Hey guys. I am back with a new video! This video was shot in May, so my hair was still longer. Btw thank you all for supporting our Patreon. I am trying to find an editor, so that we can deliver more content to you all ❤️
I really loved the voiceover about your house. It felt like I was on the phone with a friend and getting exciting news. Congrats! Can't wait for the Architectural Digest Open Door/Vogue 73 Questions tour.
I remember on a live stream a few weeks ago we all had a conversation with Meng about wanting to post more personal life updates and share more personal thoughts; watching this was cool because it seemed like a start in that direction and it was really well done - congrats on the house too Meng that's a huge accomplishment
I’m so proud of you, Meng! I don’t have a house of my own. I live with my mom and my sister. I don’t know if I ever want to live by myself since I’m a woman so it can be scary for us (or really anyone) and it can get lonely. I had day dreams of me finding a wife and she moves in with my family. But don’t know if that’ll ever happen since I’m a huge home-body. But congrats! Personally, I would love to see a house tour.
That was so fun, glad to see Ted back on the channel. You scared me there for a minuet, I thought you were going to say you are leaving Japan or something. Wishing you all the best in this new chapter of your life, and that this will refresh and recharge you to keep living your best life. Can't wait to see the new house and what kind of shenanigans you'll get into...🏡
Very excited for you Meng!!! Your message was so heartfelt and relatable. Can't wait to see your new house and how you make it your home. Keep the videos coming... It really makes me feel connected to Japan as an American. Wishing you the best.
You should also add, most pieces from the outlet stores are made for the outlet (cheaper quality than the ones in boutique) so you should ask the associates whether the item is an outlet item or from the boutique.
It's always nice to see Ted and his tips were legit helpful. I had no idea about the subpar outlet specific items; think I finally know why one pair of nikes I got from an outlet never quite fit right lol. CONGRATULATIONS on the house!! That is a huge step. I vote for a house tour vid
Happy to help! Yeah I was surprised to learn that too. Sometimes outlet-specific products can be good too, but it’s always better to know what you’re getting
I’m sorry to hear how you are feeling at the moment about living in Japan after living there for already several years. I do know exactly what you are saying as I’m living in Canada for 28 years already and I do still have that sense of being alone when I go out to a coffee shop or even just walking down on the street. When I especially see many Canadian born guys, they seem to be always gathering for fun, I recognize they are always pretty much the same group of people, having fun drinking, talking and laughing….etc. I know I shouldn’t be doing this but checking on the social medias, I am subconsciously reflecting on my own life, seeing all of those familiar faces having a good time with smiles with their partners and friends pics. I got, however, a very thick skin now that I’m 54, and those things don’t really bother me much anymore.(those things used to stub my chest!) I still think though and just makes me wonder if I will be always like this pretty much “alone”, with so many days and so many years ahead of me, there are sometimes not even speaking to a single person for days (I also work from home AND I’m a caregiver for my 91 yo dad at home..) other than having a simple & short conversation in Japanese with my dad at home. Those couple of years of pandemic definitely made me put back inside a cocoon, not being able to associate with people and there is still definitely the after effect from that. I do have a few friends here but I don’t have many friends who can hang out with and talk freely about anything. So I totally understand where you’re coming from, Meng. Especially when it comes to Japanese people, it is not so easy to grasp what they are thinking. I’m Japanese born Japanese (now Canadian) but still hard to figure that out! I’m now slowly trying to connect with some gay Japanese guys here but it takes so much time to develop some level of friendship and trust…etc. We can’t even see each other all that often either because everyone has their own lives, too…. Nonetheless this is what I have learned over the past so many years being and coping being alone all the time. You can never carry that expectations from surroundings but you can always create something that will bring you joy. All the resources are available out there and all around us but we can never expect from especially other people to bring what we want on to the table because they won’t unfortunately. We just have to recreate, reinvent and rethink what is that makes me content at the moment or going a little further to keep me going? Then sometimes heaven will bring you some surprises, it could be a person, or people, ideas or something totally unexpected. Anyway, I’m so glad, Meng that you are trying to break that saggy sad circle of “curse” by doing something big, buying and building your own house!! My goodness, in Tokyo?? But be careful(especially after you show that to the public) there will be ALWAYS someone who will want to be in your pants and pretend that he is going to be your best friend or boyfriend but don’t trust no one easily especially when you’re already feeling vulnerable. That’s a pitfall that you could easily fall into. It could be a painful experience “if” things don’t work out with that person or worse yet, if you really find out that he was taking an advantage of you. So extra caution, Meng. Remember that song by Mariah C. “Love takes time”? There will be someone eventually you two will deserve for each other but even if you didn’t find anyone, life time quality friends are worth more than being in a bad relationship with someone who cares only about themselves. Sometimes (or always) even a adorable pet will be totally devoted and be a lifetime partner!! 🐶🐱🐹🐰💕 So all the best, Meng, I’m so excited for you, for your new chapter, and can’t wait to see your spanking brand new home!! ✨🏡🧍🏻♂️💖Congrats!! 🤩🥳👏🏽🎉💮㊗️
i am so happy to hear that you found a own house there. it is so important to feel comfortable. you are such a nice andd smart guy that you deserve the best. so all the best starting the new chapter of your life in japan! and for sure i would love to get a house tour with you!
