I'm glad I found your channel. My husband and I are retiring together in February and I'm very ambivalent about it because I really love my job, but at the same time I'm looking forward to having more time to pursue other interests. He is just THRILLED because he does not like his job at all and has basically just hung in there because he knew that it would enable him to retire pretty comfortably someday. I'm realizing more and more that I need to have a plan and to start thinking about what my goals will really be once I retire... how I will continue to have a fulfilling life. Fortunately, my husband and I get along very well and love spending time together, so that's not an issue... but finding ways to channel my own energy and my desire to keep helping others (I'm a therapist) is going to be quite a challenge.
Hi. We are happy you found our channel as well. I see you have watched a few videos and left other comments. I appreciate that and happy you are putting in some thought to this phase of life. Here is a link to our 7 day kick start challenge which might be fun for you and your husband to do together. learn.retirementtransformed.com/7-day-challenge-RT
This video is such a great reminder that consistency is key. Even when progress feels slow, every step is bringing us closer to our goals. Thanks for sharing! - Lipika (Team Evan)
We're thrilled that the message resonated with you. You’re right-consistency is everything when working towards our goals. Keep up the great work, and thanks for being part of the journey!
Glad to hear you found the advice helpful! A vision board can be a great complement to your financial and written plans. What’s the first thing you’re thinking of adding to your board?
@@RetirementTransformed I think it would be something around a vision of me and my wife. We too are an entrepreneurial couple. I’m thinking of stepping back and helping her continue to grow.
I went into retirement early so I have years of experience by now. You bring up a few interesting ideas. I live quite a way from my family and go to visit them 2-3 times a year, but I have also made it clear that family and friends also have a responsibility to keep in touch with me. A 1000 km is just that - both ways. Physical wellbeing is also important, if people excercising in their 50's could keep in mind that they do this to stay fit while in their 70s it would be more fun, because you've got to enjoy it.
Thank you for sharing your insights! It’s great to hear how you’ve balanced staying in touch with family while also prioritizing your own well-being. Your point about exercise is spot on-starting early to stay fit for the long term really makes a difference, and enjoying it along the way is key. How do you keep active and motivated in your routine?
My wife and I have been married 22+ years, solid relationship, currently in our early 50's. After 22+ years, I still want to go back to school for personal fulfillment (not career). Unfortunately, the only highly specialized school I want to go to is in New Jersey. I don't really want to be there, and neither does my wife. No reason for her to uproot for this. Any thoughts on potentially 2 years away from each other? It's close enough for weekends together and such (2 hours away), but I would definitely want to just stay there during week. Am I too old to pretend I'm 22 again? Work isn't the main topic here, and my son is heading off to college himself, while my wife is quite happy at her own job doing what she loves. If I don't do it, I will feel like that is the one life experience I've missed. At the same time, I could just stay at home and learn/practice from online videos. But I know that the experience/environment/people are 80% of the journey.
The only words I can say are: Follow your heart. If it is your long lost dream, maybe you have to fulfill this dream - If your wife can compromise. 2 years are nothing.
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and personal situation. It sounds like you’re weighing a big decision, and the desire for personal fulfillment is so important. Two years apart during the week can be a challenge, but if it’s something that brings you growth and satisfaction, it might be worth considering. Have you and your wife talked through how this could work for both of you? If you both feel aligned, it might be a great opportunity. Wishing you the best as you navigate this!
@@TheArtofRetouching This sounds totally doable, especially since your wife is still working. I say go for it! But make sure you and your wife connect a lot during the week and spend good, quality time together on the weekends.
I lost my partner last year and am living alone. Can you help direct me to get involved in more social activities and friendships? I don't want to end up sitting on the couch watching TV every day after my household chores are done. Thanks.
I’m sorry for your loss. Have you tried to volunteer at all? Either for an organization that serves a population you care bout such as a disease, or a group of people like seniors of children? The possibilities are endless and you get immediate social interaction. Many communities have what might be called a “Volunteer Center” that can help find you some opportunities. Have you thought of starting a book club with friends? I hope this was helpful
Jody totally looks like a golfer, I can tell :). You know us single people are out here too, maybe do a video like this if you don't have a current partner going into retirement..?
Thank you for your perspective, Angela. Retirement experiences can definitely vary depending on financial circumstances, and it’s important to acknowledge those differences. We aim to share ideas that can hopefully resonate with a wide audience, but we understand not every approach is feasible for everyone. Wishing you the best on your retirement journey, and thank you for joining the conversation! 😊
I'm glad I found your channel. My husband and I are retiring together in February and I'm very ambivalent about it because I really love my job, but at the same time I'm looking forward to having more time to pursue other interests. He is just THRILLED because he does not like his job at all and has basically just hung in there because he knew that it would enable him to retire pretty comfortably someday. I'm realizing more and more that I need to have a plan and to start thinking about what my goals will really be once I retire... how I will continue to have a fulfilling life. Fortunately, my husband and I get along very well and love spending time together, so that's not an issue... but finding ways to channel my own energy and my desire to keep helping others (I'm a therapist) is going to be quite a challenge.
