The No.4 "skeletons in your closet" is the one I will keep as a secreat forever. I was in a toxic relationship several years ago, that shallow woman used it to make me feel so sad and not worthy.
The more mysterious you are the more women are attracted, talk less and listen more, let her do most of the talking and then pull back go silent and she'll wonder more about you, if she knows too much about you, she'll just get bored and ghost you, less will aways be more, keep that in mind, don't snooze or you will lose
@@devgrublacksquadron2089 I think that we should drip feed information and actually take time, I see no point in finding a partner from whom I would then withold my personal life or finding anyone at all really if we're never show our true selves
@@حمزةالشاعري-ث2سUntil you tell her something from your past and she isn’t. Trust me I experienced this just ten minutes ago. Just go to a councillor, they’ll actually listen and try to help, your wife will just be weirded out and see you differently.
If she wants me to tell her something secret, I do this: I think of something I might tell her. Then I imagine the scenario when I say the exact same thing to my boss. And my co-workers. And my family. And friends. My neighbor. My ex. And her ex, and her neighbor. And her friends, families, boss and coworkers. And my kids. My enemies, the police. The IRS and family court. If I imagine all of those scenarios turn out fine, then I'll tell her. Maybe. This is where my trust level is anymore.
Tripp advice i value this vid very much. . Men should keep their private life private .finances metal health etc. However women often ask personal questions when you meet them face to face such as what do you do for work is the main one.😊😊.
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
Firstly I am with you having spent my teens & twenties very single. I am now in my forties and recently single again but the experience feels different. Secondly men do not age like women and while women are naturally attractive from their late teens onwards men are more like Benjamin Button! I do not think that I have much “game” but a woman does need to have some game if she wishes to remain attractive and respond well to a man in conversation.
@@Nick.Brough when you say for women, when they need game to remain attractive, are you talking about as when women get older and their SMV declines, and being able to compete with their competition, their younger counterparts?
@@nobodysperfect06 while people are forgiving of a pretty face, a woman in her thirties & forties cannot rely on just smiling & blinking during a conversation she would have to have some game or “sass” to compete. Having some real banter with a woman is great.
@@Nick.Brough yeah I never understood it as to why people say women need game when women play a passive role and they don't have to escalate anything on a guy
I help a mate get back in hos wifes bed by tellong him to stop tellong her about his bad day at work, or past abuse from parents or if he was feeling unwell. Told him women are not your friend, she can not empathise wuth a man. It worked. Took a couple of months but he has a sex life with his wife again.
Idk man, I think a woman has a right to know if your finances are a problem before marriage. If you’re in serious debt or totally broke, that’s her business once a relationship gets serious. I’d want to know that about a woman.
This really isn't completely right. It can be a test of sorts. A really good woman you can most definitely talk to about anything. I firmly believe this and have experienced it to deep levels because I have one of these incredible women in my life.
Yeah, nothings ever 100%, but in general women don't want to hear about your problems, traumas etc. They basically view it as weakness, they don't want nothing to do with that, they want you to fix things not be a basket case. It is a bit disappointing, you figure you could have someone to confide in and all that, but get a therapist or even tell your buddies before you tell a woman.
If it turns her off then she was just not that into you in the first place. But yeah don't complain none stop 24/7 365 days of the year BUT that is not the same as not saying anything. Their is a time and a place for this kind of stuff. Men get the wrong idea about sharing emotions just because there is a few really awful women that abuse that trust you build with them. No you tell her she is a evil demon and then you move on or teach her some manners. The world is not always pretty but you got to look at it.
I disagree with #2 if you have money. Men marry the most attractive woman they can get. Women marry the richest guy they can get. If you just want to sleep with her and you can do that my telling her you have money, who cares if she is a gold digger or is just with you because of your money. Sleep with her and then dump her and move on. He also says show but don't tell. I am a millionaire but drive a 23 year old car and wear a $30 watch. No one would ever know.
Marriage is an obsolete concept that has no place in contemporary society. Have the same girl/boyfriend for life, fine. EVERY day you wake up you make a choice to WANT to be together, not the law saying you HAVE to be together. WTH kind of phucked up system is that? Anyone thinking marriage is "good" is either a gold digger (male or female) or an insecure SIMP (male or female). Not to mention the stupid and Antiquated and unfair laws that go along with such a contract. END OF DISCUSSION.