Excellent info on shopping the outlets. More importantly I happy to learn that you are planning on buying a place. That is so fantastic. Looking forward to the reveal and your move in. Hang in there kiddo. Don’t sweat it. Love will find you. 👍🙏😎
Very good tips (especially the “only buy what you love” one, totally agree) but the last part was the most interesting one. I’ve always thought Japan is for tourism only in my book. You can love it, you adore it, but there’s no place like home, and in my case home is Italy. I’d been living in Germany for quite a period and well… visiting ドイツ was great, but working and living there all year round, well that’s all another story. Can’t wait for your next videos! 🥰
Best of luck with the new home 🙂 And those six tips on shopping ought to be put on MASSIVE posters around every shopping district in the world. That was pure, distilled wisdom!
I've been watching your videos from the UK for over a year now and I'm so happy for you omg! Congratulations beautiful, I hope this brings you some much deserved happiness!
Oh the voice over at the final part is really good ! a warm and intimate vibe! And congrats on the new house ! I thought you would be leaving japan as it is the first thing you think of when a foreigner tells you, I have an update about my life Cheers to your next chapter
Those shopping tips at an outlet mall are really invaluable! I've been to Tokyo many times and only went to Gotemba on my last trip before the pandemic so will certainly put those tips to good use next time I'm there. Best of luck in the new house and looking forward to see the journey and its completion 😀
Wow, here in America when someone is disappointed in a place they usually pack up and leave. Can't wait to see the new crib. How long before it is move in ready. Also, I would presume you will have a mortgage. Not sure how things work in Japan. More Ted please. He was spot on that factory outlet can be more than retail. Also, retail still has sales that can be very good. Once you get your house up and running you can throw some parties to meet some Japanese friends. Sake is a must and it must be heated just right. Keep us posted. ps. when are you gonna take a trip to come over to America?
Congrats on your new house Meng! Renting by yourself is already nice, but owning your house is just amazing. I hope one day I can own a little country house 🥲
What a lovely video! (And the retro vibes...!) I feel you when you say you crave a place that gives you a sense of belonging, and I'm excited for this achievement of yours :)
I had no idea about the outlets, thanks for sharing that information with us! And best of luck with the new house once it's finished and you can move in to make it your own cozy space, looking forward to a Meng house tour!
Geeze Meng the DRAMA! This was a great video, but you teased us the entire time like you were moving away! I am glad you are staying in Japan, your love will come soon! It's been written, it will be done! lol
Congrats, Meng! Buying a house is such a huge step forward. I'm really excited for you! Also, Ted's advice was super helpful. I buy way too much cheap stuff that I end up not wearing. lol
Congratulations, Meng!! What a huge milestone and accomplishment. Looking forward to seeing how you blossom with a place to call your own. And obviously we want a house tour when you're settled.
Congratulations on the house, Meng! I could relate to the feeling of being lonely and going through an “I hate Japan” era, but in the end I’m happier here too. Good luck with the move!
Oh Meng, that’s fantastic news! So proud of you 🤗. I absolutely do want a house tour! Maybe one before you move in and another after you’ve decorated it and made it your own 😁. I’m so happy for you and I really hope this brings you happiness, comfort and a sense of belonging ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm looking forward to seeing the new house! And thanks to Ted, those tips were actually very useful. I'm moving to Japan soon so I have to keep them in mind.
