MY MOM DIDN'T BELIEVE ME | The Steve Wilkos Show
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- When Laine told her mother, Kristy, that her ex-boyfriend abused her at the age of 10, she was called a liar.
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She's not sorry. She's playing the victim while blaming the actual victim. What an awful mother
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Right but she isn’t a mother.
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Why is it mostly among black communities they make kids at age 15/16 and mostly don’t know who’s the bio dad. In this case too the daughter’s dad was not there when she was being molested even now she says having a son at age 16, where’s the sons dad who shld be standing with her to give support but no where around. She’s 23 now and most of the time all ladies R seen alone on the stage which proves from young age they sleep with multiple guys and kids born out of wedlock R either raised by being abused or end up in foster homes bcz no male figure around them .
@@ygpwnxd_xd752 Why are you saying all ladies though 😂? A lot of ladies I know including myself had her mom and dad in the house hold married and all. I’m married with children and hubby is in the house hold. White people go through the same thing so stop calling out black women. I’m not black or white but I’m just saying we’re all one race and that’s the human race. You have a problem!!
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Unfortunately she's going to have to disown her mother completely.
I agree, not only will that so called mother would be disowned, but she also deserves to face disgrace.
Yeah. That poor girl will have to distance herself from that terrible mother and find peace in knowing that she can be a better mother to her own son.
Absolutely
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Horrible mother. All she can do is make excuses to make her look ‘better’ - pitiful
I’m so tired of seeing women pick romantic relationships over their children…you don’t want to protect/prioritize them, then don’t have them.
In Spanish we say no sea mas mujer que madre meaning dont be more of a woman than you are a mother
100%!!!!! There are people who CAN’T have children and would make great parents and then there are those who are not only bad parents but shouldn’t even be AROUND kids!!!!
@@gretatagliavia4228 agreed. I’m one of them. That’s why it makes me so mad.
She is beautiful! Her mother is probably jealous of her and blamed her daughter for what the men did instead of the predators. (There are women like that unfortunately.) You have to cut toxic people out of your life, even family. Even after proving she was telling the truth, that woman acted crappy. She does not seem very motherly at all.
Exactly wtf
It's very embarrassing as a parent to believe a proven predator over your own child. I don't have a daughter, but if she came to me in confidence that some guy assaulted her the cops would have to stop me from tearing that person to pieces
I would do the same as a child-less person. You don't believe some partner over your own child, never💔
Same here. Odd how childless people seem more protective than actual parents 🙃
My mom believed her drug addict alcoholic husband over both her daughters, not all parents are good ones
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Before coming on the show, how many parents have appeared on the show where they dismissed their children first, and disgrace themselves later?
These so called parents do deserve to face disgrace.
It was so disgusting when she said I’m not obligated to do anything for her and her child . I literally gasped
Me too. My daughter is 24 and a mother. I would still stop the world to protect them both. She shouldn't be allowed to call herself a mother.
I mean she ain’t obligated cuz the daughter is grown and the child is hers even tho she is the grandmom but it just sounds harsh how she said it
The so-called mother is completely selfish, she refuses to say sorry and deal with being in the wrong.
She deserves to be disowned.
@@tashray633Yeah, me too. It's mindblowing & heartbreaking. All I wanted to do is jump thru the screen & hug her 😔
She said say just before "she tried to come and move back in with me" then said she is not obliged to do anything yet she still does. I think she was right to say no why would the daughter even want to live with her when they clear butt heads all the time.
That mom is so pitiful. She’s a failure of a parent and I’m not sure she’s in the headspace to even understand or comprehend why.
Things are going to end badly for the so-called which is all on her. If she wants to blame her ex-boyfriend for the damages, she can go for it, but she has herself to blame too.
