Avoid her at all costs. Move on. I learned that the hard way. You told her how you felt, she is not interested. Girls have the right to reject, guys have the right to to not want a friendship or whatever. If you act like no big deal and still hang around with her, you will think you still have a chance and you will get hurt when you see her with our guys. Move on with your life
Agreed, the best thing you can do is move on. I think where some people run into issues is when it's someone they may run into again like a classmate, friend of a friend, etc. In those cases, it might be hard to figure out how to interact with them, so hopefully, this video can give people some direction for what to do.
Homecoming is in a week and I’m contemplating on if I should ask a girl to homecoming or not since she’s the one I got rejected by in 7th grade and she’s way more popular than me. We’ve talked a few times before but it was all just for things like school projects and stuff. I’m not even scared of rejection, I just don’t wanna deal with her friends or other popular kids constantly picking on me over it cause it’s annoying af.
Hey josh It's kind of a difficult situation with me the girl I like recently got a boyfriend dated him for 5 months now I've been talking to her since November last year but every time I've talked to her she's been nice and seems like she's happy to see me and talk to me but she's not that transparent I remember getting her number and she hasn't responded not but one text. How was she would have been honest to me . I wish she would have told me she wasn't into me and I could walk away. But I feel like she was playing with me. There could be reasons why she's not being honest but should I keep talking to her when I go back to school or just Not interact with her even if she does say something?
It takes two people to "play you" Her and you… You don't have any control over her (nor would you want to I imagine) but you have control over yourself IF you dare to claim it back If you want something more than a friendship with someone And they don't want it with you then move on cause it ain't gonna happen If you move on and they always did, in fact want a relationship with you, they would soon get back in touch AND be much more honest/truthful I hope this helps
Hey Josh so recently my girlfriend and I broke up because I felt that the compatibility wasn't there and yet she still tells me that she still loves me and stuff like that and sometimes when she calls me I don't pick up the phone because I don't want to let my feelings get in the way and then she says I can't believe we're broken up she calls me and text me everyday and I want to move on from her but I still see her when we go bowling what should I tell her Josh because it's really bothering me?
I’m not Josh but I believe how you said it on here is what you should say and if she keeps coming to you it’s time to make decisions of protecting your peace
She loves you but is not in love with you. She still interacts with you or tries to interact with you because you still offer some value of comfort or benefit to her life in some way. If you didn’t add value to her life in any way, I doubt she would reach out to you as much as you say she does. You guys broke up. That means she doesn’t get to keep reaping the benefits that a relationship would give. She isn’t entitled to your time, attention, or anything from you. Her as a priority is only as high as you allow it to be. When you go bowling, you’re there to bowl and cultivate the friendships you have with others. Her being there as well should have no bearing on how your night goes.
Watching that just in-case
Avoid her at all costs. Move on. I learned that the hard way. You told her how you felt, she is not interested. Girls have the right to reject, guys have the right to to not want a friendship or whatever. If you act like no big deal and still hang around with her, you will think you still have a chance and you will get hurt when you see her with our guys. Move on with your life
Agreed, the best thing you can do is move on. I think where some people run into issues is when it's someone they may run into again like a classmate, friend of a friend, etc. In those cases, it might be hard to figure out how to interact with them, so hopefully, this video can give people some direction for what to do.
Homecoming is in a week and I’m contemplating on if I should ask a girl to homecoming or not since she’s the one I got rejected by in 7th grade and she’s way more popular than me. We’ve talked a few times before but it was all just for things like school projects and stuff. I’m not even scared of rejection, I just don’t wanna deal with her friends or other popular kids constantly picking on me over it cause it’s annoying af.
I just got rejected by my crush she was my best friend and she said we should stay friends I just feel hurt but I understand it
This is great!
A L L great advice👍
Hey josh It's kind of a difficult situation with me the girl I like recently got a boyfriend dated him for 5 months now I've been talking to her since November last year but every time I've talked to her she's been nice and seems like she's happy to see me and talk to me but she's not that transparent I remember getting her number and she hasn't responded not but one text. How was she would have been honest to me . I wish she would have told me she wasn't into me and I could walk away. But I feel like she was playing with me. There could be reasons why she's not being honest but should I keep talking to her when I go back to school or just Not interact with her even if she does say something?
It takes two people to "play you"
Her and you…
You don't have any control over her (nor would you want to I imagine) but you have control over yourself IF you dare to claim it back
If you want something more than a friendship with someone And they don't want it with you then move on cause it ain't gonna happen
If you move on and they always did, in fact want a relationship with you, they would soon get back in touch AND be much more honest/truthful
I hope this helps
DO NOT CALL ME PLEYA WTF
I've been calling people playa for like 11 years now, I ain't stopping now!
Hey Josh so recently my girlfriend and I broke up because I felt that the compatibility wasn't there and yet she still tells me that she still loves me and stuff like that and sometimes when she calls me I don't pick up the phone because I don't want to let my feelings get in the way and then she says I can't believe we're broken up she calls me and text me everyday and I want to move on from her but I still see her when we go bowling what should I tell her Josh because it's really bothering me?
I’m not Josh but I believe how you said it on here is what you should say and if she keeps coming to you it’s time to make decisions of protecting your peace
She loves you but is not in love with you. She still interacts with you or tries to interact with you because you still offer some value of comfort or benefit to her life in some way. If you didn’t add value to her life in any way, I doubt she would reach out to you as much as you say she does. You guys broke up. That means she doesn’t get to keep reaping the benefits that a relationship would give. She isn’t entitled to your time, attention, or anything from you. Her as a priority is only as high as you allow it to be. When you go bowling, you’re there to bowl and cultivate the friendships you have with others. Her being there as well should have no bearing on how your night goes.
Introduced her to
a new girlfriend ASAP
Hope this helps
Josh you look sick you good?! Also you have a kid???
Hey im good, I'm just coming off of bad allergy season in this video and yep, I have a kid!