I love short videos like this. I was gonna say when you guys were talking about scaling down a bit, and I was gonna say don't think that every video needs to be a trip to Osaka. I like just listening to you guys talk about stuff.
Congrats! Yes house tour please. I really liked the vibe of this video. Different to other Tokyo BTM videos and that's ok. I think your subscribers are open to diverse content.
Loved this video! 😍 Looking forward the house tour! 😍 Also looking forward a video of Meng just talking about the house hunting experience.. Like what neighborhoods you thought off, why, was buying more difficult than renting? Any issues buying by yourself as a foreigner? I wonder if they could also discriminate if you want to buy as a gay couple
Holy shiz!!! What a big decision but congrats!! Good for you for making that move to surround yourself in a space that will provide you with that comfort you need. My kitchen is the most important thing to me because I looooove to cook it's like therapy for me , even if I end up completely destroying a test recipe 😂🥲. But yeah if I don't feel comfortable in my own kitchen I'm just unhappy and that's when I start eating out a lot . So yeah I get it 🥰🥰
Haiiii, Meng!!!! I was started following Tokyo BTM since first period of 2022! Now i’m gonna follow upcoming videoss!!! Actually i would like to ask something hahah. I’m currently about to join japanese class and pre-work courses for japan. Do you have any tips and advice for foreigners who want to visit Japan in longer times? So sorry if it too much, but…..i lovee yallll!! Tokyo BTM always the best 😢🎉
Hello! Thanks for liking our channel. I believe the path is very different for everyone. For me I think it is definitely finding every single opportunity to practice the language. Speaking advanced Japanese can open so many doors here in Japan. Also stay positive and find your friends and community, so you can help each other
Congratulations on the new home purchase. That is a very big step in life and it is also very scary and exciting at the same time. I can't speak for everyone but I do look forward to a new house tour once you can move in. Was that water falling from the sky? I live in Los Angeles and water no longer falls from the sky here (for several years now). It may seem like an inconvenience when it does happen but treasure it. You have no idea how much you will miss it until it is gone. It is very much gone here in L.A. and just seeing it in your video made me miss it terribly.
Congratulations on the new house! That is a dream of mine as well and I am very happy for you. May it be fill with laughter, love and lots of food! ^_^ Yes! Please show us the final set-up. I cannot wait. ❤️🔥
Congratulations Meng on taking the big grown-up step of home ownership! You will be happier in your own space that you can do whatever you want with. As far as the relationship thing It seems like you are beating yourself up over it. The old saying is that the harder you look for something the harder and further it is from coming true. It seems like when you stop trying so hard that it actually happens, and I think the reason is because you just relax and take the expectations off of yourself and people see a more easy-going person that is more approachable and not trying so hard. Also think about the places you go and where you meet guys, that can also hinder finding good relationship material as well. If you are hunting in bathhouses and bars that might not be the best place to find someone else looking for a relationship. And you seem to be surrounded by some really good friends already so just ease up on yourself and let things come naturally and you will be surprised by the guys who might come into your life.
Go for it meng... You can do it and you can make a difference, Be strong and keep your head held high... And yeah i do wanna see your new home, So interested in what you do ❤❤
What a brave step. Bravo! To have the freedom and independence to be yourself and make your home a safe and wonderful place for yourself is a special thing.
first I got scared like with the last video...uf you are getting me heath attacks here...now the message is awesome I do wanna see the house tour and what a perfect house warming gift I sent you :-D OMG OMG who would know!
Congrats on the house. For me the point of shopping is the shopping! I generally have no particular goal, other than to shop. That is why I love the big outlet centers because they are so much fun to explore. Sometimes the best day of shopping is an all day excursion where the only thing I buy is lunch! 😎
It's really interesting what you say about not finding friends or romance because of the cultural differences... I'm going to Tokyo next year to live and study Japanese and it's good to have a realistic idea of what it's like to be there. BTW house tour sounds totally awesome!!
hey Cesar. just want to make sure that i delivered the information correctly, I said finding friends or romance is difficult for me, but I do find them. So nothing too negative ;)
▪Ted gave some really great tips about shopping at outlet malls, which also apply here in Canada. ▪Congratulations on the house purchase, Meng! 👏🏽What are the rules for home ownership for foreigners (non-citizens) in Japan? ▪We definitely want a house tour when it is ready! 😀 ▪I suggest that you introduce yourself and sign each comment / video note (with Meng or Andrew), especially for those new to the channel for whom this might be the first video of yours that they are watching.
