You'd definitely be the Indian mom's perfect daughter, because every indian parent thinks that their children should concentrate on themselves until they are adults
@@lolly4840 I'm Indian and literally all of the people in my life have never even WITNESSED a child marriage. Where did you pull those statistics from?????
@@sacabambasspisus urban, privileged, educated people will obviously will not witness child marriages because we simple do not live in such an environment. whereas where a large portion of Indians live in the rural areas , those people are completely opposite to us, they are uneducated, underprivileged etc. so that is where the statistics come from.
as a seventeen year old, this piece resonates to a different level. with senior year and college applications coming up, everyone expects you to have all aspects of your future lined up, including your love life, and that’s not the type of pressure that should be put on young people. we should be pressured to simply live the life we desire at the pace we desire. thank you for producing this film in a world over saturated with worry over how others perceive us. this is beautiful.
Totally agreed. I’m also seventeen (and will be for another half year) but a grade ahead of where I’d normally be- I’ll be starting college in a month and honestly the only thing that’s helping me feel even slightly ready is the old “fake it till you make it” mantra. No clue what I’m doing, I’m doing it alone, but maybe if I pretend, a path will unravel for me! Good luck with your college apps!
This really resonated with me as someone on the aroace spectrum. People making assumptions about your personal life and most vulnerable feelings, pressuring you, unsolicitedly placing your relationships in hierarchies based on if they're romantic or platonic... it seriously gets way too invasive, why do I have to shoulder all of your pointless expectations? Why don't my friends matter as much to you as potential romantic suitors? Why do you force your amatonormative values onto me? Happiness looks different for everyone. You seriously can't fathom a world in which I'm perfectly content to not be kissing anybody??? Maybe expand your mind a little then, Christ...
Not aroace, but I tried explaining to my friend what being ace meant and she said that it was the same as being single. I tried telling her that it wasn’t the same and that an ace person chooses to be single/not to have sex while a person who’s single could be looking for a partner. Then she compared it to diseases like “if a disease had the same symptoms as another disease, would they be the same disease?”
as a fellow 17 yr old, this hits deep :) with final year of high school rolling in and seeing nearly everyone close to me being in a relationship, i cant help but feel as if i'm 'missing out' on some important aspect of my life. and although i do like someone romantically, i doubt that rushing into things purely out of social pressure is going to be a wise decision. i want to love and be loved at my own pace, for we are still so young!! thank you for this film!! it's beautiful
My friend bought me a silver chain I always wanted as a christmas gift but my ma saw and thought I was gay, I had to cut off all my friends because she’d always suspect I was in a relationship whenever I go out with anyone. Now I have no one, and being alone in my room just studying all the time made me suicidal for some reason because I missed my friends. Or I’m just being overly dramatic, but either way something seems missing from my life nowadays because I don’t feel as happy as I used to :(
^^ what the creator said. You deserve to be able to have a social life and not be restrained or constricted by your parents. I suffered similarly, but I had online friends which helped bc they couldn't find out about them. It may help, I mean it's completely personal if you're not comfortable with it but it sounds like hell being so alone in every way
You're not being dramatic at all. Having good friends is seriously one of the best things, like, ever lmao I hope your situation will get better again soon, and that you can find new friends (maybe online like the comment above mine suggested) and/or reconnect with you old ones again! Your mother is in the wrong with what she did. Having a comfortable social life is such an essential thing for being happier overall, and taking that away from you child isn't gonna help at all, no matter if they're straight or not. Sorry for the long comment 😂 I hope you have a nice day.
@kirahaponova @featherghost1085 @bisahnchen8727 @Theoneandonlycec Thank you all for your kind words, I didn’t expect so many nice people to talk back to me, it made me feel really cared for. I hope you all stay healthy and live happily for a long time 🤍🤍🤍🤍
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this came up in my recommended out of the blue. they say art should make you feel something, and if so this is art. i don't know what your other videos are like but it is clear you have a passion for filmmaking and storytelling. i would encourage you to pursue this
I always thought I was wasting my youth for not kissing anyone or whatever, but now I know that reading books, drawing and playing guitar is >my< way to enjoy my youth, and it's nothing wrong with that
I am a drop out and 22 please don’t worry. I left high school due to that pressure. Get your life together, work 24/7, have a perfect school life balance, find a partner, and don’t forget extra curriculum. You don’t need to have your life figured out. Those teachers put their pressure on you. They need you to do well so they can do well so the school can report that they have a “high success rate” that pressure on the teachers makes the environment not about learning anymore. Your providers also got told the same thing and want you to succeed where they couldn’t but the thing is it’s not about doing better, it’s just a flawed game. Just focus on what you want to learn and how you want to live. Their success is not your prerogative. Stay safe and take care of yourself, I know you will all do great and become amazing people. And this is by no means me telling you to drop out lol.
im so glad there’s so many other young people who have this mindset. rushing yourself into a relationship in a young age in my opinion is silly, by all means do so if you want, but i think taking time to love yourself and be comfortable with who you are at a young age will make dating so much easier, because you’ll love yourself and won’t put up with any bs, and you’ll always know that relationship or not you are enough:)
THIS, yes, 100%! That's also been my mindset for some time now. Now I'm only worrying about my career, not my romantic life haha :') Still need to get the pressure off there as well
I’m not 17 yet but, I learned at 13 years old I have something called “Erotophobia”. Which is the fear of intimacy and sex, due to being on the internet unsupervised. From then on I realized I would be an outcast to everyone around me. Running to my parents or friends wasn’t an option because I knew how bizarre and wild it would sound for me to be so young, yet so indifferent to a normal part of life. Sometimes when I talked about friends at school, my mom would think I have a crush on someone. Whenever I denied it, she thought I was just lying. Or whenever I was in school my friends would talk about dating or being in love, I would be triggered a plentiful of times. I am aware I won’t be in a relationship anytime soon. Even with sex hormones and such, I still feel disgusted, sickened about the thought of sex or wanting kids. People may say, ‘oh you just haven’t found the right person’ or ‘it’s just a phase’ but this is quite literally trauma. Sometimes I can’t even walk or talk without feeling disgusted by everyone. I want to see a therapist but I highly doubt my mom would sign me up for one. She always voices her opinion and I know she would say ‘you’re just dirty minded’ or some other excuse to not tend to my needs. I find it irrational both the parents and the actual teen wanting them to be in a relationship under 20. Due to the teens prefrontal cortex not being fully developed, it’s up to the parents to decide. I wish it was more common for teens to work on themselves before finding someone to love. Gaining just general life experience and not just mindlessly following societies standards. I just wish society wouldn’t force such behavior onto teens who can’t think any better. Imo. This took me around an hour-ish to write so, thank you for reading ❤
I'm turning 17 tomorrow, but damn, this video resonated with me so much. I've never been asked about friends or hobbies as often as I've been asked about my significant other. My parents already thinking and planning about my future, about how I get my boyfriend, husband, kids. I don't understand why they are so stuck on that plan, why they care so much about it, while they never cared enough about other parts of my life, with some exceptions. It feels almost offensive how they never see something except me having a family. They never really see me having another future.