Sounds like a bit of a cope. Men do get a raw deal alot in marriage. Comes down to if you want kids, you'll have to get married. If you don't, you are right doesn't make any sense if you are a person with assets.
If you find the right woman, she won’t care about your money, your childhood traumas and failures. She’ll actually love that your vulnerable and sharing those things with her. Stop going for worldly woman.
On #2 (finances) you are partly wrong......yes, you should not talk finances early on, but you need to know each others finances BEFORE getting married...........you need to know what you are getting into with clear and honest facts. A person could be living large on DEBT - you dont need to learn that AFTER marriage.
More short, concise videos like this, Tripp!
Yessir!
The No.4 "skeletons in your closet" is the one I will keep as a secreat forever. I was in a toxic relationship several years ago, that shallow woman used it to make me feel so sad and not worthy.
Very well said trip this man is 110% correct keep all these things to yourself. Woman like to use things like this against you… you have been warned
Very, very true. I learned them in hard ways.
Vital and on Point! And if a woman persists on asking you such vulnarbilities such as body count then you know thats a Big Ass Red Flag.
The more mysterious you are the more women are attracted, talk less and listen more, let her do most of the talking and then pull back go silent and she'll wonder more about you, if she knows too much about you, she'll just get bored and ghost you, less will aways be more, keep that in mind, don't snooze or you will lose
Like glass cleaner, less is more.
Thank you for your help. I'm guilty of screwing up alot and doing stuff in this video that wasn't good. So I needed to hear all this so thank you.
If she's into you it doesn't matter what you say,if she's not into you it doesn't matter what you say.
IF she's into you and you started telling all those things,she would not be into you ...
Women are always trying to disqualify you man….
We look for things we like they look for things they dislike
@@devgrublacksquadron2089 I think that we should drip feed information and actually take time, I see no point in finding a partner from whom I would then withold my personal life or finding anyone at all really if we're never show our true selves
@@devgrublacksquadron2089she's gotta be into you tho
@@حمزةالشاعري-ث2سUntil you tell her something from your past and she isn’t. Trust me I experienced this just ten minutes ago. Just go to a councillor, they’ll actually listen and try to help, your wife will just be weirded out and see you differently.
You are absolutely right.
I'll add one to remind myself...
+ Don't speak about psychology and don't analyze the emotions behind anything you do, women just wanna flow.
Grettings from Poland.
Good job.
You don’t tell them how much money you have when you’re married either.
The less you tell her the better
Thanks lots for your best advice 👍 from middle East 😀
If she wants me to tell her something secret, I do this: I think of something I might tell her. Then I imagine the scenario when I say the exact same thing to my boss.
And my co-workers. And my family. And friends. My neighbor. My ex. And her ex, and her neighbor. And her friends, families, boss and coworkers.
And my kids. My enemies, the police. The IRS and family court.
If I imagine all of those scenarios turn out fine, then I'll tell her. Maybe. This is where my trust level is anymore.
It is getting more and more common for women to ask #1 .
Every situation is different, some work, some don't, it's hit and miss
Great Beneficial Video, Thanks.
Got you bud
You don't throw a match into an empty barrel just to see what happens.
Should’ve release the video yesterday 🥲
Oof
Ah dang sorry bro. Next time ok?
I'm telling bro...just going to some bad stuff with my gf right now
Ouch!
Thank you sir for everything.❤ Take care.
Tripp advice i value this vid very much. . Men should keep their private life private .finances metal health etc. However women often ask personal questions when you meet them face to face such as what do you do for work is the main one.😊😊.
So what are you saying to the question how do you say it and keep her interested
plus they really do"t care
Really helpful
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
Firstly I am with you having spent my teens & twenties very single. I am now in my forties and recently single again but the experience feels different.
Secondly men do not age like women and while women are naturally attractive from their late teens onwards men are more like Benjamin Button! I do not think that I have much “game” but a woman does need to have some game if she wishes to remain attractive and respond well to a man in conversation.
@@Nick.Brough when you say for women, when they need game to remain attractive, are you talking about as when women get older and their SMV declines, and being able to compete with their competition, their younger counterparts?
