💯👍👍👍👍👍

  • @makhnig3150
    @makhnig3150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When songs r not all abt love.. When it's controversies by U.

  • @elizabethtomlik1748
    @elizabethtomlik1748 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about qhen it goes well and then they talk to you every single day for months. Insists he's interested but can't make plans?

  • @teresa7667
    @teresa7667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If a guy is into you, you'd think he'd be all over you

    • @D-Rock_in_BKLYN
      @D-Rock_in_BKLYN 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You may be correct. Consider this: if I'm into you, I may play it cool so that I don't come across as desperate, thirsty, horny, or free. One date was enough for me to know whether or not I want to take things further. A real man will let you know what's up after that one date

  • @All32American
    @All32American 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Not necessarily good advice coming from two women. Ask guys how they show they aren’t interested.

  • @shawnthegreat4281
    @shawnthegreat4281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We men departmentalize we put everything in boxes in our life based on cost benefit analysis. Some men don’t even know we are doing it but this is how we are wired. In dating we put a woman in 1 of 3 boxes. Box 1 we are attracted to a woman solely based on physical attraction the actions in what we do in that situation is solely based on how physically attracted we are to that woman vs what we are willing to deal with from her. Box 2 we are physically attracted to a woman and we like having her around, she is cool to hang with. This box can breakdown into allot of different sub boxes related to what are the attractive parts of the woman to that man. But the main problem with the woman is she has numerous 🚩 to that man. How long he deals with her and the level of energy he gives her is based on those 🚩 vs the benefits he receives from that woman. Box 3 is the wifey box if a woman is in box 3 she is wifey material to that man and she has no serious 🚩. He will marry her at some point less than 1 year but probably within 6 months.

    • @thandicandy5452
      @thandicandy5452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol okay

    • @shawnthegreat4281
      @shawnthegreat4281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thandicandy5452 This is reality as a man that doesn’t have a talk show that supports a female audience in making money by supporting all the female narratives that are continually present in the modern “independent” woman dating environment. Men identify females that they will never marry but will have sex with them for long periods of time. The modern woman has just as many 🚩 as modern men. The only difference is modern men will have sex with women they will never marry. The data supports my statement and I am a man so I could know what I am talking about a little.

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If that's how is is why waste the time of box 1 and box 2? Just let them go until you meet box 3.

    • @shawnthegreat4281
      @shawnthegreat4281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peekaboots01 you missed the part were I said cost benefit. SMH everyone starts off in box 1 to 3 you ate not stuck in any box. It's based on your actions that move you from box to box.

    • @lh6784
      @lh6784 ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting. Very insightful. I cant seem to make it out of box 2. Sometimes I have been on the precipice of box 3.

  • @damianwhindleton2218
    @damianwhindleton2218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ladies what y'all think about this?

  • @user-gd1pu6dq6x
    @user-gd1pu6dq6x ปีที่แล้ว

    With him he take never give back .
    And I don't know why they let him do that .

  • @ericamcleod7452
    @ericamcleod7452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s why I don’t have a man for over ten yrs now and it’s the best life ever

  • @stephaniebracey943
    @stephaniebracey943 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve wanted book sales

  • @Honestlylovely
    @Honestlylovely ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m usually the person that ghosts

  • @user-gd1pu6dq6x
    @user-gd1pu6dq6x ปีที่แล้ว

    And why they silent Baiden?

  • @profmom45
    @profmom45 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ha ha I am not sure what is worse... he's just not that into you, OR he comes on way. too. strong!!

  • @betanialacoste7945
    @betanialacoste7945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Or how about when he refuses to behave like a gentleman in front of a lady; but the lady discontinues her dissmissive excuses as mere ignorance. He swears real rough and talks real loud and tough-like in front of her and sometimes toward her by insuation...?

  • @anthonyword6914
    @anthonyword6914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Here we go again. Advice about MEN coming from WOMEN. Steve always knows it all and have it all together. Stop trying to build an image. By bashing men. Bring on some men. Maybe Steve will realize he's not the ONLY PERFECT man left

  • @trigcat3107
    @trigcat3107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Some men are introvert, so it doesn't applies to them. Most men would never approach a female even if they like em. And if a girl likes a man, she should tell him(probably he's an introvert and he'd never be able to do that)

  • @jl1134
    @jl1134 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even if you are a beautiful woman it still not going to be enough. After 5 minutes on the date, your beauty wll not surpass his lack of interest. I had to learn this the hard way. Thought looking pretty and sexy was enough. But now I know better.

