I totally agree with husband material's submission on this subject. He is a very rational person. In sociology conflict is part of human interaction and marriage is no exception. Thats all. Make una leave TOun she go soon jam one bobo wety go hook her so te Na she go wan be Mrs. Nice piece guys
Husband material is the only rational speaker on todays episode. Naomi surprised me today. Toun is simply scared of marriage. Nedu has a lot of generalizations. My Thoughts ; 1: Don’t call off your marriage with the exemption of domestic violence and the Bible also speaks of adultery. 2: Hapiness is not the goal of life and I feel the pseudo pursuit of “Hapiness” that ultimately leads to depression because it is an illusive factor. 3: Marriage is a contract; not a platform to get happiness. Joy comes from within you. No one can give it to you. Marriage is an agreement to be together no matter what; not to pack out because your partner is suddenly not making you happy any more: it is a futile chase
All shades of wrong, this comment is just going back and front... please guys marry out of happiness not contract and if you ain't feeling happy in your marriage after so many hard works please choose your happiness DEPRESSION Is real..📌
Omooooo..... today woman leader just made me happy....first time in history. Please keep taking this your new drug.....na Toun come dey yarn nonsense today sha with this her sweet voice
Love the fact that I genuinely wait for Mondays just watch this show. So educating and funny. Can't wait for season Two. Make una no waste cultist time ohhh😜🤣
This man too dey argue 😩 I agree that everyone sets their goals and if marriage is your goal, fine. If not it’s still fine, happiness and peace of mind is the goal
Naomi surprised me today, i enjoyed the topic...Marriage isnt overrated when we marry the right personal...Finding your soulmate who gives you a purpose in life is the best feeling ever.
Marriage is never a bed of roses, even if u are married to the “Right person” it is normal to experience ups and downs!!! Standing strong behind Husband material .. Marriage is an act of management 😅..And definitely u can’t compare mere relationships to marriage.. And pls in this part of the world we come from, Africa Marriage is a goal ooo And very big goal!!!
I feel like some people that get into situations like marriage sometimes forget that people evolve over time and the person you're getting married to today will not be the exact same person in 20 years time. They focus on marrying who the person is right now forgetting they are also marrying who the person will be.
wow wow what a great Season👏👏👏.... Naomi surprised me today oooh, tank God u said dat u will change in season 2.We all look forward for season 2.Love u guys
The manner in which this conversation has unfolded speaks to the increasing secularism in society. Marriage not approached through the prism of deeply held religious beliefs y both parties is doomed to fail from day one in this day and age.
That Nedu's thought about Eve being Adam's sister is quite deep. Those ones no fit think na why dem no even fit pause think am,dem just shout "banish it!"
Good day guys, i agree with Nedu to a large extent. Marriage is not over rated, its beautiful and i look forward to having the best soon. Its about two people (male/female) who are matured, love each other and desire to spend their life together to build their dreams and goal in agreement. But i believe you should get married for the right reasons, not for selfish interest or to please anyone or pepper anyone! Plus you have to deal with marriage with a lot of knowledge and wisdom, its not for the senseless. Its the only institution you get a certificate even before you start schooling in marriage, what it means is that you should be prepared and ready for it. Lastly getting married shouldn't mean you should give up your personal dream, your spouse should help you achieve those personal and collective goals. And to point out, how you believe or what you take in about marriage gradually shapes your own marriage. My own piece about marriage
Reading the comments section, something quickly became apparent and it's the fact that lots of people are unable to perspective take. You have to leave room for other people's differing opinions and values. Not everyone is going to see things exactly how you see it. It doesn't mean their beliefs or values are 'rubbish', Biko.
I’m so surprised with the way Naomi is talking about this marriage thing 😳, kudos to Naomi and husband material 👍👍.. Toun and nedu shaaa😂😂.. can’t wait for season 2🕺🕺
Watch Naomi's reaction at time 7:41, I had that same reaction when Nedu started his "E get one.......🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂...........Naomi na trouble maker of the group.......lol
I think the team has been well informed on each topic which has made it educative minus the bants.... But funfilled all over..... Glad i came across this team....... Currently in uae and hope to do something similar soon....... 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Please you guy's should invite Erriga aka paper boy new money 😊 on this podcast, speaking about families and there responsibilities thank you guy's we appreciate all your efforts to keep us enlighten, may God bless and strengthen you all Amen.