They're's a word for this. It's called amanormativity (I don’t think I spelled that right). It’s the assumption that everyone needs a romantic relationship to be happy which simply isn’t true
This resonates with me as someone on the asexual-aromantic spectrum. My mom knows, but she thinks I need to see a doctor. She tells me she hopes I change how I feel, how maybe with hormonal treatment I will want a wife, want to have sex, want kids. But I just don’t, at least not right now, and I’m guilty over that. She is okay with the fact that I like women and not men, but I know she wishes secretly that I was a regular straight woman who would marry a nice man and have kids and grandkids. I’m her only child, I wish I could give her these things.
I have the same fear, to disappoint my family but having childs, having a partner is something so important and intimate and you and only you can decide to have them. Iknow what burden you feel but your life is only yours, live for the things that makes you happy even if can disappoint someone, your happiness is the only thing that matter
I know you wanna make her happy. But it's important to know that you don't own anything to your parents! You don't have to do something just to make them happy they are your parents they will understand you and if they don't, I suggest please don't do something you don't want to. Cuz once you grow older you will regret not living the life you wanted to live.
Wow. Just wow. This hits me hard. I'm also 17, but I'm aromantic. people are constantly asking me ALL THE TIME if I'm dating anyone. Asking who my crush is without excepting that I don't have one. Asking why I'm not in a relationship, and how that was all they wanted as a teenager. This is one of, if not the most accurate portrayal of what the experience is like for me. I understand that this was probably not the intended takeaway or message but the whole thing really resonated with my life. Thank you so much!
I relate to this on a personal level. I have a friend who’s depressed and suicidal, so we tend to spend a lot of time together, because it helps him. My mom sees that as us “dating”. Neither of us like each other romantically, it’s so annoying when people assume we do.
Мне жаль вас двоих. Я слышал, что даже банальная забота о человеке в депрессии может ему помочь. Выкинуть мусор или спросить как у него дела. Покажите ему то, что о нём заботятся. Когда у меня были подавленые эпизоды ( мой опыт может быть бесполезным, ведь я сомневаюсь что у меня была депрессия последние 4 года) простой факт заботы помог бы мне сильно. Спасибо за вашу заботу. И помните : есть те, кто вас любит и кому вы нужны.
As a 16 year old girl this made me break down crying....Im also on the aroace spectrum so i never actually understood her obsession with finding my nonexistent lover. My mom once asked me why i never talked about any boys in my class and only talked about goofy shit me and my friends did? I said "oh because i love my friends" then she asked me "ARE YOU A LESBIAN?? I knew sending you to a all girl's school was a bad idea" ....it kind of made feel broken because i always heard my friends talk happily about guys they liked. Is that a universal experience that all teenagers have? Am i supposed to talk about boys so i seem normal? And so on. Your video captured my emotions perfectly. Thank you soo much 💖💖💖
I am so happy to find someone else who feels the same way (I’m not aroace, but I still can relate) sometimes I feel like I’m being pressured to date someone when really I’m very happy and complete without some random boy. Sadly some people don’t understand, but I want you to know you are completely valid and I love you just the way you are
I understood this comment from the heart. I'm a demirose straight person. Meaning I cannot feel love romantically or sexually unless I know a person well enough. So far I've only ever had 1 crush and that was someone I've been friends with for a YEAR. The problem with boys and girls in my country is that we get divided into separate groups so much, it's hard to get a friend thats an opposite gender. So I don't see the point. But I feel like I should because otherwise I won't ever like another person ever again. But everytime I want to my friends start teasing me about it so I stop. It's a constant cycle and I hate it.
All of the comments in here I feel so much… I have actually tried to get crushes or feel attracted to someone but it never feels genuine. I feel like I’m supposed to like someone or think they are attractive in some way but I just don’t get it. I’m not aerospace or anything bc I have had a crush. Only once though. I also need to know the person well or for a long time but I feel like I need to be quicker with it….
@@FaithFountain-ui7dc don’t listen to the pressure. you don’t need to speed up. if you try that, you’ll end up being in a relationship you have regrets about. if they’re a bad person, you’ll feel upset at yourself for forcing your feelings when that person was not worth it. but if they’re a good person, you’ll feel guilty that they like you so much more than you like them. there is no point in a romantic relationship if it doesn’t actively improve your life and make you happy. if you feel guilt and anxiety, imagine feeling that for years? or imagine maybe how you’d feel if your partner told you that they forced themselves to like you… it will happen when it happens, if it happens. whether it does or not, you have the rest of your life to find your own happiness. others who believe you cannot be happy by yourself or that you have to jump into relationships quickly are projecting. pray they find peace and protect your own. this is advice from someone who’s only 21, but i’ve learnt a lot over the last few years. you are already great the way you are. you will find yourself.
I interpreted that friend as being a girl too, given the "I hate all men" comment (which yk, most likely an exaggeration, but it would be strange to think that after your male friend supported you, yk?)
As another 17yo on the aroace spectrum, I don’t get these comments from my parents, but from other teenagers lol. Like, can’t I just give all my love to my friends? That part’s fine though, but what’s really not fun though are the expectations that i have to marry some man and have kids one day, as if I owe my parents biological grandchildren. Sometimes I still feel bad that I can’t do that because I’d rather date a woman and adopt. Just goes to show how ingrained it is in our culture. Luckily I realized that I don’t owe them a life like that, because it’s mine, and I’m gonna love how I wanna love. Great film btw!