OF COURSE WE WANT A HOUSE TOUR. All the way from construction to housewarming. We’re all Queer Nosy Parkers here!
Ahaha sure! I was planning to do anyway
Hey guys. I am back with a new video! This video was shot in May, so my hair was still longer. Btw thank you all for supporting our Patreon. I am trying to find an editor, so that we can deliver more content to you all ❤️
I really loved the voiceover about your house. It felt like I was on the phone with a friend and getting exciting news. Congrats! Can't wait for the Architectural Digest Open Door/Vogue 73 Questions tour.
Haha vogue 73 is outdated. Let me try to come up with something new.
Ted is a treasure, more of him please! And good luck with the house, Meng!
Thanks!! Ted is fun and amazing. This is definitely not the last of him
@@TokyoBTM need his tips on how to ace flute classes. 🤗
Always a pleasure to be invited to the channel! Thank you guys for watching!
@@moncilu OMG🙈🙈🙈
I remember on a live stream a few weeks ago we all had a conversation with Meng about wanting to post more personal life updates and share more personal thoughts; watching this was cool because it seemed like a start in that direction and it was really well done - congrats on the house too Meng that's a huge accomplishment
I absolutely loved the shopping tips with Ted, he seems so cool to hang out with. Also, congratulations on this next step of your life. Sending love.
Thank you, glad you enjoyed!
I’m so proud of you, Meng! I don’t have a house of my own. I live with my mom and my sister. I don’t know if I ever want to live by myself since I’m a woman so it can be scary for us (or really anyone) and it can get lonely. I had day dreams of me finding a wife and she moves in with my family. But don’t know if that’ll ever happen since I’m a huge home-body. But congrats! Personally, I would love to see a house tour.
Thanks Lesley. I have been living alone for many years, so I am quite ok to live by myself. Really cant wait for my new home!
That was so fun, glad to see Ted back on the channel. You scared me there for a minuet, I thought you were going to say you are leaving Japan or something. Wishing you all the best in this new chapter of your life, and that this will refresh and recharge you to keep living your best life. Can't wait to see the new house and what kind of shenanigans you'll get into...🏡
Very excited for you Meng!!! Your message was so heartfelt and relatable. Can't wait to see your new house and how you make it your home. Keep the videos coming... It really makes me feel connected to Japan as an American. Wishing you the best.
Oh! What a great news!!! Congratulation on your new house!!!!!
Yay! I'm so happy for you! Glad the update was a happy change in your life and I will be able to see more of the both of you :)
You should also add, most pieces from the outlet stores are made for the outlet (cheaper quality than the ones in boutique) so you should ask the associates whether the item is an outlet item or from the boutique.
It's always nice to see Ted and his tips were legit helpful. I had no idea about the subpar outlet specific items; think I finally know why one pair of nikes I got from an outlet never quite fit right lol.
CONGRATULATIONS on the house!! That is a huge step. I vote for a house tour vid
Happy to help! Yeah I was surprised to learn that too. Sometimes outlet-specific products can be good too, but it’s always better to know what you’re getting
Ted! Now we want the story…. If you go to a hotel…. Sorry! Shopping outlet! 🤣😜
Hotel story!
Congrats on the new change! I hope you'll find luck on this journey! xx :3
Thank you!!! I am super excited
Yasssssssss ❤️ Ted knows the true tea
🫖🫖🫖
I’m sorry to hear how you are feeling at the moment about living in Japan after living there for already several years. I do know exactly what you are saying as I’m living in Canada for 28 years already and I do still have that sense of being alone when I go out to a coffee shop or even just walking down on the street. When I especially see many Canadian born guys, they seem to be always gathering for fun, I recognize they are always pretty much the same group of people, having fun drinking, talking and laughing….etc. I know I shouldn’t be doing this but checking on the social medias, I am subconsciously reflecting on my own life, seeing all of those familiar faces having a good time with smiles with their partners and friends pics. I got, however, a very thick skin now that I’m 54, and those things don’t really bother me much anymore.(those things used to stub my chest!) I still think though and just makes me wonder if I will be always like this pretty much “alone”, with so many days and so many years ahead of me, there are sometimes not even speaking to a single person for days (I also work from home AND I’m a caregiver for my 91 yo dad at home..) other than having a simple & short conversation in Japanese with my dad at home.