I can't wait for s2 tnk u ppo. I use my data here n I'm always happy anyday everyday, wen Monday comes I wait for d bell. Tnk u guys d best podcast right nw in 9ja
I really enjoyed todays episode...abeg make woman leader carry mic go house cos she really surprised me today with the stuffs she said.... BUTTT on behalf of the COMRADES, Toun fall our hand today (life companion= marriage)...why you go dey catch cruise only with life companion...and to the guys, you're always making sense
There are good and bad people everywhere. One thing we should understand is, it's one Nigeria. The people u see in church are still the ones u are going to see in clubs, in planes, hospital etc... don't ever make d mistake of thinking because she is a church girl or boy will make him or her better than the ones in the club. If we say all skit makers are 'brostitutes and sistitutes' that means una d3y do d same too. A club owner can make a better husband than a pastor but it will be hard to believe because the society perceive dem differently. I stand with husband material on this but I loved that at d end u all concluded with what he was trying to say about the generalisation.
Your 3years old son gets angry whenever you give him a food he doesn't want and throws it on you, you laugh and say "😃😃 children ehh" Baby boy will lift his hands and slap you when he wants you to drop him... All you'd say is "you're beating mummy 😃" No other child in that area messes with him... And you're calling him "A no- nonsense boy" He picks up things from the ground and hits people whenever he's stopped from doing something... You smile and call him "action boy😃🤾🏿♂️🤸🏽♂️" You expose him to all manner of violence and say "He's a man, man suppose get mind" Few years down the line the teenage boy bullies his sisters, commands them around, shares slaps as souvenirs to anyone that dares to challenge him. You call him "man of the house"😃 He grew up having his way all through. Now he's a full grown man in the society. And it's not funny anymore Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly. *It's easier to train a son than to correct a husband*. We could address a lot from the root.
TOPICS should be discussed every week, because NIGERIA is full of EXCITING DRAMAS and trending issues every blessed day.. No need of dividing into seasons.... Please, do something fast 😂
Marriage involves 2 ppu dt flows together n must be deliberate to make it work. Their are no eutopia in d world so u can't expect it in marriage. Always remember it involves 2 Humans n they must ve issues ,so is the ability to overcome the issues n still remain Lovers n Friend
Nedu marriage can be a goal and achievement because the mindset and perspective needed to hold a successful marriage is properly understood and not for wrong reasons.
Is there a sole aim to marriage? people marry for different reasons. Some folks marry for procreation. Some marry for companionship. Some marry for societal acceptability. Marriage is crazy
Many Nigerian men just marry because they want to sign that paper or because of societal construct but deep down most of them are not ready for marriage (I remember my cousin was forced to marry because he's up to 40 and marriage was the last thing on his mind. Today his marriage crashed after 2 years)
Abeg extra minute for husband material mke e free mind🤣🤣 dat niqq still wan pour out how him feel🤣 Toun moi fav gal, love ya.💚 Naomi Campbell 🤣 the ABA woman leader be spitting wisdom on this episode. Elder Nedu with mentioning of pipos names, pray mke Dem nor come for u one day🤣 I'm expecting something hooge in S2 Great n amazing personalities Love u guys💚💚
The only pill for marriage is what you have to take before saying YES I DO and the pill is observe what you don't like about the partner first and check if you can get yourself to like those things you dislike about her, if you can,the marriage will work 2000% and if you can't avoid the marriage also make sure you ignore the things you like completely it's just a plus
Toun marriage isn't overrated. That some people go into marriage for wrong reasons doesn't make the institution overrated. The couples are the problem. Learning and understanding the purpose of marriage is what is essential before anyone gets married.
There are beautiful marriages, the society is only showing the negative side, like they say bad news sales. Basically what you focus on expands. I focus on the best home, find knowledge needed to build home, patience, humility and love and i know its beautiful.
I totally agree with husband material's submission on this subject. He is a very rational person. In sociology conflict is part of human interaction and marriage is no exception. Thats all. Make una leave TOun she go soon jam one bobo wety go hook her so te Na she go wan be Mrs. Nice piece guys
I love nedu and his perception to the things of life. I used to be a huge fan, but now am a whole air conditioner 😜
🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😁😁the full air conditioner part got me
😅😅😅😅
Marriage isn't overrated. Weddings are. There is a difference.