She’s narcissistic
@@CharlesCurtisIII No, she is selfish. Americans are so saturated with psychological terms, they throw them around like sweets. Being a narcissist is a very serious condition, that can be diagnosed. Not everyone who has a character flaw is a narcissist or narcissistic. This word is nowadays used it [wrongly] instead of 'nasty, selfish, uncaring, dumb, self centred etc'. The girl said she was an ok mother, she just didn't believe her [that's not what people say about narcissists]. That's a shitty person who needs to learn. Every human can have certain bad traits without having a serious mental deficit. Which narcissism is.
Agreed. She doesn't have the capacity.
@@ahumanlewis4793yep, she couldn't have
“She has put me through a lot more stuff” “why didn’t you say anything” this is literally one of the WORST mothers I’ve seen so far. She seems soooo unapologetic and so self centered. Steve should’ve been way harder on her imo because she pissed me off so bad. It’s a little frustrating how he gets riled up when it comes to men neglecting and abusing their kids but not keeping the same energy with women who do it too.
I feel the same way, Steve should have been angry with her. I,m mad at Steve for that.
It's probably because he's a man and he doesn't really understand or can convey what a mother and woman needs to hear. This lady most definitely deserved to be picked apart and called out much more.
If I was on the show and given a chance to say something about that the so-called mother, I would call her out.
the first thing she should’ve did was apologize and instead she made more excuses. horrible.
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The mother has to live with disgrace forever.
Any parent that calls their own child a "liar" should not even deserve to be called a parent themselves! Your child ALWAYS comes first no matter what! What a cowardly narcissistic mother she is! The fact that, even after her daughter passed her test and cleared her name, she still gaslighted and victim-blamed her daughter?! Hell nah! That mother has issues and definitely needs help. I would've cut off all contact from her.
The mother deserves to be shamed and disowned.
@@sd_justice_duty9564no, she don't
my kids would lie, but if they ever said anyone touched them I would not hesitate to trust what they said.
She is a mother but never will be. Too late…
@@stayinyourlanesugar you must speak from experience
She’s seems jealous of her daughter.. there’s no empathy towards her own child.
Exactly. But because she is a narcissist, she cannot feel empathy. She also will never stop gaslighting her daughter. The daughter needs to get some distance from her, because if she doesn't, she will never feel better. She also needs to put boundaries. Or maybe even go no contact.
Always, ALWAYS believe your babies!!!
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Ya damn right!
Always
A mother like this one who chooses a man over her own child , deserves the worst mother of the year award . My goodness she’s very hypocritical . She’s very annoying though .
The so called mother wanted to walk away since she refuses to deal being in the wrong. She better get ready because her image is now ruined. I have no regards for her. As for her daughter, I have sympathy for her.
She deserves to be charged for enabling a predator..
The way this witch switches from nice to calling her child a liar is absolutely terrifying 😳
That "mother" is a cold fish, selfish AF.
Man she’s an awful lady! I feel so bad for the daughter. She’s been traumatized for years over this when all she needed was a simple I believe you 😢
She looked at her daughter with disgust after she found out she passed and tried shaming her for her reaction. Then after finding out her daughter was in fact molested, criticized her for "not telling when you're suppose to" 🙄 She's not interested in being her mom. Her only interest is blaming and shaming her daughter into being her scapegoat. She lacks any and all empathy and it's disgusting. I hope her daughter learns about trauma bonds and codependency and the ins and outs of narcissistic abuse and how to truly heal from what her mother put her through her entire life 💔♥️
Some people make the a poor choice to go against an innocent person and defend the guilty person. Despite the truth, they are neither sorry nor remorseful. However, they would care when they face the consequences and experience the pain that an innocent person went through.
@@sd_justice_duty9564even then they would still sadly only care for themselves and the shame brought upon them. They have zero conscience empathy or remorse
For these kinds of people who are not sorry, it’s best that we show little to no regards to them.
Now that’s what you call an horrible mother no emotion at all
She was very hypocritical, too .
@@underscore55 exactly it was giving narcissistic vibes
“She never made me feel like I was safe.” Heartbreaking.