Hi. We are happy you found our channel as well. I see you have watched a few videos and left other comments. I appreciate that and happy you are putting in some thought to this phase of life. Here is a link to our 7 day kick start challenge which might be fun for you and your husband to do together.
learn.retirementtransformed.com/7-day-challenge-RT
We did the same! I was in ministry for years and have TH-cam as an outlet to still use my gifts to serve others
That’s so much
This video is such a great reminder that consistency is key. Even when progress feels slow, every step is bringing us closer to our goals. Thanks for sharing! - Lipika (Team Evan)
We're thrilled that the message resonated with you. You’re right-consistency is everything when working towards our goals. Keep up the great work, and thanks for being part of the journey!
I have fine financial and written plans with me and my wife. But, I never thought about a vision board! Thanks for the advice!!
Glad to hear you found the advice helpful! A vision board can be a great complement to your financial and written plans. What’s the first thing you’re thinking of adding to your board?
@@RetirementTransformed I think it would be something around a vision of me and my wife. We too are an entrepreneurial couple. I’m thinking of stepping back and helping her continue to grow.
I went into retirement early so I have years of experience by now. You bring up a few interesting ideas. I live quite a way from my family and go to visit them 2-3 times a year, but I have also made it clear that family and friends also have a responsibility to keep in touch with me. A 1000 km is just that - both ways. Physical wellbeing is also important, if people excercising in their 50's could keep in mind that they do this to stay fit while in their 70s it would be more fun, because you've got to enjoy it.
Thank you for sharing your insights! It’s great to hear how you’ve balanced staying in touch with family while also prioritizing your own well-being. Your point about exercise is spot on-starting early to stay fit for the long term really makes a difference, and enjoying it along the way is key. How do you keep active and motivated in your routine?
Like the couple vision board; makes a lot of sense; who knew? Thx❤
Glad you liked the idea!
The vision board is a great idea. I’m going to get on it!
That’s awesome, Mary! A vision board can be such a powerful tool for setting and achieving goals. What’s the first thing you’re planning to put on it?
Great ideas! Thanks!
You are so welcome! What was your biggest takeaway?
My wife and I have been married 22+ years, solid relationship, currently in our early 50's. After 22+ years, I still want to go back to school for personal fulfillment (not career). Unfortunately, the only highly specialized school I want to go to is in New Jersey. I don't really want to be there, and neither does my wife. No reason for her to uproot for this. Any thoughts on potentially 2 years away from each other? It's close enough for weekends together and such (2 hours away), but I would definitely want to just stay there during week. Am I too old to pretend I'm 22 again? Work isn't the main topic here, and my son is heading off to college himself, while my wife is quite happy at her own job doing what she loves. If I don't do it, I will feel like that is the one life experience I've missed. At the same time, I could just stay at home and learn/practice from online videos. But I know that the experience/environment/people are 80% of the journey.
The only words I can say are: Follow your heart. If it is your long lost dream, maybe you have to fulfill this dream - If your wife can compromise. 2 years are nothing.
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful and personal situation. It sounds like you’re weighing a big decision, and the desire for personal fulfillment is so important. Two years apart during the week can be a challenge, but if it’s something that brings you growth and satisfaction, it might be worth considering. Have you and your wife talked through how this could work for both of you? If you both feel aligned, it might be a great opportunity. Wishing you the best as you navigate this!
@@TheArtofRetouching This sounds totally doable, especially since your wife is still working. I say go for it! But make sure you and your wife connect a lot during the week and spend good, quality time together on the weekends.
I lost my partner last year and am living alone. Can you help direct me to get involved in more social activities and friendships? I don't want to end up sitting on the couch watching TV every day after my household chores are done. Thanks.
I’m sorry for your loss. Have you tried to volunteer at all? Either for an organization that serves a population you care bout such as a disease, or a group of people like seniors of children? The possibilities are endless and you get immediate social interaction. Many communities have what might be called a “Volunteer Center” that can help find you some opportunities. Have you thought of starting a book club with friends? I hope this was helpful
@@RetirementTransformed Thanks for the reply. I am a senior so I'll look into a volunteer center.
Jody totally looks like a golfer, I can tell :). You know us single people are out here too, maybe do a video like this if you don't have a current partner going into retirement..?
We have done a few solo retirement videos. If you search our channel for “solo”, they will show up.
Dale Carnegie "Building Skills To Confront Today's Retirement"
I googled that and could not find anything. But I'm curious. Can you tell me more about this quote.
@@RetirementTransformed Exactly. Pitch it.
Retirement is not as easy when youre not wealthy like you are....much ofvwhat you say isntvrelative
Thank you for your perspective, Angela. Retirement experiences can definitely vary depending on financial circumstances, and it’s important to acknowledge those differences. We aim to share ideas that can hopefully resonate with a wide audience, but we understand not every approach is feasible for everyone. Wishing you the best on your retirement journey, and thank you for joining the conversation! 😊