You are so wise
🙌🏽👌
Amen
Exactly
They don’t know most people want the wedding not the marriage
Husband material is the only rational speaker on todays episode. Naomi surprised me today. Toun is simply scared of marriage. Nedu has a lot of generalizations.
My Thoughts ;
1: Don’t call off your marriage with the exemption of domestic violence and the Bible also speaks of adultery.
2: Hapiness is not the goal of life and I feel the pseudo pursuit of “Hapiness” that ultimately leads to depression because it is an illusive factor.
3: Marriage is a contract; not a platform to get happiness. Joy comes from within you. No one can give it to you. Marriage is an agreement to be together no matter what; not to pack out because your partner is suddenly not making you happy any more: it is a futile chase
Obviously
This is the most realistic comment have seen on marriage.
@@samad4895 indeed
emotional abuse and neglect can’t be fixed. there are many valid reasons for divorce aside from domestic abuse and adultery 🤷🏽♀️
All shades of wrong, this comment is just going back and front... please guys marry out of happiness not contract and if you ain't feeling happy in your marriage after so many hard works please choose your happiness DEPRESSION Is real..📌
Omooooo..... today woman leader just made me happy....first time in history. Please keep taking this your new drug.....na Toun come dey yarn nonsense today sha with this her sweet voice
Baba you don finish work 😂😂😂
Love the fact that I genuinely wait for Mondays just watch this show. So educating and funny. Can't wait for season Two. Make una no waste cultist time ohhh😜🤣
Me too oo
dem go collect ai
37:40 The shade husband material threw on DADDY FREEZE is violent😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This man too dey argue 😩
I agree that everyone sets their goals and if marriage is your goal, fine. If not it’s still fine, happiness and peace of mind is the goal
This is one of the best segments I have listened to I have learnt alot all I know is building a home .
Naomi surprised me today, i enjoyed the topic...Marriage isnt overrated when we marry the right personal...Finding your soulmate who gives you a purpose in life is the best feeling ever.
Marriage is never a bed of roses, even if u are married to the “Right person” it is normal to experience ups and downs!!! Standing strong behind Husband material ..
Marriage is an act of management 😅..And definitely u can’t compare mere relationships to marriage..
And pls in this part of the world we come from, Africa Marriage is a goal ooo
And very big goal!!!
I feel like some people that get into situations like marriage sometimes forget that people evolve over time and the person you're getting married to today will not be the exact same person in 20 years time. They focus on marrying who the person is right now forgetting they are also marrying who the person will be.
Okay.well said but how do we now know the person he or she will become
Love the conversations. Great work guys.
Husband material is my favorite this season, runner up is Woman leader !
Genuinely love this show, can’t wait for season two
I love this show. Always very fun and educational. Toun's outfit today though, hmmm....
Naomi nice improvement 👏👏
Good to be here, watching the last episode......what a ride. Thumps up
Women leader spoke well today 🙏🏾
Naomi’s honesty is always on 💯!
Wow 🤩 my Naomi is really metamorphosing well….dishing out good convo in this episode!! Kudos👍🏾👍🏾🧡💯
wow wow what a great Season👏👏👏.... Naomi surprised me today oooh, tank God u said dat u will change in season 2.We all look forward for season 2.Love u guys
The manner in which this conversation has unfolded speaks to the increasing secularism in society. Marriage not approached through the prism of deeply held religious beliefs y both parties is doomed to fail from day one in this day and age.
That Nedu's thought about Eve being Adam's sister is quite deep. Those ones no fit think na why dem no even fit pause think am,dem just shout "banish it!"
Damn!! Please y'all shouldn't waste time to release season 2 ooo.. I'mma miss watching Frankly Speaking. Best Nigerian Podcast of all time.
Good day guys, i agree with Nedu to a large extent.
Marriage is not over rated, its beautiful and i look forward to having the best soon.
Its about two people (male/female) who are matured, love each other and desire to spend their life together to build their dreams and goal in agreement.
But i believe you should get married for the right reasons, not for selfish interest or to please anyone or pepper anyone!
Plus you have to deal with marriage with a lot of knowledge and wisdom, its not for the senseless.
Its the only institution you get a certificate even before you start schooling in marriage, what it means is that you should be prepared and ready for it.
Lastly getting married shouldn't mean you should give up your personal dream, your spouse should help you achieve those personal and collective goals.
And to point out, how you believe or what you take in about marriage gradually shapes your own marriage.