Those couple of years of pandemic definitely made me put back inside a cocoon, not being able to associate with people and there is still definitely the after effect from that. I do have a few friends here but I don’t have many friends who can hang out with and talk freely about anything. So I totally understand where you’re coming from, Meng. Especially when it comes to Japanese people, it is not so easy to grasp what they are thinking. I’m Japanese born Japanese (now Canadian) but still hard to figure that out! I’m now slowly trying to connect with some gay Japanese guys here but it takes so much time to develop some level of friendship and trust…etc. We can’t even see each other all that often either because everyone has their own lives, too…. Nonetheless this is what I have learned over the past so many years being and coping being alone all the time. You can never carry that expectations from surroundings but you can always create something that will bring you joy. All the resources are available out there and all around us but we can never expect from especially other people to bring what we want on to the table because they won’t unfortunately. We just have to recreate, reinvent and rethink what is that makes me content at the moment or going a little further to keep me going? Then sometimes heaven will bring you some surprises, it could be a person, or people, ideas or something totally unexpected. Anyway, I’m so glad, Meng that you are trying to break that saggy sad circle of “curse” by doing something big, buying and building your own house!! My goodness, in Tokyo?? But be careful(especially after you show that to the public) there will be ALWAYS someone who will want to be in your pants and pretend that he is going to be your best friend or boyfriend but don’t trust no one easily especially when you’re already feeling vulnerable. That’s a pitfall that you could easily fall into. It could be a painful experience “if” things don’t work out with that person or worse yet, if you really find out that he was taking an advantage of you. So extra caution, Meng. Remember that song by Mariah C. “Love takes time”? There will be someone eventually you two will deserve for each other but even if you didn’t find anyone, life time quality friends are worth more than being in a bad relationship with someone who cares only about themselves. Sometimes (or always) even a adorable pet will be totally devoted and be a lifetime partner!! 🐶🐱🐹🐰💕
So all the best, Meng, I’m so excited for you, for your new chapter, and can’t wait to see your spanking brand new home!! ✨🏡🧍🏻♂️💖Congrats!! 🤩🥳👏🏽🎉💮㊗️
Thank you for your thoughtful message. I am glad to know that I am not the only one feeling this way :)
i am so happy to hear that you found a own house there. it is so important to feel comfortable. you are such a nice andd smart guy that you deserve the best. so all the best starting the new chapter of your life in japan! and for sure i would love to get a house tour with you!
omg i'm so happy for you!!!! your love for japan is phenomenal
Good luck with your new house, feeling at home when you are home is so important. House tour absolutely! And that shopping segment was super cute too.
Excellent info on shopping the outlets. More importantly I happy to learn that you are planning on buying a place. That is so fantastic. Looking forward to the reveal and your move in. Hang in there kiddo. Don’t sweat it. Love will find you. 👍🙏😎
Ted looks great. He really put in the effort and it shows.
Aw thanks! I just try my best
Very good tips (especially the “only buy what you love” one, totally agree) but the last part was the most interesting one. I’ve always thought Japan is for tourism only in my book. You can love it, you adore it, but there’s no place like home, and in my case home is Italy. I’d been living in Germany for quite a period and well… visiting ドイツ was great, but working and living there all year round, well that’s all another story. Can’t wait for your next videos! 🥰
Congratulations on the house! Lovely to see sweet Ted again xxx
Hey. Long time no see. Congratulations on the change. Something cosy to call your own sounds wonderful. Very happy for you. Keep us all updated.xx
Thank you! Will do!
Best of luck with the new home 🙂
And those six tips on shopping ought to be put on MASSIVE posters around every shopping district in the world. That was pure, distilled wisdom!
Glad you liked! I got a lot of them from watching TH-cam shopping videos in the past 😅
SHOW US EVERYTHING!!!!!! I'm really excited for you! I hope you will be happy in your new house once you move in.
