The Interviewer is talented please! Giving people the space to vent, judgement free and still able to draw out all this information from his guests. Top tier
The first mistake he made was telling him what kind of man you wanted, he pretended to be what you wanted until he got you hooked then showed his true colors ..
To the Engineer Your Life team: 1. Allow the guest to fully express themselves in their native language. 2. Please include subtitles for when a guest switches languages. Thank you
Lucas is a natural story teller with an innate ability to capture your attention. He knows how to use his voice and gestures for effect !!! Give this man his flowers!!!
I once worked with Lucas at another bank..oh what an energetic somebody..a Go Getter..so much fun to hang around...Lucas..the Devil is a liar..wena you are destined for bigger things..take this phase as test..at the end God wins.❤
@@overstandself9954 I don't know what it is, umjolo is supposed to be relatively easy, because you just check on their socials and see what you are dealing with. But no, people are still missing red banners.
It's not desperation but its the vision/ dream / goals we have for our lives. Something you probably thought of as a child. It's hard to let go of these thing many many women get married even when they see ukuthi the relationship is abusive or whatever just to get the title of "Married Woman or Makoti"
@@overstandself9954 I say desperate cos when you're desperate you eat anything. And you're right it's because of that vision and as we grow we need to alter out vision based on the things that we're confronted with, living in the past affects the future.
"Because I talk a lot, I am the perpetrator, because he is more reserved, he is the victim. So my personality was used against me!" - THIS was felt, i can relate to this Lucas. Wishing you well for the future dali. Good Karma will find you xox
You know the more and I listen to some of these podcasts I realise my life is actually boring. Cuz like wow just listening to Lucus speak is just a movie experience 😂
Lucas you will heal dear, it’s okay to be alone, never again be desperate for a stable relationship, it will come at the right time. Wishing you joy and peace in your journey
So there are really gays that are kind and loving like my man, Lucas you are one of the gay guys people need I pray you find a good guy who matches your energy.
Best interview I've watched in my entire life, i thought Lebo was the Queen of umgowo this guy takes the cup 😂😂😂😂 i like how he narrates his story. The host should let people to use their native language, and stop dictating and just write subtitles .
I met a guy a few months ago we talked a lot over the phone. I liked him when he started asking for airtime and R100 petrol for his GTI. I ran for the hills and never looked back 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What are subtitles for?.... I personally hate English it is a language of a oppressor... We must not use it to become a mini version of white people...
@@vusidlamini6275 you’re unnecessarily rude. I’m Xhosa and exclusively grew up in Eastern Cape. I was never exposed to and don’t understand languages primarily spoken in Gauteng + Limpopo and that’s ok. Subakrwada 🙄 This has nothing to do with trying to be “white” 🙄 grow up and stop making assumptions on the internet about people you don’t know. Voetsek Vusi.
This country mara, we can't even keep up with this drama anymore. Every day, there is something to shock us. We even forgot what was trending 2 weeks ago 😮
I stopped after the Tembisa shack part and him asking for money claiming he was robbed. I can't ! I'm sorry Lucas, you look so vibrant and full of life and definitely deserved better. May the life you want locate you, God willing ❤
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Yhooo saze sang'bore(a) nasi i-story_ how stupid/ desperate do you have to be to go through this!!
And you are a good listener sana that’s all we need🤗😂
SUBTITLES PLEASE!!!!!!
@@tamarabali7874pho ufunani lah?
Lungelo run and watch thapelo other side of the story with promise my husband this and that and the title can get the guy in trouble at work 😢
Bathong can we agree to leave mjolo alone😭 this man spoke 11 official languages in one sentence ke mgowo😭😭😭
@@menniekumalo3276 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
@@menniekumalo3276 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
😂😂
Who’s here from TikTok🤣 jho never been so invested in a story
@@KudzaiChaparanganda me 😭😭💀💀
Very invested 🤣
@@KudzaiChaparanganda me too bro 😅😅😅😅😅
@@KudzaiChaparanganda me too 😭😭😂
Me😂
The Interviewer is talented please! Giving people the space to vent, judgement free and still able to draw out all this information from his guests. Top tier
The first mistake he made was telling him what kind of man you wanted, he pretended to be what you wanted until he got you hooked then showed his true colors ..
🎯
Never tell are potential partner what u want out of are partner they will fake it til they make it
@@sibongilemthunzi3857 100%
To the Engineer Your Life team:
1. Allow the guest to fully express themselves in their native language.
2. Please include subtitles for when a guest switches languages.
Thank you
@@teem7303 I felt somehow when he said that
seconded...we not complaining native bring spices,....lols
@@victor_mojapelo143 Exactly. But we hope to see these suggestions taken in a good light by the team because hey have a diverse community.
