10 THINGS I NO LONGER WEAR AS A PETITE AND CURVY WOMAN
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ค. 2024
- What's up, ladies. Since making these fashion video's I've gotten to known my body and style much better. So in this video, I'll show you some items that I no longer wear or buy as a short curvy girl. l hope you enjoy this video.
Scroll down for the links to the items shown in this video.
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ITEMS WORN IN VIDEO
The top I'm wearing rstyle.me/+pOTLyA85V2T5Cgzunv...
White midi dress rstyle.me/+i0kMkPDr0gR7JTGrtu...
White shirt amzn.to/3gwlUZL
Denim shorts (similar) rstyle.me/+YEkUT1aNyjwsoKR9IP...
Black slides rstyle.me/+XlIOhkCG2eR68SmOOf...
Leopard skirt rstyle.me/+pTMd_UNCkhdMWU1-NQ...
Green sorong rstyle.me/+Vsy6TB1nAlxP_AqcCQ...
Metallic sandals rstyle.me/+pZlKUa1MQeVEceBFel...
My favorite dad sandals rstyle.me/+C7fudU6qhqhrhBflm3...
JEWELRY DETAILS
SWAROVSKI earrings amzn.to/2Osvu4M
MK watch amzn.to/3kQWuXG
8OR Bracelets rstyle.me/+2dGzJcuvW33eBawhKK...
H&M Chain necklace rstyle.me/+VZzrr_OqDWEgwHbseq...
Zara T initial necklace www.zara.com/us/en/initial-me...
Rings rstyle.me/+H05zI7quV0fSgGt9Qv...
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Love these tips! I think more women need to just focus on how to dress their body well, and less about trends or what celebs/influencers wear,.
Absolutely! 100% agree. I used to do that same mistake. For example I love Hailey Bieber's style, but her body type looks nothing like mine. Now I just look at what she's wearing as an inspo and tweak it to fit my body the best.
Agreed!
Agree. Trends come and go. Knowing what items look best on you is the way to go.
I agree with you 💯
I agree with you on the low-rise jeans. When I wear them, they make my hips look even wider and very awkward
yes, they don't flatter me at all. High-rise all day everyday!
It's so rare to find an advice video for ladies with our build. I'm glad I found your channel.
Glad it was helpful! Welcome to my channel 😘
I’m so glad I found you. I am tired of feeling like I have to lose weight to look like an insta model. I have a big butt, thighs, and little waist and it’s so so hard to find great advice for my body type. Thank you so so much!
Awwww girl I’m right there with you. It’s comments like this why I make content. Thank you for watching ❤️
I'm not trying to make you feel little or anything but you sound like THE Instagram woman. On my insta feed women usually have tiny waist with biiig bottom and that's the body what many girls are trying to get 🤌🤔🙃
Great tips for us short thicker ladies!
I'm so glad you found the video to be helpful. thanks for watching!
I've only recently realized that I was wearing fashion styles that did not suit my body type at all and I use to wonder why it looked so unflattering and n me, now I am learning to wear pieces that compliments my thick thighs, broad shoulders and my longer neck more👍🏾.
Awesome video Thessely, thank you so much for sharing my friend ❤️. Take care and have a wonderful start to your week 🤗💕.
Exactly! We are a work in progress and that's fine. As long as you're enjoying the things in your wardrobe, that's all that matters.
@Johnnel Adderley, is your family from the Bahamas? I have a friend with your same last name from the Bahamas.
That perfectly explains all my problems related to dressing. Broad shoulders,tiny waist, huge thighs until knee and narrow again. Gosh!!!! Makes it hard to pick an outfit. Will consider your ideas. Thanks.
I hope my tips will help you out a little bit ;)
@@ThesselyJuliet they sure will. Thanks.
Absolutely! I agree with everything you said. I’m 5’4’’ curvy and it took lots of error to realize everything is not for me. Love watching your channel for reference, you help so much.
Exactly! That's what I try to say. I don't wear these things anymore, I'm not saying that they are ugly or out of style.
Ok, today is my New Journey birth day for my wardrobe going into 2024🎉. I've thrown out nearly 95% of the clothes in my closet. I was tolerating clothes that clearly didn't make me look my best. I'm trusting the process and starting over. I'm Inverted on the Top and Pear on the Bottom. Ok here we go 🙏🤞
You got this! I'm here to support!