I've been watching your videos from the UK for over a year now and I'm so happy for you omg! Congratulations beautiful, I hope this brings you some much deserved happiness!
I actually love this more relaxed style of content. It’s enjoyable just to see you live your life. I look forward to the house tour :D
❤️❤️❤️good to know
Oh the voice over at the final part is really good !
a warm and intimate vibe!
And congrats on the new house ! I thought you would be leaving japan as it is the first thing you think of when a foreigner tells you, I have an update about my life
Cheers to your next chapter
Congratulations Meng!!!! Yes - would love to get a tour!! Whenever your ready!! Thanks for the Vid!! So good to 'see' you again!
Thanks for shopping with me Meng, and congrats on the new place! Love you lots and can’t wait to hang out w you again soon❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
😚always! Love you so much!
Congratulations! I hope it brings more joy and comfort to your life! 💕💕💕
Thank you so much!!
A day of shopping and eating which I love. Also, Meng looks absolutely fabulous!
OMG contratulations Meng!!! I wish you all the best for this new chapter in your life! ❤
Thank you so much!!
Congrats! 祝一切顺利～ btw, this editing/vlog style is very beautiful and chill, love it.
Congratulations on your new home! And yes, seeing how people actually live in Japan would be cool to see!!
Wow how exciting some place to call ur own , can't wait to see it . Congrats on ur new home 🏡
Thank you!! I can't wait too. Super excited. Already looking at furnitures
Yes, absolutely share your new home when you are able. It’s a significant next step. Investing in Japan in a major way. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Those shopping tips at an outlet mall are really invaluable! I've been to Tokyo many times and only went to Gotemba on my last trip before the pandemic so will certainly put those tips to good use next time I'm there. Best of luck in the new house and looking forward to see the journey and its completion 😀
Glad you enjoyed the shipping tips ❤️
Happy to hear you liked the tips! Gotemba is definitely my favorite outlet mall in Japan but it’s easy to get turned around without a plan!
@@TedMeow You can catch a breather at Shake Shack... I guess that's its purpose. You can get a milkshake or 10 😆 (I won't judge I promise)
Congrats on the house and the new chapter of your life 🎉!! And yes we’d love to see it!
Wow, here in America when someone is disappointed in a place they usually pack up and leave. Can't wait to see the new crib. How long before it is move in ready. Also, I would presume you will have a mortgage. Not sure how things work in Japan. More Ted please. He was spot on that factory outlet can be more than retail. Also, retail still has sales that can be very good. Once you get your house up and running you can throw some parties to meet some Japanese friends. Sake is a must and it must be heated just right. Keep us posted. ps. when are you gonna take a trip to come over to America?
People still say "crib?" Well, 23-skidoo.
Very nice video, great quality. I wish it had been longer! 100% love the vibe. And congrats on the house, so exciting!
Thanks so much!!
Congrats on your new house Meng! Renting by yourself is already nice, but owning your house is just amazing. I hope one day I can own a little country house 🥲
thanks Grace! I wish your dream comes true soon!
@@TokyoBTM ❤
What a lovely video! (And the retro vibes...!) I feel you when you say you crave a place that gives you a sense of belonging, and I'm excited for this achievement of yours :)
Omedetou!!! Definietly a house tour when you move in! I am looking forward!
I had no idea about the outlets, thanks for sharing that information with us! And best of luck with the new house once it's finished and you can move in to make it your own cozy space, looking forward to a Meng house tour!
Love the video today I really like the shopping tips you give. Can’t wait for next video that comes out.
Congratulations, Meng! So happy for you!
Geeze Meng the DRAMA! This was a great video, but you teased us the entire time like you were moving away! I am glad you are staying in Japan, your love will come soon! It's been written, it will be done! lol
Congratulations! I hope your new home is everything you want and more 🤗
Congrats, Meng! Buying a house is such a huge step forward. I'm really excited for you!
Also, Ted's advice was super helpful. I buy way too much cheap stuff that I end up not wearing. lol
Thank you. I am super excited too
Congratulations, Meng!! What a huge milestone and accomplishment. Looking forward to seeing how you blossom with a place to call your own. And obviously we want a house tour when you're settled.
Thanks Calvin. Will do
Congrats Meng!!! Can't wait for the tour, and to visit! Xx
Yes please come visit !