@@pfanolusunzi4331 😂
YES
May this kind of love and desperation never locate me😢.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Run and keep running
😂😂😂
Nna i just love the fact that he is multilingual, 👌👌
Nam he is South african sana
Worse, as a pedi, it is interesting to watch. Love him for him😅
same here...he is good at telling stories
@@oyandakona5994A proudly one
His sePedi took me back to Glen Cowie high school.
He speaks isiXhosa too😅
Lucas is a natural story teller with an innate ability to capture your attention. He knows how to use his voice and gestures for effect !!! Give this man his flowers!!!
I won't lie... I love his English.
Ke mopedi thwii
His story is giving the “Who TF Did I Marrry”. 😅
@@amikatshabalala7984 😂Yess
😂 Literally
Absolutely
😂
Yesss
I once worked with Lucas at another bank..oh what an energetic somebody..a Go Getter..so much fun to hang around...Lucas..the Devil is a liar..wena you are destined for bigger things..take this phase as test..at the end God wins.❤
You can just tell he is destined for amazing things. He is even already there. The devil is a liar.
amazing human being i love his energy
I love him ndingamazi nomzi😂😂😊❤
@@SinethembaCareCenter was he always this dramatic n imagining things n likes spotlights soo
I don't know Lucas but I love his energy. He is definitely destined for great things indeed.
What an interview! What a story! An honestly authentic person. May you heal ❤ and restore to your former self.
What do you mean he came alone to the wedding. This was not a marriage, it was a hiest😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol andihleki nyan, Red flag ezingaka
He was caught off guard by the catfish😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Male version of Latoya's wife😂
😂😂😂 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂ku shota f**** up
😂.. 😂Lol
The problem started with a father. He just wants a father's love. 😢
you took the words out of my mouth.
I said the exact same thing
True💯
@@minamonyeki6922 Actually because it’s not make sure. This is a child he’s talking about also.
shame
Umjolo wa 5 weeks felt like a 20 years of suffering in marriage… I have ran out of yoh…
My thoughts exactly, mine was 18yrs 😂😂😂
This is literally a venting podcast 😭
They need to change the name ASAP 😂
and the host is an amazing listener
Cry me a River 😂
@@zanelexaba-jj3oxright?❤
How Lungelo manages to keep a straight face through all these interviews is fascinating 😂😂
Love him for that ke sana 😂😂😂❤
Lucas was served red flags on a silver platter and devoured the meal!!😭😭
@@memeetunashileka 😂😂😂
This is proof that when you are in "love" you become in denial.
Yoh listen😢
& left no crumbs 🫢🥲
You know love ? 😂😂😂you will never see anything wrong .
May the level of desperation in love like this never locate me🙏🏿😭
@@thamimlambo in Jesus Name Amen.
Agreed
amen
Amen
Amen🙏
Y dont i meet straight men like this guy. He believes in marriage and is genuine
He just deserves better ❤I really feel for him
From 'baby' to 'that child' 😂😂😂😂😂 I respect uMjolo
😂😂mjolo o dangerous
😂😂😂😂Umjolo
Bathong 😂😂😂
That's mjolo 😂😂😂for you
@@sngqazu7803 😂😂😂😂andahleka ☠️😂😂😂
After Lebo there’s Lucas! Sana what’s happening with our community 😭✋🏽
😂😂😂 They're siblings 🤣
You can ask that again devil is attacking us in this community 😢
I’m not sure who’s worse 😅
Yeyyy mtase the fireball keeps rolling yezwan 🤣🤣🤣
I was gonna ask who is writing these scripts
The fact that all of this happened within a few weeks is crazy 😭😭😭✋🏽✋🏽💀
@@melaluxe8195 two weeks cabanga🤣🤣🤣
😂😂 which means both parties mmm no one is perfect
The red flags were there 😂😂
That guy did pure witchcraft on him, it makes no sense for such a well structured person to get scammed like this ,life is spiritual
@@lynettepillay7189 truely
True
Yes definitely muti involved.
😂😂😂ayyy life Kee drama l 98 percent believe him something similar happened to someone l know ,wadliwa muntu phansi phezulu
As I introspect....inkosi yam
What a narrator! I can listen to this guy all day! Can he be my friend pls!