@@nobodysperfect06 while people are forgiving of a pretty face, a woman in her thirties & forties cannot rely on just smiling & blinking during a conversation she would have to have some game or “sass” to compete. Having some real banter with a woman is great.
@@Nick.Brough yeah I never understood it as to why people say women need game when women play a passive role and they don't have to escalate anything on a guy
I help a mate get back in hos wifes bed by tellong him to stop tellong her about his bad day at work, or past abuse from parents or if he was feeling unwell. Told him women are not your friend, she can not empathise wuth a man.
It worked. Took a couple of months but he has a sex life with his wife again.
Nice wife. Clearly she doesn't care. What is the point of being with her?
Married 31 years, and I've told some of those. Skeletons, past women (no unnecessary details)...
Tell her to pick a number she can live with and subtract 3 from that number.
But should you Know these things about her to choose a right partner?
Damn half of thing she said I already made those mistakes 🤦🏾♂️
What do you say if she asks you to tell her one of the 5 secrets we should never tell a woman?
You simply don't have to answer the question, change the subject and talk about something else.
Idk man, I think a woman has a right to know if your finances are a problem before marriage. If you’re in serious debt or totally broke, that’s her business once a relationship gets serious. I’d want to know that about a woman.
Your finances today might be a lot different than by the time you’ll get married
This really isn't completely right. It can be a test of sorts. A really good woman you can most definitely talk to about anything. I firmly believe this and have experienced it to deep levels because I have one of these incredible women in my life.
Yeah, nothings ever 100%, but in general women don't want to hear about your problems, traumas etc. They basically view it as weakness, they don't want nothing to do with that, they want you to fix things not be a basket case. It is a bit disappointing, you figure you could have someone to confide in and all that, but get a therapist or even tell your buddies before you tell a woman.
Dam if you do, Dam if you don't
The ex part I don’t bring that part I leave that shit where it’s at she brings up her ex like I’m supposed to care that’s a red flag to me
Dating is too complicated and expensive, only for some average sex. Not worth the hassle.
the more you do it, the better you get at it, and the more fun it becomes. have some fortitude brother
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
simple step: just delete her number and keep your life for yourself :D
Don't be an 18yrold private in the USMC,
I just wonder , what will your girlfriend say if she sees this video where u advising men to keep secrets from their women hahaha
You right. But if she ask? What you sat?
any man that tells the woman the truth does not respect her feelings . its as simple as that
If it turns her off then she was just not that into you in the first place. But yeah don't complain none stop 24/7 365 days of the year BUT that is not the same as not saying anything. Their is a time and a place for this kind of stuff. Men get the wrong idea about sharing emotions just because there is a few really awful women that abuse that trust you build with them. No you tell her she is a evil demon and then you move on or teach her some manners. The world is not always pretty but you got to look at it.
I disagree with #2 if you have money. Men marry the most attractive woman they can get. Women marry the richest guy they can get. If you just want to sleep with her and you can do that my telling her you have money, who cares if she is a gold digger or is just with you because of your money. Sleep with her and then dump her and move on. He also says show but don't tell. I am a millionaire but drive a 23 year old car and wear a $30 watch. No one would ever know.
Marriage is an obsolete concept that has no place in contemporary society. Have the same girl/boyfriend for life, fine. EVERY day you wake up you make a choice to WANT to be together, not the law saying you HAVE to be together. WTH kind of phucked up system is that? Anyone thinking marriage is "good" is either a gold digger (male or female) or an insecure SIMP (male or female). Not to mention the stupid and Antiquated and unfair laws that go along with such a contract. END OF DISCUSSION.
Sounds like a bit of a cope. Men do get a raw deal alot in marriage. Comes down to if you want kids, you'll have to get married. If you don't, you are right doesn't make any sense if you are a person with assets.
If you find the right woman, she won’t care about your money, your childhood traumas and failures. She’ll actually love that your vulnerable and sharing those things with her. Stop going for worldly woman.
You're in Fairy Tale land.
On #2 (finances) you are partly wrong......yes, you should not talk finances early on, but you need to know each others finances BEFORE getting married...........you need to know what you are getting into with clear and honest facts. A person could be living large on DEBT - you dont need to learn that AFTER marriage.
If she is into you with a lot of love feelings it doesn't matter if you say those things or for that matter a lot of fucked up things ;)
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