Her mother was toxic and abusive then & she’s toxic and abusive now. Not only did she choose a man over her daughter, but it sounds like she was very jealous of her daughter.. which i always find disturbing. The amount of trauma & various forms of abuse this young lady endured is very heartbreaking. I understand some want to make amends and at the end of the day they just want that love they didn’t have growing up, so they choose to still have a relationship in any way they can, even if it’s from a distance. But I will never understand why someone would want to continue a relationship of any kind with someone so horrible, especially their parent(s) & especially if that same abuse & toxicity is still going on & no accountability has been taken. Everything that came out of her mother’s mouth was cringing. The denial/delusion & gaslighting.. The way she tried to make it all about her & make herself the victim. The fact she walked off like a coward & continued to blame her, make it her fault. That apology & hug were both fake AF!!! Not genuine at all.. it seems she just wanted it to be over. She couldn’t even listen because she was so defensive. Everything her daughter & Steve said (especially after the results), went in one ear and out the other.. barely that. Smh.
I have seen stories where some people are dismissive at first and even with the truth, they are neither sorry nor remorseful.
They only care when things end badly for them.
They don’t deserve sympathy, they deserve to be shamed.
Unfortunately, just because they're narcissistic, and abusive - doesn't make us love them any less, as their children.
It means we don't love ourselves, but still have an instinctive need for their love.
It's awful.
This woman is a carbon copy of my mother.
Who incidentally, I've not had a relationship with, in 18 years.
The first decade broke me.
It was so hard to live without her.
She meant everything to me.
But my own children, came first.
I'm 45 & I've only recently found peace with it all.
But at least I got there.
I hope this lady does too.
I honestly wish her all the best.
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@@martijackson2749It's very similar to my mother, too. She didn't believe me when my father molested me. 8 yrs ago, I finally cut all contact. I can't lie, it hurts not having a mom in my life, but I quickly realized it hurts me way less to have her out of my life than it did having her in my life. My mental health has drastically improved & I don't regret it one bit. Glad to hear ur doing better too, btw! ❤
Such a sad life for a child to grow up with an empathy lacking narcissistic parent. You spend your entire life being shamed blamed neglected and abused 💔
Anyone who dismisses an innocent person for nothing, deserves to face disgrace. That so-called mother is the person who deserves to face disgrace.
She should have taken a test. She's mean and feels she can treat her daughter anyway she wants. Yes, she's my property
This lady pissed me off. She knows she’s wrong ! It doesn’t matter how long your daughter took to tell you ! You obviously just don’t care !
I would want to go up to the so called mother to teach her a lesson.
5:08 "You never protected me" you can hear the pain of her inner child..
I was raped at 16, I never told anyone, admitted it to my father when I was 48, still suffering from severe PTSD, that mum knows crap, as soon as she was told what happened she should've believed her & support her
I've said it many many times...
Not everyone should be a parent.
I thank God everyday for my mom. We had 57 years together, not enough.
Rest in Peace mom. I miss you every hour of every day. December 21, 2021 was the worst day of my life. Covid took you away from us. Thank you for being the best mom ever.
Until we meet again 🙏
This broke my heart. She just wants a mom who loves her. I would totally adopt this sweet young lady. ❤ You are welcome to our family.
That mother IS a monster . She hates herself and her daughter , just sad
“I want you to be my mother” my heart aches for that poor girl.
Even after the test results still saying “why didn’t you tell me?!” Because you were an abuser! It’s actually unfortunate that some people’s lack of social integration and experience or intelligence limits them from understanding their faults. The mom is so far gone she don’t understand how bad she messed up.
There’s no hope for this relationship. She needs to let go of her mother and mourn so she can heal and move on. Poor kid I wish the best for her
I agree with you on that. The daughter needs to let go of her mother, and hold on to her relationship with her. As for the ex-boyfriend, he deserves to go to prison and suffer. Last of all, the so-called mother can go face disgrace.
