If You’re Moving On From Someone You Never Dated | Isn't That Poetic, Ep. 01
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"Sometimes we hold onto closure as if it were something someone else can give us. When in reality, closure is something we can give ourselves. Because we can love ourselves. We can show up for ourselves. We can forgive ourselves. And if we are constantly waiting for someone to do that, we are actually waiting for them to heal us. We are actually putting our healing in their hands. We are saying, I cannot heal until you give me that healing element, that missing puzzle piece. But you can give it to yourself." - Bianca Sparacino
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Isn’t That Poetic is a podcast hosted by writers Bianca Sparacino, Brianna Wiest & Jacqueline Whitney. Together, they explore the most important questions about life - navigating everything from finding your purpose to managing your emotions about ending your 'almost' relationship.
Ep. 01 - Almost Relationships
Ep. 02 - Life Lessons
Ep. 03 - Friendships
Ep. 04 - Purpose
Ep. 05 - Healing - บันเทิง
I don't know if I will ever recover from this kind of eternal battle, but I greatly appreciate the opportunity to listen in on this conversation for my personal growth and development as the person I hope to be someday. I hope to be able to let someone in again. For now I have to focus on my purpose. Thank you - YT coworker xxdeadxsavage
It really sucks and is heartbroken 💔 when coming into realisation that my almost relationship ends. I know that I deserve the best and so does he. He’s nice and treats me well but he also has a lot in his place right now, both dreams and emotionally need to heal from his past. It’s so ironic that even when you are upset, you still worried about him. We are both empathetic and it makes this decision to give each other time extra harder. I don’t know how long does it take for us to overcome this. I know it’s hard for him too 😢
. . . I don't know, this was probably universe sent,
but I've cried from the very beginning to the end,
and this video was EVERYTHING,
and I feel so... light right now. Serenity.
... And I just can't thank you enough.
This was very helpful, and you all are very special. Thank you.
thank you
your voices are so soothing btw omg
thank you again
Thanks for listening and sharing 🤗 We love hearing from our subscribers! Feel free to check out more episodes of Isn't That Poetic & let us know what you’d like to hear about in future episodes. 💓
Your words "holding someone's heart" made me wonder if there is some sort of implied contract between hearts when one person invokes feelings in the other that then lead to hopes and expectations, and that other consents to having their feelings tugged around. Is there a moral obligation to protect another's feelings if you caused those directly or indirectly. Leaving them abandoned and hanging to own the resulting cognitive and emotional crisis is an awful thing to do.
But, in the Machiavellian world of dating ...
thank you so much stay safe God Bless
Going through a heartache right now. Thanks
We are so honored to be a part of your beautiful healing journey 🌻☀️ Keep going, we are here for you 💛
@@thoughtcatalog Thank you! 💖💕
@@AromieWorship How are you feeling now?
@@ankitabhaumik8611 I can’t even remember who I wrote this about but I’m going through another heartache atm…guess these things happen before we meet the right one. Thanks so much for asking 💖
Been on both sides of the almost relationships, not a good feeling on either side 😔
Feeling this now how do you move on when she chose someone else
@@jasonhughes305 you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t choose to be with you…trust me it’s a blessing that they walked away. Focus on you and your healing now 🙏
@@meghanmai7965 thank you❤️ she chosen a college friend of mine we haven't all spoken since May. I accidentally seen photos of them online recently and that hurt me allot. Even tho they have rights. Feelings don't agree tho. It's tuff these days now even after after 6 months
@@jasonhughes305 yeah I understand your pain and yes feel your emotions. Also try to avoid looking at your ex’s social media, it may hinder your healing process.
I recently walked away from someone (on the “bad” other side of the almost relationship, so to speak) and oh boy that wasn’t easy either. But it’s the right thing to do especially when I can’t give the person what he truly deserves. I hope this helps you move forward.
@@meghanmai7965 she never became my ex she only became and allmost. We were friends for 4 years last 2 we were close friends but sadly that's how far we could stretch as she didn't have the feelings for me that she does for the college friend who I use to hang out. I'm like they went on to be happy while I struggle and I never once contacted them being friends again would only hurt my feelings more.. Its hard and sad to move on with out know how to close this feelings of this chapter. How you do it?
Havnt figured out how too,instead I live with the rejection daily,platonic no even friends roommate, I'm not going to say how I feel or hard it is,I know I have to end this pain,yet I still find myself putting his feelings before mine,I don't want to hurt him,disappoint or ask him to leave,Yet the writing is on the wall,I don't think he even likes me,secretly hates me.how can I?