I rushed things a little in my first (and only) relationship, going with a girl I didn’t know very well. Partially…mostly? because of this kind of pressure. I don’t regret it because I learnt something and we can only change the present. I had some good times but that relationship was making me more miserable than happy most of times, I started feeling really insecure and I couldn’t bear the feeling of people in school gossiping, or constantly wondering if I was not good enough, or making mistakes. I learnt that I ve got to be true to myself, do what I really want and wait for the right a person. I think the best relationship might be the ones starting being good friends. Where the personality matters the most.
i just turned 22 and i still have never been in a relationship. maybe others will think that im weird, but i really dont care. we all live our lives differently and i am happy with being just by myself. of course i'd be glad to find someone one day, but my happiness is not dependant on if i have that person in my life or not. anyways, my point is please dont feel pressured to be in a relationship. there is absolutely nothing wrong with being by yourself. others may put you down for it (my friends sure did lol), but they're just projecting their values and insecurities onto you. stay true to yourself
This was a really heartbreaking but such personal presentation of how it is to struggle with having to contend with finding a little bit of happiness as a young, confused, and increasingly-unsure person who soon has to find themselves responsible for the entirety of their lives, only to be brought down by questions and worries that don't serve to help you get clarity, only adding further confusion. I definitely felt this way at 17, I still felt it at 19, and I assume I'll only stop feeling the impact of questions and worries like these when I've had a career of my own and call my own shots. It's around this age that you're just smart and developed enough as a person to have your own interests, your own goals, and your own judgements about the world. But, not seen as old enough to be taken seriously or to be trusted with your decisions by other people still. I mean, it's true that a 30-year old must have had more time to develop their conclusions and decisions than someone 16-19. But this age is definitely a weird gap where your growing autonomy is only met with an increasing amount of responsibility that you're not prepared to answer for yet. It definitely extends out of just the question of a relationship. In my case, I can entertain a relationship some day, but as it is right now: I don't see myself trying to seek one out of fear that the pain I might find myself in is worth far much more than the benefit of companionship. Of course at the tail end of things: I don't want it to lead to having children, only to be an insufficient parent myself. These are the conclusions I had built when I was 18, and these are the conclusions I still hold now. Can I still find myself in a relationship? Sure. I might even find myself in a stable enough position in my life to justify having children as well. But I don't intend to seek it, and I don't really feel the need for any of it as of now. But it's these questions, doubts, and worries that other people put onto us at this age that just makes the answers harder to come by. It's already confusing as it is to be 17 and to start paving the path to your long-term goals in life, but still not be at an age where your conclusions and judgements aren't just given sly doubt by anyone else. Of course, you can always make better judgements, and it's always good to see the positive meaning at times from parent or social figures around you: but it's hard when you're already dealing with 10 different aspects in your life that you're constantly trying to cope with as they change. Doubt or questioning only sows more confusion. But I guess that's why the path to someone's 20s or adulthood will have you no choice but to see the best out of whatever situation it is you get yourself into. I've barely entered my 20s, but I definitely have found myself 'settling' more often. To be fine with the situation, to know I'm confused because I'm still young and unestablished, to still be doubted by people who are older (because at the end of the day, which young person hasn't made a dumb decision haha), but to realize that eventually, I'll be responsible for whatever happiness it is that I manage to find. It's much more satisfying to see the self-contentment down the line that you've built for yourself when you struggle as an adolescent, trying to find self-assurance anywhere you can. I really hope the best for everyone here both in the comments and both for the person who made this video. It's even harder to deal with these issues now as the internet allows you to compare your situation to a lot of other people's situations. But ultimately, it's all a struggle for self-contentment. Hopefully sooner or later, this part of our lives where we're only confused and only made to be confused by the pressure put onto us by expectation and questioning will lead to satisfaction in any form, whether that be satisfaction through career development, artistic pursuits, interpersonal/social bonds, or whatever it is that you most look forward to. Goodluck to everybody, it's very hard. But things can change, and there will be a point in our lives where the struggle won't feel like it stings.
Really lovely. And I think we can all remember feeling this way with our parents or else we can relate to it right now… Funny thing is she probably mostly cares about you being happy and maybe for her not having a boyfriend made her unhappy when she was younger. I mean, of course I don’t know her so it could be the total opposite, but I think with most moms it just comes down to them wanting you to be happy. Regardless, it’s normal to feel this way as a teenager to be confused… I won’t lie to you… Life doesn’t get easier as you get older… It definitely gets harder… But the confusion and feelings of uncertainty get much better. For some they go away completely. So hang in there, teenagers lol.
Ok but the cinematography is gorgeous, thank you for making this. This made me feel so seen and understood and also it’s so beautifully filmed, thank you, thank you.
i clicked this video expecting a video poem.. i somewhat got what i was expecting, but i also got more... this was really well done, it had bits of humour in it that i honestly was not expecting but it fit, subtly and perfectly.. i really do love the message of this video, some people dont understand that **you** can treat **yourself.**
I actually recently talked to my mom about things I wanted for my future and it didn’t specifically include a boyfriend. But I’m glad she has bigger wishes and hopes for me than that and supports me in everything else I want (well, mostly).
This was so well written!! I think this really encapsulates the implosion of emotions a small comment can make when it gets piled with many other small comments and questions and pressure that seems to come out of nowhere. For me the why's always hits so hard. WHY does it matter so much? WHY should i want it so badly? WHY do they think I'm lying? The whole section with it was incredible The cinematography was AMAZING!! Everything build up so well, the music the writing and the scenes all together were amazing!