That message at the end about "needing to let go bc she can't do that for you anymore" was so healing when applied in other ways. If you had places that were lacking for you as a child, it just may be time to be that parent to yourself that you always needed.
Telling your kids they can come to you and prove that your kids can come to you are absolutely different!!
This segment...is a direct reflection of my own journey...the trauma...never fades...but, we (victims) can overcome and progress in life...Never give up...
The fact that she thinks that not giving up her children as a young mom automatically makes her a good mother is weird. She was mean and abusive to her children and failed them in the worst way possible.
She went though this and is still very well spoken and didnt turn to substances to hide from the pain shes been dealing with. Shes brave for that and I'm proud of her.
Sickening! To tell your child he was mistaken. Her mom will never believe her.
She should get away from her Mother at all costs. It will save her a lifetime of pain
For some people who refuse to say sorry and deal with being the wrong, deserve to face the consequences, including disgrace.
The fact that she was wearing her daughters pants and when her daughter informed her that she had them on wrong and her responds was to abuse her and also the mothers energy towards her daughter after finding out she was telling the truth shows she is jealous of her daughter
Yes,I agree.
i feel for this girl my mother didn't believe me about her boyfriend either. She stayed with him and wonders why I don't want a relationship with her My mother is still to this day with my abuser. She knew what that man did to me and my sister and blamed us for it. i just want to give that girl a hug. the trauma that comes with this is kind of betrayal will never go away!!
That poor girl. I hope she finds another mother figure who will give her the love her mother never could.
I know who these people are personally. Once I saw the few seconds of this video my heart dropped. I've been around these people when I was in school and it crazy to see someone you've been around on this show. All I can say is that I'm happy that Laine came out and told her truth.
When I told my mom I was molested (which was within recent years), I'm 25 now, and that happened when I was 8yrs old. Especially who did it, she hugged me and told me her experience then we trauma bonded. The point is that she believed me. The only reason a child fails to say anything is, 1. They are a kid, they couldn't possibly understand what that means or how to articulate it. 2. They are scared. They could've been threatened into silence. "If you tell anyone, I'll kill you and your family." The point is that no matter what, you believe your child, and you look into it. Kids need to know that they are safe and that no matter what, the parent has their back. That's the only way a child will feel comfortable coming to you. If you give any reason to your child that you won't believe them or if they already feel uncomfortable coming to you about anything, then they won't tell you. So just because she didn't say anything doesn't mean it didn't happen or that she's lying. You're just an abusive mother who picks abusive men over her children.
This mother is a disgusting narcissist. Pure evil. She does not deserve to be a parent. I hope her beautiful daughter can finally start healing from everything she’s been through 😢❤
she's one of the worst mothers someone can have! if you have a good mother be grateful and be loving to them because you could've ended up having a mother like this one! so grateful for my mother!❤
You can see how happy she was to just tell her story and be heard, my heart is breaking for her 😢
The fact that the mother was trying to make herself the victim is disgusting. That is not a mother, that's a narcissistic mentally abusive piece of sh!t who only cares about themselves. I really hope the daughter finds peace 🙏🏼
I see myself and my own situation in her. I went to my dad about it, crying, and he took me to the cops. My mom withheld with evidence to protect him. Still with him today. The mother refuses accountability and complicity. I just want to give that girl a hug.
What a terrible mother 👎🏾
People need to learn how to let go of toxic people from their life. Lose all communication and not allowed to come anywhere near you.
This is so sad for the daughter. Praying that God lifts her in his arms and heals her from all the pain she's suffering.
It doesn't matter when someone comes out about abuse- especially sexual abuse. They feel like they did something wrong, feel embarrassed and ashamed. It's normal to wait years.
With parents choosing and covering up the accused instead of their children just makes me sick to my stomach and Steve Wilkos is still the best of telling nothing but the truth. Keep up the good work Steve!