Oooooooh! Congratulations on your new home! Can’t wait to see it. 😘😘
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations on the house, Meng! I could relate to the feeling of being lonely and going through an “I hate Japan” era, but in the end I’m happier here too. Good luck with the move!
Thank you Dale
Oh Meng, that’s fantastic news! So proud of you 🤗. I absolutely do want a house tour! Maybe one before you move in and another after you’ve decorated it and made it your own 😁. I’m so happy for you and I really hope this brings you happiness, comfort and a sense of belonging ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks Nigel. Definitely gonna do a house tour
Congratulations on the new house! You work very hard and you deserve it! ♥
I'm looking forward to seeing the new house! And thanks to Ted, those tips were actually very useful. I'm moving to Japan soon so I have to keep them in mind.
Happy to help! Good luck w your move!
Congratulations on your next step in your life journey, Meng. Having a place to call your own will be great for your soul. Hope it all works out well.
Congratulations dahling! You must be loaded to buy a house in Japan! 🥳🥳🥳 Happy Decorating when time comes!
Sounds so exciting hope everythings goes well and wish u lots of happiness. I loved the vlog and really hope to see more xx
Vlogging is fun. I'd love to do more. Thanks Jamie
I would very much like to see a house tour! Congratulations on this momentous achievement! So happy for you! Thank you for the video!
So excited for you. A house will be amazing. YES we want a tour.
I love short videos like this. I was gonna say when you guys were talking about scaling down a bit, and I was gonna say don't think that every video needs to be a trip to Osaka. I like just listening to you guys talk about stuff.
Ohh so glad you are buying 一戶建! And yes!!! Please gives us a tour once it’s finished ❤️
yes 一戶建 is always my dream! I was thinking about apartment too, but 一戶建 is so much better for me
Congrats! Yes house tour please. I really liked the vibe of this video. Different to other Tokyo BTM videos and that's ok. I think your subscribers are open to diverse content.
i am so glad to hear! I definitely trid a different vibe when editing
Loved this video! 😍 Looking forward the house tour! 😍 Also looking forward a video of Meng just talking about the house hunting experience.. Like what neighborhoods you thought off, why, was buying more difficult than renting? Any issues buying by yourself as a foreigner? I wonder if they could also discriminate if you want to buy as a gay couple
PS : So proud of you Meng. Going for your goals.. Yas, kween ! I'm here for reaching for what you want in life! 😍 👏
Thanks Eduardo. Yay a lot to share for sure. There are definitely several videos on this topic
Holy shiz!!! What a big decision but congrats!! Good for you for making that move to surround yourself in a space that will provide you with that comfort you need. My kitchen is the most important thing to me because I looooove to cook it's like therapy for me , even if I end up completely destroying a test recipe 😂🥲. But yeah if I don't feel comfortable in my own kitchen I'm just unhappy and that's when I start eating out a lot . So yeah I get it 🥰🥰
How exciting!! Congratulations on your new house!!🤞👍😘
Haiiii, Meng!!!! I was started following Tokyo BTM since first period of 2022! Now i’m gonna follow upcoming videoss!!!
Actually i would like to ask something hahah. I’m currently about to join japanese class and pre-work courses for japan.
Do you have any tips and advice for foreigners who want to visit Japan in longer times?
So sorry if it too much, but…..i lovee yallll!! Tokyo BTM always the best 😢🎉
Hello! Thanks for liking our channel. I believe the path is very different for everyone. For me I think it is definitely finding every single opportunity to practice the language. Speaking advanced Japanese can open so many doors here in Japan. Also stay positive and find your friends and community, so you can help each other
@@TokyoBTM Thank you so much, Meng!!! Your response is very helpfulll for me and definitely gonna improving myself!!!! Happy Tokyo BTM!!!
Thanks for the tip. I didn't know brands make collections specially for outlet.
Congratulations on the new home purchase. That is a very big step in life and it is also very scary and exciting at the same time. I can't speak for everyone but I do look forward to a new house tour once you can move in. Was that water falling from the sky? I live in Los Angeles and water no longer falls from the sky here (for several years now). It may seem like an inconvenience when it does happen but treasure it. You have no idea how much you will miss it until it is gone. It is very much gone here in L.A. and just seeing it in your video made me miss it terribly.