@@berybery5821 Same here,I like the sequence of events. This is gonna help him to see where he went wrong.
😂😂😂
@ladyb5843 😂😂😂
I also wouldn't mind to be Lucas's friend 😂
😂😂😂
I like how Lungelo just listens and ask those small questions here and there. Bayagowa labantu yerrrrr!😭
I know that this is serious, but hey, this is so funny. The guy didn't ignore red flags, he ignored big banners on the street corners.
😂 literally LOL tjo you killing me bra 😂😂😂
It's like that banner they use with a helicopter 😢😂😂
@@overstandself9954 I don't know what it is, umjolo is supposed to be relatively easy, because you just check on their socials and see what you are dealing with.
But no, people are still missing red banners.
😂😂😂😂😂bona,
😂😂😂😂
Mara naye he was so desperate for marriage he ignored so many red flags 😔💔😭
@@NosiphoL__ true, that desperation. He wanted to be married by 30 that's why he overlooked everything.
It's not desperation but its the vision/ dream / goals we have for our lives. Something you probably thought of as a child. It's hard to let go of these thing many many women get married even when they see ukuthi the relationship is abusive or whatever just to get the title of "Married Woman or Makoti"
@@overstandself9954 I say desperate cos when you're desperate you eat anything. And you're right it's because of that vision and as we grow we need to alter out vision based on the things that we're confronted with, living in the past affects the future.
@@NosiphoL__ it’s always the case , there’s always signs
He was feeling the void by nyalaring the dude .. childhood truama
If I find a partner like Lucas I will treat him well. 🙏🏿
The sprinkle of Xhosa here and there? I love it mntase🤣🤣🤣
Lucas is authentic and he has a pure heart.
Amazing storyteller ❤
❤
Patiently waiting for Mogale or Somizi to come tell us about their story on this podcast
Am sho they signed that they won’t tell
Choimi took red flags & made a red carpet neh 😂😂😂😂😂.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 by
The redest carpet known to man 😂😂😂
😭😭😭Nooooooooooooooooooooooo
Hey... iyhooo😂
Louder!!!!😂😂😂😂
"Because I talk a lot, I am the perpetrator, because he is more reserved, he is the victim. So my personality was used against me!" - THIS was felt, i can relate to this Lucas. Wishing you well for the future dali. Good Karma will find you xox
I relate to your story, but the best thing is that all those criminals came back to me for forgiveness, and I don't give people second chances.
The partner healing from STIs on the wedding day is sending me🤣🤣🤣😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂 yey!
Honeymoon with condoms
Girl that’s wild 😂😂😂
🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂 am laughing my lungs out in the office 😅😅
He's an Opportunist, Narcissist and Manipulative boy 💔 I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. Love and Light to you Lucas ❤
Lucas is broken
😂😂😂
@@HumbulaniThabelokakhulu 😮
So you married him without knowing where he stays? Le phela se Bold and Beautiful 🤭
@@nthabee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣awa tlhe!!!
@@Asjay35 eish... It sad
Tata amachance
😂😂😂
Wena! Quick fast in a hurry I tell you!!
You know the more and I listen to some of these podcasts I realise my life is actually boring. Cuz like wow just listening to Lucus speak is just a movie experience 😂
@@blackorkid4285 same 😂😂
who marries someone in 4weeks kkkkk
our lives are boring shame kkkkkk what are pple doing out there
Please bring him back in a year's time to know his progress
What year,a few months...😁😁😁 he's in a relationship again & wants marraigement again😂😂😂😂😂😂Dead😂😂😂😂
Yah good idea
Lucas and Lebo are "Mgowo ambassadors " , let's put them together in one podcast, i wanna see something ..
😂😂😂😂😂
Same wazup grp😅😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are messy!!!!
You ain't right😭
The way mjolo made him speak 15 languages in 1 episode, very demure, very cutey so mindful😅😅😅😂😂😂 see how guys are dealing with each other ,iyoh
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I was also thinking about his language changes
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This guy is a fantastic story teller yho
Some people are living like they are in the movies yazi 🙆
its a movie mntase, ndiyakuxela. THIXO!!!
@@keneiloemyoli 🤣🤣 Nnete
😂🤞
it's a 90 day show
Or myb they think dyr in moja love always making things up..
This guy i like how he speaks Xhosa as a boy from Limpopo. He is talented
When I thought I have seen it all with Lebo and Letoya now BOOOOOOM. Two weeks drama🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 imihlolo le🤦🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hay me too... Keng ka same gende marige guys its not working hleng, just be in a relationship not deeeeeeper😢
Mihlolo hlolo😂😂😂😂😂 his character is giving Lebo mani😅
Hahaha I was about to ask , all of this in 1 month 13 days???? Yoh if this is true k'yanyewa!