Her daughter is standing there broken and in tears and the “mom” stands there cold and uncaring. I feel so bad for her, she just wants her mom.
That mom is absolutely disgusting!! Her poor daughter!! I hope she gets the help she needs to get past her trauma.
What a disgusting mother she is. Wow. Blaming her and saying “Well why didn’t you tell me when it happened” “You should’ve told me before” WHAT. She’s a sorry excuse of a mother. this was so sick. Some children don’t deserve the parents they have… how heartbreaking. Sad thing is, this mother will never change. She’s narcissistic and clearly has internal issues that she can’t properly admit her wrongs or BE A MOTHER. I wish Laine was my sister. I would show her so much love and I’d believe her… I would be there for her. 😢
For anyone who watches this show, Kristy (the mother) deserves to be shamed by everyone from her hometown. If Laine slapped her because of what she had done, I would be supportive. I would not defend Kristy.
My mother did this to me. Believed the MOLESTER over me and it wasn't a man she was involved with. It was her best friend's brother. I hope this beautiful woman finds her peace. I haven't...
I feel horrible for her I hope she finds peace and happiness
I would hate to have a mom like her she doesn’t even deserve that title . Idc how old my kids get imma always be there for them I’m always obligated to them.
People got to learn to leave people where they are. The mother obviously cares more about the optics of the situation than her daughter. Not to mention the abuse that she herself perpetuated against her daughter. The daughter deserves better and it's just too bad that some parents refuse to do better.
I'm sat screaming at my phone just hug and hold your child at the end!!!! Like wt hell!!! That poor baby was crying inside amd outside she just wanted you to hold her 😢🙏🏻❤️ I pray for you girl that you have the best of everything going forward ❤️
That is no mom, that is an egg donor. Don’t waste your love on her daughter, seriously. She didn’t care about you at all and still doesn’t
This is common in many families. as a blk woman i can attest to the abuse and molestations. Just sad.. break free and don't ever give up if you've ever encountered this kind of problem!
I just kept thinking give her a hug. She showed what a awful parent she is and nothing can change that😢
My mom stayed with her ex husband after him trying to rape me twice !!!!
Jeez! I'm so sorry for what you went through. If you mind me asking, how's it going today? Where's your mom? Did you get justice?
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The lack of everything from that mother really makes me want to reach out to Laine and see how she is! Poor girl only wanted to feel safe and she had that waste of breath torturing her 😔
“I want my mom” man I felt that. My mom died when I was 17 and I have NEVER said a sentence so much🥺😭
Body language tells it all 💯
Why is Steve so nice to this egg-donor?! Where’s the anger and where’s your famous catchphrase “GET OFF MY STAGE!” Bring Steve back to his season 1 self!
My daughter was a liar, but when she told me she'd been taken advantage of her, I never expressed my doubts. I simply asked her if she was sure and to relay the story to me. We called the cops.
I don't care if your kid is a troublemaker and liar. Believe them while your dig for the truth.
My heart broke for this young lady , may the lord Jesus Christ protect you 🙏 and heal you 🙏
I can relate to this my mom didn't believe me and social services got involved I was only 12 having to go through something so traumatic like that hurts😢 but it's still a buried memory in my mind I hate that alot. Im still healing from all that I have daughters of my own and I will believe them first if anybody would hurt them PERIOD‼️
It’s the fact she’s stammering at anything she says or stuttering 😢 just sad she couldn’t get that trust and support she needed all those yrs ago she just wanted her mom to be there and validate what she went through and how she felt
She believes u...she just don't care...and that's her defense is acting like she doesn't believe it
My heart hurts so much for her 💔😢 ...this has me sobbing right now, bc I know the extreme pain & anger she feels. My mother didn't believe me when I told her my own father molested me. I had just turned 13 & they weren't even together anymore 😔. I hope this beautiful woman gets the peace & healing she deserves!!
Some individuals don’t have the tools to be parents much less good ones.