The beginning where your mom wanted to put the flowers in the kitchen whilst you wanted to keep them for yourself hits kinda hard. It’s a very specific experience that I never thought I’d see someone else go through. Though for me it’s a bit different. I got faux flowers from my friend and I wanted to keep them but my parents wanted to take the flowers to my grandparents grave. But yk, they were *my* flowers for me! I unfortunately don’t have them anymore,they prob took it without me knowing But that aside, I can also relate to romantic pressures being put upon you, like when my uncle asked when I was gonna get a gf. Except I’m gay so if I were to date someone, it won’t be someone they’d expect. So yeah. It kinda sucks how it almost feels like one day you wake up and suddenly, getting a partner is encouraged despite how that previous day, it wasn’t
Your aesthetic sense is really good and really impressive. The shots you filmed were all really evocative and as a whole the video felt really polished. Nicely done :)
I RELATE TO THIS VIDEO SO MUCH, my best friend is a guy, and neither I or him ever expressed wanting to be together. But both his and mine parents always try to tell us that we WILL be dating one day. My dad tried to convince me that there are scientific studies that shwo that a male and female can't be friends, which honestly really hurt me becouse I don't understand why my dad hates the idea of me being just friends with someone the opposite gender so much that he's willing to lie to me. It's really sad when we can't do normal things that friends do (I mean stuff like going out for ice cream) becouse if someone sees us, they're gonna think we're dating. To make it worse, I'm a lesbian, so everytime i listen to my parents telling me that one day I'm gonna be married and have kids see how excited they are for that moment just kinda makes me feel... bad for them, y'know like, It's normal for parents to fantasize about their kid's future relationships and wedding and stuff, but they'll never get to see when I actually get a boyfriend, I wish I could change it but I was just born like that
when i discovered my true self i tought that too, that i should change it, that i would disappoint my family, their plans. But we have nothing to change, we're not a mistake and our souls are perfect the way they are. We need to find our own way to live and be happy and hopefully our loved ones will understand, but it's not their choice. I really wish you the best to you and your friend
This video has 1 million views to me. I didn't expect for this to hit deep for me but it did in it's own special way. My parents has always shoved down the idea of marriage to me. Like a lot. To the point it's so sickening I don't want to get married at all. Ever since I was a kid. It doesn't help that I am queer and I have no intentions in being in a heterosexual relationship. It's becoming sickening that it's making me nauseous eveytime someone brings up the idea of me being married. The frustration is not exactly the same as yours but I do relate to it. I really just want to be my own person and love myself first. I will never need a partner because I am already whole. I will make sure that I will live a meaningful and fun life no matter what happens. I also love the cinematography and storytelling in this too. Big props!
This hit to hard to home. My mom used to pressure me with this at a young age. By that I mean FUCKING 6-12 YEARS OLD! Once I turned 13, however, I was able to finally speak my mind and tell her to stop. Of course I’d never curse at her 😅 but I’d have arguments about telling her to stop and that I didn’t like it. She started questioning if I was lesbian…no I’m not atleast I don’t think I am. I started to think I am aroacespec because I do have a hard time with romantic and sexual feelings towards people. I’m never really attracted sure I can feel them but not towards people. I think I’m Demi but I’m not sure, the thing is I feel like I honestly wouldn’t care what gender the person I loved was as long as I loved them. She even asked if I was attracted to animals and that she supported me if I was 💀 I told her to never say that again. I wasn’t sure if she was joking or not but that one sentence disgusted me especially since you know I was young. But yeah
Demiaroace basically means you can only feel attraction towards someone by becoming emotionally attached. So yeah, I know a lot of people get it confused with pans
Been feeling like this from a few years now, so the last line kind of hits deep. All of it feels good when you have NOT yet met the right person. When you do meet them you realise what you have been missing out all this time. But when you or they kind of grow apart or separate themselves, the shit gets too real. This is when you get matured.
That was soo good! The way you portrayed thinking, asking rhetorical questions is so accurate to the actual thinking process, it felt like you stole these lines from my head lol 😁 Great work!
This was really well shot and really well written, y’all. I’m not seventeen, but I do relate to this a lot- for me, even some of the most well-meaning people in my life have questioned how I can do certain things or care so much for for my friends (and them for me) without having secretly been in love with them. People can genuinely love each other without being “in love” romantically, and that isn’t worth any less. Your friend giving you the flowers (which you’re not selfish to keep a gift to you to yourself, by the way) is, in of itself, a show of love, and it’s not worth any less because it’s platonic. If/when you decide to have a romantic relationship, that’s for /you/ to figure out- not for anyone to pressure you into. Wishing you all the best
hey girly the video is amazing but i was wondering does you mom not watch your videos? cuz i wanna start posting in general and i don't mind her watching but i sometimes wanna turn some of my journal entries into a short movie kind of but ik she'll watch that and she'd be like you're making me into this bad oerson ,i can't even say a single thing to you? i wasn't even scolding you and blah blah blah so i was wondering ,if ur mom didn't know how do u shoot videos at home or is she cool with that? with this video? is yed that's really cool
I recently turned 16 and my dad told me "now we must be careful with you" maybe he was just teasing but it felt like he meant about boys. but i am a lesbian and he does not know. I want to keep it a secret but its driving me crazy. he thinks i am dating my friend (who is a boy) and i am not! i wish parents would put these silly expectations to us.
I love the cinematography on this!! and such a great message aswell. I think it’s really sad how much pressure a lot of adults, even some kids, put on finding a romantic relationship. do you mind if I redraw some of these scenes??? if I post them I’ll for sure give you credit for them of course.
You'd definitely be the Indian mom's perfect daughter, because every indian parent thinks that their children should concentrate on themselves until they are adults
It’s weird how in one culture there’s such a rush to get into a relationship while in another it’s completely the opposite
@@pixelzebra8440 yes, it's really surprising to me until I saw this video yesterday
Child marriage is prevalent in India 1 in 5 people were married as a child.
@@lolly4840 I'm Indian and literally all of the people in my life have never even WITNESSED a child marriage. Where did you pull those statistics from?????
@@sacabambasspisus urban, privileged, educated people will obviously will not witness child marriages because we simple do not live in such an environment. whereas where a large portion of Indians live in the rural areas , those people are completely opposite to us, they are uneducated, underprivileged etc. so that is where the statistics come from.
as a seventeen year old, this piece resonates to a different level. with senior year and college applications coming up, everyone expects you to have all aspects of your future lined up, including your love life, and that’s not the type of pressure that should be put on young people. we should be pressured to simply live the life we desire at the pace we desire. thank you for producing this film in a world over saturated with worry over how others perceive us. this is beautiful.
yes, it’s hard, but we all will go through this❤️ sending my love
Totally agreed. I’m also seventeen (and will be for another half year) but a grade ahead of where I’d normally be- I’ll be starting college in a month and honestly the only thing that’s helping me feel even slightly ready is the old “fake it till you make it” mantra. No clue what I’m doing, I’m doing it alone, but maybe if I pretend, a path will unravel for me! Good luck with your college apps!
u got this, I recently graduated, dont stress ok? many people tend to say its very stressing, its not. just calm urself and take one thing at a time
This really resonated with me as someone on the aroace spectrum. People making assumptions about your personal life and most vulnerable feelings, pressuring you, unsolicitedly placing your relationships in hierarchies based on if they're romantic or platonic... it seriously gets way too invasive, why do I have to shoulder all of your pointless expectations? Why don't my friends matter as much to you as potential romantic suitors? Why do you force your amatonormative values onto me? Happiness looks different for everyone. You seriously can't fathom a world in which I'm perfectly content to not be kissing anybody??? Maybe expand your mind a little then, Christ...