What u said about lonliness was too real.
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Huge news! Congratulations 🥳
Congratulations on the new house! That is a dream of mine as well and I am very happy for you. May it be fill with laughter, love and lots of food! ^_^ Yes! Please show us the final set-up. I cannot wait. ❤️🔥
Congratulations Meng on taking the big grown-up step of home ownership! You will be happier in your own space that you can do whatever you want with. As far as the relationship thing It seems like you are beating yourself up over it. The old saying is that the harder you look for something the harder and further it is from coming true. It seems like when you stop trying so hard that it actually happens, and I think the reason is because you just relax and take the expectations off of yourself and people see a more easy-going person that is more approachable and not trying so hard. Also think about the places you go and where you meet guys, that can also hinder finding good relationship material as well. If you are hunting in bathhouses and bars that might not be the best place to find someone else looking for a relationship. And you seem to be surrounded by some really good friends already so just ease up on yourself and let things come naturally and you will be surprised by the guys who might come into your life.
Yes house tour! I want to see all the functions of the toilet :)
Go for it meng... You can do it and you can make a difference, Be strong and keep your head held high... And yeah i do wanna see your new home, So interested in what you do ❤❤
What a brave step. Bravo! To have the freedom and independence to be yourself and make your home a safe and wonderful place for yourself is a special thing.
Yes. I am super super excited 🤗
first I got scared like with the last video...uf you are getting me heath attacks here...now the message is awesome I do wanna see the house tour and what a perfect house warming gift I sent you :-D OMG OMG who would know!
Haha nothing bad happened. 🤗🤗
Congrats on the house. For me the point of shopping is the shopping! I generally have no particular goal, other than to shop. That is why I love the big outlet centers because they are so much fun to explore. Sometimes the best day of shopping is an all day excursion where the only thing I buy is lunch! 😎
It's really interesting what you say about not finding friends or romance because of the cultural differences... I'm going to Tokyo next year to live and study Japanese and it's good to have a realistic idea of what it's like to be there. BTW house tour sounds totally awesome!!
hey Cesar. just want to make sure that i delivered the information correctly, I said finding friends or romance is difficult for me, but I do find them. So nothing too negative ;)
Oh! I would LOVE to see a House tour. And COngrats on getting your own home.
Thank you! Will do!
Congrats! Love to see a tour!
So happy to see a new video on the channel! Sending lots of love ♥️
Haha sorry for the long wait 🤗
@@TokyoBTM No, don’t say sorry.
I also would like to see you searching furniture or decorating stuff 😀 can't wait to see it 🤩🥰
I totally want to do it
6:09, I really like the word foreigner
Congrats on the house!! And yes, would love a house tour when you feel ready.
On a shallow note, Meng is looking extra spicy 🔥
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Can’t wait for the home tour :)
Congrats Meng!!
おめでとうございます🎉楽しみですね😊新しい家のルームツアー見たい！見たい！見たい！コロナ感染対策や連日の猛暑(昨日今日は解放されていますが）ご自愛ください😊自分も負けぬよう適当に頑張ります！ネガティブなニュースなのかなあ？と思って見始めたのでハッピーなニュースで嬉しかったです😊✨いつもわかり易い日本語字幕をありがとうございます😊
How wonderful, Meng! Congratulations!
Thanks ❤️
All the best for your house hunting. Hope you'll find a place you love and feel safe in.
▪Ted gave some really great tips about shopping at outlet malls, which also apply here in Canada.
▪Congratulations on the house purchase, Meng! 👏🏽What are the rules for home ownership for foreigners (non-citizens) in Japan?
▪We definitely want a house tour when it is ready! 😀
▪I suggest that you introduce yourself and sign each comment / video note (with Meng or Andrew), especially for those new to the channel for whom this might be the first video of yours that they are watching.
加油Meng！💪支持去接近最理想、最自由的生活和人生！！
HOUSE TOUR?! UM YES!
🤞👍🤞👍🤞👍🤞 I hope all goes well and you're in your new home soon! I can't wait to see it!!!
Looks like Ted gave you good advice. ¡Nice outfit! and congratulations on your setting down roots; yes, please do a tour
Omg! Congrats Meng❤️❤️❤️