The sooner a child learns this lesson the better.
I loved my mom very much but because of what she went through as a child her mental illness caused absolute hell to her children.
You can love your parents and absolutely hate their behavior/actions.
The mother knew you were abused!!! SHE JUST DIDN'T GIVE A S***!!!!!
Always believe your kids and listen to them!!!!
I feel so bad for that young lady. What a crappy "mom." My mother was molested as a child and gang raped as a teenager, got pregnant from that horrible situation and still kept my sister. Growing up hearing my mother crying and witnessing her going through so much (Now knowing it was PTSD) was so hard for my sister and i as children. The pain doesn't go away and my mom is 62 now and still suffers from her violation. Its hard because she refuses to get therapy, saying she doesn't want to reopen wounds but yet the pain is still as fresh as the day it happened to her. I have so much sympathy for people who have been violated, especially the ones who have no support.
As soon as the so-called "Mother" stepped on stage, I hated her. Blaming a CHILD for not telling you instantly, and then telling her she LIED about other times she was SA?? Despicable excuse for a parent, and I hope this young lady knows it wasn't her fault.
I get so sick of people saying, “I was young.” Own up and take accountability!
She’s a sorry person, selfish and she will reap what she sows. I don’t think she likes her daughter, she should move on
So here’s my thing, any parent that does not take action the first time their child tells them they were molested needs to be charged on some level with accessory to child abuse. I’m so sick of parents saying “you’re lying” and NEVER have to face any consequences after continuing to allow it to happen by not protecting your child.
she is a very immature and self centered woman. she’s not ever gonna grow up. she’s always going to be the victim in her eyes. shes a joke. my heart goes out to this young lady.
In previous episodes, some guests are proven wrong after they dismiss an innocent guest for nothing. Sadly, they are selfish since they refuse to say sorry and deal with what they have done. However, they care when things end badly for them, they are truly guilty.
I feel so bad for the daughter that her mom didn’t believe her own daughter
That woman is one of the worst "mothers" I've ever seen. She's not even trying to pretend to care.
steve can be very rude and I LOVE IT!!!!!!
Wow what Steve said at the end to the daughter hits so close to home
That mom is PITTIFUL.she don't wanna put her pride to the side
I felt Liane hurt through this video! Her mother doesn’t see she is one of the main problems. I hope her mother stop telling her she’s a liar because that’s so hurtful and traumatizing for a woman to not have her mother in her corner, especially when it’s something like molestation. I’m proud of Liane for saying her piece regardless who believed her or not; god bless her. I hope and pray she does get the help she needs to heal from her trauma 🙏🏾
As a survivor of child sexual abuse myself it makes my blood boil when people tell me to "get over it" it's NOT that easy. I'm 43 now it happened over 34 years ago and I'm still haunted by it. My heart goes out to that girl 😪😪
This isn't going to end well! You've been warned!
What that suppose to mean 😮
this is the prime example of just because you give birth, doesn’t always mean you’re a mother. i hope the best for this young lady & hope she finds the peace & comfort she’s searching for
This mom has so much pride and arrogance that she couldn't even hug her daughter. Shame on her. 🤦🏾♀️. I know, from personal experience, that her daughter will be a better mom to her son ❤.
The mother chose disgrace, and now she has to live with it.
Laine's mother is such a failure for a parent. Abusive parents don't deserve their children.
That lady is delusional 😢frfr. I feel sorry for her daughter. I’m praying for her strength & she prospers & move on to live a healthy life 🩷💔🩷
It's very disgusting how many parents are so full of Muninipulation. If i were her i wouldn't want anything to do with the mom
They're something wrong with your Mom, not with you. Take Your Power & Keep Moving Ahead Queen! ❤
You deserve the love you never received, I hope you can learn to live a full beautiful in spite of surviving such horrible traumas.
That mom pissed me the hell off💀
I want to teach her a lesson, and ask her what truly bothers her more.