  • @jewelwhite2832
    @jewelwhite2832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is all Common Sense!!!

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ✔✔✔✔👍👍👍👍

  • @janetkirsten6233
    @janetkirsten6233 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate the 3 hour awesome 1st date and he says he'll call or he starts texting, but never calls again

  • @wamatar7596
    @wamatar7596 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Honestly it can be the opposite. I am a guy and if I liked some one especially if she was really good. I will automatically start the hard to get game and I will show less attention in purpose to gain some value above her and make her ass wonder . We are hunter and it is our game 😉😉😄

  • @leetheboss8538
    @leetheboss8538 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    U can only no if u ask I do sum things th@ ppl wood say I don't like them if I am around u I like u or if I tlk 2 u I like u if I'm around u & say nutn I like u I'm there all u need 2 no bout how I feel I vanish if I am not n2 u after I tell u I'm gone

  • @mariabenjamin8018
    @mariabenjamin8018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another one is if he's disrespectful and doesn't take off his sunglasses during your first meeting together

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sunglasses? What if its sunny and you meet on the beach?

  • @zyeman23
    @zyeman23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmfaoo I love how he was like yeah yeah lemme put my 2 cents in then he decided he wanted to be the last word and then cut that shit to break🤣💀💀

  • @iminarazzaq
    @iminarazzaq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how they were women of color.

  • @rom116kjv
    @rom116kjv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The girl could have been putting out an awkward vibe!

  • @ThanuG15
    @ThanuG15 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a bad hugger though 😥

  • @makhnig3150
    @makhnig3150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    BTW WHO?

  • @user-gd1pu6dq6x
    @user-gd1pu6dq6x ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes since I entered Makah I know he is not the right one and I just want to prove it that's it .
    My man with me since that day we just want to know how he acts

  • @douglasbrinkman5937
    @douglasbrinkman5937 ปีที่แล้ว

    don't go places with distractions.

  • @leetheboss8538
    @leetheboss8538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let's say I am on a date I like her but she not tlkn sum1 else ask a ? I tlk th@ don't mean I am not n2 her ppl get nervous u can love a person & not say 1 thing 2 them but speak 2 everybody funny thing I'm not a tlker but I like company over tlkn wen u passionate about a subject u Will speak on it sum times wen ppl say foldd arms mean stay away closed off not me I jus like foldn arms tlk 2 most ppl th@ speak 2 me 1st

  • @tikycz8261
    @tikycz8261 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if the same thing apply for men advice to men to men.
    Like I see these girls talking bout the reasons the spots and where is men side

  • @tanyleydiaz3480
    @tanyleydiaz3480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I could have told someone that. These women are getting paid to tell people the most basic info 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄

  • @leetheboss8538
    @leetheboss8538 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    #1 rong it not completely rong if u get ignored hole time then #1 rite but if he tlkd 2 others not a sign

  • @faithmatters761
    @faithmatters761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Steve when a guy is into you but uses other people to get to you instead of doing himself what kind of guy is that.? I'm confused Steve!!

    • @davidbolha
      @davidbolha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The careful guy. 😄

  • @babayaga1767
    @babayaga1767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this vid is from 4 years ago. that's all the time it took for metoo and feminism to destroy any kind of interaction between men and women. congratulations ladies. enjoy your cats

  • @sedinam8741
    @sedinam8741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well we have lived together for 5 years and I DONT WANT TO MARRY HIM BUT HE IS SO DESPERATE FOR IT. He isn’t what any woman would want for a lifetime-husband but A GOOD FATHER. Very confusing lol

  • @jasjuaquin140
    @jasjuaquin140 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never.

  • @gigisolo3579
    @gigisolo3579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Common sense? 🤷‍♀️

  • @1besieged
    @1besieged 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Background check the 'man'... if he has bad credit , a long rap sheet, and has 'lots of female friends' he is a PLAYER and a moocher...