My own piece about marriage
Anticipating season 2 already 🔥🤲
Naomi talk with sense this week i love it
Naomi...today, your point is absolutely spot on.
We can’t wait for moreee😅…loving this show big time
THANK YOU GUYS FOR A WONDERFUL SEASON 1
My First time I agree with Naomi
Sitting nd waiting for season 2💥
Well done this was such a good conversation
For once I agree with Women leader ☺️. Nice one everyone 🙌🏾
One vlog I always look forward to is ,"frankly speaking",..it is really engaging. Well done guys.
Reading the comments section, something quickly became apparent and it's the fact that lots of people are unable to perspective take. You have to leave room for other people's differing opinions and values. Not everyone is going to see things exactly how you see it. It doesn't mean their beliefs or values are 'rubbish', Biko.
marriage is subjective...definitely not overrated, usually misunderstood.
The final episode is fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥......love you guys
Hot as expected🔥
Top table shakers I hail oooo😁🙌
Yesss. Things are different for different people 👍🏽 if it’s goal for you, go for it
Nice one guys. Naomi don't change anything o! I love your bad girl vibes even though sometimes you are a bit extra with it. One love guys✌️
I’m so surprised with the way Naomi is talking about this marriage thing 😳, kudos to Naomi and husband material 👍👍.. Toun and nedu shaaa😂😂.. can’t wait for season 2🕺🕺
Watch Naomi's reaction at time 7:41, I had that same reaction when Nedu started his "E get one.......🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂...........Naomi na trouble maker of the group.......lol
I think the team has been well informed on each topic which has made it educative minus the bants.... But funfilled all over..... Glad i came across this team....... Currently in uae and hope to do something similar soon....... 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Exactly
Also in the UAE
I hope we can link up to run this show
Aaw when it’s season two coming out
Wonderful show 😍😍😍
Please you guy's should invite Erriga aka paper boy new money 😊 on this podcast, speaking about families and there responsibilities thank you guy's we appreciate all your efforts to keep us enlighten, may God bless and strengthen you all Amen.
suggestion: can you make your next episode on nigerians saving,investment and innovation?.nice season of talk.thanks
Husband material no dey everly gree😂😂😂, na d vibe wey I like be that!!!
I can't wait for s2 tnk u ppo. I use my data here n I'm always happy anyday everyday, wen Monday comes I wait for d bell. Tnk u guys d best podcast right nw in 9ja
My fav podcast 😍😍😍
I really enjoyed todays episode...abeg make woman leader carry mic go house cos she really surprised me today with the stuffs she said.... BUTTT on behalf of the COMRADES, Toun fall our hand today (life companion= marriage)...why you go dey catch cruise only with life companion...and to the guys, you're always making sense
Did they bring another Naomi for this episode? If yes, please keep her next season lol
Ikrrr 😂so sensible
I am surprised myself
Naso me seff surprise o 😂
She shock me ooooo
Is still the same person is just a different perspective like where she is coming from, what she has seen and her ideas.
Last last eh! Una be joysss
Nice one . No waste time release season 2 abeg
Great show ❤️
at 25:48 Toun is preaching...I totally agree with her
Game wey go cut go cut sha😹👏🏽 nice one guys!
I would love to say marriage is a choice! It should not be expected from everyone
Naomi !!! Wow!!!...Am impressed, I understand now....#repenteddevilsadvocate
There are good and bad people everywhere.
One thing we should understand is, it's one Nigeria. The people u see in church are still the ones u are going to see in clubs, in planes, hospital etc... don't ever make d mistake of thinking because she is a church girl or boy will make him or her better than the ones in the club.
If we say all skit makers are 'brostitutes and sistitutes' that means una d3y do d same too. A club owner can make a better husband than a pastor but it will be hard to believe because the society perceive dem differently.
I stand with husband material on this but I loved that at d end u all concluded with what he was trying to say about the generalisation.
Nobody wants to get old alone at the end of the day.
Well done guys, can't wait for season 2. Big ups to you all.
🤣😅 at the point where Nedu said It's like you are the girl person leave go meet church girl
Do they cheat with he-goat🤣🤣🤣....Husband Material😂😂😂
How the hell did Naomi grow to be the smartest person in the room?
You go girl, well done.
The only episode i have beat my chest and say yes am with Naomi on this .