So glad I found someone Who looks like me 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 thank you so much for your content, I always felt so out of place cause I’m such a tiny person, and struggled with fashion choices, finding this account helps me make better fashion choices and somewhat makes me feel like I’m not the odd one out, there are other people that look like me ❤️
awww welcome to the petite fam girl! So glad you found me too!
You inspired me right now not only to renew my outfits but also change my hairstyle to this fancy one omg it is so stunning! Thanks for the video so far!
thank you so much babe. I'm glad you enjoyed it!
I love your videos. I’ve been really struggling trying to understand what clothes work for me; and now before I buy anything I check you videos first. Thanks!
ow wow! thank you so much babes! I love to hear that. Thanks for supporting me. xx
I’ve never felt soooo understood!!!! Thank you so much for sharing this!
Ow my! Thank you so much for your kind comment. xx
This is such truth. Im 5’1”, 34-26-40. Im thick and simply need my waist accentuated and shoes that elongate my legs.
Yesss, I'm glad you agree! xx
Totally agree with all these! Great ideas.
So glad to hear this. Thank you for watching!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 some were bitter to swallow but I needed the reality check ❤️
hahahha we're a work in progress don't worry girl. And fashion is very personal, so these are just things I don't wear anymore. If you want to wear them, go ahead boo! Don't listen to me hahhaa
I'm 5'2 & curvy; wide-leg cropped pants are the only pants that look good on me. I also love oversized bags lol!
That's so great to hear. What ever makes you happy babes. These are just things that work for me.
Definitely! Great video!
I’m sooo happy found your channel 🥳, you are absolutely beautiful by the way !! 😍
awww thank you so much sis! Welcome to my channel!
Hi~ i saw this video just now and I'm so happy to jump in here. Finally I found someone of my same body type I can get outfit inspiration from. Thank you fkr this video! 😇🥰
thank you so much for watching and welcome to my channel!
I agree with you on everything except for big totes. I prefer the larger totes as they contain all my stuff and also, although I'm petite, I'm a strong "big" woman in my head and I feel like a barbie wannabe when I'm carrying one of those smaller bags (they're the best for an evening out though). Maybe I should look for medium sized totes for day wear.
I love a medium sized tote for sure, because like you said it's practical. But, those trendy XL totes are a no for me.
@@Sunny-be1wg Any recommendation?
Thank you. These tips are brilliant! 👍🏾👌🏾
thank you babes. I'm so glad you find value in them xx
I'm a petite woman too and this video was very helpful. Greetings from Argentina 🇦🇷
So glad to hear this. Greetings to you xxx
Thanks for this upload. A lot of the things you mentioned applies to curvy women shaped like you regardless of height. I’m 5’ 8” and built exactly like you and almost everything you mentioned doesn’t flatter me. Took me a while to realize that not everything was meant for my body type.
Exactly! I was struggling with this too. Sometimes you put something on, but I couldn't quite figure out why the outfit wasn't giving. Glad to hear you feel the same way. Thanks for watching!
Finally Found you! Hehe i was having a hard time searching for vids who have closer body type like mine. Thanks for this wonderful tips!
yeeeeyyy thank you so much for watching my video!
you have such a pleasant style of sharing, Thanks and all the best!
Thank you so much!
Finally something for my body type:) thank you for those tips
Yessss you’re welcome babe. Thanks for watching. Feel free to leave any suggestions of what you would like to see from me
Thanks for this video. You mentioned some things I did not even think about .
you're welcome babe. That's exactly my goal. Glad to hear!
Thank you so much for these tips !
Thanks for watching Katie. I'm glad you enjoyed it!
this was so so helpful, thank you!!
you're welcome! So glad to hear!
Thank you for that tips :)
I actually bought ankle strip sandals with BIG adjustable straps for those hot summer days when nothing else wants to fit. Kind of grandma style.
Worn they look better than I thought. I bought that comfort sandals in decent colors similar to my skin color so they can just fit in the outfit and not being the focus. So they don't really crop my legs and they are just fine even with dresses (of course not for visiting an opera, but u know).
Hi love, that's a great way to wear ankle strap sandals. So you made it work for you. That's awesome!
Preach Sis. Every item that you mentioned does not flatter my figure
Hahahaha I know right. So this was a reassurance vid for you!