Hey, another aroace!
woah i just finished watching and yeah, this really resonates.
yeah i'm aroace too!
Not aroace, but I tried explaining to my friend what being ace meant and she said that it was the same as being single. I tried telling her that it wasn’t the same and that an ace person chooses to be single/not to have sex while a person who’s single could be looking for a partner. Then she compared it to diseases like “if a disease had the same symptoms as another disease, would they be the same disease?”
i’m not aroace but completely fucking agree with you
as a fellow 17 yr old, this hits deep :)
with final year of high school rolling in and seeing nearly everyone close to me being in a relationship, i cant help but feel as if i'm 'missing out' on some important aspect of my life. and although i do like someone romantically, i doubt that rushing into things purely out of social pressure is going to be a wise decision.
i want to love and be loved at my own pace, for we are still so young!!
thank you for this film!! it's beautiful
i love that this resonates with people my age :))))
I’m not 17 but I am 16 and I somehow feel the same way
It’s the way you converted a conversation into a short, aesthetically pleasing film for me. Yep, you’re getting those oscars
You just know an overthinker made this :') love the cinematography and story telling though
WHY THIS IS SO STRANGELY GOOD
LIKE
THE CAPTIONS, THE MUSIC, THE MOMENTS OF SILENCE,
this video turned out being my second religion
My friend bought me a silver chain I always wanted as a christmas gift but my ma saw and thought I was gay, I had to cut off all my friends because she’d always suspect I was in a relationship whenever I go out with anyone. Now I have no one, and being alone in my room just studying all the time made me suicidal for some reason because I missed my friends. Or I’m just being overly dramatic, but either way something seems missing from my life nowadays because I don’t feel as happy as I used to :(
you are not being dramatic. and i am so sorry that you have to go through that, it will get better tho
^^ what the creator said. You deserve to be able to have a social life and not be restrained or constricted by your parents. I suffered similarly, but I had online friends which helped bc they couldn't find out about them. It may help, I mean it's completely personal if you're not comfortable with it but it sounds like hell being so alone in every way
You're not being dramatic at all. Having good friends is seriously one of the best things, like, ever lmao
I hope your situation will get better again soon, and that you can find new friends (maybe online like the comment above mine suggested) and/or reconnect with you old ones again!
Your mother is in the wrong with what she did. Having a comfortable social life is such an essential thing for being happier overall, and taking that away from you child isn't gonna help at all, no matter if they're straight or not.
Sorry for the long comment 😂
I hope you have a nice day.
@@1k1ga11 I am so sorry this is happening to you!! I will be praying that it gets better for you
@kirahaponova @featherghost1085 @bisahnchen8727 @Theoneandonlycec Thank you all for your kind words, I didn’t expect so many nice people to talk back to me, it made me feel really cared for. I hope you all stay healthy and live happily for a long time 🤍🤍🤍🤍
this came up in my recommended out of the blue. they say art should make you feel something, and if so this is art. i don't know what your other videos are like but it is clear you have a passion for filmmaking and storytelling. i would encourage you to pursue this
I always thought I was wasting my youth for not kissing anyone or whatever, but now I know that reading books, drawing and playing guitar is >my< way to enjoy my youth, and it's nothing wrong with that
I am a drop out and 22 please don’t worry. I left high school due to that pressure. Get your life together, work 24/7, have a perfect school life balance, find a partner, and don’t forget extra curriculum.
You don’t need to have your life figured out.
Those teachers put their pressure on you. They need you to do well so they can do well so the school can report that they have a “high success rate” that pressure on the teachers makes the environment not about learning anymore. Your providers also got told the same thing and want you to succeed where they couldn’t but the thing is it’s not about doing better, it’s just a flawed game.
Just focus on what you want to learn and how you want to live. Their success is not your prerogative. Stay safe and take care of yourself, I know you will all do great and become amazing people. And this is by no means me telling you to drop out lol.
im so glad there’s so many other young people who have this mindset. rushing yourself into a relationship in a young age in my opinion is silly, by all means do so if you want, but i think taking time to love yourself and be comfortable with who you are at a young age will make dating so much easier, because you’ll love yourself and won’t put up with any bs, and you’ll always know that relationship or not you are enough:)
THIS, yes, 100%! That's also been my mindset for some time now.
Now I'm only worrying about my career, not my romantic life haha :')
Still need to get the pressure off there as well
This exactly, that's always been my mindset as well, and I'm just not really interested in anyone (I'm nearly 22 but whatever)
I’m not 17 yet but, I learned at 13 years old I have something called “Erotophobia”. Which is the fear of intimacy and sex, due to being on the internet unsupervised. From then on I realized I would be an outcast to everyone around me. Running to my parents or friends wasn’t an option because I knew how bizarre and wild it would sound for me to be so young, yet so indifferent to a normal part of life. Sometimes when I talked about friends at school, my mom would think I have a crush on someone. Whenever I denied it, she thought I was just lying. Or whenever I was in school my friends would talk about dating or being in love, I would be triggered a plentiful of times. I am aware I won’t be in a relationship anytime soon. Even with sex hormones and such, I still feel disgusted, sickened about the thought of sex or wanting kids. People may say, ‘oh you just haven’t found the right person’ or ‘it’s just a phase’ but this is quite literally trauma. Sometimes I can’t even walk or talk without feeling disgusted by everyone. I want to see a therapist but I highly doubt my mom would sign me up for one. She always voices her opinion and I know she would say ‘you’re just dirty minded’ or some other excuse to not tend to my needs.
I find it irrational both the parents and the actual teen wanting them to be in a relationship under 20. Due to the teens prefrontal cortex not being fully developed, it’s up to the parents to decide. I wish it was more common for teens to work on themselves before finding someone to love. Gaining just general life experience and not just mindlessly following societies standards. I just wish society wouldn’t force such behavior onto teens who can’t think any better. Imo.
This took me around an hour-ish to write so, thank you for reading ❤
as a person on the aromantic spectrum. . .yeah
I'm turning 17 tomorrow, but damn, this video resonated with me so much. I've never been asked about friends or hobbies as often as I've been asked about my significant other. My parents already thinking and planning about my future, about how I get my boyfriend, husband, kids. I don't understand why they are so stuck on that plan, why they care so much about it, while they never cared enough about other parts of my life, with some exceptions. It feels almost offensive how they never see something except me having a family. They never really see me having another future.