Imagine all this drama for a person you’ve known for two weeks😂😂😂😂
LUCAS THE SIGNS WERE THERE😭
Literally
It was 100 red big flags😂😂😂😂
Plenty
Yhooooo u Lucas😢
Adding translation subtitles will elevate your podcast
This should be a Venting Podcast 😀
I subscribed after Lebo's podcast and introduced my husband now he is the one updating about other stories
😊beautiful
Kumnandi kwakho 😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂me too😂😂😂
Lucas you will heal dear, it’s okay to be alone, never again be desperate for a stable relationship, it will come at the right time. Wishing you joy and peace in your journey
The L in 🏳️🌈 stands for Lebo and Lucas 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 wa ntshegisa
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣nje!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No u ddnt 😂😂😂
😂😂🤭
That person was capable of killing you in that hotel room.
@@nthabelenglepota5924 I was thinking the same thing. 😹
The more he talks the more i am like ha ha 😭 you aren’t innocent in all this cutie
“…Noo babe, I think I was hungry” Nka loma Sandton.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@kabeloseiphalo3270 😅😅😅😅 nam
😂😂
😂😂😂 Oh wow😂🤣meno a ka fela
What a beautiful explanation of his childhood 🫂
Everything moved so fast😭😭
2 week and we're already speaking about marriage?
Hectic!
Uphila isi90 days fiancée uLucas😂
@@sengieshabalala2947
Yoh wena!🤣 Uy'thandile la show uboy😭
How he switches from English to IsiXhosa, then Sepedi is pretty Fascinating.
Also, his IsiXhosa is clean for motho o a goletšeng ko Limpopo
I picked that up as well. I even felt he was more fluent in isiXhosa than he is in Sepedi.
@@Nakedi_Ruth that was interesting... Also have you noticed how generally Xhosa people are interested in other languages... Just maybe he got inspired
@@seimela true. Also, I must admit IsiXhosa is such an attractive languge.
Lungelo stop cutting these people, we don't mind 2 or 3 hours🤣 we are here for it🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right! 😂😂
😂😂
Exactly 🤣
😀😀😀😀😀
To be honest, he sounds like a good guy that was genuinely in love, it’s so sad it was not reciprocated. Love and light❤️
I'm going to listen to this one everyday for the whole month shem🤞🤣
Yep. Im giving Latoya's ex wife a break😂.
You are😂😂😂😂
Lucas just write a book once 😊,you are a true story teller
So there are really gays that are kind and loving like my man, Lucas you are one of the gay guys people need I pray you find a good guy who matches your energy.
Lucas is multilingual. I like it.
I love Lucas … 😂😂😂😂he is full of life … God bless him
What a great storyteller 😂 I'm sorry for all the heartache and trauma 💔 You're such a great person you will recover and get to love again.❤
I love how the host allows the guest to speak without interruption ❤... Sgaxa sana mjolo😢😢
30 minutes in🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ how I’m I spending my lunch hour this shocked!
So kind. The whole team appreciates this as it will help us to grow further ❤
@@EngineerYLShow you welcome 🙏🏽 awesome interview yet again ❤️
Thanks so much ❤ 🙏
Best interview I've watched in my entire life, i thought Lebo was the Queen of umgowo this guy takes the cup 😂😂😂😂 i like how he narrates his story. The host should let people to use their native language, and stop dictating and just write subtitles .
I don't know how I landed here, but I found myself hooked 🎣for over an hour and enjoying Lucas😂😂. He's a great narrator, deserves an oscar🏆
Me too😅😅😅😅
You can never give an advice to anyone who’s in love. You become an enemy number 1.
Lucas is not a victim.He was drunk in love.
I agree
I hear you. However he must take responsibility for his bad judgement. That must change otherwise he will make the same mistakes.
So he is or was a victim of love huh ,sizofa yezwa
The biggest problem is when you tell yourself you are smarter than others then life will show you flames…. Stay humble before life humbles you
They shocked his smartness with supreme smartness 😂😂😂😂
“And to me it makes sense”😂😭chommie it does not make sense!!