I recently purchased a dress a size smaller per all of the comments, not realizing my hips would take it up even shorter to a weird midi length between mid calf and ankles and with no split it looked so bad, even though long maxi dresses suit me well lol. Now I get it.
hahahaha that's so relatable. it's trial and error, but luckily you have me to point you in the right direction ;)
All these things i stay away from as well 🙌🏾 love these tips with my legs and torso I need the right proportions accentuated as well lol. Big bags drownnnn me haha! Im 5’2” and had to learn what works for me as well.
Exactly!! I'm glad to hear you relate to these points. That's the beauty of fashion, there's so much out there for every body type. (for some more than others, but still)
I agree with everything you mentioned
So glad to hear that!
Girlll thank you so much for the tips ❤
Of course!! I’m glad you enjoyed the video 😘
These are great tips!
thanks babe. So glad to hear this feedback xx
I enjoy the video and i agree with you♥️♥️.. i am also a petite but skinny
Thanks love, so glad to hear you enjoyed the video ;)
Geat video, I agree with all your No no’s. We have a similar shape 👍🏾
Thanks darling! Glad to hear.
I agree with you in everything ♥️😘
Awww thanks darling!
Wonderful advice that was very helpful. Thank you for making thus video.
You're most welcome. I'm glad you enjoyed it
@@ThesselyJuliet I really enjoy it 🤗 you make wonderful video.
So insightful ❤
Thank you! I'm glad you liked it!
Such great tips! I think slightly above ankle wide leg pants can work if you wear shoes that are matching your skin tone. It elongates the leg. :).
thanks sis! yes, that could work, I prefer floor length tho.
I stay away from low ankle straps but never thought about straps that go up the leg being flattering for short cury women. I avoided them too. Ima hv to try a pair
Yes, give them a try. And especially when wearing a mini skirt or dress, they look so sexy!
In regard to shorts, I agree Bermuda shoes are terrible. It’s very hard to find just the right length that flatters but doesn’t ride up. I tend to roll up the legs if the fabric allows.
I'm the same! I'm glad you relate
Legit tips!
Thank you!!
Very nice upload, nice resolution
Thanks dear. Glad you liked it!
Shorties unite, lol 😂 good vid
hahaha thanks babe! xx
Girlll I feel the same pain! Thanks for pointing it out, time to go shopping!
Hahahaha I'm glad you feel seen!
also, might be controversial but super high platforms, i get feeling tall, i'm 5'2 myself but they do drag us down regardless of how tall we feel. i't not going to stop wearing them but if someone is looking to look taller they def should stay away from chunky platforms
hmmm, i really think it depends on the style of the platform and the way it is styled.
1. I vs. Short Curvy women.
2. You seem Hidden
3. Great tips.
❤🧡💛
Thanks Pam!
Yes all my midi skirts have a split. Everyone teased me but I know my shape 😂
hahahhaa, they don't know nothing! Wear what works for you! That's all that matters.
i exactly same measures as you and im always wearing jeans and oversized t shirt and want to upgrade my wordrobe thanks
You can do it! thank you for watching!
Omg! I have some of those wide boots and I kept wondering why they just don’t work!
hhaahaha I felt the same way! I was like there's just something not quite right. Well, now you know ;)
I think her tips are more so for her type of body which is more of a pear or hour glass which is beautiful I would say for those of other body type search and dress accordingly ❤️
Absolutely, I clearly state in the video and title, that these things apply to me. I know a lot of ladies with a similar body shape as mine watch my videos, so this will be helpful to them ;)
Girl you are speaking to me...wiggly boots lol!
hahahhaha if the shoe fits....
I agree with most things except for wide leg cropped Bermuda shorts and the midi skirt. I find if anything is too long on my body like maxi dresses or maxi shirts they make me look a lot shorter especially if I’m not wearing heels. Where as in the middi or cropped style I look good without heels.
With shorts because my hips thighs and calf’s are bigger if I wear short shorts I feel uncomfortable with lots of skin just bursting out from the hem line as apposed to Bermuda over knees, I can hide that extra skin tucked in comfortably!