They're's a word for this. It's called amanormativity (I don’t think I spelled that right). It’s the assumption that everyone needs a romantic relationship to be happy which simply isn’t true
This resonates with me as someone on the asexual-aromantic spectrum. My mom knows, but she thinks I need to see a doctor. She tells me she hopes I change how I feel, how maybe with hormonal treatment I will want a wife, want to have sex, want kids. But I just don’t, at least not right now, and I’m guilty over that. She is okay with the fact that I like women and not men, but I know she wishes secretly that I was a regular straight woman who would marry a nice man and have kids and grandkids. I’m her only child, I wish I could give her these things.
I have the same fear, to disappoint my family but having childs, having a partner is something so important and intimate and you and only you can decide to have them. Iknow what burden you feel but your life is only yours, live for the things that makes you happy even if can disappoint someone, your happiness is the only thing that matter
I know you wanna make her happy.
But it's important to know that you don't own anything to your parents!
You don't have to do something just to make them happy they are your parents they will understand you and if they don't, I suggest please don't do something you don't want to.
Cuz once you grow older you will regret not living the life you wanted to live.
yoo the plot twist at the end was crazy
Love the plot twist at the end, great job
Wow. Just wow. This hits me hard. I'm also 17, but I'm aromantic. people are constantly asking me ALL THE TIME if I'm dating anyone. Asking who my crush is without excepting that I don't have one. Asking why I'm not in a relationship, and how that was all they wanted as a teenager. This is one of, if not the most accurate portrayal of what the experience is like for me. I understand that this was probably not the intended takeaway or message but the whole thing really resonated with my life. Thank you so much!
I relate to this on a personal level. I have a friend who’s depressed and suicidal, so we tend to spend a lot of time together, because it helps him. My mom sees that as us “dating”. Neither of us like each other romantically, it’s so annoying when people assume we do.
Мне жаль вас двоих. Я слышал, что даже банальная забота о человеке в депрессии может ему помочь. Выкинуть мусор или спросить как у него дела. Покажите ему то, что о нём заботятся. Когда у меня были подавленые эпизоды ( мой опыт может быть бесполезным, ведь я сомневаюсь что у меня была депрессия последние 4 года) простой факт заботы помог бы мне сильно. Спасибо за вашу заботу. И помните : есть те, кто вас любит и кому вы нужны.
I wish adults didn't care so much about kid's love life.
As a 16 year old girl this made me break down crying....Im also on the aroace spectrum so i never actually understood her obsession with finding my nonexistent lover. My mom once asked me why i never talked about any boys in my class and only talked about goofy shit me and my friends did? I said "oh because i love my friends" then she asked me "ARE YOU A LESBIAN?? I knew sending you to a all girl's school was a bad idea"
....it kind of made feel broken because i always heard my friends talk happily about guys they liked. Is that a universal experience that all teenagers have? Am i supposed to talk about boys so i seem normal? And so on.
Your video captured my emotions perfectly. Thank you soo much 💖💖💖
I am so happy to find someone else who feels the same way (I’m not aroace, but I still can relate) sometimes I feel like I’m being pressured to date someone when really I’m very happy and complete without some random boy. Sadly some people don’t understand, but I want you to know you are completely valid and I love you just the way you are
I understood this comment from the heart. I'm a demirose straight person. Meaning I cannot feel love romantically or sexually unless I know a person well enough. So far I've only ever had 1 crush and that was someone I've been friends with for a YEAR. The problem with boys and girls in my country is that we get divided into separate groups so much, it's hard to get a friend thats an opposite gender. So I don't see the point. But I feel like I should because otherwise I won't ever like another person ever again. But everytime I want to my friends start teasing me about it so I stop. It's a constant cycle and I hate it.
All of the comments in here I feel so much… I have actually tried to get crushes or feel attracted to someone but it never feels genuine. I feel like I’m supposed to like someone or think they are attractive in some way but I just don’t get it. I’m not aerospace or anything bc I have had a crush. Only once though. I also need to know the person well or for a long time but I feel like I need to be quicker with it….
@@FaithFountain-ui7dc don’t listen to the pressure. you don’t need to speed up. if you try that, you’ll end up being in a relationship you have regrets about. if they’re a bad person, you’ll feel upset at yourself for forcing your feelings when that person was not worth it. but if they’re a good person, you’ll feel guilty that they like you so much more than you like them.
there is no point in a romantic relationship if it doesn’t actively improve your life and make you happy. if you feel guilt and anxiety, imagine feeling that for years? or imagine maybe how you’d feel if your partner told you that they forced themselves to like you…
it will happen when it happens, if it happens. whether it does or not, you have the rest of your life to find your own happiness. others who believe you cannot be happy by yourself or that you have to jump into relationships quickly are projecting. pray they find peace and protect your own.
this is advice from someone who’s only 21, but i’ve learnt a lot over the last few years. you are already great the way you are. you will find yourself.
If she thought you were romantic with your friend that would also count for having a secret bf
I interpreted that friend as being a girl too, given the "I hate all men" comment (which yk, most likely an exaggeration, but it would be strange to think that after your male friend supported you, yk?)
I was expecting a bad self made movie and was flabbergasted!! Thank you for makeing it! I trust you go far with your films!
As another 17yo on the aroace spectrum, I don’t get these comments from my parents, but from other teenagers lol. Like, can’t I just give all my love to my friends? That part’s fine though, but what’s really not fun though are the expectations that i have to marry some man and have kids one day, as if I owe my parents biological grandchildren. Sometimes I still feel bad that I can’t do that because I’d rather date a woman and adopt. Just goes to show how ingrained it is in our culture.
Luckily I realized that I don’t owe them a life like that, because it’s mine, and I’m gonna love how I wanna love. Great film btw!
Thought this was gonna be a sapphic story.
real
Loved this moment in your mind .beautifuL
I rushed things a little in my first (and only) relationship, going with a girl I didn’t know very well. Partially…mostly? because of this kind of pressure. I don’t regret it because I learnt something and we can only change the present. I had some good times but that relationship was making me more miserable than happy most of times, I started feeling really insecure and I couldn’t bear the feeling of people in school gossiping, or constantly wondering if I was not good enough, or making mistakes. I learnt that I ve got to be true to myself, do what I really want and wait for the right a person. I think the best relationship might be the ones starting being good friends. Where the personality matters the most.
i just turned 22 and i still have never been in a relationship. maybe others will think that im weird, but i really dont care. we all live our lives differently and i am happy with being just by myself. of course i'd be glad to find someone one day, but my happiness is not dependant on if i have that person in my life or not.
anyways, my point is please dont feel pressured to be in a relationship. there is absolutely nothing wrong with being by yourself.
others may put you down for it (my friends sure did lol), but they're just projecting their values and insecurities onto you. stay true to yourself
Вам надо быть режиссёром. Вы величественны.