Looking forward to it ❤
Nedu is my favorite, his mindset is unique ❤
Your 3years old son gets angry whenever you give him a food he doesn't want and throws it on you, you laugh and say "😃😃 children ehh"
Baby boy will lift his hands and slap you when he wants you to drop him... All you'd say is "you're beating mummy 😃"
No other child in that area messes with him... And you're calling him "A no- nonsense boy"
He picks up things from the ground and hits people whenever he's stopped from doing something... You smile and call him "action boy😃🤾🏿♂️🤸🏽♂️"
You expose him to all manner of violence and say "He's a man, man suppose get mind"
Few years down the line the teenage boy bullies his sisters, commands them around, shares slaps as souvenirs to anyone that dares to challenge him. You call him "man of the house"😃
He grew up having his way all through. Now he's a full grown man in the society. And it's not funny anymore
Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly.
*It's easier to train a son than to correct a husband*.
We could address a lot from the root.
Oh beautiful season when does the next season start
Naomi is 🔥🔥🔥 this episode
Husband material my guy forever 💯
Toun, I love your shoes
TOPICS should be discussed every week, because NIGERIA is full of EXCITING DRAMAS and trending issues every blessed day.. No need of dividing into seasons.... Please, do something fast 😂
“I don’t care as long as I cry in a Ferrari”😂🤣
Marriage involves 2 ppu dt flows together n must be deliberate to make it work.
Their are no eutopia in d world so u can't expect it in marriage.
Always remember it involves 2 Humans n they must ve issues ,so is the ability to overcome the issues n still remain Lovers n Friend
Thank you tooooooooooo
Pls Naomi don't change for anyone you are amazing just the way u are.
Amazing really I don't agree Sha 🙂
Naomi is an amazing personality, but most times she's misunderstood.
The rosy part finished me. In Nigerian societies especially Igbo culture marriage is over rated
Oh husband material baddd him say na it’s not rosey 😅🤣
Nedu is so blunt 😆 🤣 😂 😹
Nedu marriage can be a goal and achievement because the mindset and perspective needed to hold a successful marriage is properly understood and not for wrong reasons.
Is there a sole aim to marriage?
people marry for different reasons.
Some folks marry for procreation.
Some marry for companionship.
Some marry for societal acceptability.
Marriage is crazy
Nedu na you be my mentor now 😂,I love you too HM
Husband material calm down for this episode now. The three of them don say it all 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pilots has done this girl something 🤣
Many Nigerian men just marry because they want to sign that paper or because of societal construct but deep down most of them are not ready for marriage (I remember my cousin was forced to marry because he's up to 40 and marriage was the last thing on his mind. Today his marriage crashed after 2 years)
I don't know yet but if Prenups is already a thing in Nigeria but I would loveto see a discussion on prenuptial agreements
Abeg extra minute for husband material mke e free mind🤣🤣 dat niqq still wan pour out how him feel🤣
Toun moi fav gal, love ya.💚
Naomi Campbell 🤣 the ABA woman leader be spitting wisdom on this episode.
Elder Nedu with mentioning of pipos names, pray mke Dem nor come for u one day🤣
I'm expecting something hooge in S2
Great n amazing personalities
Love u guys💚💚
I'm a lifelong fan of this show.
Marriage is not overrated, people are getting married for the wrong reasons!
this husband material speaks sense, please you people should let him speak more!!!
Hey folks nice job
Marriage isn’t overrated, People are.
Ain’t no thing as a shitty marriage, only shitty people in a marriage.
Husband material will not kill me😂😂🤣he's always in the opposite side
I wish they can have this conversation in their 50s
The only pill for marriage is what you have to take before saying YES I DO and the pill is observe what you don't like about the partner first and check if you can get yourself to like those things you dislike about her, if you can,the marriage will work 2000% and if you can't avoid the marriage also make sure you ignore the things you like completely it's just a plus
Toun marriage isn't overrated. That some people go into marriage for wrong reasons doesn't make the institution overrated. The couples are the problem. Learning and understanding the purpose of marriage is what is essential before anyone gets married.
Who noticed when toun wanted to say something about RMD's marriage and she zipped her mouth😂⚖️💔
Naomi congratulations ooooo, you have really improved!!!🥂
There are beautiful marriages, the society is only showing the negative side, like they say bad news sales.
Basically what you focus on expands. I focus on the best home, find knowledge needed to build home, patience, humility and love and i know its beautiful.