This all goes to say there’s so much experience to be shared but everyone’s body’s are so different even when they’re similar one thing works for someone but doesn’t for another !
that's exactly right! thanks for sharing your pov 💕
I am 4’10’ and have a very short waist, long legs. Low rise jeans fit me mid rise. High rise are up to my chest! Lol
It’s good that you know your body!
Great video. I don’t like midi skirts or dresses. It’s like gouchos or capris which never looked good on anyone. Bermuda shorts aren’t for women with curves-lol! Don’t matter your height!!
Hahahaha totally. I agree 100% Thanks for watching babe.
We have the same measurements!!!
I love that! thank you for watching!
I don’t think the cropped wide leg pants flatter anyone…period…just an ugly trend.
Alright then! love a bold opinion ;)
@@ThesselyJuliet lol
They are made for people that wanna say: "look I am so tall and well build I can wear even THIS."
I love wedges 😢
gurl rock your wedges all you want. I'm sure you look great in them. Take my recommendations and opinions with a grain of salt ;)
Notification gang
yesss, I hope you like the video!
Absolutely ❤️
@@phazhajoseph7583 nice to hear!
I can’t wear high rise because I am short so my torso is short and they hit way too high on me. Thx for the video tho
in that case a mid rise will be better for your body shape. thx for watching!
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thank you!
I agree with everything especially no to wedges !!! How tall are you?
hahaha thanks babe. I'm 5'0.
Any brand recommendations for wide legs pants or just boot cut pants for short girls (I'm trying to get away from wearing skinny leg pants at work)
Absolutely! check out &otherstories or mango. they have some great options. I'll do a video on all my pants soon ;)
Love it 😍 For reference what's your height?
thank you my love. I'm 5'0.
You will see the hand bag coming towards you, then you will see the person 😂💀
Hahahaha am I right!
@@ThesselyJuliet i am a petite girl n i love big bags so my bf would say when he see me coming "you and your big" lol that's what he call the bag but i never understand why he refer to the bag as big, but when you said that i start laughing to my self like omg that's what he see the bag first then me lol i honestly never thought of it that way. Thanks for sharing ❤
@@bettyjohn6856 ahahhaha omg girl you got me laughing too. You see, your bf knows a thing or two about fashun 🤣
I get it, wedges make your legs look heavy. I feel the same way as you. You want a shoe that’s chunky but not heavy looking. The chunky sandal is flat yet high. Where the wedge can be deceiving.
that's exactly right! I'm glad you relate!
I disagree completely. I feel the opposite, the super chunky shoes can mk some ppl look ridiculous. Ofc it's all up to the person wearing them.
What bra are you wearing with the racer back top?
I'm wearing a skims bra.
@@ThesselyJuliet what the name of it
@@ashleylorenjo Here's the link: rstyle.me/+s9o1Y4UQST0bIJapjwMB0g
Wedges will make your whole legs look more bulky.it looks great if you have thin legs
you're absolutely right, and my legs are far from thin
Sister, your figure is to die for. I pray you know that 24/7, 365 days a year. 👑
hahaha thanks my love. I appreciate it.
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thank you dear!
How high is high-waisted when it comes to petite women? For me the regular sized high waisted pants sit way above my belly button, even when I am wearing the correct size!
Everyone’s proportions are different but if it hits you around the smallest part of your waist it’s about right
Same here until it tried petite high rise. Perfect!
Circle skirts are way better compared to pleat skirts
What are circle skirts?
@@ThesselyJulietiwas wondering the same thing 🤔
Hi, at 6:10 you mentioned what country you’re originally from. What is the name of the country? My Southern U.S. ear had a hard time understanding lol.
Hi! I'm from the Netherlands. Have you ever been?
@@ThesselyJuliet No but I’d love to visit one day! Love your videos. Much love from Dallas, TX, U.S.A!
Curaçao
@@ThesselyJuliet I think he/she is talking about Curaçao
@@tkmothiba5573 Yes, I'm from Curacao, but I live in the Netherlands. ;)
Que guapa eres y que buenos tus consejos ❤
Gracias amiga
How tall are you?
I'm 5'0.
If you don’t mind wearing block heels and dragging pants a bit on floor, low rise can work for curvy & petite. I usually wear a thong that designed to be seen and high rise with V shape. It creates high waisted effect even with low rise.
Not my cup of tea, but to each their own of course
This was so helpful and affirming 🤍 thank you!
you're so welcome. thank you for watching babe!