This was a really heartbreaking but such personal presentation of how it is to struggle with having to contend with finding a little bit of happiness as a young, confused, and increasingly-unsure person who soon has to find themselves responsible for the entirety of their lives, only to be brought down by questions and worries that don't serve to help you get clarity, only adding further confusion.
I definitely felt this way at 17, I still felt it at 19, and I assume I'll only stop feeling the impact of questions and worries like these when I've had a career of my own and call my own shots.
It's around this age that you're just smart and developed enough as a person to have your own interests, your own goals, and your own judgements about the world. But, not seen as old enough to be taken seriously or to be trusted with your decisions by other people still. I mean, it's true that a 30-year old must have had more time to develop their conclusions and decisions than someone 16-19. But this age is definitely a weird gap where your growing autonomy is only met with an increasing amount of responsibility that you're not prepared to answer for yet.
It definitely extends out of just the question of a relationship. In my case, I can entertain a relationship some day, but as it is right now: I don't see myself trying to seek one out of fear that the pain I might find myself in is worth far much more than the benefit of companionship. Of course at the tail end of things: I don't want it to lead to having children, only to be an insufficient parent myself. These are the conclusions I had built when I was 18, and these are the conclusions I still hold now. Can I still find myself in a relationship? Sure. I might even find myself in a stable enough position in my life to justify having children as well. But I don't intend to seek it, and I don't really feel the need for any of it as of now.
But it's these questions, doubts, and worries that other people put onto us at this age that just makes the answers harder to come by. It's already confusing as it is to be 17 and to start paving the path to your long-term goals in life, but still not be at an age where your conclusions and judgements aren't just given sly doubt by anyone else. Of course, you can always make better judgements, and it's always good to see the positive meaning at times from parent or social figures around you: but it's hard when you're already dealing with 10 different aspects in your life that you're constantly trying to cope with as they change. Doubt or questioning only sows more confusion.
But I guess that's why the path to someone's 20s or adulthood will have you no choice but to see the best out of whatever situation it is you get yourself into. I've barely entered my 20s, but I definitely have found myself 'settling' more often. To be fine with the situation, to know I'm confused because I'm still young and unestablished, to still be doubted by people who are older (because at the end of the day, which young person hasn't made a dumb decision haha), but to realize that eventually, I'll be responsible for whatever happiness it is that I manage to find. It's much more satisfying to see the self-contentment down the line that you've built for yourself when you struggle as an adolescent, trying to find self-assurance anywhere you can.
I really hope the best for everyone here both in the comments and both for the person who made this video. It's even harder to deal with these issues now as the internet allows you to compare your situation to a lot of other people's situations. But ultimately, it's all a struggle for self-contentment. Hopefully sooner or later, this part of our lives where we're only confused and only made to be confused by the pressure put onto us by expectation and questioning will lead to satisfaction in any form, whether that be satisfaction through career development, artistic pursuits, interpersonal/social bonds, or whatever it is that you most look forward to.
Goodluck to everybody, it's very hard. But things can change, and there will be a point in our lives where the struggle won't feel like it stings.
Sims 1 music for the win. I can play some of this
yes bro u get it
what song(s) are used in this video? I haven’t been able to find it
it’s so good and fits the feeling of the video so well
Really lovely. And I think we can all remember feeling this way with our parents or else we can relate to it right now…
Funny thing is she probably mostly cares about you being happy and maybe for her not having a boyfriend made her unhappy when she was younger. I mean, of course I don’t know her so it could be the total opposite, but I think with most moms it just comes down to them wanting you to be happy.
Regardless, it’s normal to feel this way as a teenager to be confused… I won’t lie to you… Life doesn’t get easier as you get older… It definitely gets harder… But the confusion and feelings of uncertainty get much better. For some they go away completely. So hang in there, teenagers lol.
This popping in my recommended out of nowhere sure was strange, but i liked this
Amazing work!
this is so beautiful. The way you started worrying and over thinking the question really resonates w me.
Ok but the cinematography is gorgeous, thank you for making this. This made me feel so seen and understood and also it’s so beautifully filmed, thank you, thank you.
i clicked this video expecting a video poem.. i somewhat got what i was expecting, but i also got more... this was really well done, it had bits of humour in it that i honestly was not expecting but it fit, subtly and perfectly.. i really do love the message of this video, some people dont understand that **you** can treat **yourself.**
The Ending was really good ❤ loved the whole vibe of the video.
omg i love this video !!! the quality, the aesthetic, the monologue, everything perfect!
im also 17, and i see me in your in your speech
I actually recently talked to my mom about things I wanted for my future and it didn’t specifically include a boyfriend. But I’m glad she has bigger wishes and hopes for me than that and supports me in everything else I want (well, mostly).
This was so well written!! I think this really encapsulates the implosion of emotions a small comment can make when it gets piled with many other small comments and questions and pressure that seems to come out of nowhere. For me the why's always hits so hard. WHY does it matter so much? WHY should i want it so badly? WHY do they think I'm lying? The whole section with it was incredible
The cinematography was AMAZING!! Everything build up so well, the music the writing and the scenes all together were amazing!