@@Thandolwethu_216 at all 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
@@Thandolwethu_216 it definitely doesn’t make sense😭😭😭😭
It makes sense to nobody 😢
I love him when he explain in Xhosa iphixipixi likanondindwa😂😂
😂😂
Ndifuna ukubalapha mna 😂
Yhooo I just realised that I was one of the 90% who have not yet subscribed. I just did
🎉🎉
Yoh the intro. I couldn't hold in my laughter and I was in the office
@@tibuCooks dawg, 😂🤣😂🤣. I kept rewinding it.
Im in the office too... A CV on the date.
Referencing 90 day Fiancè when you are not on 90 day Fiancé is crazy work 😭
@@zoeindongo2888 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Like! That time he has 4 weeks
and I think HE MEANT MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT 🤣
Oh wow, Lucas is real
No Filter.. Told his story as is 😂.... I was so hooked from start to end 🎉
I met a guy a few months ago we talked a lot over the phone. I liked him when he started asking for airtime and R100 petrol for his GTI. I ran for the hills and never looked back 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never talk a lot over the phone. That's how you develop unnecessary feelings😂. I'm glad you ran for the hills🤣
Baleka baleka
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I would so do the same!!!!
Smart!
I like how he switched between xhosa and sepedi all in one sentence sana?😂😂😂😂😂😂. Guys please let's give Lungelo his flowers 💐 ❤.
I immediately followed you the moment you considered the fact that you have an audience like us in terms of the language. Thanks 👍
I love his honesty he must come back for that sgubu story 😂
lol...i agree bizo
I agree I want to know what he went through. And how he made it out on the other side 😅
Please 😂
Who knew a pamphlet would get you married 😂😂😂😂
😂😂not even roses and a box of chocolate
😂😂😂😂😂
Downloading Canva ngoku sana 😂😂😂😂😂
It's easy to win people out there 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Lucas is a good storyteller🙌🏻🙌🏻
Mjolo drippled a whole forensic investigator 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️who am I
Yeeeeey😂😂😂
😂😂😹😹😹😹with my grade C certificate.. who am I honestly?😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂yerr
Thank you for insisting on the English...not all your viewers are South Africans. Much Appreciated.
What are subtitles for?.... I personally hate English it is a language of a oppressor... We must not use it to become a mini version of white people...
True
I myself am South African and struggle with understanding our other languages. I definitely understand ♥️
@@siyasanga_makie angibafuni abantu abafana nawe... Ngamanye amazwi uphilela ukuba "umlungu omncane"....
@@vusidlamini6275 you’re unnecessarily rude. I’m Xhosa and exclusively grew up in Eastern Cape. I was never exposed to and don’t understand languages primarily spoken in Gauteng + Limpopo and that’s ok. Subakrwada 🙄 This has nothing to do with trying to be “white” 🙄 grow up and stop making assumptions on the internet about people you don’t know. Voetsek Vusi.
I struggled to comprehend the sad story until Lucas mentioned about Muthi, this life is so sad.
This country mara, we can't even keep up with this drama anymore. Every day, there is something to shock us. We even forgot what was trending 2 weeks ago 😮
Kuningi😂
Yho, yho, yho. ULucas uyatshata kwakhona ke sana emva kwenyanga ezintathu.
Let’s get married first is wild 😂
God may you please redirect his steps and heal him for the things he went through ❤️🙌
Although this is a tragic experience, it is very funny.
🙆🏾♀️The Xhosa in me is screaming, not access to the bank account chile😮. Winnie didn't die for this 😭😭
Angaz sengislalele kangakie lestorry 🙆🏽♀️yooh
Lungelo is the certified King of "hmmmmmm hmmmmm"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
With his socks😂
@@ladybee1909 😂😂😂He is traumatized.
😂😂Shame he sounds so frustrated
😂He’s the greatest host. He speaks less. I love the fact that he speaks for less than 10 minutes and the guests start spilling beans.
Not the guy saying he wants somoene to sing for him when his having a rough day 😂😂
That sentence killed me, and he is serious about it 🤣🤣
Listen, even Lungelo couldn't hold it in🤣🤣🤣He finished me when he said that🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅😅
@@khethiwendlovu4940 my wishes😫🤣🤣🤣
😅😂😂😂 I was here for that
I love this guy :my boyfriend lies with confidence 😂😂😂😂
The amount of red flags here were scary
I stopped after the Tembisa shack part and him asking for money claiming he was robbed. I can't ! I'm sorry Lucas, you look so vibrant and full of life and definitely deserved better. May the life you want locate you, God willing ❤
The ending to this interview was a plot twist I wasn't expecting 😂😂😂😂. Love it for him shem!😂