The beginning where your mom wanted to put the flowers in the kitchen whilst you wanted to keep them for yourself hits kinda hard. It’s a very specific experience that I never thought I’d see someone else go through. Though for me it’s a bit different. I got faux flowers from my friend and I wanted to keep them but my parents wanted to take the flowers to my grandparents grave. But yk, they were *my* flowers for me! I unfortunately don’t have them anymore,they prob took it without me knowing
But that aside, I can also relate to romantic pressures being put upon you, like when my uncle asked when I was gonna get a gf. Except I’m gay so if I were to date someone, it won’t be someone they’d expect. So yeah. It kinda sucks how it almost feels like one day you wake up and suddenly, getting a partner is encouraged despite how that previous day, it wasn’t
Your aesthetic sense is really good and really impressive. The shots you filmed were all really evocative and as a whole the video felt really polished. Nicely done :)
This is really awesome art
This is filmed so beautifully
damn!! this is really good
I RELATE TO THIS VIDEO SO MUCH, my best friend is a guy, and neither I or him ever expressed wanting to be together. But both his and mine parents always try to tell us that we WILL be dating one day. My dad tried to convince me that there are scientific studies that shwo that a male and female can't be friends, which honestly really hurt me becouse I don't understand why my dad hates the idea of me being just friends with someone the opposite gender so much that he's willing to lie to me. It's really sad when we can't do normal things that friends do (I mean stuff like going out for ice cream) becouse if someone sees us, they're gonna think we're dating. To make it worse, I'm a lesbian, so everytime i listen to my parents telling me that one day I'm gonna be married and have kids see how excited they are for that moment just kinda makes me feel... bad for them, y'know like, It's normal for parents to fantasize about their kid's future relationships and wedding and stuff, but they'll never get to see when I actually get a boyfriend, I wish I could change it but I was just born like that
when i discovered my true self i tought that too, that i should change it, that i would disappoint my family, their plans. But we have nothing to change, we're not a mistake and our souls are perfect the way they are. We need to find our own way to live and be happy and hopefully our loved ones will understand, but it's not their choice. I really wish you the best to you and your friend
You have the exact same mindset as me... Didn't expect to see something so relatable in my reccomendations
This video has 1 million views to me. I didn't expect for this to hit deep for me but it did in it's own special way.
My parents has always shoved down the idea of marriage to me. Like a lot. To the point it's so sickening I don't want to get married at all. Ever since I was a kid. It doesn't help that I am queer and I have no intentions in being in a heterosexual relationship. It's becoming sickening that it's making me nauseous eveytime someone brings up the idea of me being married.
The frustration is not exactly the same as yours but I do relate to it. I really just want to be my own person and love myself first. I will never need a partner because I am already whole. I will make sure that I will live a meaningful and fun life no matter what happens.
I also love the cinematography and storytelling in this too. Big props!
Your abillity in cinematography is incredible, it brings me comfort.. keep up with your work!
Great filming and im happy for you that the algorithm picked it up. The story is relatable as well, ive definetly been in that position before.
This was excellent and made me cry.
Instructions unclear, i broke up with my boyfriend
I love this. I don't relate to the story but I loved the cinematic energyyy
This hit to hard to home. My mom used to pressure me with this at a young age. By that I mean FUCKING 6-12 YEARS OLD! Once I turned 13, however, I was able to finally speak my mind and tell her to stop. Of course I’d never curse at her 😅 but I’d have arguments about telling her to stop and that I didn’t like it. She started questioning if I was lesbian…no I’m not atleast I don’t think I am. I started to think I am aroacespec because I do have a hard time with romantic and sexual feelings towards people. I’m never really attracted sure I can feel them but not towards people. I think I’m Demi but I’m not sure, the thing is I feel like I honestly wouldn’t care what gender the person I loved was as long as I loved them. She even asked if I was attracted to animals and that she supported me if I was 💀 I told her to never say that again. I wasn’t sure if she was joking or not but that one sentence disgusted me especially since you know I was young. But yeah
Demiaroace basically means you can only feel attraction towards someone by becoming emotionally attached. So yeah, I know a lot of people get it confused with pans
Hits in the feels
Been feeling like this from a few years now, so the last line kind of hits deep. All of it feels good when you have NOT yet met the right person. When you do meet them you realise what you have been missing out all this time. But when you or they kind of grow apart or separate themselves, the shit gets too real. This is when you get matured.
This is so beautiful ❤
This is an amazing video. Congrats. ❤
Oh!! How much I love this
That was soo good! The way you portrayed thinking, asking rhetorical questions is so accurate to the actual thinking process, it felt like you stole these lines from my head lol 😁 Great work!
this is a true piece of art and i had a very magical experience watching it thankx for that
This was really well shot and really well written, y’all. I’m not seventeen, but I do relate to this a lot- for me, even some of the most well-meaning people in my life have questioned how I can do certain things or care so much for for my friends (and them for me) without having secretly been in love with them. People can genuinely love each other without being “in love” romantically, and that isn’t worth any less. Your friend giving you the flowers (which you’re not selfish to keep a gift to you to yourself, by the way) is, in of itself, a show of love, and it’s not worth any less because it’s platonic. If/when you decide to have a romantic relationship, that’s for /you/ to figure out- not for anyone to pressure you into. Wishing you all the best
This was beautiful.
i feel an opening in my human skull and i feel wind from it too (as an experience in my real human life right now presently while watching this)
hey girly the video is amazing but i was wondering does you mom not watch your videos? cuz i wanna start posting in general and i don't mind her watching but i sometimes wanna turn some of my journal entries into a short movie kind of but ik she'll watch that and she'd be like you're making me into this bad oerson ,i can't even say a single thing to you? i wasn't even scolding you and blah blah blah so i was wondering ,if ur mom didn't know how do u shoot videos at home or is she cool with that? with this video? is yed that's really cool
You have all the time in the world. ❤
Warszawskie metro jumpscare
Im gonna use like half of this video as an art reference
im 18 graduated in june and yeah no im still single as a pringle, dont worry abt that
Why is this so good omg…
this was beautiful, and your english is so good actually. love this poem
This was beautiful
poetic as fk
I recently turned 16 and my dad told me "now we must be careful with you" maybe he was just teasing but it felt like he meant about boys. but i am a lesbian and he does not know. I want to keep it a secret but its driving me crazy. he thinks i am dating my friend (who is a boy) and i am not! i wish parents would put these silly expectations to us.
kewl video
Love this
Im so in love w this♡
I love the cinematography on this!! and such a great message aswell. I think it’s really sad how much pressure a lot of adults, even some kids, put on finding a romantic relationship. do you mind if I redraw some of these scenes??? if I post them I’ll for sure give you credit for them of course.
This is so good! Why does it not have more views??
1:46 I feel you man, I feel you.
What an amazing short film
17's such a weird age
im 22 and the same stuff happens to me im single too
If overthinking was a person
this is poetry to me
I always wanted a girlfriend, but I wasn't the special one.
i love this so muchhhh
This is beautiful
i adore this work! thank you for making this
This is beautifully put together, well done!!
Oh I love this ❤keep making videos!!
This is so beautiful and lovely!
i love this!!! 🫶
Idk … the caption made me feel things,, and I just subscribed you!! ❤
Awww. I loved that! ❤❤❤😊
Thank u for this💙
i didn't understood a single thing,but hey,10 years later people will see this.
Hi!
i love it